We all interact on LinkedIn, but you don't really know who's
Rob:the person behind the profile.
Rob:The idea is to meet you without knowing much more than what's on your profile
Rob:and what's immediately observable.
Rob:Just to get a sense of, where have you come from and how do you
Rob:come to believe what you believe.
Rob:If you can just give us like an overview of what you do of basically what's
Rob:on your profile and like a ten second fit of what someone might know of you.
Rob:I just, in January, stood up The Adaptologist with a fellow
Rob:co founder, Amanda Greenwood.
Rob:We provide integrated coaching and learning solutions for leaders and for
Rob:teams so that organizations can adapt to the scale and pace of change that
Rob:they face, that's what we're doing.
Rob:We're helping organizations adapt.
Rob:We're helping people become happier.
Rob:That sounds great.
Rob:So people being happier in the sense of everyone working together,
Rob:so organizationally happier and individuals happier because they
Rob:fit into it and, meets their needs,
Rob:Amanda and I've had between us 50 years of, experience in change
Rob:and in leadership and in coaching.
Rob:And one of the things we've seen quite regularly is.
Rob:What I've done, change programs that achieve what they set out
Rob:to achieve, they're too slow.
Rob:And escalating costs, for example, and things like that.
Rob:And if we think about the world at the moment, when we think about how rapidly
Rob:changing customer expectations are in technology development, particularly
Rob:with AI, you've got organizations, I think, that are designed in a
Rob:way that are not for this era.
Rob:They're industrial age, ways of working and thinking.
Rob:And the consequence of that, of course, is what happens is that you get
Rob:this mentality of do more with less.
Rob:So you've got this pushing down the organization to do more with less.
Rob:And that has a huge impact on people of course.
Rob:So that's why I think we're seeing burnout, we're seeing,
Rob:poor engagement results, and we're seeing people vote with their feet.
Rob:Over the years we've seen the sort of quiet quitting thing that went across
Rob:LinkedIn and died off a little bit.
Rob:And and the great resignation was another one.
Rob:And I think a lot of this is a cause of organizations just not adapting, not
Rob:being fit for today's world, really.
Rob:That's been one of my themes.
Rob:People stick with what works and we had the industrial revolution,
Rob:hugely successful but that was about making, mining and moving stuff.
Rob:And now it's about people, it's knowledge work
Neil:and
Rob:the organizations that we had for that are completely command and control.
Rob:It didn't matter how someone felt back then, because all you had to do was
Rob:press a button and keep the line going.
Rob:And now it's critical how much return we get from the teams.
Rob:It's dependent on how people feel.
Neil:You asked me about what, what lies behind.
Neil:Because I think I've just talked about the profile and what lies behind that for me.
Neil:Because you'll see this, I'm sure, as well, that in our line of work, when
Neil:we're engaging with people, particularly one to one I have a very strong desire
Neil:to be inclusive and collaborative for, for reasons I can go into if
Neil:you're interested, but and through that engagement, that collaboration
Neil:with people and those one to one discussions, when you hear through
Neil:that, you're the first person to ask somebody how they feel, for example,
Neil:or what their opinion is you can really see almost a relief coming off people.
Neil:And in some instances that has led to, people just bursting out in
Neil:tears, frankly, because they're under so much stress and simply asking a
Neil:few questions and showing concern and an interest in them, leads to,
Neil:leads to that kind of breakdown.
Neil:But by the end of the call, they're just so grateful for
Neil:being asked for their opinion.
Neil:And this is just about, being engaged and, seeing too many, had
Neil:too many conversations that have resulted in that kind of response.
Rob:It's sad, isn't it?
Rob:People just want to be seen and heard and people have so much
Rob:enthusiasm, passion and skills and most of it is never tapped into.
Rob:Okay.
Rob:So you help people to get more.
Rob:So what exactly does that look like?
Neil:So through through the experience of Amanda and I we've seen some common themes
Neil:that have emerged in that inability to act in an agile way . And we've effectively
Neil:identified four practices that we bed into organizations that make the difference.
Neil:And so those four things, there's an overarching one around.
Neil:an evolutionary approach to change.
Neil:So this is recognizing there is no one size fits all cookie
Neil:cutter approach to change.
Neil:You need to understand what you're dealing with and choose the
Neil:appropriate skills, mindset, and approach for the change at hand.
Neil:And by doing that and embedding in a sort of collaborative problem solving
Neil:approach in the organization, you can start to build the foundations.
Neil:And then the three other things that underpin that in a way, are
Neil:thinking and acting systemically.
Neil:So the point behind that is, it's twofold really.
Neil:It's to recognize that decisions and actions have consequences
Neil:beyond your own silo.
Neil:So you need to think beyond the silos that you operate within, break the silos down.
Neil:And you also need to think in an organization, if you've got lots of
Neil:initiatives going on, do they add up to the strategic goals of the organization?
Neil:So thinking and acting systemically, big picture, breaking down,
Neil:understanding the interconnections.
Neil:And then we've got leadership with humanness.
Neil:And I think this is a really critical one because this is about leaders acting
Neil:with empathy, emotional intelligence, and empowering people to make decisions.
Neil:So this is key to acting quickly.
Neil:So if people are empowered and have a safe space, they can make decisions quicker.
Neil:They're closer to the issues.
Neil:They're empowered to experiment and learn from the experimentation.
Neil:So much more iterative, continuous learning and adapting.
