[0:00:07] AK: In this situation.

[0:00:13] AK: Hi.

[0:00:14] Sade: Welcome to your Auntie Kid Never episode 101 hundred and 101 hundred. My name is Aunty AK and I'm.

[0:00:20] AK: Here with I'm Auntie Farwin. I'm back. Why I do that? It's been a while.

[0:00:27] AK: It has been a while. And Auntie Shadow.

[0:00:32] Sade: Welcome back. Auntie Nefara.

[0:00:34] AK: Nefara, nefara. That's why I've been missing, because I've been bullied and I've had a case pending and you know about it. You were my witness, weren't you? Yes, I know you did. You always support me when I'm being bullied and harassed.

[0:00:53] Sade: How are you on?

[0:00:54] AK: Too far off. It's nice to see you guys. You'll be in the studio. It's been a while. No, I haven't. In this moku stress.

[0:01:12] AK: I'm all right. I'm trying to think. My week has been it's been cold.

[0:01:19] AK: Yeah.

[0:01:20] AK: My heat is not working. It's a cold week.

[0:01:24] Sade: It's like the heaters take a break and don't think they got to come back to work.

[0:01:27] AK: Yeah.

[0:01:27] Sade: I mean, it's that road.

[0:01:29] AK: I have literally had to relent because my daughter's been sick. I've had to put the heat in on and it's been a lot. And I keep doing this thing where I'm like 1 hour, a bit more. 1 hour.

[0:01:41] Sade: I took the risk and did it the whole day.

[0:01:43] AK: Did you? Oh, my God.

[0:01:45] Sade: Listen. I was like, no, because you know what it is? The flat has not been on. It hasn't been on. So he's not warmed it through. So it needed that warm free to take away the actual I get it.

[0:01:54] AK: Because I was away for a few days, I thought, okay, well, I haven't been running. No current, like my grandparents used to say, so I can afford to have it on. But then I'm like, oh, my house. I remember how it feels.

[0:02:09] Sade: It's not fair.

[0:02:10] AK: I don't like this country.

[0:02:11] Sade: This country fox. Where is shit? Okay, that's fine. Do you have a game?

[0:02:15] AK: I do have a game for blood. Clock just came out of it. I feel sick.

[0:02:27] Sade: Sorry.

[0:02:30] AK: Okay. Lyrically correct in odor's manner. That's why I did that. Yay get me?

[0:02:39] AK: Well done.

[0:02:45] Sade: Let's go.

[0:02:47] AK: Yeah. Had to keep it real, right? Don't cheat.

[0:02:59] Sade: I don't cheat. I wasn't looking.

[0:03:00] AK: You do, though.

[0:03:00] AK: You do.

[0:03:06] AK: Okay. How long did Tethering Campbell want you.

[0:03:10] AK: To talk for a minute.

[0:03:12] AK: Well done. What did mid condition want you to quit?

[0:03:17] Sade: Oh, I don't know. Playing games?

[0:03:19] AK: No, my heart.

[0:03:21] Sade: Breaking my heart.

[0:03:22] AK: Well done.

[0:03:23] AK: Okay.

[0:03:24] AK: I don't know if I like that, though, because it wasn't your first answer.

[0:03:27] Sade: Okay.

[0:03:31] AK: Hang on. Did you get two? One each. One each. What did old Dirty Masters say? He and Mariah went back like babies and Pacifies something. Yeah, auntie AK got that one. What did Jodysy want their lady to picture?

[0:03:53] Sade: Picture us in a I don't know. That's called me off guard. And I know, I know I should.

[0:04:00] AK: Knit this empty scene forever. My fucking lady.

[0:04:05] AK: Oh, I don't even hold on.

[0:04:08] Sade: I need the whole context.

[0:04:11] AK: Go home and listen to the song. I need a whole context.

[0:04:15] Sade: I literally can't remember that line.

[0:04:17] AK: Okay.

[0:04:17] AK: This empty scene there's no me or know you what will we do? An awful sight to see if I ever lose you yeah. Oh, wow.

[0:04:26] Sade: All right.

[0:04:29] AK: According to that no, you know that one?

[0:04:33] Sade: I mean, we're allowed to know them.

[0:04:34] AK: No, I've said that one, too. What did JayZ say? He used to move.

[0:04:39] Sade: Wait.

[0:04:42] AK: Rocks?

[0:04:43] AK: Like rocks? I don't know, like an Oz or something.

[0:05:05] AK: A bit more lyrically correct than that.

[0:05:09] AK: Yes. Drugs. But snow.

[0:05:11] Sade: Snow.

[0:05:12] AK: Ice cakes.

[0:05:13] AK: Ice. Cocaine.

[0:05:14] Sade: No.

[0:05:15] AK: Cakes. No cakes.

[0:05:17] AK: No falls. Snowballs. That's what I said.

[0:05:24] AK: You said snow cake.

[0:05:25] AK: Yeah. Discrimination.

[0:05:33] AK: But it's really not. In seven days. What did Mary J. Blige say happened on a Tuesday?

[0:05:39] Sade: Monday? I don't know. Oh, shit. I can't remember Tuesday.

[0:05:44] AK: We played a game. I'm over this now. No, wait, wait. What did no, wait. Yeah. How many weeks did Lauren Hill say she's been looking for your friend? How many weeks did Lauren Hill say you've been looking for your friend?

[0:06:28] Sade: For a week? Two weeks. Looking for your game. Looking for your game.

[0:06:33] AK: One, two that was the last one. Because you got along again. Yeah. But you're just counted in now.

[0:06:38] AK: Yeah.

[0:06:57] AK: I do, like, lyrically shout out to lyrically. Correct.

[0:07:00] AK: Okay, cool.

[0:07:00] Sade: All right.

[0:07:01] AK: Up in the States, let's get yes.

[0:07:03] Sade: Well done.

[0:07:03] AK: Who. Are.

[0:07:04] Sade: Welcome into the family.

