Soon as you wake up and decide that this
Juliana Spicoluk:doesn't feel right for me, I don't want this. I want
Juliana Spicoluk:something else. I want to feel and experience my life in a
Juliana Spicoluk:completely different way from what I've been told. Then at
Juliana Spicoluk:times, society can label you as crazy or, well, you're just
Juliana Spicoluk:That's insane. How could you do that? Like you're saying you
Juliana Spicoluk:have kids, you have responsibilities, you have all
Juliana Spicoluk:of these things like, how could you just pick up your life and
Juliana Spicoluk:move somewhere else? But to me, I think if we can step away from
Juliana Spicoluk:this old construct that I feel like, planetarily, spiritually,
Juliana Spicoluk:collective consciousness right now is starting to shift from
Juliana Spicoluk:and realize that we don't need to live that way anymore, and
Juliana Spicoluk:that we can create a new world for ourselves, for our own
Juliana Spicoluk:families.
Kate Harlow:Hello, my loves. Before you get into this really
Kate Harlow:special, really beautiful conversation and episode, I
Kate Harlow:wanted to tell you a little bit about Juliana, in case you don't
Kate Harlow:know her, Juliana Spike is a globally recognized yoga
Kate Harlow:teacher, Pilates wellness, author, and a visionary and co
Kate Harlow:founder of boho beautiful. So I know so many women follow boho
Kate Harlow:beautiful and do yoga and pilates online with them. She
Kate Harlow:and her husband, she shares the story, but they started in a van
Kate Harlow:traveling around, recording videos, and they have now have
Kate Harlow:over 3 million subscribers on YouTube, and have had over half
Kate Harlow:a billion views. So they're really, really making an impact
Kate Harlow:in the world. And Juliana, my I mean, one of my favorite things
Kate Harlow:about her, we met in Costa Rica. We're both living, I kind of
Kate Harlow:like the escape pandemic, living in Costa Rica, following our
Kate Harlow:hearts, following our unscripted lives in 2021 and our paths
Kate Harlow:crossed, and that's where we connected for the first time.
Kate Harlow:But she really is the embodiment, embodiment inside
Kate Harlow:out, of wellness and of love and of heart and of beauty, and she
Kate Harlow:just has created a massive movement. And one of my favorite
Kate Harlow:things about this conversation that I hope sparks you on your
Kate Harlow:own unscripted path is that her unscripted path still includes
Kate Harlow:having a husband. She has two beautiful little children, a
Kate Harlow:baby and a toddler, and, you know, is still living
Kate Harlow:unconventionally and following our heart and has created a
Kate Harlow:massive movement based on really her purpose in the world. So my
Kate Harlow:my intention with having her on is to expand and inspire you
Kate Harlow:that it's possible to be unscripted in so many ways, and
Kate Harlow:I will continue to have guests on that represent different
Kate Harlow:options and different ways that women can really live a life
Kate Harlow:that's in alignment with their own hearts. Juliana truly has
Kate Harlow:the energy of an angel, and I absolutely love connecting with
Kate Harlow:her. So I hope you enjoy this beautiful conversation, spread
Kate Harlow:it and share the episode with all the women you know who need
Kate Harlow:a little boost and a reminder that we can follow our hearts
Kate Harlow:and we can live an unconventional, unscripted life
Kate Harlow:and go our own way and enjoy we'll see you soon.
Kate Harlow:Hello, beautiful. Welcome to the new truth podcast. Hello,
Kate Harlow:Juliana,
Juliana Spicoluk:hello, hello, hello. Welcome
Kate Harlow:back. Yes, it's been a while. It has. I was
Kate Harlow:trying to think, um, this morning, I was trying. I didn't
Kate Harlow:look up the episode, but I had you and mark on, maybe two years
Kate Harlow:ago.
Juliana Spicoluk:Yes, I think it was maybe a little over two.
Juliana Spicoluk:It was, we were in Costa Rica. I remember doing the yes episode
Juliana Spicoluk:with you. So that was, yeah, I would say, over two years ago,
Juliana Spicoluk:which is crazy. I feel like so much has happened since the last
Juliana Spicoluk:time we spoke. We
Kate Harlow:have a lot to catch up on. We'll do it here on the
Kate Harlow:live, live on the
Juliana Spicoluk:podcast. But yeah, it's funny, as I find that
Juliana Spicoluk:also through social media, it's even though so much time has
Juliana Spicoluk:passed since we've even connected. But because we follow
Juliana Spicoluk:each other, and you kind of stay up to date, of like, what all of
Juliana Spicoluk:us are up to, you don't feel as much of a a disconnection. Or
Juliana Spicoluk:like, Oh, my God, two years, you know what else happened? It's
Juliana Spicoluk:like, I kind of feel like I have an idea, like, I know you've
Juliana Spicoluk:been in Africa, I know you've been in Kenya. Like, I, you know
Juliana Spicoluk:what? I mean, you're in Greece, you're doing your thing, your
Juliana Spicoluk:beautiful retreats, all of the stuff. It's like, I, you know,
Juliana Spicoluk:obviously not to the depth of what social media doesn't show
Juliana Spicoluk:but it's still a wonderful thing that through this digital world,
Juliana Spicoluk:we don't feel as disconnected as we would have otherwise.
Kate Harlow:So true. I feel like that is, yeah, I mean, with
Kate Harlow:everything, there's there's gifts, and there's shadow sides
Kate Harlow:to everything. Um, yes, yes, yeah, that's totally the gift of
Kate Harlow:of social media. I love that. I love meeting. I imagine you
Kate Harlow:might feel similar, but I based on traveling so much and doing
Kate Harlow:what I do and being who I am, I meet people everywhere. And I
Kate Harlow:love that ability to to meet people and have I think of all
Kate Harlow:the people I met on the on the farm during. In those four
Kate Harlow:months that I was there in Kenya, and how I get to stay
Kate Harlow:connected to them, and what they're up to now. And it's
Kate Harlow:yeah, these connections don't just fall to the white side
Kate Harlow:because you see people's lives and their pictures and their
Kate Harlow:videos. It feels Yeah, like you said, like you're really still
Kate Harlow:plugged in. Yeah, yeah. You
Juliana Spicoluk:still stay connected, in a sense, right?
Juliana Spicoluk:Which is, which is really, really beautiful, and yeah, and
Juliana Spicoluk:I continue to be inspired by each other as well. And I think
Juliana Spicoluk:that's really cool, right? It's because, you know, we we get
Juliana Spicoluk:drawn to certain people for specific reasons, not just that,
Juliana Spicoluk:oh, you need somebody, but it's like, there's a reason you need
Juliana Spicoluk:somebody. And then you click, and then you feel your energy,
Juliana Spicoluk:kind of vibe with each other, where you want to continue that
Juliana Spicoluk:connection and relationship and friendship, right? And there,
Juliana Spicoluk:you know, through those reasons, whether that is inspiration or
Juliana Spicoluk:admiration, whatever it is, we continue to have that energy as
Juliana Spicoluk:we continue to follow them through social media and choose
Juliana Spicoluk:to, you know, to stay connected in that way. So
Kate Harlow:that's beautiful. Yeah. Choose the social media.
Kate Harlow:We do love a little part of you. I, as you were talking, I'm
Kate Harlow:like, Oh my gosh, I just pictured what's what was that
Kate Harlow:restaurant? I went there all the time, but I can't remember
Kate Harlow:what's called. Where we met the first night in, oh yeah.
Juliana Spicoluk:Love burger.
Kate Harlow:Yeah, love burger. Oh my gosh, that night, and
Kate Harlow:then, and then I remember walking on the seawall in
Kate Harlow:Vancouver, in Yaletown with you, and Mark, yeah, because we
Juliana Spicoluk:were visiting for like two days, my friend's
Juliana Spicoluk:wedding was happening, and that was when Xavier was still little
Juliana Spicoluk:young. He was only, like, was it seven months old or something?
Juliana Spicoluk:So that was like, three and a half years ago now, which is,
Juliana Spicoluk:but, yeah, I know it's crazy. It's crazy how much life has
Juliana Spicoluk:moved and shifted, in a way, since we lost each other.
Kate Harlow:It's beautiful. Well, I feel like we're both
Kate Harlow:modeling this, living an unscripted life so well. And I I
Kate Harlow:feel like, I mean, just astrologically speaking, moving
Kate Harlow:into the Aquarian Age versus Capricorn is so aligned to to
Kate Harlow:because it's like the breakdown of all the old systems. For
Kate Harlow:those of you who don't know astrology, but I'm sure I've I'm
Kate Harlow:not an astrologer, but I've mentioned it before, breakdown
Kate Harlow:of old systems, and also this like collaborative community,
Kate Harlow:new new paradigms, new ways of being, new ways of thinking,
Kate Harlow:big, dreaming, big energy that comes with the Aquarian Age that
Kate Harlow:we're in now. And so, yeah, I'm so excited. The reason we we
Kate Harlow:came up with this, this title, and this topic is just you and I
Kate Harlow:were just catching up and just to catch everyone else up. And
Kate Harlow:we were like, oh my god, this is the topic that we need to talk
Kate Harlow:about today. Is unscripted life. Because, like you said earlier,
Kate Harlow:so many people desire it right now, and so many people are
Kate Harlow:feeling, I know a lot of my clients, are saying, like, Oh,
Kate Harlow:I'm fed up with America, I'm fed up with Canada, I'm fed up with
Kate Harlow:wherever they live. And they're really ready to take the risk
Kate Harlow:and to but often they think, okay, it's just you that has a
Kate Harlow:magical life, like, I could never do that, and I have kids,
Kate Harlow:or I have a partner, or I have and so if it's so great to have
Kate Harlow:you here to represent you know, someone who has an amazing
Kate Harlow:relationship and two beautiful children, and that you're also
Kate Harlow:living this really unscripted, following your hearts, following
Kate Harlow:your truths life. So do you want to tell us a little bit about
Kate Harlow:it. Share a little bit about your story.
Juliana Spicoluk:Yeah, gosh. Where do I begin? I mean, I
Juliana Spicoluk:think just to speak to what you're saying, you know, you're
Juliana Spicoluk:saying astrologically, like, there we're going through this
Juliana Spicoluk:different shift in time. And even, you know, you're looking
Juliana Spicoluk:at it from the yogic perspective, you know that they
Juliana Spicoluk:talk about, like we're just coming to the end of Kali Yuga,
Juliana Spicoluk:right? And Kali Yuga, which is kind of that unsettling era of
Juliana Spicoluk:war and hardship and difficulty. And I feel like I feel it, and I
Juliana Spicoluk:see it now that we're transitioning into this new
Juliana Spicoluk:stage, because there's this slight, like, almost Mass
Juliana Spicoluk:Awakening that's happening. And that's happening not only from
Juliana Spicoluk:people starting to get a little bit more curious about
Juliana Spicoluk:spirituality, wellness, well being. You know, you just see
Juliana Spicoluk:the new things kind of starting to become more mainstream, but
Juliana Spicoluk:it's also people waking up to this idea, like they're saying
Juliana Spicoluk:that they don't want to continue to live the life they've lived
Juliana Spicoluk:for their whole since, since they were born, or since they've
Juliana Spicoluk:been kind of told this is the way you're supposed to do it.
