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I'm going to record an intro after this, an official intro.

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uh So what I'll do is come in with uh just a quick like,

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I'm here with Steph.

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Welcome.

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I'm here with Stephanie, CEO of mission.org CEO.

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Is it relevant.com or relevant?

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can say mission.org and relevant or relevant.com, whatever you want to do.

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And then we're going to, um, I'm going to start with asking about your transition from

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So you will just jump right into that of you were, you know, you had a company, you left

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like you left a stable job, you went to a company, but then you stayed behind the scenes,

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just so you know, this is new for me.

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I feel so honored.

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I have been listening to, I was, you know, consuming some of your podcast episodes and, uh

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Hi, Stephanie.

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Thank you for joining Life From Within.

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We are excited to chat with you today.

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uh so, Folks, we have Stephanie Postles, founder and CEO of Mission.org and founder and

CEO of Relvnt.com And she's here to talk with us today about some of her key uh moments of

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So, Stephanie, you...

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You were leading a billion dollar P & L at Google and you were in finance and you started

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So you were at Fannie Mae prior to Google.

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So you were in finance and then you made the leap to founding and running a company called

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So mission.org is for those of you who don't know mission.org is a podcast network.

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that has tech and business shows.

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And these are successful, very successful, millions of downloads uh on these shows.

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And then Relvnt.com, which is a more recent venture for you, is where you are uh leading,

helping clients develop successful media strategy, as I understand it, right?

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Yeah, you should come into my team.

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You can come pitch it now.

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Um, rewinding, were at Google, you started at Fannie Mae.

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And then you moved to Google.

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Um, you were at Google and then you went off and started mission.org.

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So tell us a little bit about that, how that, how that happened.

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So I mean, Google, of course, as everyone knows, it was an amazing place to work so much

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I could do almost whatever I wanted as long as I got a great job done.

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Um, and mission was started as a side project when I was at Google and this was kind of my

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Every time I'd work at a company, I would start to get a little bored.

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I would start a side project.

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It happened at Fannie Mae.

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it started as actually a medium publication and it was just telling stories.

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Like, let's just see how this goes.

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And it quickly became the top medium publication, millions of impressions and millions of

readers reading all of our content every month.

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And that was when I kind of saw the opportunity of like, oh, it seems like we have

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And right when I was looking at this opportunity, we had 500 people writing for us.

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That was when Medium decided to start getting a bit aggressive with us because they didn't

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Um, and then since then, yeah, I had built about 40 of them and have really large clients

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Um, and it was actually my manager at Google who encouraged me at that, which was, I

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mean, I was her top.

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number one sidekick on her team.

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But I really love working with you because you're really fun and we get to do so many

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I'll hire you back any time.

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This company opportunity will not.

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And so she kind of like nudged me to leap full time into mission.

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It's it's lovely to have champions in your life in our lives who really want the best for

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Good for her.

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What's her name?

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So the proper shout out.

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Yes, Ann Truster.

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That is her name.

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and thank you, and okay, so so you jumped into this full time.

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And you had said, when we were previously talking that you were really behind the scenes.

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ah And were you functioning as so what what kind of role were you in?

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At that time when you were behind the scenes, let's say.

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So, I mean, this was still very early days startup.

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But I called myself the COO, but I would do everything from, you know, contracts, legal,

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client success.

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So was doing a lot of these things to just run the company, all the operations around the

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Everything day to day, but no one probably knew.

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Like if you were to look at mission, they probably didn't know my name because I was just

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like just working with the clients and working with our employees and making sure the

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Like that felt good.

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So what, so what changed?

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Like what, what, was that moment where you realized you being behind the scenes was there

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So I will say that over the years, many people were nudging me to like, Hey, you should

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And like, you should do your own solo episodes and do some of your own, like get your own

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publishing it, like get your stuff out there.

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And so I had a lot of nudges, but it wasn't until actually the company started crumbling

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was basically almost bankrupt.

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had a lot of issues that happened that we don't need to get into, but a lot of issues

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And my team essentially came and rallied around me and they were like, Stephanie, you have

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You need to be in the spotlight.

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That's the only way this company will live is if you put yourself out there, um, get on

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the CEO role.

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I still was like, I just don't, I don't like podcasts.

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I don't like, like, I don't like being on podcasts.

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I'm not sure I'm actually good at it.

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And they were like, you are good at it.

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Get up there.

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And so it was really just my whole team pushing me forward and me trusting them enough.

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Like, okay, they see something in me that I can't yet quite see.

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It would not be in their best interest to have someone leading that they didn't think

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And so I just kind of trusted and also felt the universe tugging too like, this is your

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You need to do this or this company will definitely crumble and die.

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And, um, yeah, so I just trusted, trusted the, uh, the recommendations from everyone.

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So what a moment, by the way.

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uh So there was resistance to it, but there was a big need.

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You were feeling the tug from the universe.

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This is the right move.

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And yet there was the resistance.

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you said part of that resistance was, I'm not good at this.

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I don't like doing this stuff.

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I'm not good at it.

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was, yeah, how did you overcome that belief?

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I mean, I think a lot of those beliefs were just protection mechanisms to keep me in my

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I don't know if I can excel at this other one.

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And there's going be a lot of eyeballs on me watching to see like, can Stephanie do what

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Can she rebuild this company?

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Can she host some of these podcasts?

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And I just had to have a little bit more curiosity.

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of what's on the other side than fear.

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And so I wrote about this recently of just having 1 % more.

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Like you just need 1 % more curiosity of what's on the other side than you are in fear.

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So 51 % curiosity, 49 % fear.

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And I was just curious of like, well, if I do this, at least I'll know I tried and no one

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And I'm going to give it my all and just, I'm curious to see what would happen if I do.

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So 51 % curiosity.

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just, you notched it up a percent, right?

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Um, so there's a, uh, have you ever heard of Marissa peer?

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She's a British, um she's a British hypnotherapist and she has this quote that I just

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said, change is making the familiar unfamiliar and the unfamiliar familiar.

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unfamiliar, familiar, right?

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We have to try new things, show up in different ways.

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And I have found in my own personal experience that sometimes along with that comes over

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So I'm curious, were there any, any things that you tried where you showed up?

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What was that?

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mean, when it comes to business, because I can think of a lot of ways in my personal life,

like, especially after like getting divorced, I'm like, I swung so far like I'm never

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getting married again, I'm just gonna be wild.

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I can't actually think of moments where I swung too far for that because we were in such

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And it was me just being like, what do I need to do to make sure this works?

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Like I just didn't have time for that.

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It was just, how do I get this company back to stability and show up where I need to

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I cannot be on camera all the time.

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And so how do I just show up in a way that keeps these things running until I have a

better plan?

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So I didn't know what I was doing exactly.

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I was like, I just need to do this thing right now until I'm more informed to make a

better plan in a couple of weeks and then in a month.

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And I just kind of knew directionally where I was going, but not all the steps to get

there.

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Yeah, I love that.

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like it's sort of a just in time approach that I find that ah it's nice using an approach

like that allows us to receive the signals, right?

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Okay, I'm going to make a shift here or I'm going to make it take a step and then I can

read the signals that are coming back and that's going to inform my next step.

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Okay.

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So, so it wasn't like you went on a hundred podcasts.

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Um, you, you started hosting how many though, how many podcasts were you like, okay, to

keep this company alive, I'm going to host X number of podcasts.

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Yeah, I did two.

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Um, so I was hosting two.

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And then it was more also figuring out unique structures with team members to ensure

hosting continued without pay.

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So that was the other interesting thing of like, I have $0 right now.

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We're actually in half a million dollars uh of debt.

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And so the company is basically dead.