[0:07:05] AK: Okay, I'm welcome to the family. Megan Nastallion, you know? Yes, I really am. Because I think that people really think that Megan's on trial, and she actually isn't. Not on trial. And people need to give her a break. I honestly think that whatever's happened, one thing we know for sure was that she was shot, and that was wrong, and people just need to give her a break. Actually, I hope justice is served. But obviously we'll talk about the trial, I'm assuming, a little bit later. But, yeah, I just really just send in her love and support, really and truly. Because at the end of the day, she was shot, man. Regardless of the circumstance, regardless who she's been with, whatever. Like, someone hurt her, and that's not right.

[0:07:53] Sade: Welcome, Megan.

[0:07:54] AK: Welcome, Megan.

[0:07:56] Sade: Now, what have you heard? What have we heard? What have we heard? What have we heard in the news and culture streets?

[0:08:01] AK: I know.

[0:08:01] Sade: Who's going first?

[0:08:02] AK: Who's going first?

[0:08:05] AK: Well, I thought there was a running order. And you have to stick to the running order, guys. The running order is so important. Running order. Have you missed me? Yeah. Running order. Have you not looked? It's a running order. It's me. That's why I'm acting up. All right, so these times now, unless you've been living under a rock you've heard about can't stop, won't stop, making babies, having girlfriends, diddy papa, diddy pup. Right? So basically, Diddy came out and said, out of the blue, me named all his children and then said we're welcome him. Love Sean.

[0:08:52] AK: I mean, how narcissistic is it that you named the baby Love Sean? But anyway, he's had another baby and it's not with Karisha. But my thing is this year have you not seen how people have been coming for Karisha? They're not really coming for Diddy, they're coming for Karisha. And I'm just like, Hold on a minute, what is that? Why is it acceptable for people to come for her and start telling her about her business when it's just like, did he have another baby? School. And then the next week after he announces having the baby, he seemed with some next chick. And then even yesterday he was seen with some next chick. It's like, how many women are on his roster and no one's talking about that. But you don't want to come for Karisha to the point where she's having to defend herself. And that's the part that I don't like. Just want to get your opinion on that, ladies.

[0:09:40] AK: Yeah, I saw that. Did he tweet it? And he was like he basically said she's not the side shake. Like, have a bit more respect for her, that sort of kind of thing, because she's special to him.

[0:09:53] AK: Shorty.

[0:09:54] Sade: Whoops? Shorty?

[0:09:56] AK: Which man had to Google because I was like, what the fuck is it shorty up? And then even then it come up, apparently. Apparently. And this is after Me going through the Internet, apparently it means woman of hang on. Woman of not value. Because it's a P. Fuck. What is it? Purpose. Woman of purpose. That's what apparently means.

[0:10:18] Sade: Okay, I just thought it was like a nickname of purpose. Little dies or something.

[0:10:26] AK: She's his shorty woman of purpose.

[0:10:28] AK: Okay. I just thought, like, yeah, I feel for her, because she shouldn't you know, it's just really misogynistic, isn't it? I mean, behavior of people on the internet in mass and it's just that it must get really draining. She's chosen to be in this type of relationship with him. She's made that choice. It seems like she's informed and she knows what she's doing, so people shouldn't really have a problem with it. Would I choose that for myself? No, absolutely not. But I'm not her. She's not me. Do you know what I mean? I don't know. Sometimes I feel like people just got suffered to say and the fact is that Diddy, I mean, he's the one who's had to love a child.

[0:11:15] Sade: Did.

[0:11:16] AK: He did.

[0:11:21] Sade: But the thing is, I think there's a few things going on. I've seen people coming for Diddy as well, and especially because it's like Diddy, are you all right? What's going on here? And, you know, well, there's that. And they're saying you've gone past the midlife age, so why he's eleven to midlife crisis. But the thing is, I guess it's like he hasn't actually done anything wrong, per se. So coming for Diddy wouldn't make sense in that specific way. If you're going to come in for Diddy for having another child.

[0:11:51] AK: Why are people coming for career? At the end of the day, he's the one who's had a child. People see them as them being in a relationship. No, but he's had a child. Ah, no, no. What I'm saying, like it does make sense coming for him because he's the one he's had.

[0:12:10] Sade: I think it makes sense. I think it makes sense not to come for anybody in this scenario because they both made it clear, and Karisha's made it clear that we're not in a relationship, we're seeing each other. I'm getting what I want, he's getting what he wants. And so that's why people shouldn't be coming for her because she's as far as it's aware and this I want to explore is that they are both two clues up human beings who are living their life the way that they want to and everyone's fine. So did, he hasn't had a child out on her. No at all. But no one should.

[0:12:39] AK: But the thing is that's why people.

[0:12:40] Sade: Are remix and they shouldn't be coming for her.

[0:12:41] AK: Yeah.

[0:12:41] Sade: However, I think the perception that Karisha has put out on some of her posts for someone that is living the city go life and night, this is just essentially like a guy that she's messing with for fun, unfortunately. And I cannot because I do not know her. I think this is the one thing we do not know Karisha. So either or is all an opinion, but what is displayed seems to be a bit more that she's into him in a way that's not backing up her. This is just us messing about. So I think that's what that's what people are coming from. Because people are saying that because I don't follow her specifically, but I'm going by what I see on the blogs that report back the story commenter saying that when you said that, she was quoted as saying I love the way he makes me feel, or something like that. Something that was more implying that you like him more than the persona that you're putting out there. That's a lot of people, a lot of people have rephrased and actually have physically quoted and screamed.

[0:13:37] AK: No, I know she said that on.

[0:13:39] Sade: The back of that. I'm like that is why people are challenging her. Whether it's right or wrong. I don't agree. I don't know about that. But there's also a whole thing of putting your shit outside. People are going to talk. So it's either celebrities don't talk about your shit because you're going to get come back.

[0:13:53] AK: So there's all these thing is like you said here, they're both two consenting adults. They both consented to this type of relationship that they're in. Okay? So whether or not she's come out and she said I like the way you make me feel, I love the way you make me feel. He could fuck ten young. He's not getting no one saying nothing to him about it. But they're saying, oh, look at you, you're an idiot. But she said already, like I'm caught with how it is the fact that people are on her dick, so to speak here I find it infuriating because again, it's like a woman is not allowed to have a relationship with a man and explore her sexuality without people coming for her. And just because she isn't just because they're not together or just because she said that I really like this man that I'm doing whatever I'm doing with people are coming for her. They're saying you're an idiot now. But she's not an idiot because she's already said this is what I want.