Juliana Spicoluk:You're supposed to go to school, get a degree, go to university,
Juliana Spicoluk:get married, have children, have a home, have a mortgage, like
Juliana Spicoluk:there's like, this thing you have to do. And as soon as you
Juliana Spicoluk:wake up and decide that this doesn't feel right for me, I
Juliana Spicoluk:don't want this. I want something else. I want to feel
Juliana Spicoluk:and experience my life in a completely different way from
Juliana Spicoluk:what I've been told then. At times, society can label you as
Juliana Spicoluk:crazy or, well, you're just That's insane. How could you do
Juliana Spicoluk:that? Like you're saying you have kids, you have
Juliana Spicoluk:responsibilities, you have all of these things like, how could
Juliana Spicoluk:you just pick up your life and move somewhere else, but to. Me,
Juliana Spicoluk:I think if we can step away from this old construct that I feel
Juliana Spicoluk:like, planetarily, spiritually, collective consciousness right
Juliana Spicoluk:now is starting to shift from and realize that we don't need
Juliana Spicoluk:to live that way anymore, and that we can create a new world
Juliana Spicoluk:for ourselves, for our own families. And that starts with,
Juliana Spicoluk:one, is it just a decision as to decide, no, I want a different
Juliana Spicoluk:life. And two, is looking at what you have to offer in the
Juliana Spicoluk:world and how, especially in this, as we talked about digital
Juliana Spicoluk:world that we live in now, there's so many more
Juliana Spicoluk:possibilities of making an income, of sustaining yourself
Juliana Spicoluk:or just creating a different life than, let's say, even our
Juliana Spicoluk:parents might have had, you know, 40 years ago, 50 years
Juliana Spicoluk:ago, and so you know, to talk about our story, I mean for
Juliana Spicoluk:myself and and my family and everything it really be. We were
Juliana Spicoluk:really gifted. Because we're mostly gifted. We were blessed
Juliana Spicoluk:in a way, because when we started Bova beautiful, and we
Juliana Spicoluk:have an online digital wellness brand, you know, we started when
Juliana Spicoluk:it was just the beginning. At that time, it was like two, 2016
Juliana Spicoluk:like YouTube was just starting to kind of yeah happen. And, you
Juliana Spicoluk:know, we had the desire that we wanted to create a different
Juliana Spicoluk:life for ourselves. And we were living in Toronto at that time,
Juliana Spicoluk:and I felt like I was physically being suffocated by that life,
Juliana Spicoluk:you know, working two jobs. I didn't have children, I had a
Juliana Spicoluk:dog and Mark and, you know, we had a home and everything. But I
Juliana Spicoluk:felt myself like I was drowning, like it was just I wasn't
Juliana Spicoluk:feeling fulfilled, I wasn't feeling like I was growing.
Juliana Spicoluk:Things were starting to not align anymore, like I, you know,
Juliana Spicoluk:I remember having to have a second job, and I was a
Juliana Spicoluk:bartender at, like a bar, and just feeling this resistance
Juliana Spicoluk:every time I had to even go into that space, because I'm like,
Juliana Spicoluk:this isn't meaning, or I didn't align with what I want to do and
Juliana Spicoluk:how I want to live my life. And I remember it just became a
Juliana Spicoluk:choice after that with Mark, because Mark was feeling
Juliana Spicoluk:similarly in his own ways. And I'm like, Well, look, we want to
Juliana Spicoluk:see the world, we want to travel, we want to experience
Juliana Spicoluk:life in a new way. And so let's find a way for ourselves. And at
Juliana Spicoluk:that point, you know, for us, the ideas came through, creating
Juliana Spicoluk:content online. So, you know, as a yoga teacher and doing Pilates
Juliana Spicoluk:and that that was my passion, really. And so it was just, you
Juliana Spicoluk:know, I've had so many requests of my students asking if I offer
Juliana Spicoluk:anything online. This is back in the day when there wasn't as
Juliana Spicoluk:much online things, yeah. And I was like, let's just, like, buy
Juliana Spicoluk:a camera and just start creating something. And so we did, you
Juliana Spicoluk:know, we just started shooting in, like, Mark's office at that
Juliana Spicoluk:time, and, like, behind a white wall. And then we started to
Juliana Spicoluk:travel and then start incorporating, like, anytime you
Juliana Spicoluk:would go, let's just say we went to Thailand and like, okay,
Juliana Spicoluk:we're in Thailand for one week. You know, it wasn't like we
Juliana Spicoluk:could travel for a month, and then we just went for one week.
Juliana Spicoluk:And then we would, you know, take that camera and start
Juliana Spicoluk:creating little videos on the beach and and doing yoga classes
Juliana Spicoluk:and giving that opportunity for people to experience the the
Juliana Spicoluk:cultures and the different ways of life that we were
Juliana Spicoluk:experiencing through our travels, and so as a backstory
Juliana Spicoluk:that's, you know, a short way, because it's definitely a longer
Juliana Spicoluk:story than what I'm saying. But one thing led to another, that
Juliana Spicoluk:we were then able to create a business, an online business,
Juliana Spicoluk:that allowed us that opportunity, to be able to leave
Juliana Spicoluk:the city to not be beholden to a job, physically in one space,
Juliana Spicoluk:that our job then and our passion and we felt like our
Juliana Spicoluk:service to the world was able to sustain us to be able to travel
Juliana Spicoluk:and start to experience life, which then opens your eyes even
Juliana Spicoluk:more to understanding like, Wow, there's So much to this
Juliana Spicoluk:beautiful world where living in this one city and city that you
Juliana Spicoluk:felt like deep down, the suffocating you is not the way
Juliana Spicoluk:life is too short to allow yourself to live that way, you
Juliana Spicoluk:know. And yeah. And so for us, you know, our business done well
Juliana Spicoluk:that we've been able to continue that lifestyle. And then now we
Juliana Spicoluk:have two children, four year olds and a 10 month old. And,
Juliana Spicoluk:you know, we lived in Costa Rica for a long period of time,
Juliana Spicoluk:thinking that that was going to be a place where we want to
Juliana Spicoluk:raise our children and kind of call home, because in the remote
Juliana Spicoluk:town, a yoga town, you know, there's nature, it was very much
Juliana Spicoluk:removed from the typical kind of cultural society that, let's
Juliana Spicoluk:say, big cities in Canada at that time are are, but that also
Juliana Spicoluk:shifted, and that also changed. And then, you know, as
Juliana Spicoluk:everything in life, it ebbs and flows, and that energy didn't
Juliana Spicoluk:align with us anymore. There's certain things that made us not
Juliana Spicoluk:feel safe raising our family anymore in that town. And then
Juliana Spicoluk:somehow, again, we surrendered to took away life was guiding
Juliana Spicoluk:us, and somehow Barbados, out of all places, never expected
Juliana Spicoluk:Barbados to be a place we would call home, but being one thing
Juliana Spicoluk:after the other just aligned. And we arrived here, and then we
Juliana Spicoluk:started meeting different, like minded families and. You know,
Juliana Spicoluk:other families of small children. So, like our children
Juliana Spicoluk:can become have, can start to create, like a community for
Juliana Spicoluk:themselves. And it's really, really beautiful on this island.
Juliana Spicoluk:Is amazing to raise children because, like, it's safe, it's
Juliana Spicoluk:beautiful in terms of the nature the water so calm they can, you
Juliana Spicoluk:know, examine like such a swimmer now, and love the ocean.
Juliana Spicoluk:You go snorkel with the turtles here, and it's just, it's a
Juliana Spicoluk:different, a different lifestyle, you know, and now
Juliana Spicoluk:that we're here, it's, I feel very, very blessed that we're
Juliana Spicoluk:able to, you know, create this life for our kids. And it just
Juliana Spicoluk:started from us making that one decision, to put ourselves out
Juliana Spicoluk:there, out in the world, you know, start creating content and
Juliana Spicoluk:sharing it with the world, not knowing if it would connect or
Juliana Spicoluk:not, because you really don't know. You know first time you
Juliana Spicoluk:post that video,
Kate Harlow:and I can already hear like when you first I mean,
Kate Harlow:thank you so much for sharing that beautiful and I know
Kate Harlow:there's so many nuances to your story and but I just like as you
Kate Harlow:started, I thought, Wow, what a great way suffocating like that
Kate Harlow:is what it feels like when you're going against your own
Kate Harlow:truth. It's either you have like, insane anxiety that wakes
Kate Harlow:you up every night, that was me back in the day, like I'd wake
Kate Harlow:up in the night, like freaking out with anxiety, and it's
Kate Harlow:because I was lying to myself, or feeling suffocated every time
Kate Harlow:you go into the place that's so that you've outgrown. Really,
Kate Harlow:it's just part of yourself that you're ready to to let go of so
Kate Harlow:the new parts can be born that relevant. I feel like so because
Kate Harlow:we have to be we have to be willing to let the old self die
Kate Harlow:so we can be reborn over and over again.
