Hello again and welcome to another episode
Dennis Collins:of Connect and Convert, your sales accelerator podcast,
Dennis Collins:where small business owners.
Dennis Collins:Insider secrets on how to grow their business.
Dennis Collins:I'm Dennis Collins and I'm joined by the
Dennis Collins:lovely and talented, Ms.
Dennis Collins:Leah say hello to everybody.
Leah Bumphrey:Hey, how are you doing Dennis?
Leah Bumphrey:Hi, everybody.
Leah Bumphrey:Good to be back.
Leah Bumphrey:Good to have you as always.
Leah Bumphrey:I love getting together with you like this.
Leah Bumphrey:We always get into some interesting discussions.
Leah Bumphrey:So I'm going to go in the Dennis way back machine here.
Leah Bumphrey:But before I do that, Leah, I want to ask you a question.
Leah Bumphrey:You've been in the business world for some time.
Leah Bumphrey:I'm, I am sure that you have attended many of
Leah Bumphrey:those meetings from hell.
Leah Bumphrey:Now, what do I mean by that?
Leah Bumphrey:You got 10 people sitting around the conference table
Leah Bumphrey:and two or three of them don't talk at all, two or
Leah Bumphrey:three of them talk too much.
Leah Bumphrey:And one or two of them talk too loud and are the loudest
Leah Bumphrey:voices in the room and you've got to make a decision.
Leah Bumphrey:Have you been in that meeting?
Leah Bumphrey:Oh, that just gives me the shivers.
Leah Bumphrey:Yes.
Leah Bumphrey:Very different than you and I sitting here and
Leah Bumphrey:having a great discussion.
Leah Bumphrey:Those meetings.
Leah Bumphrey:You know what?
Leah Bumphrey:I always think of, you know, when you're trying to focus
Leah Bumphrey:in on an idea, especially a creative idea, and you get
Leah Bumphrey:a whole bunch of different styles of people and yeah, oh
Leah Bumphrey:yeah, that's, it doesn't matter how many donuts are there.
Leah Bumphrey:It doesn't help.
Dennis Collins:You know, I love the diversity of the opinions,
Dennis Collins:but you know what I didn't like about those meetings is that
Dennis Collins:sometimes the people with the loudest voices are the ones.
Dennis Collins:That got their idea adopted.
Dennis Collins:That doesn't mean it was the best idea.
Dennis Collins:That means it was the loudest idea.
Dennis Collins:Been there.
Dennis Collins:Leah Bumphrey: That's exactly right.
Dennis Collins:And the loudest idea and everyone else just
Dennis Collins:wants to be done with it.
Dennis Collins:Yeah.
Dennis Collins:And okay.
Dennis Collins:They're talking very assertively and confidently.
Dennis Collins:Let's just let them have their way.
Dennis Collins:They must know what they're talking about.
Dennis Collins:And all of a sudden you make a decision that's supposed
Dennis Collins:to be a group decision.
Dennis Collins:And it's really the decision of one or two people.
Dennis Collins:And, you know, back again, now in the way back machine,
Dennis Collins:way back in the radio days, we had some tough decisions to
Dennis Collins:make your, you know, the radio business, you got to make sure
Dennis Collins:you have the right format.
Dennis Collins:Are you are you addressing what the listeners want to hear?
Dennis Collins:Okay.
Dennis Collins:How about your customers?
Dennis Collins:Are you serving them in the best way possible?
Dennis Collins:How about the marketing for your radio station?
Dennis Collins:Are you doing the best marketing job?
Dennis Collins:Thanks for.
Dennis Collins:Heavy decisions.
Leah Bumphrey:You know, and it's interesting because
Leah Bumphrey:most businesses have more than one customer, but in
Leah Bumphrey:radio in particular, it's interesting because you have
Leah Bumphrey:the listener who is a customer.
Leah Bumphrey:And then you have the advertiser who's also a customer trying
Leah Bumphrey:to satisfy those two things.