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But if I can keep these things going and I can get these other contracts, which at that

point I was going to our clients and asking them for two year long agreements paid

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partially upfront, which was very different than all of our agreements.

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And so I had an idea of like what I was going to ask for, but I also requested of certain

team members of like, I can't pay you, but I need you to keep hosting in this structure.

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And here's why I'm kind of showing them the vision of where I was bringing them.

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And all of them agreed.

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Yes to that, which was very surprising too, of just seeing how many of them showed up for

small pay, partial pay, no pay.

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And many of them are still with me today.

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So.

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That's amazing.

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Okay, so let's help the listener understand when you talk about clients.

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So the model for this, you're not talking about advertisers, right?

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Your clients are more um sponsors.

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You describe it.

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Tell us.

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Yeah.

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So it is an interesting model.

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uh So I call a lot of our clients partners.

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And so the types of partners we have are normally big B2B tech companies.

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So Salesforce is a big client of ours.

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New York stock exchange, uh bright spot, Zayo.

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These are other companies we've worked with.

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So a lot of tech companies and how we work with them is we've built out this whole network

of podcasts.

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Like I said, we've built about 40 of them at this point and we bring these big tech

companies.

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tech companies in and they're able to uh influence the show.

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So they're able to request certain guests be on.

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For example, they'll give us a big list of their top whale accounts, hard to reach

prospects that they can't get a hold of.

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We will book these folks as guests on the show and then introduce them to Salesforce

afterwards.

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For example, I'll just use Salesforce as the example.

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Um, they can also use all of our video and audio content, which is super important,

especially now more than ever is having access to good, high quality, authentic content.

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Like you need it.

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And you also need it, especially for this new AI search that we're entering into.

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Um, and then they got the ad reads as well, which is more of a traditional thing.

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Like they would get the audio ad reads, the video ad reads on YouTube, um, and LinkedIn

tags.

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So it's like this mixed strategic podcast partnership where we own the content, we own the

shows.

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and we do that because we want to make sure they

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that we are building shows that actually resonate with the market, which the market for us

is a lot of these C level folks who are listening.

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And then we show these tech companies how to come and partner with us on these shows in a

way that doesn't ruin them because a lot of big tech companies have tried to create

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podcasts before and they just die.

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And so we're like, we don't want that to happen.

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Let us show you how to leverage ours while also making sure that guests want to join and

that people want to tune in and it's great content.

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Mm-hmm.

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Mm-hmm.

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That's a really, uh it feels like a very innovative model.

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okay, all right, coming back to the personal growth of Stephanie Postles in this process.

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So you, the companies on life support, you are stepping out from behind the scenes,

becoming a more visible CEO.

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uh What...

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What else about that was hard for you besides like the initial, hey, don't want to, I

don't want to host podcasts.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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I mean, things that were hard.

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mean, I, so at that point I was pregnant with twins.

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So I was about eight months pregnant with twins, um, signing divorce papers.

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So that was happening at that same moment.

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And I was getting offers from, course, my old manager that we talked about, like, she's

like, come, come back to Google.

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And I'm like, I'm eight months pregnant.

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If I come back now, then I go maternity leave for a year.

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You'll actually, you'll only have me for a week.

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And she's like, I don't care.

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Come back.

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Like I'll have you when you get back after like a year or so.

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mean, it was just.

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Pulls of like, look at this opportunity.

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You can have this right now, or you can take on a company that's dead and try and rebuild

it, which feels hard, especially knowing you're having twins and a C-section and a cup

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like a month or two.

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And so I think that was definitely hard of like what was happening personally.

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And then just seeing other options.

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Um, but then also looking at my team who was ride or die and being like, like you guys are

following me and you're ready for me to lead.

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This is a very good offer from Google.

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This would be very nice having this kind of maternity leave and salary and benefits and

all the things.

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And so I think, yeah, there was just a lot going on personally that also added to um what

was happening for sure to make it even more intense.

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Yes, that sounds like an incredibly intense period of time.

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and I had a one-year-old too at that time, Grayson.

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Yes.

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So I had it.

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He was like, and a half or so.

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yes, lots of different dynamics.

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I'll just call it that.

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Okay.

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What was a, was there a practice that you were doing, whether it was formal or informal ah

that allowed you to get through each day in a, with your sanity, mostly intact.

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Yeah.

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mean, when I look, it's so funny now because I mean, I think from that period, I have

built up a lot of practices uh to just ground myself, call my energy back, meditations,

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things I'm teaching my kids now.

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Like I have a lot of different practices now that I wish I knew back then.

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And I think I had to go through it in that way of not knowing how to stay sane really of

just like, just.

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I was like, okay, can't be upset right now.

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have two babies in my stomach.

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I have a one-year-old watching me.

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My employees are also feeling scared right now.

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So was just looking around and being like, I don't have time to process for myself what's

happening.

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I just know I need to get through this.

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And I don't know why I'm pushing so hard to get through it.

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And I, at that point, didn't really have much of a community.

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I had one good friend named Jenny, and she would come and check on me every, almost every

day.

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But other than that, I didn't have a lot of good practices.

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And like, after all of this kind of calmed down, I will say it caught up with me

eventually.

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Um, cause you can't just repress things for that long and just suck it up and move on.

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Um, and so it did catch up to me and now I would do it differently, but, uh, yeah, back

then it was just like, do what I could to make this work and to show up to my son and keep

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my body okay enough, um, to have, yeah, my twins.

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Wow.

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Yeah, I get what you mean about repressing because you don't have time to process now,

right?

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I just got to bite down.

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Right.

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No, no.

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But you know what?

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I bet you everyone listening has done it at some point.

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uh

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And then, you know, and then you pay the price, whether it's getting sick, you know, when

you finally do slow down just a little bit, your body's like, oh, okay, now we can deal

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with that other stuff we weren't dealing with.

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Yep.

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Yep.

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Yeah.

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I mean, that's, think where so many, you know, diseases come from, dis-ease and people

repressing and not letting the emotions flow through and feeling it and working with it

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and checking in on your body and mapping emotions to your body.

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I mean, like I said, there's so much that I would do now differently.

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Um, but you know, you learn, you grow, and then you would do it differently the next time.

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Right, right.

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Yeah, I love what you just said about letting the emotions flow through.

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I heard recently, and I don't know if this is true because I haven't double checked the

research for myself.

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Right, right.

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There was some research recently that came out that said, that indicates that if we allow

the feelings to flow, just flow through, it takes 90 seconds.

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Yeah, yeah, I would definitely believe that.

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I don't know about the 90 seconds part, but even like two minutes, three minutes.

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I mean, if someone hears that time, I think it could be very helpful because especially

for someone like me, who's very logical and sometimes can be caught up in my head a lot, I

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think why I didn't go into the emotions and didn't want to stay in them was because it

feels like I would be in them forever.

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And I'm like, I don't have time for that.

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I cannot just stay here in a depressed, sad state and like, woe is me.

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I've got things to do.

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And as I've more recently started learning, like, how do you move an emotion through you

and what tools can you use, whether it be sound, whether it be certain instruments,

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whether it be your own voice, whether it be like visualizing, like finding a tool that

works for you and how your brain and body and heart work um is very helpful.

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But I think I like the, it only takes 90 seconds because it just shows like, you just have

to let it go through you and pass, and it's not forever.

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Like it'll be gone.

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And then you won't actually maybe even have to feel that again, like in that same way.

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right, right.

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Uh, but if we choose to hold onto it, then it's, it's ours to replay again and again.

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yeah, stay in it.

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Exactly.

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Okay, so, um, my goodness.

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So you stepped into hosting, you were about to have babies.

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Now, did you even get to take a maternity leave?