Juliana Spicoluk:100% especially I find as a woman,
Juliana Spicoluk:there's we go through so many chapters of death and rebirth,
Juliana Spicoluk:yes, and you know, you look at it one way, like, as a mother, I
Juliana Spicoluk:feel like I've died twice and birthed myself two times because
Juliana Spicoluk:I've had two children, but outside of even just being a
Juliana Spicoluk:mother, like there's chapters in our life, like, you know, you
Juliana Spicoluk:were speaking earlier, like you feel like you've outgrown a
Juliana Spicoluk:relationship where you don't feel like you're able to evolve
Juliana Spicoluk:anymore with this person, and it's not anything against them,
Juliana Spicoluk:but it's like, yes, this beautiful, deep connection that
Juliana Spicoluk:you have within yourself with your own truth, knowing that
Juliana Spicoluk:like this isn't allowing me to feel that expansion that I need
Juliana Spicoluk:to continue within my evolution on this earth. Because really, I
Juliana Spicoluk:all of us like we're we're souls in these physical forms and
Juliana Spicoluk:physical bodies, and we're here to expand and to learn and to
Juliana Spicoluk:grow. And all of the relationships and circumstances
Juliana Spicoluk:and things that life in universe brings our way is for that
Juliana Spicoluk:growth. And so I find if we're not honoring that growth, if
Juliana Spicoluk:we're not listening to it and and keeping ourselves stagnant,
Juliana Spicoluk:you're we're doing more harm, not just spiritually, but also
Juliana Spicoluk:physically too. Like you hear people start to get sick, or
Juliana Spicoluk:they start to feel like this, ailments like or worse. Even you
Juliana Spicoluk:know, sicknesses, cancer, things can arise, and it's because
Juliana Spicoluk:they're just emotionally unable to allow themselves to grow to
Juliana Spicoluk:release, to let go, to let go exactly, to kill a part of them
Juliana Spicoluk:so that a new part of them can be reborn. Yeah, exactly. And
Kate Harlow:I think, like, whenever I'm working with women,
Kate Harlow:and they're they're like, in the ping pong game, in their mind,
Kate Harlow:should I stay or should I go? Should I, you know, whether it's
Kate Harlow:staying in Canada and or going, which is where, yeah, we're
Kate Harlow:living, or should I stay in this relationship or go, should I
Kate Harlow:say? Which, if we're in our mind, it's just going to play
Kate Harlow:both sides of the the game. It's a ping pong game. It's never
Kate Harlow:going to stop. And then we ask a million people, and then we get
Kate Harlow:all confused and muddled. But whenever I ask a woman to close
Kate Harlow:her eyes and connect with her heart, the truth is, always
Kate Harlow:there, always It's wild. It's even if she's in agony for
Kate Harlow:months and months, it's clear when she closes her eyes and
Kate Harlow:when she opens them, she might not allow herself to follow it,
Kate Harlow:but this is so important, I think, like, who would you be,
Kate Harlow:and what would your life be if you hadn't had the courage? And
Kate Harlow:I could also hear people's minds or saboteur in my words, ego
Kate Harlow:mind, saying things like, oh well, Juliana could do it and
Kate Harlow:mark because they got in early YouTube, they got in early so
Kate Harlow:they created a successful business because of that. But
Kate Harlow:then people now will say, Yeah, or it's, it's too late to do it
Kate Harlow:now. But that's not true. The different what you did, it was
Kate Harlow:actually more risky to do it back then. Right now, we have so
Kate Harlow:much evidence and information that you can create success
Kate Harlow:online, the key real success where it's aligned with your
Kate Harlow:heart and your vibration, that's when we really make an impact,
Kate Harlow:not just monetary success, but actual like fulfillment in what
Kate Harlow:you do, and being satiated by your work and your purpose is
Kate Harlow:Like actually listening to that heart, whether it's moving
Kate Harlow:somewhere or saying yes to a new path or whatever, whatever the
Kate Harlow:thing may be, you cannot lose when you're following your heart
Kate Harlow:like it's going to lead you. It's not a linear path. It's not
Kate Harlow:going to happen overnight, but it's going to lead you in the
Kate Harlow:right direction, even if it's the opposite of what your mind
Kate Harlow:thinks. Is the direction is going to be 100%
Juliana Spicoluk:and, you know, just to comment what you're
Juliana Spicoluk:saying, like, yes, for us, this was the path for us. And we
Juliana Spicoluk:were, say, lucky, in a sense, at that point, that we were early,
Juliana Spicoluk:but we continue to do our business. And it's not getting
Juliana Spicoluk:any easier. Like you're in this huge sea of competition, and
Juliana Spicoluk:there's 1000s of yoga apps and 1000s of wellness things
Juliana Spicoluk:happening, and everyone's got something to sell, and everybody
Juliana Spicoluk:got something to offer. But I think also, when you look at it
Juliana Spicoluk:that way, like everyone's doing it because they can. And if it
Juliana Spicoluk:is your passion, and if this is something that you feel called
Juliana Spicoluk:to, because, you know, it should be something that you feel like
Juliana Spicoluk:I'm at service to, because it has to fulfill you, not just
Juliana Spicoluk:because, well, this is the one way to do make money, then I'm
Juliana Spicoluk:going to follow it. It's like, if you're following just the
Juliana Spicoluk:monetary aspect, then, you know, I don't think it's going to be
Juliana Spicoluk:as fulfilling as you expect. But if you truly, like you said,
Juliana Spicoluk:like close your eyes and connect and and see, what is it that you
Juliana Spicoluk:connect to? What is it that really makes you feel alive?
Juliana Spicoluk:Whether that is a service or maybe that is art, maybe that
Juliana Spicoluk:is, you know, you you see people like selling little things on
Juliana Spicoluk:Etsy and make a business out of it. Do you know what I mean?
Juliana Spicoluk:Like, there is so many opportunities right now,
Juliana Spicoluk:especially as we were saying in this digital world that we live
Juliana Spicoluk:this is so different than what it was even 20 years ago, like
Juliana Spicoluk:you are able to create a business out of anything. And if
Juliana Spicoluk:that's you know that what you're looking for to have that safety
Juliana Spicoluk:net. But even if it's not a business that you're making
Juliana Spicoluk:online, you can always like, I see some people that just move
Juliana Spicoluk:to Barbados, and they're like, I'm a yoga teacher. I'm teaching
Juliana Spicoluk:at a couple different studios here. Or, you know, they find
Juliana Spicoluk:another like, there's always opportunities and other ways to
Juliana Spicoluk:make an income and a life in a different environment. And it
Juliana Spicoluk:doesn't have to be the place that makes you feel stuck or
Juliana Spicoluk:suffocated. And I think when people can face that fear, to
Juliana Spicoluk:even just travel and see what is out there in the world, and to
Juliana Spicoluk:meet like you're saying, you meet so many new people, and you
Juliana Spicoluk:hear their stories, and you see people doing it in all their own
Juliana Spicoluk:different ways, and there's no there's no box to follow, like
Juliana Spicoluk:you can create whatever you want. You know you can really
Juliana Spicoluk:you're the master of your own life. And if you meet different,
Juliana Spicoluk:different people that do it a different way, like, it's so
Juliana Spicoluk:inspiring to see that all you really need is courage, and all
Juliana Spicoluk:you really need is the strength in your own heart to like, to
Juliana Spicoluk:make that difficult choice. And the hardest choice is to leave
Juliana Spicoluk:is the hardest choice is to make decision, the decision in your
Juliana Spicoluk:heart, to choose to put your house for sale, or to break your
Juliana Spicoluk:lease, or to sell your car and all the belongings, and just
Juliana Spicoluk:pack your bags and just go and yes, you know, as I say these
Juliana Spicoluk:things, sometimes you're like, Well, you know, single thing,
Juliana Spicoluk:but I have kids, and they have, you know, a life and this. But
Juliana Spicoluk:even just to give you an example, we had somebody that
Juliana Spicoluk:worked for our company. He him and his family were living in
Juliana Spicoluk:Toronto all their life. Never left. And, you know, for the
Juliana Spicoluk:first six months he was working with us, he's constantly was
Juliana Spicoluk:just, you know, personally, sharing with Mark like them as a
Juliana Spicoluk:family, just feeling really stuck. And again, that that
Juliana Spicoluk:feeling like suffocating, we need to change, but we don't
Juliana Spicoluk:know how they have, like, two kids that are, you know, 10 and
Juliana Spicoluk:seven, and the wife has, she's a lawyer at a, like, a corporate
Juliana Spicoluk:office in Toronto. Like, there's so many things that keeping them
Juliana Spicoluk:grounded. And I remember with Mark, I was like, Look, you
Juliana Spicoluk:don't have to make the biggest decision of your life and sell
Juliana Spicoluk:everything. Go like, here in Barbados, they have a welcome
Juliana Spicoluk:stamp visa, so they give you an opportunity to go for one year.
Juliana Spicoluk:Like, put your rent your house well, because you have worked
Juliana Spicoluk:for us. So we're like, move here. We're living here now as
Juliana Spicoluk:well. Move your family here. Put your kids in a school for one
Juliana Spicoluk:year in Barbados, you know, make the arrangements like you don't
Juliana Spicoluk:have to completely destroy everything that you build in
Juliana Spicoluk:your town, but just take a pause and go see and experience a
Juliana Spicoluk:different way of living. And they did, and it was amazing,
Juliana Spicoluk:you know, they it was so scary for them. They they packed a
Juliana Spicoluk:bunch of stuff. They shipped it over here. The kids got into
Juliana Spicoluk:school for the year. They had a beautiful school here that they
Juliana Spicoluk:love. And even his wife is able to figure out a way with the
Juliana Spicoluk:corporate job she was in to be able to work remotely. Because
Juliana Spicoluk:since COVID, I think, like, people are a lot more open to
Juliana Spicoluk:that now, like zoom and all these things, like, it's a lot
Juliana Spicoluk:easier to do it than before, and they did, you know, and it was
Juliana Spicoluk:beautiful, and they lived for a year, and they actually, I think
Juliana Spicoluk:they're going back to Toronto because, you know, she's not
Juliana Spicoluk:working for us anymore, just for the reasons, but whatever
Juliana Spicoluk:circumstance that happened, the fact that they did it for a
Juliana Spicoluk:year, and just to see them actually grow, and how much they
Juliana Spicoluk:loved it and their children. And like the relationship they, they
Juliana Spicoluk:they made, and like just how much more connected with nature
Juliana Spicoluk:they started to become, to a point where they were like, Oh
Juliana Spicoluk:well, you know, we don't even want to go back to Canada
Juliana Spicoluk:anymore. Like they, they really loved it here, because of the,
Juliana Spicoluk:obviously, the relationship. At the the working relationship
Juliana Spicoluk:with us, they might go back to figure it out now, because it's,
Juliana Spicoluk:you know, they obviously life changes. But the fact that I
Juliana Spicoluk:don't know where they'll go next, maybe they'll move to a
Juliana Spicoluk:different country. They're talking about maybe going to
Juliana Spicoluk:California now, but you know, just that one first step for
Juliana Spicoluk:them, for a family that you would say were so tied with so
Juliana Spicoluk:many different ways they did it, and it was really inspiring. And
Juliana Spicoluk:I was so proud of them, because I'm like, Wow, that's amazing.
Juliana Spicoluk:Guys like you, as scary as it is, it's so possible and it is,
Juliana Spicoluk:and you learn and you experience and what's the worst thing that
Juliana Spicoluk:happens if you go back your house is back. They know what I
Juliana Spicoluk:mean, but the richness that you receive from living in a
Juliana Spicoluk:different country, your children being exposed to different
Juliana Spicoluk:cultures, to different people. It Like It's there's no price
Juliana Spicoluk:tag on that, like it is the most enriching thing you can offer
Juliana Spicoluk:for yourself or for your family. And even if it's temporary, it
Juliana Spicoluk:doesn't have to be a forever, you know. But I think life is so
Juliana Spicoluk:short that to not give ourselves the opportunity to just live and
Juliana Spicoluk:experience it, even for a short moment. It's so crucial,
Kate Harlow:and you never know where to lead. Like you never
Kate Harlow:know on that experience if you're going to meet what new,
Kate Harlow:new possibilities will come your way that you couldn't see
Kate Harlow:before. Like I think of how many things in my life are my lived
Kate Harlow:reality now, and what I'm even moving into that I didn't even
Kate Harlow:know I wanted before. We often so many women when there's first
Kate Harlow:trying to figure out what they desire or what they're you know,
Kate Harlow:what is their big, juicy Kate or Juliana style, like unscripted
Kate Harlow:life? What does theirs look like, and their mind might be
Kate Harlow:able to try and imagine? But it there's so much ahead of us when
Kate Harlow:we're not learning the script and we're not following the x,
Kate Harlow:y, z, check the boxes, live your life in this tiny box, and
Kate Harlow:follow the rules and stay where you were born and don't go
Kate Harlow:anywhere and don't do anything, and and when you're not high on
Kate Harlow:drugs the whole time or numb on drugs because you can't, you
Kate Harlow:don't want to feel any of it like when you're not living that
Kate Harlow:life anymore and You're no longer willing to suffocate
Kate Harlow:yourself. You actually don't need to know where you're going.
