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Speaker CTo the around the House show, the next generation of home improvement.
Speaker CI'm Eric G. And of course, we got.
Speaker CI'm Johnny D. You got it, brother.
Speaker CWe're having a great time in here.
Speaker CI hope you are as well.
Speaker CIn the second hour of today's show, we are gonna dive into a tachi, one for many people.
Speaker CAnd we like steering into controversy a little bit sometimes.
Speaker CJohnny.
Speaker CSo I thought, let's talk about it, because you and I have alluded to it the past.
Speaker CWe've talked about a few of our own stories, but I wanted to talk about the common battles with home ownership and remodeling with couples.
Speaker DYeehaw.
Speaker CAnd it's going to sound a little therapy like today, but this is something that I think if more about it going in, especially for the new homeowners out there.
Speaker CWe have seen this stuff go sideways, and I'm sure you have seen with clients this stuff goes sideways, let alone our own personal lives.
Speaker CLet's put it this way, the craziest one I had as a designer.
Speaker CI showed up with this couple.
Speaker CI won't even say what city.
Speaker CI'm going to try to wash this a little bit because I'm not here to call anybody out.
Speaker CBut this couple was building a new house, and the husband had redesigned at the last minute the laundry room, because we had some dimensions.
Speaker CThe builder had to change a wall.
Speaker CShe was traveling.
Speaker CHe said, oh, let's do it this way, and approved it.
Speaker CAnd we ordered cabinetry.
Speaker CHe never followed up with her.
Speaker CSo cabinets and stuff are being installed, and they're getting into an argument in the laundry room.
Speaker CAnd I got.
Speaker CI got to prove drawings, guys.
Speaker CThis is exactly what we ordered.
Speaker CI didn't approve it.
Speaker CLooks at her husband.
Speaker CHe goes, you were gone.
Speaker CIt made sense.
Speaker CI approved it.
Speaker CIt's what we got.
Speaker CAnd she landed a right hook on him like she was a boxer.
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker DWhoa.
Speaker CAnd she took three shots at him.
Speaker CLike, solid shots.
Speaker DIt's a laundry room.
Speaker DCalm down.
Speaker DTake it down a notch.
Speaker CAnd I'm just floored.
Speaker CGoing, wow.
Speaker CAnd I. I just sat there for a minute.
Speaker CI'm like, wow, here's a first.
Speaker CSo I literally sat there and went, all right, guys, the builder was there.
Speaker CHe was wide eyed.
Speaker DImagine.
Speaker CDon't think it was the first time that this had happened.
Speaker CAnd I'll say that because he didn't seem as shocked as I was.
Speaker CAnd I went, hey, guys, I gotta go.
Speaker CMeeting's over.
Speaker CWe gotta go to the rest of the house.
Speaker CI said, you were putting me in a position where we're gonna continue a meeting and I'm gonna have to call the police or I'm gonna leave now and let you guys figure it out.
Speaker CBecause I don't do meetings under these situations.
Speaker CNo, sorry, I'm out.
Speaker CAnd went back the next day.
Speaker CThey apologized.
Speaker CShe apologized.
Speaker CAt first I thought she was making him apologize.
Speaker CAnd I was like, oh, sheesh.
Speaker CBut Ron, I'm like, you guys, that marriage was not going to make it through that.
Speaker CAnd it's tough.
Speaker CThere's no reason for physical violence.
Speaker CBut at the same time, remodeling and home ownership can be one of the most stressful things in a relationship.
Speaker DYeah, I've seen some screaming and some running and some silence.
Speaker DSome serious silence.
Speaker DNever hook.
Speaker DI'm a little jealous of the right hook.
Speaker CYeah, yeah, that was.
Speaker CAnd, and again, I don't want to put myself in a position where I'm in the middle of this, having to jump in.
Speaker CNow.
Speaker CIf it would have been a dude, I would have had to have jumped in.
Speaker CBut I was just.
Speaker CIf he was hitting her, I'd have gone, whoa.
Speaker CI'd have broken that up pretty quickly.
Speaker CBut in this situation, I don't want to sound sexist with that, but I was just like, holy smokes.
Speaker DI've been a little afraid of that right hook.
Speaker CThere's a thing if you get in the middle of that, all of a sudden the police are asking for statements.
Speaker CAnd I didn't want to get too far into that.
Speaker DNo.
Speaker CAnd so these are the things that I get worried about when you come down to homeownership and let's talk about homeownership first.
Speaker CYou have.
Speaker CWhen a couple gets together, whether they're married, they're dating, or whoever this is, doesn't matter.
Speaker CThat situation.
Speaker CBut the debates on budget, who's paying the bills, who's fixing it to.
