As we wrap up the
EMMA:year, I wanna take you
EMMA:through a gentle but honest
EMMA:reflection of what life and
EMMA:business has brought me.
EMMA:The good, the challenging, the
EMMA:messy, and the magic, because.
EMMA:Life and business rarely
EMMA:move in straight lines.
EMMA:Oh my goodness.
EMMA:How I wish they did.
EMMA:How I wish it was all linear,
EMMA:but it's all loop to loop.
EMMA:Right?
EMMA:Which makes you feel like
EMMA:you're going loop to crazy.
EMMA:Yeah.
EMMA:they all kind of
EMMA:weave together.
EMMA:They influence each other
EMMA:and they shape who we
EMMA:become and how we behave.
EMMA:And so today what I really
EMMA:wanted to do was share my
EMMA:own reflection with you
EMMA:in the hope that you can
EMMA:reflect on your year as well.
EMMA:We're going to take a
EMMA:step by step approach to
EMMA:this because these things
EMMA:intersect because they weave.
EMMA:I wanna first talk to you
EMMA:about life, the beautiful
EMMA:moments, the tough ones,
EMMA:and everything in between.
EMMA:And then I wanna talk
EMMA:about business, the wins,
EMMA:the challenges, and the
EMMA:things that stretched me.
EMMA:And after that, I will
EMMA:share the biggest learnings.
EMMA:I had throughout this year in
EMMA:business and in our community.
EMMA:And then finally,
EMMA:'cause I'm me.
EMMA:I love a good
EMMA:practical reflection.
EMMA:So a little ritual that
EMMA:you can close out your
EMMA:own year with, with a bit
EMMA:of clarity and intention.
EMMA:it is almost the
EMMA:end of the year.
EMMA:There was this thing that
EMMA:happened when I used to work
EMMA:in HR in corporates where
EMMA:everyone started going a bit
EMMA:feral as of about October.
EMMA:It's like they're stretching.
EMMA:They're, they're working to
EMMA:the end of the year and they
EMMA:haven't given themselves a
EMMA:break throughout the year.
EMMA:So I reckon we're
EMMA:probably dealing with a
EMMA:bit of feral behavior.
EMMA:So if you are feeling a little
EMMA:bit feral, like a feral cat,
EMMA:take me on a little walk with
EMMA:you or grab a piece of paper,
EMMA:grab a cup of tea, and just.
EMMA:Pay attention what to
EMMA:what is actually going
EMMA:on for you right now?
EMMA:Life and business are so
EMMA:always intertwined, so it
EMMA:only feels right to look
EMMA:at them side by side.
EMMA:Right?
EMMA:I'll give you the good first.
EMMA:I'll give you life first.
EMMA:The good right,
EMMA:the good in life.
EMMA:I look at the good in my
EMMA:personal life this year, there
EMMA:is so much to be grateful for.
EMMA:had a wonderful family holiday
EMMA:to New York and Canada.
EMMA:3 whole weeks
EMMA:and it was one of those trips
EMMA:that stays in your bones.
EMMA:it just meshes in.
EMMA:It's the memories that
EMMA:you've created, the memories
EMMA:you've carved out, and
EMMA:just the time off together.
EMMA:The interesting thing
EMMA:for me that happened with
EMMA:this trip, I have always.
EMMA:Ever since I was little,
EMMA:suffered with travel sickness
EMMA:and uh, last year I gave
EMMA:myself a travel ban, would
EMMA:not travel for one whole year.
EMMA:I was focused on my
EMMA:health and just getting
EMMA:that back on track and
EMMA:I decided not to travel.
EMMA:I was feeling a bit nervous
EMMA:about these big trip because
EMMA:I obviously New York and
EMMA:Canada a few hours away.
EMMA:and really what happened
EMMA:that was really interesting
EMMA:to me is sickness,
EMMA:travel sickness, gone.
EMMA:Literally 47 years.
EMMA:travel sickness and gone.