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Yeah, I can't imagine you did.

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Yeah, yeah.

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mean, whenever I meet pregnant moms now, especially moms who are CEOs, I always share my

story of if I could have done something differently, I probably would have chosen just to

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be like, you know what?

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This company, I got to wait at least a month to come back.

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Here's what I've done so far, and I might just need to take a month pause.

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I don't know where the company would be now had I done that because it was a very like

fast paced time to get stuff done.

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But yeah, I mean, those first year of my twins life, just, it's such a blur.

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And I think I was also in kind of probably a trauma response, trying to just keep my head

above water, um, trying to breastfeed twins at the same time and be like, ah, this is

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hard, way harder than my first one.

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And just learning that while also, you know, trying to do stuff with the company and.

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Um, a lot of debtors, like debt collectors calling me all the time and me trying to

negotiate deals.

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And so it was just, it was a lot of things happening, but yeah, I wish I could have

actually had a little bit more time to just be present with the twins and, um, yeah.

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And now, you know, I learned from that too.

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And I also think that moment has allowed me to step into being a mom so differently now

where I have so much presence with them because of that moment.

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Like I look back and I'm like, man, that's.

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That sucks.

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don't even really remember it that much.

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It went by so quick.

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And I know a lot of parents say that, but now like when they're home from school, I'm with

them.

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Like there is no work happening when I'm with them in the morning.

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I'm with them.

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mean, I just prioritize the kids so differently now of just like, you get to have all of

my presence because now nothing else matters.

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And if I can't build a company that allows me to have that time with you, I might as well

work a nine to five.

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Like I might as well go back to Google because the whole point of building is a company

for me.

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It's for the freedom and the flexibility and to be able to pull my kids out of school at 1

PM and take them to lunch somewhere with me and go to the park and just do the things that

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I want to do that builds, you know, happy life and get a family unit that I want.

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Mm And you know, I bet that and they know that they recognize when you're present.

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Yeah.

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definitely can tell me kids are so intuitive and tapped in and they can definitely feel

the energy and they will know if you're there or not.

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And so they're such a great mirror for how are you showing up in life is just by you can

see like your kids know, just ask them and yeah, it's a great test.

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Absolutely.

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Okay.

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So I'm going to fast forward a little bit.

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obviously mission.org is still around.

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So what you did was successful.

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Um, you got through that period and, uh, and then you said earlier in the conversation,

well, you know, I know my pattern.

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I started to get bored and blah, blah, blah, blah.

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And I'm not supposed, I'm not suggesting you're bored with mission.org.

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And at the same time you have started, you birthed a new baby Relvnt.com.

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Yep.

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tell us a little bit about how did that...

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What was the inspiration for that?

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Was there, yeah, what was the growth opportunity for you personally?

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Yeah.

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So I'll say that, yes, I still get antsy and I'm like, Ooh, I want to try this little

thing.

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And I have tried two new things now.

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Um, so relevant is one of them, but that's not, it's not a completely different offering.

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And I'll explain more about that one in a second, but then I've also launched this podcast

course I told you about, which is a very new offering.

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So that one for sure is like entrepreneur syndrome.

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Let me try and launch something that's to a completely different customer that I've never

talked to before.

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And I've never sold to before.

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And a course that I've never, like, I don't teach courses.

438

00:27:56,103 --> 00:28:02,303

So that one for sure Relvnt though was more, to me, it was more of a branding and

positioning play.

439

00:28:02,303 --> 00:28:11,863

Because if you look at mission.org, I mean, this is where our network exists, where a lot

of our podcasts are and our content, um, a lot of the amazing guests that we get, the

440

00:28:11,863 --> 00:28:13,963

first thing they go to is mission's website.

441

00:28:14,023 --> 00:28:16,763

And so on that website, I didn't want to have.

442

00:28:17,071 --> 00:28:20,953

our, the strategy of how we're making our money.

443

00:28:20,953 --> 00:28:23,605

Because to me, that's two very separate, separate things.

444

00:28:23,605 --> 00:28:30,309

Like if our guests are going on there and they're looking at what podcast they want to

join, they probably don't need to know that, you know, you've got a company like

445

00:28:30,309 --> 00:28:34,621

Salesforce using our podcasts for account-based marketing and their content.

446

00:28:34,621 --> 00:28:38,734

Um, all of our guests find that out after they're on the interview and during it.

447

00:28:38,734 --> 00:28:44,367

But I just thought that's not very good to have, you know, our sales process on the same

page as our.

448

00:28:44,367 --> 00:28:45,447

network of shows.

449

00:28:45,447 --> 00:28:48,587

And so that's why I separated the two and just said our network lives over here.

450

00:28:48,587 --> 00:28:50,487

This is where you can find all the content.

451

00:28:50,487 --> 00:28:52,027

This is what our guests get to see.

452

00:28:52,027 --> 00:28:53,607

Our listeners can go find it.

453

00:28:53,607 --> 00:28:58,507

And then if you care about leveraging media strategically, that's Relvnt.com.

454

00:28:58,787 --> 00:29:06,167

And Relvnt also came from a lot of our clients wanting us to teach them how to do it

internally at their like these enterprise companies as well.

455

00:29:06,167 --> 00:29:08,667

And so that's also a slightly different offering.

456

00:29:08,667 --> 00:29:10,147

That's us more consulting.

457

00:29:10,147 --> 00:29:13,527

That's us coming onto their podcasts and trying to help,

458

00:29:13,647 --> 00:29:17,809

create a successful one or make one successful that they're already running.

459

00:29:17,809 --> 00:29:27,564

And so it's more of just like this media consultancy company over here that also shows you

here's our network you can partner on, or we can also help you with some of the things

460

00:29:27,564 --> 00:29:35,498

you're doing to show you how to better show up when it comes to podcasts, YouTube, LLM

search results within the written content.

461

00:29:35,498 --> 00:29:36,668

Like it's a very different world now.

462

00:29:36,668 --> 00:29:38,319

And so that's what Relvnt for.

463

00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:38,880

Gotcha.

464

00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:39,761

Okay.

465

00:29:39,761 --> 00:29:41,922

So the, got you.

466

00:29:41,922 --> 00:29:46,762

You didn't want to muddle the waters on the mission.org side for the guests coming in.

467

00:29:46,762 --> 00:29:51,908

wanted the value prop to be very clear for the potential guests.

468

00:29:51,908 --> 00:29:52,888

Got it.

469

00:29:53,069 --> 00:29:53,549

Okay.

470

00:29:53,549 --> 00:29:54,429

That makes sense.

471

00:29:54,429 --> 00:29:54,729

All right.

472

00:29:54,729 --> 00:30:04,665

So tell us a little bit about, um, the course and how that is the entrepreneur syndrome

syndrome, like you said.

473

00:30:04,716 --> 00:30:04,945

Yeah.

474

00:30:04,945 --> 00:30:06,697

I mean, we'll, we'll see if it works the way I think.

475

00:30:06,697 --> 00:30:08,118

I mean, it is already kind of working.

476

00:30:08,118 --> 00:30:18,844

So I think people did want it, but this came from, I mean, typically our clients are only

tech companies over 500 million ARR and they're selling to C level folks.

477

00:30:18,844 --> 00:30:25,738

So it's a very specific client that we have, but a lot of people will come and say, Hey,

I'm launching a podcast.

478

00:30:25,738 --> 00:30:26,868

You've launched 40 of them.

479

00:30:26,868 --> 00:30:28,629

Your shows are topping the charts.

480

00:30:28,629 --> 00:30:30,210

Like you have millions of downloads.

481

00:30:30,210 --> 00:30:31,791

Can you help me with mine?