Speaker CWhere are we living in the location, in the neighborhood.
Speaker CI want to live here.
Speaker CI want to live here.
Speaker COh, I want to have this contemporary house.
Speaker CI want to have the storybook cottage.
Speaker CThese are Things that can get pretty crazy just in the house buying experience, let alone when you.
Speaker CWhen somebody compromises or both compromise and get to a house that they think they can work with.
Speaker DYeah, yeah.
Speaker DI was just gonna say the compromise thing is an issue.
Speaker DUnless you sincerely compromise and you understand that it's about somebody else's happiness with that particular item, that compromise can quickly become a resentment two years later.
Speaker COh, yeah, I can say that with my house.
Speaker CI'm pretty resentful of my ex wife.
Speaker CI'll be the first to say that.
Speaker CI did all the work.
Speaker CI did 99 of the work on that place.
Speaker CAnd she got the benefit of that.
Speaker CAnd so.
Speaker DI know that story.
Speaker CYou know that story.
Speaker DI know that story.
Speaker CYou know that I got the work.
Speaker DTruck and she went and bought a beach house.
Speaker CYeah, exactly, exactly.
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker CAnd in.
Speaker CIn her defense, I signed up for that.
Speaker COh, yeah, we'll get this.
Speaker CI'll do the work.
Speaker CIt's great.
Speaker CAnd then the reality five years later kicks in of you're watching Netflix all day Saturday and I'm on a ladder 24ft in the air by myself.
Speaker DYeah.
Speaker CAnd so those are the things that really start to great and create those issues.
Speaker CAnd you know that.
Speaker CHow many times were you working on that house with the.
Speaker CThat we had, the.
Speaker CThe last house that you guys had that was a whole renovation where you started with a house that probably should have been torn down.
Speaker DThey were gonna tear it down.
Speaker DYeah, yeah, they were gonna tear it down.
Speaker DThere's trees growing through the windows that had been boarded up for a couple of years.
Speaker DIt was.
Speaker DYeah, it was.
Speaker DShould have been beyond repair, but I was just stupid enough and I actually took her to see it and I thought, nah, she would never go for this.
Speaker DThis is way too much work.
Speaker DShe said, oh, my God, I love it.
Speaker DWe gotta have it.
Speaker DI was like, oh, no, what did I do?
Speaker DYep.
Speaker COh, no.
Speaker DTwo and a half years later, it was spectacular.
Speaker DAnd to be fair, she was a worker, man.
Speaker DShe helped me a lot with it.
Speaker DYeah, but yeah, yeah, like I said.
Speaker CI remember those days.
Speaker DShe got a beach house.
Speaker CYep.
Speaker DYeah.
Speaker CAnd that's just how it worked.
Speaker CAnd you built that cool garage back with the big practice room up top.
Speaker CNeed an elevator.
Speaker DBut it was cool in the old carriage house.
Speaker CExactly.
Speaker CI love that thing.
Speaker CIt was cool.
Speaker CBut that's the thing when you get into these things.
Speaker CAnd I think the biggest problem that people have in relationships that I've seen and even mine, is that communication.
Speaker CSomebody's not communicating or 2 people aren't communicating.
Speaker CAnd if you don't have that, I tell you what, that is a recipe for disaster.
Speaker DYeah.
Speaker DYeah.
Speaker DYou got to just be able to.
Speaker DYou got to be able to be adults about it.
Speaker DReally just work it out and go, is it that important?
Speaker DDo you love it?
Speaker DIf you love it, let's do it.
Speaker DIf it's a nice to have, let's discuss what we're going to give up for that nice to have and decide together what's more important.
Speaker DThere's always going to be a headbutt in a strong relationship where you communicate well and don't throw pissy fits.
Speaker DYou can get it done and everybody's happy.
Speaker CAbsolutely.
Speaker DAnd it's work.
Speaker DIt takes work.
Speaker DThat's all you.
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker CAnd I was gonna say, I think the biggest thing is the amount of work that you're putting into that house is gonna have to be balanced with probably an equal amount of work that you have to put in the relationship.
Speaker DYeah.
Speaker DAnd just that additional work in your life on top of your regular work.
Speaker DAnd less date nights, less going out to dinner, less of a lot of life because your energy's going into that and people get cranky, man.
Speaker DNobody wants to work every day.
Speaker DAll work and no play makes Eric a dull boy.
Speaker DThat's.
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker DYou gotta balance.
Speaker DTake a damn camping trip for three days.
Speaker DThat house isn't going anywhere.
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker DBreak it up.
Speaker DDon't put yourself under so much pressure that it becomes an albatross.
Speaker DBecause that's no fun for anybody.
Speaker DMake it fun.
Speaker DMake sure it stays fun.
