Welcome to Close it now, the podcast that's revolutionizing the H Vac and home improvement trades industries.
Speaker AGet ready to dive deep into the world of heating, ventilation and air conditioning.
Speaker AWe're turning up the heat on industry standards and cooling down misconceptions.
Speaker AAnd we're not just talking about fixing vents and adjusting thermostats.
Speaker AIt's about the transformative movement that's reshaping the very foundation of H Vac and home improvement.
Speaker AWe're the driving force, inspiring top performers who crave excellence not only in their professional endeavors, but also in fitness, nutrition, relationships and personal growth, proving that we can indeed have it all.
Speaker AThis is Close it now, where excellence meets excitement.
Speaker ALet's get to work now.
Speaker AYour host, Sam Wakefield.
Speaker BHey friends, welcome back to the Close it now podcast.
Speaker BSam Wakefield here.
Speaker BHere's the thing.
Speaker BWe don't just teach sales, we elevate connection, influence, leadership.
Speaker BSo I'm your host, Sam Wakefield, of course.
Speaker BAnd today we're, I'm kicking off a brand new mini series that's going to change how you show up to every sales interaction.
Speaker BSo what we're doing is we're going to dive into a concept borrowed from coaching.
Speaker BIf you've ever done any typ of say, life coaching or coaching with a business coach who is good at this.
Speaker BSo coaching and leadership.
Speaker BSo this concept, once you understand it, it's going to make your presentation a whole lot smoother.
Speaker BYour buyers are going to be more open and your conversations are going to be way more powerful.
Speaker BAnd the concept is called the container.
Speaker BSo now I know what you might be thinking.
Speaker BHey Sam, I sell ac, I sell electrical, plumbing, garage door, solar, you know, whatever it is.
Speaker BI don't need these woo woo concepts.
Speaker BBut stick with me here.
Speaker BThis isn't fluffy, it's structure.
Speaker BThis is energy.
Speaker BThis is cells at the subconscious level.
Speaker BAnd this is how true mastery happens.
Speaker BSo before we get into it, let's do a little bit of what is in your cup today.
Speaker BSo what is in your cup?
Speaker BWhat's in my cup?
Speaker BAs if you've listened to many episodes.
Speaker BYou know, I've been going through the Rosso Cafe Nespresso pods.
Speaker BWell, we, I made myself a.
Speaker BI'm at home in the home office, got the Nespresso machine.
Speaker BI made myself a hazelnut latte with the Ruby, a couple of the ruby espresso pods.
Speaker BThis one is pretty good.
Speaker BIt's kind of a.
Speaker BIt's, it's just darker than medium and I really like it a lot.
Speaker BI think when these are done, I May actually order another box of these Rosso Cafe pods because they've been pretty dang good and it was a heck of a bargain.
Speaker BStraight off of Amazon.
Speaker BIt was like, I don't know, eight or ten boxes of these at 10, 10, 10 pods in each box worked out to be pretty affordable.
Speaker BSo really dig it.
Speaker BAnd so everybody, what is in your cup today?
Speaker BAre you drinking nespresso?
Speaker BYou're drinking coffee, you're drinking tea?
Speaker BWhat time of the day is it where you're, you know, you're drinking your monsters, you know, where are you at?
Speaker BWhat's going on?
Speaker BSo if you're listening to this in the evening, you know, you got your after dinner drink.
Speaker BWhat, what's, what's cracking?
Speaker BSo everybody, let's take a 3, 2, 1, take a sip together.
Speaker BAll right?
Speaker BAnd if you have recommendations for Nespresso pods, for coffee beans for.
Speaker BI'm going to be traveling to Grand Rapids, Michigan coming up here in April.
Speaker BSo if you're in the area and you want to connect, maybe for Buy Me Buy Me Dinner or if you want to connect in the area, I would love to, to meet you all.
Speaker BUm, I'm not going to have a ton of time.
Speaker BI'm working, going to be working with an electric company for Flat River Electric up there.
Speaker BMike Lott, huge shout out to you.