482

00:30:31,923 --> 00:30:39,348

And I've always said for the most part, no, because I just know that, I mean, it takes a

lot of work to get a show to be successful.

483

00:30:39,448 --> 00:30:49,555

And I also was comparing like, okay, my clients currently will pay me a lot of money to

get, you know, have this partnership working and a lot of entrepreneurs, know, they're

484

00:30:49,555 --> 00:30:50,866

like, what a thousand dollars.

485

00:30:50,866 --> 00:30:51,206

Whoa.

486

00:30:51,206 --> 00:30:54,929

And like, and I was like, I just didn't want to, you know, be in that space.

487

00:30:54,929 --> 00:30:57,222

And so I would help my friends here and there.

488

00:30:57,222 --> 00:31:00,867

I would show them, you know, how to get their show, maybe ranking and.

489

00:31:00,867 --> 00:31:02,868

growth behind it and how to make a good podcast.

490

00:31:02,868 --> 00:31:05,350

But I had always been a no to it.

491

00:31:05,451 --> 00:31:10,726

And it wasn't until once again, someone nudged me and they're like, Steph, why don't you

put this information in a course then?

492

00:31:10,726 --> 00:31:19,704

Like you get a lot of people requesting your, like the strategy of how you're

strategically creating these podcasts and YouTube and media assets.

493

00:31:19,704 --> 00:31:22,776

And they want to not, they don't want to know how to build a podcast.

494

00:31:22,776 --> 00:31:26,800

They want to know how to make it a strategic asset to drive revenue for your company.

495

00:31:26,800 --> 00:31:28,431

Like they want to do what you do.

496

00:31:28,737 --> 00:31:31,129

And so I'm trying to remember who nudged me on this.

497

00:31:31,129 --> 00:31:33,110

think it might've been my friend, Lior, actually.

498

00:31:33,110 --> 00:31:36,622

Um, but I was like, okay, interesting idea.

499

00:31:36,622 --> 00:31:39,925

And then all of a sudden the people started showing up around me.

500

00:31:39,925 --> 00:31:42,877

And it's like, once again, the universe was like, yeah, you should do this.

501

00:31:42,877 --> 00:31:45,438

Here's the person who's going to do the whole thing for you.

502

00:31:45,438 --> 00:31:51,803

And I had this person come in into my orbit who was like, if you record these things for

me, I'll create the funnel.

503

00:31:51,803 --> 00:31:52,573

I'll do all the things.

504

00:31:52,573 --> 00:31:53,564

Everything will be done for you.

505

00:31:53,564 --> 00:31:57,607

I just need you to record and get the things out of your head into video format.

506

00:31:57,607 --> 00:31:58,407

And.

507

00:31:58,617 --> 00:32:00,058

So yeah, that's how that went.

508

00:32:00,058 --> 00:32:04,380

And I think we've already got people signing up, quite a few people signed up for this

course.

509

00:32:04,380 --> 00:32:05,790

And yeah, we'll see.

510

00:32:05,790 --> 00:32:06,610

It's still new.

511

00:32:06,610 --> 00:32:11,213

But yeah, it's definitely entrepreneur syndrome because it's like, OK, let me go over

here.

512

00:32:11,213 --> 00:32:13,964

wait, don't distract myself too much from my main company.

513

00:32:13,964 --> 00:32:16,355

I have a main company here that is doing well.

514

00:32:16,355 --> 00:32:22,368

I don't want to pull too much time to a new thing that could go out or could not go well.

515

00:32:22,368 --> 00:32:22,958

Who knows?

516

00:32:22,958 --> 00:32:25,019

So TBD on that one.

517

00:32:25,020 --> 00:32:28,520

and so is this more of a B to C ish play?

518

00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:31,820

All right, and how are you getting the word out?

519

00:32:32,439 --> 00:32:33,079

Yeah.

520

00:32:33,079 --> 00:32:37,641

So right now, like I said, I'm not doing anything around it, which is great.

521

00:32:37,641 --> 00:32:41,693

Um, so he's got Facebook ads running, which he told me what he was doing.

522

00:32:41,693 --> 00:32:50,707

And I was seeing these, like a lot of people coming through and signing up for this first

video that's free, this training video, and then they convert into the full course.

523

00:32:50,707 --> 00:32:52,948

And so, yeah, he's using Facebook ads.

524

00:32:52,948 --> 00:32:55,299

Um, and he has a whole funnel built up.

525

00:32:55,299 --> 00:32:59,060

So yeah, I mean, his numbers are pretty crazy of what he's getting.

526

00:32:59,060 --> 00:33:00,471

Like definitely good.

527

00:33:00,479 --> 00:33:01,167

Um,

528

00:33:01,167 --> 00:33:02,768

cost per conversion numbers and stuff.

529

00:33:02,768 --> 00:33:05,880

I keep a high level eye on it just because I'm paying for the ads.

530

00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:08,471

So I'm like, let me look at these numbers and make sure they look good.

531

00:33:08,471 --> 00:33:09,111

And they do.

532

00:33:09,111 --> 00:33:10,622

So I just kind of let him do his thing.

533

00:33:10,622 --> 00:33:12,143

And I'm like, yeah, OK, go for it.

534

00:33:12,143 --> 00:33:13,744

If you need me to record more content, let me know.

535

00:33:13,744 --> 00:33:15,274

Yeah.

536

00:33:17,496 --> 00:33:17,936

Yes.

537

00:33:17,936 --> 00:33:23,039

Yeah, I try to find and magnetize people who can come in and just own an area.

538

00:33:23,039 --> 00:33:25,340

Like, I don't want to be overseeing it.

539

00:33:25,340 --> 00:33:30,696

If you're coming in, I want you just to lead that area without me having to feel like I

have to manage you.

540

00:33:30,696 --> 00:33:31,218

Yes.

541

00:33:31,218 --> 00:33:32,138

Yeah.

542

00:33:32,641 --> 00:33:34,996

Frees you up to be a leader, not a manager.

543

00:33:34,996 --> 00:33:36,691

Yeah.

544

00:33:36,691 --> 00:33:36,861

Yeah.

545

00:33:36,861 --> 00:33:37,082

Yeah.

546

00:33:37,082 --> 00:33:37,307

Yeah.

547

00:33:37,307 --> 00:33:42,327

learned that also the hard way, like hire A players and then just let them do their thing.

548

00:33:42,587 --> 00:33:44,381

Um, yeah, it works wonders.

549

00:33:44,381 --> 00:33:45,304

Mm hmm.

550

00:33:45,304 --> 00:33:47,366

Yeah.

551

00:33:47,366 --> 00:33:57,577

And well, and it also sounds that like, eh have the ability to let them do their thing,

right?

552

00:33:57,577 --> 00:34:00,540

Some people want to be that kind of leader.

553

00:34:00,681 --> 00:34:04,444

And yet have a hard time letting go.

554

00:34:04,670 --> 00:34:05,407

yes.

555

00:34:05,407 --> 00:34:06,882

I mean, it definitely takes practice.

556

00:34:06,882 --> 00:34:18,112

I think in the beginning, it's hard for entrepreneurs because like, you, especially if you

built the company or you co-founded it, you know, you can do the things at excellence, all

557

00:34:18,112 --> 00:34:18,402

of them.

558

00:34:18,402 --> 00:34:20,684

You're like, I can, I can, for me, I was like, I podcasts.

559

00:34:20,684 --> 00:34:21,745

write really well.

560

00:34:21,745 --> 00:34:24,097

I can edit podcasts well.

561

00:34:24,097 --> 00:34:25,318

I can cut videos well.

562

00:34:25,318 --> 00:34:26,889

I'm really good at client communications.

