One of my recent social media
posts asked me a question;
Speaker:do you think that prayer works? <Laugh>?
Speaker:I've been blessed to be
engaged in that question for
Speaker:most of my life, I think,
so I'd like to address that.
Speaker:As far as I'm aware of, in
the scientific community,
Speaker:I don't know if we've ever been
able to create a really objective
Speaker:scientific, reproducible, duplicatable,
Speaker:demonstration that prayer
somehow supernaturally
Speaker:gives you an advantage.
Speaker:But I believe that there's quite a bit
of evidence to show that depending on
Speaker:your belief, that if you
are in a moment of prayer,
Speaker:it does affect your physiology and
psychology, depending on your belief.
Speaker:And so the benefits are
more individualistic.
Speaker:I can't guarantee that it's going
to be a collective impact. I don't,
Speaker:I can't guarantee that
you pray for wealth,
Speaker:for instance,
Speaker:that you somehow miraculously are going
to get somebody dropping off some cash
Speaker:in your mailbox or something.
Speaker:But I do believe that the
highest of prayer is the
Speaker:acknowledgement of the hidden order that's
already in your life that you may be
Speaker:overlooking. So I always
say the highest of prayers,
Speaker:the greatest of prayers is gratitude,
Speaker:where you actually are not thinking
there's an error or a mistake
Speaker:or some flaw or something missing,
Speaker:and subjugating yourself and
humbling yourself to some
Speaker:anthropomorphic deity, which is
a projection of your own mind,
Speaker:hoping that some part of yourself or some
outside supernatural thing is going to
Speaker:somehow take care of your problems,
Speaker:I don't find that to be the most
productive thing, but I do believe,
Speaker:less probabilistic, let's put it
that way. <Laugh>, I do believe that
Speaker:finding the hidden order in the chaos
and asking quality questions to alter
Speaker:your perception or alter your
decisions or altering your actions
Speaker:to increase the probability of achieving
something that's realistic and it's
Speaker:objective and that is aligned
with what you value most makes
Speaker:more sense.
Speaker:So do I and have I used
prayers before? Yep.
Speaker:I have been in situations
where I didn't see within my
Speaker:capacity answers to things,
Speaker:and I dissociated from those and
then imagined something greater
Speaker:than myself in order to bring in an
answer or to make myself feel at ease.
Speaker:And so I have definitely done that. And
I'm a firm believer that that has a use
Speaker:as a stage of development,
Speaker:but I think as we gain more
understanding and more wisdom,
Speaker:we take on more accountability.
It was Epictetus,
Speaker:the Greek philosopher that said,
Speaker:first you blame things on the outside
and give credit to things on the outside,
Speaker:then you blame and give
credit to yourself,
Speaker:and then you realize there's nothing
there to blame or give credit to,
Speaker:there's just a hidden order in
life. There's nothing to judge,
Speaker:nothing to think of better or worse or
improvement or disprove. It's just order.
Speaker:Thank you. So I think thank you
is the greatest of all prayers.
Speaker:Thank you for what is as it is.
Speaker:And I think that's the thing
that's most useful. Now,
Speaker:if you have found in your
experience that going into prayer
Speaker:has calmed your mind, centered your
physiology, helped you in healing,
Speaker:helped you come to a more
objective calm state,
Speaker:where you're not in your amygdala to
be able to answer questions and solve
Speaker:problems,
Speaker:and allow you to now see more
synchronicities in your life,
Speaker:because when you're living more
congruently your filtering mechanism of
Speaker:your pulvinar nucleus of your thalamus
tends to see more opportunities are
Speaker:aligned with what your intention
is. If you use that, fantastic,
Speaker:I'm not against that. I think
that that's a useful tool,
Speaker:but I don't think it's because
of some supernatural mechanism.
Speaker:I'm not against the idea of panpsychism
that maybe there's some sort of an
Speaker:intelligence that's permeating
subatomic to astronomical domains,
Speaker:but I can't say that it's
some anthropomorphic or
zoomorphic projection of our
Speaker:own anxieties onto it.
Speaker:I think it's more of a field
of possible intelligence. Now,
Speaker:do I believe that prayer is useful
and has it served people through the
Speaker:centuries? Yeah.
Speaker:Do I believe that it can also be
delusional and basically dodging
Speaker:the accountabilities and the growth and
development of the mind to be able to
Speaker:solve problems and be accountable
for those problems and figure out new
Speaker:solutions instead of just passing the
buck onto something outside yourself?
Speaker:I believe that we can evolve
our prayer to one from
Speaker:dissociation from challenges and hoping
something outside is going to solve our
Speaker:problem,
Speaker:to one of acknowledging there's already
a solution in place and we just haven't
Speaker:seen it and be acknowledging
it with gratitude.
Speaker:So I'm okay with it. I know that
just like in elementary school,
Speaker:they have to teach you that an atom
is a little ball until you're ready to
Speaker:understand the abstract mathematical
understanding of it and even then,
Speaker:it's a mystery. Same thing
when it comes to this.
Speaker:If we go through our development
and the way our brain is set up,
Speaker:we go through different levels of
understanding of the usefulness of prayer.
Speaker:And so I'm not against it.
I see that it's essential.
Speaker:I see millions of people utilizing it.
Speaker:But if I look at it from a
scientific objective view,
Speaker:I can't say it's some supernatural thing.
Speaker:I do believe that there's a
rational mechanism of what benefits
Speaker:we believe is happening as a result of it.
Speaker:And there I would pursue the answers
to those questions to solve that,
Speaker:so we can make something duplicatable
and really rational that we can use.
Speaker:But some people prefer to
just pray, and okay with that,
Speaker:I'm not here to judge anybody for
their beliefs along the way. You know,
Speaker:I've certainly had different stages of
beliefs and awareness along my journey,
Speaker:but I do believe that from an
objective scientific perspective,
Speaker:there are more powerful
ways of mastering your life.
Speaker:But this could be a
stepping stone to people.
Speaker:Just don't make it a stumbling block and
then hold yourself back from pursuing
Speaker:holy curiosity and answering questions
and solving problems and preventing
Speaker:issues that you may be praying for.
Speaker:I think that most people pray for things
that they're grateful for or things
Speaker:that they're ungrateful for.
Speaker:And I believe that if we look carefully
enough every moment of our life,
Speaker:we can be grateful for it. Every
time I do the Breakthrough Experience
Speaker:I've had people come in with things that
they were praying for some assistance,
Speaker:we went through and navigated through
it, looked at it from a new perspective,
Speaker:and then they were grateful for what is
as it is. And there was nothing to fix,
Speaker:nothing to change, nothing was missing.
To me that state of awareness is,
Speaker:is science and reproducible.
Speaker:And I prefer to use that tool and
that approach than hoping some
Speaker:supernatural mechanism is
going to solve my problems.
Speaker:But everybody's got a
different stage of awareness.
Speaker:So I just thought I'd talk and
discuss a moment that question,
Speaker:and hopefully that was something
to make your brain think of it.
Speaker:And but whatever you believe
prayer is and whatever how,
Speaker:and however way it's
served you, fantastic.
Speaker:I just think it's wise to keep
your eyes open for an objective
Speaker:pursuit of understanding of it,
Speaker:instead of just stopping and subordinating
to it and then possibly passing up
Speaker:even more efficient ways of
accomplishing what you want in life.