Leah Bumphrey:You have the sales department and you have the
Leah Bumphrey:programming department and there should the two meet.
Leah Bumphrey:That, that becomes a lot of fun because I have often
Leah Bumphrey:wanted to be a programmer.
Leah Bumphrey:And you know what, Dennis, they've never wanted to
Leah Bumphrey:know what music I like.
Leah Bumphrey:Or what opinions I want on a talk station, or which sports.
Dennis Collins:No!
Leah Bumphrey:Really?
Leah Bumphrey:I can't believe it.
Leah Bumphrey:But there's programming.
Leah Bumphrey:That's not
Dennis Collins:right.
Leah Bumphrey:Thank you.
Leah Bumphrey:We're going to write a letter later.
Dennis Collins:Write a letter.
Dennis Collins:I'll stand up for you later.
Dennis Collins:Here's the deal.
Dennis Collins:You just enumerated one of the biggest issues I had as a
Dennis Collins:general manager of refereeing between programming, okay,
Dennis Collins:standing in the middle and trying to get A decision made.
Dennis Collins:Okay.
Dennis Collins:Just before we were about to embark on some really
Dennis Collins:important strategic decisions, something happened,
Dennis Collins:something really happened.
Dennis Collins:I had a lot of questions about our decision making process
Dennis Collins:because we will that team.
Dennis Collins:We loved each other.
Dennis Collins:We worked well together, but unfortunately we had.
Dennis Collins:Those kind of nonproductive meetings.
Dennis Collins:So I said to myself, self, how am I going to fix this?
Dennis Collins:I don't know.
Dennis Collins:I guess I don't know how to do this.
Dennis Collins:I was a young buck, kind of a new manager, but you know
Dennis Collins:what, Leah, I believe that when the student is ready,
Dennis Collins:the teacher will appear
Leah Bumphrey:and you know, it's absolutely true.
Dennis Collins:We were ready and here's what out of the blue
Dennis Collins:enter a guy named Jack Lanham.
Dennis Collins:This is one impressive guy, Leah.
Dennis Collins:You would love this guy.
Dennis Collins:He had a photographic memory.
Dennis Collins:One day at a staff meeting, I invited him to a staff lunch.
Dennis Collins:I had probably 35 people there.
Dennis Collins:People at this lunch, he lined us all up and he said,
Dennis Collins:give me a random number from one to a hundred.
Dennis Collins:I think is what he said.
Dennis Collins:Each person had to give him a number.
Dennis Collins:He went back and recited every one of those 35 numbers
Dennis Collins:and they weren't one to 35.
Dennis Collins:And then he started in the middle and went to the left.
Dennis Collins:He started in the middle and went to the right and
Dennis Collins:he knew every single number.
Dennis Collins:He did that numerous times.
Dennis Collins:Anyway, he was also a Kung Fu master.
Dennis Collins:He taught us how to break boards.
Dennis Collins:That was fun.
Dennis Collins:My staff loved that.
Dennis Collins:He's an author, a prolific author.
Dennis Collins:He's a motivational speaker, a business guru.
Dennis Collins:His dedication, Leah, was people first.
Dennis Collins:That's the whole slogan.
Dennis Collins:That's the whole mantra of his life and of his practice.
Dennis Collins:He was a master at showing people how to become
Dennis Collins:more productive, more efficient, more effective.
Dennis Collins:So the teacher arrived.
Dennis Collins:He, it would take four, five, six episodes of
Dennis Collins:our podcast to tell you.
Dennis Collins:Even a small bit of what he taught us.
Dennis Collins:But I want to share one today.
Dennis Collins:One of the quickest and easiest ways to make better,
Dennis Collins:higher quality decisions.
Dennis Collins:He introduced us to a guy named Edward Debono ever
Dennis Collins:heard of Edward Debono, Dr.
Dennis Collins:Edward Debono.
Leah Bumphrey:I don't think
Dennis Collins:Today
Dennis Collins:we're going to talk about him.
Dennis Collins:The father of lateral thinking.