Kate Harlow:You can have ideas. My client told me the other day, this is
Kate Harlow:so cool. I recorded my online course that that all my clients
Kate Harlow:go through. I called the reclamation. I did it in 2020
Kate Harlow:from Vancouver for my place in Vancouver. And I say she shared
Kate Harlow:with me that I say in the video, one day I'm gonna live in
Kate Harlow:Europe, like maybe Italy, or somewhere in the Mediterranean.
Kate Harlow:I didn't know I was moving to Greece. Wow. He said that five
Kate Harlow:years ago. You just don't know. You really don't desires and
Kate Harlow:manifesto level, yes, yeah, exactly. And on some soul level,
Kate Harlow:I did know, maybe, but I didn't even when I moved here, it was
Kate Harlow:on a whim, like it was because of COVID airplane. Remember that
Kate Harlow:story? I remember, yeah, yeah. It was on a whim. So it's not
Kate Harlow:it. You don't have, like, we've been so programmed to believe we
Kate Harlow:have to plan our futures. You don't know your future self. All
Kate Harlow:you need to do, like you said, like your that beautiful story
Kate Harlow:you just shared is just like, what's your heart and soul
Kate Harlow:calling right now? What's like knocking at your door over and
Kate Harlow:over and over again right now? And to just follow that thread
Kate Harlow:and take one step, you know, to even go somewhere for a month.
Kate Harlow:So many people say to me, I want to live in Europe one day. Okay,
Kate Harlow:come to Europe. Come for three months. Because you can't, you
Kate Harlow:know you can stay in here without a visa for three months,
Kate Harlow:but so many countries have digital nomad visas now, like,
Kate Harlow:if you have a desire, just take one step towards it, because
Kate Harlow:it's going to lead you. There's going to be so much more that
Kate Harlow:you don't even know your desire that will open up. And I'm sure
Kate Harlow:you have a million stories like that too. 100%
Juliana Spicoluk:No, and that's exactly what you're saying. It's
Juliana Spicoluk:taking that first step without feeling like you have to make
Juliana Spicoluk:the biggest commitment of your life and sell everything. And
Juliana Spicoluk:you know what I mean? Because, yeah, you have no idea what even
Juliana Spicoluk:the experience is like. If you've never been to Europe, and
Juliana Spicoluk:you want to know what it's like to live in Europe, go live for
Juliana Spicoluk:two months, like you're saying, because living and visiting a
Juliana Spicoluk:place is so different, right? It's like, it's nice. You go on
Juliana Spicoluk:a vacation for a week. You're like, this is perfect, amazing.
Juliana Spicoluk:You try living there for some period of time, you may not feel
Juliana Spicoluk:the same way again. And I think that experience right there is
Juliana Spicoluk:important as well. And especially I also find, you
Juliana Spicoluk:know, for anybody that feels that feeling inside, that kind
Juliana Spicoluk:of ocean, like, this kind of suffocation, of like, oh, this
Juliana Spicoluk:is not feeling right for me anymore. I want to change, but I
Juliana Spicoluk:don't know where to start. I don't know where to go. I don't
Juliana Spicoluk:know what are the right steps to take. I'm too afraid. There's
Juliana Spicoluk:just too much on me is, you know, taking, let's just say, a
Juliana Spicoluk:retreat, you know, not like a vacation, but a retreat to go,
Juliana Spicoluk:maybe like, you know, you offer some beautiful retreats, like
Juliana Spicoluk:with your your women's groups, or, you know, a yoga retreat, or
Juliana Spicoluk:whatever it is. I mean, right now the world is filled with so
Juliana Spicoluk:many opportunities, but just being able to remove yourself to
Juliana Spicoluk:a new environment, to a new culture for a couple weeks to a
Juliana Spicoluk:month, and really allow yourself to deprogram yourself from
Juliana Spicoluk:living in a specific way that certain places in the world,
Juliana Spicoluk:especially big. Cities and, you know, the Western I find also
Juliana Spicoluk:mentality kind of brainwashes us with and living in a completely
Juliana Spicoluk:different environment, with new people and being inspired by
Juliana Spicoluk:other people that could be that first step, because then you
Juliana Spicoluk:come back and you're like, wow, and then you feel like the
Juliana Spicoluk:difference now, and this happened actually, to mark and
Juliana Spicoluk:I, before we even decided to do our big, big shift and change in
Juliana Spicoluk:our life, we used to travel to Costa Rica almost couple times a
Juliana Spicoluk:year, and we would just go for a couple weeks, maybe a month,
Juliana Spicoluk:maybe because that was much time as we could take off from all
Juliana Spicoluk:the obligations we had in the city at the time. But I remember
Juliana Spicoluk:every time I would go, I would come back to Toronto, and I
Juliana Spicoluk:would literally cry. I would be at the airport, and I would be
Juliana Spicoluk:crying because I just felt like my body, physically was I don't
Juliana Spicoluk:want to be here anymore. I don't want to be there anymore, like
Juliana Spicoluk:this isn't aligning. And the more I traveled outside, the
Juliana Spicoluk:stronger that feeling became every time I would return, and
Juliana Spicoluk:that was the biggest sign. I was like, Okay, this isn't just me
Juliana Spicoluk:wanting a change. This is literally my body, physically
Juliana Spicoluk:resisting to the energy that this place is about. And right
Juliana Spicoluk:there that was enough to be like, yeah, that's it. Whatever
Juliana Spicoluk:I have to do, I have to figure it out. And it doesn't have to
Juliana Spicoluk:be, you know, like whether even I remember him in Mark, and I
Juliana Spicoluk:was like, I'm just gonna move to coast. Gonna move to Costa Rica,
Juliana Spicoluk:and I'll set up an ice cream shack, and I'll just sell ice
Juliana Spicoluk:cream on the beach. Like, I don't know, do whatever we need
Juliana Spicoluk:to do, you know, to figure out financially that you can at
Juliana Spicoluk:least sustain yourself to a degree. But it's like, you know,
Juliana Spicoluk:like I said, again, it's, it's life is, is just too fragile and
Juliana Spicoluk:too short to not live, not in our truth, you know, and to
Juliana Spicoluk:continue to suppress that truth that we feel in our heart is
Juliana Spicoluk:only going to bite us in the ass, pretty much, because, yeah,
Juliana Spicoluk:it's going to come out one way or another. You know, there is a
Juliana Spicoluk:beautiful book I was reading, the gabriate, and, you know, he
Juliana Spicoluk:talks about like, in terms of just the idea of trauma, and
Juliana Spicoluk:certain psychological traumas that we go through in our life,
Juliana Spicoluk:and when we don't find a way to release that energy or to to
Juliana Spicoluk:feel the wounds and to work through them, they physically
Juliana Spicoluk:like, they make you ill, like all of the sicknesses and and
Juliana Spicoluk:diseases that arise a lot of the times where the root, the root
Juliana Spicoluk:was something psychological or something like that, we weren't
Juliana Spicoluk:connected. We weren't living our truth. We were suppressing,
Juliana Spicoluk:like, even suppressing now, there's, like, all these
Juliana Spicoluk:scientific studies talking about, like, especially in
Juliana Spicoluk:women, like, what women that were suppressing, like,
Juliana Spicoluk:vocalizing what they want and what they need, and how that was
Juliana Spicoluk:actually coming into, like, certain different ovarian
Juliana Spicoluk:cancers and different again, I don't have the stats in front of
Juliana Spicoluk:me to fully speak to it scientifically. But like, if you
Juliana Spicoluk:go deep into that research and see it's like, when we're not
Juliana Spicoluk:able to live within our truth and to speak about it, we just
Juliana Spicoluk:keep suppressing it and pushing it down. The body will will
Juliana Spicoluk:revolt in one way. You know,
Kate Harlow:it just, it's so beautiful. Because ever I love
Kate Harlow:everything you just said, your body's never gonna stop talking
Kate Harlow:to you and like, what a gift. I did an episode recently about
Kate Harlow:how anxiety is a gift, because it's just like an out of tune
Kate Harlow:guitar when your body's telling you to go one way, but your
Kate Harlow:mind, AKA your soul, right? Your Heart and Soul want to go one
Kate Harlow:way, and that's your truth, and then your mind always tells you
Kate Harlow:to go the opposite, because it thinks, oh no, that expansive
Kate Harlow:way is unsafe, so it creates this distortion and discord in
Kate Harlow:the body, just like all the ailments, just like depression,
Kate Harlow:like when you went repression, it's like everything's getting
Kate Harlow:pushed down. So of course, you feel depressed because you're
Kate Harlow:repressing absolutely everything, desires, your truth,
Kate Harlow:your feelings, your your intuition, everything, but the
Kate Harlow:more we can and that's why I love like, even just something
Kate Harlow:as simple as yoga. So for someone who's like, really in
Kate Harlow:your head, find a good yoga teacher who's really connected
Kate Harlow:like you and you do Juliana's yoga on you guys have an app
Kate Harlow:now, don't you? Yeah, we have a
Juliana Spicoluk:full out app with hundreds and 1000s of
Juliana Spicoluk:classes, and we actually started putting in different teachers
Juliana Spicoluk:onto our app as well. Um, it's everything, not just yoga, but
Juliana Spicoluk:we, you know, we have meditation, we have yoga,
Juliana Spicoluk:nidras, we have breath work. We have so many different
Juliana Spicoluk:modalities to help people come into their body and connect
Juliana Spicoluk:deeper with their hearts, to again, to deepen that that
Juliana Spicoluk:relationship. Because you know something also to comment when
Juliana Spicoluk:you're saying about depression, and something I've realized
Juliana Spicoluk:seeing just kind of how our Western society deals with these
Juliana Spicoluk:mental ailments like depression, it's like, okay, you feel
Juliana Spicoluk:depressed. Well, what do they do? They give you a bunch of
Juliana Spicoluk:pills to numb yourself with. And I understand sometimes it's
Juliana Spicoluk:very, very necessary. I can't comment that it's wrong, but I
Juliana Spicoluk:think a lot of the times, like, they don't take the time to get
Juliana Spicoluk:to the root of what is causing this person to feel depressed.
Juliana Spicoluk:Why are they feeling unaligned? Like, maybe blah. Before we
Juliana Spicoluk:start just throwing a bunch of chemicals at people that is
Juliana Spicoluk:actually going to give them worse and give them side effects
Juliana Spicoluk:and just put them in this terrible cycle, it's like, why
Juliana Spicoluk:don't we address the root of it? And again, let's connect to the
Juliana Spicoluk:body. Let's connect to the heart. What are we eating? What
Juliana Spicoluk:are we drinking? What are we surrounding ourselves with? What
Juliana Spicoluk:are the people in your life? How are you spending your time? What
Juliana Spicoluk:kind of news or media are you consuming that is causing, like,
Juliana Spicoluk:everything has an effect on our mind, our body and our heart.