[0:14:43] AK: But the thing is this is what I'm saying. It's just like they're getting onto her for saying words. He gave her a whole show.

[0:14:52] Sade: That's what he's done. Because I think it is the displays of behavior I haven't looked at did he's paid compared to how he posted.

[0:15:06] AK: That is behavior.

[0:15:11] AK: Even his comeback for what he said? People still haven't when he responded to all the media hype and people calling her a side chick even after he responded to that, it's more like he's still getting a little pat on the back.

[0:15:28] Sade: There's honestly a defense of men. My human response to this, what I'm seeing people doing is that people don't believe and I think this is where the misogyny comes in. People find it hard to believe that women can really have up men and just be like, I'm just fucking and doing this because people have also said so did these display of women where's your display of guys people are also not looking at a woman can just be banging on a guy getting having fun. She doesn't have to have a roster of men just because she's banging one.

[0:15:57] AK: Guy also doesn't have to display that's my point exactly.

[0:16:01] AK: She made it clear that she is single.

[0:16:03] AK: She made it clear that she's single and she also made it clear that she does her thing too.

[0:16:07] Sade: But that's what I'm saying.

[0:16:08] AK: Because you're not seeing the radio doesn't mean that she.

[0:16:15] Sade: Can'T exactly.

[0:16:16] AK: Do you know what I mean? She's going to be seen as different if she's dating didn't she can't be seen to be dating anybody else.

[0:16:22] Sade: Yeah, and but and it is a question of if she was to roll out her men the way now even though did he's not specifically rolling out these women. He's been sent in a sense, paparazzi with these people and I think with his child being born, he has to make the announcement. But if she was dating other guys and Lydia knows about it, would he actually because, you know, we have that conversation as well. Like girls that actually say I'm going to be multiply dating guys that are like yeah, I can have multiple women, but the woman can't. This is a very unbalanced society where if she was actually really dating other guys, would did he be approving? Would did he be still be like, yeah, that's my shorty world.

[0:17:01] AK: That's what the situation is.

[0:17:02] AK: I also hate that they try to bring Cassie into it. She's out there living her life with her husband and her they were like, What's Cassie going to say? Cassie's now?

[0:17:12] Sade: People are stupid, though.

[0:17:19] AK: Did he's got other things to worry about because Audrey.

[0:17:24] Sade: She was on Caller.

[0:17:25] AK: Daddy the other day, and she'd done an interview and she basically alluded that. There was something going on. She was pressurized to maybe have some sort of relationship with Diddy, do you know what I mean? While she was old kind of thing. And that's essentially why she got fired and why the group got disbanded. So, yeah, it's just Danny Kane, obviously, this is all allegedly at the moment, do you know what I mean? But he's got other things to worry about, because this is the thing, as we say, hip hop hasn't really had a proper me too.

[0:18:01] AK: We know that. Did he did some shady things. Even if you look at just the fact of how he is shady, for me as an adult, to have Usher as a youth around, and you're bringing big women to him, but also, as.

[0:18:15] AK: Well, just like, they didn't get any like, so many artists just didn't get paid. Do you know what I mean? In terms of what he's accumulated, like, on the backs of who right?

[0:18:30] AK: There's not one person from Bad Boy, an artist that is, like, living like he's living.

[0:18:36] Sade: Okay, let's see what happens. And unfolds. Well, what's your story on Shadow?

[0:18:43] AK: It depends. What is my story?

[0:18:52] Sade: My story is we did explore Megan stallions, the case that was unfolding. And it's just.

[0:19:02] AK: I don't know where.

[0:19:03] Sade: To start because you mentioned it as why welcoming her to the family, all this backlash that she's had to fight. Basically, the bottom line is she's been shot. I believe it's straight from the jump that she was shot. I didn't know about the Kelsey element. And I think my question was actually because Kelsey's former best friend, he was at the scene as well, and they fell out based on, I think on what fell out, the aftermath of the shooting. And I think Kelsey fancied Tori Lanes, and so she sided with him and didn't side of Megan and all this type of stuff. And overall, for those of you who don't know, megan Stanley was seeing Tory Lanes. They went to a gathering. On the record, they're changing to a gathering. It wasn't a party at Kawak, Kylie Jenner's place.

[0:19:47] AK: Well, that's what they're saying.

[0:19:48] Sade: Like, it wasn't a party, allegedly.

[0:19:50] AK: So Kelsey was seeing Tory and Megan allegedly was seeing Tory behind Kelsey.

[0:19:54] AK: Oh, really?

[0:19:55] AK: Allegedly.

[0:19:58] Sade: Either way, it's friendship messing around each other whatever the case, obviously, Megan has.

[0:20:03] AK: Come out and said that previously, when she done an interview with girl, she didn't have any sort of relationship with Tori's, sexual relationship with Tori, and they were never public. So it was Kelsey was the girl.

[0:20:15] Sade: Interesting, because when I saw her starting to be around with Tori Lanes and basically through the world in pictures on social media, I actually thought it was out there that they were dating and seeing each other. So I missed that. So anyway, how it's transpired something happened when they left Cardi Jenner's Place and which resulted in Tori Lanes being accused of shooting Megan the stallion in her foot. She definitely got shot. And it's alleged that it's Tori Lanes. And it's also slightly there's rumors that it could have been Kelsey. I think my thing was like, what do you do in this situation anyway? It's just exploring it, explaining what your thoughts are about the case. And everything has got to be allegedly because we don't know the answers.

[0:20:58] AK: I mean, we can say she got shot because it's factually.

[0:21:01] AK: That's improving.

[0:21:04] AK: Yeah, we can talk about that. What I find astounding is that at first, Tori's whole defense was she wasn't sure exactly. There was no shooting, and now she was shot, but Kelsey did it, and Kelsey's pled the Fifth. She's got what's the thing?

