Hey, do you ever go into the grocery store for just a few things and

walk out a hundred dollars later wondering what just happened?

If grocery trips derail your budget today we're talking about the

simple tool that gives you back control the Mighty Grocery List.

Hey there.

Welcome back to Your Daily as Ralph.

I'm Ralph and it's great to be with you again today.

We're deep into our series, the Joy of Living Below your Means all with

the goal of helping you break the cycle of financial shame, and most

importantly, do it with confidence.

Now, yesterday we tackled meal planning to beat that dinner stress.

Today we take that plan right to the store, so you've got your meal plan,

and that's great, that's awesome.

But the grocery store, that can be a battleground for the budget, right?

Maybe you go in with good intentions, but those end cap displays, they

lure you in the 'buy one, get one free' deals scream your name for

stuff you didn't even plan to buy.

Or maybe your kids toss extra things in the cart.

I could still remember doing this routinely to my mom, my sister and I.

We were wrecking balls in the grocery store.

You end up spending way more than you budgeted.

You forget things you actually needed meaning guess what?

Another trip there to the store later.

And you come home sometime with random items that may even end up going to waste.

Well, that feeling of losing control in the grocery store aisles, the

impulse buys, the budget overruns and the frustration of multiple trips.

That's the single pain point we're tackling today.

Head on on the show.

Here's the thing, you gotta understand this grocery stores are designed

to make you spend more money.

Their layout, the sales, the product placement, it's all geared towards

encouraging those impulse purchases.

And here's a simple truth without a firm plan and the discipline to

stick to it, we are easy targets, and this is where self-control comes in.

A fruit of the spirit becomes super practical.

See, being a good steward involves not just making a plan like our

meal plan we talked about yesterday.

But then faithfully executing that plan, even when faced

with significant temptations.

Yes, even temptation in the form of those cookies on sale.

See, ask, how do we win the grocery store battle?

Ralph, how do we ensure our food spending aligns with our meal plan

and most importantly, with our budget?

Well, lemme just tell you, the single essential solution is really twofold.

Here's what I'm gonna encourage you to do.

Make a detailed grocery list based only on your needs and that meal plan you built.

And here's the big part, and commit to sticking to it religiously.

Stick to that list completely because a detailed list born

from your meal plan acts as a map and your shield in the store.

It ensures you get what you want and what you need.

Make sure you're not forgetting those crucial ingredients for

for Tuesday night's dinner.

It also prevents those impulse buys because if it's not on the

list, it doesn't go in the car.

And I'll say that generally, it also saves you time because you know exactly what

you need so you can shop more efficiently.

That's another great part.

It controls costs.

It's the most effective way to keep your grocery bill in check.

Now sticking to that list is where discipline comes in, and it might

mean saying no to yourself or to others, but it reinforces your

commitment to your financial goals.

So in the end, the solution is plan.

Discipline.

Here's my Big takeaway for today.

List and stick.

So, okay, here's your one action step for today, specifically

for your next grocery tip.

Here's what I want you to do.

First thing I want you to do is grab your meal plan.

Get that meal plan you made yesterday.

Second thing I want you to do, check that inventory again, you

know, quickly scan your fridge.

Look in your freezer, and look in your pantry and see what you have.

Third, write the list.

Create that grocery list.

Write down every single specific ingredient needed for your planned

meals that you don't already have because you just checked.

And then add any household staples you're out of, maybe milk.

Eggs, uh, toilet paper's.

Kind of important.

You get the idea.

And here's a pro tip.

While I'm here, try organizing your list by store section for, in other

words, produce or, or dairy or the meat aisles, because that's gonna make

shopping faster and avoid backtracking.

The fourth thing I want you to do is to commit.

You gotta make a conscious decision right now.

When I go shopping next, I will only buy what's on the list.

You know, maybe allow yourself one of those, what I'll call pre-planned

exceptions, if it's absolutely necessary, but aim for the list only.

So now maybe you're asking Ralph, why is this simple list action so important?

Well, here's why.

Because it directly fights the pain of impulse spending and those

budget blowups at the grocery store.

It provides absolute clarity on what to buy.

It eliminates the decision fatigue in the aisles.

And requires the self-control needed to stick to your financial plan.

Because here's the big takeaway, it puts you in charge, not

the store's marketing tactics.

Well, let's pray together.

Father God, thank you for the abundance you provide us.

Lord, we confess that grocery stores can be places of temptation for us

leading to unplanned spending and waste.

And as my friend prepares their grocery list based on their plan, Lord, grant

them diligence and thoroughness.

And father, give them your strength and, and self-control when

they walk through those aisles.

Help them to stick to that list and Lord to, to resist those impulse buys and to

be faithful stewards of the resources you've given them for nourishment.

And Lord, may this act of discipline bring peace and order to their finances.

And we ask this in Jesus' name.

Amen.

Alright, well I want you to make that list before you shop next, and then channel

your inner ninja focus in the store.

Stick to that mission.

You can absolutely do this.

I know you can.

You're building an amazing habit here.

Now.

We put several great foundational pieces in place this week.

How do we make sure you're staying on track consistently?

Well be sure to join me back here tomorrow on Ask Ralph.

We're gonna talk about the crucial habit of implementing

a quick regular money check-in.

More on that tomorrow when we'll cover action item number 10.

And if this episode gave you a plan for your next grocery run, I'm gonna encourage

you to share it with somebody else and you can find resources and links in the

show notes or visit me@askralph.com.

And I would really love it if you would consider supporting the show.

You can do that by going to ask ralph podcast.com/support.

So until tomorrow, shop Smart, stick to that list and keep seeking him first.

Stay financially savvy.

God bless you and have a great day today.