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Money is a great servant.

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It's a horrible master, and it's kind of one or the other, either it's serving

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you or you're serving it, but we've even gone beyond that where we are worshiping

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and pursuing consumption and comfort as a goal rather than stewardship.

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do you take the lessons of financial planning from the rugged terrains

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of Alaska and make them universal?

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us today is Chad Hufford.

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A seasoned financial planner and the founder of Veritas in Anchorage, Alaska.

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Chad, who grew up under the tutelage of his father in the financial sector,

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brings a unique blend of personal experience and professional expertise.

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As a devoted father of six and an avid outdoorsman, Chad integrates his life's

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passion with his professional mission, educating and empowering families across

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America to achieve financial independence.

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Tune in as we explore Chad's journey from learning the ropes In a family

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run business to becoming the longest tenured Dave Ramsey, smart Vesta pro

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in Alaska, and how he uses his coaching mindset to help clients navigate the

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complexities of financial planning.

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stay tuned, please, to the very end for a special announcement about

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some future episodes that we have.

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Chad, welcome to seek, go create.

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It's a pleasure to be here and looking forward to encouraging,

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uplifting your audience and helping them create a more abundant life.

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Yeah, I'm glad you're here too.

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You are episode 299.

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We've got 300 coming up and I'll talk more about it at the end,

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We've been going here for six years.

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Sounds like we talked a little bit beforehand.

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We've, both had some fun weeks, so I'm glad we're here recording.

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the listener needs to be thankful, right?

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Absolutely.

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And I just was reminding myself, you know, as I was going through some

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of this and some of the problems that I'm dealing with are problems

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that some people would love to have.

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And they're frustrating in the moment, but, it's, it's good to have perspective.

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Yeah.

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there's no sanctification that happens inside a comfort zone, right?

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No, it doesn't.

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It doesn't.

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We may talk about perspective as we go through here, because I love about

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perspective when it comes to money and finances and looking forward

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to getting your perspective on just what it's like being in Alaska.

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So, uh, question, though, give you a choice here.

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Would you rather answer do you do who are you?

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Just pick it and go ahead and answer.

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What do I do?

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I would say professionally, I make sure people don't run out of

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money or purpose in retirement.

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And I think a lot of people in my field only focus on the first part,

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but if you run out of purpose before you run out of money, it's hard to

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experience freedom and abundance.

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And when I say abundance, I'm talking about so much more than just

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money, finances and material things.

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in fact, I would say that's what I do more as a person is try to empower people

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to pursue a better version of themselves and a life with more meaning and freedom.

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It's cool that you brought up purpose because I think I picked up on that,

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but I didn't realize you would with it.

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My wife and I right now are hanging out, in the warmth of Arizona

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in a 55 and older community.

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And it is fascinating.

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A lot of these people are retired.

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A lot of these people have done well financially.

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But my wife and I, you know, we're still working.

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We've got stuff going on and is interesting to see how many

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people at this age, mature age, they really don't have purpose.

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And, what do you, I mean, this is diving into the deep end of the pool here, but,

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what comes up when you bring up with people that not only do you want them

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to handle money, because most people are probably thinking money's the answer.

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And then you start talking purpose,

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Oh my goodness.

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Okay, so we could spend the whole episode just on this right here.

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So number one, money is a tool.

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When money becomes the goal or the objective, then we're on a dangerous path.

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Money is a tool you use to build a life of meaning, purpose, and freedom.

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it's what you use to build independence, and not the end goal.

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I think here in the United States, we've done ourselves a huge disservice

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by treating work as the thing to avoid.

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Like I'm going to build up a bunch of money.

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I'm going to save a bunch of money so one day I can quit my job.

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Well, guys, you can quit your job today.

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The government will take care of you.

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I'm not suggesting that, but if that's your goal is to quit working, then you

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can just turn this podcast off right now.

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But the goal is independence to pursue what is even more meaningful.

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And I think so many people focus on what they're retiring from.

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They don't really have a vision for what they're retiring to.

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And Tim, to your point about the community you're in, most

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of these people are successful.

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They did well.

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They're the worst types of people to not have meaningful pursuit.

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Because they're probably more goal focused and more your audience as well.

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More ambitious, more intentional.

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They're the worst type of people to not have a mission.

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And when you take that away from somebody, they will often end

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up pursuing the wrong things.

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They will chase the things that they shouldn't be chasing because they don't

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have something meaningful to pursue.

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you know, or, or worse, they'll do nothing.

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That's what we see.

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Some doing nothing.

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really here.

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We're recording this on a Thursday, just to put a time stamp on it.

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In this community, at about 4pm, all these people start bringing their chairs

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out to the, some little common areas.

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And they have these happy hours.

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And they're not all alcohol related, but many of them are.

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I'm still doing some work.

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I'm sorry.

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I can't hang out.

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I'd love to chit chat with y'all, but so that that's one thing, but at

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least they're being social where we are here, there's 32 pickleball courts

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and I, I love a little pickleball.

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Okay.

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I'm not against pickleball, but there are people that will play five

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and six hours of pickleball a day.

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And you know what?

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That's not a bad thing.

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I think it might be better than doing nothing.

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But my wife and I will often say, Hmm, you think that's what God created him for to

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when they hit 65, 70, 75, some are older than that to play pickleball all day long.

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And again, maybe, maybe it is, I'm not judging it, but, but, and this is a little

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bit more of an active area than some retirement areas and also, so, I mean,

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and again, this is a question to ask Chad, but I'm sure people come to you.

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the money piece, how do you start nudging them to think about the purpose piece?

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Again, it goes back to, you know, pursuit.

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we want people to be focused on what they're retiring to,

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not what they're retiring from.

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are you fleeing a career?

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and even if it's a great job, you love what you did.

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we worked with a lot of oil field folks.

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We worked with a lot of law enforcement, their careers that are hard on the body.

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You might love what you do.

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It's just not something you want to do forever.

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are you leaving or exiting a career or are you entering a new chapter of your life?

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And I think that perspective is so important between those two.

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I'll just give you a little metaphor.

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as you mentioned in your introduction, I have six kids, so we watch a lot

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of nature shows and there's a leopard chasing a warthog and I'm watching this.

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I'm thinking both of these animals.

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are running as hard as they possibly can.

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They're as hard as their legs and lungs will allow them, but only one

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of them is having any fun right now.

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And the leopard is pursuing something and the warthog is fleeing.

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The warthog is running for the life.

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I think too many people spend life.

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Using finances to flee from something rather than to pursue

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something even more important.

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I just believe when people hit a period in their life where they no longer have to go

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to work, we call it a job optional life.