Neil:So that's leadership with humanness.
Neil:Then finally, there's dynamic and inclusive teams.
Neil:So this is about not thinking about teams that are forever in existence,
Neil:but bringing people together to solve particular problems and issues, design
Neil:them with the purpose in mind and have common purpose, but embrace everyone
Neil:in the team has a voice, embrace it.
Neil:And through that, embracing that you get better innovation and creativity.
Neil:But of course, you also get happier people.
Neil:Those things combined, I think, lead to people feeling much more motivated
Neil:in their work if they're empowered.
Neil:To to act.
Neil:So much more motivated engagement goes up, they're much happier.
Neil:And also because you've built in those practices, the organization
Neil:is more adaptable to rapid change and, ultimately it can grow.
Rob:Interesting.
Rob:Is that for a specific change or is that to create an organization that's
Rob:ready and more agile for change?
Neil:It's embedding an adaptable Capability in the organization,
Neil:in that overarching one, every change needs to be looked at in the
Neil:context that you're delivering it.
Neil:Quite often you'll find, big consultancies will come in with a model, but that's
Neil:pre predefined, change your name on the top of the PowerPoint and you've got
Neil:this end step model to all your answers.
Neil:But I think you can't do change without understanding the
Neil:environment that you're working in.
Neil:You, understanding the leadership teams and the people that you're engaging with.
Neil:Embedding a capability into the organization that allows them to change
Neil:themselves makes best use of the knowledge that you've got in the organization.
Neil:They understand their organization, they understand their customers.
Rob:Typically what size of organization are you working with?
Neil:We're targeting medium sized organizations.
Neil:So between 50 and 250 because I think that's a community at least
Neil:initially that, that is more open, I think, to thinking about changing a
Neil:different way and being more adaptable.
Neil:And there's a sort of point in that 50 to 250 that you need to think about
Neil:maybe operating in a different way.
Neil:Thinking about how you grow and how you scale and how you see these opportunities
Neil:how you find new and innovative value propositions and things like that.
Rob:It's often the level where someone's growing quickly, where they
Rob:can go from like 50 to 800 people.
Rob:And suddenly everything's thrown up.
Rob:And you can see, yeah, you're embedding a real culture there.
Rob:That's ready for change.
Neil:We quite often think about change as a one off thing.
Neil:We're going to, we're going to have a transformation, you get the song and
Neil:dance around that teams come in, they form, they do the transformation, it
Neil:has a start and a middle and an end.
Neil:the world is a different place and there are occasions where that's appropriate,
Neil:but I think they're getting fewer.
Rob:It's okay, we just need to get this done.
Rob:It's the human fallacy, isn't it?
Rob:If we just get this promotion, just make this amount of money, I'll be happy then.
Neil:We'll get back to normal.
Neil:There's a sense of, we'll get stability back again.
Neil:And it's just a myth.
Rob:Where's the biggest sticking blocks for an organization trying to
Rob:change itself in, in, in this way?
Neil:I think the four practices I've described are addressing
Neil:the difficult areas in a way.
Neil:Can ask ourselves, why haven't organizations changed, significantly
Neil:since the Industrial Age?
Neil:Why do we have this sense that leaders have all the answers and everyone else can
Neil:just, I'm not saying every organization is like this and I'm cartooning for effect
Neil:a bit, but you get the point, right?
Neil:And I think there's something about first of all, just acceptance
Neil:at a leadership level, that they can't have all the answers.
Neil:You can't possibly predict the future.
Neil:And when you think about AI, you can't predict the future of what AI is
Neil:going to bring in 18 months from now.
Neil:So any plans that set out a start, middle, and end that take you 18
Neil:months, two years from now for that transformation are second guessing.
Neil:And just, they're offering false hope in many ways.
Neil:There's something around the leadership piece and then thinking about
Neil:their role in a much different way.
Neil:Servant leadership, empowerment, empathy, recognizing emotions,
Neil:making the use of the people in the organization turning direction into
Neil:questions and being inquisitive.
Neil:How can I help?
Neil:How can I unblock that issue for you?
Neil:What do you think is the best approach to take?
Neil:That in itself, I think is a big challenge because It requires leaders to almost give
Neil:up some of the things that are innately human, I'm at the top of the organization,
Neil:I feel that sense of, I'm at the top of the pecking order, we're social beasts,
Neil:I have the control, I like the control.
Neil:But it's unhelpful, I think, in a world that is, is hugely dynamic and uncertain.
Rob:It is, that's where I was looking at where, you talked about silos
Rob:and often silos come from fiefdoms.
Rob:And the leadership I can see is going to make most of the people work, but
Rob:there's often one person who likes to like they're used to how they
Rob:operate, they like, it works for them.
Neil:The fiefdoms point as well.
Neil:This is, this sort of gets to the systemic thinking because If you
Neil:think about budgets are delegated down in nice tidy packages and people
Neil:may even well be, had clients where they've been empowered to operate
Neil:within the constraints of the budget that they have in their organization.
Neil:But then when you say, how much change can you affect with that empowerment.
Neil:I say hardly any, because everything I need to do requires
Neil:the buy in from somebody else.
Neil:And I don't have that.
Neil:So this is the thing about understanding the interconnections
Neil:across the organization, but also forming teams around the opportunity
Neil:or issue you're trying to resolve.
Neil:We've created these silos because it's easier to look at an org
Neil:chart and think, yeah, this is our organization but actually a much
Neil:more dynamic approach to teamwork and breaks the silos down as well.
