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Ladies did you know that June is home safety month and you're

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Well, what do I do?

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Well, guess what?

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We have a guest coming on today that is going to teach you some amazing

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And they will love the field trip idea.

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Stay tuned.

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Welcome to the American Mothers: Mom to Mom Podcast.

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The show that lifts, encourages, supports, and educates mothers to do their best in

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Join us as we talk to and answer questions from mothers nationwide about the

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We are so pleased to introduce Jake Larsen who's been with the Pleasant

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He has accomplished many things throughout his career.

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He became a nationally certified paramedic, earned his bachelor

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He has worked his way through the ranks of Lieutenant, and captain is

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He enjoys camping, hunting, and anything that has to do with the outdoors.

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He has a beautiful wife and a four year old little girl.

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And I'm sure you'd like to brag on her.

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Jake.

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Thanks for being with us today.

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You want to tell us a little bit about her?

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We love hearing stories from dads.

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I've got a funny story that I actually had to talk to my wife a little bit about it.

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There's so many stories with the age group she's in right now.

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She's super talkative and she's got quite the personality.

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So I'm like, what can I tell them?

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And she brought up one of the, instances we had with her.

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She had actually talked about her boyfriend.

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And she started talking about a guy named T.

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So my wife proceeded to ask her.

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Who's T?

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Cause we don't know anybody by the name of T.

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So she starts to explain that this T individual goes on fire calls.

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And then he goes on medical calls and when he goes on the fires, he puts them out.

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So she started to describe this T and she thought it was kind of funny because

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dad, me and she was super excited to tell mom about T and who he was and

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So she described my job exactly how she sees it, which is kind of funny.

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She sees dad going to fire calls and I come home and talk to her about it.

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It's funny, the little things that they grab out of the job and how

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So I hit her up last night and I said, Hey, do you still have a boyfriend?

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And she says, yeah.

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And I said, who is it?

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And she says, T and I said, who is T?

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And she's like, you dad.

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I became her boyfriend.

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I guess.

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That's kind of fun for a few years.

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Dad's are the heroes.

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Yeah, so she's fun.

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She's enjoyable to be around.

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I love that you go and talk to her about it.

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Yeah.

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So she's aware of what you do.

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With the fire service we're gone a lot, especially when I was a captain.

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I worked at 48/ 96, so I worked two days on and four days off.

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And oftentimes on those four days, I'm actually getting

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I was gone a lot.

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And so I helped her understand why so that we're there to help people, and

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So it helped with that to help her understand why I was gone.

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In an office, you can usually get along without a member of the team, but in

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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We, we have a hard time responding to calls when we lose a couple of them.

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So we have people come in on overtime and stuff like that

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we certainly appreciate your service and all those throughout

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We'd be in a sad place without your service.

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The role of the fire Marshall is a lot to do with public information.

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Is that right?

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Correct.

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Yeah.

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As well as enforcing the safety regulations.

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Yep.

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A lot of that and education to the public as well on fire stuff and how we can

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So all mothers and families want to keep their families safe.

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Can you tell us and explain what are some of the common safety issues in

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A lot of the issues that we see when we go out, a lot of medical

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So that I think is the top.

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Whether it be, they just fall and they need help up.

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That's what we get called to the most.

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A lot of that has to do with housekeeping, things like that.

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Whether your home's got railing, whether the carpet's in good working order because

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That's the stuff we're seeing.

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So keeping your housekeeping up.

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I know it's hard with kids and stuff like that, but you get toys and things

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And then next thing you know, you're at the bottom calling us for help.

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You find a lot of the elderly, when they're getting into the tub and things

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A lot of that can be prevented just by putting in hand rails and things like

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So, there's a few things that cause us to be called, but I would say

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A lot of homes are now using occasional rugs or throw rugs.

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Yeah.

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So is that an issue also, if they don't have non-skid stuff?

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Yeah.

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And they'll get bunched up and next thing you know, you're tripping over them.

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So that's something that you want to be aware of.

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If you've got somebody that has a hard time moving or something like that.

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Maybe get rid of those rugs at that point.

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And then when they're able to move again, because you'll have people that go

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If you have a rug or something, that's in the way, maybe that's something

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Obviously there's other things that, that come and go.

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But falls is probably the number one right now.

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You get into fires, you get into carbon monoxide, that kind of stuff.