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not even retirement, but when people don't need to produce a paycheck anymore,

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I believe that's when they can have the biggest impact, the biggest years of,

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of impact than they ever had before.

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Cause they don't have to spend the time, the energy going to work, doing

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things that might not really align with, with their soul and their passion.

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So it's interesting that the fields that you brought up, and I'm sure you

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work with people outside of the oil field and also first responders and

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things like that, but those are, in my opinion, they seem to be physical

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type jobs, especially the oil field.

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And I could see that a lot of people would want to have to work as hard physically.

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do you see that in that oil field industry or is that just me maybe

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reading it wrong because I have no knowledge of that industry?

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No, you're absolutely right.

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That's a big part of it.

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Another big part, at least here in Alaska, is a lot of these men and women,

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they're working above the Arctic Circle.

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I mean, there's actually a place in Alaska called North Pole, and we

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don't see Santa a lot, but It's a long ways past North Pole, Alaska.

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I mean, it's out in the middle of nowhere.

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And this time of year, they hardly see the sun.

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They're working sometimes in 40 below temperatures and they're going weeks

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at a time without seeing their family.

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And again, some of these folks, they love what they do, not all

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the time, but they give up a lot.

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There's a lot of sacrifice.

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So we, again, we're not in a hurry to get anybody to retire, but we are

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trying to do is get them to a place.

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Relatively early in life where they no longer have to produce that paycheck.

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they have the independence To transition to maybe a new career maybe take a

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lower paying job here in town But they don't have to do those things

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anymore if they don't choose to and some people do we have a guy We have

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several actually, A couple come to mind.

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They're in their 70s They really enjoy what they're doing.

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They love their community.

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Their kids are grown.

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and that is like their, their family kind of, but we just want them to make

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that choice and not be dictated by their, their job or their finances.

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And I think, you know, going back to your question about, you know,

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people come to us for money, but it's, again, money is just a tool.

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What we're trying to do is get them to think about where.

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What do you want your life to look like?

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Who do you want to become?

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And we start reverse engineering that because again, money is

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just a tool to build that it is.

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It's an important part of the whole equation, but it

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is not the entire equation.

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and some of those people might end up down here in Arizona where I'm at

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We have a lot of them down there, But, no, we

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yeah.

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the sunshine.

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I love being able to be in shorts, and I love taking a break.

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We talked about the importance of stillness.

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Like, I'm not saying you should be busy, busy, busy all the time.

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I believe we are created with margin.

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you know, the, God instituted the Sabbath, if it was important for

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God to take a rest, I think as human beings we probably need it too.

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So I believe it's important to find rest and relaxation.

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It's important to have balance.

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But again, I just disagree with the fact that retirement is where you

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completely unplug and you have 20 years of weekends, just a two decade vacation.

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I've seen that happen and I've seen a lot of emptiness and loneliness that

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come with that and the people who are most fulfilled in a job optional life

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are the people who are still serving, they're still connected, they're

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still stretching themselves, they're growing and they're making some of

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the biggest impact of their life.

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right, yeah, my wife and I have recently come to terms with, both of

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our mothers are still living, my dad passed a few years ago, and we've kind

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of come to terms with what's going on in their lives, is they really, don't

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have anything that they're living for, nothing that they're pursuing or going

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after, they're both in their 80s, and it actually has been a little bit,

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not depressing for us, but eye opening might be a better term, I don't know.

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that we are purposing not to, not to be that way.

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not judging or throwing our moms under the bus or anything like that.

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and you know, this kind of brings up something really cool because I noticed

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that your father, you commented that your father had similar business and,

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and you learned some things from him.

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One of the things that has come up, because we've already

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recorded, this is episode 299.

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We've recorded 301 and 302.

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We invited some guests back that were five years ago, some of our first guests.

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And both of them, there became a theme of people are reaching a certain age,

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how do we turn around and share wisdom as we didn't call it old people, but

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as mature, we share some of the things we learned with younger generations?

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so I'll pose this in the form of a question.

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I picked up on that you, to have learned a good bit from your father and

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growing up and we'll talk I want to ask a little bit about your growing up in

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just a little while, but a little bit about that role that your father had

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Sharing wisdom information with you as he matured

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Do you know who Larry Burkett is?

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Does that name sound familiar to you, Tim?

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Okay, so a lot of people listening to this will be very familiar with Dave Ramsey.

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But before Dave was ever on a budget, There was a guy named Larry Burkett and

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that's what we listened to growing up.

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And I thought it was child abuse at the time.

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I'm like, you know, we're sitting around a radio listening to this guy

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talk about budgeting and money and stewardship and all these things.

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But that was the household I was raised in.

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And we live in a culture now, Tim, where money is taboo.

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We don't talk about that, which means people repeat the

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mistakes of what they've done.

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those around them and they don't learn from the victories, the wins.

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So it's, we just have the blind leading the blind in a lot of respects.

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I didn't realize that that's how people live.

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I thought it was just normal to sit around the dinner table and talk about maybe

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a charity that you were excited about giving to, or what you were saving up

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for or the jobs you were planning to do.

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I mean, as kids, My dad would give us opportunities to earn money.

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It wasn't an allowance opportunities to earn money based on a goal.

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And there were sometimes extra incentives.

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I just thought it was normal to talk about money.

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And the other thing that was really important though, Tim, not only.

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A couple things.

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Number one, my parents modeled it.

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They didn't tell us one thing and do something else.

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And I believe more is caught than taught.

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It is really hard if we tell our kids, Hey, you need to be

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intentional with your money.

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You need to be a good steward.

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You need to be generous.

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You need to plan for your future.

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But just don't do anything as I'm doing.

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So I'm spending everything I have.

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I don't live on a budget.

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We don't give consistently.

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We're not, you know, but that's what happens a lot of times, you

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know, do what I say, not what I do.

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My parents taught us, but they also, they walked their talk.

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The other thing that was really cool is my dad.

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I grew up with my parents.

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Especially my dad teaching Larry Burkett's class.

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They called it crown financial and it was kind of the predecessor to what everybody

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knows as financial peace university.

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Now a lot of the same, I mean the same principles, they go back to Proverbs.

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They're not Larry's principles, not Dave's principles, or God's principles.

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They've been working for 4, 000 years, roughly, But they taught those

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in our churches, in the community.

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And what I saw Tim, it was so powerful.

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I saw the impact that had not just in people's finances,

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but in their life in general.

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Because when people started to take control of money and having

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discipline and victory in that area, it had a ripple effect into

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so many other areas of their life.

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And when God's people start using.

