Let me ask you something today.
Ralph:Have you started to believe that you are your debt?
Ralph:That because you messed up with money or just couldn't keep up with
Ralph:it, that you're somehow a failure?
Ralph:Let me tell you the truth.
Ralph:Debt is a circumstance.
Ralph:It's not your identity, and it's not the end of your story.
Ralph:Stick with me because before we talk about numbers and spreadsheets, we're gonna
Ralph:confront the lies debt tells us, and more importantly, how to break free from them.
Ralph:Hey there.
Ralph:Welcome back to your Daily, financially Confident Christian.
Ralph:I'm Ralph and I'm really glad you're here with me today.
Ralph:This is the show that helps you answer the question, how do I become
Ralph:a financially confident Christian?
Ralph:We're continuing our series dealing with the stress of money worries.
Ralph:Now, up to this point, we've talked about building habits.
Ralph:We've talked about budgeting, we've talked about tracking.
Ralph:We've talked about saving for the unexpected, but there's one weight
Ralph:so many people carry into every financial decision, and that's debt.
Ralph:And today's episode isn't just about what you owe.
Ralph:It's about what that debt may be doing to your identity.
Ralph:So let's dig in from right there.
Ralph:Now, maybe you've carried this debt for years, or maybe it built
Ralph:up fast after a crisis, but over time, if you're not careful, that
Ralph:debt starts to whisper lies to you.
Ralph:Let me name just a few of those lies.
Ralph:Lie number one.
Ralph:You're bad with money always have been.
Ralph:Always will be.
Ralph:How many of us can say, we've heard that one before?
Ralph:And that's a lie Straight from the enemy.
Ralph:You are not stuck.
Ralph:You are being refined, not defined by this season of your life.
Ralph:And I just want you to remember this, God's mercies are new every
Ralph:morning, even in your finances.
Ralph:How about lie number two?
Ralph:You'll never get out.
Ralph:So what's the point in trying?
Ralph:Well, that right there, that's hopelessness talking.
Ralph:But Galatians chapter six, verse nine, says something absolutely beautiful.
Ralph:It says this.
Ralph:It says, let us not grow weary in doing good for in due season.
Ralph:We will reap a harvest if we don't give up.
Ralph:Even the smallest step towards freedom counts, and how about
Ralph:this lie, you should be ashamed.
Ralph:How many of us have heard that or felt that in our own hearts?
Ralph:But the book of Romans, chapter eight, verse one says this, it
Ralph:says, there is no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.
Ralph:And I want you to hear that.
Ralph:If you hear nothing else, I say today, shame is not from God.
Ralph:Conviction, yes, that's from God.
Ralph:But shame not at all.
Ralph:That's the enemy trying to steal your hope.
Ralph:Let's get back into the word.
Ralph:The Book of Proverbs, chapter 22, verse seven says this.
Ralph:It says, the borrower is slave to the lender.
Ralph:And listen, if you've ever felt trapped by debt, you know
Ralph:exactly what that verse means.
Ralph:But the beautiful thing about our faith is that God doesn't leave us in chains.
Ralph:He calls us into freedom, not just spiritually and hear me on this, not just
Ralph:spiritually, but financially as well.
Ralph:And that freedom, that freedom today starts with a renewed mindset.
Ralph:It's not just an updated budget, but it's a transformed belief system.
Ralph:So here's your one action item for today, and let me tell you right now, it's not
Ralph:a spreadsheet, it's a mindset inventory.
Ralph:Again, a mindset inventory, and I want you to just take 10 minutes,
Ralph:find a quiet place, sit with a journal or maybe some kind of notes
Ralph:app, and ask yourself this one.
Ralph:Very important question,
Ralph:what do I believe about myself because of my debt?
Ralph:I'm gonna ask you that again and ask yourself this question,
Ralph:what do I believe about myself?
Ralph:Because of my debt.
Ralph:Now I want you to write it down.
Ralph:I want you to write down all of it, the honest, the raw, even the painful thoughts
Ralph:that come to mind when you think on that.
Ralph:And then next to each statement, I want you to write this,
Ralph:but the truth is, but the truth is.
Ralph:And I want you to use scripture.
Ralph:I want you to use hope, speak like you'd speak to a dear friend, because listen,
Ralph:debt is real, but so is redemption.
Ralph:and we've gotta fight the battle in our mind before we
Ralph:can ever fight it in our wallet.
Ralph:Let's pray together.
Ralph:Father God, we come to you carrying not just numbers on a page, we
Ralph:come to you carrying emotions.
Ralph:We come to you carrying fears, and Lord, we come to you carrying open wounds.
Ralph:Some of us feel stuck, Lord, some of us feel ashamed.
Ralph:Some of us don't even know where to begin, Lord, but you are the God of freedom.
Ralph:You are the God of second chances, and you are the God who sees us as
Ralph:we are and still calls us forward.
Ralph:Lord, help us today to name the lies we believe and replace them with truth.
Ralph:Truth from your word, Lord, truth about who we are in you.
Ralph:Lord, we ask that you would renew our minds so that we can walk in freedom,
Ralph:A freedom you've already promised us.
Ralph:And Lord, we just ask this in confidence.
Ralph:In Jesus name, Amen.
Ralph:Well, this was a different kind of episode today.
Ralph:It was not about the normal debt math, but about debt mindset.
Ralph:It's about a mindset, and maybe just maybe this mindset shift is the
Ralph:key to finally breaking that cycle.
Ralph:And if you did today's journal exercise or if it spoke to you, would you do
Ralph:me a huge favor and share it with someone else who is hurting, who is
Ralph:in debt, someone that would trust you, and someone that needs to hear this.
Ralph:And don't forget, I've got a free resource that will help you take that next step.
Ralph:It's my book.
Ralph:It's called Mastering Your Finances.
Ralph:It's short.
Ralph:It's just 47 pages.
Ralph:It's simple, but let me just tell you right now, it's packed with
Ralph:the tools to help you walk out of debt and step into confidence.
Ralph:And for the first 100 listeners who visit the website financially confident
Ralph:christian.com/master, you'll get a free copy, no strings attached.
Ralph:I just wanna give it to you today so that you can use it to help you moving forward.
Ralph:That's financially confident christian.com/master.
Ralph:Now, tomorrow we're gonna actually talk about the numbers.
Ralph:Now that you've cleared that fog in your mind, you'll be ready to make a plan.
Ralph:So let's go out there and be financially confident.
Ralph:Christians, you can do this.
Ralph:I have confidence in you.
Ralph:Have confidence in yourself.
Ralph:I just encourage you to stay financially savvy, may God bless you,
Ralph:and you have a great day to today.