EMMA:I don't know what happened.
EMMA:Maybe I've matured,
EMMA:which makes me laugh.
EMMA:it's just psychosomatic,
EMMA:who knows?
EMMA:But not one ounce
EMMA:of travel sickness.
EMMA:And we did a lot of Ks
EMMA:both flying and driving.
EMMA:So actually the trip was
EMMA:wonderful, but it was even
EMMA:more wonderful with the fact
EMMA:I didn't actually need to
EMMA:worry about carrying sick
EMMA:bags in the car, making
EMMA:sure I took my quells.
EMMA:All the things that
EMMA:as you, if you suffer
EMMA:with travel sickness,
EMMA:you know all too well.
EMMA:We are about, we are about,
EMMA:we're like an inch off
EMMA:moving into our dream house.
EMMA:We have been waiting four
EMMA:years for this house.
EMMA:It's part of a 51
EMMA:build community.
EMMA:It's all electric.
EMMA:No gas, eco-friendly, and
EMMA:we have been chomping at the
EMMA:bit to move in this week.
EMMA:It's happening now.
EMMA:You might sit there and
EMMA:go, what a terrible time
EMMA:of year to move house.
EMMA:I totally agree, but I'm
EMMA:I'm so excited about it.
EMMA:I'm so excited.
EMMA:Our, our dream house,
EMMA:which is awesome.
EMMA:My health, for the most
EMMA:part, has been good.
EMMA:If you have listened to any
EMMA:of the other ex uh, episodes,
EMMA:you would know that we've
EMMA:had a little, few little
EMMA:blips on that, um, radar.
EMMA:I got back into running.
EMMA:I taught myself couch to
EMMA:5K, got back into running,
EMMA:which I really love.
EMMA:I've kept up my
EMMA:20,000 steps a day.
EMMA:I've kept up my
EMMA:naps every day.
EMMA:and inspired by one of
EMMA:my clients, Trudy, I
EMMA:joined a local park run.
EMMA:Which is awesome.
EMMA:If you haven't done a park
EMMA:run before you so do one.
EMMA:The community is great and I'm
EMMA:about to start volunteering
EMMA:there, which is awesome.
EMMA:Another amazing thing that
EMMA:happened, one of my bonus
EMMA:daughters got engaged.
EMMA:Yay.
EMMA:And that brought us a
EMMA:lot of joy and now we
EMMA:plan for a wedding.
EMMA:And I think most
EMMA:importantly really was
EMMA:I kept my health
EMMA:front and centre
EMMA:even in the moments
EMMA:when it wasn't great.
EMMA:So they were like the
EMMA:good bits, the personal
EMMA:bits, the life bits.
EMMA:Of course there were
EMMA:some really hard bits
EMMA:in our year this year.
EMMA:life delivered some
EMMA:heartbreaking moments
EMMA:for me personally.
EMMA:lost our 16-year-old dog
EMMA:Spency, and he was my shadow
EMMA:day in day out, 16 years.
EMMA:He had been with
EMMA:me for so long.
EMMA:He'd been with me before.
EMMA:Husbands before, kids
EMMA:before bonus, kids
EMMA:before all the things.
EMMA:And his loss hurt
EMMA:really deep the day.
EMMA:Before hosting a 75 woman
EMMA:event that was being
EMMA:video grafted, I ended
EMMA:up in emergency, uh,
EMMA:with stitches to my chin.
EMMA:was fun and also fun for the
EMMA:makeup artist the next day
EMMA:to try and cover that all up.
EMMA:I also received a
EMMA:cancer diagnosis, which
EMMA:led to two surgeries.
EMMA:Navigating that while being
EMMA:a mom, trying to be a good
EMMA:wife and a business owner
EMMA:at times just felt enormous.
EMMA:good was beautiful, but
EMMA:the hard heavy and both
EMMA:shaped me, both really
EMMA:shaped me this year.
EMMA:So that's life.
