Welcome to the Faith Based Business Podcast with your host, Pastor Bob Thibodeau.
Speaker AOn this podcast, we interview fellow entrepreneurs who are willing to share their stories, their trials, and their triumphs in business, all in an effort to help you avoid the same obstacles and to achieve success faster.
Speaker ABut at all times, continue to rely on our faith to see us through to victory.
Speaker ANow with today's guest, here is your host, Pastor Bob Thibodeau.
Speaker BHello, everyone, everywhere.
Speaker BPastor Robert Thibodeau here.
Speaker BWelcome to the Faith Based Business podcast.
Speaker BWe are so blessed that you are joining us today.
Speaker BHave you ever felt called by God to lead, but fear, self doubt, or the imposter syndrome kept holding you back?
Speaker BWell, today we're talking with Jim Burgoon, host of the Lead with Jim podcast about how faith driven entrepreneurs and leaders can communicate with confidence and build authentic connections and step boldly into their God given purpose.
Speaker BNow, if you're ready to break free from perfectionism and lead with impact through faith, you do not want to miss today's interview.
Speaker BAmen.
Speaker BLike I said, our guest is Jim Burgoon, host of Lead with Jim, a podcast that's dedicated to helping people communicate effectively, build authentic relationships, and lead with purpose.
Speaker BAmen.
Speaker BJim is on a mission to equip leaders with the tools they need to overcome, like I said, that dreaded imposter syndrome, or try to attain perfectionism, or those who are basically crippled by doubt whether or not they can do this or not.
Speaker BAlso, they can create real impact in both their personal and professional lives.
Speaker BNow, he also teaches how to leverage platforms like YouTube and podcasting to expand their reach and share their message with the world.
Speaker BPraise God.
Speaker BWhich is what we're all about as well.
Speaker BThat's why I wanted to get Jim on the program today, just to bless you and maybe help you over an obstacle that you're encountering right now as well.
Speaker BNow, with all that being said, help me.
Speaker BWelcome to the program, Jim Burgoon.
Speaker BJim, it is a blessing to finally get a chance to have you on the program today, brother.
Speaker BI appreciate you joining us.
Speaker CSame, sir.
Speaker CThanks for having me.
Speaker CI appreciate being here.
Speaker CI appreciate the opportunity for a good conversation.
Speaker DAmen.
Speaker BWell, the first question I always start with is this.
Speaker BOther than that brief information I just shared, can you tell us in your own words, who's Jim Burgone?
Speaker CWell, I mean, that's a long story.
Speaker CSo I'll give you the.
Speaker CThe short Cliff Note version of that.
Speaker CYou know, I am actually.
Speaker CI've been a leadership development coach for somewhere around 20 years.
Speaker CI'm also a dis personality consultant through the John Maxwell team.
Speaker CMy whole mission, my whole purpose, and when God has really called me into the ministry in the marketplace, is to help multi passionate people become the go to authority in their space.
Speaker CAnd, you know, ultimately I want them to become more profitable because everybody needs to make more money.
Speaker CWhy?
Speaker CBecause when you make more money, you can actually do more in the kingdom of God.
Speaker CSo with that being said, I help multi passionate creators, creatives in the entrepreneurial space.
Speaker CSo that's kind of me in a nutshell.
Speaker CBut I'm sure throughout our conversation, we'll unlock a lot of different levels of that.
Speaker COne thing I will say my.
Speaker CMy podcast is actually called Grace in the Grind.
Speaker CAnd so, yeah, so we, because we talk about the.
Speaker CThe hustle and the bustle and the grace that is within the grind that we have, I will be releasing a secondary podcast and may even call it Lead with Jim.
Speaker CAnd that's gonna be solo episodes.
Speaker CSo.
Speaker BYeah, okay.
Speaker BOkay.
Speaker BSo Lead with Jim is just the website or.
Speaker CYeah, Lead With Jim is the website where.
Speaker CWhere kind of like the, the.
Speaker CThe home base for everything where it's going.
Speaker DAmen.
Speaker DAmen.
Speaker BAll right, outstanding.
Speaker BSo what inspired you to create the Grace within the Grind podcast?
Speaker BAnd how is your leadership journey basically shaped the topics that you cover?
Speaker CThat's a great question.
Speaker CAnd, you know, I often tell people, they're like, what happened?
Speaker CDid God tell you this and this to start your podcast?
Speaker CAnd I said, you know, the number one reason I started my podcast is because God created me to be a communicator and I needed an outlet.
Speaker CAnd that's just code for I talk a lot and I need a place to talk.
