I now have the pleasure of introducing you to Leah and Melody Ellis.
Speaker ALeah is a mother of four and the founder of the Society of Child Entrepreneurs, Sochi, a non profit dedicated to helping children ages 6 to 17 build confidence, leadership and real world business skills through hands on learning.
Speaker AInspired by watching her own children turn every idea, everyday ideas into action, Leah created Sochi to prove that children are capable of meaningful leadership right now.
Speaker AThrough business fairs, curriculum and coaching, she helps children launch real ventures, learn financial literacy and develop resilience through experience, not theory.
Speaker AAt the heart of her work is the belief that when kids are trusted with responsibility and supported by community, they rise.
Speaker ALeah's leadership is rooted in motherhood, creativity and a commitment to building spaces where children and families can thrive.
Speaker AWelcome Leah and Melody.
Speaker AIt is a pleasure to have you both here today.
Speaker AThank you so very much for joining us.
Speaker BThank you.
Speaker BI feel bad, I should have written a bio for Melody too.
Speaker CWell, would you like to give us a quick bio?
Speaker BSo, Melody Ellis, 10 year old junior executive director of the Society of Child Entrepreneurs, graphic designer, artist and business owner since the age of 4 4, who helps guide other children through entrepreneurship and leadership, including civic engagement and building their own businesses.
Speaker CWelcome, Melody.
Speaker CThat is quite a bio.
Speaker CI love that.
Speaker CAnd we're gonna love talking to you about what that means and what you do to make all that stuff come true and all those kinds of things.
Speaker CWhat I want to ask first though for you and mom both is why this group called Sochi, what was it, what part of your life kind of started and said, you know what, we are doing this thing and now we want to help other parents and children do this too.
Speaker AYou almost messed up Sochi, didn't you?
Speaker CI did.
Speaker CDon't tell.
Speaker BSo do you want to tell the story of before Sochi when it was just Melody, mom, and Serenity?
Speaker DWe can jump straight to the chase.
Speaker BYou want to go straight to Sochi?
Speaker DYeah, we can go straight to Sochi.
Speaker BOkay.
Speaker BSo when Melody was four, she started her business and she was awesome at it.
Speaker BHer little sister started a business at 4.
Speaker BThen we moved and we had this group of kids.
Speaker BWe hosted our first children's business fair.
Speaker BWe didn't have an organization.
Speaker BWe had no idea that we wanted to have an organization.
Speaker BAnd we pulled all these kids that we didn't know into a room.
Speaker BWe let them set up businesses and we opened it up to the community.
Speaker BThe kids were amazing.
Speaker BThey learned so much.
Speaker BThey had a great time.
Speaker BThey made an amazing impact on their community.
Speaker BAnd then we sent them home and the educator in me was furious because we had this amazing captive audience of kids who really wanted to learn more about this amazing thing they were having fun doing.
Speaker BAnd we sent them home.
Speaker BLike who takes open minded children and doesn't teach them something?
Speaker BNo self respecting educator, that's who.
Speaker BSo I convinced my friends to let me start a nonprofit telling them have with them knowing Melody, that we needed to create peers for Melody.
Speaker BWe needed more kids who were willing to stand up the way Melody stands up and be leaders in their community.
Speaker BAnd they agreed to let us found Sochi.
Speaker BSo Melody is a spokesperson, she's an activist.
Speaker BShe spoke at our Family night.
Speaker BShe does podcast appearances.
Speaker BShe is as much a part of Sochi as every adult that's involved in the society.
Speaker BBut it all started because she started a business at 4.
Speaker CMelody.
Speaker CWhat was that business?
Speaker CWhat was business all about?
Speaker DIt's called Melody Paints.
Speaker DRecently rebranded to Melody Creates.
Speaker DAnd at first it was just about art, but when I rebranded I changed it to pretty much anything that I feel like creating, I can sell.
Speaker CBeautiful.
Speaker CI see.
Speaker CSo for you were very creative.
Speaker CStarted making things like I want to see what if people want to buy these things.
Speaker CRight.
Speaker COf like that.
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker DYeah.
Speaker CAnd I think part of your story that we haven't quite touched on yet, when that first happened, that's when you were homeschooling the girls.
Speaker BRight.
Speaker BSo this was.
Speaker BI honestly, I want to say that was even before we were homeschooling.
Speaker DOh yeah.
Speaker CBefore they aren't quite homeschooling yet.
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker BSo she.
Speaker AWell that is homeschooling because homeschooling never really starts and never really stops.
Speaker CSo.
Speaker BRight.
Speaker BSo she.
Speaker BWe had an in home daycare prior to Covid and I taught Museum of Science Boston's WE engineering curriculum to a bunch of three year old girls.
Speaker BAnd it was amazing to get to teach this really hands on curriculum and really outside of the box thinking to these little girls.
Speaker BBut then my house had an electrical issue and that electrical issue uncovered 10 years worth of black mold in the walls of a house I had only owned for 18 months.
Speaker COh no.
Speaker BYeah.
Speaker BSo that left us temporarily relocating to a hotel where we could not run our daycare and we had to shut it down.
Speaker BWe thought it would be a month or two and ended up being six months that we lived in this hotel and we moved back into our house February 1st of 2020.
Speaker BDad deployed February 2nd of 2020 for what was supposed to be a three month deployment.