563

00:34:26,889 --> 00:34:29,315

Like I can do all of these things really well.

564

00:34:29,315 --> 00:34:33,699

And I think it's hard to let go when you bring someone in and they're not as good as you.

565

00:34:33,699 --> 00:34:40,525

And it's good to assume that most won't be because it's your company and like you had a

lot of incentives to get good at all these things.

566

00:34:40,525 --> 00:34:45,529

But once you kind of get in the mindset of like, okay, even if this person does 80 % of my

best, that's great.

567

00:34:45,529 --> 00:34:54,818

Like good onto the next, like let letting people in and assuming that like the only way to

scale the only way to build, you know, true revenue and predictable revenue is to have

568

00:34:54,818 --> 00:34:56,693

people doing things for you.

569

00:34:56,693 --> 00:35:03,645

And delegating as much as possible so that you can focus on the vision and the things that

are in your unique ability, which was a very helpful process for me.

570

00:35:03,645 --> 00:35:09,872

don't know if you've ever gone through and like found out what your unique ability was and

then outsourced all the other things.

571

00:35:09,872 --> 00:35:13,254

But that was kind of my, my moment where I did that.

572

00:35:13,254 --> 00:35:17,797

And I found out, okay, these five tasks are my unique ability that no one else can do.

573

00:35:18,178 --> 00:35:20,419

All other of these 150 tasks.

574

00:35:20,419 --> 00:35:21,530

I shouldn't do any of them.

575

00:35:21,530 --> 00:35:26,411

Like someone will be so grateful to be doing this task and that's their unique ability.

576

00:35:26,411 --> 00:35:29,074

And I hope that they're actually even better than me right now.

577

00:35:29,074 --> 00:35:36,322

And so just kind of knowing like where you shine at and how you're going to most help the

company based off the skills that you have.

578

00:35:36,322 --> 00:35:40,727

And then learning like, okay, here are the many other things that I just shouldn't be

touching anymore.

579

00:35:40,727 --> 00:35:45,261

Um, so that you can actually grow the company in an efficient way that doesn't burn you

out.

580

00:35:45,458 --> 00:35:46,203

Right, right.

581

00:35:46,203 --> 00:35:47,729

And of course you have the.

582

00:35:50,029 --> 00:36:03,792

you have the experience and the know-how around the financial modeling to make those

decisions in an informed and responsible way.

583

00:36:04,673 --> 00:36:14,315

I think a lot of people understand like, I have to hire people to help me to scale, but

the numbers have to work.

584

00:36:14,315 --> 00:36:19,651

There's the top line number, you want that to grow, but the bottom line number is

important too.

585

00:36:19,651 --> 00:36:20,111

Yep.

586

00:36:20,111 --> 00:36:20,971

Yes.

587

00:36:21,112 --> 00:36:29,838

Yeah, I think it's, I mean, my background was definitely helpful, too, coming from the

finance space where, and that was something I had a very hard time of letting go of, was

588

00:36:29,838 --> 00:36:30,869

our monthly finances.

589

00:36:30,869 --> 00:36:32,050

I did them for a while.

590

00:36:32,050 --> 00:36:33,571

And I'm like, no, this is my baby.

591

00:36:33,571 --> 00:36:34,802

I am the best at this.

592

00:36:34,802 --> 00:36:39,616

uh But then being like, OK, here, you can have it as long as you do a pretty good job.

593

00:36:39,616 --> 00:36:41,947

Like, it does take a lot of time off my plate.

594

00:36:42,019 --> 00:36:43,790

But yeah, definitely knowing your numbers.

595

00:36:43,790 --> 00:36:51,943

But what's great now is that even if you are like, I'm bad at math, which actually I'm

quite bad at math, I always needed Excel, but chat GPT is very helpful these days.

596

00:36:51,943 --> 00:36:55,975

I mean, there's so many tools all around that can show you quickly, like, are your margins

good?

597

00:36:55,975 --> 00:36:57,185

What are the industry margins?

598

00:36:57,185 --> 00:36:58,806

What things should you worry about?

599

00:36:58,806 --> 00:37:09,210

And so think it's now more than ever an easier time to like build a company with good

financial backing behind it and a structure that works because you can just easily find

600

00:37:09,210 --> 00:37:12,050

out if it doesn't, if you upload your scenario into chat GPT.

601

00:37:12,050 --> 00:37:12,702

Yes.

602

00:37:12,702 --> 00:37:13,012

What?

603

00:37:13,012 --> 00:37:13,424

Yes.

604

00:37:13,424 --> 00:37:14,205

And yes.

605

00:37:14,205 --> 00:37:18,335

And it's important to know what the right question, the right questions to ask.

606

00:37:18,335 --> 00:37:19,356

Right.

607

00:37:19,498 --> 00:37:20,419

Yeah.

608

00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:21,222

Right.

609

00:37:21,222 --> 00:37:22,022

Right.

610

00:37:22,081 --> 00:37:25,030

I see a lot of bad prompting where people are like, look at my output.

611

00:37:25,030 --> 00:37:27,171

I'm like, you can't just ask it that way.

612

00:37:27,171 --> 00:37:28,754

Like you need to give it a persona.

613

00:37:28,754 --> 00:37:39,318

You need to tell it, play the persona of a top, you know, CFO at a company, like a media

company that, you know, has competitors like these people, like give it some context and

614

00:37:39,318 --> 00:37:40,418

then give it the scenario.

615

00:37:40,418 --> 00:37:43,090

can't just be like, I made this much money.

616

00:37:43,090 --> 00:37:44,090

I want to spend this much.

617

00:37:44,090 --> 00:37:45,614

Like, no, that won't work.

618

00:37:45,614 --> 00:37:46,294

Yeah.

619

00:37:46,294 --> 00:37:46,564

Yeah.

620

00:37:46,564 --> 00:37:48,255

The context is huge.

621

00:37:48,255 --> 00:37:49,275

Huge.

622

00:37:49,295 --> 00:37:50,176

mean, yeah.

623

00:37:50,176 --> 00:37:51,456

Um, okay.

624

00:37:51,456 --> 00:37:57,778

So tell me about, here's, I don't know if you've thought about, well, maybe you've thought

about this question.

625

00:37:57,778 --> 00:38:03,680

Um, you've been out in front now visible for a while.

626

00:38:04,661 --> 00:38:12,904

What's one cost of that, that people don't talk about much or think about much.

627

00:38:13,955 --> 00:38:14,735

Hmm.

628

00:38:14,876 --> 00:38:21,239

I mean, one cost of being more visible is a lot of people start asking you for help.

629

00:38:21,940 --> 00:38:26,362

And yeah, I think that you just get a lot of outreach where people are like, you're good

at this.

630

00:38:26,362 --> 00:38:32,405

uh tons of emails, tons of LinkedIn DMs of just people wanting help.

631

00:38:32,826 --> 00:38:36,988

So that's definitely a cost, especially if you want to help them.

632

00:38:36,988 --> 00:38:41,130

Like when I see these people and the questions, I'm like, I want to help you.

633

00:38:41,330 --> 00:38:42,735

But there's too many of you.

634

00:38:42,735 --> 00:38:45,175

And I can't answer all of you.

635

00:38:45,175 --> 00:38:51,495

And I'd feel bad to put my VA or EA on that because I'm like, well, you probably wouldn't

actually know how to answer in the way that is me.

636

00:38:51,555 --> 00:38:55,535

And so I think, yeah, that's just one of the costs of just like a lot of people wanting

your time.

637

00:38:55,535 --> 00:38:57,215

And then you're like, ah, I feel bad.

638

00:38:57,215 --> 00:38:58,735

can't give you all my time.