Speaker CSo I created my own space.
Speaker CAnd so Grace and the Grind came out as a way to do interviews.
Speaker CKind of had conversations around really cool topics such as, you know, the inspiring stories of how people have failed through to success.
Speaker CThat's really what we focus on, you know, so that was first and foremost primary is I.
Speaker CGod wired me to be a communicator, so I needed a place to communicate.
Speaker CThe other thing was, was that I wanted to create spaces to have deep conversations.
Speaker CAnd I didn't want to be somebody who, you know, there's so many business podcasts, so many entrepreneur podcasts out there that do a great job.
Speaker CBut I wanted to come into a different side of it and talk to some people and say, hey, how did you not quit?
Speaker CLike, what was the things, like you're successful.
Speaker CLike today I'm interviewing somebody who's got like three or four businesses and made multiple seven figures.
Speaker CAnd one of the big questions I'm going to ask again is how did you not burn out?
Speaker CHow did you not quit and what can you share with others?
Speaker CYou know the other thing about that my leadership journey started oh gosh when I was younger.
Speaker CI've always been this person who's found myself in the forefront in some position of leadership at all.
Speaker CAnd then I actually get when I gave my life to Christ, I actually gave my life to Christ from being a witch and an atheist.
Speaker CAnd so I had a radical shift over into that and within and it was my wife who brought me to Christ.
Speaker CAnd within six months of me become from moving from 15, 20 years as an atheist, a witch.
Speaker CI was in Bible college within six months of me getting my life Jesus.
Speaker CAnd so you know, I'm sitting here brand new in Bible college and everybody's been Bible bible their whole life and I'm like, I have no idea.
Speaker CI didn't even know what a flannel graph was when he mentioned it.
Speaker CI'm like, I don't know any of that nonsense but, but the Lord just was so gracious.
Speaker CAnd I ended up getting in the ministry and then in that I said, well if I'm going to be in places where I have to navigate people, why don't I dig deep and learn how to navigate at a higher level.
Speaker CSo I ended up going and get my leadership development certification.
Speaker CI have a master's degree, things like that.
Speaker DSo yeah, amen.
Speaker DAmen.
Speaker BPraise God.
Speaker BYeah, you're talking about needing a place to talk, you know and when I, when I was called into the media ministry aspect of it and I'm not going to take the time to go into the whole story but the Lord basically said you need to have a weekly 30 minute online radio program.
Speaker BNow my technical know how at the time this is not an exaggeration, I had to have help check an email at work.
Speaker COh wow.
Speaker BSo I knew nothing about you computer, you know the power went out, right.
Speaker BSo naturally the computer's off.
Speaker BOkay, how do I turn this thing back on?
Speaker BYou know that was me call my son in law.
Speaker BWhere, where do I turn this thing on at?
Speaker BYou know I do nothing and here the Lord's calling me into online ministry.
Speaker BRight.
Speaker BBut you know, so my first radio program was on a flip cell phone on a free website.
Speaker BI didn't have a website, didn't have nothing, you know, but you know, within six months though I had been approached by a radio station Conglomerate.
Speaker BAnd they said, we heard your podcast.
Speaker BWe think you'd be a good fit for our audience.
Speaker BWould you like to be on nationwide AM radio?
Speaker BI think.
Speaker BOh, yeah.
Speaker BBut the catch was, you know, had to pay for it.
Speaker BJust little things, you learn as you go and.
Speaker BBut we could afford that.
Speaker BSo I was on four major markets, but that was my education in broadcast ministry.
Speaker BHad sound quality, time management, editing files, loading the servers, because all done online and, but, you know, that was good.
Speaker BAnd about halfway through that is when I got approved for a disability retirement from my, my employment as a police officer.
Speaker BI'd been injured on the job and all of a sudden I'm living on 50 of the income and I got this big radio budget.
Speaker BSo I knew, well, we're not doing that anymore.
Speaker BAnd that's when Laura said, okay, now start Your own weekly 30 minute online radio program.
Speaker BAnd that's where the, the flip cell phone and the free website came from.
Speaker BWell, I'm sorry, no.
Speaker BHe told me to start the radio station and we started the radio station again.
Speaker BIt's just me speaking into a microphone, no audience, nothing.
Speaker BYou know, my wife didn't even listen to the program.
Speaker BSo when you said what you said, I like, yeah, I'm right there with you, brother.
Speaker BBut within a year and a half, evangelism radio was rated as the number one online Christian talk radio station in the world by shellcast.com.
Speaker Bnice.