Speaker BMarch 17th of 2020 was our scheduled grand reopening for the Daycare.
Speaker BAnd then we canceled our grand reopening because it was the day that the county of Los Angeles issued the stay at home order.
Speaker COh my goodness.
Speaker BSo March 17th rolls around and we are no daycare.
Speaker BTrapped at home, Dad's deployed.
Speaker BIt's just me, a 4 year old and an 18 month old at home.
Speaker CTime to get creative.
Speaker BYeah, time to get creative.
Speaker BSo we thought this was going to be short term, not a big deal.
Speaker BMy husband and I were like, well, let's start, start a financial coaching company together.
Speaker BIt's something we're both interested in.
Speaker BWe like to be entrepreneurial.
Speaker BAnd so I started watching business training videos on the living room TV so that I could supervise the girls playing while I was watching these videos.
Speaker BYeah.
Speaker BAnd then at a certain point, Melody stopped playing while I was watching videos and started watching videos with me.
Speaker BWhich is why at four years old she was like, well, I want to start a business.
Speaker BBecause she had been watching all these training videos about what it's like to be a business owner.
Speaker BYeah.
Speaker BAnd I of course was like, no way, you're four, you can't start a business.
Speaker BAnd she asked like any four year old would, why not?
Speaker BRight?
Speaker CWhy not?
Speaker ABecause I'm scared.
Speaker AHow do you tell your kid that you can't start a business?
Speaker ABecause I'm scared.
Speaker DRight.
Speaker BBecause I don't know how to start a business for a four year old.
Speaker BSo you can't, you can't take that risk because I don't know what the next step is.
Speaker BSo I didn't have a good answer.
Speaker BSo I let her do it.
Speaker BI asked her, what are you going to sell?
Speaker BHow are you going to do it?
Speaker BShe set up a poll in a women's business group on what to name her business.
Speaker BSold stuff for the very first time.
Speaker BShe, I thought, you know, she's just going to sell to grandparents and aunts and uncles, like, whatever.
Speaker BIt'll be a tiny thing with a Google form and a PayPal.
Speaker BYeah.
Speaker BShe ended up selling to strangers.
Speaker AThere's people doesn't know what she can't do.
Speaker AThis thing tells her that she can do it.
Speaker AHer brain has none of that, that capacity at four years old, if you can't yet that doesn't develop until you're about 10.
Speaker ASo.
Speaker AYeah.
Speaker ASo starting a business before then, all of that, oh, I can't do that.
Speaker AIt's like, oh, how do I do that?
Speaker AThat's a whole different conversation.
Speaker BYes.
Speaker BSo we launched it and she loved it.
Speaker BShe still loves it.
Speaker BNow she has a second business.
Speaker BShe Helps me run the society of child entrepreneurs.
Speaker DTrying to start another one.
Speaker DYou're not hard.
Speaker BYou're not starting another business.
Speaker BNo more than two businesses per child there has.
Speaker DYou probably started that because I asked for another one at the age of like 7.
Speaker BShe's such a little activist too, though, that on top of these businesses, the non profits and everything else she's doing, she walked into my office last week and was like, I need to go speak to city council.
Speaker COkay.
Speaker BI'm like, what?
Speaker BHi, we have Melody.
Speaker CTell us, Melody, what are you going to say?
Speaker BCouncil.
Speaker DSo tonight I'm going to go to city council because we where I walk home from school and my school is about 10 minutes from my.
Speaker DMy mom's office.
Speaker DAnd when I leave school, there's only one crosswalk that goes across the street and that's extremely close to my school.
Speaker DSo the traffic backs up and then eventually no one's stopping except for this person on one side of me.
Speaker DAnd the person on that side gets tired of waiting in hawks and I'm just like, okay, let me go get run over so you're not inconvenienced any farther.
Speaker DSo I'm like, you need some more
Speaker Ccrosswalks to keep you.
Speaker DI'm gonna, I'm gonna try and get a crosswalk across the library to mom's office.
Speaker DYeah.
Speaker ASo here's a really good idea.
Speaker AAsk them to make it a flashing crosswalk so that there's a button to push so that it starts flashing.
Speaker ASo not only is there a crosswalk, but there's a signal to make the people stop so that they don't have to just wait.
Speaker ASo if there's a button and things start flashing, then you can cross the street a lot easier.
Speaker ASo bring that up too.
Speaker AThat's a great idea.
Speaker CAnd good, good job keeping yourself and other people safe.
Speaker CWow, that's great.
Speaker BShe.
Speaker BYeah.
Speaker BSo I'm like, she's a girl scout, She's a business owner.
Speaker BShe's a advocate for her community.
Speaker BShe's 10.
Speaker BAnd all of that doesn't come from me standing next to her and saying, melody, go to this.
Speaker BMelody, go to this.
Speaker BMelody, go to this.
Speaker BMelody, go to this.
Speaker BIt comes from me saying, melody, here are all of your options.
Speaker BWhere are you going next?
Speaker AYou know what?
Speaker AI'm going to take it even back a step farther.
Speaker AIt goes from you becoming an entrepreneur and doing it in front of your children and modeling that behavior and your child, who at that age is like, mom is the most important person in my world.
Speaker AAnd this is what she's doing.
Speaker AThis is what I want to be doing.
Speaker ASo you modeled that behavior before, and she picked it up.
