Dream, dream, dream, dream, dream.

That's what we want to do today in Love Notes from Rhonda.

Hey, I'm Rhonda, and I want to talk about dreaming.

You know, some people don't have dreams.

I was one of those people.

I went through a period of my life where I didn't have a dream, I didn't have a purpose, I didn't know where I was going.

Sure, I had a dream about a house or a dream about a car.

You know, things that I would like to have, but I didn't have a dream in which to go for.

And then there was other times in my life where I had a clear dream.

So I don't know if you're somebody who allows yourself to dream or not, or if you are somebody who has dreams or if you get more of a feeling sense about your future.

But today I want to talk about dreams.

Talk about your dreams.

So whether you're somebody who visually sees things or have a feeling sense of things or just goes around the world and goes, ooh, I like things based on your external stimulation.

That's okay.

All of that supports you and I. Dreaming, dreams, dreams, dreaming.

Dreaming is lovely.

It is wonderful to be able to dream about your future, about what's moving through you, what's coming up for you.

But dreaming without action just keeps things dreams and some dreams.

I've had lots of dreams in my life where it was a nice dream, but I didn't really actually want to make it come true.

I didn't want to put the time and effort in.

It wasn't that needed and necessary in my life.

It was a nice dream.

So, you know, I always wanted to play the guitar, and I've taken guitar lessons over the years here and there, but.

But I've never sat down and really put in a half hour of practice every day.

It is a dream that isn't so urging me on that dream is nice.

I like the dream.

It's a beautiful dream, but it's not something I'm actualizing in my life right now.

Maybe I will in two years, maybe I will in five.

And this is the key.

I don't beat myself up for that.

I don't judge myself.

I don't say, oh, it's so bad.

You've always wanted to play the guitar.

God, Rhonda, no.

I'm just like, yeah, it just hasn't been a priority in my life.

I've got other dreams that are my priorities.

So it's not about fulfilling all dreams, every dream, because I also Think that some dreams have to die in order for a new dream to be birthed.

So your dream, let's talk about it.

What is it that you dream of?

Dream of externally things to have, and internally dream of who you can be.

If you could dream, or if you dream, what does that dream look like for you?

What dream would you like to fulfill?

What dream is calling you?

And maybe you don't think you know how to fulfill it, or if you're supposed to fulfill it.

What dream is nudging you?

What dream is nudging you?

What dream is nudging you?

What about this?

What about this?

What about this?

I want to express this.

I want to share this.

I want to be more of this.

What is calling you?

And again, you may not think of it as a dream.

You might think of it as a calling.

You might think of it as a vision.

You might think of it as an intention or goal.

But today, I just want you to allow dreaming to happen.

Don't put everything in the rigid box of expectancy.

And I better do it if I have a dream.

I can't.

If I'm gonna have a dream, I gotta make it happen.

Nah, you don't just dream.

That is a skill in and of itself to just be able to allow yourself to dream.

If it's during the day, right?

You can even call it daydreaming.

And maybe they give you more permission to allow your mind to wander into possibilities.

Allow yourself to think the unexpected.

Allow yourself to look at other people's lives and go, huh?

What part of that life would I'd like to try on, if any?

Just walk around the world and allow yourself to dream.

Doesn't mean you have to do anything yet.

Just allow dreaming to happen through you and for you dream.

Allow the dream to unfold.

Until next time, be fearless.

I love you.