Speaker BYeah, we had started, let's say, one broadcaster, which was me, and we ended up with, at one point, we had about 70, 80 broadcasters sending files.
Speaker BAnd I mean, it was, it was a great operation.
Speaker BBut I was, when you said that though, it reminded me of where I started because I was right there with you.
Speaker BRight there with you.
Speaker CYou know what's interesting about that?
Speaker CLike, the whole thing, when you really think about it, like, we oftentimes will question the decision of God.
Speaker CWe'll be like, you know, this doesn't seem right.
Speaker CThis is, seem logical.
Speaker CGod, have you seen me?
Speaker CHave you seen my skill set?
Speaker CRight?
Speaker CBut you understand, like, he said the same thing to Gideon.
Speaker CHe said, you know, mighty man of God, this is a dude who's hiding in a wine press threshing floor, like, hiding.
Speaker CHe's scared and he's like, you know, and it amazes me how one step of obedience can create so many opportunities.
Speaker CAnd you just never knew because you don't.
Speaker CWe don't think that far ahead.
Speaker BExactly.
Speaker DAmen.
Speaker DAmen.
Speaker BWell, you talk about resilience and turning setbacks into strength.
Speaker BCan you share a Personal experience where you had to practice those skills and what you learned from it.
Speaker COh yeah.
Speaker CSo this is like a daily thing for me, like with the resilience.
Speaker CAnd it comes down for two things.
Speaker CLike, so my wife and I have been on podcast about this before.
Speaker CSo anything I say to you guys, this is something we're very open about because we want it to be the mentors we could never find.
Speaker CAnd you'll understand that story in a second.
Speaker CIs, is my wife is diagnosed with four mental illnesses.
Speaker CPretty, pretty severe ones at that.
Speaker CShe had five.
Speaker CThe Lord healed two and the other four are trauma based.
Speaker CSo we've been working out with me and my wife have been together 25 years.
Speaker CShe's the reason I came to Jesus.
Speaker CI deal with, on the other hand, some physical issues, chronic, chronic pain, things like that, as well as I'm diagnosed with complex ptsd.
Speaker CSo we deal with some really challenging things from time to time.
Speaker CGenerally when we talk about resilience, I always define resilience as the ability to get back up.
Speaker CAnd I think we overcomplicate things.
Speaker CLike, you see people seven steps on how to be resilient, 48 things on how to do this.
Speaker CThe reality of it is, is when life hits you, you get two options and that's it.
Speaker CYou stay down or you get back up.
Speaker CAnd resilience is basically building the mindset and the purpose that, understanding that no matter what I go through, God's purpose is bigger.
Speaker CAnd until God calls me home, I'm not done.
Speaker CAnd so we, we, you know, whatever we go through.
Speaker CMy wife was in, what was it, September, was hospitalized again for suicidal ideation.
Speaker CLast week I could barely move for like two or three days.
Speaker CLike it was like crazy.
Speaker CAnd we navigate these things in, in this place of grace that says these things are happening until God changes it.
Speaker CWe've got to deal with the realities of it.
Speaker CAnd I've seen in Christianity a lot of times where we, where Christians will ignore the reality or quote, unquote, try to speak against the reality.
Speaker CBut I find that, you know, we do have to have faith, we do have to pray, but we have to put the ultimate plan and back in God's hands and say, God, whatever you have, whatever your way, be in this, you know, like Jesus in the garden, you know, lord, have your way.
Speaker CAnd my wife and I have just really put ourselves in a place where we say, God, whatever's happening, happened, that we do our thing.
Speaker CWe, you know, our resilience plans are such as, like, okay, when we're down and out.
Speaker CWhat do we need to do?
Speaker CYou know, that's the self care piece.
Speaker CThat's the coping piece.
Speaker CThat's the, you know, the doing the things that are going to make us stay sane and stay healthy and get back on our feet quick.
Speaker CAnd the biggest thing is, is that partnership with God that says God, until you change this and heal it, whether it be to heal me in this life or bring me home and heal me, I'm going to keep getting back up because you are not done.
Speaker CSo then therefore I am not allowed to be done.
Speaker DYeah.
Speaker DAmen.
Speaker DAmen.
Speaker BThat is, that is so true.
Speaker BYou know, when you're talking about that, remind me of proverbs.
Speaker BIt was 24:16 says, you know, a righteous man will fall seven times and rise again.
Speaker BAnd I remember one time, I think it was Jerry Savelle said he interpreted as fall down seven times, get up eight.
Speaker CI've heard that one.
Speaker CYeah, and the same thing.
Speaker CIt's, and it's, you know, it's funny.