Speaker BHe took the step and is having us out to train him and his team specifically.
Speaker BAnd it is going to be fire.
Speaker BI'll be posting plenty of updates from that.
Speaker BBut if you're in the area and you want to connect, maybe we can work out a time to grab a, you know, grab a meal or something and break bread together.
Speaker BSo I love to meet, ever meet all of you, everywhere I go.
Speaker BBut let's get into it, let's get into segment one here because this is huge, this is crucial.
Speaker BSo let's define it first.
Speaker BWhat is a container?
Speaker BA container, it's basically an energetic space that you create for a conversation.
Speaker BIf you've been to personal growth events, things like that, they do a really good job of setting a container.
Speaker BIf you've ever been to a church service, that is another example of a container.
Speaker BThere's a set level of expectations to do and not do within the space in the frame.
Speaker BAnd it allows for people to be a lot more comfortable.
Speaker BSo it's this unseen frame that lets people know one, what the interaction is, number two, why it matters, and number three, what is expected of them and of you.
Speaker BSo when you walk into a home or a meeting without a clear container, it's like basically trying to hold water in your hands.
Speaker BNo structure, no boundaries.
Speaker BIt just all slips away.
Speaker BYou know, you pick up sand with your hands and it's just going to run out.
Speaker BSo here's.
Speaker BSo write this down.
Speaker BThe space you hold determines the energy that you create.
Speaker BThe space you hold determines the energy you create.
Speaker BSo here's a quick example.
Speaker BSo like, if you show up at your appointment and you dive right into casual conversation, maybe talk about their pets or the weather, with no intentional lead in.
Speaker BSo if you try to do the traditional form, you know what a lot of people train is, do form for rapport building, you know, family, occupation, recreation, you know, and material things, right.
Speaker BThe homeowner doesn't know what's going on.
Speaker BThere's no clarity.
Speaker BPeople default to defense.
Speaker BThat's why their defenses goes up.
Speaker BBecause you start that.
Speaker BWhen you start that way, you're not there to build relational rapport.
Speaker BYou're there to build a professional rapport.
Speaker BYou're there to be friendly, not be their friend.
Speaker BCan a friendship develop out of a sales appointment?
Speaker BAbsolutely not.
Speaker BSaying it can't.
Speaker BHowever, you're there to be friendly, not to be their friend.
Speaker BAnd so the entire time this is happening, when we step into, into that space, if there's no clarity, people go into defense mode.
Speaker BTheir nervous system is scanning, hey, am I safe?
Speaker BAre you trustworthy?
Speaker BWhat's happening here?
Speaker BThat's why this matters.
Speaker BTheir brain is constantly running that program of am I safe?
Speaker BAre you trustworthy?
Speaker BWhat's happening here?
Speaker BThat's why we work so hard to build trust and overcome those defenses.
Speaker BSo why containers matter in cells.
Speaker BAnd this is important.
Speaker BSo not only just what the container is, but the human brain is wired to seek safety and predictability.
Speaker BSo when people know the boundaries of the interaction, they relax.
Speaker BAnd of course, when they relax, what do they do?
Speaker BThey listen.
Speaker BAnd when they listen, what do they do?
Speaker BThey trust.
Speaker BAnd so trust is the precursor.
Speaker BOr trust happens before buying.
Speaker BIt's the precursor to buying.
Speaker BYou have to have trust or there's no purchase made.
Speaker BRight.
Speaker BTrust is the main umbrella for the entire interaction.
Speaker BSo you don't have to be pushy when someone trusts you.
Speaker BThis is the best part.
Speaker BYou don't have to force a close when the space has already been built, when the space has built momentum toward the decision.
Speaker BSo if you're like me, raise your hand if you want some brain science behind this.
Speaker BOkay, this sounds cool.
Speaker BWhat?
Speaker BYou know, what's going on?
Speaker BSo, super quick, pop out into the brain science part.
Speaker BDon't don't check out.
Speaker BThis is important.
Speaker BIt's basically what's called the amygdala, the fear center of the brain.