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I know we've been on a couple calls where people are doing construction

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That's something that people don't pay attention to as well as they're just down

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We've been on a call recently where that happened.

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And so it's just things that people don't necessarily pay attention to.

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They're used to run on the power saw, but outside, right?

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So they get inside and not realize it and fill up home full of CO.

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And then you've got people getting sick or, you can die from that really fast.

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My husband still takes his saws outside.

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Yeah.

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Or he has the windows open so there's some good cross ventilation there.

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Would that be helpful if they would at least do that?

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Yep.

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And that's the biggest thing.

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As long as the contractor or whoever's doing it, if you take those steps

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I don't know if you want me to go through a couple more things.

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So choking is a big one.

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We get called on choking quite a bit.

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It's kind of across the board with age.

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We've gotten people middle-aged that they call us for choking, to

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Most of the time people are able to dislodge it by the time we get there.

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Going through training, getting with your local fire department and going

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maneuver or whatever it might be to get yourself up to where if it

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That's something that we see quite often.

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We get there and it's dislodged.

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That's awesome.

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That's what we're looking for.

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Right.

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We don't want them to be choking the whole time while we're trying to get there.

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But it does happen and we've been on a few calls where we've had to

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The other one that has to do with choking is poisoning.

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We get a lot of little kids getting in their parents' medicine

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Those happen quite often.

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Simple fixes with those is just keeping your medications, where

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I know of kids are super Curious.

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And so they'll do anything they can to get up into the medicine cabinet.

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They'll climb, they'll stack things.

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They'll do what they can.

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And so we have to be super cognizant of that.

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And then not so much around here, but I know in other places such as St.

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George or Las Vegas, places like that with pools, drowning's a big one.

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I know in Pleasant Grove, we've been on a couple and we don't have a ton of

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That's a big one that we need to make sure that the, the pool area is secure

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go in there and they're curious, like I said, they just want to go see what's

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Sounds fun, especially on those hot days.

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Another one, speaking with drowning.

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Yeah, you don't mind.

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Bathtub drowning, I always think about that and tubs of water outside.

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Or where the summertime's coming and the plastic pools are left out.

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The people don't want to dump them out and fill them up every day.

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Exactly.

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Everybody's trying to save a little water here and there, what they can.

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So, yeah, it's definitely something that we need to keep our eyes out on.

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Especially in the bathtubs.

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Hopefully we're not leaving our little ones in the bathtub, but

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And I think that's where we can prevent some of that

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Another one that you don't see a ton of it, but we do see

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My little girl actually burned her finger yesterday.

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We're making a breakfast for dinner and have the waffle maker out.

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And she's like, what's this dad?

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And she went to touch it to lift up the lid.

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Well, she didn't grab the handle.

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She grabbed the little metal portion of it and she got her finger pretty good.

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That's something that we try and teach her is she always wants to help.

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She's always willing to jump in and want to cook.

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But, we always tell her, stay away from the stove and stay away from this.

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And she gets upset cause she wants to be in there.

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And I think she learned a lesson yesterday and hopefully with

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So she never got a big burn, but that first burn, she knows now that that's hot

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So sometimes it's hard, but then sometimes they have to learn the

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So those are, those are probably one of the biggest ones that we

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A lot of times it depends on the the season cause a lot of times

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You get a lot of kids, you get a lot of people out riding bikes, you get

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So we start to see an increase in car versus bicycle, that kind of stuff.

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So, best thing to do is teach your kids, those cars aren't

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What about dehydration during the summer months?

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Are you called in on that, very much?

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We do see that once in a while.

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We cover the canyon, a small canyon up here in Pleasant Grove.

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We get people hiking up to the waterfall and then get

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And next thing you know, they haven't taken the water that

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And we have been on quite a few of those where they get a little disoriented

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Search and rescue will go and help with that.

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Once they bring them down to the ambulance at the staging area, we'll assess them,

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Well, Jake, we need to take a little break for commercial right now.

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We look forward to talking to you after the break.

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Thank you.

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Sounds good.

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Thanks.

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When the 2006 National Young Mother of the Year and former National

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she replied, "There is such strength and inspiration found in this organization's

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Each day, I am amazed by the true selflessness of the women

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You embody all the admirable qualities for which the first

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It is an honor and privilege to serve in an organization

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And we are back.

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We have been talking to Jake Larsen and he is the Fire Marshall and Battalion

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I've heard a little bit about having a 72 hour kit, but you on

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Tell me why.