Speaker AAnd so I'm going to give that to you as much as the Melody, because she also has to step up and do that.
Speaker ABut you provided the template.
Speaker BIt's been really fun.
Speaker BI was comparing notes with my brother earlier today about, like, what our childhood was like versus what Melody's childhood is like, because at 10 years old, I probably didn't even know that our city had a council, let alone went to go speak at it regularly, because she's been there three or four times.
Speaker DIt might as well be my living room.
Speaker BSo it's not a new concept to her.
Speaker BShe's lived in three cities.
Speaker BShe's met the mayor of all three cities.
Speaker BFamiliar with the mayor of all three cities isn't nervous.
Speaker DFriends.
Speaker BWhere.
Speaker BWhat did we do on December 31?
Speaker DWe were on a news.
Speaker DWe were on the morning news on December 31st.
Speaker BAnd was it pre recorded or was it live?
Speaker DIt was a live recording.
Speaker BAnd who was the most nervous to do it?
Speaker DYou were, of course,
Speaker Cthe whole drive about that.
Speaker CWhat was it about?
Speaker DSo it was about the same thing.
Speaker DIt was about the nonprofit.
Speaker DAnd we were on the way, and she was like, melody, how are you feeling?
Speaker DMelody, how are you feeling?
Speaker DMelody, are you feeling okay?
Speaker DAnd I was like, yes, yes, yes.
Speaker DI think she's like, melody, are you okay?
Speaker DAnd I'm like, yes, mom, stop.
Speaker DI'm okay.
Speaker DI've been.
Speaker AAre you okay, Mom?
Speaker DYeah.
Speaker DAre you a live podcast?
Speaker DAnd the only difference between live podcasts and live news is the news.
Speaker DYou're sitting with the people in person.
Speaker DThe podcast, you're just sitting there.
Speaker DAlso, this news was smaller because it was really only showing in Wichita.
Speaker DThe podcast was shown live in Africa.
Speaker CThere you go.
Speaker CRight?
Speaker BYeah.
Speaker BShe has so much confidence, and it comes from the fact that she goes and she does the things.
Speaker BThere is so much imposter syndrome that we have by the time we're 12 years old that Melody doesn't have, and
Speaker CI hope she never develops it.
Speaker CMelody, keep staying strong.
Speaker CYou've got this.
Speaker AYeah.
Speaker AThat's one of the reasons we really want more children to be at home longer, because this creativity, this drive, that brain openness, that tends to start to change around 7 years old.
Speaker AWhen I hurt my head, I learned a lot about brain science.
Speaker ASo if you can keep them at home longer, if you can model that behavior, if you can show that that.
Speaker AThat launches their.
Speaker ATheir learning model for the rest of their life.
Speaker AAnd she's doing so much better once she did go back to school or entered school.
Speaker ASo that, that, that kind of confidence, they, they take that away from you in school almost because it's like if everybody was that confident through school, nobody would get anything done.
Speaker CThey all be running around the class.
Speaker AIt would be, it would be chaos.
Speaker DSo, yes.
Speaker CSo let's jump into the society a little bit more.
Speaker CWhat kind of things do.
Speaker CDoes the society provide?
Speaker CHow do you kind of teach?
Speaker CWhere does this grow to?
Speaker CHow do we parents either find a society like this or how do parents encourage their children to be entrepreneurs?
Speaker AWhat if some, yeah, what if some kid hears this is like, I want to start a chapter of Sochi in my city.
Speaker AAnd now that I've said that, they'll go, what does that mean, start a chapter?
Speaker BI have fantastic news.
Speaker BSince the last time you and I spoke, we launched an online community so people can join us online.
Speaker BIt's called the Sochi Circle.
Speaker BIt's a play on a Socratic circle.
Speaker BBecause everything we do is very open conversation.
Speaker BEverybody's equal, everybody gives and takes from the conversation together.
Speaker BAnd so we have an online community and it has a chat forum just for child entrepreneurs so the kids can get learning from each other as a forum for adult guides so that we can talk to each other on how do we support our kids.
Speaker BAnd a forum where the adults and kids can talk with heavy moderation together to encourage and practice new things.
Speaker BIt has a starter kit which even has a quiz on like, is my kid ready to try entrepreneurship?
Speaker BAnd for the kids, it has a workshop on a worksheet on what do I want to do as an entrepreneur so you can really get started.
Speaker BAnd then as you progress through the programs and there's tiers and all that stuff, you know, you can even print my lesson plans.
Speaker BAnd you can literally print that lesson plan and teach it in your home school, teach it with a co op, teach it at an after school program in a public school.
Speaker BThose resources are all available.
Speaker BMelody, in November, I went to her and said, this is the lesson plan I have written for our member night.
Speaker BBecause every month we have an in person get together for all of our members in our city.
Speaker BWe all get together and we have an in person Sochi circle.
Speaker BAnd I said, this is the lesson plan I've written.
Speaker BI'm very proud of it.
Speaker BWhat do you think?
Speaker BAnd Ms. Melody, what did you say?
Speaker DBasically a short summary is nobody else's.
Speaker DBut what I said is also I had a different idea.
Speaker CTell us about that idea.
Speaker BSo what did we actually end up learning that month?
Speaker DWhat to do if your business takes like an unexpected turn or something, like something interrupts your business or something changes it so that it's harder to run your business.
Speaker COkay.