EMMA:it into a little
EMMA:box for the moment.
EMMA:Now I wanna talk
EMMA:about business.
EMMA:I wanna talk about the good,
EMMA:the business reflections that
EMMA:were good thriving women.
EMMA:2025 was magic, it was
EMMA:light, it was energized,
EMMA:it was aligned.
EMMA:The women are beautiful.
EMMA:That was amazing for me.
EMMA:We did some new things,
EMMA:which really worked well.
EMMA:We took out some stuff
EMMA:that wasn't working well.
EMMA:We got them focused on
EMMA:the right things, not just
EMMA:taking in more content, but
EMMA:actually getting stuff done
EMMA:and moving into action.
EMMA:Our 2026.
EMMA:Thriving and launch
EMMA:was so solid.
EMMA:I left nothing on the
EMMA:table for that launch,
EMMA:and if you have heard the
EMMA:behind the scenes episode,
EMMA:you'll know that there's
EMMA:a whole story there.
EMMA:But I'm very, very proud
EMMA:of the fact that we were
EMMA:able to do that launch
EMMA:in such a solid way.
EMMA:We leveled up our systems
EMMA:and we shifted from active
EMMA:campaign to automate
EMMA:digital, which is a
EMMA:type of go high level.
EMMA:Uh, it was a really
EMMA:tough project.
EMMA:We've got a lot of pieces
EMMA:that could potentially break.
EMMA:I think also what helped
EMMA:in this moment is that I
EMMA:was away for three weeks,
EMMA:so Serena had the place to
EMMA:herself and was able to do
EMMA:that without my involvement,
EMMA:which was amazing.
EMMA:It was a big piece of
EMMA:work, and I wish we'd done
EMMA:it sooner, but absolutely
EMMA:the right decision.
EMMA:I wanna say this one straddles
EMMA:both the huge win in being
EMMA:able to travel overseas for
EMMA:three weeks and the business
EMMA:holding strong without me.
EMMA:Incredible every business
EMMA:owner's dream, and I have
EMMA:to put that down to the
EMMA:beautiful community of
EMMA:thriving women that I had.
EMMA:We planned it a long time
EMMA:in advance so everyone
EMMA:knew that it was coming
EMMA:and the community just
EMMA:sorted themselves out.
EMMA:There were people that showed
EMMA:up for others throughout
EMMA:this time while I wasn't
EMMA:online, and it really gave
EMMA:me confidence that when
EMMA:you've got the right people
EMMA:in the right community, that.
EMMA:Anything can happen.
EMMA:You even as a business
EMMA:owner, can have a break.
EMMA:Every business owner
EMMA:dreams of that moment, I
EMMA:reckon, and Brianna will
EMMA:be very happy to hear this.
EMMA:Finally, this podcast
EMMA:feels like me.
EMMA:Yay.
EMMA:It's uh, natural.
EMMA:It's honest.
EMMA:We're having fun.
EMMA:loving it.
EMMA:And if you listen to the
EMMA:episodes a few ago where I was
EMMA:like, oh, this is really hard.
EMMA:We've pushed through the
EMMA:discomfort and the hard, and
EMMA:we've worked out a strategy
EMMA:and a system that really
EMMA:helps me have fun in this.
EMMA:So thank you, Brianna.
EMMA:Of course, there
EMMA:was challenges in
EMMA:business as well.
EMMA:Lots of challenges.
EMMA:The biggest challenge,
EMMA:unfortunately, I
EMMA:hate to admit this.
EMMA:And if Serena's listening,
EMMA:she was gonna have a laugh.
EMMA:Now I'm the problem.
EMMA:It's me.
EMMA:in the words of Taylor
EMMA:Swift, I move really quickly.
EMMA:My brain is just like,
EMMA:and sometimes the team.
EMMA:Get left behind.
EMMA:I don't mean for it to happen.
