1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:01,740 Hi, and welcome to the Talent Trade. 2 00:00:01,949 --> 00:00:05,910 This is Stephanie Maas, partner with Thinking Ahead Search. 3 00:00:06,270 --> 00:00:10,079 So if anybody knows me at all. 4 00:00:10,860 --> 00:00:19,320 You know that there are a couple of things that I am a total dork goofball over the top person about. 5 00:00:19,709 --> 00:00:20,370 One is cake. 6 00:00:20,730 --> 00:00:26,010 The other one is the idea of thankfulness and gratitude. 7 00:00:26,369 --> 00:00:40,830 Many, many years ago when I started in the business, one of the things that was taught to me very early on was about what you can and cannot control in a 100% commission-based sales career. 8 00:00:41,099 --> 00:00:43,104 And the first thing was your work habits. 9 00:00:43,825 --> 00:00:45,955 Then the second thing was your attitude. 10 00:00:46,135 --> 00:00:54,715 For a long time, I tried the kind of, everything's coming up, roses, sunshine, unicorns type of attitude. 11 00:00:54,925 --> 00:01:02,604 And while I definitely believe in positive thinking and putting good stuff out there, it's not really who I was. 12 00:01:02,904 --> 00:01:09,925 Several years into my career, I got introduced to the idea of having an attitude of gratitude. 13 00:01:10,524 --> 00:01:12,235 And let me assure you. 14 00:01:12,645 --> 00:01:21,554 That fit me and my personality perfectly, and I found that even in the darkest, hardest, most challenging times. 15 00:01:22,965 --> 00:01:26,115 I could always find something to be thankful for. 16 00:01:26,655 --> 00:01:33,795 And as we approach this holiday season, Thanksgiving is one of my favorite holidays for a couple different reasons. 17 00:01:33,795 --> 00:01:38,054 First, I love the food, but I like that there's no other real chaos. 18 00:01:38,295 --> 00:01:39,645 There's no gift wrapping. 19 00:01:39,645 --> 00:01:42,585 There's, it's just getting together with people that you love. 20 00:01:42,585 --> 00:01:48,315 And I'm a total wpo sitting around telling the people that you love how much you love and care about them. 21 00:01:48,315 --> 00:01:49,485 And if you can't be together. 22 00:01:49,910 --> 00:01:53,240 Then you're texting them or calling them or whatever the case may be. 23 00:01:53,809 --> 00:01:55,639 I love that about that day. 24 00:01:55,729 --> 00:02:03,800 I have the same traditions that I've had for years, which include getting up watching the Macy's Day parade while I start baking food. 25 00:02:03,800 --> 00:02:08,600 I love serving others, so preparing a big meal is not hard for me. 26 00:02:08,600 --> 00:02:09,770 I'm super thankful for that. 27 00:02:10,100 --> 00:02:12,770 Get things going in the oven, that smell good. 28 00:02:12,980 --> 00:02:18,820 Probably throw in a couple glasses of wine, get mushy, and constantly telling everyone how much I love them and how thankful I am. 29 00:02:19,440 --> 00:02:25,200 This year in particular, I can't even count the incredible blessings that I've had. 30 00:02:25,590 --> 00:02:30,990 I'm ridiculously thankful for my friends, my family, my health. 31 00:02:31,320 --> 00:02:36,330 I am incredibly thankful that I absolutely love my job. 32 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:42,570 I am incredibly thankful for the clients that honor me by letting me represent them out in the market. 33 00:02:43,095 --> 00:02:45,645 I'm incredibly thankful for my candidates. 34 00:02:46,065 --> 00:02:51,465 I get to meet just some of the most incredible, interesting people. 35 00:02:51,585 --> 00:02:59,145 I am thankful for this podcast and my other one that helped me grow professionally and talk about meeting some incredible people. 36 00:02:59,385 --> 00:03:07,965 I truly cannot remember a time where I have been happier and happiness actually feels superficial to me. 37 00:03:08,355 --> 00:03:10,425 I might have to change the word to joyful. 38 00:03:10,950 --> 00:03:25,080 Nothing is perfect, and I'm not saying that there aren't things that are hard or, or difficult because there are, but I have really learned to experience things at a deeper level, which include changing the idea of going from being happy. 39 00:03:26,310 --> 00:03:27,360 To being joyful. 40 00:03:27,780 --> 00:03:30,420 I know the holidays aren't the same for everybody. 41 00:03:30,870 --> 00:03:34,230 For some people it is a very challenging time. 42 00:03:34,500 --> 00:03:44,640 I think for a lot of folks it can be a very lowly time, and I just wanna say even in the midst of all of my joy and thankfulness and gratitude. 43 00:03:45,195 --> 00:03:48,855 I still think of those that it is not an easy time for. 44 00:03:48,885 --> 00:03:49,845 You're in my heart. 45 00:03:49,845 --> 00:03:50,625 You're in my thought. 46 00:03:50,625 --> 00:04:02,445 You're in my prayers and I hope, and my wish to you is even if this holiday is difficult or challenging, I hope you can find something to be thankful for. 47 00:04:02,865 --> 00:04:09,525 So thank you for listening, letting me share a little bit about me, and happy Thanksgiving.