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money God's way.

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It's amazing the impact that that has and how the rest of their life lines up.

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but the cool thing about that.

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I just went straight to a scripture.

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It's in Matthew 6 Somewhere in early in Matthew 6 you can't serve two masters

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I'm, and I'm pretty confident many people are attempting to serve too,

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but you can't serve too, because that money is such an important thing for it.

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the thing that popped into my mind, and this is going to put a little bit of a

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timestamp when we're recording this, is that we don't have good examples of fiscal

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responsibility in discussing money, and we've got such an example of that right

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now in the U. S. government, and in that.

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Elon Musk and Donald Trump.

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I don't, I'm not going political on this.

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This shouldn't be a party issue, they are going through line by line

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with what the government is spending some people are excited about it.

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Some people are not, and we haven't had fiscal responsibility in our government.

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I don't think we've had good models in our culture, Chad.

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And so the fact that you had it in your family, I think is really cool.

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I'll pause.

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Any thoughts on that?

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A lot of thoughts.

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So number one, again, there's a phrase or a saying that

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says fish discover water last.

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I did not realize how blessed I was to grow up.

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In that culture, in that environment.

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Again, I thought it was normal.

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the other thing you're absolutely right is we don't have good

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examples and the people who are doing it well are doing it quietly.

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I had somebody in my office the other day.

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this was yesterday, multi millionaires, completely financially independent.

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They retired to go do missions work in rural Alaska and they're wearing,

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Car hearts and an old beat up jeans like you would never know it and again

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I'm not saying you need to be flashy But the people who are doing really

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well who are good stewards who do plan for the future Are usually doing it

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quietly and I think money has always been worshipped wealth has always been

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worshipped But today in our culture Tim, we don't even worship wealth anymore.

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We worship consumption It is the exact opposite of wealth.

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When you see somebody on Tok or whatever kids are listening to these

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days, you know, it's the fancy cars and the awesome vacations in the 4,

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000 handbags and the designer jeans.

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That's not wealth.

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That's actually the consumption, it's the spending of wealth,

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it's the exact opposite.

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So not only are we, as you said, drawn to, to serving money, and I

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believe money is a great servant.

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It's a horrible master, and it's kind of one or the other, either it's serving

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you or you're serving it, but we've even gone beyond that where we are worshiping

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and pursuing consumption and comfort as a goal rather than stewardship.

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Yeah, that, that's a, such a big topic that I'm not sure I want us to

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dive into because it would be a great conversation, but, I think the thing

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I want to dig a little bit on Chad is.

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It's very obvious that you grew up in a household they lived within their means.

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They spent less than they made.

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And I believe that I had an example of that, but one of the things I did growing

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up in the eighties, I just decided I was going to make me some money.

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It took me a while to learn that you can't spend more than you make.

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And, I loved in the book, you talked about some of the things

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and you painted a picture.

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Y'all, y'all dressed alike, not only dressed alike, but

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it was homemade clothing.

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And I had this vision of the Von Trapp family and sound of music.

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Would that an accurate depiction of your family growing up?

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No, because Yvonne Chaps were talented and they could sing

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homeschooling looks so different than it did back then.

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Like we were homeschooled.

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So hard.

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We were, we were the most homeschooled and you know, there's

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no such thing as snow days.

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You know, I'm here in Anchorage, Alaska.

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They, we get horrible ice storms, snow storms, they cancel school.

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And that just meant for us, we had more time to do school.

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Mom's like, we're not going anywhere today.

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We're doing extra.

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If you got sick, there was no bringing soup and crackers to you in bed.

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It was, you know, here's your math book.

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I'm sorry you don't feel good, but.

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You can, you can do this in your bed.

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Please don't get vomit on the math book because your brothers and sisters are

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going to have to use this same book too.

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my mom was a pioneer of sorts and we baked her own bread, we ground her own wheat.

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I mean, it was, we were weird.

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We were different.

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my mom made us matching clothes.

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We look like a traveling where's Waldo convention.

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I mean, Looking back on it, it's funny now, but at the time, I'm

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like, Oh my goodness, this is awful.

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and my therapist says I'm well adjusted now, we grew up very, very differently.

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And as I got older, I realized how That was kind of a blessing, even

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though it was painful in the moment.

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And granted, we probably didn't have to be as different as we, as we were, but it

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being different as a superpower now these days, because our culture is, Is we've

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made normal, very unhealthy behaviors in our relationships, in our finances.

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The thing that you said, just living within your means, that is such a simple

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concept, but almost nobody does it.

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And it doesn't matter how good your investments are, how

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good your financial plan is.

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If you don't live within your means, you can't feed your investment.

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And that is the number one rule of wealth building

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Less than you produce.

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And so few people actually do it like, Oh, that's simple.

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I know that.

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Well then do it.

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It's like saying, well, I know I should eat less and move more to

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get in better shape, No, That's it.

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You got to do the simple things.

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Yeah, and it takes discipline and things like that.

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I want to talk about some of those in just a moment, but there's one other thing

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on the homeschool thing I want to ask.

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You mentioned you're okay now you've gone through the therapy

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and all that kind of stuff.

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But I also know, I think I read that you and Tiffany y'all are

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homeschooling y'all's children.

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Being homeschooled yourself, and now you and your wife are homeschooling

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your children, what are one or two things that you are never going to do

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with your children that you had growing up because it was just too, I don't

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want to say traumatic, but it's like, okay, we're not doing it that way.

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And then what are some things that's like, absolutely, this is, this

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is one thing we're doing because you are still homeschooling.

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So, what are some scars that you might still have from

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your experience growing up?

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I would say overall, I'm very grateful.

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I was homeschooled.

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my parents didn't do it perfectly.

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They're.

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fallible human beings just as I am.

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We're not doing it perfectly, but the benefits, the blessings from that

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far outweighed any of the detriments.

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the isolation was hard.

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I'm an introvert, but there are definitely some very lonely times and

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I know that affects who I am today.

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so, you know, we're very intentional surrounding our kids

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with Good kids from solid homes.

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who are like minded and trying to find kids to actually stretch

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our kids and challenge them.

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we also want to expose them a little bit to some of the craziness

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that's out there in the world.

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some of our friends, The few we had growing up, some were so isolated

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and sheltered that they didn't have the opportunity to build up that

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resistance and resilience that you need.

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It's almost like having an immune system.

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You have to be exposed to some of it to build up that resistance.

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they need to know what's in this crazy world.

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They just don't need to be inundated and overwhelmed by it.

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some of the things that we are trying to do though, is Giving,

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giving them the opportunity to also learn just practical lessons.