Juliana Spicoluk:And before we just jump into, you know, prescription, it's
Juliana Spicoluk:like, Well, why don't we heal? Try the natural healing first,
Juliana Spicoluk:see if that helps, you know. And I feel like if we were to
Juliana Spicoluk:address those issues. In this perspective, I think there will
Juliana Spicoluk:be a lot different outcomes for many people out there that
Juliana Spicoluk:suffer with these type of mental ailments, such as depression.
Kate Harlow:A lot of my clients is when I start working with me,
Kate Harlow:they have they they're on medication because it's so
Kate Harlow:common in North America, because everyone's just in the soup,
Kate Harlow:right in the stress, functioning in the keeping their calendar so
Kate Harlow:busy there's no spaciousness and and after a few months, and
Kate Harlow:without even sharing with me, often, they just tell me after I
Kate Harlow:don't even know they're on, and it's not something I talk about,
Kate Harlow:I don't ask people, but unless I feel that they're very numb, and
Kate Harlow:then I'll ask, but it just happens naturally, where they
Kate Harlow:eventually are like, Oh, I don't need this anymore. And then it's
Kate Harlow:because they're alive again, because they're following their
Kate Harlow:truth. And I think you're I just feel like you're at your energy.
Kate Harlow:You're one of the most this is why I love you so much, and I
Kate Harlow:feel so aligned with you, and did the moment I met you. As I
Kate Harlow:feel like you're so embodied in in everything that you believe,
Kate Harlow:and your your energy, it just feels so consistent, and it's
Kate Harlow:like it's so pure, because you you do have such a clean life.
Kate Harlow:You're so connected to nature. You eat really clean. You're
Kate Harlow:very intentional with every with with so many facets of your
Kate Harlow:life. And so to learn from a teacher like that, I think of
Kate Harlow:all the movies that have been out there over the years, of
Kate Harlow:like the therapist who's actually a raging alcoholic
Kate Harlow:behind the scenes by thread, versus like someone who's
Kate Harlow:actually deeply embodied in the thing. Because when you're doing
Kate Harlow:your classes, it's not just the class, it's the frequency that
Kate Harlow:you're emitting, even through this conversation. So I think
Kate Harlow:like the app is the best place to start, because people can put
Kate Harlow:it on their phones, their computers. Goes with you.
Kate Harlow:Everywhere you go, carve out that space every morning, spend,
Kate Harlow:you know, 30 minutes or an hour on your app, or even 10 minutes,
Kate Harlow:whatever, doing something for yourself to connect with your
Kate Harlow:body, like I said. Not you everyone listening, obviously,
Kate Harlow:but like, like, I like, I said before, it's like that you as
Kate Harlow:soon as you close your eyes and connect your truth is right
Kate Harlow:there. It's just, it's just waiting for you don't need to
Kate Harlow:know the 10 million steps you're going to take or how you're
Kate Harlow:going to get there, but the desires and the the things that
Kate Harlow:are no longer serving you and no longer a lot in alignment are
Kate Harlow:right there, and all we have to do is get quiet.
Juliana Spicoluk:Yeah, and that's the thing is, some people
Juliana Spicoluk:sometimes look at the idea of, like, yoga and wellness, like,
Juliana Spicoluk:oh, well, I just have, I don't have enough time in my day. But
Juliana Spicoluk:it's like, you don't even need an hour. Like, I have two kids.
Juliana Spicoluk:I can't tell you that I have an hour for myself. Sometimes all I
Juliana Spicoluk:get is 1520 minutes, but I will find that time, and I'll just do
Juliana Spicoluk:a very quick yoga practice, five minute breath. That's it. That's
Juliana Spicoluk:all I got today. Maybe tomorrow I'll have a little bit more, but
Juliana Spicoluk:it's really not in the quantity, but it's in the quality. And you
Juliana Spicoluk:know, in our app, we have everything from five minutes to
Juliana Spicoluk:32 hour long practice, and really is up to the person to
Juliana Spicoluk:decide what their life allows in that moment. But what it is,
Juliana Spicoluk:it's it's just giving yourself an opportunity to connect to
Juliana Spicoluk:your heart and to your soul, if not your head. That's always
Juliana Spicoluk:racing 1000 miles an hour, but it's your heart, and it's to
Juliana Spicoluk:quiet the mind for a moment, and that's where the truth really
Juliana Spicoluk:can speak to and and I see it all the time, just even from
Juliana Spicoluk:hearing people's stories, or from even seeing what I've
Juliana Spicoluk:noticed as a teacher in a physical form, in a classes, you
Juliana Spicoluk:give people opportunity to find that space inside their heart,
Juliana Spicoluk:and they'll a lot of times have like an emotional release, like
Juliana Spicoluk:you see them start to cry. You see people starting to to feel
Juliana Spicoluk:something even in that short amount of time, and it's
Juliana Spicoluk:beautiful, and it's something we should never suppress. Like, you
Juliana Spicoluk:know, if you feel the urge to cry, when you find that
Juliana Spicoluk:stillness silence, even if you go in nature, do it because it's
Juliana Spicoluk:your nervous system that is regulating, that is your body
Juliana Spicoluk:needing to release whatever energy, what is around and that
Juliana Spicoluk:we're storing it. Because if you don't, like I said before this,
Juliana Spicoluk:and it's energy can't be destroyed, right? Like it just
Juliana Spicoluk:goes and you have to, you have to move it. And so if we're not
Juliana Spicoluk:able to move it out of our heart space, out of our body, whether
Juliana Spicoluk:that is, you know, anxiety, stress, all of those things, it
Juliana Spicoluk:will find a home, and it will manifest itself in your body and
Juliana Spicoluk:come out through back ache or pain. Pain or worse, you know,
Juliana Spicoluk:some kind of illness. And so that self care is crucial, and
Juliana Spicoluk:that is actually the first step before you do anything else or
Juliana Spicoluk:change your life in any way. Is actually prioritize wherever you
Juliana Spicoluk:live, 1520, half an hour a day to just whether it is yoga,
Juliana Spicoluk:breath work, meditation or maybe a workout. Some people really
Juliana Spicoluk:need to release that energy, or even sometimes, I say, just go
Juliana Spicoluk:in nature. You don't have time. You have a dog. Go walk your dog
Juliana Spicoluk:and connect, you know. And just like without your phone, yes,
Juliana Spicoluk:exactly. Leave the phone behind, just for that half an hour.
Juliana Spicoluk:Don't look at the email, don't check your text messages, and
Juliana Spicoluk:just breathe and listen to the wind and feel the rays of the
Juliana Spicoluk:sun on your skin, and just connect with that energy,
Juliana Spicoluk:because it is around us, like divinity, like that. It's here,
Juliana Spicoluk:it's it's inside of ourselves. It's everywhere. But we just we
Juliana Spicoluk:disconnect from it because there's so much noise, like our
Juliana Spicoluk:lives are so busy and they're and if we don't find to connect
Juliana Spicoluk:to it. We just keep getting more and more dragged into the noise
Juliana Spicoluk:and chaos of our of our life, and then you start to feel more
Juliana Spicoluk:and more lost. And so I find that even that first step of
Juliana Spicoluk:just finding daily ways to connect to your heart will start
Juliana Spicoluk:to slowly build little, tiny, micro steps to a greater
Juliana Spicoluk:understanding of what is it that you really want, and what is it
Juliana Spicoluk:that you really need in your life and feel connected to, and
Juliana Spicoluk:what is it that you need to let go of? And, yeah, more nourish
Juliana Spicoluk:more. You know, because, like you said, like you work with a
Juliana Spicoluk:lot of women that are like, should I stay? Should I go? Do I
Juliana Spicoluk:feel? You know, what do I do, and especially at a specific
Juliana Spicoluk:time in our lives and circumstances? You know, whether
Juliana Spicoluk:that is for relationships or whatever it is, it's a really
Juliana Spicoluk:difficult either question to start to ask yourself, like, do
Juliana Spicoluk:I feel like I'm growing in this relationship? Do I feel like I
Juliana Spicoluk:am really living my truth, or am I just reacting to what I'm
Juliana Spicoluk:supposed to do? And you know that question itself can be even
Juliana Spicoluk:a scary one that people avoid to ask because you're afraid of
Juliana Spicoluk:what the answer would be. Because if some of that the
Juliana Spicoluk:truth or the answer might come up, that may be a difficult one,
Juliana Spicoluk:right? But, yeah, I think it's like I said before. It's, you
Juliana Spicoluk:know, we need to always prioritize our own well being
Juliana Spicoluk:and our growth, our soul evolution. That is really why
Juliana Spicoluk:we're here on Earth. And unfortunately, you know, it does
Juliana Spicoluk:require, sometimes asking the difficult questions and
Juliana Spicoluk:connecting for ourselves, and prioritizing that connection,
Juliana Spicoluk:even if we feel like we don't have the time for
Kate Harlow:Yeah. Well, the beauty is it just like you get
Kate Harlow:it just gets better, like life gets so much better and richer
Kate Harlow:and more meaningful and more satiating, more fulfilling. When
Kate Harlow:you do create that space and and and start to operate from your
Kate Harlow:that soul, heart space, instead of the mind it so so you'll get
Kate Harlow:you'll get to know that right now i It's so much easier for me
Kate Harlow:to make big decisions and take risks and let things go, let
Kate Harlow:relationships go, let apartments go, let places go, step into new
Kate Harlow:possibilities. Because I know, even if that ends up being, like
Kate Harlow:we talked about earlier, a stepping stone, I know it's a
Kate Harlow:calling right now, and I know that it's just going to be even
Kate Harlow:juicier, even better, like there's always more of ourselves
Kate Harlow:to experience, and more of life to experience, and also just
Kate Harlow:just thinking about how freaking cool it is the body's
Kate Harlow:intelligence, like how amazing that we have this body that's
Kate Harlow:always talking to us, and it never stops. Worst case
Kate Harlow:scenario, and you get some crazy disease your body is you're on
Kate Harlow:your side. And I think how many, how many women, especially, are
Kate Harlow:at war with our bodies when our bodies just want to help us.
Kate Harlow:They're literally our guides. Like, hey, no, don't go to don't
Kate Harlow:walk in that room. Don't go on a date with that guy. Don't, you
Kate Harlow:know, don't. Don't stay another day in this job that is
Kate Harlow:suffocating you. Our bodies are so highly intelligent and
Kate Harlow:connected to the to the bigger life that we're meant to
Kate Harlow:experience, the more expanded life that we're meant to
Kate Harlow:experience. So that's so cool.