[0:21:23] Sade: Immunity.

[0:21:23] AK: She's got immunity. But they said to her so she's got immunity. And she has admitted that. He said to her that he'll pay for her lawyer. She's admitted that he offered her and other people she's alluded to a million dollars now, tory, what are you offering her a million dollars for?

[0:21:45] Sade: Exactly.

[0:21:46] AK: And then she's saying, either I plead the Fifth, or I don't recall what. He didn't say what it was for. Then there's text messages where he's saying, apologizing for what happened. She's saying that she didn't know Megan went to the hospital. And then there's text messages proving that she did know. She's saying that she didn't see any blood, but there's things alluding to the.

[0:22:09] AK: Fact that she did.

[0:22:10] AK: It's just like, I just don't understand why in all of this falsities, you can clearly see that Megan not Megan. So you can clearly see that Kelsey's lying about something. Tory's lying about something. Megan said she got shot. She got shot. So it's like, why are people still coming for Meghan and questioning Megan and making it about who she's been with and who she hasn't been with? It doesn't matter who she lay down with. It doesn't matter if she lay down with half of La. The point is she got shot.

[0:22:45] AK: Yeah.

[0:22:46] AK: And someone needs to pay for that.

[0:22:48] AK: The thing is, I think, like, what we're probably seeing so the twist that I didn't see was that Kelsey is actually married. He works for one of the record labels.

[0:23:15] AK: Of course he does.

[0:23:16] AK: Basically in dispute with Roc Nation. So he works for the record label that Megan used to be with you. What I mean?

[0:23:26] AK: She could have literally yes, that's it. She could have literally signed something. It's all it's even messy.

[0:23:35] AK: Exactly. So it makes it so difficult. It makes sense why, number one, Megan didn't tell the truth to the police because she was trying to protect both of them, technically, you know what I mean? Her friend, and then also Tory, and then also, I think, what I think happened okay, this is my favorite.

[0:24:02] AK: Yeah.

[0:24:02] AK: Anyway, we need to recap this when Nana's back. But I think they were at the pool party, whatever it was, kylie and Tori were getting a bit close. I think both of them didn't like it, but they were for let's go. I think at one point, she was they were supposed to go back because I think they left without Tori. And then Megan insisted that they go back and get Tori. And then I think Tori's probably I think what he's done is like, why are you trying to flock me? And then it's kind of slipped out that Megan was sleeping with Tory, and then Kelsey didn't know. Sorry. Megan and Kelsey get into it, and then it's going flying back and forth, flying back and forth. And then that's why Tory because Megan I think her mouth yeah, her mouth is a lot do you know what I mean? And then he shot her. That's what I think happened. Do you know what I mean? Because it doesn't expect there's so many things that you can't expect if Kelsey's.

[0:25:03] AK: Married fucking Hour husband. But it's going to be like, tori is going to try and cover up these tracts of do you know what I mean?

[0:25:14] AK: Because it's embarrassing, first of all, do you know what I mean? And it's just like, well, your ties to the company that's trying to mess up her future. Do you know what I mean? And it's just like, you know, all these people behind the scenes are connected anywhere. That's why you got people like Joe Budding coming out and saying something.

[0:25:43] Sade: Is.

[0:25:44] AK: Genuinely also Drake song. I'm sorry.

[0:25:50] Sade: That'S disgusting.

[0:25:54] AK: Because then he tried to come out and say he tried to come out and say because she's on the side where, oh, he didn't mean that. Then a lot of people read it as ass shots.

[0:26:05] Sade: Not getting shot.

[0:26:07] AK: No, he knew what he was doing. It's wordplay he said he said stallion in one bit and shot in another. Then they've come out and said it's ass shots. But it's not the point. You know what?

[0:26:24] AK: You're saying our shots doesn't make sense for Megan. She doesn't do you know?

[0:26:26] AK: But the whole what they're trying to make out is like the lyric is you're lying about having our shots the.

[0:26:36] Sade: Same way Megan's lying about being saying.

[0:26:38] AK: That you're a stallion. You're saying you're a stallion, but you had our shots. Some shit like that. Anyway. But basically, he knew what he was doing. It's workplace. It's not acceptable. It's not acceptable to come and hang out.

[0:26:52] AK: I mean, like, you know what you're doing. I don't know why. The thing is, actually I do know why. Because actually, unfortunately for Tory, what he's been charged with is 22 years. Yeah, that's what he's looking at. So it's a long time. I can understand why Megan could be even a person, even though she is a person that got shot in the beginning. She'd be even I don't even want anyone to.

[0:27:19] Sade: Pulling the police on a black man in this space, all that type of stuff.

[0:27:22] AK: And they were scared as well. Like, what would have happened if he came.

[0:27:26] Sade: That's what black. And we're in a situation where there's so many things we can't just act because the same thing. Just as a side note, with Gunner right now, he's been released from the YSL case and everyone's calling him a snitch. I don't really know the ins and outs and whether he can be considered a snitch or not because he confirmed some things in order for him to come out. But then people like these things are already on the record, so if he's got a chance to come out but just generally there's so much black people.

[0:27:51] AK: Grains in us, isn't it? You can't snitch even if your own life is at risk.

[0:28:00] AK: I think it's unwise to have that in a filmed scenario. Do you know what I mean? That's the thing. Unfortunately, no matter how you look at it, you're being filmed, agreeing to something. That's what we'll live on. That's what stay in people's mind. It's just like with Kelsey, it's just like, are you stupid or are you dark? Which one do you know what I mean?

[0:28:24] AK: Oh my God. Did you hear what someone said? Someone was like if they took a bird's brain and put it in let me land you're not saying anymore.

[0:28:37] AK: Okay, but what I was going to.

[0:28:40] AK: Say which left.

[0:28:50] AK: With Kelsey, I just think it's just like this is why I always say if a friendship is.

[0:28:55] AK: Not there for you, get rid of that part. See that? Out of everything. Out of everything. Yeah. That's the bit that I'm like. What a fucking snake. What a snake. And that like you said, it's painful for her to see her breadren her like, bestie do that. Oh my God. I'd run you over with my car.