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And, you know, we're not trying to raise good kids.

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We're trying to raise good adults, and getting them to interact very

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early on with adults, with our peers.

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My daughter started working here last year, at Veritas and

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interacting with absolute phenomenal people on a regular basis.

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kids.

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will rise or fall to the standard that you set.

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And my parents set a high standard for us and we figured out a way to meet it.

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So I'm definitely taking those lessons and the encouragement

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that I got from my family.

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showing us that all these limitations that people have on themselves

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are very much self imposed.

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We're not, we're not going to accept the results that everybody else is

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getting, which means we have to have some different actions and behaviors.

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And so those are the things we're trying to teach our kids as well.

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are you dressing them all alike?

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Are you making them all dress alike?

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No, I wish, man, Tim, I wish we had a picture.

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Like people probably think he's exaggerating.

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No, I have pictures of our entire family.

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There was five of us kids.

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So seven of us total wearing these matching clothes, these horrible

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like red and blue stripe patterns.

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I mean, it was, it was, it was bad news.

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now my wife will say our, we will have our kids coordinate, but they don't match.

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So for family pictures, Special events, stuff like that.

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She's got a great eye for that style.

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But no matching clothes over here.

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Yeah, that does kind of bring up some of the, not so positive stereotypes

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of homeschooling and things like that.

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But, you know, here's the thing.

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The reason I ask it a lot when I have people like that, we homeschooled

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our kids, is that people are flocking into the homeschool arena right now.

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And I think people that have done it or you're a second generation homeschool, I

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think we need to share some wisdom because a lot of people are learning as they go.

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And so I do think, that's a good thing.

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one of the things I was trying to think of how many people I've had on the

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podcast the 299 episodes that were from Alaska and I couldn't think of anyone.

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Hmm.

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we haven't had anyone, but what are some things that those of us

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in the lower 48 really should know about people that, know, your second

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generation, at least Alaska sounds like your wife is to y'all are Alaskans.

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are some things that we need to know about Alaska and people from Alaska?

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Well, if you need some trivia, Alaska is the, the westernmost

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state, which makes sense.

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And we, we don't live down by Hawaii.

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That's just on your maps.

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We're actually up, up north quite a bit, um, but it is also the eastern

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most state because the Aleutians, which is the arm that heads out west,

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goes so far, and the joke is like, we can see Russia from here, right?

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But there's, there's a lot of places in Alaska that are closer to Russia than

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they are to Anchorage, where I live.

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And it's, it stretches so far, um, that it actually is in the eastern hemisphere.

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So, Alaska technically is the western and eastern most state.

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It's also such a huge state.

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Uh, we like to remind our friends in the smaller state of Texas

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that we're over twice their size.

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But we have such a vast difference in, in In geography and terrain, like people say,

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you know, what is it like living a lot?

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Well, where I live is completely different than let's say Fairbanks

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or down in Juneau where our capital there's, there's so many different

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climates that even within Alaska you can, there's deserts, we have rainforests.

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We have, I mean, it's, it is an unbelievable place to live and

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I've lived here my entire life, as you said, and I still have

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experienced only a fraction of it.

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One thing that's tough, we, we visit a lot of national parks.

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You know, we've been traveling around for years, but six years in our, in

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our motor coach and we planning, we did Oregon like in 2019 and then we were

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planning to start mapping out how we could get up to Alaska and then COVID

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hit and we were like, Hmm, I don't know if, you know, we can't kind of go

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through Canada, it is a long way, you know, should we do something different?

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I mean, but one of the things I've looked at.

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is some of the national parks there.

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I don't want to say there, you almost can't get to them, but if

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you really look at some of the land there, it is so remote, so massive.

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It, it's almost daunting for someone who says, yeah, I'd like

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to pick off a few national parks.

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I mean, have you been able to get to some of that?

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You're an outdoors guy.

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So what all have you been able to quote, unquote, explore in

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Alaska that, that you could share?

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Well, it's both and I don't, I don't want to, I mean, there

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are some very accessible places.

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There's some places that are nearly impossible to get to.

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So for people planning a trip to Alaska, I don't want to make it

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feel more daunting than it is.

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I mean, you can have a nice vacation.

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This isn't.

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You know, this is like going back in time up here.

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You know, we have running water, electricity, we

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have internet on most days.

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Um, but, but there are places where you can only get to by like boat or, or plane.

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Um, there's some extremely remote places and some of those places

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are so ruggedly beautiful that, I mean, it's awe inspiring.

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Like you will look at some of these places and think, I don't know if another

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human being has walked over there.

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You know, and, but there's places, there's, Gorgeous places to drive to um,

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there's places we have a train system that takes you to some of the I'll call

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them the kind of hot spots, you know, some of the, the key places like you're

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going to only be in Alaska for a week.

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You need to see these things.

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So it is a mix, but there's definitely for people who are more

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adventurous, they want to get out to more, those more remote places.

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There's a lot of air taxis and even I talked to a guy yesterday that runs a

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helicopter service and you know, they bring to people the parts of Alaska

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that most Alaskans have never seen.

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One of my favorite places here in Alaska is actually.

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Where my wife and I built it overlooks Anchorage and I'm only

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about 15 20 minutes away from my office But it overlooks entire city.

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have moose and bears and elk that come through our yard and It's

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just it's a beautiful perspective.

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It is peaceful We had a gorgeous sunset last night.

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One of my favorite things to do is The summer is sit

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outside with a book and read.

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Um, in the winter a little too cold for that, but sitting by the, we

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have these, these big windows, uh, facing where the sun sets and just

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sitting there and just taking it in.

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Um, and it's, uh, I pinch myself sometimes, Tim, like that we live here and

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I told, tell my kids like we experience on a regular basis for what a lot of people

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is, is a bucket list and like, don't ever let this get old because I mean, just,

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it's like God paints a masterpiece every single day that we get to experience.

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As my wife and I travel, have traveled, we kind of coined this when we were

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in New Zealand for a few months.

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There are places, there are beautiful places all over, but

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Yes.

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how, how great they are And it sounds like you kind of described something

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that's, uh, how great they are.

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Well, my wife and I are at 49 states and Alaska is the only

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state we have not traveled to.

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foot on, done anything with.

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So it'll definitely be in our plans over the next few years

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to figure out how to do that.

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We've even discussed, we're not huge cruise fans, but we've considered

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doing the cruise just to kind of get that way and explore it that way.

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So we'll, we, we shall see.

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Well, come on.

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yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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But, uh, thing, Chad, I'm always intrigued by how people, I know you,

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your father was in the business roughly.