EMMA:I'm aware of it and I'm
EMMA:working on it, but I'm just
EMMA:like, I want things done now.
EMMA:And uh, that is the beauty
EMMA:about being a nimble team
EMMA:and an entrepreneur, but
EMMA:also realizing other people
EMMA:don't work in that way.
EMMA:So, you know, love letters are
EMMA:Serena for putting up with me.
EMMA:the thriving and Launch,
EMMA:we overstretched, we
EMMA:overstretched me in that.
EMMA:It was only me who could
EMMA:show up because it's my
EMMA:baby, it's my launch.
EMMA:I will preface this with
EMMA:at the same time, we have
EMMA:been able to trademark
EMMA:thriving women in the us,
EMMA:in Canada, in the uk, in
EMMA:Australia and in New Zealand.
EMMA:So big things to come, but
EMMA:that was also happening
EMMA:in the background, right?
EMMA:But the thriving women,
EMMA:2026 launch was just too
EMMA:long, 12 weeks too long,
EMMA:too much energy to hold.
EMMA:We'll do that differently.
EMMA:The systems upgrade from
EMMA:ActiveCampaign to go high
EMMA:level or automate digital.
EMMA:Shout out to Paul.
EMMA:He doesn't even listen
EMMA:to this podcast, but
EMMA:shout out to Paul.
EMMA:He's amazing.
EMMA:put a lot of pressure
EMMA:on Serena, which I fully
EMMA:acknowledge because changing
EMMA:systems when you only have
EMMA:one, automation is hard to do.
EMMA:Changing systems when you
EMMA:have 54,000 automations
EMMA:also quite hard to do.
EMMA:It's a lot.
EMMA:It's a lot.
EMMA:I added a couple of
EMMA:extra projects to
EMMA:our quarterly list.
EMMA:Classic Emma move.
EMMA:don't mean to, I'm just like,
EMMA:we could do this and we could
EMMA:do this, and the community
EMMA:needs this right now, and
EMMA:I need to do that anyway.
EMMA:These challenges have
EMMA:shaped the year as
EMMA:much as the wins did.
EMMA:and I've got kind of four
EMMA:lessons that are the biggest
EMMA:lessons from all of that.
EMMA:Number one, to belly
EMMA:is still the best.
EMMA:Or as one of my thriving
EMMA:women likes to call
EMMA:it nipple to nipple,
EMMA:I hosted lunches and dinners
EMMA:all around Australia.
EMMA:Nothing replaces being in
EMMA:the room with your people.
EMMA:And because of that, we've
EMMA:added two go-getter days
EMMA:to Brisbane next year.
EMMA:So in 2025, Brizzy,
EMMA:we are coming for you.
EMMA:Sorry.
EMMA:In 2026 we're coming for you.
EMMA:So good.
EMMA:But belly to belly
EMMA:is still the best.
EMMA:We ran an experiment
EMMA:in thriving women.
EMMA:This year.
EMMA:We did small group coaching.
EMMA:Now anyone that knows me
EMMA:knows I love one-on-one
EMMA:coaching, I felt like there
EMMA:was just a little bit of
EMMA:something, something missing
EMMA:from a practical perspective.
EMMA:So master classes are amazing.
EMMA:Learning new things are
EMMA:amazing, but putting things
EMMA:into action and having that
EMMA:accountability, wow, nothing,
EMMA:nothing better than that.
EMMA:So we.
EMMA:Put an experiment in for small
EMMA:group coaching, and it landed
EMMA:beautifully with the group.
EMMA:It created that extra layer
EMMA:of depth, extra layer of
EMMA:connection and accountability.
EMMA:So now we've popped it into
EMMA:thriving women in 2026.
EMMA:So everyone gets small
EMMA:coaching experience.
EMMA:The other lesson is that
EMMA:systems matter than speed.
EMMA:Took me a while.
EMMA:The upgrades were a
EMMA:little bit painful,
EMMA:but totally essential.