Rob:So in terms of budgeting, does the budget follow with the teams or
Rob:does a budget follow traditional?
Rob:In your typically when you work with an organization, do
Rob:they change how they budget?
Neil:Typically they're fairly static delegations through, through the
Neil:chain of command, if you like, in those hierarchical organizations.
Neil:And of course those, but those are aligned to achieving, KPIs or or
Neil:strategic goals of the organization.
Neil:And those strategic goals are second guessing what the future is going
Neil:to look like in a year from now.
Neil:And I think this is where you get that that sense of do more with less because
Neil:quite often now the goals are saying we need to be much more efficient.
Neil:Or we need to increase productivity, but we're going to take some
Neil:of your budget away and we're going to ask you to do more.
Rob:And of course that isn't sustainable for any organization.
Rob:It's what worked in the industrial revolution is that you could do that.
Rob:It was like, was it like in 50 times more productive per person.
Rob:But I think, but since 1970 that growth curve has dramatically fallen off.
Rob:And it doesn't work in the same way because work is different.
Rob:And I think what really made people productive in the industrial
Rob:revolution was the leverage of technology to make specialization.
Rob:So you could make one person output so much more.
Rob:And yet in knowledge work, we don't make productivity the same.
Rob:So if it was the same way people would have much less responsibilities, but
Rob:they would just focus on whatever was zone of genius they had, and
Rob:they would become so much more productive, but that's not what we do.
Rob:We still use the industrial age one of, okay, you just got to fill more tasks.
Rob:And that's where it hits into a block because there is a certain
Rob:amount of time that stuff takes.
Rob:Often in knowledge work, you're not making cars on a production line.
Rob:And when you start thinking about organizations as machines, that's where
Rob:you start to also think about, Leadership has the answers and sets the direction.
Neil:Middle managers dangle carrots or sticks, depending on whichever, to get the
Neil:productivity out of the frontline workers.
Neil:Now that assumes, of course, you know what you know what the customers
Neil:want, as long as you're black, your car, and that sort of thing.
Neil:And of course the world, we think about the world over the last five years or so.
Neil:Who predicted the implications of Russian, invasion of Ukraine, for example, in terms
Neil:of, energy and wheat and food prices, who predicted Brexit prior to Brexit and,
Neil:all those things that have affected, The outside world that we just can't predict
Neil:we ignore, we set our plans on the basis that we are, we can predict the future.
Neil:And I think that's flipping the dial and saying, look, if we can trust
Neil:our people and build the skills.
Neil:in in the individuals and the leaders and the teams, actually what we can
Neil:do is we can use their knowledge and trust them to, through their passion,
Neil:through their motivation, find the right answers, collaborate in ways
Neil:that if they don't have the answer that they're finding the people that does.
Neil:You think about the time I think about the times I've worked late at
Neil:night or over weekends, it's because I've cared passionately, usually
Neil:sometimes it's because of a big sticks.
Neil:But it's because I've cared passionately about what I'm doing,
Neil:I've been so motivated by it.
Rob:And yet, everything organizations do, like you say
Rob:not seeing and hearing people.
Rob:People just feeling like they are just a cog that they don't matter.
Rob:All of that, it takes it away.
Rob:Okay.
Rob:So the implication then is if you're going to have this collaborative problem
Rob:solving groups and you're going to empower make decisions lower down.
Rob:That means that the leaders then have to upgrade their leading.
Rob:They need to create the place where people belong.
Rob:They need to be much more focused on getting across the big picture
Rob:message of what is the purpose?
Rob:What are the values?
Rob:How do we operate?
Rob:And they need to make much more intentional about culture.
Rob:So I'm guessing that is probably what you do in the humane leadership.
Neil:There's two core pieces of that for me.
Neil:One is this, ability to recognize that we all as human beings have emotions.
Neil:We're not leaving them, at the door or wherever, when we jump on a call, we have
Neil:emotions that affects our decision making.
Neil:We know from neuroscience, the implications of operating in, in fear
Neil:versus operating in reward, right?
Neil:So threatened reward, we understand the implications, what that means.
Neil:So when we are feeling threatened, it reduces our cognitive ability.
Neil:It reduces our creativity and our innovation and actually
Neil:our social interaction.
Neil:That's not a good place to be.
Neil:So recognizing that people have these emotions that don't go away and then
Neil:building an environment that aligns the whole self to be at work, actually,
Neil:you're creating that safe environment to operate in, you're embracing the
Neil:diversity, you're unblocking the things that are getting in the way as a leader.
Neil:And allowing people who are closer to the issues and opportunities
Neil:that exist to feel free to collaborate and work with others.
Neil:I have a particular thing around inclusion and just because for lots of
Neil:reasons but in particular, because I genuinely believe if we are inclusive,
Neil:not only do you get better ideas, more innovation, actually people are happier
Neil:as a consequence of having a voice for the conversations I was talking about.
Neil:At the very beginning, the impact of not asking what people think, who
Neil:just happen to be doing the job for five years it's really important.
Rob:Okay.
Rob:Think as you've brought up we need to go into that, what, so if you were going to
Rob:give a TED talk, would it be on inclusion?
Neil:That's a good question, I don't know, I'd need to think about it, but I
Neil:want, you've asked about, I've given you a lot of things that are on my profile,
Neil:and I think it is, as I said, I think it's important to understand the whole person.