Speaker DIt'll be stressful.
Speaker DThere'll be money issues.
Speaker DThere'll be hard decisions.
Speaker DBut you gotta figure out how to make it into play as well.
Speaker CAbsolutely.
Speaker DYou can get through it together like that.
Speaker DYou gotta stop, step back and go, what the hell are we doing?
Speaker DAnd be able to laugh.
Speaker DYeah.
Speaker DInstead of pointing blame and pointing fingers.
Speaker DSuper important.
Speaker DKeep it.
Speaker DKeep it sonic.
Speaker CAmen.
Speaker CWhen we come back, I want to talk about that and some of the mistakes that I've learned that I made.
Speaker CSo we're going to dive into my personal story here a little bit because I think there's something for everybody to be learned from that, because I know I learned from it.
Speaker CWe'll do that just as soon as around the House returns.
Speaker CDon't change that dial.
Speaker AKids these days will never understand what it's like to play an instrument, to be in a band.
Speaker DWhat's up?
Speaker DThis is Sticks it in Ya and.
Speaker CSatchel from Steel Panther.
Speaker DAnd you are listening to around the House with Eric G. Yeah.
Speaker DWe love Eric G. And you should too.
Speaker CWelcome back to the around the house show.
Speaker CThe next generation of home improvement.
Speaker CJohnny and I are sitting here talking about getting that relationship through the house projects, the things that can get really expensive outside of that DIY project.
Speaker CAnd we were just talking about Johnny.
Speaker CWe were talking about the keeping it fun and keeping it real and being honest with stuff.
Speaker CAnd I tell you what, that was probably.
Speaker CI can look back and go, okay, my last relationship, what blew that up?
Speaker CThere were a lot of things that blew it up.
Speaker CBut I think the one thing that I can own out of it, and there's a lot of things that I don't own because it wasn't my deal.
Speaker CBut I think the one thing that I mistake that I made is I put too much into the house, too much time into the house, and didn't balance the work life balance, which doesn't really exist.
Speaker CI was working for two and a about two years on the TV show, working what, 70 hours a week each week, no breaks.
Speaker CAnd that's just what it was.
Speaker CBut during that time, I still had to.
Speaker CI'd be done filming something on the house, and it was good enough for tv.
Speaker CThey would go back and be editing.
Speaker CI had to go set up the next shoot, but still get that project from 80% to 100%.
Speaker CAnd all of a sudden, now I'm working seven days a week on the house.
Speaker CI'm taking some time off.
Speaker CI'm doing it all by myself.
Speaker CAnd that took.
Speaker CDefinitely took a toll on me physically, me mentally and the relationship.
Speaker CAnd that's probably the biggest mistake that I can go.
Speaker CYeah, that was my mistake that I own, is that I made that house much more of a focus than it should have been.
Speaker CAnd moving forward, that's something I'm definitely gonna do differently.
Speaker CAnd I don't know if I'm gonna take on a big personal project like that where I got something down to the studs or close to it and do that level of work on it.
Speaker DYeah, I did the same thing.
Speaker DDude.
Speaker DThat thing was built in 1890.
Speaker DIt was held up by dumps, stumps of wood, and like a couple of bricks here and there.
Speaker DIt dropped seven inches from front to back.
Speaker DIt now you couldn't fit a square window in it.
Speaker DBut doing the same thing, right?
Speaker DGeneral contractor at the time, a couple of jobs going, few trucks on the road, five to 10 employees at any given point, doing 12 hours a day there.
Speaker DAnd then at around six, seven at night, go back to the Home Depot again, buy stuff for the house remodel.
Speaker DGo work at the house till 4am, come home, take a three hour nap, get up, do it again.
Speaker DSo, yeah, there was a lot of.
Speaker CSlide in band practice three nights a week and then shows on the weekend.
Speaker DThrow in band practice.
Speaker DThrow it.
Speaker DYeah.
Speaker DAnd yeah, surely that's going to irritate your wife even on the weekends when she was helping me.
Speaker DBut.
Speaker DAnd it's hard to balance.
Speaker DRight.
Speaker DFor me.
Speaker DYour ego gets caught up in it.
Speaker DYou're like, I'm gonna get this damn thing done.
Speaker DAnd I get all man about it and stupid.
Speaker CYep.
Speaker DAnd the wife's going, I'm getting nothing from you.
Speaker DAnd you're going, I'm doing everything for you.
Speaker CI'm doing everything right.
Speaker DTrucks.
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker DOkay, let's find some common ground here.
Speaker DI understand you.
Speaker CThere is the root of the death spiral, right?
Speaker DYeah, yeah.
Speaker DAnd you gotta pause and you gotta pull some of your man out of it and go, she's got needs.
