We're so used to fighting fire with fire. I've done that in

We have all these blockages in us when we're children and they will

stay there until you can get them out. Whether it's through some

breathwork, whether it's being around people you feel safe

Peace is one of the higher vibrations that you can

actually experience within yourself. It's really, really

important to be that person that somebody comes home

to and is excited to come home to. Because I know a

lot of relationships these days have problems because...

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ora whanau and welcome back to the Krystal Rowe Impact Podcast. And

today we're going to talk about becoming a peaceful woman and

what that means in today's society, and how that

actually can impact not only yourself, but for

those around you. And today I have my amazing husband,

who I have had the pleasure and honor of

And today, whanau, I want to really highlight the

importance of being peaceful

and what that actually can do for those around

you. It's not an easy journey to actually get

to that point in your life. And there's a lot of work that

you need to do. There's a lot of choices that you need to make. But

most importantly, I think it's about the intention that

you want to be for somebody else. how you

want to show up for them, and how you want to represent

yourself as that person in not

only your partner's life, but your children. Like, are

you your loved one's safe space?

Are you the peaceful place that they want to rush home

to? Or are you chaos? Are you

fear? I encourage you to ask yourself that question. What

are you to your family? What are you to your children?

And most importantly, what are you

to your husband? Are you peace or are you chaos? My

love, I want to ask you a question. How has

me being a safe

and peaceful place for you to heal

in actually impacted or sped up

Being around you, my love, and since we've been

together has honestly 10x my healing journey

in many ways. And one

of the other podcasters, we talked about children

having love and safety. Growing

up, there was a lot of love in our house, but there

were times where there wasn't a lot of safety. With

safety, you have peace as well. So when I

started to feel the safety

with you, like I was able to let

go of a lot of things that were were

hurting me on the inside. You allowed that space for me

to just get it out, which is so amazing. And

we have all these blockages in us when

we're children, and they will stay there

until you can get them out, whether it's through

some breathwork, whether it's talking to someone about it, or

journaling, or just being

around people, you feel safe enough to

get this out. And I felt that with

you, like, since day one. And it was just so refreshing and

so beautiful to be able to just get out some

of these trapped traumas that I had

for me to grow faster. Yeah.

So yeah, you allowed me, there was one point right at the beginning,

actually, that you allowed space for me and I actually released released

a trauma with you that I'd held inside since

I was six years old. The feeling I

got after being able to just freely

bring that up with you, knowing that I had that safe space to

do so, I just

leveled up. I felt so free to

And I do remember that. It's one moment,

I think, early in our relationship. And

I remember holding you and

just wanting you to be at peace. Like

I didn't know what it was you were breaking

down to say the least. I think like

you were like breaking apart, releasing, being

fearful, acknowledging it, seeing it, living

it, like all of those emotions were coming out. I

just chose to be there

with you and just try and be

peaceful, to hold that peace, to try and

push it through into you while you're releasing all

It was, it was beautiful. You were, like,

you know now that you were the first person I've ever told this

particular situation and it was just

And I feel like if we can, as women, be

that pivotal point that

that part and play that role for

men, especially because we are trying to focus on men's

mental health a lot lately and all of

that. I feel like in today's society, it's

very masculine. You

know, I don't need a man kind of vibe. And

it's like a woman's world and

women are taking over. And that's great. It's

great. I strongly support

woman being empowered and going after their

dreams. That's how we raise our girls, to be

independent and strong, but also finding

that beautiful balance of peace

and harmony. And if we are that, because I

remember back in the days, you know, like you had your elder,

you had your nanny, you had your mom and that, and they all

were just so, wise, you

know, you've got your wise woman. And I think as well as

being strong and masculine and independent, having that

balance of harmony and

that perception of peace is equally

empowering. it's equally as strong.

It is so important. It is because then it allows

space for men and others, children,

friends, to be able to show

up as themselves, knowing that they're going

to be accepted. Because I

think we have talked about it like back in quite

a few episodes ago about the Hawkins Scale of Consciousness. And

peace is one of the higher vibrations that you

can actually experience within yourself. And

when you are on that vibration of peace, and

that's your goal to always achieve peace, everything

else flows. Like everything flows in

that direction that you're going and that you want

to achieve. I think that it's really, really

important to be that

person that somebody comes home to and is excited

to come home to. Because I know a lot of relationships these

days have problems because, you know, men are struggling at

work with the workload and then they come home and

then there's that pressure. But for you, when you've

had a big day at work and you know that you're

getting to come home to a peaceful partner

instead of somebody that's gonna pick on you

and, you know, judge you and point out what you haven't done.

Oh, it just makes your working day go a

lot quicker and you start to enjoy it a lot better as

well. Knowing that you're coming home to your

family full of peace and yeah,

You seem peaceful already. Yeah, I am actually. At

I think the reason to pursue becoming

a peaceful woman for myself is

not only empowerment within myself to

know that I am creating

a beautiful place for the people that I love, but

it also empowers other women to do

You're empowering me too, to be peaceful as well. Let's

say I do have a bad day and I come home with a bit of chaos and frustration,

and I'm approached with just peace. My

wife is just peaceful. So I'm going to mirror you. So

if you, like, bounce back at me and say, well, I've had an effing bad

day too, and this and that, then I just want to overtake. I

want to make my situation worse. But because you're peaceful,

I mirror that, which creates peace with inside me

as well. And it's just one beautiful,

And I love that too, because when this

world's already so crazy and there's so much problems,

And we're so used to fighting fire with fire. Like

I've done that in previous relationships. You've done that in previous relationships.

Yeah. And I think normalizing that, normalizing

the feminine role to be one of peace and harmony

and support and nurture, because that's what

the true essence of feminine energy is,

is that nurturing, that loving, that

kind and safe. It's like that motherly figure,

kind of just like I

just kind of feel like grandma vibes, you know, like you're

just thinking of just like when you see your little grandma and

she's just like everything, you know. And you'll

know that too, how you feel with your nan and how

much you just, you know, that one,

that one person. And I truly believe that we can

all be that, whether you're male or

female. You can always be that

peaceful, peaceful person. So if you loved that

episode and you could feel that peace that

we were experiencing and that we live by,

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