Neil:Let me share why I care passionately about inclusion, because I think that
Neil:will, that'll help cement that thinking.
Neil:When I was when I was six, The family moved to the States lived in a poor area
Neil:town and we moved to the States and I was really worried that that they were
Neil:going to, they were going to speak a new language I didn't, I was, I'm not going
Neil:to make new friends and all the rest of it, but obviously I didn't have a choice,
Neil:so we went and in my first week at school the kids said to me, Oh, you're going to
Neil:come and, Play after school and I said no, I can't I've got to go home for tea And
Neil:of course they all just laughed at that.
Neil:Why are you having a cup of tea?
Neil:And I was like no, it's just my dinner, and so I didn't get off to a good start.
Neil:And I don't know if you know this in schools in America, but they pledge
Neil:allegiance to the flag in the morning.
Neil:My dad he was this very proud Yorkshireman.
Neil:Very proud Brits at Royal, pledging allegiance to the flag sort of thing.
Neil:And spent most mornings early doors at school sitting on my, while
Neil:everyone else is pledging allegiance.
Neil:I had this separation ingrained in me from quite young.
Neil:And actually when those things to sort of bed in, but actually when I
Neil:started work, I noticed, I don't quite think the same way as a lot of people.
Neil:And subsequently, actually, my, both of my kids have been diagnosed dyslexic.
Neil:And when I talked to them about that, and they were late in
Neil:life, when I talked to them about that, I see some of those traits.
Neil:I think the way that showed itself at work was feeling like I didn't
Neil:quite understand why we were getting the direction we were getting when
Neil:to me, the answer was quite obvious.
Neil:I just had this way of connecting dots, so I would ask lots of questions
Neil:to understand what's behind that decision, and of course the rest of
Neil:the team would just be nodding dogs.
Neil:For me, I felt I've, In my past, I've felt excluded for, slightly
Neil:odd reasons, especially with coming from a, middle aged white man.
Neil:But I felt excluded and I felt the impact of what that exclusion can do.
Neil:In work, I felt excluded and saw the impact of how that's sending actions
Neil:in on different paths, basically not necessarily solving the right problem,
Neil:not thinking about innovation and creativity, not thinking about bringing
Neil:people's ideas to the table, but this sort of, this is what we're doing now,
Neil:crack on, so I've seen the impact.
Neil:And of course, when you When you talk to people around organizations
Neil:that operate like that, the real human impact that has on well being.
Neil:That's quite important to me that we're taking that being
Neil:thing seriously in organizations.
Rob:Okay.
Rob:That's interesting.
Rob:Where in the states did you go to?
Neil:I was just north of DC washington.
Rob:And how long were you there for?
Neil:I was there three years.
Neil:So it was, early 2000s, was it 2003, I went as a kid actually, but I went back I
Neil:went back as I worked out there as well.
Neil:So as a kid, I was there in the 70s.
Neil:I went when I was six.
Neil:I actually went back and worked in early 2000s.
Rob:And how was it settling back in England after being there?
Neil:As a kid, you mean?
Neil:Funny enough, I had a strong American accent.
Neil:I came back as a weird kid that had a funny accent again.
Neil:Was lucky that I was quite good at sport.
Neil:That kind of weird kid thing didn't last too long cause if you're good
Neil:at football, apparently that's a good thing for making friends.
Rob:Yeah.
Rob:Until you fall out and you get too competitive.
Rob:All of that leads to a big change for the leaders.
Rob:I'm wondering about how generally leaders respond to that.
Rob:Do they struggle?
Rob:Does it need need new leaders or?
Neil:No, I don't think it needs new leaders.
Neil:I think it needs an ability to help them understand what is happening.
Neil:The consequences of actions, the net result of what is
Neil:happening and why perhaps they operate in the way that they do.
Neil:So I think it's about shining a light on some of these things.
Neil:From a leader perspective, we can think about, that thing about control,
Neil:a natural human trait to, to want to be in control, to not like.
Neil:Uncertainty to want autonomy, all those things we know from neuroscience,
Neil:actually, that lead us to feel more comfortable in what we're doing.
Neil:And then so there's something about understanding the physiology.
Neil:Of what is going on through uncertainty and complexity.
Neil:Why is humans react as we do.
Neil:So exposing that bringing that to the surface so so it creates
Neil:a broader awareness of what is actually happening, but also the
Neil:environment that kind of action.
Neil:The behaviors that lead to that kind of culture of perhaps lack of trust or
Neil:lack of empowerment or, that sort of industrial age approach to business.
Neil:It's quite, it is quite a difficult task to get leaders to think about a
Neil:different way because we've had so long.
Neil:in that many organizations have had so long in that kind of way of working.
Neil:So I think that is, demonstrate the physiology and just, demonstrate or
Neil:shine a light on what the implications of that kind of approach are in today's
Neil:uncertain, dynamic world in terms of how people respond to that use data.
Neil:So we have a set of assessments that we use for diagnostics.
Neil:So actually because there is no one answer when you go into an organization, we run
Neil:a series of diagnostics and interviews.
Neil:That test various things adaptability, emotional intelligence,
Neil:teamworking and that kind of thing.
Neil:And that allows us to then play back information to the leaders.
Neil:And this is what the data is showing one to one interviews.
Neil:This is what your people are saying about how they operate.