Speaker DAnd I need to be a husband as well as a construction man.
Speaker DAnd.
Speaker DAnd it's a balance.
Speaker DAnd it's a balance a lot of people can't pull off because we're not always the best at human communication.
Speaker DAnd at the end of the day, it is everything.
Speaker DThe ability to admit you're wrong, the ability to admit you're overdoing it.
Speaker DThe ability to admit that your partner has needs just like you do.
Speaker DYou got to pull back a bit.
Speaker DYou got to get.
Speaker CIt was once we changed the television show from one hour to a half hour and I said, oh my gosh, I need to balance things better.
Speaker CThis was a year ago, over a year ago, that all of a sudden I was there and I had time and she was going, who's this person?
Speaker CNow I got time to spend with them.
Speaker CAnd so that was a whole other issue that created up.
Speaker DSo guys, past that point, you get used to the.
Speaker DYou get used to the unhealthy and then you try to get healthy again.
Speaker DAnd it's a ways away if it's been a two year window, working on something or.
Speaker CCorrect.
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker CAnd these are things that.
Speaker CAnd you put your best effort into it and sometimes that's just not good enough.
Speaker CYou know what I mean?
Speaker CAnd so really what I wanted to talk about in this segment was just making sure, guys, that you're not paying the ultimate price for getting that house where you want it.
Speaker CYou know, really you're trying to build.
Speaker DA house, just a house.
Speaker DAt the end of the day it is.
Speaker CAnd it's your biggest investment.
Speaker CSo I get it for me, me, I was excited.
Speaker CI had some great projects we were doing.
Speaker CI was in a spot that in a house that I knew I could do it in.
Speaker CA great example, I get the house where we're 70% through the first couple phases of it and now she's wanting to split and all of a sudden you're like, wait a minute, I got to put this house up for market.
Speaker CI didn't plan for this.
Speaker CAnd I'm a planner like you are.
Speaker CSo there were things that we didn't do on the house because we were going to do an addition.
Speaker CAnd like I wasn't going to do the roof and the siding, for instance.
Speaker CRight.
Speaker CBecause why put that on and then tear it back off in a year when you go do the addition, we'll do that at the same time, which is that common thing.
Speaker CAnd so all of a sudden to get the house ready for sale, there are all these things that you are going to throw in the dumpster that you got to make look right and be right of the 40 years of neglect the house had before you moved into it.
Speaker CSo it's a challenge.
Speaker CAnd I don't want to keep this on the negative side, but I just want to forewarn people out there that managing this right is going to be your biggest project.
Speaker CProbably bigger than tackling the big project yourself.
Speaker DYeah.
Speaker CAnd yeah, it's key.
Speaker CAnd some of the things that I see people battle with on these things too, especially couples that are not married or whatever, is how is that house going to be dealt with?
Speaker CWhose name is it going in?
Speaker CIs it going in two people's?
Speaker CIs it going in one?
Speaker CWho's making the payment?
Speaker CHow's that getting split up?
Speaker CAnd there can be a lot of animosity and stress between two people going into that that really should be communicated well.
Speaker CAnd what happens if someone loses their job?
Speaker CWhat happens if someone gets sick?
Speaker CI think those conversations are really important to have before you get into that and understand it.
Speaker CIt's almost like when you do a business plan.
Speaker COkay, here is our business plan for getting this done.
Speaker CWhat's our reaction?
Speaker CHow do we deal with that if it doesn't go as we planned?
Speaker CWhat happens if you have that twenty thousand dollar roof fail that you thought was going to last you 10 years and now all of a sudden the wind blew it off and the insurance won't cover it?
Speaker CWhere's that coming from?
Speaker DYeah, yeah, it's a lot.
Speaker CYou know, how many times were you were sleeping in the truck when you didn't have a place to stay because the house wasn't a safe place to stay.
Speaker CIn my bathroom, I stayed in a few of those.
Speaker DI stayed in a few of our down to the stud rentals more than a few times.
Speaker CI mean, I started my bathroom model right at the beginning of COVID and I thought, ah, for the two weeks we're doing the shower, I'll be down at the gym because I can take showers down there.
Speaker CNot a big deal.
Speaker CI get it gutted out.
Speaker CAnd four days later, they close the gyms down, and I'm like, I got no place to take a shower in this one bath, one and a half bath house.
Speaker CSo what did I do?
Speaker CI literally took the.
Speaker CI had it in the back of the trailer.
Speaker CI actually took out the bathtub, built a wall, covered it in blue tarps, plumbed up with pex piping, A shower system out there, a tub shower in the garage that wasn't heated and uninsulated in the winter time.
Speaker DPerfect.
Speaker CAnd then ran the.