Juliana Spicoluk:Oh, it's, it's incredible, like the
Juliana Spicoluk:intelligence of your body. It's, um, you know, for me, I the what
Juliana Spicoluk:I really made me realize. I mean, obviously, I've read so
Juliana Spicoluk:much of it in books. I actually there's another beautiful book
Juliana Spicoluk:called Body Keeps the Score by another. I don't know if you've
Juliana Spicoluk:heard of it. It's, it's quite an old book, but it talks about
Juliana Spicoluk:how, like, our body literally Keeps the Score of like, every
Juliana Spicoluk:traumatic experience, whether it's even traumatic or not,
Juliana Spicoluk:like, whatever way you label that it, it's, it takes us for
Juliana Spicoluk:and it's like we have to find ways to to work with the energy
Juliana Spicoluk:to release it. But I was saying to go back to, you know, the
Juliana Spicoluk:most transformative ways for me to realize the power of our
Juliana Spicoluk:bodies is when I was, you know, giving birth. I had two natural
Juliana Spicoluk:births with my kids, and to see, like, I can't even explain it,
Juliana Spicoluk:like, how. How intelligent the female body is. It's like, it
Juliana Spicoluk:like, you don't do anything. You're just, like, stepping
Juliana Spicoluk:aside, and it like, knows, like a contraction and all the things
Juliana Spicoluk:of like, it's literally bringing life into this world. And it's
Juliana Spicoluk:doing it without your mind. It's doing it without your head, also
Kate Harlow:making the baby. It's like, it's making body
Kate Harlow:parts
Juliana Spicoluk:growing, growing lungs, like you're,
Juliana Spicoluk:like, literally, like having growing a nervous system right
Juliana Spicoluk:in your belt, like in your uterus, like it's, it's really
Juliana Spicoluk:freaking incredible. And we have to, I almost, like, remember
Juliana Spicoluk:that whether you know women are our mothers or not, or they
Juliana Spicoluk:choose to have children or not, it's like, you see that process
Juliana Spicoluk:right there, of like bringing life into this world, the body
Juliana Spicoluk:has been designed and programmed by not humans, divinity, by God,
Juliana Spicoluk:by existence, to be able to have the strength and the
Juliana Spicoluk:intelligence to create. Literally, it's a miracle, like
Juliana Spicoluk:it bringing life into this world. And so like to know that.
Juliana Spicoluk:Then we also have to remember that. Then it will signal and
Juliana Spicoluk:tell you when something is not aligned anymore with with your
Juliana Spicoluk:well being like it will speak to you. It's just really a matter
Juliana Spicoluk:of fact, if you choose to listen to it, or you choose to put it
Juliana Spicoluk:aside and ignore it, but over and over again, it will continue
Juliana Spicoluk:to give you a little sign, and the signs will start to get
Juliana Spicoluk:stronger, stronger the more you ignore them, right? It's like,
Juliana Spicoluk:slowly it'll just be a tap on your shoulder, and then it'll be
Juliana Spicoluk:a hit on the head, and it'll be a break on your head. You know,
Juliana Spicoluk:it's like, it's good to keep trying to get your attention
Juliana Spicoluk:until you listen and but I think, you know, a mindful
Juliana Spicoluk:practice of self care is the first step in helping you kind
Juliana Spicoluk:of reconnect to that connection, like that telephone wire with
Juliana Spicoluk:your body and your mind, to try and connect to it and listen to
Juliana Spicoluk:what it actually feels and what it needs. And that, I think, as
Juliana Spicoluk:we prioritize it and we start to take care of our bodies, you
Juliana Spicoluk:start to feel better in your mind. You prioritize that mind
Juliana Spicoluk:body connection, and slowly, things just start to kind of
Juliana Spicoluk:move in that direction. And one little baby step at a time,
Juliana Spicoluk:it'll unfold the way it's supposed to. And then you feel
Juliana Spicoluk:more stronger and more confident to even speak your truth, and,
Juliana Spicoluk:you know, voice your truth. And that's something, you know, I
Juliana Spicoluk:struggled a lot with, you know, for a long time, because I, you
Juliana Spicoluk:know, I was raised, I come from Ukraine, right? So, like, I was
Juliana Spicoluk:raised in a very like Soviet Union type of way, where, you
Juliana Spicoluk:know, like, as though, as a girl too, like you don't speak, you
Juliana Spicoluk:listen, you take, like rules, like everything is so one way,
Juliana Spicoluk:and as a woman as well, in that culture, it's like, no, no, you
Juliana Spicoluk:don't have a voice. You you do what you're told, kind of thing.
Juliana Spicoluk:And so that's been programmed from a very, very early age in
Juliana Spicoluk:my mind, and slowly, obviously, living the life that I have now.
Juliana Spicoluk:It also was a lot of work to start to deprogram that, and I
Juliana Spicoluk:still, you know, struggle through activating my throat
Juliana Spicoluk:chakra to be able to voice certain things that I feel that
Juliana Spicoluk:sometimes are scary or maybe a little bit more intimidating to
Juliana Spicoluk:speak about it. It's a work in progress, but, you know, it just
Juliana Spicoluk:shows that, like it's it requires work. None of it is
Juliana Spicoluk:going to be a step of a fingers. Be like, Okay, now I'm ready.
Juliana Spicoluk:I'm going to speak my truth. It's like, Well, are you? Are
Juliana Spicoluk:you able to really connect to that truth? Are you able to, you
Juliana Spicoluk:know, understand of what that will open up for you when you
Juliana Spicoluk:are ready to commit to walking that path, that unscripted path,
Juliana Spicoluk:as you say, right? Because that also will require you having to
Juliana Spicoluk:realign your path with the right people, because there's so many
Juliana Spicoluk:people in your life that may not agree with it, that may not
Juliana Spicoluk:support it, that may actually try to scare you from it,
Juliana Spicoluk:especially like I was saying, it's like, if you're surrounded
Juliana Spicoluk:by other people that are living that life, that are maybe stuck
Juliana Spicoluk:and not listening to themselves, when they see somebody else
Juliana Spicoluk:trying to, you know, change or find a different path, Like
Juliana Spicoluk:maybe, what are you doing? You know, because they themselves.
Juliana Spicoluk:Everything is a reflection, right? It's a personal
Juliana Spicoluk:reflection. They're reflecting what you're you're trying to do
Juliana Spicoluk:with their own life, and then they will try to convince you to
Juliana Spicoluk:not do it, because deep down in themselves, they're too scared
Juliana Spicoluk:of themselves, you know. And I saw it a lot when Mark and I
Juliana Spicoluk:started going on our path, you know, I but I lost a lot of
Juliana Spicoluk:friends. I had to let go of a lot of people in my life because
Juliana Spicoluk:I knew that their energy wasn't serving the truth that I was
Juliana Spicoluk:ready to walk towards. And that's also part of it, right?
Juliana Spicoluk:It's
Kate Harlow:just like so part of it, I mean,
Juliana Spicoluk:I'm sure you can relate as well. Probably had
Juliana Spicoluk:to
Juliana Spicoluk:yeah
Kate Harlow:time, but I just there was this line, the full
Kate Harlow:moon that just happened. There was this line, the Scorpio Full
Kate Harlow:Moon on the on my birthday, on the 12th, the last line, it was
Kate Harlow:so poignant. It said, You will never go back to the person that
Kate Harlow:you were, and it will be the best thing that ever happened to
Kate Harlow:you. And so our fear. Or wants to hold on to what was like we
Kate Harlow:talked about with the death and rebirth our fear. Wants to hold
Kate Harlow:on to all those people. Wants to hold on, wants to make everyone
Kate Harlow:happy. We're so and as women, just so taught to please
Kate Harlow:everyone else and not ruffle feathers, not cause, but like
Kate Harlow:I'm so. I love how you phrase that. It's the reflection of
Kate Harlow:them, and you know, once you can really, really anchor into other
Kate Harlow:people's opinions of you, perspectives, their judgments,
Kate Harlow:their their fears, aren't about you anyways, like they're not
Kate Harlow:about you and and and on my path, I'm sure you can say the
Kate Harlow:same. It's been like, the more I stand rooted in my own truth,
Kate Harlow:the less people challenge me. They're just you now. They're
Kate Harlow:using the ones who are still in my life like family, and the
Kate Harlow:ones that they might not be living the same path as me, but
Kate Harlow:they love me now for all of who I am and the crazy in their mind
Kate Harlow:choices. Because they're just like, oh yeah, that's just Kate.
Kate Harlow:Whereas when I first started following my truth, they were
Kate Harlow:like, no, no. They would tell me what to do. They would give me
Kate Harlow:advice, because that's how my patterns had it set up, right?
Kate Harlow:Like, yeah, because they weren't used to that, and it was, of
Kate Harlow:course, reflecting their own fear. But now, the ones that
Kate Harlow:have stuck around, and many fell away that weren't aligned, but,
Kate Harlow:but, but mostly, I'm talking about family that just like, Are
Kate Harlow:there no matter what they're Yeah. They just see like, oh,
Kate Harlow:that's they accept it now. Like, nobody was surprised that I
Kate Harlow:didn't get vaccinated. Nobody's surprised that I went to Costa
Kate Harlow:Rica in the middle of the pandemic, that I'm then when I
Kate Harlow:moved to Greece. They're like, Oh, yeah, this game. Like, if I
Kate Harlow:became a lesbian, like, nobody would be surprised. They're
Kate Harlow:like, yeah, she's just doing her thing. Like, you know
Juliana Spicoluk:what? Are true? Yeah,
Kate Harlow:yeah. So it's like, the more we do it, the more the
Kate Harlow:world around us. And I think really, it's comes down to the
Kate Harlow:more we internally, like, are really so rooted in our truth
Kate Harlow:that we're no longer willing to sacrifice our own truth for
Kate Harlow:everyone else's experience,
Juliana Spicoluk:exactly. And you'll kind of stop caring as
Juliana Spicoluk:well. You're like you stop caring. Yes, you stop caring
Juliana Spicoluk:what they think, because it doesn't really matter, because
Juliana Spicoluk:this is your life, and their opinions of you isn't going to
Juliana Spicoluk:really change. You know what you're going to continue onward
Juliana Spicoluk:with and your path. So whether they agree with you or disagree
Juliana Spicoluk:with you, it doesn't really matter, because if they don't
Juliana Spicoluk:agree with you, then they're not meant to be in your life
Juliana Spicoluk:anymore, and that's okay. And it's not like a a negative, you
Juliana Spicoluk:know, terrible thing. It's just the way life goes. We're not
Juliana Spicoluk:always going to be connected with the same people forever.
Juliana Spicoluk:It's like every person serves a purpose, and sometimes that is a
Juliana Spicoluk:chapter in your life. Maybe that's a lesson. Maybe it's it's
Juliana Spicoluk:a beautiful relationship for a moment, and then you have to let
Juliana Spicoluk:that relationship go. Because you're, you're, you're all
Juliana Spicoluk:beings, your own soul, you're all, we're all traveling in our
Juliana Spicoluk:own path, and that's okay, you know, and difficult as it is
Juliana Spicoluk:sometimes to admit to that of losing your friends or, you
Juliana Spicoluk:know, relationship and such, it's, it is just the way of
Juliana Spicoluk:life, and it just, it's, it's our journey, and it's, it's the
Juliana Spicoluk:lessons in itself, right?