[0:29:17] AK: Do you know why?

[0:29:18] AK: That's why I wouldn't really but I'd want to.

[0:29:20] Sade: Yes. I kind of don't like reality shows. And I know it's not because I think that I feel like the sensationalism of how women because it's all of the type of reality shows where the back bite in the friend stabbing and we're frenemies. It became a kind of brandy thing. It came like, this is how we are. And I don't think I've not had friends that are like that. But I feel like that's perpetuated in those type of snails and shows like women is always going through each other.

[0:29:47] AK: No, there is that misconception that women are always going through each other. We're not talking about that.

[0:29:51] AK: No, I know.

[0:29:54] Sade: I know. I'm just saying what that type of thing is perpetuated like and people like Kelsey, it just seemed to be like a thing. Like it's not that it's okay, but it's what women are like. And there's a lot of people in the public eye where that type of bitchy cat earness between people are supposed to be friends is a thing. Because there's so many things, like from the girls that don't tell each other about what they're wearing to bite in on each other because of the love of a man and this kind of social media weirdness that's sexism as well.

[0:30:22] AK: Because men do not want to go representation anyway.

[0:30:27] AK: And I think it is. Do you know what I mean? I think that people watch those shows because they see it play out in real life. I think obviously it's dramatized, of course. Do you know what I mean? But had this not happened, I wouldn't think anything of Kelsey.

[0:30:43] AK: Do you know what I mean?

[0:30:46] AK: It's just that it's only because these details have unfolded now we've seen who her character is, you know what I mean? But I didn't think of and even with Megan, I don't know to say she did sleep with these guys behind Kelsey's back then. Kelsey, that shouldn't be your friend, isn't it?

[0:31:07] Sade: Yeah, exactly.

[0:31:10] AK: Unless you are pulling revenge for your Kelsey, you know what I mean?

[0:31:15] AK: But Kelsey, you've got a whole husband.

[0:31:17] Sade: That's the thing.

[0:31:21] AK: Don't get me wrong. You can't do that to your bridge. I can't, that's true. But you've got a whole free husband. It's not like that's the love of your life, but your father has a.

[0:31:31] AK: Whole husband, an understanding, you know, because you know, when you roll your good friend and they got a member, they might cheat when you guys go out.

[0:31:42] AK: Yeah, I get that. Not like Meg went and fucked her husband for me is like raw that's it someone you're banging. But this is what I'm saying, allegedly.

[0:31:56] AK: So she knows that you're not supposed to be banging him.

[0:31:59] AK: So everyone's man, that's my point.

[0:32:07] Sade: But yeah, anyway.

[0:32:14] AK: He'S got missing.

[0:32:15] Sade: Yeah, he's supposed to come and see.

[0:32:17] AK: I wonder what he was supposed to because they must have like details of what he was supposed to let's hope.

[0:32:22] AK: He'S allegiances are probably going to be made.

[0:32:25] AK: Yeah, of course.

[0:32:27] AK: Well, money talks in it. We'll see.

[0:32:31] AK: I just think it's fascinating that everyone's standing for Tory that day.

[0:32:36] AK: That's a part.

[0:32:45] Sade: When this story came out, it was like yeah, you know what?

[0:32:48] AK: Anyway, I always find it strange in these kind of scenarios.

[0:32:52] AK: But also I do think like if you wanted a mistrial to say all three of them. Actually don't want Tory to go to jail for that amount of time, which is a fair and really sticks with him. If he wanted a mistrial that's this is exactly what you would do, that's.

[0:33:06] Sade: Him and Kelsey's conspiracy. But unfortunately, because she's got they're going to release her audio interview.

[0:33:12] AK: No, they don't.

[0:33:13] AK: Already?

[0:33:13] AK: Yeah, yeah.

[0:33:14] Sade: Like a full in 90, 80 minutes or something.

[0:33:16] AK: They've really they played in court, but.

[0:33:18] Sade: They haven't played the whole one. Well, the late they played the whole one now.

[0:33:22] AK: I don't know, but they played something.

[0:33:23] Sade: I thought it was Monday that they're going to play the whole thing. They play clips and they haven't played the whole thing because she's basically gone into so much.

[0:33:30] AK: Can I just say something else as well that I found super strange? Why do we have his six year old child in the court to show that he has a no, you're not a doting father if you're a six year old child listening to all these vile details. That's not doting. That's dickhead movement. That's not a good dad's.

[0:33:55] Sade: Bigger than him when he was carrying him. That is actually lost daddy.

[0:34:03] AK: Can I wear your shoes? Coffee kid.

[0:34:06] AK: I don't know. I don't know. I hope this doesn't really affect Megan too much. I feel like she's been through they.

[0:34:17] AK: Need they need to also play Tory's album. You know, the album that he released right after I swear there's evidence in that album. I swear. He says, I'm sure.

[0:34:25] Sade: But then we say we're not allowed to use our lyrics again.

[0:34:27] AK: No, because Kelsey released a track and.

[0:34:31] Sade: They mentioned that she releases If I.

[0:34:36] AK: Shot You oh, my God.

[0:34:41] Sade: On the track. And that's another thing.

[0:34:43] AK: But I think they do that. I don't know. Because obviously they've had two years right?

[0:34:47] AK: Yeah.

[0:34:47] AK: For this. So I think it's like if they want a mistrial, this is that would be perfect to do.

[0:34:53] AK: You know what I mean? This is a scene straight out of what's that shit you made me watch? Reasonable Doubt. It's reasonable doubt in it. Fucking hell of shit show.

[0:35:03] Sade: I saw it. I started laughing.

[0:35:05] AK: No, I watched it. I watched it. You watched Empire, didn't you?

[0:35:11] Sade: I stopped as well. Yeah.

[0:35:12] AK: No, I blatantly stopped that one series. Like, this is nonsense.

[0:35:17] AK: But the soundtrack is great.

[0:35:18] AK: The soundtrack is great, but it's nonsense.