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker BAnd what do you do?
Speaker DYou start, pause, pivot, or partner.
Speaker DOr you could choose multiple.
Speaker BYeah, you can pause, you can pivot, and you can partner.
Speaker BYou can do one, you can do all three.
Speaker DRight.
Speaker COkay, describe pause for us real quick.
Speaker CMake sure we're on the same page.
Speaker DPause is like, you don't like quit, but you may, like stop for a minute, like for a bit and try, like, figure out what happened or get what was in the way.
Speaker DFinished, Wait it out.
Speaker DSomething like that.
Speaker COkay, and what's pivot?
Speaker CWhat does that mean?
Speaker DPivot is when you change, like you change a little bit so it's not all the same as before.
Speaker DIt's like changes.
Speaker DOr maybe you just focus on one of your products more than another.
Speaker BSo if I had a bakery and my oven broke and I chose pivot, what would that look like?
Speaker DMaybe selling something frozen, like making homemade ice cream or something.
Speaker BOr selling pre measured mixes or recipes so I can still create something even without an oven.
Speaker DYeah.
Speaker BSo that kind of problem solving.
Speaker DI think the ice cream idea is better than ice cream, I realize.
Speaker CCake and ice cream.
Speaker CRight.
Speaker CSo if they come looking for a cake, they might want ice cream instead.
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker AWe're actually looking at creating a healing center here where we're at.
Speaker AAnd we're all, we're all thinking, you know what would be good up here would be an ice cream place.
Speaker ABecause there's no ice cream places up here.
Speaker AYeah, but that wouldn't be good for us, but it sure would be good for the community.
Speaker BTasty.
Speaker BBe so tasty.
Speaker BAnd so then what's the last option?
Speaker DThe last one was partner.
Speaker DAnd you just partner with someone else, a business owner, a friend.
Speaker DSomeone else, and make like a partnership and they can help you.
Speaker DBut the thing with partnerships, they are volunteers.
Speaker DYou have to pay them.
Speaker CI love that.
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker CYou have to make it worth it for both of you.
Speaker DRight?
Speaker DYeah.
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker CAnd that's what we want to do whenever we're in our society.
Speaker CWe want to have the give and take, the back and forth.
Speaker CExactly.
Speaker DYeah.
Speaker BAnd the reason why Melody wanted to change our lesson plan is because just a few days before our class, she broke her wrist.
Speaker COh.
Speaker BShe could not run her business with a broken wrist.
Speaker BAnd she wanted to know what to do about it.
Speaker CThere we go.
Speaker CIs your wrist all better?
Speaker DYes.
Speaker BOh, Good.
Speaker AAnd that's how real life can influence what you need to learn about.
Speaker AIt's another beautiful pivot on what you wanted to do.
Speaker ASo you pivoted and you made progress.
Speaker AThat's perfect.
Speaker BMelody's so much fun because she is 10 years old and she acts like a 10 year old.
Speaker BShe does silly things.
Speaker BShe has skipped children's business fairs to go to birthday parties.
Speaker BShe has fun, but she also has this business savvy of, wait a second, that's a problem that needs solved, how do I do it?
Speaker BShe's very rarely stuck on, that's a problem that needs solved.
Speaker BHow do I complain about it?
Speaker DYeah.
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker ASo you also hinted at another one of my, like, fun things to talk about is financial literacy.
Speaker AAnd so I kind of actually go into money.
Speaker ADo you actually like, teach what money is or do you more teach financing and budgeting?
Speaker DSo
Speaker BI was a financial coach, as I mentioned earlier.
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker BSo we talk about what money is.
Speaker BAnd the very high level definition is money is a tool that you use to achieve the things you want to achieve.
Speaker AYeah, that's the fungible, the transferable.
Speaker CThe high level.
Speaker BYeah.
Speaker DYep.
Speaker BVery high level.
Speaker BIt's the tool you use to achieve the things you want to do.
Speaker BAnd then we talk about when you have money, you have earned it, and now you have only three choices on how to use it.
Speaker BAnd as grown ups, we like to give it all kinds of fancy names like investing and bonds and mutual funds and everything fancy.
Speaker BBut your only choices are spend, save or give.
Speaker BAnd so I tell the kids, your business is the same way.
Speaker BIt can only spend money getting supplies, employees, things like that.
Speaker BSave money through reserves and emergency funds, or give money through charitable contributions to the things that matter to you.
Speaker BSo whether it's personal or business money, you can still only spend, save or give.
Speaker BAnd then we talk about in order to be healthy, you have to do all three, and in order to be sustainable, you have to not do more of those three things than you've done in earning.
Speaker CRight.
Speaker BAnd so that's kind of a the seven year old approach to what is financial literacy.
Speaker BAnd then as the kids get older, they start asking more questions about buying cars and paying for college.
Speaker BAnd I wrote a curriculum for that in 2021 that covers like how to, how to buy a house, how to pay for college, and how to invest in retirement starting as soon as you have a taxable income, which could be at 10 years old.
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker BMelody for her sister.
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker CMelody, can you tell us a little bit about your structure?
Speaker CWhere where are some of the things that you spend for your business?
Speaker CAnd where are some of the places you save for your business?
Speaker CAnd do you give to a charity?
Speaker DI sometimes I give to, like, Sochi.