Dennis Collins:He, Jack Lanham, taught us how to think.
Dennis Collins:That's the biggest gift, the greatest gift he could
Dennis Collins:have given to us, right?
Dennis Collins:So learning about De Bono was absolutely mind altering.
Dennis Collins:De Bono teaches you to think in ways you never thought
Dennis Collins:of thinking before, okay?
Dennis Collins:You look at things differently.
Dennis Collins:You use different tools.
Dennis Collins:In your toolbox that are always there, but we never
Dennis Collins:use them to see a situation in a different light.
Dennis Collins:Why?
Dennis Collins:Because that's what helps us make better decisions.
Dennis Collins:I think the most impactful lesson that Jack taught
Dennis Collins:us from De Bono was the Six Thinking Hats.
Dennis Collins:Have you ever heard of that, Lea?
Dennis Collins:The Six Thinking Hats?
Leah Bumphrey:No.
Leah Bumphrey:We're not getting into Harry Potter here.
Leah Bumphrey:I know that for sure.
Leah Bumphrey:And this isn't a five versus five thing.
Leah Bumphrey:But you have me intrigued.
Leah Bumphrey:You have me intrigued, Dennis.
Dennis Collins:Okay.
Leah Bumphrey:You always do.
Dennis Collins:The reason I like this is because it's easy.
Dennis Collins:It's fun.
Dennis Collins:And it helps.
Dennis Collins:You can even make personal decisions, not just
Dennis Collins:business decisions better with using the six hats.
Dennis Collins:So it's basically six different colored hats.
Dennis Collins:Let's talk about the white hat.
Leah Bumphrey:Okay.
Dennis Collins:When you're in a group meeting, say there
Dennis Collins:are 10 people in the group.
Dennis Collins:The leader of the group says, okay, put on your
Dennis Collins:white hat at that moment.
Dennis Collins:No one can talk about anything but facts, objective,
Dennis Collins:measurable, available facts, data, statistics,
Dennis Collins:evidence, We would ask the question under the white hat.
Dennis Collins:What do we know or maybe what information do we need?
Dennis Collins:Does that make sense the white hat?
Leah Bumphrey:Okay.
Leah Bumphrey:Yes, it does.
Leah Bumphrey:So everybody has to follow that
Dennis Collins:Yes for that period of time whether it's
Dennis Collins:five minutes ten minutes a half hour, whatever time you
Dennis Collins:need you put on the white hat There's no emotions.
Dennis Collins:There's no negatives.
Dennis Collins:It's all facts Objective, not opinions, facts.
Dennis Collins:But then here's the one that really hit me because, you know,
Dennis Collins:a lot of so called business gurus say you can't use emotion
Dennis Collins:when you're making decisions and I'm going to counter that and
Dennis Collins:say, if you don't use emotion, you don't make good decisions.
Dennis Collins:So incomes, the red hat, this is where, when everybody
Dennis Collins:puts on, yeah, the red hat.
Dennis Collins:Intuition.
Dennis Collins:What's Leah, what's your gut feeling about that?
Dennis Collins:What do you, how do you feel about that?
Dennis Collins:You don't have to justify.
Leah Bumphrey:You know, I'm going to have that, you know,
Leah Bumphrey:that I'm going to have that.
Leah Bumphrey:I might not have a lot to say with the white, but
Leah Bumphrey:man, give me that my chance to put my red hat on.
Dennis Collins:And you just.
Dennis Collins:You just enumerated the beauty of this process because not
Dennis Collins:everybody is great at every hat, but there's always somebody
Dennis Collins:in the room who's good at one of the hats in particular.
Dennis Collins:The, we can, under the red hat, we consider how others
Dennis Collins:might react to the situation.
Dennis Collins:So that's a hat that I liked DeBona because sometimes
Dennis Collins:we don't use that, the feeling, in decision making.
Dennis Collins:Okay, there's got to be, dun, the black hat.
Dennis Collins:The black hat.
Dennis Collins:Yes.