[0:35:20] Sade: Have you seen on Black Twitter is the way they've clipped up all the scenes from Empire?

[0:35:24] AK: Oh, my God. Was dying.

[0:35:28] Sade: Oh, my God.

[0:35:29] AK: I loved Black Twitter so much, but it really made me remember some shit. And it's true. Like, eventually I decided, I'm not watching a shit on this is not Sanity. I missed a whole Lucious dreadlock thing. It's the clip of Cookie saying to him, oh, Jesus.

[0:36:00] Sade: Just placed it's ridiculous about it.

[0:36:28] AK: When my mom was sleeping with Alicia Keys and Lucia said to him, she killed you. What a fucking bad boy was at nine. But it was going power. I got into power late. Can I say stuff? If you see power. Yeah. That was me for the first, like.

[0:37:16] AK: For about four years.

[0:37:17] AK: Not even going to lie. For about four years, I kept trying to watch Power. And I'd get to the one episode on, I'd be like, this is nonsense here. Then one time on Instagram, people were going on about suffering that happened to Power. And I was like, what's that? So I watched the episode that they was talking about. Then I was like, I need to go back. So then I watched the whole thing actually lack power. Power was all right, nonsense again.

[0:37:41] Sade: But I was watching Power.

[0:37:43] AK: I prefer the nonsense that was going on eventually in Empire.

[0:37:46] Sade: Yeah, definitely. Because I started the empires like, no, I prefer Empire. And then but I thought, you know what?

[0:37:50] AK: I don't know why people compare them.

[0:37:56] Sade: We had the dynasty. Dallas wars.

[0:37:58] AK: No, but Dynasty Dallas made sense. If you watch Power, you cannot Dynasty.

[0:38:02] Sade: And dance.

[0:38:05] AK: On the same world.

[0:38:06] Sade: No, I get no, I didn't mind the rivalry because now it is what it is. Literally, Empire just got dumb and Power died off. How many videos?

[0:38:16] AK: I need to know.

[0:38:17] Sade: I'm shouting. What have you heard?

[0:38:19] AK: No, I'm going to talk about so my story is about the Meghan and Harry.

[0:38:25] AK: Sorry.

[0:38:27] AK: My story is about the Meghan and Harry documentary.

[0:38:31] AK: Netflix.

[0:38:33] AK: So general question. Really? What did you think?

[0:38:37] Sade: No, I'm so tired. Sorry. It's not you, baby girl.

[0:38:39] AK: I actually watched it last night. I didn't watch the whole thing.

[0:38:42] AK: I will finish it.

[0:38:43] AK: Me too. I've been to watch the whole thing.

[0:38:46] AK: Thoughts on it? What do you think? Do you think because obviously there's a few people that have just been up in arms, literally getting a whole you know what?

[0:38:55] AK: Having watched all of it now yet, because I wanted to wait until both parts came out so I could just watch it in one go. The people online are crazy. Did you hear what Jeremy Clarkson, jeremy.

[0:39:07] Sade: Carson used to go?

[0:39:08] AK: Honestly, did you see what Camilla did?

[0:39:11] Sade: Yeah.

[0:39:16] AK: Because he basically said that Megan should be paraded in the street and.

[0:39:20] AK: That he hates her on a cellular level, which is so insane.

[0:39:25] Sade: They also have shit thrown at her.

[0:39:27] AK: And he said, I think she's controlling her husband, Harry.

[0:39:31] AK: He thinks that it's Game of Thrones and it's not. And Megan is not.

[0:39:38] AK: I don't know how anyone can watch that documentary, right, and not understand what happened to that. It's so weird to me.

[0:39:48] Sade: Jeremy Carson problematic.

[0:39:50] AK: Anyway, Jeremy Cartson came out and said that. And then Camilla had some swari the other day. And who was that? The swari? Piers Morgan. Piers Morgan and Jeremy Carson. Now, if that's not saying fuck you, Harry and Meg, I don't know what is. Because how can you have the enemy?

[0:40:07] AK: There the thing is, I think sometimes we with that, although I don't think they should be fragmentizing with them at all. But I think the timing has nothing to do with anything. Do you know what I mean? I think it's just that plays out.

[0:40:26] AK: Yeah.

[0:40:26] AK: No, that's the beginning, but it's how the drama plays out in the media and they make it a thing. They position it against each other to make it.

[0:40:35] AK: They do. But my thing is, this year, if the firm can talk to Megan and say to her, your niece shouldn't come to your wedding because of how it might look. Yeah. And certain people can't come to places because of how it might look. Someone's not telling Camilla Piers and Jeremy Clarkson maybe shouldn't come to this ting because of how it might you can disinvite someone, you know?

[0:41:00] AK: No, definitely. I don't know when Clark I mean, I'm not going to defend their whole thing. It's like but I just think, like, it's placed do you know what I mean? We don't know the actual timeline. Do you know what I mean? No, necessary, you know, the timeline or the documentary and all that kind of stuff. So the way it's placed in the.

[0:41:16] AK: Middle, when was it?

[0:41:17] AK: When was the party so that's what I'm saying. In relation to what was said in relation to when the party was in relation to when the documentary came out.

[0:41:26] AK: This is what the media I understand that, but if the party was within the last week yeah, if the party was within the last week within the last however long since the documentary first in if the party was after the documentary first ID and I'm giving him them grace by even saying that fuck Clarkson for a minute. But you know Piers Morgan's on them in it. You know, Piers Morgan is a vile, malicious, disgusting man and a bully. A racist, Resolutionist bully. Yeah. So if you know that, you should and I understand about how the pieces get played, but this is why are.

[0:42:04] AK: We expecting anything more from them? I just don't know that. Do you know me?

[0:42:07] AK: That's not what I was disgusting to me.