Speaker DI give some of my profit to Sochi, and I save for, like, college and cars and house.
Speaker DAnd then I spend whatever I really want at that moment.
Speaker DLike, I could be spending it on a Nintendo Switch or a cell phone or a bar of chocolate.
Speaker COkay.
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker CBut do you also have to spend for your business?
Speaker CYou have to buy some of the supplies and things for the things that you create.
Speaker BLike the loan you had to pay.
Speaker DMostly that's loans.
Speaker DYeah.
Speaker DAnd that's like paints and the paper for printing my graphic designs, canvases, beads, string.
Speaker BThere's a lot of supplies that go into Melody creates, huh?
Speaker BYeah, exactly.
Speaker CBeautiful.
Speaker DIt's gonna be more like foam.
Speaker DThere's also gonna be some foam that goes into it.
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker CDo you help mom teach some of those financial lessons as well, or does mom teach most of those?
Speaker DShe teaches it mostly, but sometimes I jump in and help.
Speaker CI love that.
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker CSo when you're being a voice for Sochi, what kinds of things do you like to talk about?
Speaker CHow do you help parents understand that little boys and girls like you can actually run a business?
Speaker BGo ahead.
Speaker DI have one of my favorite stories that I like to tell.
Speaker DIt's.
Speaker DIt was one of our workshops that we were doing, and so we were working on.
Speaker DEntrepreneurs usually solve problems.
Speaker DSo we were working on some problems you could solve and how to solve them.
Speaker DSo at the.
Speaker DPretty much the end of the lesson, we were solving the problem of porch pirate.
Speaker BThe first thing was, let's just put a lockbox on your porch.
Speaker DBut people.
Speaker DBut the people who.
Speaker DThe delivery men don't always put them in, so that's not going to be helpful.
Speaker DSo now the lockbox has extender arms.
Speaker DThe porch part's just going to steal a box and then crack the code when they get home.
Speaker DBreak it with an ax or something.
Speaker CRight.
Speaker BSo then what?
Speaker DSo then it became a.
Speaker DA robot that's bolted to your porch and has extender arms to grab the package and put it in its stomach.
Speaker DAnd then when you come home, it has voice recognition, face recognition, and face recognition.
Speaker DAnd it comes in three different colors.
Speaker CWhat are the colors?
Speaker CI gotta find out.
Speaker DPink, yellow, and green.
Speaker COkay.
Speaker BAnd then I look at them, and this is three girls, 6, 9, and 11, sitting in this room.
Speaker BThey've invented this robot with extender arms, facial recognition software, the whole nine yards.
Speaker BAnd I he looks at us and say to them, I think that this might be too complicated for you guys to program.
Speaker DBut the 11 year old Finley says, I'm in robotics club.
Speaker DI'll figure it out.
Speaker DLooking her dead in the eye.
Speaker CWow.
Speaker DMom had to remind us, remember, this was just practice.
Speaker BWe're not going to do this for real.
Speaker DBut she could be making it at this very second.
Speaker BThey were very confident.
Speaker BAnd a lot of what Melody gets to do is talk to people as a business owner and tell them, I'm not going to tell you about how kids can be business owners.
Speaker BI'm going to be a kid and talk to you like a business owner so that you can see it for yourself.
Speaker BOver spring break last year, we went to this networking event for funders and people who were looking for funding.
Speaker BAnd she's 47 inches tall with chin length green hair.
Speaker BAnd people kind of look at her when she walks by and one guy stopped her and said, do you have a business?
Speaker DYes, I do.
Speaker BAnd she answered instantaneously with her clap back of, actually, I have two.
Speaker BBut we're here to talk about my mom's nonprofit today.
Speaker CYes.
Speaker CGood job.
Speaker BOh, my goodness.
Speaker CSo then I bet he wanted to know about the nonprofit and your business.
Speaker BHe did.
Speaker BHe wanted to know all about both of her businesses.
Speaker BHe wanted to know about the nonprofit, he wanted to know about her.
Speaker BAnd so then that day is also the day that Melody had an impromptu lesson on social batteries and why it's okay to say no at an event and say, I'm tapping out early.
Speaker BOkay.
Speaker BBecause she got a little overwhelmed by all the people in that room and everybody wanted to talk to the little
Speaker Cgirl that knew what she was talking about.
Speaker DAnd I, I spent half a day there.
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker BYeah, we spent like four hours there.
Speaker BShe.
Speaker BShe worked hard.
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker CThat is just so amazing.
Speaker CWow, Leah, this is so amazing.
Speaker CAnd I'm.
Speaker CWhat I'm really hoping that all of our audience, our parents who are listening is like, think about this.
Speaker CWhen your children come to you and say, I want to try this, or I really want to express, explore this.
Speaker CAnd they're so excited about it.
Speaker CGuess what?
Speaker CThere's no homework issues because they're excited about it.
Speaker CThere's no worrying about, you know, them being sitting on the couch on technology all the time because they're interested in something else.
Speaker CRight.
Speaker CLet this creativity flow and find ways to help channel your child that direction.
Speaker BYeah, absolutely.
Speaker BAnd I think the biggest thing and the hardest thing for parents is twofold.
Speaker BOne, don't let your fear stop them.
Speaker BAnd two, don't let their failure make you take over.
Speaker BIt is really easy as a parent, and this is what people ask me all the time, like, what do you do?