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It sounds like, and then.

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And then, and then you kind of moved into the financial business,

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but was, was it kind of a done deal that you were going to go into this

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industry or how did that come to be?

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If it was, uh, if there's a story behind it,

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I'll try to give you this short version because it's a longer story,

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but no, that was never the intent.

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I actually have a degree in biochemistry and medicine was my path.

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And I was on my way to becoming what I thought was going to be a hotshot surgeon.

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And I met the woman who is now my wife, and she did not grow up like I did, Tim.

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She grew up in legitimate poverty.

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Um, she remembers having Christmas in a homeless shelter.

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I mean, that's the kind of, situation she grew up in.

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And what I realized is what she was really longing for was stability.

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She wanted a family.

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She wanted somebody to raise kids with.

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And not that you can't have balance as, as a surgeon or as a physician, but a

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couple of my mentors, um, had difficult conversations with me and they, they

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told me, I said, we know how you're wired and if you pursue this path.

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It might own you and you'll love it.

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And that's the most dangerous part is you won't realize what's happening

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because you're going to be so engrossed that you won't, you won't see that

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you're sacrificing your family for your career, but they will feel it.

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And that wasn't a trade I was willing to make.

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And I think I ultimately chose this because I saw my dad at every game.

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I saw him at every recital, every, uh, Every play, everything that

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we did, my parents were there.

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Not only there, but they were present.

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They were very much involved with what we were doing.

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And I wanted that.

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And I thought, if my dad can make that happen in this career field,

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then maybe I can do that as well.

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So it did not start as a passion.

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It started as a very practical way for me to provide the family life that I wanted.

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I wanted to own a business.

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I didn't want a business that owned me.

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So I started from scratch and built it that way.

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But then my passion for this grew, especially 2008, 2009, as I saw

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the destruction that finances can have in somebody's life.

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Um, because our, our bodies, our minds cannot compartmentalize stress when

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you're stressed about your finances, when you have anxiety and frustrations, they

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will bleed into every area of your life.

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And we saw that 2008, 2009.

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And I thought, this is where I need to be.

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This is where I can make the biggest impact.

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what'd you learn during that time that you could share with us?

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I learned perseverance in a new way.

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Um, sometimes there are no answers.

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There are, there are only questions.

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And, um, Psalm 119, 105 says your word, Lord is light into

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my path and lamp into my feet.

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And what I was looking for in 2008, 2009 was a floodlight.

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Like, it lit up the entire highway.

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And what I learned in that time is sometimes God only shows us the next step.

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He doesn't show us the whole path.

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He show, he lights up just enough so we don't trip and so we don't go off course.

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But we don't get to see the whole road ahead, which is good because

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if I had seen the whole road ahead, I think I would have quit.

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I don't think I'd be here today.

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I think I would have, um, not to say that medicine would

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have been, uh, I don't know.

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Uh, a horrible contingency, but I, I think that's where I would have gone.

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It was a much clearer pathway and I would have enjoyed it.

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And I think I still would have had, uh, been enjoying a wonderful life, but it

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wouldn't be the same as what I have.

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And I learned to persevere in the midst of extreme ambiguity.

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Yeah.

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Did you, uh, did you have financial clients at that time?

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Yeah, I started in 2007 it was just before.

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So it started with a baby on the way with a biochemistry degree.

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Oh, it was awesome.

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Like I said, I would never want to go through it again.

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And if I could have seen, if I could have seen where the road

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was leading, I don't think I would have taken it, but God showed me

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just enough to take the next step.

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And I think that's one of the things that really hold people

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back is we want certainty and too often we will trade away.

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Security and impact for certainty in the moment.

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And somebody's ability to tolerate ambiguity is a huge,

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huge indicator of the quality of life that they're going to live.

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The more ambiguity that you can stomach that you can handle, I think the more

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potential and in meaning your life is going to have, I mean, obviously

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it's a broad statement, but, but.

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certainty gets a lot of us in trouble and I learned to give up my need

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for certainty during that time.

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One thing that's cool.

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It came to me is I, I actually think you have more credibility you were

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in the industry during that time.

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Because one of the things I'm noticing in interacting with people here in

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2025 is that there are many people that have totally forgotten that

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they know nothing about history.

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some people that have forgotten what went on in 2021 22

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Sure.

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And, you know, I still have scars from 08, 09, 10.

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And I think it, it brings perspective.

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I love the word perseverance you brought up.

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I think in the book you talk about the importance of just consistent and steady.

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Those, those two aren't the same word, but they're really related,

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especially when it comes to financial planning for, for the individual.

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Talk, talk about the importance of just consistency.

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Well, I think perseverance, you could even define it as consistency under

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pressure or consistency amidst trials.

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So it's consistently doing the thing when you are faced with challenges and

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consistency is hard even on the best days.

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You know, you already mentioned your recording, um, early in 2025 and,

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you know, the gyms are already empty.

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Yeah.

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Everybody was gung ho about, you know, 2025 new, new me, new year, you know,

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gonna, gonna get my body back on these things and they, they go out and there

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is people haven't worked out in 20 years and they're downloading like Navy

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SEAL workouts, trying to do what the special forces do and they burn out.

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it's not what you do one day.

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It's what you do every day that matters.

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And the people that who are successful in relationships and business and

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money in finance, I mean, they're not, they're not necessarily doing things

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completely different from everybody else.

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But what makes them different is they do consistently what most

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people do only sporadically.

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So it is consistency under fire that is absolutely necessary to build,

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meaningful and sustainable wealth.

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And I think to build even a meaningful life.

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Yeah, I was gonna when you jumped on here, I was going to comment on your pecs

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because you used the story in your book about some guy at a conference coming.

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But but we're really from the waist up here.

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And I thought I said that that could get awkward just like that.

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We'll let people read the book and get the rest of that story.

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We won't go there,

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Well, the gist of it, just real quick, is somebody was trying to figure out,

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you know, what is, what's the secret to, to developing their upper body?

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And um, you know, it was asking about all these different exercises and

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this technique and that technique.

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I said, they'll all work, but you have to do them and, and

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just don't miss your workout.

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And um, You know, that's, that's the most important.

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So there's a lot of ways to build wealth.

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There's a lot of ways to love your spouse and to show appreciation for

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your kids and to make them feel loved.

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There's a lot of avenues, but we have to consistently execute those things.

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And I don't mean this to be crass, but at Warren Buffett, uh, he has a quote,

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I believe it's Warren Buffett that says, If you want a baby in a month,

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you can't go get nine women pregnant.

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Like you, you can't, you can't go start all these different things

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and expect to speed up the process.