Speaker CAnd if you go into like biblical numerology or whatever they call it, you know, 8's the number of new things.
Speaker CSo, you know, get up the eighth time.
Speaker CIt's, it's, it's a new day, man.
Speaker CIt's a new day.
Speaker CGet up and keep getting up.
Speaker BAmen.
Speaker BWell, you know, many people, you know, we mentioned that dreaded imposter syndrome right in the opening.
Speaker BAnd many people struggle with the imposter syndrome and perfectionism.
Speaker BWhat steps do you recommend for overcoming those challenges, especially for faith driven entrepreneurs?
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker CSo one of the things that I always say, imposter syndrome is happening because you have told yourself a lie that you believe.
Speaker CBecause like when we grow up, we've been, most of us, the average person has been through some level of dysfunction, some level of trauma.
Speaker CSo we hold ourselves either lies like, I'm not good enough or I'll never make it, or this is the best that it'll ever be.
Speaker CLike, we hold these lies and we understand that these are deceptions.
Speaker CLike, yeah, we get it at first, but you've got to realize these are deceptions.
Speaker CWhy are they deceptions?
Speaker CBecause, number one, it takes you away from your God given purpose.
Speaker CIt takes away from your God given design.
Speaker CIt takes away from everything that God is trying to do in your life.
Speaker CWhen you, when he says, hey, you're my son who I'm well pleased, and you say I'm not good enough, like, who's going to win that argument really?
Speaker CLike, so you're.
Speaker CWhen we live into a deception we ultimately are now living in two realities.
Speaker CThose realities are what God says about us and what we believe about us.
Speaker CNow God is truth.
Speaker CWhat we believe about us, we either aligns with the truth or it doesn't.
Speaker CImposter syndrome starts to occur when we lean more into the lie than we do the truth.
Speaker CBecause now we're trying to do something, you know, incredible, something impactful, something that means something, something that's bigger than us.
Speaker CAnd we're like, oh my gosh, I can't do this.
Speaker COr I'm the, you know, we, we get into these places where the imposter syndrome gets so intense our confidence is zapped and our.
Speaker CWe give up.
Speaker CAnd I think this is where the challenges become so number one, we have to become self aware.
Speaker CJust face the fact that you believe a lie.
Speaker CI believe a lie.
Speaker CMatter of fact, I was journaling yesterday.
Speaker CI wrote four lies that I believe that were given to me by my father from the abuse and from him leaving, like I have four specific lies that I believe.
Speaker CAnd so, like, I have to acknowledge that, like, you can't just ignore these things.
Speaker CLike if I had a broken leg and just ignored it, the broken leg doesn't go away.
Speaker CThe same thing internally with our emotional and mental health.
Speaker CWe can't just ignore what has happened.
Speaker CWe have to acknowledge it.
Speaker CWe have to say, okay, what has happened has happened.
Speaker CThen we have to move into a place of just, you know, radical acceptance.
Speaker CWhat has happened has happened.
Speaker CI can't change what has happened.
Speaker CI can only change my response to it.
Speaker DAmen.
Speaker DAmen.
Speaker CSo we start combating imposter syndrome with that process, the acceptance, or actually the acknowledgment, the self awareness, the acceptance.
Speaker CAnd then what am I going to do next?
Speaker CA big question we need to ask.
Speaker CWhat comes next?
Speaker CIs this process easy?
Speaker CAbsolutely not.
Speaker CBecause the longer you believe the lie, the more true you think the lie is.
Speaker CAnd so when we're facing these places of imposter syndrome, we have to make constant decisions and step back and say, what am I believing?
Speaker CHow am I believing?
Speaker CHow's it directing or driving me?
Speaker CAnd then what do I need to do in response to that?
Speaker CBecause this is not what God is saying.
Speaker DYeah, amen.
Speaker DAmen.
Speaker BThat is so true.
Speaker BAnd you know, just, I guess you could say Summer is it.
Speaker BIt's all a mental game, basically, you know.
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker BAnd that's just like basic training in the military.
Speaker BYou know, the first time I looked at that huge tower, they wanted me to climb up there and then shimmy across ain't no way, you know, no way, no way.
Speaker CYou look at that thing, you're like, yeah, I quit.
Speaker BYou know, it's like, and, and so like, are you crazy?
Speaker BYou know, and then, you know, everybody's lined up, they're going through it, and now it's your turn.
Speaker BWell, you don't want to be embarrassed and sit there and cry like a baby, you know, saying, I can't, I can't, you know, Right.
Speaker BBecause so up you go and, you know, now you're up there.
