Welcome to Love Notes from Rhonda.

And I want to hear about your dream life.

Go ahead.

I want you to describe what your life would be like if it was exactly the life you'd want.

I mean, to the day, to the house, to the people, to how you look, what you wear, anything and everything.

I want you to imagine for a moment throughout the day what your dream life would be like.

See, when you know what you want, when you can see your dream life, when you can be like, yes, this is what I want, then you can start asking yourself some more filtered questions, some more serious questions about what you're willing to do to go get it or which one is a high priority and which ones are, you know, if it's.

It's nice, if it would happen, that would be awesome.

If it would happen.

But I don't care that much or I don't want to make it happen that much.

And when you hear yourself saying that, well, I don't care that much.

I don't know, I don't want to work that hard or, you know, I mean, it's be nice.

But I want you to double check yourself.

Is it because you don't think you can get it?

Is it because you don't think you deserve it?

Is it because you don't want to work that hard?

Is it that you don't know how to get it?

See, I hear you.

There are things in my life that I would like, that would be really lovely, but there are other things that I really want.

So for instance, I have been spending some time in Michigan on the lake, and I love being on the lake.

And I've always said to myself, oh God, I want to live on a lake.

I want to live on a lake.

But I've never been propelled.

I've never been like, yes, now is the time to go live on a lake.

It's never really happened.

Like, the timing hasn't been right, or so I say.

It just hasn't presented itself to me, or so I say.

And I've never really made an effort to go and really find where I want to live on a lake.

Some of it is because it's just not a priority.

Well, yes, probably true.

And like I said, I don't really know where I want to live and what lake I want to live on.

So all of these unknowns basically put that I want to live on a lake to the side.

And as I've been spending some time on the lake this summer, this past year, wow, I really like the lake.

And it's made me really question my commitment to living on a lake.

Or do I want to live on the lake?

Just when it's easy, just when it's simple.

Maybe during vacation.

So it seems like, you know, I've said since I can remember, oh, I want to live on a lake.

That's my dreams, to live on a lake.

But I've made no effort towards that.

And like I said, I travel, I work a lot, I do a lot of things.

I have an amazing life.

So it hasn't been a priority.

Or do I secretly think I can't have it?

Or do I secretly think I don't deserve it?

Hmm.

Some things to think about, isn't it?

So what's your dream life and what have you made action towards?

What have you put aside?

What do you secretly think?

Like, yes, I do deserve that.

Yes, I have earned that, or, yes, I get it because I'm me.

And which ones have you really just put aside because you're not sure it's not a priority, it's not that important.

And then I ask myself this question.

Okay, so ask yourself all those questions.

And I ask myself this question.

If I never live on a lake, is that okay?

Now, from a spiritual perspective, of course it's okay.

But as a human being, as Rhonda, living in this world, I really want to live on a lake.

So I've been asking myself, okay, Rhonda, let's figure this out.

What lake?

When, Where?

How?

Well, I'll leave that to God.

So go ahead, just write down, Imagine your dream life.

Like, really go for it.

Until next time, be fearless.

I love you.