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It takes patience and consistent.

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You have to wait for time to develop.

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And I think too often people are looking for that shortcut.

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They're looking for the quick fix.

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We tell people all the time, this isn't about getting rich quick.

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It's about building wealth slowly and meaningfully.

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And When we look for shortcuts, we miss the paths that do work.

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It's kind of going back to the old tortoise and the hare.

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Um, the tortoise wasn't sexy, wasn't flashy.

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He was slow and methodical, but he was persistent.

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He persevered and he consistently took one step in front of the other.

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And that is exactly how, how your financial, your

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financial practice should work.

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I noticed, I noticed with me, one of the flaws that I, I'm hopeful the

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work that the Lord and I have done have removed is from my personality

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is we for the longest had real estate companies leading up to oh eight.

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I'm not going to tell you the rest of the story that you can probably guess.

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And one thing I recognized about real estate, the way we were building

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it and we were very aggressive.

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We were buying three to five single family homes or other properties per month.

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Is that my mindset was always that the next deal was going to position

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us, which is not the right mindset.

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I'm looking back on it.

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I know that was wrong, but, but what I realized was that that was the

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emotional state that was driving me.

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And, and I realize I, when I was reading through your book, I was thinking

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through the lessons you have there.

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They're steady, they're calm.

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I realized that emotions at time, the, next deal

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Mhm.

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was, was driving a lot of my financial decisions and things like that.

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Talk about how emotion plays into this.

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You, it's all throughout the book, but I never saw you really call

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out emotions, but talk about the pros and cons of emotions when

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we're dealing with our finances.

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Well, it is an emotional journey and we cannot disconnect our emotions from it.

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I think it's one of the reasons why so much of the Bible talks about money.

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It's very emotionally charged and it can get us off track if we're not careful.

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Um, we are emotional beings, so I think emotions can get us in

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trouble when they start driving us.

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But, and this is one of the reasons we talk about life.

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First, when people are coming to us for the first time, we talk, what

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do they want their life to look?

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We're trying to get positive emotions wrapped around what they're building

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longterm, get it beyond their money.

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But we also see the flip side of this.

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You mentioned 2008, 2009 where, where scarcity and fear

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emotions were driving people.

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And it's good to have some fear, but fear can't dictate our decisions.

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When our emotions start making our decisions for us,

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that's when we get in trouble.

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And I like what you said about focusing on the next deal, like,

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I think that's very common.

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It's, it's the next investment or what is this, you know, I

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found this new mutual fund.

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If we're looking external.

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For some new tool.

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We're missing the biggest part that we have stewardship over and that's ourselves

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and Here in our culture We we try to fix poor money management with more money.

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We try to out earn Poor financial decisions a lot of those financial

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decisions are emotional Maybe we feel insecure and we we try to you know,

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we're trying to You buy things we don't need with money we don't have

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to impress people we don't even like, or, or we buy what we think other

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people will appreciate or admire.

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Um, and what ends up happening is you can never, you, you can never out

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earn bad, funny, bad money management.

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Um, it'd be like somebody who, who, Can't drive giving them a faster car.

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We talked before we started recording.

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My daughter's been in two accidents in the last month.

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She's okay The cars are not but like I'm not gonna I'm not gonna buy her

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a Ferrari because She banged up the Honda CRV like, okay, we'll just

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give you more horsepower that should fix it if you're just going faster.

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But that's what we do with money.

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People don't manage, they don't, they don't operate their finances

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well and they try to solve it by just adding more money into the equation.

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And it actually intensifies those maybe, I don't know what we'll call

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them bad emotions, but the control those emotions have over that.

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They don't get that part.

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Uh, control that if their mindset doesn't get right, you add money

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that it's just fueled the fire.

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Uh, Dave Ramsey says money makes you more of who you already are.

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It magnifies your, your strengths and your weaknesses

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and one of the things I recognize with me and I think this is fairly common is I had

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a, and I'm not proud of admitting this.

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I had a get rich quick mindset.

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I had a, I had a short term, get rich quick, do a couple of deals.

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That's going to set you up and then you can, I don't know, retire,

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right off into the sunset or something.

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Yeah.

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right off in the sunset, you know, golfing to it.

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And, you know, I. I've even gotten in the mode and I think a lot of people

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need to do this of not really checking a lot of the financial news daily I

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think most of the financial news are training people to think short term.

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You know, the Fed makes a speech and the market goes up or down by 350

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points and they're acting as if that is.

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Significant, I mean, it's not insignificant, but I mean, we're

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being fed this short term mindset.

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And And we're sensationalizing it and we're teaching people

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that that's what matters.

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And we already kind of talked about this journey, right?

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The, the tortoise and the hare, the, the tortoise was steadily plodding along.

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If we take that step further, it's like a marathon.

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It's like a marathon up a mountain, but we're not going to be able

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to stay on the right path.

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If we're always looking at something right in front of our face, it'd be

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like trying to read a book while hiking.

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You're going to probably fall off a cliff if you're hiking in Alaska.

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We need to keep our eyes on where we're traveling and making sure

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we're aligned with the path.

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That's one of the biggest things that we do professionally is actually

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create a path from where somebody is today, where they want to be in the

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future, something guiding their saving and investing decisions, and then

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hold them accountable to that path.

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But if we're always focusing on the news and the economic weather reports

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and, you know, We're, we're focused on something so close to our face

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that will actually get us to veer off.

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And you're right.

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It's almost impossible to have a longterm mindset with, with so

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much emphasis on the short term.

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Here's the other thing that is I think equally important is my

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industry, the financial industry and the news media focuses on

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everything that you can't control.

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And we tell people, and I'll say me personally, my industry, we

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tell people how important it is.

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You said, what is, what does the fed say?

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What, what's, what are interest rates going to do?

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What was the last jobs report?

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What are the inflation numbers?

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What's going on in Ukraine in the middle East?

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All those things.

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Do they, do they have an impact?

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Yes.

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But can you control any of them?

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No.

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So so often people spend all their time and energy, uh, Focusing on what

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they can't control that they actually miss the opportunities to influence the

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things that they can control and they give up their agency and they end up in

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a state of victimhood or helplessness.

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it's interesting, as you were saying that, I've attempted to, my phone is

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actually my camera, so I can't pull it up here as an example, but, you know,

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we've got access to all of this data now.

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More, I think more than we need, but we won't get into that conversation.

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And one of the things I am constantly attending, attempting to discipline

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myself on is what do I look at every day?

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And for me, I don't look at the market.

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I don't look at stocks.

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I even don't really look at a lot of financial news.