Speaker BLike, if your kid has an idea that's not going to be really successful and like, you let them try it.
Speaker BAnd they're like, but if they're going to get.
Speaker BThey're going to be sad.
Speaker BAnd I'm like, huh?
Speaker BAnd then they're going to learn problem solving skills.
Speaker BThey're going to learn about reiteration.
Speaker BWe're going to learn about failing forward.
Speaker BThat is still necessary.
Speaker BAnd so the.
Speaker BOne of the hardest things for parents is really, truly letting completely go of the reins and letting them do their own thing, for better or for worse.
Speaker AThat's also something that's so hard to learn if you've been through the school system, because anytime you do something wrong, somebody's right there to jump on you and correct it.
Speaker AAnd, oh, you can't make these mistakes.
Speaker AAnd here's how you have to do everything.
Speaker AAnd so that creativity is gone.
Speaker AAnd so like, well, what if I make a mistake?
Speaker AIt's like, if that isn't a problem for you, if mistakes are okay, then what if you do?
Speaker AIt's only really in school that mistakes become problems instead of learning opportunities.
Speaker ASo this is one of these things.
Speaker CIt's like, yeah, and it's one of these things.
Speaker CAlso, we encourage parents, like, let them make mistakes when they're little because you don't want them making the mistakes when they're older, teenager, or above, where it really impacts their life.
Speaker BRight.
Speaker BAnd we talk about so much with our kids on the risk of being a child entrepreneur is nil.
Speaker BShe has no risk.
Speaker BIf her business folded, she went bankrupt, she lost everything she ever made.
Speaker DI only have a buck right now.
Speaker DI'm fine.
Speaker CWhat?
Speaker BSo what?
Speaker BLike, she's fine.
Speaker BThere's no risk here, but the learning opportunities are just massive.
Speaker BSo I think it's silly not to encourage some entrepreneurship in your kid.
Speaker BAnd then my favorite challenge for parents, because I firmly believe that listening to me talk about Melody is cool because I like bragging about my kid, but it's way more fun if you can go practice it with your own kid.
Speaker BSo go see.
Speaker BGo see what your kids can do.
Speaker BSo my challenge is when you sit down at dinner with your kids or you're driving to practice, or whenever you have the opportunity to sit and talk to your kids, ask them, what's one problem that you have interacted with today and what would you do to Solve it and then let them tell you about the problem.
Speaker BDon't interrupt, let them tell you about their solution, but only ask questions, don't finish sentences.
Speaker BAnd then if it's something really feasible, go help them do it.
Speaker BThat's the start of entrepreneurship.
Speaker AHelp them.
Speaker ADon't do it for them.
Speaker CAnd this also so replaces that conversation that ends in, I don't know, all the time when your child comes home from school or you get that chance and it's like, how was your day today?
Speaker CNope.
Speaker CThat conversation usually doesn't go anywhere.
Speaker CBut framing it in the way you just did.
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker CHelps that creation and that conversation really move forward.
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker BWell, and they, they have noticed.
Speaker BI mean, we are piloting, I'm writing a full 36 week curriculum for homeschool families to be able to eventually purchase so that when you're looking for those supplemental resources, you can just buy the
Speaker Abox they're sponging off your kids.
Speaker AKid, go start a business.
Speaker AWe need some money.
Speaker BExactly.
Speaker BThey'll be able to just print off those listen plans and go.
Speaker BAnd we're piloting it now so that I can test it with kids who aren't already entrepreneurial.
Speaker BAnd I sat in a room full of kids and I said, okay, we're going to practice today problem spotting.
Speaker BWe're not practicing problem solving.
Speaker BWe're not practicing complaining.
Speaker BWe're simply going to sit down, think about our day and write down some of the problems we notice, rank how important they are to our daily life and write down who they affect.
Speaker BLike, that's the start.
Speaker AWow.
Speaker AI'm doing that in my life right now.
Speaker BDo, do some problem spotting.
Speaker BWhat are.
Speaker BAnd then don't use them as complaint fodder.
Speaker BUse them as a way to generate problem solving.
Speaker DI can make, I can do this.
Speaker DExcept it's not gonna.
Speaker DIt's problem.
Speaker DI have spotted it's the crosswalk.
Speaker DThe problem is no crosswalk.
Speaker DIt affects the people who walk home and it rating and it's a very, it's pretty important.
Speaker AYeah, it's a safety issue.
Speaker DThere's, there's another crosswalk.
Speaker DIt's just not quite as safe.
Speaker DSo it's not incredibly important.
Speaker BGive it like a four out of five.
Speaker DYeah, four out of five.
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker BSo.
Speaker BAnd that's the first step.
Speaker BAnd then step two is problem solving.
Speaker BOkay, what can I do to solve this problem?
Speaker BGo to city council and ask them to paint in a new sidewalk.
Speaker BWe have no traffic lights in our city, so it's like super easy.
Speaker BPaint a traffic light or paint the crosswalk and be done, like super simple.
Speaker BOr one of our students, they were like, you know, my.
Speaker BMy problem right now is I forget to turn off my bedroom fan every day when I leave for my.
Speaker BBecause they go to a homeschool co op every day when I leave for the co op, I forget to turn off the fan in my room.
Speaker BAnd then my parents complain about the electric bill.
Speaker BAnd so her next step is going to be problem solving.