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So, a 72 hour kit is great.

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It just doesn't quite give us enough time.

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Cause if we have a major incident here in Utah, most likely it's

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So all of the agencies around here, different fire departments

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Our goal is to get as much of our personnel back to the fire station, to be

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So it may take two to three days cause a lot of our guys

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So you think about it back when Pleasant Grove was a volunteer fire department,

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So we had those response times because we were able to respond from home and

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Now we're a full-time department.

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They can live anywhere.

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So we come and work a 48 hour shift and then go home.

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So when that emergency happens, we've only got six guys on duty at one time.

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So they can only do so much.

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You can imagine what the chaos is going to be if it's a giant earthquake.

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So there's going to be a lot of stuff that's going to have to come

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So that's why we recommend having that 96 hour kit is giving yourself time to

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Something you mentioned also on the website is it applies to people

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As I've been looking over your 11 month program.

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Yeah.

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And the thing that I liked it says put a little money away in small bills every

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There's so many good tips on this.

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Go ahead and explain a little bit more about it, but I just learned

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I'm going to start applying that to my family.

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Yeah.

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Our chief that just recently retired about a year ago.

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His name was chief Thomas.

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He's the one that took this whole 96 hour kit and started going through and

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He was big into being prepared and making sure that other people

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Obviously it costs money and that's why Chief eventually set this up is so that

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bit of money . We want to be as ready as we can soon, but this is allows us to

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And he set that up so that you've got your water storage, your Water purification

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Right.

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Water and food what's going to keep us going.

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He's definitely set that up to be very user-friendly and make sure

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Is that your biggest recommendation then for people to prepare for

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and be ready to be able to provide for their family, probably including

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Exactly.

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Yeah.

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I've got the website up.

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If you go into that step eight, it talks about first aid kits and things

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This is all kind of stuff that it's super simple, but it'll get you through a bind.

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A lot of the stuff they've put in there is like anti-inflammatory like

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If you end up breaking something and you need to split something for a day or two,

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So that's stuff that as a fire department, we teach a couple of classes.

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We teach CPR, we teach stop the bleed.

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We teach basics first aid as far as splinting and stuff like that.

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If the community wants to come and take a class, they just need to get with

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We do a lot of station tours here in Pleasant Grove.

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And a lot of times it's with scouting groups and things like

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But we'll come in and they'll ask questions and we're able to help them,

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When we do a station tour, we always try and implement some

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Oftentimes we'll go to schools and we'll do the same thing.

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We'll talk about the cool apparatus cause that's what most of the kids want to

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They want to see the lights.

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But we also try and implement a little bit of fire safety with it and what we do

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Now tell us what the website is and we'll also link it in the show notes.

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So it's.

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P L grove.org.

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If you just want to search it in Google, you can do that and search

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If you're outside the state, you may just have to type in the PL grove.org.

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And then there's a fire tab.

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You click on the fire tab and then it'll bring you to a link with a

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Awesome.

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Now, what are your recommendations as far as parents helping their kids prepare

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What is the best advice you can teach us about that.

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That's a tough one because different age groups are gonna

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And we find that often when we bring tours in.

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There's age groups that start to understand what 9-1-1 is and

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And then you've got your younger groups they don't care.

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They just want to see everything that's going on at the firehouse.

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So it's really hard to specifically say how I would teach them.

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Probably the biggest thing is get them out to the firehouses

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And then they start to understand that, Hey, if I call 9 1 1,, it's going to

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And we try and teach those kids that, that when you're calling 9-1-1,

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And so it kind of sinks in with them.

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If I call these guys are leaving and we try and show them that if we're outside

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call, because he called 9 1 1, there could be somebody else in need of an

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So someone else has to get called.

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And so it often makes them think.

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I think getting them out to the firehouse and letting the fire guys talk to them.

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I think that's an awesome way to prepare your kids and show them exactly

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That means needing an officer, they can go visit with the officers

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. That way they see it.

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Oftentimes they'll see it on cartoons.

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Cause my little girl watches stuff with Paw Patrol.

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It's very educational, but it also helps them to go see that, that

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So maybe a good idea for mothers during the summer is schedule a field

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families and take your kids to the fire department and learn a few

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Okay.

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If we have an emergency here is what we do.

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Yeah.