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But I'm about to tell you, you're going to learn something about me here.

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There are two apps that I go to.

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I go to a cryptocurrency app that gives me the price, current price of

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Bitcoin and some other cryptocurrencies.

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And I go to my gold app that tells me the current price of gold that

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probably also tells you a little bit about some things about where I stand

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politically and things like that.

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I really am wanting to get to where I don't even look at those because

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I can't do anything about them.

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Like you said, there's nothing that I can do.

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And so when, when you have clients and they're wanting to know things and they're

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saying, do I really need to look at?

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Are you watching this for me daily or do I need to watch it daily?

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kind of advice do you give people?

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What do we really need to know in the world we're in today?

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I think it's, it's a balance between focusing on what we're

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actually trying to build.

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financially, like where we're trying to go, where do we want our life to be?

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And what are our actions and behaviors today?

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How well are they aligned with that future?

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So it's, it's ignoring most of what's going on in the world.

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So a lot of what you talk about, uh, when in your, in your leadership

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coaching is about the difference between being proactive and reactive.

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And we're reactive human beings.

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We will always be reactive to some degree, but the more proactive

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you are, Towards a long term goal.

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The more you are acting on a plan, the less likely you are to react

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to the crazy world around us.

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And you said we're, we're an information overload where we, we

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take in a lot of data and information, but we don't execute very well.

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And I think we need to be really careful about, are we

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getting intellectually obese?

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Are we taking in so much information, but then we just sit around

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and don't do anything with it.

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And just one thing I'll say is, uh, Just kind of close up this thought

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is not all data is information.

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Not all information is knowledge and not all knowledge is wisdom.

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And I think we lack a lot of wisdom in our culture.

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a lot of data, have a lot of information, but what are you doing?

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How are you stewarding, stewarding that?

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Are you actually implementing that into your daily life?

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That's the question we need to ask ourselves.

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And that's how we circle back to our clients is.

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Where are you in relation to where do you want to be in the future?

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And what are the changes or what are the steps you need to take to be in

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alignment with that regardless of what the world is doing around you?

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Because Tim, what happens in your house is always going to be a bigger impact to

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your future than what happens in the white house or on any other political platform.

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Mm

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I love that you brought this up.

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Proactive for me is controlling those things you can control.

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Being reactive is allowing all those things that you probably don't

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really even have control over to can at times beat you to a pulp.

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I mean, I see it with leaders that I work with and I'm sure you see it with

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people in the, in the financial arena.

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Also, there's one more word I want to bring up to you that I want you

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to discuss before we talk about someone can connect with you and

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what the process looks like, Chad.

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And if we want to say anything about the book, forging financial freedom, I'll

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Seven wealth building lessons extracted.

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I like that's a good word there from the Alaskan oil field.

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I'm sure that was intentional with that word extracted from the old field.

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But, um, the word risk, as I was reading through the book, the word risk

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kept being the word that jumped up.

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You talked about it a number of times, but I, I believe because we haven't talked

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about money, we don't, we don't look at it as a tool or maybe there's other

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reasons, I think a lot of, and fear.

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I think you brought up fear earlier.

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I think a lot of people have a misconstrued, know if I use

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that word right, a screwed up way of looking at risk,

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hmm.

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way of saying it.

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I also think that if we go back to even things like COVID, I, I was watching

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all that transpire and I'm going, I don't think people know math and I'm

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going to get controversial here, but I don't, I don't think they understand

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the risk factors that are going on here.

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Are we as a culture.

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Or have we gotten to where we really can't evaluate risk well and how

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does that feed into your business?

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I believe absolutely 100%.

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We have misidentified risk and, and sometimes we try to eliminate

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all risk, which is impossible.

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And we saw this in COVID.

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Um, I was just talking to somebody in the mental health space a couple of

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days ago and He works in the school systems, works with the youth a lot.

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Uh, actually an ex NFL player and just has a passion for youth, especially sports,

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like sports probably saved his life.

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Um, he was in a gang growing up and legitimate gang.

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Like they were, he was in some bad stuff and there was a coach that kind of pulled

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him aside and introduced him to Jesus.

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And, but it was, it was that community around him that, that

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there was a part of, of him being.

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becoming a Christian and being converted.

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And, um, anyways, point being it was this community that he was surrounded

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with, like being part of a team.

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It was so important.

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And we were so concerned about our kids getting sick as if that was the

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biggest risk that we isolated them.

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And now we have kids with severe mental health and emotional issues.

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I mean, look at the suicide numbers coming out of COVID.

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And I, I believe a lot of times we fight the wrong dragon.

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Uh, somebody the other day was, uh, this is at our Superbowl party.

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They were asking about some diet stuff and they're like, well, you

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know, if this diet, if I do this, you know, here's some of the.

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the risks associated with that.

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And you know, what do you think about this?

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Like this seems extreme over here as this person is talking to me, she's

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shoving Oreos and Reese's in her face.

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And I'm thinking you're worried about the wrong risks.

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Maybe, yeah, maybe this diet doesn't have enough vegetables and maybe

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this diet doesn't have enough protein, but any of those are better

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than what you're doing right now.

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So we, we do not.

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I believe you're a hundred percent right as a culture.

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We do not assess risk.

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Well, it's relationships.

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It's in our health and it's certainly in our investments.

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So if I walk in your door and i'm i'm obviously misguided or

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i'm talking about risk mean, how you how do you massage that?

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How do you work somebody through that who is either fearful or or whatever?

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And it's you know, we're coming up against our time here.

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That might be a longer question, but how do you deal with it when somebody comes

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through your doors and and their risk?

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Tolerance or whatever.

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It's like way out of whack.

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Number one, it's getting them to identify what they think risk is

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because a lot of people misconstrue risk and volatility is the same thing.

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And they're, they're not now volatility can be a part of risk, but volatility

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goes back to that idea of it's ambiguity.

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It's if I put a hundred thousand dollars in this investment.

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It might visit 80, 000 on the way to half a million.

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That's volatile, but is it necessarily risky?

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And I'm just going to use, uh, you know, Alaskan analogy, climbing a mountain.

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Um Not every step is up.

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You sometimes have to cross valleys to continue climbing.

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I think life is that way, investing is that way, but a lot of us

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come into investing and life.

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We want a staircase.

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Better yet, we want an escalator.

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We just want to stay in there and this thing gradually takes us up.

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With a mountain, there is some uncertainty, but in order to keep

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moving towards your goal, you have to actually take some steps down.

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It doesn't seem like you're going the right direction.

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That's where a lot of people get messed up.

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And I think one of the biggest risks facing investors today.