Speaker BWhat can she do to make sure that fan gets turned off?
Speaker BHow do we do it?
Speaker CAnd they're little reminders, sticky notes, whatever.
Speaker BRight, Exactly.
Speaker BAnd then taking that step, I even told her I was like, you could put like a paperclip so the lights turn off together, so if you turn off your light, the fan automatically comes off.
Speaker BYou can find a way.
Speaker CAnd she was like, oh,
Speaker DI can start a business off the sticky note idea.
Speaker BYou're not.
Speaker BNo.
Speaker CCome on, Mom.
Speaker CI know Melody.
Speaker CYou might have to retire one business to start a new business.
Speaker CMaybe that's what mom's actually saying.
Speaker CRight, right.
Speaker BWell, and she just rebranded from Melody Paints to Melody Creates so that she could extend.
Speaker BExpand Melody Creates.
Speaker BSo I don't think she needs to launch a new business because if it doesn't fit under Melody Creates and it doesn't fit underneath the lemonade business, then now's probably not the time for it.
Speaker BYou have 70 to 80 more years of life.
Speaker DWhat if Melody Creates is like Wild Ellis and it's just
Speaker BI have an umbrella company.
Speaker CYes.
Speaker BAnd so she's like, well, what if Melly Creates just becomes my umbrella company for all of my smaller business?
Speaker CThe other ones.
Speaker CThere we go.
Speaker CSee again, Modeling.
Speaker CRight.
Speaker CWe talk about it so often in behaviors and problem solving and all these different things.
Speaker CIf parents are really watching how they're modeling how they react, how they solve problems, how they think things through, the kids pick up on it and they follow.
Speaker CThey do so, so much.
Speaker CYes.
Speaker BFor better or for worse.
Speaker CYes, exactly.
Speaker CI just remembered, Leah, something we talked about in our pre chat, because I always do pre chat with.
Speaker CWith our guests.
Speaker CAnd one of the things that you realize is there's something about an LLC that some kids need LLC and some kids don't.
Speaker CCan you talk about that a little bit?
Speaker CBecause we talked that this was something super important for this episode.
Speaker BOkay, so Colorado, Nebraska, Missouri, Oklahoma and Utah are the only five of our 50 states that have something called Eliminate Stand law.
Speaker BAnd those are laws that protect children who want to practice entrepreneurship from having to follow the same rules as an adult entrepreneur.
Speaker BAll the other 45 states do not recognize child entrepreneurs as a different section of entrepreneurship as adult entrepreneurs.
Speaker BSo, for instance, in the state of Kansas, if Mellody wants to participate in sales more than two times per calendar year, she has to register as an LLC with the Secretary of State.
Speaker BShe has to be able to collect her sales tax, pay her federal income taxes, all of those things.
Speaker BAnd that's one thing that I don't like, because it hampers their ability to experiment.
Speaker BHow is she supposed to experiment with entrepreneurship if she can only legally sell things two times per year?
Speaker DThen I only have, like, one chance to fail.
Speaker DOtherwise it has to succeed.
Speaker DOtherwise I don't get any money that year.
Speaker BRight.
Speaker BSo it's robbing them of so much opportunity.
Speaker BSo we have been working on something that we call to the Sochi Law, which is lemonade stand law for the state of Kansas that allows children to have up to six opportunities to sell per year, earn up to $6,000, and protects the kids 10,000.
Speaker BGetting there allows the kids to have 25% of their income max that their parents are allowed to take for administrative costs.
Speaker BAnd 15% has to go into a locked trust for when they reach 21 years of age so that the kids are protected while they're practicing this entrepreneurship.
Speaker BWe were fortunate.
Speaker BAbout three months ago, both a member of the Kansas Senate and a member of the Kansas House of Representatives both agreed to sponsor bills to move this forward.
Speaker BAnd so just last week, we got the rough current draft of an actual law.
Speaker BIt's an act that allows child entrepreneurs the opportunity to earn up to $10,000, not have to pay sales taxes and sell up to six times per year with online platforms.
Speaker BNot counting as one of those times that will be current should be this year getting passed in both our House and Senate.
Speaker BSo that would be law in Kansas.
Speaker BAnd I have some other nonprofit owners that I work with that do similar but different things for me in South Carolina and Arkansas who are working on having identical laws passed in both of their states.
Speaker BSo we will almost double the number of states that are allowing our child entrepreneurship.
Speaker BAnd now that we have the Sochi Circle, where people from around the nation can join us, I'm hoping to see more groups and more states creating this advocacy so that kids can actually go do this stuff.
Speaker CYeah, Yeah.
Speaker CI mean, you know, most parents don't even think about that, and that's why usually they're fine, because nobody really thinks about it.
Speaker CBut if you are in a place, if something happened, you don't want your child to be in trouble or for you to be in trouble.
Speaker CSo that's why I want to bring this to just awareness.
Speaker CDon't freak out about it and just be aware, just in case.
Speaker BYeah, exactly.
Speaker BIt's one of those laws where it's not heavily enforced, but if it is enforced, the liability is very large.
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker BSo I'm excited that we've made so much progress on the Sochi law here in Kansas, and I'm excited to see it pass in more places now, especially now that we have this draft language the other states can literally just copy and paste into their own state House and Senate.
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker CThat's amazing.