Speaker CCut a hole and ran out the.
Speaker CRan the drain line out and into the cleanout.
Speaker CAnd it worked.
Speaker DPerfect.
Speaker CIt worked.
Speaker CIt was cold.
Speaker BAll right, guys, I am going to have to cut you off around the house.
Speaker BWe'll be right back.
Speaker CWelcome back to the around the house show.
Speaker CThe next generation of home improvement.
Speaker CWell, we've been talking about relationship stuff here, and you know something?
Speaker CThat's about dark enough for both Johnny and I.
Speaker CWe're gonna pivot here and talk a little bit about our top pet peeves of construction design and home improvement.
Speaker CAnd we haven't talked about this, so this is going to be kind of fun to hear about what his are versus mine.
Speaker CAnd I'm going to start out with one of mine right here.
Speaker CAnd this is the fun one.
Speaker CThe realtors that somehow became construction experts during the sales.
Speaker DOh, yeah, right.
Speaker CAnd we've all seen them.
Speaker CMy favorite.
Speaker CMy favorite one of this.
Speaker CI have an example, so I'm going to give you an example.
Speaker CI was walking into a house that was having a showing.
Speaker CIt was an old Portland kind of southeast Portland house.
Speaker CAnd in the teens and 20s, they didn't wash the sand.
Speaker CAnd so the concrete just fell apart as it got.
Speaker CAbout 60 years and older, I could sit there with a ballpoint pen and dig through the foundation because it's just, like, crusty sand.
Speaker CThere is a crack so wide in the foundation, I can put my hand through it.
Speaker CAnd the realtor put up this crack, has been here for the entire time the homeowners have owned the house.
Speaker CAnd it has not been an issue.
Speaker DOkay, what does that mean?
Speaker CNow, a structural engineer and you know.
Speaker COh, I've seen that and the other thing and then the little asterisk on this one too, is many times the realtors, contractors they work with or laborers they work with are not licensed, bonded insured.
Speaker CThey are the handyman special.
Speaker DSo be careful.
Speaker DWife's boyfriend or something.
Speaker DYeah.
Speaker DRealtors certainly seem to think they know quite a bit about what's possible and not possible in remodeling a home.
Speaker DOh, you guys could just knock that wall out and open this into a really big kitchen and that you're like, you knock that wall out, the whole house comes down, lady.
Speaker DYou know that or, man.
Speaker CAnd if you just want to spend two hundred and fifty thousand dollars to do that, that'll get you started.
Speaker DYou've just moved this over here.
Speaker DGot like.
Speaker DYeah.
Speaker DSuddenly they're interior designers with zero structural knowledge.
Speaker DYep.
Speaker DYeah.
Speaker COf course, there's plenty out there that know what they're talking about that are good.
Speaker CBut generally speaking, more often than not, that seems to be the case.
Speaker DNow they're trying to get the sale.
Speaker DDefinitely a pet peeve.
Speaker CThey are.
Speaker CThey are, definitely.
Speaker CAnd the one I'm dealing with this week, I'm gonna hit this one now because it's, it's, it's a sore spot for me at the moment.
Speaker CThe inspectors that do the walkthrough for the real estate sale, that maybe took a class on it, that really didn't.
Speaker DKnow what they're talking about, as evidenced by your report.
Speaker CI love when they talk about that.
Speaker CMy 50 gallon electric water heater is in good working order and it's an 80 gallon heat pump.
Speaker CLike, did you even look at it?
Speaker CSo you know those kind of things where you go, really, man.
Speaker CAll right, mistakes happen.
Speaker CBut just remember, guys out there, if you're going through a real estate sale, in most states out there, if you pay $400 for the inspector to go through, their liability is $400, which is what you paid them.
Speaker CNothing more, nothing less.
Speaker CSo take it with a grain of salt.
Speaker CSometimes these things, they love to fill it out to produce a nice big report.
Speaker CAnd they found some stuff that I'm like, yeah, that's fair.
Speaker CI found other things.
Speaker CIt's like you're talking about the wrong house.
Speaker CI don't even have that.
Speaker CWhat are you talking about?
Speaker CSo, yeah, that's levels of confusion.
Speaker COh, yeah.
Speaker CAnd then I'm sure, Johnny, what's your biggest one as a contractor?
Speaker CWhat's your top few when you are contractors with employees or anything else, let's.
Speaker DHear a few of yours, dude.
Speaker DBut I'll tell you what.
Speaker DOne thing.
Speaker DIt's always my first example of a pet peeve for me.
Speaker DIf you show up to work in sweatshirt, you go home.
Speaker DI literally fired a guy the first day.
Speaker DShowed up in sweats.
Speaker DI'm like, you can go.