Speaker BBasically, it goes on high alert when something feels uncertain.
Speaker BWe've talked about this a lot recently, but when we define the space, when we define the container, what we're doing is we're activating this prefrontal cortex, the part of the brain that's responsible for logic, trust, and decision making.
Speaker BSo basic.
Speaker BThis is my new favorite quote.
Speaker BYou don't close a cell.
Speaker BYou open a space for trust, clarity, and commitment.
Speaker BSo write that down.
Speaker BThat one is yours truly.
Speaker BI didn't pull that from anybody.
Speaker BThat's actually out of my brain.
Speaker BSo you don't close a cell.
Speaker BYou open a space for trust, clarity, and commitment.
Speaker BWhich is.
Speaker BIt's what a container does.
Speaker BIt creates this safe space because our goal is to set a, you know, in this space to be trustworthy, again, fun, safe, so they can make this comfortable buying decision in a way that, you know, this is why we're able to, you know, the top professionals, the top salespeople, you know, top closers.
Speaker BYou know, we're able to take people from basically blind date to.
Speaker BI mean, and think of it in terms of a marketed lead.
Speaker BThere's no relationship there.
Speaker BWe're basically able to go from blind date to marriage proposal with A yes in 45 minutes, an hour, hour and a half, two hours, you know, for 20, 30, 40, 50, $75,000 in, you know, in the span of that little amount of time.
Speaker BWhy?
Speaker BBecause we've set the container and we've allowed that homeowner to.
Speaker BWe've built enough trust that they feel safe in that space to make that buying decision.
Speaker BSo how do we set a powerful container?
Speaker BAnd this is really important.
Speaker BSo let's get real practical with this, because it's one thing for me to tell you about what a container is, but as you know, with closeit now, we're all about giving you very clear action steps you can implement right away and see results right away.
Speaker BSo here's the four elements of setting the correct container.
Speaker BNumber one, context.
Speaker BSo.
Speaker BAnd it could sound like, hey, let me tell you exactly what I'm here to do today.
Speaker BJust as simple as that, you know.
Speaker BSo is it okay?
Speaker BOr in the form of a question, you know, is it okay if I go over exactly what we're here to do today?
Speaker BYes.
Speaker BIt orients the buyer.
Speaker BNo confusion.
Speaker BThere's no guessing.
Speaker BIt's just clarity.
Speaker BThe more clear we can get in our communication to Give a directive that we're training our homeowners how to buy from us.
Speaker BAnd this is part of it.
Speaker BWe're telling them what's going to happen in the order it's going to happen in.
Speaker BSo number one is like, it's okay if I tell you exactly what I want.
Speaker BYou know, what I'm here to do today.
Speaker BNumber two, we've got to set some boundaries.
Speaker BSo one is context.
Speaker BNumber two is boundaries.
Speaker BFor example, hey, this won't take more than 90 minutes, and you can ask me anything along the way.
Speaker BThat's an example of some very clear boundaries.
Speaker BIt's not one, it's a.
Speaker BWe're giving the time, you know, now they know the time commitment and that they're in control also.
Speaker BSo.
Speaker BSo number one is context.
Speaker BNumber two is boundaries.
Speaker BNumber three is intention.
Speaker BMike.
Speaker BSo that could sound something like, you know, my goal is to help you make the best decision for your home and family.
Speaker BYou know, best decision for you and your family.
Speaker BNow, here's what we didn't say.
Speaker BYou know, goal is not here to sell you something.
Speaker BIt's about service.
Speaker BIt's about leadership.
Speaker BIt's about, you know, serving at the highest level.
Speaker BSo my goal is to help you make the best decision for your home and your family today.
Speaker BIn fact, I would actually switch that.
Speaker BMy goal is to help you make the best decision for you and your family.
Speaker BFocus on the people you know or your family and your home.
Speaker BBut people are always first.
Speaker BWho cares what the house thinks?
Speaker BThe house doesn't write the check.
Speaker BIt's about the people and the people that live in the house and how we're going to change their.
