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This podcast is for you, the Modern Man. I'm Dr Anne Truong,

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your host. I'm an intimate health medical doctor and best

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selling author of the book, Erectile Dysfunction Fix. I'll

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do a deep dive into sexual health and performance and how

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it affects men of all ages and backgrounds. So let's get

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started, and be sure to visit my website at

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sexualhealthformenpodcast.com for more information and

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resources from the show. See you on the inside.

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Hello there, Modern Man. I'm Dr Anne Truong. I'm a sexual health

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specialist. I've treated over 7000 men with ED. In today's

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episode, we want to ask the question, does a man with ED

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feel desire? I got that from the comment from one of our

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episodes. I wanted to address that. And the bottom line is

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yes. Yes, yes, yes. Most men with ED retain their sexual

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desire. Now, ED and libido, or sexual desire, are distinct

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aspect of the male sexual function. And that often they

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remain independent of one another. While ED affects the

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mechanical ability or the physical ability to achieve or

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maintain erection, sexual desire or libido, the psychological and

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physiological drive for sexual activity, which typically

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persists In most men experiencing ED. Because the

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sexual drive really starts in the brain. So sexual desire

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drive is in the brain. And you know that I always talk about

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that erection starts in the brain first, not in the penis.

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So it has to kind of start with sexual desire and activity. And

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most men that have ED also have their libido and sexual desire.

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But it also helped them be motivated to get their ED

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resolved, because they still have the desire for sexual

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relations. So that is a good thing somewhat as well, unless

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you have depression or anxiety, performance anxiety that goes

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along with that, which then will suppress the desire over a

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period of time. So there's a distinct difference between ED

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and sexual desire. And understanding the relationship

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between ED and sexual desire require that you recognize that

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these represent two components the male sexual function.

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So ED is really defined as the persistent inability to achieve

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or maintain penile erection sufficient for satisfactory

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sexual performance. While libido is simply the desire for sex,

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while ED and libido may occur at the same time, but they are

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quite different. So if a man feels aroused, but the penis may

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not be able to maintain their erection, two separate function,

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even almost two separate nerve path as well too. So the

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research that demonstrates the sexual desire and ED operate as

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separate system, and that many men maintain strong sexual

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interest despite ED. And it also shows that men with low desire

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does not mean that they have worsening ED. That's actually

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good news. Your desire still continues. It's just the

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physicality of able to maintain the erection. But another good

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news that if you have morning erection, this should serve as a

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crucial diagnostic indicator to preserve sexual function. And it

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may just be due that to stress, maybe due to performance

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anxiety. So you want to keep in mind to pay attention to your

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morning or nighttime erection.

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So the bottom line is this, sexual desire still exists even

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you have ED, and it doesn't really decrease unless you have

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long time ED, along with a performance anxiety. More so

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that if you have ED, initially start to get blood work, see

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your doctor and rule out other physical causes of your ED, such

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as high blood pressure, high cholesterol, obesity or

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diabetes. And work the four pillars maintaining sexual

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health with just Mediterranean diet, exercise, even 30 minutes,

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three to four times a week, get adequate sleep and stress

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reduction, and stop smoking, and moderating alcohol. The whole

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point I'm trying to say is that your desire is actually a good

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thing. It persist, but it drives you so that way you can be

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motivated to get rid of your ED about it. And get out of being

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embarrassed. Get out of living with ED and feeling frustrated

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as well. Okay, so use that as the strength and the motivator

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for you to start resolving your ED and getting breakthrough to

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your ED.

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So I hope you enjoyed this episode. I thought it was a

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great question and very, very pertinent to what we've been

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talking about at this point. And just know that there are

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alternatives to getting out of ED besides just medication

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alone. Check out the course I have, Get Wood Now, down below

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to get a road map on how to get out of ED. And also check down

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below for the Mediterranean diet, the Good Wood smoothie.

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Those are yours for free. In fact, the four sexual pillars,

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such as the diet, the Mediterranean diet, I have the

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link down below for you for free and exercise. All you need to do

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is do 30 minutes, three times a week. Sleep, try to get as much

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sleep as you can, seven hours a day. The stress reduction, which

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is either through breathing, check out my video, Breathing

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Out of ED, and then also meditation. You could use an app

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for that. And also exercise will also decrease your stress level

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as well. So check it out. And also know that we have a safe

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and discreet space for you to get out of ED. That's the Modern

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Man Club where we together, we will get you the roadmap for you

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to start getting out of ED to sexual performance again. Check

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it out at noedman.com which is our Modern Man Club. Having said

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that, I will see you in the next episode. Do not suffer in

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silence. Let's create the sexual revolution or sexual longevity.

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Take care.

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Okay, Modern Man, you are not alone and you don't have to

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suffer anymore. ED can feel isolating, frustrating, and even

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defeating. The endless guessing, the quiet shame, the weight of

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not feeling like yourself is exhausting. But here's the

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truth, you are not broken. You are not alone. You don't have to

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figure this out alone anymore. The Get Wood Now Boost Program

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is your step by step, path to sexual confidence and

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restoration. No more suffering in silence, no more trial and

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error, just real solution, real result and the confidence you

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deserve. It's time to take back your power on your term. Let's

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get this journey started together. Check out the course

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at getwoodnow.com. I'll see you there.

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Thanks for listening to the Sexual Health for Men Podcast.

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If you love this episode, then please take a screenshot on your

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and what you like to hear in the future. That will help me know

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what's great for you and I would love to give you the most

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incredible free gift designed to help you improve performance

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quickly. Go to my website at sexualhealthformenpodcast.com to

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get the book, The Five Common Costly Mistakes Men Make When

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Facing ED. I would appreciate if you subscribe, leave a review on

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Apple podcasts or wherever you listen. And just know that you

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can have sexual vitality for life. I appreciate you until

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next time.