EMMA:And I wouldn't have been ready
EMMA:for that three years ago.
EMMA:And I was probably
EMMA:ready for it a year ago.
EMMA:And we just couldn't sort
EMMA:out which one, how it was
EMMA:gonna work, all the things.
EMMA:then when we upgraded
EMMA:the systems, I'm like,
EMMA:ah, this is amazing.
EMMA:We can do new things.
EMMA:And the final reflection
EMMA:that I had was A strong
EMMA:business can hold you
EMMA:in a tough season.
EMMA:We had a big, a few things,
EMMA:a few tough seasons.
EMMA:It did not collapse
EMMA:while I was navigating
EMMA:health challenges.
EMMA:We haven't even talked about
EMMA:the fact I fainted on a
EMMA:zoom with a hundred women,
EMMA:you know, while I ch, while
EMMA:I grief, while I navigated
EMMA:travel and surgeries.
EMMA:that's about structure.
EMMA:That's not about luck.
EMMA:That's about having the
EMMA:right structure around
EMMA:you, the right support
EMMA:and the right community.
EMMA:And now there's something
EMMA:I would love you to do.
EMMA:I'd love you to sit down,
EMMA:blank, piece of paper in front
EMMA:of you and start with life.
EMMA:Write down what was good,
EMMA:what was hard, what surprised
EMMA:you, and what do you
EMMA:want to carry forward, and
EMMA:what can you let go of?
EMMA:'cause man, I'm letting
EMMA:go of a whole stack
EMMA:of stuff as well.
EMMA:And then I want you to
EMMA:look at your business
EMMA:and ask yourself, what
EMMA:worked, what didn't work?
EMMA:Where did you grow?
EMMA:Where did you overreach?
EMMA:And what needs to
EMMA:change next year?
EMMA:Then I want you to pick three
EMMA:things that you can celebrate.
EMMA:What were the quiet wins?
EMMA:What were the
EMMA:emotional shifts?
EMMA:What were the mindset shifts?
EMMA:What were the things
EMMA:that no one else saw,
EMMA:the internal work
EMMA:that you had to do?
EMMA:Once you've got all that,
EMMA:I would love you to think
EMMA:about 3 things that you
EMMA:can let go of is there a
EMMA:habit you need to ditch?
EMMA:Is there an expectation
EMMA:you need to let slide?
EMMA:there some clients
EMMA:you need to fire?
EMMA:Dare I say it?
EMMA:Are some offers or
EMMA:some outdated stories
EMMA:that just have to go?
EMMA:And then finally,
EMMA:just one thing.
EMMA:Just choose one thing to
EMMA:do differently next year,
EMMA:just one and that one thing.
EMMA:create the biggest ripple
EMMA:effect in your business
EMMA:and in your life as you
EMMA:reflect on your year.
EMMA:I wanna ask one more thing.
EMMA:I wanna ask that you
EMMA:do it with softness.
EMMA:This isn't a harsh
EMMA:task to make you go, I
EMMA:should have done this.
EMMA:I could have done that.
EMMA:La la, la, la, la this
EMMA:year has brought me beauty,
EMMA:it's brought me heartbreak,
EMMA:it's brought me progress.
EMMA:It's brought me pressure,
EMMA:joy, and challenge it, and
EMMA:I'm proud of all of it.
EMMA:And I hope that you feel
EMMA:the same about yours.
EMMA:If you are sitting there
EMMA:thinking, I can't have
EMMA:the same kind of year I
EMMA:had this year, I wanna do
EMMA:things differently next
EMMA:year, please reach out.
EMMA:We might be able to work
EMMA:with you one-on-one.
EMMA:You might be able to step
EMMA:into one of our programs.
EMMA:You might be able to come
EMMA:to a beautiful go-getter
EMMA:day and just feel the
EMMA:sense of community.
EMMA:That's it for today.
EMMA:That's my reflection.
EMMA:For a fabulous year of
EMMA:life and business, go well,