Kate Harlow:And it's so worth it when the aligned people come
Kate Harlow:in, right? Like, where it's easy and it's, it's you're on the, I
Kate Harlow:think of my favorite metaphor lately is the radio channels,
Kate Harlow:like, you're on the same radio, and there's no static. It's
Kate Harlow:just, like,
Juliana Spicoluk:totally Yeah, friction, yes,
Kate Harlow:and you don't, and then
Juliana Spicoluk:you don't have to, like, hold yourself back. I
Juliana Spicoluk:you know, I found I became really aware of this lately.
Juliana Spicoluk:It's like, when I've been in a in an environment or a group
Juliana Spicoluk:setting, I guess, with different individuals and people that are
Juliana Spicoluk:maybe not on that same radio frequency as me, I find myself
Juliana Spicoluk:so, like, held back because I'm so afraid to, like, Oh, can I
Juliana Spicoluk:say this? Or can I not say this? Maybe they don't, they'll think
Juliana Spicoluk:I'm crazy if I say it this way, and it's like, it's so draining
Juliana Spicoluk:to a point where, like, now I'm like, I avoid people like that.
Juliana Spicoluk:I don't even want to be surrounded because my time and
Juliana Spicoluk:my life is so limited right now. I have so much going on that if
Juliana Spicoluk:I'm going to commit to a social gathering or social event, I
Juliana Spicoluk:wanted to be around people where I can be myself, and I can open
Juliana Spicoluk:and I can feel comfortable in a very loving, held space where
Juliana Spicoluk:everyone's aligned on the same rape frequency, you know. And so
Juliana Spicoluk:I choose to find those people and to surround myself with
Juliana Spicoluk:those people, because that's what it is. And then I'm so
Juliana Spicoluk:grateful for that, you know. And I'm saying even here, like in
Juliana Spicoluk:Barbados, I'm so grateful that we started to find the little
Juliana Spicoluk:families and individuals that are very like minded and
Juliana Spicoluk:connected in that same frequency. Because, you know,
Juliana Spicoluk:it's, it's a beautiful thing to find your tribe, and it
Juliana Spicoluk:sometimes takes a whole life to find that, right, so
Kate Harlow:totally and it, yeah, it's like, it's going to
Kate Harlow:be your future self will thank you. This is going to feel way
Kate Harlow:better than what what you currently have those friendships
Kate Harlow:where you have to hold yourself back or fight or or leave
Kate Harlow:something drained and exhausted or defeated, or whatever the
Kate Harlow:thing might be like that. Your your future aligned friendships
Kate Harlow:are going to feel so much better than that. So it's going to be
Kate Harlow:so worth it. And. Yeah, I was just, oh my gosh, have you met
Kate Harlow:Scott? Yeah, the chiropractor. Scott, chiropractor, we'll talk
Kate Harlow:about it later. My old, old, like, very old dear friend. I
Kate Harlow:haven't talked to him in years, moved to Barbados, and he's
Kate Harlow:still there, and he's a chiropractor,
Juliana Spicoluk:so we'll talk about it. Yeah, I'd love to meet
Juliana Spicoluk:him chiropractor, too. It's always nice to find a good
Kate Harlow:chiropractor. Yes, He's amazing. He's been doing it
Kate Harlow:forever, and he's a phenomenal guy. So yeah, have to connect
Kate Harlow:you too. But yeah, it's it's it. I love all of this. It's like
Kate Harlow:the body most important thing. You gotta really shift the
Kate Harlow:relationship with the body and have a reverent, loving,
Kate Harlow:harmonious relationship with your body, because she's going
Kate Harlow:to lead you to your truth, and then from the truth it's
Juliana Spicoluk:and then life will unfold and in the way it
Juliana Spicoluk:should be. And then, you know, and that that's that next
Juliana Spicoluk:component, is that trust right through all of this, and also
Juliana Spicoluk:holding that trust in whatever you label it, you know,
Juliana Spicoluk:divinity, God, universe, whatever it is to that to you,
Juliana Spicoluk:but having trust that you are guided in that way, you know,
Juliana Spicoluk:and I and every time I remember, I felt lost in my life, you know
Juliana Spicoluk:what I mean? Or like these periods of my life where I feel
Juliana Spicoluk:kind of disconnected, or just, yeah, in a tougher place,
Juliana Spicoluk:there's always like, these, um, sorry, these beautiful mantras
Juliana Spicoluk:that I come back to, and one of them, it always is just closing
Juliana Spicoluk:your eyes and connecting to that you're like, I'm guided. I am
Juliana Spicoluk:protected. I am guided. And just repeating that in your mind. Or,
Juliana Spicoluk:you know, there's, there's many variations, and I have a few
Juliana Spicoluk:meditations on our app that deal with those type of energies and
Juliana Spicoluk:intentions. But yeah, it's reminding yourself that even in
Juliana Spicoluk:those like really difficult moments, that you are guided,
Juliana Spicoluk:even if you don't see it, there is there is an energy that
Juliana Spicoluk:pushes us and protects us in this life and gives us the the
Juliana Spicoluk:difficult challenges, but also beautiful, expansive
Juliana Spicoluk:opportunities for the growth of our of our life, for our soul to
Juliana Spicoluk:to live, and we're here to live, right? That's why we aren't
Juliana Spicoluk:incarnated in these bodies, so we can have these experiences
Kate Harlow:Exactly. And what else is the point? Like, we're
Kate Harlow:not here to just, I mean, you can choose a mundane life, you
Kate Harlow:can choose a numb life. You can choose a scripted not your
Kate Harlow:desire, not your not aligned. But it's so much more painful.
Kate Harlow:And people are so afraid of the fear of taking the risk to
Kate Harlow:follow their hearts. But it's like the only part that's
Kate Harlow:painful is really make like you said. It's making the decision,
Kate Harlow:like, once you once you make the decision, it's so beautiful.
Juliana Spicoluk:And you know, what else is more painful is
Juliana Spicoluk:regret, is one day waking up and feeling like, I should have done
Juliana Spicoluk:this, I should have made that step, I should have tried or
Juliana Spicoluk:just took that risk. And, you know, one day it could be too
Juliana Spicoluk:late, you know, maybe one day you're too old, or, God forbid,
Juliana Spicoluk:something else happens, you know, with your body, sickness
Juliana Spicoluk:and illness, and that is the biggest fear, I think, is to
Juliana Spicoluk:regret that you didn't try. And so while you can, and while you
Juliana Spicoluk:have the opportunity and the health and and the, you know,
Juliana Spicoluk:possibility, to do it, why not? Because, like I said, there
Juliana Spicoluk:really there's nothing to lose. You can always go back to the
Juliana Spicoluk:scripted way of living. It's easy, you know, can find it. You
Juliana Spicoluk:can, you know, do the same thing, but one day, it could
Juliana Spicoluk:become too late for you to explore what life could be if
Juliana Spicoluk:you follow your heart and you connect to your heart and allow
Juliana Spicoluk:that truth to guide you forward, and because when you make that
Juliana Spicoluk:first step, then you really don't know what people and what
Juliana Spicoluk:opportunities will open themselves up to you and unfold
Juliana Spicoluk:in front of your eyes that will then make you look back and
Juliana Spicoluk:connect all the dots and be like, Wow, this is crazy. I'm so
Juliana Spicoluk:like, lucky and happy that I listened to my my own, my own
Juliana Spicoluk:truth, you know, and I listened to my heart and I and I faced
Juliana Spicoluk:that fear, because look at the life that has presented itself,
Juliana Spicoluk:you know, like, look at yourself like you're moving to Kenya.
Juliana Spicoluk:Like, have you ever wondered, like, be living Kenya? Like, do
Juliana Spicoluk:you remember yourself like two years ago, last time I spoke to
Juliana Spicoluk:you definitely that was never in the conversation. But, like,
Juliana Spicoluk:look at what you know you you had this beautiful relationship,
Juliana Spicoluk:and you know, it's done its chapter and its thing, but it's
Juliana Spicoluk:like all the little steps have brought you to where you are
Juliana Spicoluk:now, creating these beautiful relationships and opportunities
Juliana Spicoluk:for yourself to make a life in Africa, like, amazing. It's
Juliana Spicoluk:incredible, you know, and you're coming soon.
Kate Harlow:I can't wait to visit you. It's, um, I love what
Kate Harlow:you said about connecting the dots, because it's like, that's
Kate Harlow:the cool thing about when you look back to the unscripted
Kate Harlow:life, is this is like, oh, had I not. Like, had my friend Mariana
Kate Harlow:not gone to that party and met that guy that was like, Oh, you
Kate Harlow:do retreats. Like, you gotta go to retreat in London, and you
Kate Harlow:gotta go to do a retreat at this place called Ola pangi farm in
Kate Harlow:Kenya. And like, she wasn't on her radar. And then she's like,
Kate Harlow:we're going to Kenya. And then, like, you know, I just think of
Kate Harlow:all the divine moments and divine connections, not just for
Kate Harlow:me, not just for her, for all the women I've brought to Kenya
Kate Harlow:and then their magical journeys and lives and connections and
Kate Harlow:love stories and things that have unfolded from that place,
Kate Harlow:like when we follow our hearts and our truths that like that,
Kate Harlow:you get to go back and connect the dots and see like it's
Kate Harlow:amazing this person, if I didn't take that risk, if I didn't get
Kate Harlow:on that plane, if I didn't have that uncomfortable conversation.
Kate Harlow:I didn't let that thing go,
Juliana Spicoluk:yeah, yeah. It's incredible. And then again,
Juliana Spicoluk:that reminds you of that whole idea. It's like we are guided.
Juliana Spicoluk:In a way, there is no guidance. Energy that is guiding us is
Juliana Spicoluk:just, you know, we do also have free will. So in a sense, you
Juliana Spicoluk:know, you do have the choice to go to that party or not. You do
Juliana Spicoluk:have a choice to get on the plane or not. It's really up to
Juliana Spicoluk:you. But if you, you know, look a little deeper under that, it's
Juliana Spicoluk:like, wow. The all of the things at the right place happen, you
Juliana Spicoluk:know, you met that right person, because you're meant to be going
Juliana Spicoluk:here, something in your soul is guiding you from this journey to
Juliana Spicoluk:experience whatever is out there for you, and you and you have no
Juliana Spicoluk:idea what's out there for you. It could be incredible, you
Juliana Spicoluk:know, or it could be short lived. You have no idea, you
Juliana Spicoluk:know,
Kate Harlow:and not attached, trusting that too, trusting that
Kate Harlow:it could be a stepping stone, or that it could be exactly a
Kate Harlow:longer place, or it's all, yeah, none of us know the rest is
Kate Harlow:unwritten. I love that, that song, the rest is still
Kate Harlow:unwritten. Yeah, we don't know what's coming, but yeah, our the
Kate Harlow:more we follow our hearts and our truths, the more aligned we
Kate Harlow:become, and the more we get to live this life that feels really
Kate Harlow:good. So I oh my gosh, this conversation is the best. I feel
Kate Harlow:like we could jam out on this all day long. I just love you so
Kate Harlow:much, and I'm so happy to share your energy. It's nice to just
Kate Harlow:connect me. I loved having my country that was super fun in a
Kate Harlow:different way, but this feels
Juliana Spicoluk:so good. Me too, has been so lovely, and I'm
Juliana Spicoluk:so excited to see you in July. Wonderful to spend more time
Juliana Spicoluk:together and hang out and, yeah, and plan our our trip to Kenya.