Speaker DWhat?
Speaker DWhat happened?
Speaker DWhat?
Speaker DI'm like, it's all good, dude.
Speaker DI don't need you.
Speaker DYou do not go to work in sweats ever.
Speaker DI don't know why it bugs me.
Speaker DIt just tells me you're sitting on the couch playing Nintendo all day and you finally decide you're gonna go do some work and that.
Speaker DI just.
Speaker DI can't do it.
Speaker DI can't.
Speaker DI don't know.
Speaker DI. I don't know why it bugs me so much.
Speaker DBut yeah, sweats, Sweats.
Speaker COr in the common new day pajama pants.
Speaker DWho does that?
Speaker CYeah, be a professional.
Speaker CShow up and workwear.
Speaker DNo, that one's.
Speaker DPeople laugh at me like I'm crazy.
Speaker DI'm like, dude, if you showed up in sweats, I already know what kind of worker you are.
Speaker DAnd maybe, you know, maybe there's guys out there that wear sweats to pour concrete and they kick ass and they work hard.
Speaker DI'm sure there's some.
Speaker DBut.
Speaker CYep.
Speaker DI've never found them.
Speaker CNo, I haven't seen them either.
Speaker CAnd you know, teats are on, but you got to kind of show up and look ready for work.
Speaker CI know plenty of guys out there that are concrete guys that show up in their Levi's and their boots and their T shirts that.
Speaker COr from the company or whatever.
Speaker CAnd that's what they do.
Speaker CAnd it could be 115 degrees outside and that's what they're wearing.
Speaker DYep, that.
Speaker DThat.
Speaker DI'll give you first day guys, right?
Speaker DFirst day guys.
Speaker DFirst day guys.
Speaker DThat when you get them on the phone, they're dying for work.
Speaker DOh, man, that's so great.
Speaker DOh, thanks, man.
Speaker DI really need the work.
Speaker DI really need the work.
Speaker DAnd two things happen.
Speaker DSeveral times I've had guys ask me for gas money to get to the first day of work.
Speaker DAnd numerous times, their first day of work.
Speaker DThey're late.
Speaker DThey're late to their first day of work.
Speaker DI'm like, that's not good.
Speaker CYeah, my truck broke down.
Speaker DOr the cancel the first day, dude.
Speaker DCould I start tomorrow instead?
Speaker DI'm like, no, you can't.
Speaker CNo, we had work to do, so.
Speaker DYeah, I mean, we had work to do.
Speaker DI Could ranch or hours on crap like that.
Speaker CBut luckily, here's my next one too.
Speaker DOver a decade since I've been running cruise.
Speaker DSo I've calmed and mellowed and let go a lot of that.
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker CThe other one I, I can't stand with contractors is when they have a payment schedule written out in the contract or even worse, if they don't and they're trying to get the completion payment done weeks before they're done.
Speaker DYep.
Speaker DAnd people do it.
Speaker CThat one drives me nuts.
Speaker DMy ex wife down here, her parents did it, built this beautiful home.
Speaker DHer dad's been a teacher his whole life.
Speaker DSaved up, you know, on a pension and built this cool house.
Speaker DAnd I told him I would help him out with it.
Speaker DThey're like, no, no, no.
Speaker DTwo different cities and I show up and there's all these things not done that I did for him happily.
Speaker DLike they're like family to me.
Speaker DBut they did just that.
Speaker DWell, we gave them the final payment.
Speaker DThey said they were going to come back and do this and do that.
Speaker DAnd I'm like, you what?
Speaker DYeah, especially in Colombia, who does that?
Speaker CYeah, exactly, exactly.
Speaker CYou know, maybe they're not too many contracts.
Speaker CI bet there's a lot of handshakes.
Speaker CIs that probably keep it simple.
Speaker DA lot of it.
Speaker DI mean, this was a bigger project, so there was a contract in place.
Speaker DBut you know, it's.
Speaker DThe system here is like you're not, you don't really get to fight and it's not a fair one if you do have one.
Speaker DAnd yeah, yeah, you just kind of suck it up and.
Speaker DYeah, not the best suck it up and hope you have a good son in law.
Speaker CExactly.
Speaker CThere you go.
Speaker CNow, when we come back, man, I want to talk about some of my, my pet peeves here of mistakes that homeowners make that kind of like somebody we used to work with that was a business owner, Vern, they just can't get out of their own way to make.
Speaker CStop making mistakes.
Speaker CRight.
Speaker CThey make it, they compound it, they make it worse and then they blame everybody else around them for those mistakes.
Speaker CAnd so I've seen these so many times.
Speaker CYou've seen them, you know, and it's always an interesting one and there's something to be learned from as well.