Speaker BThe actual way they live there, their human experience in their home.
Speaker BWe have the ability to change that.
Speaker BSo we're there to change it for the better.
Speaker BSo number three was intention.
Speaker BSo number one is context.
Speaker BNumber two is boundaries.
Speaker BNumber three is intention.
Speaker BAnd number four is permission.
Speaker BIs it okay if we walk through a process together so you can get all of the answers you need?
Speaker BThis one is crucial.
Speaker BIs it okay if we walk through a process together so you can get all of the answers you need?
Speaker BOne, you got permission.
Speaker BSo it gives control while establishing authority.
Speaker BIt's leadership without ego is basically what this is.
Speaker BSo when you do this right, what's going to happen is the energy is going to shift, the buyer's going to relax into the process, and you're no longer selling.
Speaker BYou're guiding.
Speaker BYou become that tour.
Speaker BAs Scott Bell says, you become the tour guide along this journey.
Speaker BAnd when they're when, you know, we've hopefully.
Speaker BRaise your hand if you've been to, say, on a vacation or to a, you know, to any kind of area where there's a tour guide, you know, you've been to a state capitol or something where there's a tour guide, you go along for the ride, you're learning along the way, you're asking questions.
Speaker BIt's a conversation.
Speaker BBut we all know who's in control.
Speaker BAnd so you're the tour guide along the way.
Speaker BBut it's not pressure.
Speaker BPeople want to be there, they signed up for the tour, which is exactly what's happening in this process.
Speaker BWhen you frame this as you're the tour guide, they called you, so they signed up for the tour.
Speaker BAnd so that it sets the frame for this conversation.
Speaker BSo sets the container.
Speaker BSo what happens when you don't set a container?
Speaker BBecause this is just as important to know.
Speaker BSo here's the cost of skipping this step number one, the buyer resists your process.
Speaker BObjections come up earlier, they come up more often.
Speaker BThe whole thing just feels chaotic, right?
Speaker BYou end up chasing instead of leading.
Speaker BRaise your hand if you don't feel like you have a clear process.
Speaker BIf you, if it feels like, you know, if you're the person that, oh, just go out and I let the.
Speaker BThat homeowner lead the appointment, I just go with the flow and, man, I just do great.
Speaker BWell, I'm here to tell you, you could do twice as good if you actually had a process, because it's just chaotic when there's no container.
Speaker BWhat you're doing is you're swimming in emotional noise.
Speaker BAnd so noise, of course, kills clarity, noise kills influence.
Speaker BSo when there's no container, you're swimming in emotional noise.
Speaker BWhat we don't want to do is kill the clarity because it just gets muddy.
Speaker BWhat is it the confused mind says?
Speaker BNo.
Speaker BNoise kills influence.
Speaker BAnd sales truly is influence.
Speaker BSo here's the biggest takeaway.
Speaker B1.
Speaker BBefore you pitch, before you present, before you problem solve, you've got to set the container.
Speaker BBecause when you lead the space, you lead the outcome.
Speaker BThis is so important.
Speaker BI'm going to say this again.
Speaker BBefore you pitch, before you present, before you problem solve, you have to set the container for the whole appointment.
Speaker BBecause when you lead the space, you lead the outcome.
Speaker BSo you're not there just to talk H vac or plumbing or electric or garage or solar or whatever it is.
Speaker BYou're there to shape a conversation that builds trust and inspires decisions.
Speaker BYou're not there to talk about the Thing you're there to shape a conversation that builds trust and inspires decisions.
Speaker BAnd the cool part is this is only the beginning.
Speaker BBut what I want you to do is go implement this.
Speaker BRemember, success happens at the speed of implementation.
Speaker BGo back.
Speaker BYou're probably going to need to listen to this a couple times.
Speaker BThe transcript is in the show notes now check it out, write down the steps and implement them.
Speaker BWork to use this process and in whatever cell system you have.
Speaker BDo we have the close it now cell system that, you know, has results?
Speaker BAbsolutely.
