It's all about willingness.

The word that I love almost the most is willingness.

It is the difference between stuck and unstuck high.

Welcome to Love Notes from Rhonda.

And today we're going to talk about willingness.

Your willingness and the willingness within you to shift, to change, to make everything wrong, right.

To make everything right wrong.

To turn everything black, white, white, black so that you can find the gray, so you can see for yourself that there is no right way.

There's only your way, the way that's calling you.

And in order to live the life your soul intended, you must have willingness, willingness to choose a life that is yours and yours alone.

Regardless of what anybody thinks, regardless of what anybody says, regardless of what anybody does, regardless of it all, you must be willing to do whatever it is that must be done in order for you to live true to yourself.

Now, I may be saying those words and you might be frightened, like, oh my God, do I have to get a divorce?

Oh my God, do I have to quit my job?

No, none of those things have to happen.

And you must be willing to do whatever it takes to live the life your soul intended.

But what I discover over and over again is that there is sometimes a awkward transition, right?

A challenging, an opportunity for growth transition between who you've been and who you really are.

And that transition, people around you don't know, some of the people around you don't know how to treat.

You don't know what to say or don't know what to do because they don't know who you are anymore.

And in fact, they're right because you haven't known who you are before this moment.

So before, maybe you lived a life that was a good girl or ambitious person or somebody with a good work ethic.

You know, you defined yourself by particular qualities or particular values.

That's how you defined yourself.

And it's wonderful to have values and it's wonderful to have good qualities that you want to attain and that you want to strive for.

Yet you're so beyond that.

You're so more than that.

So I want you to think about willingness.

What is it that you must be willing to let go of?

What must be willing to accept, what must you willing to release, what you must be willing to say, what you must be willing to do in order to live the life your soul intended.

Now, again, you don't have to go do any of it yet.

You don't have to say it yet.

I just want you to know and I want you to be claim and I want you to be willing to be willing to be willing to do what is calling you.

So, no, you don't have to lose all your friends, and you do not have to change jobs and you do not have to, you know, shift your life per se.

The thing that you're working on, the person that you're working on is you.

And there may be a shakeout.

There may be people that love what you're doing and other people that don't know who you are anymore.

And if they say that to you, it's go, well, join the club.

I didn't know who I was either, and I'm just discovering who I really am.

And I actually like who I'm discovering I am.

It's quite surprising.

You can always say that to people.

Yeah, I didn't know who I was.

If anyone ever says, I don't know who you are anymore, you go, yeah, I get it.

I didn't know who I was before.

I completely understand why you wouldn't know who I am.

I didn't either.

Be willing to say the truth.

And right now, you can always lean on that.

You're willing to be willing to be willing in order to do what.

What's before you in order to become the person you are born to be.

So if you find yourself stuck, if you find yourself frozen, if you find yourself in the midst of paralyzation or worry, just say to yourself, I'm willing to be willing to be willing to be wrong about everything.

To find the right life for me.

Until the next time, be fearless.

I love you.