Speaker CWe'll talk about that just as soon as around the House returns.
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Speaker CWelcome back to the around the house show, the next generation of home improvement.
Speaker CI am Eric G. Johnny and I are sitting here talking in this last segment of the show about our pet peeves here about construction, design, remodeling, all that stuff.
Speaker CAnd we were just talking about some of the stuff on the contractor side.
Speaker CAnd I wanted to talk about from the design side, from where I came with and for helping people out there, some of my pet peeves of people that just sometimes, for instance, can't help themselves.
Speaker CThere was somebody here locally that a buddy said, can you help out my friend?
Speaker CHe is knee deep in a remodel and it's really bad.
Speaker CSo he had hired somebody.
Speaker CAnd I've talked about this on the show before, so I won't go into too much detail.
Speaker CJohnny, this is one of those projects that I walked into and went, what the heck is going on?
Speaker DHe spent 200k and you.
Speaker DIt was start over.
Speaker CYeah, you got to start over.
Speaker CAnd I knew it was sideways when the guy tried building cabinets had he used ones and they were half face frame, half frameless.
Speaker CAnd when I realized that he put in the 100,1020amp outlet for the double oven that we were in trouble.
Speaker CThat was the deck one that we talked about that had the 50% cantilever on it.
Speaker CYou had to start over.
Speaker CYeah, had to start over.
Speaker CAnd I got an update on this.
Speaker CSince then, I tried to get him lined up with because the tile job was some of the worst tile jobs I'd ever seen.
Speaker CAnd I brought my buddy from Global tile Posse.
Speaker CThey're this huge professional Facebook group out there that's been going on for years.
Speaker CThey are the upper crust of tile installers.
Speaker CAnd I brought my buddy Jason McDaniel out there to go look at this project and said, hey, man, this guy is getting himself in trouble.
Speaker CSo we went out and looked at it.
Speaker CHe was going to get together a bunch of tile pros to come out there and do the project for basically for free to help this guy out just for materials.
Speaker CAnd some of the guys are going to travel.
Speaker CAnd so if he could throw in like a grand to do four bathrooms in this house to cover stuff, they were going to do it.
Speaker CAnd then he started talking to this guy about.
Speaker CAnd I did too, about who's Going to start over on the project.
Speaker CHe was already talking to another guy that was an unlicensed, unbonded, uninsured contractor.
Speaker CThe same type of guy that ripped him off the first time.
Speaker CAnd he was debating between which two of these side job guys were going to do this complete house remodel.
Speaker CAnd Jason and I looked at each other, went, we're out of.
Speaker CBecause he was just gonna do it over again.
Speaker CAnd guess what?
Speaker CI don't think that project ever got finished.
Speaker CThat thing is sitting there in an unlivable house.
Speaker CAnd I can tell more work happened on it, but more work had gotten abandoned on it as well.
Speaker DWhat a shame, man.
Speaker DEspecially in that kind of budget range.
Speaker DThat's just brutal.
Speaker AYeah.
Speaker CSpend an extra $50,000 and have somebody that's got a license bond and insurance that's actually gonna finish it.
Speaker CAnd instead saving 50 grand.
Speaker CHe's probably spending 500 and still has to get the project done.
Speaker CAnd I think that one's tough.
Speaker CThe next one here, and I'm not railing on you guys out there, but these are things that we can learn from that person.
Speaker CHomeowner that knows more than the architect and the interior designer because they're a professional in another profession.
Speaker CYou've seen that one.
Speaker CHey, Johnny, aren't you supposed to be installing this one?
Speaker DI have more than a few times, including a couple of our good friends, that thought they do a couple around the house projects, and they're like, hey, why can't we do this?
Speaker CHere we go.
Speaker DOh, boy.
Speaker DHere we go.
Speaker DIt's.
Speaker DIt's even.
Speaker DIt's even more difficult when they're your friends.
Speaker DYou're like, brother, I love you.
Speaker DGo away.
Speaker CYeah, absolutely.
Speaker CAnd it's dangerous because there's a process.
Speaker CAnd it's just like my house inspector on my house.
Speaker CJust because a little bit can be super dangerous.
Speaker DJust enough to get in trouble.
Speaker CAbsolutely.
Speaker CAnd that goes with plumbing, that goes with electrical.
Speaker CIt's so easy to make mistakes on that stuff.
Speaker CYou can walk in, especially with drain.
Speaker CI think water lines to me are the easy part.
Speaker CWhen you're carrying potable water.
Speaker CIt's the drain part that people mess up so badly.
Speaker CBecause you can have two drain fittings that look almost exactly the same, and one of them is completely wrong.
Speaker DYeah.
Speaker DAnd everything is crucial in drainage.