Neil:And I just think through, I suppose in broad terms, shining
Neil:a light on the situation they are currently in and why that might be.
Neil:And then asking them to look in the mirror, what why are
Neil:people resisting change?
Neil:Why what actions are you taking where it may be that people are resisting change?
Neil:Let's start with that and then we can, work from there.
Neil:It's not easy by the way, this kind of thing, but absolutely critical, I think.
Rob:It's I think leadership is very difficult.
Rob:It's it's a journey of growth.
Rob:And by definition, you're not ready to lead what you're leading.
Rob:And so you have to grow to increase your capacity and competence.
Rob:And part of that is the awareness.
Rob:So mostly there's so much, we're able to focus on one kind of area.
Rob:And you talk to different people who focus on different areas, but a
Rob:leader has to be across all of them.
Rob:And just by the nature of that, there's so much that they're unaware
Rob:of, which is where they can get their productivity rise by becoming aware of it.
Rob:What also comes to mind when you're talking about that is they're
Rob:talking about, okay, here's how you deal with resistance to change.
Rob:And what you immediately get is their resistance to change because
Rob:their people aren't changing because they're not changing their style.
Rob:It's like the, The old adage, isn't it?
Rob:If you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always got.
Rob:And so the onus becomes on the leaders to change.
Neil:In my opinion, resistance to change is a misnomer because
Neil:if you reframe it, then it becomes a helpful signal in the system.
Neil:If you reframe resistance as something's happening over there
Neil:that I need to go and inquire about.
Neil:What you end up doing is through those conversations, through that dialogue,
Neil:you learn about why they're resisting.
Neil:Actually, if you think you have all the answers without first
Neil:understanding other people's perspectives, that's going to end badly.
Neil:And it comes back to this thing about, it's my job to set the tone.
Neil:Set the direction and to, predict the future and to move
Neil:everyone along towards that goal.
Neil:Actually, if you, if we engage more and we listen to what people are saying,
Neil:actually, they've got good ideas.
Neil:If they feel safe to articulate what they see every day in their job, you're
Neil:more likely to be able to respond to the right issues or opportunities.
Neil:If you're not talking to people who deal with the customers every single
Neil:day about how you might change your how you might keep up with customer
Neil:expectations, there's probably something quite wrong in that.
Rob:It seems that most problems are really just because someone
Rob:hasn't dealt with something.
Rob:There is a signal, like you say and they've just ignored
Rob:it or judged it as being wrong.
Neil:Again, we think about and again, this comes back to the
Neil:sort of physiology of change.
Neil:And we think about the needs humans have.
Neil:To be in control, to to have autonomy, to have their status respected.
Neil:And we think about it in those contexts, when you work on ERP, big technology
Neil:programs, some of those programs that have this mantra of adopt, not adapt.
Neil:In other words we're going to give you this solution effectively out of the box.
Neil:We're not going to do loads and loads of changes to this because
Neil:that makes delivery slower.
Neil:But the message that sends is, I don't really care what
Neil:you think that your job is.
Neil:The people that built this technology know better and that's
Neil:the process we're going to use.
Neil:So actually adopt not adapt, which is a mantra you do see in some change programs.
Neil:It's removing autonomy.
Neil:It's impacting people's status.
Neil:It's taking, that lack of control, that there's uncertainty there because you
Neil:don't know what that system actually does.
Neil:It really gets to, how people actually feel about change in
Neil:a way that This is the point.
Neil:It's not about delivering tech solutions on time.
Neil:It's about the value that those things bring.
Neil:And if you haven't got your people on board, you're not going to get the value.
Rob:Which comes to the crux of leadership is bringing people along.
Rob:Yeah.
Rob:If people aren't following, you're not leading.
Neil:It's interesting because one of the things on the leadership point
Neil:is actually, if you ask somebody.
Neil:What were the actions of your best boss?
Neil:If you thought about the best boss you've ever had.
Neil:How did they, in what way did they act?
Neil:I can remember being in an organization where you're having a bit of a crisis
Neil:going on and a board member came up to me, I was leading a particular piece of
Neil:work, and a board member came up to me and he said Neil, and I thought, oh no,
Neil:I'm in trouble, I've done something, I'm going to get shouted at, and I
Neil:went over, head down, bracing myself.
Neil:And he said, what can I do to help?
Neil:I thought, oh my goodness, that is just so powerful.
Neil:I remember that was years ago, and I remember that behavior.
Neil:What can I do to help?
Neil:I think if we ask leaders to think about who influenced them through their
Neil:careers, what behaviors did they have?
Neil:It will be things like that.
Neil:How can I help you?
Neil:How can you, how can I help you grow?
Neil:How can I help you progress?
Neil:How can I help you learn about new things?
Neil:How can I connect you to people that you can learn from and work with?
Neil:How was the weekend?
Neil:Those are the things I think make a big difference.
Rob:We respect the people who respect us.
Neil:Yeah, that's good, yeah.
Rob:And we tend to reciprocate.
Rob:We can all see that, and we all know it, if you stop and
Rob:think about it consciously.
Rob:But we all operate on a model, there's like the great man theory and I don't
Rob:know if it's films or stories, but somehow we've built up these people
Rob:like Alexander the Great, or Napoleon, or people like that, and you get this
Rob:kind of like Donald Trump caricature of I'm a self made man and I did it.
Rob:I'm a great man and there is a level of immaturity that I think leaders
Rob:probably have to go through that first you want to be the great man.