Speaker CAll right, Melody, as we're beginning to wrap up here, we're about ready to finish our conversation.
Speaker CIs there something that you wanted to tell our parents and our kids who are listening that you haven't been able to say yet?
Speaker CIs there something burning inside?
Speaker CHe's like, I really need to tell them this about me or my business or Sochi.
Speaker CGo ahead.
Speaker DThere is one more story.
Speaker DIt's.
Speaker DIt's referred to as the Banana Club story.
Speaker DAnd before we had Sochi, we were random.
Speaker DRandom.
Speaker DIt just came up on Facebook.
Speaker DReminders.
Speaker DWe were sitting in the hotel room and in a hotel cafeteria room where we were eating breakfast, and we just decided to randomly have a family pitch contest.
Speaker DSo we all were pitching the same thing.
Speaker DIt was a company called Banana Club, and it was like a monthly thing.
Speaker DYou'd get a package once a month.
Speaker DOnce a month.
Speaker DAnd we'd decide what was in, and the person who was pitching would decide what was in that package and what made them best.
Speaker DSo.
Speaker DAnd so we had a lot of difference.
Speaker DThe winner was the youngest in the family, and his was two bananas, two oranges, and a dollar, I believe, for five dollars.
Speaker BWe just.
Speaker BWay before we ever knew Sochi was going to be a thing, we were bored at home and had a Banana of the Month Club pitch contest, where at the time, our three children.
Speaker BBecause the fourth wasn't born yet, our three children and I had to pitch Banana of the Month programs to their dad to see who would win his business.
Speaker CCreativity.
Speaker CYes, that.
Speaker BWell, it got really silly because my second daughter, her pitch was, for $5 a month, you get unlimited oranges.
Speaker BThis is Banana of the month club.
Speaker BFor $5 a month, you get unlimited oranges, a free gift up to an 18 value, and some stickers.
Speaker COkay.
Speaker BThere were no bananas.
Speaker DMaybe the stickers were bananas.
Speaker CWe're banana stickers.
Speaker CRight.
Speaker BAnd then my son's the baby.
Speaker BHe was 2 at the time.
Speaker BAnd so he needed a lot of questions to get it out of him.
Speaker BBut his pitch was $5 a month and you get $2 back.
Speaker BTwo bananas and an orange.
Speaker CThere we go.
Speaker CAll right, Leah, same question to you as we're beginning to wrap up.
Speaker CIs there something that you haven't been able to touch on that were in your notes?
Speaker CLike, I really want to say this when I'm on the podcast.
Speaker BI think the biggest thing for me every time is it blows people away.
Speaker BMy biggest mind shift for you guys today is children are not the future.
Speaker BThey are capable, vibrant leaders right now.
Speaker BAnd so we as adults need to stop holding them back and start allowing them the opportunity to lead.
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker BDo you want to tell them your life?
Speaker CAny ideas?
Speaker DI like to end.
Speaker DKids, if you see a problem, go out, change it.
Speaker DAs long as you're not breaking a household rule.
Speaker DAnd adults don't start a business as a dumb household rule.
Speaker DUnless your child already has two businesses.
Speaker CI love it.
Speaker CLeah, tell our audience how they can get a hold of you and find out more about Sochi, please.
Speaker BSo the easiest thing you can do is go to sochiict.org so it's s o c e ict.org that's a shortcut.
Speaker BAnd it'll take you to our website.
Speaker BAnd then the navigation bar has how to get involved on the Sochi law, how to join the Sochi circle, how to buy merchandise, all those fancy things, you know, that we have to have.
Speaker BAnd then you can also find our book, which we didn't even talk about, my book.
Speaker BYou can get the Astra and Zeke book from Sparks to Stars on Amazon, Barnes and Noble, bookshop.org and that is our first book book into teaching entrepreneurship to kids by allowing two kids who are very dissimilar to show up at a children's business fair, make each other better and launch a business, a business coaching company so that they can teach more kids how to be business owners.
Speaker ANice.
Speaker CI absolutely love it.
Speaker CAny other questions from you?
Speaker ANo.
Speaker AI would just like to thank you both for being here today.
Speaker AIt was a pleasure to have you.
Speaker AIt's one of the first times we've had a young guest on and.
Speaker AAnd her poise and.
Speaker AAnd your poise and your presence today was very much, greatly appreciated.
Speaker AMelody, thank you for being here and thank you as well, Leah.
Speaker AIt's been an inspiration and I love talking to you and.
Speaker AAnd you model very well and it comes across so.
Speaker ASo thank you for.
Speaker AFor being here and bringing your family and showing how that all works.
Speaker AIn in real life and we're looking
Speaker Cforward to an update in the future.
Speaker CRight.
Speaker CSo we'll bring her back around and share how things have been going in the near future.
Speaker CSo thank you so much Leah.
Speaker CThank you so much Melody, thank you
Speaker BAnd I will see you guys on the 31st.
Speaker CYes.
Speaker CAnd she is hinting at our summits that we do empowering families and rethinking education that is a three time a year event that vibrant family education puts on.
Speaker CSo you'll be able to visit our website and find out when the next one is going to be and yeah how you can participate and join us and find out more about all the amazing experts that come and join us.
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Speaker Ba hold of it.
Speaker CUntil next time everybody thank you so much for everything and bye for now.
Speaker AA wonderful night.
Speaker ABye for now.