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And a lot of times when we do those tours, we'll go through with the

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We'll talk about matches.

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We'll talk about things that we see like in the home that maybe

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And, We talk about oftentimes changing the batteries in our smoke alarms.

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We'll ask the kids and the kids.

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They'll be honest with us.

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They'll be like, my mom and dad never do that.

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Or we'll ask them about wearing their seatbelts in the car and they'll rat

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kid's not in a seatbelt or the mom or the dad's not in a seatbelt and causes

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And so we try and turn it on the parents a little bit, not to be mean,

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That kind of thing.

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And it makes them start to think when they hear the stories of things that we go on

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Cause we see a lot of stuff we don't like to see and it's not fun.

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And to be able to prevent that, it makes it a lot easier on us when we show up

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It's like, okay, you're good.

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Perfect.

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We're gonna move on to the next one and make sure that they're okay.

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That makes my day when we go on car accidents and there's no injury.

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Because that's ultimately what we're trying to prevent is that

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So that's something that's awesome.

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You take them to the firehouse and hopefully that the firehouse you

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And more than likely, they're going to have something that they're

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We'll do that with fire in your house too, as well.

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We'll talk about having a place where you go and actually meet.

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If you have a fire in your home, once you get the evacuation.

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Cause a lot of times people don't have evacuation plans in their

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Go over evacuation.

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Where do you meet once you're outside the house?

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Oftentimes we tell them meet at the mailbox or the neighbor's

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That way when we show up, we can ask them, Hey, who owns this home?

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They can come up and talk to us and say, Hey, all of our family is out.

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I've got them right here.

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Now we're going to go in and put the fire out.

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We're not going to worry about trying to find somebody cause that's our

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So that's what we're looking for.

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That's a really good plan.

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And I remember when my kids were younger and they would do fire safety

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But now that my kids are older, we haven't talked about it for awhile.

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So I think this is a good refresher for me and probably for everybody else.

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This is something that's important so that you can have safety in your home and your

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Or you and your spouse wherever you are in the mothering process, right?

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For sure.

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Wonderful.

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Deanne, do you have any more questions?

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No.

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I just really appreciate the time you spent with us Jake today

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Your job to help us stay safe.

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We have a job to not make you work so hard.

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We don't mind visiting.

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So we'll visit all day long as long as it's not an emergency.

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Right.

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That's good.

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Well, thank you so much for sharing your wisdom with us today, Jake,

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the Mom to Mom Podcast, and thank you for sharing with us how we can

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We appreciate it.

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You're welcome.

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Thanks for having me.

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My name is Chelsea Strand and I am the Mother of the Year

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I feel like, I do have high expectations for myself of what things are gonna

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And we're all going to be this happy little family.

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And I think it just goes to show too, that life is very uncertain and we can

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We want to challenge ourselves to be better each and every day, but that's

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And that it's not a personal thing.

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I mean, I think we've all been there to think like, oh, like right before

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My two year old threw her food on the floor, you know?

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And it's just like, that's okay.

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That doesn't mean that I'm a bad parent or I did something wrong.

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You're just going to have some of that.

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And so I guess to be, to be kind and humble, because there are days where

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you know, what's wrong with us, that we get these results, but you know,

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June is home safety month, but every month is important to

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There are several websites that provide information and checklists.

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One of the most important activities you can do with your family,

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Practice these with your children, just like they practice their fire

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And what if there's an emergency in your area, an earthquake,

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Have you talked about how you will connect?

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Maybe you can consider asking someone outside of your area or maybe even

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That way they can call them and let them know where they are and how they are.

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So when you connect with this friend, she can let you know that your family

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Celebrate home safety month by doing one of these things with your family.

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It's all about safety and being together and taking care of one another.

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Next week, we have Dr.

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Renae Reinardy, who is a licensed psychologist and director of the

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And she's going to talk to us about managing emotions and what do we do with

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Now in the wake of COVID, how do we handle all these increased emotions.

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Is it okay to talk to people when you're feeling strong emotions stay tuned.

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We have these answers and more next week with Dr.

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Renae Reinardy.

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The 2021 Mother of the Year from the District of Columbia, Amber Golden shared

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I was surprised to learn the truth of this for my own family.

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I have found the great value and satisfaction and being a stay-at-home,

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While children's needs, obviously change as they develop, the real-time

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adulthood demanded made accessibility to a trusted loving ear and guidance essential

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