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It's not the temporary principle fluctuations, the, the price volatility

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of your investment, but it's the long-term consistent and permanent eroding of

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purchasing power due to inflation.

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So even going back to when I was born, uh, prices on most things now are

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four to five times higher than they were when I was born, which means it

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takes $5 to buy what a dollar did, uh, four and a half decades ago.

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And that is a huge risk.

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But going back to your question, Tim about watching the news and the focus on the

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now in the moment and being distracted by short term, we get so myopic.

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We think that the Dow moving however many points in a certain day, that that's

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the risk when really it's our dollars being slowly chewed up by inflation.

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That's it's very subtle.

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It's usually quiet, maybe not in the last couple of years,

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but that's just one example of where we fight the wrong dragon.

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We try to stabilize principle at the cost of hamstringing

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our long term purchasing power.

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And that's getting a lot of people in trouble today.

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And, and it, and it goes back to people aren't looking at longterm

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thinking they're short term, they're still looking at that daily.

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And that's, I think that's a big thing that we're dealing with.

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Chad, tell me a little bit about the book or tell them, tell the listener

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about the book, forging financial freedom where they can get it.

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And then I've got one or two more questions here before we wrap up.

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I enjoyed it by the way.

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It was for a financial book, a nice, uh, not a negative, a nice,

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quick, easy read with some good principles and I appreciate it.

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tell us why you wrote it and where people can find it.

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Well, just real quick, and then I'll, I'll answer that.

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going back to this idea of risk, I think one takeaway that people can,

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can hear is A fixed income in a rising cost world is anything but safe.

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And I think we have confused stability with safety and, and

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that's, that's a big issue.

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Um, And, and the other thing that I want to remind people of is financial

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independence is an income issue.

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It's, we have to be worrying about our income, uh, long term

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and we cannot solve long term problems with short term thinking.

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So that's the end of that.

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Um, why did I write the book?

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I wrote the book because a lot of people aren't thinking correctly and this is,

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the book is a little philosophical.

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Um, but it's about mindsets because we can't act right for 20 to 30 years.

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If we have the right mindset, we might be able to fake it for a little bit.

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We might be able to, to white knuckle it, but to truly engage with a path.

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That serves our long term future rather than steals from it.

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We have to think differently.

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So I wanted to change people's perspectives on how they view money,

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how they view investing, even how they view retirement to get their thinking

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more aligned with an abundant future.

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I guess Amazon, all the places, that's where

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Yep.

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it.

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I think visit on Amazon, um, forging financial freedom.

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Um, and Yeah, there's a Kindle version.

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There's a, there's a hardback version and we're coming out

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with an audio one here soon.

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good, good.

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Are you going to read it with that awesome voice you've got?

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Thank you.

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That is the plan.

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This was taking it so long to happen cause I just wanted to outsource it.

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And uh, my team's like, no, you need to read it because these are your stories.

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There's stories from your clients.

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You need to read it.

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that's hard.

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Doing an audio book reading.

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It's hard thing.

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I wrote a novel a few years ago and I was going to do that.

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And I've, you know, got the equipment and stuff.

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I, I, I struggle with it.

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So I actually got my son to do it for me.

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So, uh, anyway, Hey Chad, if someone, someone's been listening to you and

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they just love the mindset, you work with people all over the U S correct.

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Are

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That's correct.

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to do that?

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Tell somebody.

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How they would connect with you and maybe what, I think you gave

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some glimpses along the way of the first few steps, but just what that

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first interaction would look like.

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remove some fear of what that first interaction might look

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like if they reached out to you.

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Well, the way to get ahold of us, they can visit our website at Veritas, alaska.

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com.

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And like you said, Tim, we work with people all over the U S but

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we were founded here in Alaska and I think it's kind of catchy.

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There's some cache to having Alaska in there, but, um,

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that's where they can find us.

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We're also on Instagram, Veritas dot Alaska, and you can find me on

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LinkedIn pretty active on there.

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But where this starts is identifying where people want to go.

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And, uh, very few people have a consistent or at least an accurate target of

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what they'll need to retire and remain comfortably retired for a very long time.

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And it's really hard to hit a target you can't see.

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So that's where we start is getting clear about where do you need to end

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up to have the life that you want?

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And I'll, I'll admit it.

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I'll call out the elephant in the room that can be uncomfortable.

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You know, we're asking.

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Some challenging questions, but they're questions to get people

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framing their perspective correctly.

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Get them out of the today focused on their future self, because I can't

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tell you what's meaningful to you, Tim.

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I can't tell you what a meaningful retirement, a job optional life would look

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like, but if we can figure out together what that looks like, that can give you

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some very clear pathways to get you there.

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excellent.

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Thanks for that.

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We'll include links for the book and also how people can connect with you.

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Chad, we're Seek, Go Create.

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Those three words, I'm going to allow you to choose one of

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those just as a last question.

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It just resonates more with you, means more.

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So seek, go or create, which one do you choose and why?

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I'm going to choose create and the reason is I never thought

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of myself as a creative person.

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I Can't draw I can barely write my own name But creative means a lot of

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different things and and I've expanded my view of what create means I believe I

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was created by Created by God to create I believe God puts elements of himself

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inside of each one of this and I think I think creation is a part of that

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and we all create in different ways.

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So with that desire, with that innate ability to create, I also believe I've

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been given specific gifts and talents used or designed to create a better life for

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those around me and to serve those people.

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And finance is one of the tools I've used to do that.

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Other people have, have other ways, but I love the word create and that is my goal.

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My desire is to be a creator.

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a creator of, of opportunity, a creator of purpose, uh, and a creator of direction

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and encouragement as long as I'm on this earth and have breath in my lungs.

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Love that.

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Yes.

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I also believe we're created to create.

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Some people have that artistic ability.

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My wife does.

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I do not, but we are creators.

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Chad Hufford.

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Thank you.

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I appreciate this conversation.

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Make sure.

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You get a copy of Forging Financial Freedom, seven wealth building lessons

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extracted from the Alaskan oil field.

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And if you feel so compelled, just reach out to Chad.

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I'm sure he'd love to have a conversation with you about of

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these topics we've talked about.

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The next few weeks are packed with some of the most insightful and thought

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way we've never done before, extremely unique for the first time ever.

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asking questions just like I did with Chad today of AI and ChatGPT.

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We'll see how it goes, we still have to record that, it's going to be fun.

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We're going to go deep into leadership, faith, business, and the future of

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I don't know.

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We'll see.

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Could raise even more questions.

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Make sure you're subscribed so you don't miss this groundbreaking episode.

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