Dennis Collins:The caution and critical judgment hat.
Dennis Collins:This is where we identify the risks.
Dennis Collins:Okay, gee, what if we do this?
Dennis Collins:What are the unintended consequences?
Dennis Collins:Play.
Dennis Collins:There are some people in those meetings I mentioned
Dennis Collins:earlier that play devil's advocate for the whole meeting.
Dennis Collins:But in, in six hat thinking you can only play devil's advocate
Dennis Collins:when the black hat is on.
Dennis Collins:Okay, we look for flaws in the plan.
Dennis Collins:We look what could go wrong.
Dennis Collins:Okay.
Dennis Collins:Worst case scenarios.
Dennis Collins:So we put the black hat on and say, what is the worst
Dennis Collins:thing that can happen?
Dennis Collins:A lot.
Dennis Collins:Okay.
Leah Bumphrey:So that doesn't sound evil or anything.
Leah Bumphrey:Cause often when we hear black hat, we start thinking,
Leah Bumphrey:Oh, this is, there's the comes the bad guy.
Leah Bumphrey:But what you're saying is it's not and just the
Leah Bumphrey:way you're presenting it.
Leah Bumphrey:It's just a, let's look at this carefully.
Dennis Collins:It's another look, another view.
Dennis Collins:of a potential idea.
Dennis Collins:Okay.
Dennis Collins:And now you probably like this hat to a yellow hat.
Dennis Collins:The yellow hat is the optimistic at the positive thinking hat.
Dennis Collins:This focuses on the benefits, the value.
Dennis Collins:It looks for opportunities.
Dennis Collins:It looks to for constructive solutions.
Dennis Collins:It encourages a positive, optimistic outlook.
Dennis Collins:So when the yellow hat is on, no black hat, no
Dennis Collins:red hat, no white hat.
Dennis Collins:It's all about, gee, we can do this and we can do this.
Dennis Collins:And when we do this, it will, that's a good hat.
Leah Bumphrey:Yellow sunshine and lollipops,
Leah Bumphrey:sunshine and lollipops for a couple of minutes.
Leah Bumphrey:Okay.
Dennis Collins:And now we go,
Leah Bumphrey:I promise.
Dennis Collins:Come on.
Dennis Collins:I think we ought to have a portion of this podcast
Dennis Collins:where we start saying,
Leah Bumphrey:Hey, we're going to have a musical
Leah Bumphrey:episode one of these days.
Leah Bumphrey:Okay.
Leah Bumphrey:Sorry.
Dennis Collins:Anyway, we'll talk about that.
Dennis Collins:Next hat.
Dennis Collins:We got two more hats.
Dennis Collins:The green hat.
Dennis Collins:This is where the idea that's under consideration.
Dennis Collins:We say, okay, what other splinter ideas can
Dennis Collins:we have off this hat?
Dennis Collins:Okay.
Dennis Collins:New ideas, alternates.
Dennis Collins:This is where you say, Hey, we could do this
Dennis Collins:and we could do that.
Dennis Collins:Or we could do this and we could do that.
Dennis Collins:This is where the green hat signifies growth,
Dennis Collins:signifies new ideas.
Dennis Collins:Creativity seeks out innovative Unconventional approaches.
Dennis Collins:So you have permission under the green hat to
Dennis Collins:just let your mind go wild.
Dennis Collins:You would like that at, wouldn't you?
Dennis Collins:When that happens on you, You would be a big
Dennis Collins:contributor to that.
Dennis Collins:You would be a,
Leah Bumphrey:I think I'm a kind of a general hat person.
Leah Bumphrey:. This is I'm loving this.
Leah Bumphrey:I'm visualizing some of these meetings that I've
Leah Bumphrey:been involved in and Wow.
Leah Bumphrey:With this kind of matrix, you would really
Leah Bumphrey:accomplish something.
Leah Bumphrey:Anyway, sorry.
Leah Bumphrey:Let's keep going.
Dennis Collins:One more hat.
Dennis Collins:One more hat.