Juliana Spicoluk:I'm excited for this.
Kate Harlow:Yeah, we'll map it out in July. It's, yeah, I'll
Kate Harlow:get mark on board. I'm sure he'll be on board. It'll be no
Kate Harlow:problem. Yeah, 100% Yeah, 100%
Juliana Spicoluk:we're excited. So excited. It's definitely like
Juliana Spicoluk:I said it and again, like what I was saying earlier. It's like,
Juliana Spicoluk:it's been in my mind, it's been in there. And I just somehow,
Juliana Spicoluk:you know, the right things didn't align, and all of a
Juliana Spicoluk:sudden, you know, we reconnect, and then use something. You're
Juliana Spicoluk:living there now, and you're like, what? Like, I literally,
Juliana Spicoluk:I've been thinking about going to this part of the world for so
Juliana Spicoluk:long, but, you know, I wasn't, it wasn't the time, and this is
Juliana Spicoluk:it now, yeah, now. And everything in your life happened
Juliana Spicoluk:to then connect, to give me that, also reassurance that it
Juliana Spicoluk:is a good place to bring my family to as well. You know, all
Juliana Spicoluk:of it, it's it's beautiful, so so divine. It's beautiful.
Kate Harlow:It's so magical. So hopefully y'all are hearing the
Kate Harlow:message so much more is possible for you. And okay, so we talked
Kate Harlow:a lot about your app. Is there anything else you want to talk
Kate Harlow:about? But also you can share more about the app if you want.
Kate Harlow:What is the app? We'll link everything in the show notes,
Kate Harlow:but just so you can say it out loud. Is it just boho beautiful?
Juliana Spicoluk:Of course, yeah. It's called boho
Juliana Spicoluk:beautiful, official, and we it's an iOS, Android app. It's also,
Juliana Spicoluk:we have it on Roku, Apple TV. We have it on fire TV, I think, and
Juliana Spicoluk:also desktop, and it's a beautiful hub of everything that
Juliana Spicoluk:you need to enrich your life, enrich your physical and
Juliana Spicoluk:spiritual component of your well being. So we have everything
Juliana Spicoluk:from like I mentioned earlier, we have hundreds and hundreds of
Juliana Spicoluk:yoga classes with myself, with Mark. There's also new teachers
Juliana Spicoluk:we're bringing on. There's meditation classes, there's
Juliana Spicoluk:breath work. There are even, you know, inspirational
Juliana Spicoluk:conversations. There's some episodes from our podcast that
Juliana Spicoluk:we've done before. It's everything. And you know, you
Juliana Spicoluk:could put it on your phone, or you could plug it into your TV,
Juliana Spicoluk:but it's a beautiful opportunity to to have a tool, and that's
Juliana Spicoluk:what it is, giving you a tool to use to bring a little bit more
Juliana Spicoluk:self care into your life. So, yeah, you can link it. Of
Juliana Spicoluk:course, I'm sure it'll be somewhere people can click. But
Juliana Spicoluk:we also have free offerings as well. We have our YouTube
Juliana Spicoluk:channel bubble beautiful, where people can just, you know, try
Juliana Spicoluk:out or join in on some free content. We have, again,
Juliana Spicoluk:hundreds and hundreds of yoga classes, pilates, fitness,
Juliana Spicoluk:meditation, everything. So happy to have people explore it and
Juliana Spicoluk:see what connects to what they need in their life right now.
Kate Harlow:That's perfect. I feel like last time I talked to
Kate Harlow:you, I told you, or maybe it. This was in a voice note in
Kate Harlow:Greece, and I live, well, obviously, you know, in Athens,
Kate Harlow:for those of you that don't know, I was in my bedroom one
Kate Harlow:day and I was getting ready, and I heard your voice, and I was
Kate Harlow:like, Oh, my God, that's Juliana. The person in the
Kate Harlow:apartment across from me was so funny classes. I don't know if
Kate Harlow:it was an Airbnb or the girl that there's someone lives
Kate Harlow:there, but I couldn't see who it was, but it was so ah,
Juliana Spicoluk:that's so sweet. No, it's so incredible
Juliana Spicoluk:that this digital world, as you were saying, like in the
Juliana Spicoluk:beginning of our conversation, it's the fact that, you know, we
Juliana Spicoluk:can create these videos and then put them up and then people all
Juliana Spicoluk:over the world and be plugging in any time of the day and and
Juliana Spicoluk:using it and taking something from it and better themselves.
Juliana Spicoluk:It is honestly the greatest purpose and service I could have
Juliana Spicoluk:ever asked for in this life. And I'm very, very, very, very proud
Juliana Spicoluk:of it and grateful for it.
Kate Harlow:That's amazing. It's so special. And obviously,
Kate Harlow:I imagine you can feel the heart frequency of Juliana through
Kate Harlow:this conversation. If you aren't following the app or getting I'm
Kate Harlow:getting the app. I'm like, oh god, that's what I need. When
Kate Harlow:I'm in Kenya, I never I have a yoga mat.
Juliana Spicoluk:You had one? No,
Kate Harlow:I you know, we talked about it last time, I
Kate Harlow:don't know,
Juliana Spicoluk:didn't give you access. Okay, well,
Juliana Spicoluk:messaging, I think
Kate Harlow:you maybe sent it to me and I forgot to download
Kate Harlow:it or whatever. We'll figure it out, but I'm going to get one
Kate Harlow:for sure. And actually, I didn't even tell you. I taught yoga in
Kate Harlow:I just channel taught yoga in Kenya. Where's the farm? Because
Kate Harlow:one of the girls there wanted to learn how to teach. Okay, now
Kate Harlow:I'm a yoga teacher. She's now leading classes like she says
Kate Harlow:she's not an official yoga teacher. Being her, did them
Kate Harlow:together, and I led them, and we were gonna do a video on
Kate Harlow:YouTube, but the Wi Fi didn't work. And I was like, Well,
Kate Harlow:okay, I've done yoga for 20 years, so I could probably teach
Kate Harlow:a class. And I just dropped in and, like, did a class also,
Kate Harlow:wow, I channeled you. Yeah, it was super fun. But yes, like
Kate Harlow:everything below. And thank you so much for your love
Kate Harlow:conversation. And I feel like it's going to, yeah, I feel like
Kate Harlow:it's going to penetrate a lot of hearts and
Juliana Spicoluk:release a lot. So yeah, I hope so. I think this
Juliana Spicoluk:is, this is the time in our in our world right now, is to
Juliana Spicoluk:inspire one another and to give strength to one another, and,
Juliana Spicoluk:you know, to show that it's possible and that this life is
Juliana Spicoluk:worth living in the most joyful and peaceful and happiest way
Juliana Spicoluk:that we're meant to experience it. So, you know, hold each
Juliana Spicoluk:other strong and can do this. And I know, and I think
Juliana Spicoluk:remembering that, I think, for anyone listening right now is
Juliana Spicoluk:remembering that the support is there, the guidance is there,
Juliana Spicoluk:that there's so many women and men have done this, and that
Juliana Spicoluk:you're not alone, you know, and that's something to always
Juliana Spicoluk:remember. You're never alone, and you can reach out to
Juliana Spicoluk:somebody in your community or just through online communities,
Juliana Spicoluk:but there's so many ways to feel inspired and supported in
Juliana Spicoluk:creating change in your life. So really, only the thing that's
Juliana Spicoluk:stopping you is is the first step in the world to really want
Juliana Spicoluk:to change. So once that's there, that's the first step in a
Juliana Spicoluk:beautiful journey ahead. So
Kate Harlow:yeah, love it. Yeah. Maybe, maybe inside of the
Kate Harlow:new truth movement Facebook group, just inspiring any of you
Kate Harlow:who are in there to just start, like, commit to 30 days with
Kate Harlow:Juliana on Bucha, beautiful, and whoever, and like, doing
Kate Harlow:something every day. Oh yeah, days that'll be able to have
Juliana Spicoluk:it. We actually have every January. We
Juliana Spicoluk:would release 30 days, 31 days. And so now we have that saved.
Juliana Spicoluk:So it doesn't have to be January, but anybody that wants,
Juliana Spicoluk:like a challenge or something, we have them on the app. You
Juliana Spicoluk:just log in and you see it, and it'll give you exact, you know,
Juliana Spicoluk:practice. And the last time we did it, there was a different
Juliana Spicoluk:intention for every single day to help you, not just like
Juliana Spicoluk:physically, but also spiritually, to to embody a
Juliana Spicoluk:different component of a spiritual practice into your
Juliana Spicoluk:life. And so that's always a great way, like challenges like
Juliana Spicoluk:that, that hold you accountable, not just having to kind of
Juliana Spicoluk:everyday, scroll and look for something, but to be like, okay,
Juliana Spicoluk:day two, day three, day four. And then you feel like motivated
Juliana Spicoluk:to to complete, you know, 31 days. And it's crazy to see when
Juliana Spicoluk:you actually do yoga for 31 days straight, how you start to
Juliana Spicoluk:change the habitual, you know, chemistry in your brain, like
Juliana Spicoluk:the basal ganglia, and things like, you start to crave it
Juliana Spicoluk:after you like, oh, I one day without yoga or movement, you're
Juliana Spicoluk:like, something feels off, like you're starting to create a
Juliana Spicoluk:beautiful new habits in
Kate Harlow:your life totally. And it feels like yoga feels
Kate Harlow:like it's a shower on the inside when you're by the time you get
Kate Harlow:to the end, good, yeah, that's what it feels like, where it's
Kate Harlow:like you're not only like reworking your energy and your
Kate Harlow:physical body, but the inside, there's this internal shift that
Kate Harlow:happens. I had goosebumps when you said that, imagining what it
Kate Harlow:would feel like after that much, and even devoting yourself in
Kate Harlow:that way and proving to yourself that you can ever. Everyone can,
Kate Harlow:we might, but you can, yeah,
Juliana Spicoluk:yeah, you can find that 20 minutes, 30 minutes
Juliana Spicoluk:a day, yeah, to dedicate
Kate Harlow:to yourself. It's possible, yeah, take 30 minutes
Kate Harlow:off of scrolling on Instagram or Tiktok or whatever other things
Kate Harlow:you distract yourself with, and there you go. You probably have
Kate Harlow:hours on your hands.
Juliana Spicoluk:Very true, very true. Yeah? Love
Kate Harlow:it. All right. Well, thank you so much
Kate Harlow:beautiful. And as always, yeah, so fun. And as always, share
Kate Harlow:this episode with every woman you know who needs to meet
Kate Harlow:Juliana conversation and every woman who wants to burn the
Kate Harlow:script and and live a life from the heart and soul.
Juliana Spicoluk:Love it. Thank you for having me here. The
Kate Harlow:best so fun. Thank.