[0:42:10] AK: I think, like, what I found interesting and it's actually I'm definitely, obviously against what's happened to them. I think we uniquely understand from a black British perspective, like, how black women in particular are destroyed by the press on a daily basis. So we see that. And we've seen that. I do think, though, that after watching the documentary, what I was left over is that this is definitely a couple that love each other, for sure. Do you know what I mean? And I think that Harry and Meghan both done what they could to kind of deal with it. Obviously, Harry's situation is very, very real in terms of his mother died under very similar circumstances. Right. Do you know what I mean? So in terms of being housed by the press. However, my issue with disconnecting, with it is just a little bit like megan was happy to be the face of Empire, though, do you know what I mean? She was happy and willing to be face of Empire, which I fundamentally have a problem with no matter who is.

[0:43:15] AK: Going to meet you.

[0:43:16] AK: Do you know what I mean? So that's where I kind of have a little bit of a disconnect as well. But I think also as well, this profound notion that she had no idea that she would be seen to be treated as a black person means you understand that black people who don't look like you are treated yes, she actually.

[0:43:42] AK: Said that in the documentary.

[0:43:45] AK: Yes, I know. But it was seen as her big age, that it was a new phenomenon for her, which just shows a disconnect. And I think there definitely needs to be I'm just like, well, what is that? And also as well, like Harry, I think it's when you're dealing with different cultures, different situations, not actually giving her the tools in able to deal with that situation. That for me was just that you failed your wife. You felt your girlfriend, you felt your fiance because you did not give her the tools. It's just like when with our family and stuff, being Nigerian and stuff, if someone comes that's not Nigerian into their family, you need to make sure that they're aware of what it is that they're expecting, whether they agree with it or not, but what they're going to be faced with. And I think he'd done her real disservice there. I just thought it was just that.

[0:44:42] AK: The thing is, though, I totally agree with you. My only thing is he did admit that and he did learn from that and he did things he should have known this before and he should have definitely armed her. It shouldn't have got to the point where he's making up for it. He should have armed her based on what had happened in previous relationship. He failed his wife.

[0:45:06] AK: He said that okay.

[0:45:09] Sade: I think they both came from real sense of places of ignorance, like heightened ignorance and privileged ignorance. Because Harry, especially in Harry being a man, I think there's an element of he wasn't saying about the dresses and how she looks. He remember he was talking about I didn't even think about those things. So there's an element of and again, they are royal men who have been able to Harry himself before at Heat and wherever he was, he's had this privileged lifestyle where he can do what he wants, when he wants. And he was always into the rogue. Little brother, naughty brother got into trouble and just like celebrated as the wild royal at one point, whether he liked it or not, we're seeing more insight to how he felt for what was presented to us in the press was his rogue. And there's going to be an element of that is me. I am a white privileged man. So the things that I can understand, the nuances that he he might have said, oh, look, it's going to be a lot because when they even disassociate themselves a little bit in the early stages stages of dating even when he said that, you know, I went to Africa with my with my like, to be girlfriend, and we kind of were in a bubble. He kind of knew there was going to be some madness, but I don't think he could fathom. This is not an excuse, though. I don't think he could fathom what was going to happen. So where he think his ignorance? I definitely think he did his wife at his service. I don't think he prepared her, but I literally don't think he even really thought about it, because men have that privilege, especially the men in this family have not been taught or raised to care for women.

[0:46:31] Sade: So I think he had that until you've met someone that forced him to understand what care and love in a relationship is. Because remember also when there was a moment when I was like, because you are your father's son as well, and your grandfather's grandchild. Because there was a moment when he said, yeah, when she was upset, he's uncomfortable. Switch it up. You don't get him.

[0:46:52] AK: He said, Harry, the royal took over. Harry the person and the boyfriend or the fiance, whatever.

[0:46:59] Sade: So I definitely think you're right, he did a disservice. But there's not even a but that comes from from my assessment, his ignorance, because he just did not it says you give a faf to give a fuck or ever give a fuck, and he just thought she might have.

[0:47:14] AK: No, you're right. But what was interesting to me as well is because if we were talking about Megan and her not fully understanding the black experience fully, it's because she's mixed and she's of a fairest skin. Here. What was interesting to me is that when the conversation with her mum and her mum saying that I didn't arm my kid, and that reminded me of the whole, you know, that documentary, that leanne pinnacle, and it's so important to arm your kids, because that was a bubble that she was in, and that's.

[0:47:42] Sade: Why she could coast through in that space. And if you look at her friendship circles and you know, there are certain black parents I'm not putting that on Dario specifically, but who knows? There are black parents who are like, you know what? My child especially maybe if my child could actually not to say she was saying that you could pass, but you're going to have an easier life than maybe I did as a darker skinned parent. Or being in that space of privilege where you're going to privileged schools or you're all right. You're coming through this line and you're actually clever. You could go this route, and I don't have to put that pressure of being black on you because you're actually going to coach through so she avoided it for her daughter, which she admitted. So Megan being in those circles and climbing the social rankings as well and getting into celebrity of them and all that type of stuff, and never have to really deal with being with colorism.

[0:48:28] AK: And stuff like that.

[0:48:29] Sade: But I do I think sorry, go on. I think that that's what kept us super ignorant and kept her thinking, I can come in here and change things up, and Americans have that ballsy brushing us as well. Like everyone loves an american. We can take control of that. And I'm not going to run into problems because I've been this color mixed race. I'm black, as black as I can be, and it's been a fine for everybody because I've been accepted in my spaces.

[0:48:51] AK: But she see, I don't think that she says that she was accepted in spaces fully because she says, she says and this is something that mixed race people do talk about and they're allowed to talk about. This is their experience that then they're two, they're not black enough and they're not white enough. Yeah, and I think she says that. Yeah. And she says that's why she felt quite lonely. You know what I mean? So while she recognized I'm not getting a black girl treatment, it's not to say that she wasn't getting no, I.

[0:49:24] Sade: Meant I thought I mean, that's what I meant.

[0:49:28] AK: But I going back to what Aunty Sharde said. I fully agree with you about. She was ignorant to think that, oh, it's okay. I'm going to be the face of the because for me, why would you.

[0:49:38] AK: Want to be why would you imagine institution by everything? And also, as well, they don't get brownie points. I just don't want for me, they can't get brownie points for me by saying, oh, now we don't like it. Because if it was going your way, you would have been fine.

