Hey, it's David. Welcome back. Change of mind. Spirit. Goodness. Future. Friend. Co-cited. For this episode is part one, where I'm going to be talking about ship. How they, why they, killer. Today's episode, I'm going to be talking about when you're a man and what you're doing. Now, not I'm. You can. You're doing. Want. Then, so are they too. Because every woman wants a safe curity. You want to feel like lax. It doesn't. You want to be the king. You want a prince. You want a man who is, who is bold. Who's tough. Who feels work. And when a man do the of the cure help outright. When a man doesn't care about self-hate, cisgen thing, no one wants. But unfortunately, many you have found man be over the neck. And there's a flip side, which is what a man within the relationship. Ladies, you. So, there are three of the first type is protect, provide a man who is curing a man that all good be. Now, the, this manly man, all the, you know, fairly being, being bold, Civ, inverted, got a lot of different, very, very quiet, really good. Who stuff hit fan, their woman knows and always house here for them. Now, fortunately, type you and far too is, and there's a second type and second type resembles man. Except really, it is the, who seem gruff, rough man, who is bad boy. The man who's self-confident, self-confident here, hurt other women, off day, true, good, vider, man, getting really, they self-hurt, good, round, you is woman, hard, cuz gal. And then there's a third type and great role, bold, probably. And there's a high probability that, but he's not showing up man relation. So, I'm gonna talk to you about why, what you can do, help or his, her, sport self. And you may be to point your relation, really, remember a woman, husband, met, but not proact, household, bills, children, life. The three children have man, who's, and, inevitably, I ask same question, what was he like? And answer, very revealing, cuz, each and every, the man, more or less, so, somewhere along the way, I wanna, bout, step, that occur, with, cause, to, lose. So, step one is, when, when you first, you, being, wanted, her, so, there were a lot of meals, started to, pick out, clothes, you were, mall, he liked to, cuz, it felt good, that have, evolved, really, what, your, or your, should, wear, clause, it may have evolved to, you doing, clothes. I want you to think about, now, what that, your, what are the, start, and I want you to realize, all of, he was doing, he may not doing, but, your man, so, he was a, cook for himself, food for himself, he was a, go to the, grocery store, he was a, car, he was, work, told, sure, shoes may have been, so, post, sure, he may have closed, folded, over, a, chair, piled, lawn, sure, he may have done, laundry, fold, dish, for, wash, wash, vibe, YouTube, you started, to, motivation, doing, pour, love, on, number one, you got, two, people, started, doing, see, most, women, have, observed, poor, life, being, hurt, and, come, through, hundred, years, of, vag, wearing, for, women, only, until, what, years, two hundred, years, maybe, less, treated, older, men, are, today, this, way, so, women, have, always, did, as, men, so, it, just, says, you, would, build, as, a, result, of, being, hurt, there, is, belief, some, level, we, see, this, special, I, see, the, in, where, judge, called, group, set, group, their, approach, and, manipulate, hard, fam, that's, not, this, ever, see, there, is, very, strong, strong, when, don't, this, isn't, health, over, time, hard, soft, natural, bio, exists, but, so, it, is, built, into, most, women, just, to, so, as, a, mech, women, will, ironman, do, so, all, early, on, stage, well, started, now, happens, at, but, you, want, there's, very, little, guard, he, do, now, part, of, that, justification, that, closed, fold, way, food, is, way, but, just, realize, that, a lot, of, okay, so, in, this, first, stage, your, man, knew, how, to, serve, him, you, met, you, started, your, she, stage, two, you, get, uh, do, all, so, he's, take, his, off, the, roof, and, now, there's, a, new, interior, curriculum, that, he, never, learned, and, so, he, even, less, pro, help, because, you, seem, like, you're, a, and, you, have, doing, but, over, this, period, of, time, there's, that, bill, I, am, either, I, does, I, did, he, so, you're, still, willing, do, but, there's, that, as, that, resent, bill, anger, those, things, he, is, doing, you, begin, and, you'll, notice, a, just, hate, which, is, well, do, oh, does, do, way, but, as, this, this, out, that, it, is, hills, and, so, now, you, know, the, there's, I, heard, out, most, kid, home, late, parent, down, late, does, them, right, and, so, there's, a, conditioning, with, man, training, and, challenge, good, out, because, number, one, they, want, be, to, most, good, own, wound, so, there, their, lack, self, rather, than, leash, building, up, now, what, so, them, their, they, want, us, every, feel, do, so, this, to, them, where, now, they're, more, may, see, that, actually, what, going, on, is, he's, in, an, inner, arc, wanting, help, wanting, to, help, motivate, loving, where, leash, does, no, do, or, so, his,his old ways do anymore the new ways learn and he tries so this moves in stage where your man come for all pleat pleat nude where now he's or you don't want it you wanted who was troll charred now you've got him who you darted out who you love who had some certain build of work and now he has no skuzz he outsource his prove you love work really well and living doesn't feel like everything does and still has a trauma relive a trauma bearing a child his mother he would every would do exactly the way that he would do everything or his father or mother now none of this is an excuse for your man right this is a this conversation a is women under their troll order to help recall a balance you're not aware this is then you just walk and I'm gonna record another video did it or another so watch YouTube comment below I will record other video when there was building women good news new order so that you build of your help hello King he's a he okay step one is that way he doesn't broke genuinely wrong with good and important part of that off both on you but also for your so that no long number two oh by the way very very men this is not an episode okay women you close to your man that's fine men bad I'm to stop criticizing him so there are a lot of couldn't but because the part of the brain very day you're over and not feel is ain't good good melon often ratio grow what I am that as a result over insist on what he's doing or wrong there's inappropriation on so one hand I think realize you that he doesn't know how to do those damn starting starting knowledge the next ask for help ask for be okay having to to help you'll get to a place don't help now may say but I ask for help okay but realize there's about entered help you know the energy every are you ask loving are you use ask for tell him Lee be give one of the fly realized own really was I want to daily bait my wife well the reason off on all I don't get up okay fine so then my wrist go and learn marriages why did so I'm proactive why areas you should realize my purity you know this part of women for half loving tell Zack what you know you here's what's really important early stages either do it distract 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that as a man who not he's also not he's also not a good he's built a good man but a good man good man he may not try but he'll can you see you got a goodness do the work do it for him and elevating who is and who he's being Guinness for you love cordella woman feeling Cara I hope you got value I know if you'll really use feels good news first and then to in