Hello, and welcome to the Borealis experience. I'm

your host Aurora. And today I want to talk about

men.

Let's just keep it simple. I'm going to talk about men. And why

do we need men,

masculine energy, feminine energy.

roles that we play in our lives, role models that we have and

look up to.

It seems like

that behavior between men and women in heterosexual

relationships has shifted over the last couple of years.

And

not for the better.

I feel that a lot of women feel overwhelmed and frustrated.

And a lot of men feel useless

and lost.

Not all, of course. But what I want to talk about today is the

relationships that keep failing, the conversation that

go into

very aggressive, nasty

directions.

And the only thing I feel I can do about it,

to change it is to talk about what I experienced, what I

observe, and then see and feel of if others can relate or feel.

It's in alignment with their thoughts and values as well.

I feel as a woman nowadays, I want to be in control and

charge, I want to know what's going on at all times.

And it tires me out.

And man,

if you have a true warrior at your side. And it doesn't have

to be a romantic relationship, it can be a friend, for you

allow that masculine energy into your life.

I feel that deep sense of being safe and protected.

And the masculine energy is also very soothing, when we start

listening to it and start

surrender to life and not wanting to control everything at

all times.

What I observed and experienced is that

guys have a very sensitive

and Tanna, let's say for timing.

When it comes to relationships, they know exactly what is good

when,

of course provided that he has gone through his stuff and lives

in the present and not in the past anymore and struggling with

pain and resentment from the past when he's allowed to be his

true self.

And this man is in your presence. Then there's that

feeling of protectiveness and warmth and kindness and wanting

to serve you.

But you also have to allow it. You have to be

still at times and silent and be open to receive it. You have to

do your work before you enter

a relationship

or a friendship with a guy.

And a little disclaimer here I'm only two

Talking about heterosexual relationships.

Because I have no experience with same sex relationships. And

the friends I have, that are in same sex relationships, they

seem to have

different struggles, but not as severe

as struggles and what I can see between men and women, and also

in same sex relationships, you have always one part that has

the masculine role, and the other one, the feminine role,

and doesn't matter with which body parts you have been born.

So just to say that from the beginning here.

So when I talk about masculine and feminine energy, it doesn't

mean that you have a penis or a vagina necessarily. And I just

talk from my experience when I was in heterosexual

relationships.

So when we allow the man to guide us, and to be curious

about what he can show us and open us up to,

then it can

spark energy inside of us that

it's very hard to

reach and experience when you are by yourself.

And for guys, it must be pretty similar to when you have a woman

next to you, who is in tune with her body with herself. Who can

go with her mood swings without beating herself up.

Then she also can open you up to a completely new world.

I have my puppy here in the background. He's nine weeks old.

dozer is his name. And we got him two days ago.

And my 10 year old Pitbull lady that I introduced already, and

she's very nasty with other dogs. And ever since we

introduced this little male puppy into her life, she is

totally relaxed, and doesn't feel the need to be as alert and

controlling as she used to be when she was by herself. And

this is what inspired me to do this episode today because this

little male

guy here, dog, have a post a picture of him too, is bringing

a lot of peace into her life.

And it's beautiful to observe because she's a very jealous

dog. And she's always been in charge of protecting the

chickens here and protecting us people here. And now she has a

companion who can share the load with her. And it's very, very

special to watch. So just a little side note to this

episode. Now. This is also a reason why I sound a little

exhausted today.

Because I didn't get much sleep because their puppy is keeping

me awake at night. And it's a beautiful, beautiful experience.

But just to explain why my voice is a little lower than usual.

So if you take that and what I just offered you

maybe observe your thoughts, your reactions, maybe you

totally disagree with me. Maybe it gets you're really fired up

and you just want to send me a message right away because you

think it's bullshit and we can survive without men and we don't

need man.

Please don't hold back and let's talk about it. Let's have that

conversation because I feel this is exactly the conversation that

is missing out there. We need men. We need masculine energy if

we live in our feminine energy and the masculine energy needs

feminine energy, just as much. And if we can work together, if

we can flow together, this planet can be so beautiful and

peaceful and we can build things and get things done.

But until there's these walls and resentment about the past,

and between us, it will be very hard for both sides.

And I think it's beautiful to see

in the media and, and pretty much everywhere you go that more

and more women

claim powerful positions in society. And a lot of those

women, I look up to, and I'm really proud with.

On the other side, I also see women that still live in

resentment and really bring a very toxic

side

to this table and

want to be in power and want to be in charge and want to be

independent, but not because of the right intentions, but

because of past pain with men, and disappointments and wounds

that not have not healed yet. And those women

seriously harming society, especially if they're raising

young boys and at a young age, trying to suffocate and suppress

their masculine traits that are beautiful when you look at a

little boy. And, again, it can be a little girl that lives more

and her masculine energy, they are energetic, they're curious,

they destroy and build and fight and

want to cuddle and nurses all good.

Except if you are overwhelmed with that intense energy that

enters your life and maybe penetrates your energy,

masculine energy is penetrating. And the feminine energy is kind

of swirling around and embedding

the energy of the masculine. So to all women out there, who feel

that they're still struggling with their past and their

wounds, and that became aware of it, and are working on that. I

can just say, huge respect, because I've been there on that

journey. And it took me quite some time to be at peace with

men again. And for all women out there who enjoy their life and

give themselves pleasure and receive pleasure from from their

partner and can live in tune with nature and don't feel

threatened by

the energetic energy of a man also sharpell. And to all the

men out there, who

went through pain and disappointment, but are still

open to this conversation. I want to say, I want to post so

much more about this topic because I feel this is what we

need to build a stronger society and to feel healthy and good

under our skin.

So you were listening to the Borealis experience today. I

hope my voice was not too tired.

I hope I didn't come across as too esoteric.

If you have questions, shoot me a message. This was not the last

episode about this topic. As you can hear, I'm definitely not a

feminist.

And I will be out there soon again. Take good care of

yourself. Bye bye