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Welcome to Love Notes from Rhonda.

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And this song keeps moving through my mind.

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Let there be peace on earth and let it begin with me.

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Let there be peace on earth.

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The peace that was meant to be.

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Just.

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Let there be peace on earth.

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Let there be peace on earth and let it begin with me.

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Let there be peace on earth and let it begin with me.

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You know it's so funny because most of my life I didn't think I was searching for peace.

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I didn't think that was the thing.

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If you asked me what I wanted, I wouldn't have said peace of mind.

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I would have said full self expression.

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I would have said fulfill my potential.

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I would have said finding my purpose.

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I would have said, you know, moving past my pain.

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I would have said anything but peace of mind.

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But really, when you get down to it, when you're fearless, when you really understand how you work, what you do gain is peace.

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Peace of mind so that you can contribute to peace on earth.

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The greatest gift we can give this world is having that peace.

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Because when we are in peace, we don't lash out, we don't feel taken advantage of.

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We don't argue just to argue.

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We don't attack, we don't protect.

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We know that we are responsible 100% for ourselves and that others are 100% responsible for them.

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And we know when to connect and when to detach.

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When we have peace with peace as our aim.

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Not avoidance, not refusing to deal with anything.

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Right?

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Not that stuff, not ignoring, but peace.

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I think most of my life I thought that I would get peace if I did avoid or ignore.

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But that doesn't work.

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I bet you know that now too.

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Because avoiding or ignoring something only gives you that momentary momentary peace.

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It doesn't give you long lasting peace because you avoiding, ignoring just cuts it off for a moment.

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But it still lives within you.

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It's still gnawing at you unless you really truly let it go.

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So I invite us this holiday season to ask ourselves, what stands in the way of between us and having peace of mind?

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What stands in between you and your peace of mind?

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How do you keep yourself upset?

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How do you keep yourself stuck?

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How do you keep yourself in a slump?

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How do you keep yourself less than at peace?

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What are you worrying about?

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What's fretting you?

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What are your concerns?

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Your goal is to find peace within any problem that you have.

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Now one way to do that is to really embrace the notion that everything is happening for your good.

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See, if you embrace everything is happening for your good, it's a heck of a lot easier to have peace, right?

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It's a heck of a lot easier to have peace.

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When in the middle of pain, in the middle of suffering, in the middle of frustration, in the middle of worry, you get to say, well, wait a minute, maybe this too is working for my good.

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Maybe this too is happening on my behalf.

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Maybe I don't know why or how yet, but what if this too is supporting me in some way that I can't see right now, but it'll eventually unfold?

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If you believed full heartedly, wholeheartedly, that everything that's happening for you, to you, and for you is for your good, then peace is a lot easier to achieve.

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Now, there are other tools to use, which I'll share in the coming days, but right now let's just focus on what would it take?

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What's in the way of you experiencing true peace of mind?

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Peace.

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Peace that passes all understanding.

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Peace.

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Let there be peace on earth and let it begin with me.

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Let the there be peace on earth the peace that was meant to be.

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Peace on earth Begins with me Begins with you.

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It's a choice.

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And really, at the end of the day, it's the ultimate gift we give ourselves, the ultimate result we gain.

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And that, my friends, makes all the work worth it.

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Until next time, be fearless.

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I love you.