Speaker BNow, you know, it's like inching across, inch across.
Speaker BBut in the end it's like, man, that was fun.
Speaker BI mean, when I was, when I was a drill sergeant, drill sergeant school, they, you had to go through everything all is like a three week basic training course because they had to, you had to prove you could still do it.
Speaker BThen they taught you how to teach it, then you had to do it again, showing them that you knew how to teach it, you know, and so you Basically, in that 12 week period, you went through basic training three times again, you know, oh, nice.
Speaker BAnd so by the time I went, I hit the trail with trainees, I could demonstrate how to go across that thing.
Speaker CYou mastered it, you master it.
Speaker BExactly.
Speaker CThere's a, there's a great principle in that too, is number one is, you know, to the listener, listen, life doesn't come with safety nets.
Speaker CWe wanted to, but life doesn't come with safety nets.
Speaker CAnd so either you're going to participate in life or you're going to stand on the sidelines.
Speaker CAnd I think that like, you know, even with your example, it's like you joined, you did it, you did it again, and you did it again to where you became a master of it.
Speaker CAnd I think the Holy Spirit does that with us a lot of times because he's trying to push us to mastery, understanding.
Speaker CHe is the master.
Speaker CBut, you know, as a shepherd who is under a shepherd, you know, we have to follow the leader and the leader is the master who wants to create masters, who wants to create masters or what we want to say in, you know, disciple maker, who, disciples, disciple makers, you know, this constant leadership quote thing.
Speaker CBut we ultimately come back to this place of we've got to get out of this thought process that unless I feel safe, I'm going to do it.
Speaker CWe've got to realize life doesn't come with safety nets.
Speaker CBut we still have to make decisions to participate so that we can become confident in the doing part of it.
Speaker CSo that at the end of our Life.
Speaker CWe're not looking back saying, I wish I would have.
Speaker BExactly.
Speaker DAmen.
Speaker DAmen.
Speaker BYou know, what are some of the common mistakes that people make and say in the areas of communication and emotional intelligence and leadership, and how can they improve?
Speaker CI think emotional intelligence is the number one thing that isn't taught, that needs to be taught.
Speaker CMore so than anything else.
Speaker CIt's.
Speaker CIt's ignored.
Speaker CWhy?
Speaker CBecause in leadership, we focus a lot of times on results.
Speaker CWe're so result driven.
Speaker CWe're so like, get it done, get it moving.
Speaker CLet's get the people in the place.
Speaker CLet's do the organization.
Speaker CBut we forget the fact that organizations are developed by people.
Speaker CThey're run by people.
Speaker CI think John Maxwell said, the only asset in your organization that increases in value is the people.
Speaker CAnd if that's the case, as a leader, then I should be constantly working on my emotional intelligence.
Speaker CIn fact, I don't even like the.
Speaker CThe term emotional intelligence.
Speaker CI actually changed it slightly to emotional emotional fitness because I want action words.
Speaker CListen, I'm smart, but I don't want to be smart about how I feel.
Speaker CI want to be fit.
Speaker CI want to be activ.
Speaker CI want to know not only how I feel, but what I need to do with what I feel.
Speaker CAnd so the.
Speaker CThe reality of it.
Speaker CSo the best leaders are those that have emotional fitness to the level where they can navigate their own feelings and then help others navigate theirs.
Speaker CAnd I think this is the number one thing, again, that is completely missing in leadership.
Speaker CLike, you get occasionally some people who can do it, but I think it needs to be much, much, much more profound and prolific because again, you're always going to deal with people like, yeah, there's never going to be a time where you're not dealing with people unless you're one of those.
Speaker CAn introvert who just wants to sit in your office and do nothing all day and just kind of like, you know, write books that you'll never talk to a single soul.
Speaker CLike, okay, great, that's you.
Speaker CWe, we honor YouTube.
Speaker CBut 99.99999 of people will deal with people.
Speaker CAnd so emotional fitness is, I think, the number one thing we fail at because it takes work, it takes challenging.
Speaker CYou have to confront things.
Speaker CYou have to make sure that you're aware.
Speaker CAnd this is going to take a lot of time and effort, but it's going to have the biggest payoff you'll ever have.
Speaker DAmen.
Speaker DAmen.
Speaker BLet's shift gears a little bit.
Speaker BAnd in what ways does YouTube and podcasting help leaders and entrepreneurs basically amplify their impact.
Speaker BAnd.
Speaker BAnd I guess a follow up to that would be, you know, what advice would you give someone just starting out in those mediums?
Speaker CYeah, so the biggest thing that.