Rob:And then then you reach like the Yoda level where it's removed of ego and
Rob:it's about helping people, giving people what they need to be what they can be.
Neil:That point about ego resonates quite a bit.
Neil:We create environments and cultures where, you know that sort of the egos
Neil:are playing a bit large, aren't they?
Neil:And it's, this comes back to a point you were making earlier about
Neil:genuine purpose, what is the purpose?
Neil:What are we actually moving towards?
Neil:My sense would be that what is success the views of what is success for
Neil:people is probably shifting, the sense that actually I wanna be fulfilled.
Neil:I wanna, I wanna do a job I love.
Neil:I want to add value in my work.
Neil:One of the questions I ask quite a lot when I'm one on one with
Neil:people is, what motivates them?
Neil:What is it that gets you out of bed?
Neil:Or, so many people say, I want to do a good job.
Neil:I want to do a good job and be recognized for it but that says a lot, I think,
Neil:and we spend so much time working.
Neil:To feel motivated through doing a good job, getting recognized, being asked for
Neil:our opinion and bringing our expertise to bear, I think it's such a powerful
Neil:way of moving an organization forward.
Rob:The sad thing is that mostly that has to go in voluntary work or it has to go in
Rob:hobbies because often those people can't find an expression for it in their work.
Rob:If we are able to, make leadership more.
Rob:If we're able to involve people in the problem solving they feel
Rob:they belong they feel valued.
Rob:It gives them the chance because striving then makes you feel more valued.
Rob:And for me, there's three things that people need is to belong, to be valued
Rob:where they belong and to feel that group is doing something meaningful.
Neil:Yes.
Rob:All of that, what you're talking about can create that, which then
Rob:means that people have an outlet.
Rob:People will want to do more.
Rob:And I don't think burnout is about hours.
Rob:I think burnout is about the environment and the stress that people are in because
Rob:most people have got to spend that amount of time anyway, even if they, they go
Rob:to work, then they've got to go home and look after kids and manage the house and
Rob:all of that stuff, which is all work.
Rob:It's not about how many hours you work.
Rob:It's about how you feel in those hours.
Rob:Exactly right.
Rob:You've given us a glimpse into where inclusion is so important for you.
Rob:Did you say you were six when you moved to America?
Neil:Yeah.
Rob:Okay.
Neil:Four years.
Rob:For four years.
Rob:Yeah.
Rob:A formative four years.
Rob:I've never been to America what was America like for a six year old?
Neil:In all honesty, my early years in school were quite painful.
Neil:I felt different.
Neil:I didn't really fit in.
Neil:I have a certain personality that is not particularly gregarious I'm more inclined
Neil:to take a backseat and all those things.
Neil:But on the other hand, what it did is it allowed for opening
Neil:my eyes to new cultures, new people, new ways of thinking.
Neil:We traveled loads.
Neil:So I'm youngest of youngest of four siblings.
Neil:We did a lot of travel, camping around the States.
Neil:And so that's great.
Neil:So much about that I love.
Neil:Being able to make the most of our time in the States and just see a
Neil:bit of a bit of the world, really.
Neil:I think that gave me a bug to want to travel throughout my life.
Neil:The other thing I take away from my childhood in the States
Neil:is how different everyone is.
Neil:And I think I posted about this recently, but we have a tendency to want to label
Neil:and categorize and those sorts of things.
Neil:This is another one of my particular bugbears really.
Neil:You might have a character, which I'm sure you do have a character in your head of
Neil:what Americans are like, can actually, it's a really diverse group of people.
Neil:I met guys that were really into their sports and that sort of full on, painting
Neil:the chest kind of in the stands way.
Neil:And I met other guys that hated sport and, were really interested
Neil:in, And traveling the world.
Neil:My sense was it was a it was a it was quite a confusing sort of culture
Neil:in many ways to me because people are so different and there are
Neil:obviously regional variations of, North and South and things like that.
Neil:It's a big place that has a lot of people, and they're all quite different, I think.
Rob:It's huge.
Rob:We've, pretty much each state is different, isn't it?
Rob:Because each state is equivalent to a country.
Rob:Yeah you get the Texan, and you got the New Yorker, and you've got the Midwest
Rob:and all of these kinds of things.
Rob:Where I'm interested now is why has change been so important to you?
Neil:I've always been a bit of an explorer, my mum used to say I
Neil:used to get lost in shops because I'd be running off and I'm just
Neil:fascinated and I love just exploring.
Neil:When I started work, you've got your day job and back in those days, you'd have
Neil:a side of the desk sort of activity.
Neil:And projects would be run and they'd be looking for volunteers.
Neil:My hand would always go up.
Neil:I'm like, oh, shiny new thing.
Neil:I got to get involved in that.
Neil:And of course those projects were for the organization I worked in, we ran
Neil:a lot of Prince2 projects back then.
Neil:Within Prince2 project management, you have a senior user.
Neil:So somebody representing, if you like the business similar
Neil:to change managers these days.
Neil:Because I volunteered for everything, I would be senior user on the projects,
Neil:quite a lot of them, actually, and I love that, probably more on my
Neil:actual day job and I think that doing that a lot got me noticed.
Neil:And when the organization put in place program management, it
Neil:recognized the need for formal formal business change managers.
Neil:I was selected to join the first business change management
Neil:team in the organization.
Neil:There was, I think it was three of us, one very senior person who
Neil:just signed everything I wrote.