639

00:38:58,794 --> 00:39:02,255

But that's why I things like this because then I'm like, go listen to this.

640

00:39:02,255 --> 00:39:03,095

Now you know how I think.

641

00:39:03,095 --> 00:39:04,815

Go listen to, you want to know how to be a good host?

642

00:39:04,815 --> 00:39:06,275

I already did a video on that.

643

00:39:06,455 --> 00:39:12,463

so you can also, you know, putting content out there is helpful that it does scale out

knowledge, inspiration.

644

00:39:12,463 --> 00:39:17,703

But yeah, I do feel bad because a lot of people are asking me for help and I'm not the

best at responding.

645

00:39:18,142 --> 00:39:20,276

So, okay, so what do you do?

646

00:39:20,338 --> 00:39:22,393

In certain instances, you just don't respond.

647

00:39:22,393 --> 00:39:24,264

It's sort of a quiet, yeah.

648

00:39:24,264 --> 00:39:24,594

Yes.

649

00:39:24,594 --> 00:39:25,645

I'm a little bit quiet.

650

00:39:25,645 --> 00:39:31,129

I mean, and hopefully no one takes that personally, but yes, there's so many DMS on my

LinkedIn that I just haven't even looked at yet.

651

00:39:31,129 --> 00:39:33,391

I mean, there's tons.

652

00:39:33,391 --> 00:39:35,423

I think, LinkedIn is very hard to keep track of them.

653

00:39:35,423 --> 00:39:37,034

They just all go into different buckets.

654

00:39:37,034 --> 00:39:47,853

Um, so yeah, that's, I usually just don't respond or I will have like, if I see someone's

asking a couple of times, I will have my EA go in there and just respond and be like,

655

00:39:47,853 --> 00:39:51,006

Stephanie doesn't monitor this, um, that frequently.

656

00:39:51,006 --> 00:39:53,047

So yeah.

657

00:39:53,145 --> 00:40:05,591

And so what do you tell your, is there something that you tell yourself to help alleviate

that when you say, feel bad, it's almost, you didn't use the word guilt, but right.

658

00:40:05,591 --> 00:40:07,872

But there's sort of a, want to be able to help you.

659

00:40:07,872 --> 00:40:10,453

can't really, I don't have the bandwidth.

660

00:40:10,453 --> 00:40:16,595

And so I have to say no, but I feel bad for saying no or not responding because I just

don't have the bandwidth.

661

00:40:16,595 --> 00:40:20,997

What's how do you resolve that tension internally for yourself?

662

00:40:21,353 --> 00:40:22,699

Is there something you tell yourself?

663

00:40:22,699 --> 00:40:25,468

Is there a way you've reframed it?

664

00:40:25,491 --> 00:40:25,921

Yeah.

665

00:40:25,921 --> 00:40:35,319

I mean, I think about it when I was starting out building mission, like early

entrepreneur, even like some of the side projects, built some apps and just different

666

00:40:35,319 --> 00:40:38,079

things when I was uh at Fannie Mae.

667

00:40:38,341 --> 00:40:43,405

And I remember hearing a quote from some business person that I really admired.

668

00:40:43,405 --> 00:40:46,878

And they were like, please don't ask me for a coffee.

669

00:40:46,878 --> 00:40:50,951

Like, if you want to, you know, um

670

00:40:51,311 --> 00:40:57,611

basically have some moments with me to understand how I think or, you know, really just

like, I just need you for a second.

671

00:40:57,611 --> 00:41:00,871

I have all this content online that is freely available.

672

00:41:00,871 --> 00:41:09,431

And if you go through like the episodes with me, if you read my writing, like if you come

well-informed, then yes, I will sit down with you.

673

00:41:09,431 --> 00:41:16,691

And I remember hearing this and being like, at first I was like, oh, like this person,

like I really love their business acumen, but damn, that's like pretty harsh.

674

00:41:16,751 --> 00:41:18,573

But now when I look at it, I'm like,

675

00:41:18,573 --> 00:41:20,364

That's really smart actually.

676

00:41:20,364 --> 00:41:30,899

Like there's a reason why I'm on the mic talking and sharing and writing things and like

putting my life, you know, out there on LinkedIn and putting a lot of my stories out

677

00:41:30,899 --> 00:41:31,709

there.

678

00:41:31,729 --> 00:41:33,070

I'm already sharing so much.

679

00:41:33,070 --> 00:41:35,207

And so I think that's how I resolve it.

680

00:41:35,207 --> 00:41:37,962

I've like, I already do share so much of everything.

681

00:41:37,962 --> 00:41:45,183

I've shared my business model, my struggles in life, what we're talking about now, like so

much of this is out there and

682

00:41:45,183 --> 00:41:53,798

Um, if I saw someone, which I'm sure maybe this will start happening after your podcast,

but if I saw someone coming well informed to either emailing me and being like, I've done

683

00:41:53,798 --> 00:41:57,543

all this research and I still have questions or I still would love time with you.

684

00:41:57,543 --> 00:42:00,283

I think then I would be like, yes, okay, for sure.

685

00:42:00,283 --> 00:42:08,563

Um, and so I always thought that back in my early days too, like I wouldn't ever reach out

and be like, Hey, can I, you know, have some coffee with you just to pick your brain?

686

00:42:08,563 --> 00:42:09,677

I never did that.

687

00:42:09,677 --> 00:42:12,815

And I would first get a bunch of research and then I think.

688

00:42:12,815 --> 00:42:14,775

How can I offer value to that person first?

689

00:42:14,775 --> 00:42:16,075

Like, what can I do?

690

00:42:16,075 --> 00:42:22,035

Can I bring them on one of these podcasts, but give them a different offer so that they

know that this one's an opportunity?

691

00:42:22,035 --> 00:42:24,595

A lot of podcast offers, not this one, yes.

692

00:42:24,595 --> 00:42:32,355

And so I just had to think about like, how do I bring offer to this person while showing

them that I did, you know, I respect your time and I did a lot of background research on

693

00:42:32,355 --> 00:42:33,775

you first and I've read all your posts.

694

00:42:33,775 --> 00:42:34,995

Like I read your book.

695

00:42:34,995 --> 00:42:40,079

I did the things that, you know, um, show me it helps stand out, I guess about.

696

00:42:40,079 --> 00:42:42,339

Like above other people who are just like, oh, I saw you on LinkedIn.

697

00:42:42,339 --> 00:42:42,899

You look cool.

698

00:42:42,899 --> 00:42:44,327

Can I have coffee with you?

699

00:42:44,605 --> 00:42:45,195

Right, right.

700

00:42:45,195 --> 00:42:57,231

Well, there's some thought that clearly some thought and an investment of time that's gone

into the, the ask and, and then the ask is more relevant for you.

701

00:42:57,231 --> 00:42:57,931

Right?

702

00:42:57,931 --> 00:42:58,371

Yeah.

703

00:42:58,371 --> 00:43:00,752

More likely that you'll get something out of it too.

704

00:43:02,433 --> 00:43:02,940

Yeah.

705

00:43:02,940 --> 00:43:03,742

maybe I want to hire you.

706

00:43:03,742 --> 00:43:04,773

Damn, you did a lot of research.

707

00:43:04,773 --> 00:43:08,219

Yeah, there's lots of good things that could come from it.

708

00:43:08,915 --> 00:43:26,237

Okay, we're gonna wrap up here soon, but for someone that feels terrified about stepping

out and becoming more visible, what's your latest piece of guidance for them?

709

00:43:26,546 --> 00:43:31,527

Yeah, I mean, I have a couple thoughts around this.

710

00:43:31,527 --> 00:43:37,367

One, I think that if you're scared to do it, but you also know like, I should I'm just

scared.