Speaker CAnd you've already kind of said it in the question, it's.
Speaker CIt amplifies your voice.
Speaker CLike, a lot of times we have some of the greatest people who have no voice.
Speaker CLike, they sit in their rooms and they have the greatest thoughts and they have the most impactful way of speaking, but nobody hears them.
Speaker CAnd I think that's the travesty, because I don't want people who God has gifted in a way to be able to communicate, to share a message, to evangelize whatever it is, to be the world's best kept secret.
Speaker CI think that's a travesty.
Speaker CAnd so when we get on things like podcasting, when we get on things like YouTube, what we're doing is we're creating our own platform to allow our message to go out into the world.
Speaker CAnd whatever message God has put on your heart, that's the message you share forth.
Speaker CYou know, some of you guys are called to business, some of you guys are called to ministry, some of you guys are called to business.
Speaker CMinistry in business, which is what I'm called to.
Speaker CAnd so, like, we have a platform that we're developing that will amplify it.
Speaker CPodcasting and YouTube.
Speaker CDifferent audiences, different breeds of people.
Speaker CYou can put podcasts on YouTube, but ultimately what it comes down to is I'm getting good at, you know, my craft so that I can put my voice out there, that I can put the message out there for whoever needs to grab it.
Speaker CNow, the new person who needs to start.
Speaker CThe number one thing I'll say is don't get hung up in the perfectionism of it.
Speaker CJust start.
Speaker CFive years ago, I wish I would have taken.
Speaker CI oftentimes joke that I'm a recovering perfectionist and a recovering people pleaser.
Speaker CSo, like, I wish I would have taken my advice those five years ago, because then I would be five years further in my podcasting world than I am now.
Speaker CBut I didn't.
Speaker CI wanted it to be perfect.
Speaker CI wanted to be so good.
Speaker CEverything had to.
Speaker CThe colors had to be right.
Speaker CListen, your first 50 to 100 videos on YouTube, your first 50 to 100 podcasts are going to absolutely suck.
Speaker CJust embrace it.
Speaker CJust get out there.
Speaker CJust realize that everything comes in phases.
Speaker CAnd phase number one is to develop the skill set you need so that phase two, you can move into the growth.
Speaker BYep.
Speaker DAmen.
Speaker BI Laughing because, oh, it was probably a year or so ago.
Speaker BI was transferring some files around.
Speaker BI went back to, like, the first 10 episodes I ever did it, you know, and I clicked that, and I'm like, remember, this is on a flip cell phone on a free website, right?
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker BI was like, why did anybody even listen to this?
Speaker BIt's so cringey.
Speaker CYou look back at those, you're like, oh, I look back at some of my first videos, and I'm like, oh.
Speaker CBut I don't take them off because they're there as, like, kind of historical records now.
Speaker BYeah, exactly.
Speaker BExactly.
Speaker BAnd then when it comes to perfectionism, you know, being in the military and when I was commissioned, transitioned from enlisted to commission our com.
Speaker BOur squadron commander was one of the requirements for officer development was, you know, pick a leader and study them.
Speaker BRight.
Speaker BSo I picked George Pat, and.
Speaker BAnd one of his sayings was, you know, I want a good plan implemented now is better than a perfect plan tried later.
Speaker BAnd, boy, that just resonated with me, and it stuck with me, you know, in business and.
Speaker BAnd everything else.
Speaker BLike you said, you know, just, you know, get it up where it's good enough and go for it.
Speaker BYou can perfect it later.
Speaker BAnd.
Speaker BAnd like I said, listen to some of them first dozen episodes.
Speaker BWhen I started out in podcasting, I definitely was not imperfectionism.
Speaker CYou get into these places, man, and you're like, I need to be so good, because.
Speaker CWhy is that?
Speaker CBecause we will look at John Maxwell, we'll look at Brandon Bouchards, we'll look at Tony Robbins, and we think our very first episode needs to be that.
Speaker CAnd it's not like we will, whether consciously or unconsciously, compare ourselves to people who are 25, 30 years down the road to our day.
Speaker BRight.
Speaker BYeah.
Speaker CAnd that's the biggest challenge, like, there.
Speaker CYou're not going to be somebody who's been doing this for 20 years.
Speaker CLike, I've been speaking on stages, whether through the podcast, not podcasting.
Speaker CWell, yeah, even the podcasting thing.
Speaker CBut, yeah, you know, I was preacher for 15 years.
Speaker CI was.
Speaker CI did outside leadership conferences and different things.
Speaker CLike, I've been on stages for 15 to 20 years.