Neil:And then two of us that did some real work and and that, that got
Neil:me into thinking about the world in a slightly different way, really.
Neil:And we did some training around managing successful programs, program management
Neil:methodology that is related to PRINCE2.
Neil:And what that taught me was this thing about, actually boards are investing
Neil:in the benefit, not the technology if you're in a technology program.
Neil:One of the key things that instilled in me quite young was or quite early
Neil:in my career was this focus on the benefit, focus on the activities.
Neil:I'm also very interested in people.
Neil:So there is that kind of put my hand up and exploring new
Neil:shiny things all the time.
Neil:And just an interest in people got me started in change, I think.
Rob:What are your influences?
Rob:Was it from doing it or did you learn formally?
Rob:So I'm interested in how you deepen the learning.
Rob:So you're actually involved in from the start.
Rob:Did you then formalize that?
Neil:The first formal training I did was this managing successful programs.
Neil:That was 1999.
Neil:I did that.
Neil:And so bedding in my head, the need to focus on the benefit that the
Neil:project or program achieves rather than delivering a thing, an output, that sort
Neil:of instilled in me a recognition that if you're going to deliver a benefit,
Neil:you need you need the technology.
Neil:If it's a technology program, you need data or information.
Neil:You need new processes probably to operate effectively and you need people.
Neil:And over many years, I recognize that people got left out of the equation.
Neil:I sort of champion this people aspect of programs with armies of, program directors
Neil:and managers and all that sort of thing.
Neil:And draw that back to where you don't get the benefit unless
Neil:you have the people on board.
Neil:That would be my main sort of mantra.
Neil:And then I did after, and because I was so interested in the people,
Neil:I'd heard about this ProSci AdCar thing quite a few years ago.
Neil:And that got me, I drank the Kool Aid on this approach to change management.
Neil:So AdCar is Awareness, Desire, Knowledge, Ability, and Reinforcement.
Neil:And the idea being that you, if you take people through awareness, desire,
Neil:knowledge, ability, and reinforcement you'll get the benefit of the change.
Neil:I drank the Kool Aid on that for a few years, loved it, and then
Neil:realized it wasn't that simple.
Neil:Because you can't define change in the vacuum of a project, which is
Neil:what in effect a lot of projects do, is they define their scope.
Neil:It ignores how that's going to land, in an organization that's
Neil:really quite messy and dynamic.
Neil:And actually through realizing that Proton might not be the problem
Neil:to every solution in change.
Neil:It's useful.
Neil:Not a solution to everything.
Neil:I started exploring lots of different other things.
Neil:We've talked about systems thinking, how is this decision here affecting
Neil:these people over there kind of stuff.
Neil:Really interested in neuroscience, the physiology of change, what happens
Neil:when people go through change, the fight or flight you mentioned earlier,
Neil:what's going on, actually in the brain.
Neil:Why do we do the things we do?
Neil:What's behind all this bias and heuristics?
Neil:So really got fascinated by that and started to become more interested in
Neil:things like design thinking, which are much more iterative approaches and
Neil:collaborative human centered change, if you like, collaborative approaches.
Neil:All of a sudden I realized change management in some quarters is
Neil:defined as, in effect, a structured process to go from A to B.
Neil:I wasn't doing any of that.
Neil:I was doing lots of other things.
Neil:And I wasn't reading any books about change management at all.
Neil:So I today, if you asked me if I was a change manager, I'd probably
Neil:say no, because I don't recognize, that in the context of that sort
Neil:of structured approach or a Prosci methodology or whatever else.
Neil:That's not really what I do.
Neil:I have done.
Rob:So it's more about creating the fertile soil for so that when you do
Rob:make a change and you plant new things, they're all going to grow better.
Neil:Yeah, there's a small community that I'm connected to that are talking
Neil:more about change enablement, which is quite a nice way of reflecting it,
Neil:so enabling people through change.
Neil:It gives that sense of engaging people in their change, seeking co creation,
Neil:collaboration, I think I have this sort of aversion for labels, as I've mentioned I'm
Neil:less keen on defining things in a tightly constrained box, but I prefer enablement
Neil:to management in change, change management versus change enablement, but actually, I
Neil:think it's more for me about that thing.
Neil:I mentioned up front the need to be adaptable to, who
Neil:cares what we call ourselves.
Neil:Do you have the skills, the mindset, the ability, the approaches to
Neil:apply to a particular event, a particular opportunity or issue?
Neil:I think that takes time to develop, but there are some guardrails.
Neil:There are some things you can put in place to help to build
Neil:that muscle in organizations.
Rob:It's interesting that you mentioned about explore.
Rob:Because I look on your website, it says explore, evolve, prosper.
Rob:I can see throughout your story an interest in exploring and going
Rob:beyond and now what you're helping people to do is to evolve, to be
Rob:more enabled and more adaptive.
Rob:What made you the Adaptologist is where you shifted from traditional change
Rob:to what you're specializing in now.
Rob:How did that come about?
Neil:I think it was two things really.
Neil:So three years ago I had cancer.
Neil:And that, obviously quite a tough period.
Neil:I'm fine now.
Neil:I'm through that.
Neil:But what that made me realize is that I can't keep doing these
Neil:approaches to change that don't work in a way I think they ought to.
Neil:Actually, it comes back to purpose, right?
Neil:So I thought about my life in terms of Ikigai, what I love, what I'm
Neil:good at, what the world needs, what I might make some money out of.