Dennis Collins:One more hat.
Dennis Collins:The blue hat is really the organizational hat.
Dennis Collins:That's the hat you wear.
Dennis Collins:When you want to change hats, say, okay, let's put
Dennis Collins:on the blue hat we've been through, say the white, what
Dennis Collins:do you want to go to next?
Dennis Collins:So that's the process hat.
Dennis Collins:It defines the agenda, sets the goals, the
Dennis Collins:objectives, summarizes, makes the final decision.
Dennis Collins:So when we put the blue hat on, we say, okay,
Dennis Collins:what have we heard today?
Dennis Collins:We've heard from five different viewpoints.
Dennis Collins:What do you all think is winning the day?
Dennis Collins:That's when we put the blue hat on.
Dennis Collins:Does that make sense?
Dennis Collins:Because we got to make a decision.
Dennis Collins:And that's the decision.
Leah Bumphrey:Absolutely.
Leah Bumphrey:And everyone has had a chance to talk because you
Leah Bumphrey:identified a few things that are obviously me.
Leah Bumphrey:I would be, you know, I'd want to be Pollyanna.
Leah Bumphrey:I'd want to be emotional.
Leah Bumphrey:I'd like to get into stuff.
Leah Bumphrey:You would bring to the table all the logic.
Leah Bumphrey:You know, a whole bunch of information, a whole bunch
Leah Bumphrey:of background, but it doesn't mean that you also can't bring
Leah Bumphrey:some of the yellow or reds.
Leah Bumphrey:So by forcing the issue, it's a comfort zone thing too,
Leah Bumphrey:for everyone to participate.
Dennis Collins:You said that well, it's a comfort zone thing
Dennis Collins:and you know what it does?
Dennis Collins:It does allow everyone to participate.
Dennis Collins:And that's one of the rules that I, when I
Dennis Collins:used it in my business, that's one of the rules.
Dennis Collins:Everybody has to contribute.
Dennis Collins:You don't have to contribute equally on every hat, but
Dennis Collins:you got to contribute.
Dennis Collins:If everybody doesn't contribute, then we go back to screaming
Dennis Collins:and hollering and yelling and all these things that
Dennis Collins:should not be used in a decision making meeting.
Dennis Collins:I, you know, I still use this.
Dennis Collins:I teach this.
Dennis Collins:There are a couple clients recently that I've taught
Dennis Collins:it to back in the day.
Dennis Collins:We would share this with our clients.
Dennis Collins:Our radio station clients is kind of a value added to say,
Dennis Collins:Hey, you guys want some help in making better decisions.
Dennis Collins:Here's some ideas.
Dennis Collins:That's the six thinking hats.
Dennis Collins:You know, speaking of thinking, by the way, I was
Dennis Collins:I was thinking about the wizard academy the other day.
Dennis Collins:I was thinking about a recent class you and I attended.
Dennis Collins:I know they had a repeat of that class.
Dennis Collins:And I'm thinking about all the upcoming wonderful classes.
Dennis Collins:That are available at wizard of ads.
Dennis Collins:org Leah and I will absolutely represent that it is a life
Dennis Collins:changing trip to Austin, Texas.
Dennis Collins:So next time you're thinking about expanding your brain
Dennis Collins:and six thinking hats is all about that is expanding
Dennis Collins:your mind wizardacademy.
Dennis Collins:org.
Dennis Collins:Would be a good place to start.
Leah Bumphrey:That is a good segue into one of our
Leah Bumphrey:questions that we had from our our excited listeners.
Leah Bumphrey:And because we are often talking about the classes at
Leah Bumphrey:wizard Academy, the question was, what would you recommend
Leah Bumphrey:for a business owner?
Leah Bumphrey:What?
Leah Bumphrey:What?
Dennis Collins:Because
Leah Bumphrey:it's an investment of time, money.
Dennis Collins:Yeah, it's true
Leah Bumphrey:for me.
Leah Bumphrey:When I go down there, I gotta take a couple of
Leah Bumphrey:travel days to get there and it's still worth it.