711

00:43:37,467 --> 00:43:43,727

I mean, something you can do is a simple meditation where you were embodying the feeling

of what it's like being on the spotlight.

712

00:43:43,727 --> 00:43:47,167

So you can literally just go into a meditation.

713

00:43:47,287 --> 00:43:51,368

And you can visually walk yourself through like, what would it feel like if I was in the

spotlight?

714

00:43:51,368 --> 00:43:53,429

What feelings do I have coming through my body?

715

00:43:53,429 --> 00:43:53,949

Oh, wow.

716

00:43:53,949 --> 00:43:55,249

I'm actually really good at this.

717

00:43:55,249 --> 00:43:59,511

Like bringing in the positive energy that's reinforcing, like you should do this.

718

00:43:59,511 --> 00:44:04,479

And so that's been helpful for me if, you know, I'm scared or I'm like, I don't know if

this will be good.

719

00:44:04,479 --> 00:44:06,993

I'm like, well, let me imagine a reality where it is good.

720

00:44:06,993 --> 00:44:14,895

Let me imagine it feeling really nice to be in this position and to enjoy, you know, the

people seeing me out there and what it's going to do for my company.

721

00:44:14,927 --> 00:44:25,047

So I think meditation, and especially visualizing yourself is a really important tool that

I think, you know, all the best sports players, pianists, like all, you know, all of them

722

00:44:25,047 --> 00:44:26,207

talk about doing this.

723

00:44:26,207 --> 00:44:29,367

And I think applying that into business is really helpful too.

724

00:44:29,367 --> 00:44:33,407

And personal growth of like, let me set a reality where that can be true.

725

00:44:33,407 --> 00:44:34,207

And what would it take?

726

00:44:34,207 --> 00:44:35,827

Like a lot of times it's just feelings.

727

00:44:35,907 --> 00:44:36,407

That's all it is.

728

00:44:36,407 --> 00:44:39,267

Just like, let me feel that feeling and know it's going to be okay.

729

00:44:39,827 --> 00:44:41,807

So yeah, meditation for sure.

730

00:44:41,807 --> 00:44:43,087

And then.

731

00:44:43,435 --> 00:44:52,400

The other thing I'd say too is like, if you're building a company, think that like founder

brands are more important than ever because people are looking for authenticity.

732

00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:53,911

are looking for your face online.

733

00:44:53,911 --> 00:44:55,662

They're looking for videos of you.

734

00:44:55,662 --> 00:44:57,263

They want to see you showing up.

735

00:44:57,263 --> 00:45:04,736

And with all the things happening with AI and all this content that's going out there,

like there's going to be, there already is so much of it showing up so that people know

736

00:45:04,736 --> 00:45:09,949

who you are and they can like you and trust you and that you can stand out in a really

crowded market.

737

00:45:10,490 --> 00:45:13,591

is super crucial, especially for the time we're in right now.

738

00:45:13,651 --> 00:45:14,768

Yeah, definitely.

739

00:45:14,768 --> 00:45:15,788

hello, dog.

740

00:45:15,788 --> 00:45:16,649

Now he's walking in.

741

00:45:16,649 --> 00:45:17,709

Jeremy just walked in.

742

00:45:17,709 --> 00:45:19,676

So here comes Toasty with a sock.

743

00:45:19,676 --> 00:45:20,757

My dog.

744

00:45:21,741 --> 00:45:22,842

With a sock.

745

00:45:24,286 --> 00:45:30,641

What haven't we talked about that you feel like um we don't want to finish without it

being said?

746

00:45:34,957 --> 00:45:40,142

Hmm, trying think what else we may have talked about in the prep call that was important.

747

00:45:40,383 --> 00:45:47,324

Well, we talked about you uh guiding leaders through plant medicine journeys.

748

00:45:47,324 --> 00:45:49,308

We talked just a little bit about that.

749

00:45:49,308 --> 00:45:50,251

Is there...

750

00:45:50,251 --> 00:45:52,651

I don't know that would go in this that well yet.

751

00:45:52,651 --> 00:45:56,371

I feel like I need more to talk about with that.

752

00:45:57,371 --> 00:46:06,731

I mean, you could try to think about, because there is something I have kind of brought up

meditation a lot, like that there could be a final piece to that.

753

00:46:06,731 --> 00:46:14,531

kind of like you've brought this through line of meditating and checking on feelings and

all that.

754

00:46:14,891 --> 00:46:16,003

So maybe kind of just.

755

00:46:16,003 --> 00:46:21,895

There could be a topic around that of like, how do you incorporate those things into

business and like.

756

00:46:22,227 --> 00:46:23,849

Well, okay, I do have a question.

757

00:46:23,849 --> 00:46:27,882

And then I and I'm aware of our time.

758

00:46:28,603 --> 00:46:37,972

So you said that you went through a process of identifying what you do uniquely well.

759

00:46:37,972 --> 00:46:42,246

ah Was that a facilitated process that you went through?

760

00:46:42,246 --> 00:46:43,938

Was it a formal process?

761

00:46:43,938 --> 00:46:47,731

Was it just you sitting down with your journal and asking yourself the question?

762

00:46:47,971 --> 00:46:48,632

Yeah.

763

00:46:48,632 --> 00:46:48,992

Yeah.

764

00:46:48,992 --> 00:46:49,843

That's a good question.

765

00:46:49,843 --> 00:46:54,257

So for this, um, it's a Dan Sullivan process.

766

00:46:54,257 --> 00:46:56,839

So I'm in his strategic coach group.

767

00:46:56,879 --> 00:47:00,523

And so it's basically a four quadrant box.

768

00:47:00,523 --> 00:47:03,826

so in the top left of the box is unique ability.

769

00:47:03,826 --> 00:47:05,867

Top right is excellent.

770

00:47:05,867 --> 00:47:10,461

Um, bottom left is maybe like sufficient or something like that.

771

00:47:10,461 --> 00:47:12,273

Like you're fine at it.

772

00:47:12,273 --> 00:47:14,695

And then bottom right is.

773

00:47:14,703 --> 00:47:15,943

That's not, you're not good at it.

774

00:47:15,943 --> 00:47:17,383

Like you shouldn't be doing that for sure.

775

00:47:17,383 --> 00:47:19,223

Someone can do a better job than you.

776

00:47:19,223 --> 00:47:28,463

And so you basically just sit down and you can start it on just a weekly basis of looking

at your calendar and being like, okay, I'm to write down every single task I do, including

777

00:47:28,463 --> 00:47:30,963

house stuff, which is an important mindset shift for me.

778

00:47:30,963 --> 00:47:32,203

Like this is not just work.

779

00:47:32,203 --> 00:47:34,723

This is like everything I'm doing throughout my day.

780

00:47:34,723 --> 00:47:36,083

How am I spending my hours?

781

00:47:36,083 --> 00:47:40,843

And you just go and you put them in the boxes of, okay, I am sending out emails.

782

00:47:41,303 --> 00:47:42,403

I'm great at it.

783

00:47:42,403 --> 00:47:44,047

Obviously I'm excellent at it.

784

00:47:44,047 --> 00:47:47,607

Um, or I'm pretty good at it, but I'm pretty sure someone could do a better job.

785

00:47:47,607 --> 00:47:54,007

Like it's not that hard to send emails or calendar stuff or buying groceries, cleaning,

like whatever it might be.

786

00:47:54,007 --> 00:47:56,287

You just put it wherever you think it falls.

787

00:47:56,287 --> 00:48:04,247

And in that process, that was when I kind of realized that the majority of the stuff I was

doing day to day was in like not good at box.

788

00:48:04,247 --> 00:48:07,147

Like it was, um, like anyone could do it.