Speaker BBut whatever system you're using, it doesn't matter.
Speaker BSetting the container is crucial every single time you enter that conversation.
Speaker BSo again, this is only the beginning.
Speaker BThis is the first of a nine part series that I'm starting on this topic.
Speaker BSo we're gonna.
Speaker BSo the container is not the only thing we're covering.
Speaker BWe're gonna cover a lot of different things that leading up to actually where I started, we worked backwards from.
Speaker BSo you're gonna love this next.
Speaker BThese next episodes in the series and we're gonna go.
Speaker BSo next episode we're gonna explore how energy flows within the container.
Speaker BWe're going to talk about how to create tension and release to move your buyer toward a confident, basically empowered.
Speaker BYes.
Speaker BBut here's the thing.
Speaker BIf you want to master this at the deepest level, I'm going to be doing this live at Relentless, the ultimate sales transformation.
Speaker BIt is my event in Boston, May 6th through 8th, 2025.
Speaker BThis isn't theory.
Speaker BThis is training, practice and immersion.
Speaker BSo get in the room.
Speaker BI am telling you now, you do not want to miss this event.
Speaker BAll of the buy one, get one tickets are gone.
Speaker BNow.
Speaker BThere's no more buy one, get one free tickets.
Speaker BSo tickets are starting to move fast.
Speaker BWe're a little over a month out or five weeks out right now and it is going to be fire.
Speaker BAll of the venues booked, the hotels booked, all of the data is there.
Speaker BWe're waiting on you to make that decision.
Speaker BActually, I'm not waiting.
Speaker BIt's happening either way.
Speaker BYou have to make the decision for yourself to decide to stay the same or to exponentially grow and maximize this summer because it is going this summer and then this winter, maximize this year because it is going to be next level if you take it there.
Speaker BSo go get your ticket@closeitnowbootcamp.com if you are a manager, owner and you want to bring multiple people.
Speaker BWe do have a group rate of buy four, get one free for tickets or if you don't, if you lack resources but you want to be resourceful, you reach out.
Speaker BYou can actually do this in the Facebook group if you want, or whoever.
Speaker BFind other people that want to go and find you.
Speaker BFor other people, go in together, split the cost of the tickets five ways and now you've built yourself in a discount.
Speaker BSo figure it out.
Speaker BI know that you are resourceful.
Speaker BIf you listen to this podcast, there's lots of ways.
Speaker BSo get there because it will be worth it.
Speaker BQuick little story.
Speaker BThere was an event that I went to one time, you know, I didn't have the funds to go.
Speaker BEnded up what we did is, you know, I couldn't.
Speaker BIt was an event in Las Vegas.
Speaker BNo, it was.
Speaker BThis is, this one was in Phoenix.
Speaker BIt was an event in Phoenix.
Speaker BI'm here in Austin, Texas.
Speaker BSo it's a good drive.
Speaker BIt's like 16 hours and we didn't have the resources to fly everybody there.
Speaker BSo what we did, we rented a big 15 passenger van, we left at midnight, left at midnight and drove all through the night, all through the next day, and we got there at 4pm the next day just in time for everybody to get showered, cleaned up and head to the first night of the event.
Speaker BStayed through that event all day long, the next day, the full event.
Speaker BSo welcome event the night before, the full event, the next day, stayed that night and drove back the day after.
Speaker BAnd I tell you, it was worth every second of it because it massively moved the needle forward in the team, in the company, in the business.
Speaker BSo do what you got to do.
Speaker BWhat if you get the one golden nugget that literally doubled your income this year?
Speaker BNow I know that that's going to happen and it'll be more than one nugget.
Speaker BThere's so many people who will absolutely multiply their income or multiply their business strictly from what they get from this event.
Speaker BSo don't miss it.
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Speaker BSo and if you're enjoying the series so far or if you've ever gotten value from close it now.
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Speaker BSo until next time, everybody remember, you don't close a cell.
Speaker BYou open a space for trust, clarity and commitment.
Speaker BSo until next time, everybody go be somebody worth buying from.
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