Speaker CLike, my day one, the first speech I ever did, lasted an hour, and I read the whole thing, and I never even looked at the audience.
Speaker BWow.
Speaker CLike, I was so nervous.
Speaker CIt was a youth ministry, and it was like.
Speaker CAnd interesting enough, it was the largest day we've ever had at that youth ministry.
Speaker CAnd it was like 60s teenagers.
Speaker CAnd the whole time, I'm I'm shaking with the notes in front of my eyes and I never looked up to see even who was in the room.
Speaker CAnd it was funny because it was my.
Speaker CIt.
Speaker BThe.
Speaker CI, I remember it to this day, the title of it was Relational Evangelism.
Speaker CAnd I was not being relational at all.
Speaker CI was just reading a script I wrote and it was like an hour and ten minutes I read.
Speaker CNow I barely even glance at my notes.
Speaker CLike it's a process.
Speaker CYou just got to embrace the process.
Speaker DAmen.
Speaker DAmen.
Speaker BThat is true.
Speaker BI remember my first sermon when I was, when I told my pastor I was called into the ministry and, and he said, okay, so, you know, and we'd had this discussion before, about six months before, I said, I think I'm being called into the ministry.
Speaker BAnd he told me, come back when, you know, that was the end of the discussion, you know, and I kept arguing, God, you can't be calling me, you know, how I lived, you know, and how could you call me, you know, type thing, right?
Speaker BI finally said, okay.
Speaker BI told the pastor, okay, well, our church at the time that I was in, way back in the day in Texas, it had a group of churches and every month on a one Saturday evening they get together and, and they'd give like four sermonettes.
Speaker BFour of the pastors give like 15 minute talks and, and then they go in the back for fellowship and stuff.
Speaker BAnd he said, our church is holding a fellowship, the conference this week.
Speaker BThis.
Speaker BOh, it's a Friday.
Speaker BThis Friday night.
Speaker BSo you're going to deliver the message.
Speaker BWhat I mean, he said, if you're called to preach, you'll preach, we'll find out.
Speaker BYep.
Speaker BSo my first sermon.
Speaker BYeah, exactly.
Speaker BAnd as a military town, you know, so that's what they were doing.
Speaker BAnd, and my first service on Peter walking on the water, right?
Speaker BThere was eight steps went down from the platform, down to the audience.
Speaker BAnd I'm talking about.
Speaker BAnd Peter got out of that boat.
Speaker BAs long as he kept his eyes on, jeez, everything is fine.
Speaker BBut they started going, you know, the closer he got, he started looking around and then I missed a step all the way to the bottom, right.
Speaker BAnd jumped up and said, and that's what happens when you take your eyes off Jesus.
Speaker BYeah, the whole place just erupted into applause, you know, and it's like this 86, 87 year old senior pastor, he was like over the conference, you know, after we got done, he pulled me aside, he goes, that was the best recover I've seen in my entire life.
Speaker CRecovery ever.
Speaker BSo, yeah, oh, boy.
Speaker BAnyway, praise God.
Speaker BI just brought back that memory.
Speaker BBut how do you align your leadership and business with your faith?
Speaker BAnd what advice would you give to others who want to lead, you know, authentically?
Speaker BThey don't want to be faking it, but without compromising their beliefs.
Speaker CSo when you're in the business world, in the entrepreneur space, obviously a lot of these guys don't want it that they're not Christians, they're not believers.
Speaker CAnd that's okay, because I want to be around them.
Speaker CI want to be around people who need Jesus.
Speaker CAs much as I love the people of the church, as much as I love Christians, I want to be around people who've.
Speaker CWho may never actually be in church.
Speaker CAnd so one of the things that I do is I've never been somebody who feels the need to have to.
Speaker CYo, you need to, you know, proselytize and evangelize all the time.
Speaker CLike, you need to be with Jesus and blah, blah, blah, man, you gotta get into a place that if you want to be authentic relationships first.
Speaker CGuys, like, I'm.
Speaker CI'm around some really influential business people, and they know, like, I just talk about Jesus so authentically, because Jesus is.
Speaker CI'm in love with Jesus.
Speaker CLike, it's not like something I have to do.
Speaker CIt's like, if I was talking about my wife too.
Speaker CWe.
Speaker CWe talked about it here on the podcast even before.
Speaker CLike, it just naturally comes from me because I spend so much time talking to Jesus.
Speaker CSo it's so easy for me to talk to people about Jesus because I spend so much time talking to him.
Speaker CSo in the entrepreneur space, it's so natural when it comes up.