789

00:48:07,147 --> 00:48:09,011

A lot of the stuff that I was doing.

790

00:48:09,011 --> 00:48:15,415

And that was very eye opening for me of being like, Whoa, how do I spend most of my days

in this bottom right quadrant?

791

00:48:15,415 --> 00:48:19,318

And I spend almost none of my days in this top left.

792

00:48:19,318 --> 00:48:22,951

Like, and the top left is what's going to drive our company forward.

793

00:48:22,951 --> 00:48:26,843

Uh, that was things around, you know, meeting clients face to face.

794

00:48:26,843 --> 00:48:30,256

Like that's something I'm like, I know I'm very good at it and I cannot outsource that.

795

00:48:30,256 --> 00:48:33,511

Like a lot of our clients, they want to see me and they want to see me in person.

796

00:48:33,511 --> 00:48:36,650

Um, and so I wasn't doing almost any of that.

797

00:48:36,650 --> 00:48:38,671

And when I saw that visually.

798

00:48:38,753 --> 00:48:41,385

I was like, okay, how do I start delegating this ASAP?

799

00:48:41,385 --> 00:48:43,327

And so I just started going box by box.

800

00:48:43,327 --> 00:48:46,760

So the bottom right box was the first one that was delegated out.

801

00:48:46,760 --> 00:48:50,693

And a lot of those were able to be delegated to a virtual assistant.

802

00:48:50,693 --> 00:48:57,289

So I went to onlinejobs.ph, found an amazing VA from the Philippines.

803

00:48:57,289 --> 00:48:59,020

She's now my executive assistant.

804

00:48:59,020 --> 00:49:02,283

And she took like the majority of those things off my plate.

805

00:49:02,283 --> 00:49:05,886

And when that was gone, I was like, whoa, like I have a lot of time.

806

00:49:05,886 --> 00:49:06,756

What do I do with this?

807

00:49:06,756 --> 00:49:07,509

Okay, next box.

808

00:49:07,509 --> 00:49:17,942

And I just kept moving up until most of my day now circles around that top left of the

unique ability that I know that no one else can do as good of a job as me.

809

00:49:17,942 --> 00:49:22,259

uh And that's even hosting a specific podcast, like hosting marketing trends.

810

00:49:22,259 --> 00:49:26,564

Our other podcasts, they can be hosted by other people, but marketing trends, that's where

a lot of our clients come from.

811

00:49:26,564 --> 00:49:34,427

So that is my unique ability to be on there with them, understand their business strategy,

understand what they're doing, and then also show them how we can support them eventually

812

00:49:34,427 --> 00:49:36,117

as well if there's a good fit.

813

00:49:36,175 --> 00:49:44,955

So yeah, super powerful process that now I recommend almost any entrepreneur to go through

is see what you're doing day to day because it's very eye opening when you realize that

814

00:49:44,955 --> 00:49:51,535

you're probably doing stuff that you can hire someone for $8 an hour and they can do just

as good of a job or better.

815

00:49:51,535 --> 00:49:53,715

Like my EA is better than me.

816

00:49:53,715 --> 00:49:54,495

She is great.

817

00:49:54,495 --> 00:50:01,655

And I'm like, oh shoot, was like holding onto this task of responding in emails to people

and why?

818

00:50:01,655 --> 00:50:03,555

Like I wasn't doing a good job.

819

00:50:04,328 --> 00:50:04,858

Awesome.

820

00:50:04,858 --> 00:50:05,338

Okay.

821

00:50:05,338 --> 00:50:08,919

I love the, the methodical nature of the process.

822

00:50:09,860 --> 00:50:10,730

I'm a fan of that.

823

00:50:10,730 --> 00:50:12,240

I'm methodical myself.

824

00:50:12,240 --> 00:50:22,303

Um, and by the way, your, your passion for the marketing trends podcast comes through in

your episode.

825

00:50:22,303 --> 00:50:29,685

So if, anyone's listening is interested in marketing trends and what's happening and

what's current.

826

00:50:29,685 --> 00:50:34,246

And, um, I recommend listening to that podcast and you could.

827

00:50:34,727 --> 00:50:36,741

Yes.

828

00:50:36,741 --> 00:50:38,770

thank you for your time today.

829

00:50:38,770 --> 00:50:40,445

I really appreciate it.

830

00:50:40,445 --> 00:50:42,707

Where can people find you?

831

00:50:42,908 --> 00:50:45,010

Where do you want to direct people?

832

00:50:45,212 --> 00:50:45,643

Sure.

833

00:50:45,643 --> 00:50:48,376

mean, like you said, marketing trends is great if you care about marketing.

834

00:50:48,376 --> 00:50:53,091

If you don't care about marketing and just business entrepreneurship content, you can

listen to Mission Daily podcast.

835

00:50:53,091 --> 00:50:53,881

That's the other one.

836

00:50:53,881 --> 00:50:57,475

um And if not, I mean, you can always hit me up on LinkedIn.

837

00:50:57,475 --> 00:50:59,747

Like I said, now you know a better way to get through to me.

838

00:50:59,747 --> 00:51:01,189

So you know the fast track.

839

00:51:01,189 --> 00:51:05,413

em But also I do look at comments on posts and I do try and engage in that way.

840

00:51:05,413 --> 00:51:07,956

So yeah, that's probably a good spot to find me.

841

00:51:07,956 --> 00:51:16,672

Okay and if the listener is interested in launching a strategic project podcast where do

they find the course.

842

00:51:16,672 --> 00:51:16,992

Yeah.

843

00:51:16,992 --> 00:51:20,134

I need to get this course on my LinkedIn, like an actual URL.

844

00:51:20,134 --> 00:51:26,698

See, these are the things where I haven't done yet, but yes, I will put that on there and

um start actually telling people about it.

845

00:51:26,698 --> 00:51:28,539

Like, hi, I'm doing this.

846

00:51:28,539 --> 00:51:28,919

Next.

847

00:51:28,919 --> 00:51:29,379

That's good.

848

00:51:29,379 --> 00:51:30,379

Next steps.

849

00:51:30,440 --> 00:51:30,690

Yeah.

850

00:51:30,690 --> 00:51:34,412

It's called podcast flywheel Academy podcast flywheel Academy.

851

00:51:34,412 --> 00:51:34,682

Yeah.

852

00:51:34,682 --> 00:51:35,276

I think so.

853

00:51:35,276 --> 00:51:36,073

I'll have to check with my team.

854

00:51:36,073 --> 00:51:39,004

Yeah.

855

00:51:40,766 --> 00:51:41,686

Yes.

856

00:51:42,227 --> 00:51:42,736

Yes.

857

00:51:42,736 --> 00:51:43,366

up.

858

00:51:43,447 --> 00:51:45,180

Yep, I think it'll come up, I think.

859

00:51:45,180 --> 00:51:46,544

uh

860

00:51:46,544 --> 00:51:49,750

and uh with Stephanie Postles, right?

861

00:51:49,750 --> 00:51:52,875

P-O-S-T-L-E-S, right?

862

00:51:52,896 --> 00:51:54,197

Then they'll find it.

863

00:51:54,900 --> 00:51:57,254

Well, Stephanie, thank you so much for your time today.

864

00:51:57,254 --> 00:51:58,766

I really appreciate it.

865

00:51:58,861 --> 00:51:59,615

Thank you, Kelly.

866

00:51:59,615 --> 00:52:00,369

This is awesome.

867

00:52:00,369 --> 00:52:01,083

You are awesome.

868

00:52:01,083 --> 00:52:01,315

Yeah.

869

00:52:01,315 --> 00:52:02,880

Appreciate being on here.