Neil:Those first three things were born from wanting to fix a lot of the issues
Neil:that I'd witnessed in change delivery, the impacts on people in particular.
Neil:I hated those conversations where people would break down in tears
Neil:because they weren't being included.
Neil:And about a year ago, I was talking to Amanda Greenwood, fellow co founder, and
Neil:we found, whilst we are very different people, we actually shared a lot of
Neil:common thinking and thoughts and values in terms of what the world needed.
Neil:We got together, we explored our backgrounds, our history, what made us who
Neil:we are, what our values were, All those sorts of things and what the world needs.
Neil:And that, I think that what the world needs peice what I
Neil:love doing started to combine.
Neil:So this sense of building a capability in organizations that empowers
Neil:people that recognizes emotions, that makes people happier, and healthier
Neil:and more motivated in their work.
Neil:Those are the things that I get up in the morning for.
Neil:It just happens.
Neil:Those things also lead to greater adaptability in organizations
Neil:and prosperity and growth.
Neil:I might have adaptable and prosperous organizations before happy and engaged
Neil:people in the profile, but I think actually you get the, adaptable and
Neil:prosperous organization if people are empowered to make decisions,
Neil:if they're happy in what they do, if they're prepared to explore, to
Neil:evolve and that's what makes me happy.
Neil:That's what makes me want to do what I do.
Neil:It's removing that feeling of fear in the workplace so that people can
Neil:be free to do a good job as well.
Neil:What they always told me, I just want to do a good job.
Neil:Let's help people do a good job.
Neil:Yeah.
Neil:And the world will be a better place.
Neil:I absolutely guarantee it.
Rob:Sounds wonderful.
Rob:And it makes perfect sense.
Rob:What kind of person company would be reaching out to you and what would they
Rob:like what would be the right fit for you?
Neil:So we talked about the size earlier.
Neil:Medium size organization, but, I'm thinking about in particular
Neil:the implications for AI for businesses at the moment.
Neil:I have this hope, actually, that in a perverse way the adoption of AI starts
Neil:to force a need for greater adaptability.
Neil:So all those things I talked about in terms of empowering people, all that
Neil:I think the only way to keep up with the pace of AI and changing customer
Neil:expectations is to be adaptable.
Neil:And a way to be adaptable is to empower people and motivate
Neil:people and all that sort of thing.
Neil:Actually the advent of AI and in particular the pace that is
Neil:developing starts to force the pace for a need for adaptability.
Neil:And it also, I think introduces an interesting concept around how
Neil:you might reimagine your future.
Neil:So there will be a lot of focus at the moment on AI in terms of
Neil:efficiencies and productivity, because that's low hanging fruit.
Neil:And I suspect that's where a lot of the fear comes in terms
Neil:of the people side of that.
Neil:People losing their jobs, fear about that.
Neil:But actually the real value, I think, is in how you can create and reinvent
Neil:your your value proposition in the market and reinvent the market itself
Neil:in ways that we just haven't thought of.
Neil:And I think that requires that requires actually a sort of human AI collaboration
Neil:that makes the best use of both of those machines, crunching lots and lots of data.
Neil:Doing lots of things that take humans a lot of time and humans
Neil:doing lots of things around what makes us uniquely human, creativity,
Neil:innovation, empathy motivating others.
Neil:And you can extend that, of course, into things like ethics.
Neil:You're not going to ask AI to develop your ethics strategy.
Neil:How do we train AI?
Neil:What makes AI human?
Neil:You need humans to help AI understand what that looks like.
Neil:So I see a future where there's lots of jobs and opportunities developing that
Neil:we just haven't thought of at the moment.
Neil:And lots of opportunity to create new products and services and processes that
Neil:break the mold from, the industrial age.
Neil:If organizations are open to adapting to that I think the organizations
Neil:we're aiming at will be inquisitive about what the future will look like.
Neil:Whether using AI or not, but I think in particular AI as a driver and
Neil:being open to thinking about ways of working in in new, breaking the
Neil:mold from this sort of hierarchical, industrial age approach to what work is.
Neil:And those that do that, I think those that are prepared to think differently,
Neil:we can help them to, to bed in a capability that allows them to adapt at
Neil:that pace of AI development and reinvent their future in many ways, I think.
Neil:And that, and I think that is what will make the difference between
Neil:organizations that are around in five or 10 years and those that aren't.
Rob:That's really interesting.
Rob:I hadn't really considered aI in that context.
Rob:So the speed of replication is going to rapidly evolve.
Rob:So the speed of evolution is going to evolve, which means that we, humans
Rob:need to focus on emotions and a lot of the other things that you've talked
Rob:about, which means that humans need to raise their self awareness which means
Rob:that we need to become more human.
Rob:That means that organizations need to change to enable that.
Rob:That's another talk all in itself.
Rob:Okay.
Rob:This has been great.
Rob:Thank you for your time.
Rob:I think AI is another one that we need to talk about.
Neil:Yeah, I enjoyed it.
Rob:I can see your journey to here make you ready to help people be
Rob:more enabled and be more empowered and be more emotionally intelligent.
Neil:Thank you for the invite.
Neil:And also I think what you're doing is really important because stripping back
Neil:what it says in the profile to the human behind the profile as you described.
Neil:I think it's really valuable, important to do that and to set to set the tone
Neil:really for how we all ought to be thinking in work as we move forward.