Speaker DDrainage and ventilation.
Speaker DAnd if you don't get it right, you got a really smelly house or you gotta plug up everything.
Speaker CAnd now I'm gonna talk about getting.
Speaker DThe right pitches, getting the right vents, getting the right guest gas, catching Elbows and great example.
Speaker CLet's talk about spec builders, the big ones out there.
Speaker CThe big companies are building thousands of homes in the US Each year.
Speaker CI can't tell you that.
Speaker CI mean, in this house here that I'm in now, big major spec builder pet peeve is the builders nowadays are running the HOAs after they're done.
Speaker DWe talked about that.
Speaker AYeah.
Speaker CAnd right now they're doing some work on the outside of the building at year six, it probably should have been some kind of a comeback and work on it under the laws of the state and the warranty because it wasn't done correctly.
Speaker CBut because they run the hoa, they're going to make the homeowners pay for it instead of them having to eat the faulty construction methods.
Speaker DYep, yep.
Speaker DThey put it off till they have to, then they actually just make more cash off you.
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker CSo now they're going to make money off that construction defect.
Speaker CRight.
Speaker DYeah.
Speaker CThere is no reason why year six, you should be repainting the house completely and replacing window trim because it's failed.
Speaker DThere's no reason for that.
Speaker DAnd there's no reason that a general contractor should be allowed to be leading the hoa, period.
Speaker DYeah.
Speaker CI think that is a big problem because now that's going to come under the maintenance and repair stuff that should be covered under the contract.
Speaker DAnd then you want somebody in there that's defending you, looking out for your best interests and trying to protect you, and reads all the fine print and goes back through warranty issues and calls the contractor and says you're responsible for this, not the contractor grazing over and going, no, we can just.
Speaker DLet's say we push this a year, guys, and then we're out of the woods and then we can actually charge and fly for it.
Speaker DThis is criminal.
Speaker DBulls.
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker CAnd that's why.
Speaker CAnd here's my other pet peeve.
Speaker CWhen they have the HOA meeting on a Tuesday at 1:00 clock and they give you 24 hours notice.
Speaker DRight.
Speaker DYeah, thanks.
Speaker DYeah, I'll be there.
Speaker DOr I'll be at my job like a normal person.
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker CBecause I'm having to pay for this house.
Speaker DYeah.
Speaker CSo those are the pet peeves of that.
Speaker CBut it.
Speaker CThat's one of those that I look at and just drives me nuts.
Speaker CI'm like, are you kidding me?
Speaker CAt the same time, you'll see the HOA workers that are employees of the HOA walking around and sending notices to people because there's brown spots in their lawn because of people walking their dogs and telling the homeowner to take care of it.
Speaker DYeah, I would not fare well.
Speaker DI would not farewell with an hoa.
Speaker DNever had one.
Speaker COh, yeah.
Speaker DDoubt I ever will because.
Speaker DYeah, nobody tells me what color you're not gonna play well.
Speaker CYeah, I know.
Speaker CTrust me.
Speaker CI'm.
Speaker CI'm gonna have to navigate this and I'm gonna be the heavy hand guy because it's gonna be interesting and they're not gonna want to mess with me and I'm not making a threat there.
Speaker CI just know what I'm talking about.
Speaker CAnd they're gonna try to because what's my email going out later on this afternoon?
Speaker CI'm taking pictures of the rotten trim and sending it to the HoA saying, Are you going to repair this before next week when you come and paint this or what's the plan?
Speaker CIt's going to be interesting to see what the answer is.
Speaker DI may not have a mohawk anymore, but that 13 year old punk still lives in me.
Speaker DAnd that's why I can't do an hoa.
Speaker CI get that.
Speaker CI get that.
Speaker CAnd you're not going to bully me around.
Speaker CI had, back in my dating days, I had this HOA in a condo project that I was staying a few nights a week and they didn't have anything posted.
Speaker CI came out and where's my truck?
Speaker COne day and the towing company grabbed it.
Speaker CI was parked in the visitor parking, but they didn't have anywhere posted around the complex that if you parked more than so many hours in a year that they could tow your truck, your vehicle.
Speaker DWow.
Speaker CNot posted anywhere, just visitor parking.
Speaker DWhose cousin, whose cousin was that?
Speaker COh, yeah, and this was eight, nine, ten years ago probably.
Speaker CAnd towing company, Predatory towing company, they sent somebody at night through there every hour and they wrote down on a spreadsheet and had numbers and license numbers and if not, it was a 450 towing bill for them to get your car out the next day.
Speaker DI'm better at the ocean with a sailboat or on a mountain with a shotgun.
Speaker DThat's just me.
Speaker CThere you go.
Speaker CThere you go.
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