Hello, hello, and

welcome to the Borealis experience. I'm your host

Aurora, and very happy to be spending some time with you

today. Today might not be as relaxing, as usual, but it's

just a topic I'm burning to talk about. It is about the sexual

consent app, the debate, the discussion that is going on

right now in the UK and the US. A couple women came out and

yeah, pointed out guys that were mis conducting, mistreating

harassing women themselves. Sorry. And now the government is

trying to come up with ideas and stuff. And there's the talk

about a consensual sex app, where when you go on a date, and

it gets a little more intimate, you just click on this app and

consent. And yeah, then go about your business. Of course, both

parties do that. And I think this is absolutely dramatic,

too, to know that we reached a point us heterosexuals that

where we need an app to consent, and to make sure that we both

want the same. I don't know how we got there. But I should know

that we definitely need to communicate better and be on the

same page more often, if not all the time. I think this problem

that society is facing right now will not be solved with good old

feminism. I think this is not a problem between men and women, I

think it's a problem of power. And give me a second here it is

a problem between men and women. But there's so many men out

there who have good intentions, a good heart who are shy and

humble. And we can put these guys into the same box, then

these monsters who keep Miss Miss guiding people or misusing

their power. Feminism was good in the 70s was good to a certain

point. And it's still very, very good to get things down when it

comes to equality. But when it comes to sexual harassment, we

have to stick together after the me to movement, there were so

many guys that came out and showed up for us women, and

showed their support and their love and their respect and

communicated it. And it was so beautiful to see. And those same

man, we as women have to protect here and have to Yeah, set

apart. Those are the guys that we need to conquer these other

guys. And then I have a question for women like how can it be

that we give those guys those aggressive bullies so much

power? I think we still are guilty to some degree to fall

for the asshole at times or to be too shy to set boundaries.

And this is on our part we can learn to call those people out

who behave in an aggressive way in in a sexually aggressive way.

We have to learn how to communicate boundaries and how

to be firm with them. And then we have to do everything to also

be listened to and less of course again as up to the judge

up to society. But they've been to many cases where women audio

say that in English. They said something how And, and never

anything happened.

And then there's too many women out there who were raped, and

decided to not speak out because they knew that it's not going to

be a cheap piece of cheesecake to get out and talk about it and

they're not going to feel supported and treated well, they

will be questioned, and they will be put in a corner and

mistreated mentally, even more and emotionally even more. So it

is a very tough topic to address, I get that. But I think

my message here is that we cannot fight that fight on our

own. As women we need good man. If we want to talk about good

and bad here, we need the good supportive, supportive men to

fight this fight, we have to see that those women that were out

there fighting for equality, standing up for feminism, they

had babies, and those babies were not only girls that were

guys too, and they raised those guys in a very good way. And

there's more women out there who raise their boys in a very good

way they respect women growing up, and they know how to

communicate and know how to read what a woman wants and needs. So

we have to, again, protect these men and take them by the hand

and do this together. I hope this all makes sense to you.

It's a very short episode today, because it's an intense topic.

And I don't want to disturb you too much. I just wanted to put

that out there. And hope you have a wonderful rest of your

day. We need each other. I'm all for unity and good

communication. And I'm very excited to be posting a new

episode with Shaun Dustin soon, where we talk about stuff that

we're not proud of we talk about abusive behavior, imperative

behavior, and how we are supporting each other and

helping each other out and can be better people now. And the

toughest, toughest part for both of us was the day to realize

that we were actually abuser. So maybe you can maybe you can see

this, the opposite side and it's said to well take good care of

yourself. And I'll be out there tomorrow. Again.