Leah Bumphrey:So what would you recommend?
Leah Bumphrey:I know it's in my head, but Dennis, I'm looking at you.
Dennis Collins:That's it's hard to pick just one.
Dennis Collins:But you know, there's a class called portals.
Dennis Collins:Are you familiar with that class portals?
Leah Bumphrey:That one I have not taken.
Dennis Collins:Oh, listen Roy William, the founder of wizard
Dennis Collins:academy used to be the teacher there, but Dave Young, who's
Dennis Collins:the vice chancellor of wizard academy is now honchoing that.
Dennis Collins:And I took it with Roy numerous times and I took it
Dennis Collins:with Dave and you know, it's interesting to see portals.
Dennis Collins:Through Dave's eyes, he has a little different spin than Roy.
Dennis Collins:And of course everybody would, but I highly
Dennis Collins:recommend going to portals.
Dennis Collins:Portals is a metaphor for openings, beginnings, new
Dennis Collins:beginnings, and Dave Young, vice chancellor, Dave Young
Dennis Collins:does an incredible job.
Dennis Collins:I highly recommend, I think they only offer it once a year.
Dennis Collins:What's yours, Leah?
Leah Bumphrey:It's the big one.
Leah Bumphrey:It's magical world.
Leah Bumphrey:I've gone down there for it.
Leah Bumphrey:I've actually taken that one.
Leah Bumphrey:Three times and every time, depending on who
Leah Bumphrey:is teaching, wow, you get something out of it.
Leah Bumphrey:That's different.
Leah Bumphrey:It can be from a creative end.
Leah Bumphrey:It can be from a business perspective, but I, that's
Leah Bumphrey:three days well invested and it totally immerses you.
Leah Bumphrey:In and you know, everything that a wizard academy is about,
Dennis Collins:you know, I agree with you.
Dennis Collins:I, Roy was the the lead instructor on that for years.
Dennis Collins:And I believe Dan, the chancellor, Daniel
Dennis Collins:Whittington has taken that class over as well.
Dennis Collins:Have not seen Daniel's version.
Dennis Collins:I do want to see that because again, it's the
Dennis Collins:same basic material.
Dennis Collins:It's just a little different spin.
Dennis Collins:And that's, what's exciting about wizard academy.
Dennis Collins:You get a lot of different viewpoints.
Leah Bumphrey:That's what's so much fun about you and I talking
Leah Bumphrey:because we were talking about the same stuff and we've seen
Leah Bumphrey:it from different perspectives.
Leah Bumphrey:And so we put a different spin that brings us to the challenge.
Leah Bumphrey:I think that everyone listening should go.
Leah Bumphrey:To wizardacademy.
Leah Bumphrey:org, just daydream a little bit.
Leah Bumphrey:Daydream about the class that you would take.
Leah Bumphrey:It's ten minutes, spent, to have a little vacation
Leah Bumphrey:and wander through the the pictures and just get a feel
Leah Bumphrey:for what we're talking about.
Leah Bumphrey:That's my challenge for people today.
Dennis Collins:Totally agree.
Dennis Collins:And Maybe put a
Dennis Collins:Leah Bumphrey: different color hat on.
Dennis Collins:Dennis Collins: Take a few minutes.
Dennis Collins:In the next meeting you have, either with your
Dennis Collins:family or with your business associates, go through the
Dennis Collins:hats only one at a time.
Dennis Collins:Let each hat be heard.
Dennis Collins:Let each person be heard.
Dennis Collins:Listen for the ahas, the new perspectives, the new ideas.
Dennis Collins:The new information that will inform your decision.
Dennis Collins:I highly recommend it.
Dennis Collins:Liam, we're out of time.
Dennis Collins:We're out of time for today.
Dennis Collins:Thank you as always for being here with us and
Dennis Collins:our viewers and listeners.
Dennis Collins:I invite you to stay tuned each week for a new edition
Dennis Collins:of Connect and Convert.