Speaker CIt's like, I'm talking about an old friend to a friend that people are so receptive of that.
Speaker CThe second thing you got to realize is, like, we've got to remove ourselves from church mentality when we go into the space.
Speaker CSo not everything needs to be a Bible study.
Speaker CNot everything needs to be a sermon, but you can live your characteristics and your character out.
Speaker CWhy?
Speaker CBecause the Bible is all about, in faith, integrity.
Speaker CIt's about forgiveness.
Speaker CIt's about love.
Speaker CIt's about these things, right?
Speaker CAnd I can live those out.
Speaker DAmen.
Speaker CLive by the Bible without having to be constantly in your face.
Speaker CDo you know that's Bible?
Speaker CIt's Bible to be integrity.
Speaker CIt's Bible to be this, like, you know, I think we get.
Speaker CWe turn off so many people is because we get to be like, this real kind of like, Christian creepy.
Speaker CInstead of just being like, my life Was radically shifted and changed.
Speaker CLike, I think I told you.
Speaker CI don't know.
Speaker CIt was during the interview, before the interview.
Speaker CBut, like, I got saved out of witchcraft and atheism, like, and it was by my wife, who was like.
Speaker CShe didn't even come and told me, like, she got saved two years before I did.
Speaker CAnd it wasn't even like, she was like, you need Jesus.
Speaker CIt was like her statement said to me, I'm following Jesus and this is the way I'm gonna go, and this is what he wants from me.
Speaker CI'm either gonna.
Speaker CI'm inviting you to go with me, or we may not be together afterwards.
Speaker CThat was it.
Speaker CLike, she stood up like that.
Speaker CThat was.
Speaker CShe was living according to the character that she had.
Speaker CAnd it set me on a.
Speaker CLike, hold on.
Speaker CAnd for, like, a year, I was studying, who is this Jesus that.
Speaker CThat.
Speaker CYou know, my wife has got the.
Speaker CYou know.
Speaker CAnd it really got me to a place to where I searched God out and I got saved in a little old country church.
Speaker CI got saved.
Speaker CBut that was the thing.
Speaker CIt was.
Speaker CIt wasn't like her in my face saying, you need Jesus and you need this.
Speaker CThat it was, I'm gonna live according to my faith, and I'm gonna live it out loud.
Speaker CAnd that's where it becomes infectious, is when it's not, like, forced, when it's not in your face, when it's not this religious standard of, I have to do this.
Speaker CI don't have to do anything.
Speaker CI get to.
Speaker DAmen.
Speaker DAmen.
Speaker BAnd you want to.
Speaker CYeah, I want to.
Speaker CYeah, absolutely.
Speaker DAmen.
Speaker BAmen.
Speaker BWell, I know there's someone out there right now listening to us.
Speaker BThey may have some questions that we didn't cover today or.
Speaker BOr they'd want to reach out to you now.
Speaker BHow can they do that?
Speaker BHow can someone get in touch with you?
Speaker COh, yeah, absolutely.
Speaker CSo you can go over to my.
Speaker CMy site.
Speaker CIt's called leadwithjim.com and if you hit Forward slash bio bio, you'll get into a place where you can book a call with me, you can hit my socials, you can find my podcast.
Speaker CThere's even a couple free gifts on there for you.
Speaker COne of them is called the Winner's Mindset, which, if you read it, it's 15 affirmations and truths that you can dive in to develop a mindset of a winner.
Speaker CThat's all right there.
Speaker CLead with jim.com forward/bio.
Speaker CAnd I would love to be able to connect with each and every person.
Speaker CYou can also send me a message through any of my socials.
Speaker CLead with Jim on all my all the socials.
Speaker DAmen.
Speaker BI'll put links all this in the show notes below.
Speaker BFolks, today's interview is all about stepping into your God given leadership with confidence and like I said, honest Podcast Grace with the Grind.
Speaker BJim Burgon shares powerful insights into every episode about overcoming fear, conquering the imposter syndrome, perfectionism and other obstacles that we all face.
Speaker BAll while building authentic connections and leading with faith.
Speaker BPraise God.
Speaker BI want to encourage you.
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Speaker BReach out to Jim, subscribe to his podcast, subscribe to his YouTube channel, order his resources.
Speaker BPraise God.
Speaker BHe's making them available to be a blessing to you.
Speaker BAmen.
Speaker BJim, I want to thank you again for taking the time come on the program today, just sharing with us.
Speaker BI do appreciate it brother.
Speaker CWell thanks for having me.
Speaker CI appreciate being here.
Speaker BAmen folks.
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