He is the 2014 World Champion of Public Speaking for
Host:Toastmasters International, Dananjaya Hettiarachchi. He is
Host:awesome. He's a TEDx speaker and is among a handful of human
Host:resource development consultants in the Asia Pacific region that
Host:specializes in performance prediction. Dananjaya, thank
Host:you for being with us.
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:Pleasure to be on board.
Host:Can you just talk to us a little bit about what is it like
Host:competing at the World Championship of public speaking?
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:It's an amazing experience, because I
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:come from South Asia, so for us, stepping onto that stage is
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:massive, because, you know, English is our third language,
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:it's been a dream come true.
Host:That's awesome. And I want to apologize, it's going to be a
Host:little fuzzy, because Dananjaya is in Sri Lanka, and so we're
Host:catching him on Skype. So let me ask you this question, what do
Host:you think is the hardest part of being in the contest?
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:I think the hardest part for me
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:throughout the years was being comfortable with who I am. For a
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:long time, I wanted to emulate speakers from the West because I
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:thought that was the way to win the world championship. But for
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:me, I actually discovered my, you know, moment of glory when I
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:decided to stop competing and just start being myself. And
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:that was the hardest part. I think it took me 10 years just
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:to be myself on stage.
Host:How many times had you entered the contest before? I'm
Host:just curious.
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:Well, I started competing in 2006.
Host:Tell us a little bit about how did you develop the speech,
Host:and when did you start to tell that story?
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:Okay, the first cut of the speech, I
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:did it at TEDx speech. Now, what I wanted to give to the audience
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:was, well, there are some people in life that can't figure out
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:what they're good at finding themselves. So if you look at my
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:life, I think every achievement that I've achieved in my adult
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:life has been because of the influence of others. And
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:whenever I wanted to give up, they do step in and made me not
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:make that decision. When you associate the right people, you
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:can achieve great things in life. I did this speech in
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:schools. I did it for children, but a great response. So I
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:wanted to make this into a five, seven minute speech. It took me
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:a year to do that. The challenge is complicated more because in
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:this part of the world, we speak generally faster and the West we
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:seek at about 160 165 words per minute. It just complicated even
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:more, it's not just about cutting back, it's about also
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:slowing down. You have to really pick the most impactful
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:sentences words, because you need to not only cut back, but
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:you gotta take more time. You know, a lot of speakers start
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:this speech with a title or a topic. I always start with my
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:message. And what I do that I take a lot of time on the
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:message. Once I got my message down, I have two principles. A,
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:it has to be simple. B, it has to be inspirational. So until I
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:get that phrase why I don't concentrate about anything else,
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:I just concentrate about what's my short and inspirational
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:message. And then what I do is I start to layer that message with
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:stories that I feel really add value to that message. And then
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:it's about building upwards from that method. So that's the
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:process I actually take.
Host:What are some of the other were there any big lessons that
Host:you learned in terms of, like, specific practical presentation
Host:skills?
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:I think there were three major lessons
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:that I've learned. The first is, I wasn't a very big fan of
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:repetition. I consciously try to position my message my key first
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:at least three times within the speech. So I say once, I say
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:twice, and the third time before I say it, the audience is
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:finished saying so I actively get the audience's some constant
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:involvement into my speech. Number two, I wasn't a heavy fan
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:of props. I never liked to use props on my speech, but I used
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:props and then for me, that enhanced my speech. It gave my
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:speech a more visual and kinesthetic element that really
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:enhanced what I was actually saying. Third thing that I
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:learned, make it about the audience. I had a pool approach,
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:where the audience was getting pulled into my speech, as
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:opposed to me, kind of trusting down advice or, you know,
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:pushing content down to them. So those are three things that I
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:learned.
Host:So repetition, props and allowing for a pull message
Host:instead of a push message. How do you create a pull message
Host:instead of a push message?
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:What I normally do is, it has to do
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:with how you construct the story. Now, there are two types
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:of stories, right? A is where you become the hero of your
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:story, where you're the hero of the story throughout, generally,
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:when you're the hero of your story throughout, it becomes a
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:push message. But what I like to do with my stories, and in all
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:of my speeches, I play the role of the Miller then, then it is
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:about the audience kind of coming into the speech that I
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:experiment, that kind of figure out who this guy is. And it
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:becomes more of like I need to dissect this individual in this
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:team, I normally start off either the anti hero or the
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:failure in the speech, because, as I always say, people connect
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:in failure more than in success. I take some time to explore
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:failure. I make sure that I connect with my audience through
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:my failures, and that really pulls the audience to me. But if
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:I become the hero of my speech from the very beginning, what
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:happens is, then it's about, okay, I've done something really
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:great, and you guys need to now listen to me go and do this. And
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:that then becomes a push message.
Host:Hmm, so last little question, you know, after you
Host:win the world championship of public speaking, what's next?
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:Well, so my Toastmaster career has now
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:ended. Now my next, next thing is to just be a motivational
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:speaker and an inspirational speaker for this part of the
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:world, and I've got to now unlearn being a world champion
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:and learn again how to, you know, start from scratch and
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:being a paid motivational, inspirational speaker, and make
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:this into a business model full of success. So I'm back to
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:square one. I'm learning again, and I'm looking to achieve my
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:goal in the next 10 years.
Host:Dananjaya Hettiarachchi, thanks for being on the show.
Dananjaya Hettiarachchi:Thank you very much.