Hey there, it's Michael. Welcome to Whole Again, A show about helping us embrace life with mindfulness and resilience through the wisdom of cons. Sugi, on Wednesdays, I share a little bit of a longer episode, not too terribly long. Not two, two and a half hours, but more like 15 minutes. But today. We will make it a bit shorter.

Because here in the States, it's our Thanksgiving holiday weekend. It's also the start of the holiday shopping season, so Black Friday, cyber Monday. So we're gonna keep this episode short because I'm willing to bet you probably don't have two and a half hours to listen to a podcast this weekend, and you probably don't even have 15 minutes because things are gonna get busy.

So we'll keep it short.

Back in my corporate days before holiday weekends, like Thanksgiving, I would send a voicemail, which makes me sound really, really old 'cause I don't think anyone actually sends voicemails out to the whole company anymore. But I did it. I had a team of a thousand across the US and in the message I would always thank them for all their work that they did throughout the year.

An expression of gratitude, but I also invited them to find some time to hit pause, take a few deep breaths and reflect about where they are in life and across some very specific areas like their mental and emotional health, their physical health, their financial and career health, as well as their relationship health.

It was an opportunity for them to take stock, to slow it down amid all the busyness and really look in the mirror and evaluate if they wanted to create any type of change. This year, 2025, it's been bananas regardless of where you live. There's been a lot coming at you. You've probably been stretched in ways that have been seen and unseen, and maybe you've carried worry or anxiety for others because some of the things that we've seen this year have been downright terrifying.

And as you carry concern for others, you're still carrying a lot for yourself and your family. And you might have experienced job loss. Or the economic pressure so many people are facing today, and I bet some days you were simply trying to figure out how you were going to make it through. As I mentioned, this year has been a lot.

Our central nervous systems are crying out for some relief. And with all this, with all the crazy and the chaos. You're still here, you're still standing. You might be healing. Truth be told, we all are because we're all going through something whether people realize it or not. But again, you're still here.

You found a way to keep showing up and you put your energy, your ripple effect, as I would say, into the world. You used your voice, you spoke up, you reached out, you pulled people up. You were that hand on their back. Sometimes you were maybe the kick in the behind that they needed, and I hope others did the same for you because ultimately we need all of us.

We humans, we need other humans. Life Indeed is not some solo project. We need each other to go far. So thank you for all that you did so far this year to show up, to make things a little bit better than they were yesterday for showing up and. Creating the conditions that can lead to a better tomorrow. So this holiday weekend, I'll invite you to take a moment to pause, to take a few deep breaths and reflect after Thanksgiving is over in between all the rushing around to get all the good deals, find some space.

For you to simply be without scrolling your phone or listening to something or watching something, just a moment to settle in and reflect on where you are in life and how you feel about your mental and emotional wellbeing, your physical wellbeing, where you happen to be with your finances and career and your relationships.

I also wanna share three prompts with you that you can use to generate more thought. You can also use them if you happen to be someone who likes to journal, whatever the case may be. I hope these prompts are helpful to you. The first one is, what strength did I show this year that I might have overlooked?

The second is what part of myself needs more compassion right now? And the third one is, what small amount of joy we love joy here, connection or peace am I grateful for from this year? Think about those as well as just how you feel about where you happen to be in life. Take this moment for yourself.

Before rushing back in to a new month and the end of the year, and again, thank you for showing up. Thank you for weathering all the storms that you have weathered. Thank you for getting through 100% of your bad moments together. We're here. Together we can create a better tomorrow, not just for some of us, but for all of us.

So I wish you and your family and your friends a very meaningful, happy Thanksgiving. And before you rush off to start working on your side dishes, let's take a nice, generous breath in together. Breathe. Up fully through your nose and deeply down into the belly, noticing your lungs expanding. And now release the breath slowly through your mouth, inviting your body to relax.

All right, I hope that felt good.

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Until then, remember, you can always come back to your breath. You've got this. And. We've got you.