If you have.

Honestly, you don't.

If you, if you don't.

If you feel comfortable.

Honestly, I really don't have one per se.

Because I would talk about anything.

Well, well, we're not really speaking.

What is a non negotiable boundary.

That it don't matter who it is.

If they cross this.

That's around I. Oh, okay.

Well, if you want to go that route, it would be like, if I, if, If you see me walking away, don't try to come after me, because if you come after me, you're not gonna like what you're gonna receive.

All right, but that's a reaction.

True.

I want a subject.

What's a, what's the mental.

You got one.

As far as subject.

So, so if, If I'm understanding the non negotiable.

If I'm understanding this right, it should, it should be like, like, like something that I don't have to say.

Hey, you stepping over the line, like for instance, one's old lady or one's one significant other.

What you mean like, okay, now, you know, I don't, I don't have any of these people around me, but like there's, there's, there's homies that's out here trying to, trying to, trying to hit their homeboy old lady behind his back.

Yeah, all right, all right.

That's a non negotiable to you.

Hey, if you even look at my old lady in that type of way, we, me and you done.

It's some problems.

All right, well, since you put it in that aspect, since you put it in that aspect, yeah, that's definitely a big no, no, don't you even try that.

I've learned valuable lessons out of two.

So that being said, that's definitely a non.

Non negotiable.

We're together.

We're together.

Especially if we're married.

If we're married, we're married.

If you don't want to be.

Be with me, then fine, just tell me.

Don't go out cheating on me.

If you cheat on me, I don't know what I'll do the third time around.

Been through it twice.

I don't know what I'll debate.

All right, let me, let me help the people with some example.

Example.

If someone is racist,

we'll bigot and stand them.

But that would be, that could be considered a non negotiable in somebody's book.

Or hey, you can go the opposite way around.

Hey, if you're, if you don't think that we just should be with Our own kind.

You out of here.

You see what I'm saying?

Hey,

if to women, if, if this person doesn't make six figures, that's a non negotiable.

You think they don't got some women out there like that?

Oh, most definitely got some women out there.

Hey, that's a, that's, you know, that's an example of non negotiable.

You also got the, the men that want their women at the house think that their women should not work.

You know, hey, they got some dudes that'd be like, in this day and

time, you would have to by yourself.

You had to be in the seven figures in order to even make it.

To be honest, if you really want

to get technical, hey, some guys, a guy could be.

Hey, if someone is over this weight number, that's a non negotiable.

Well, you.

I got another idea.

There's some people that don't want children.

Hey, hey, that's their, that's their prerogative.

So if you are a woman who's sitting up there wanting kids and you talking to a guy that's saying, hey, I don't want no kids, why y' all even talking anymore?

Exactly.

Well, the conversation be over.

Right?

But see then, then you have the, the other side.

You got some females that don't want kids, but you got a man that wants kids.

So it could go either way

if

they got that boundary.

And it's non negotiable.

If you guys can work it out, work it out.

But if you can't move, move on to the next.

Now here's the question.

What if you, what if you think it's non negotiable but deep back there somewhere it really can be.

Because I mean,

you know what I just heard you say?

Mental.

What, what if they get you with that tricking baby and now you want a baby?

Now you're a family man.

Right?

Right.

I mean, like, if you really, you know, like people like to say love is the reason this and love is the reason that if you really love that person and you don't want children, but your partner do, and y' all done built a, an awesome life without children.

Are you.

Are, you know, I mean, you might, you might consider going back on that and having a child.

You might, you might.

I think a lot.

I think that the generation that's growing up that I think they got it right this time around because they're like, no, I'm not getting pregnant now.

I don't want no kids right now.

They're they're literally saying it.

What is that?

But they still get into relationships

and having unprotected sex.

Yeah.