[0:49:56] AK: The only thing with that is I kind of feel like I kind of feel like every now and like, you see, like, when they went to Africa and just even little things where she would say stuff, and it's like they'd be looking at her like that. When she went to Africa on their tour, and she was talking about being a woman of color and stuff like that, here the backlash of that. So it's almost as though she thought she could say, I'm a woman of color, and I'm representing the crown. But the thing is, they like it.

[0:50:28] AK: Rather than that she could use they both knew this is what I'm saying. But comedy, that's the win over my country.

[0:50:39] Sade: But also, there's that element of when people that see that our love can break racism, that falsehood is also a thing because they believe that our unity will change the monarchy love wins. It's not that because that's when people really believe that, oh, it's nothing. It's just black and white. Love is just love. It's not when there's actual political ties to relationships, love, race, financial ties.

[0:51:08] AK: The Royal family. What it showed me, what I knew already but what it really showed me is what's that program that you look, watch? Yeah. It's a business, man. It's a multi million business and they are not letting that go.

[0:51:25] AK: It's Williams Inheritance, right?

[0:51:27] AK: When he said that, I thought, he knows what he's talking about.

[0:51:30] AK: It's inheritance and they need the commonwealth for them to continue. So this is what I'm saying. So fundamentally, you wanted to be a.

[0:51:42] Sade: Part of but I want that.

[0:51:43] AK: I have a problem. So now you're out. You can reassess. Do you know what I mean? And now you different people. So then call. I can take you as if you were still on that role. No.

[0:51:57] Sade: That was never the cool thing. I wonder if even if they were in and accepted, if one day she would have been like, nah, this doesn't work for me. I wonder.

[0:52:04] AK: That's why we're saying to you sometimes when she say speeches, when they go places, her way of fought and the way that she would have I don't think she would have just because the things that she was saying, it was like raw family.

[0:52:19] AK: Number one. Our press is probably the one.

[0:52:22] AK: Oh, my God.

[0:52:25] Sade: When diners like, just leave me.

[0:52:27] AK: Do you see the bits? Those were heartbreaking, honestly. Did you see the clip of the analysts that worked out that there was 83 accounts? What did they say? 157,000 tweets. They read hate tweets and they only came over a million or 17 million. Yeah. And it only came for 83 million.

[0:52:50] AK: And they were White Housewives.

[0:52:52] AK: Yeah. What do we say? But yeah, when we spoke about before.

[0:52:58] Sade: The anger that people have, it's so white. And it's like even with Collette doing the rounds on the news show and when she brought up the latest one I've seen, she brought up Prince Andrew, the subject changes. So it's like, you know, and it's so weird when humans are like, we know. So then Stop.

[0:53:22] AK: Continues gaslighting that racism doesn't exist. A utopian, multicultural society.

[0:53:28] AK: Let's look at Andrew, you know, because.

[0:53:32] AK: Randomly, as someone said on TikTok, that what is random is that lily but and what other ones? Archie that their grandmother is the queen and the godmother is Tyler Perry good father.

[0:53:50] AK: Medea.

[0:53:54] AK: That'S the situation we're in. Because they had to escape. They had to escape. Imagine you have to escape. Bruce.

[0:54:06] AK: People want to kill them. And you are just like, go back to business. And you saw that's, what they did to Diana, they just let her the.

[0:54:12] Sade: Energy is just a lot. In all the stories that we've talked about today, the comments, people's comment, people are mad. You're actually incensed about people you don't.

[0:54:21] AK: Know that they were getting so angry about when she was joking about doing that. Why is she left? To be racist about our culture. And she said, oh, is bowing important now? Then? Wait, so taking kneeling is important now? Yeah, now you don't want us to kneel? Okay, let's move on.

[0:54:54] Sade: Sitting here so low, thinking what I'm going to do without my right hand.

[0:55:02] AK: I put the pecket on the glass.

[0:55:12] AK: Cut.

[0:55:12] AK: It a closed door. What? The door and the microwave. What is wrong with you?

[0:55:20] Sade: Exactly. What is wrong with my auntie?

[0:55:37] AK: I knew I had one. Right. So I'm going to read the thread right, okay. Between two friends. Okay. So one friend says that she says, don't wear your makeup today. Wait, why? Well, it's just going to be you and my boyfriend, so you don't need to. Yeah, but, I mean, we're going out, so I'm probably going to lol okay. I'm just saying that it's weird if you wear your makeup when it's just me and my boyfriend. What? I don't understand. Just don't wear makeup. Lol. Why do you care so much?

[0:56:08] AK: You're weird thoughts?

[0:56:15] Sade: The boyfriend's like, oh, your foot looks nice or something. And he fancies her. She doesn't like her girlfriend looking amazing about her man.

[0:56:22] AK: She needs to kill Winston.

[0:56:23] Sade: I wear that's nonsense.

[0:56:25] AK: How can you be telling your budget, don't wear makeup? It's just it is weird. Why? And then you're getting defensive and being like, I don't understand why you need to because maybe she likes to wear makeup. What's the problem?

[0:56:34] Sade: Is it impossible? That means you're just jealous I'm not.

[0:56:37] AK: Wearing it for you.

[0:56:37] AK: Not even jealous. It's insecure, like you said first.

[0:56:42] AK: Yeah, it's both.

[0:56:44] AK: Why are you my friend as well, if that's what you're going to be doing?

[0:56:48] Sade: Me and Tony are going out.

[0:56:50] AK: Why did you say Tony?

[0:56:51] Sade: Oh, my God.

[0:56:55] AK: Sorry.

[0:56:57] AK: Look at that. Look how physically ill that sorry.

[0:56:59] Sade: Me and Tovante are going out.

[0:57:01] AK: There you go.

[0:57:02] Sade: Giofonte Rhodes. Hi. There you go. My teenager daughter needs a home, but I really don't want to be a mom.

[0:57:11] AK: Say it again.

[0:57:12] Sade: My husband's teenage daughter needs home.

[0:57:14] AK: Did you say surprise teenage daughter?

[0:57:16] AK: Yeah.

[0:57:16] Sade: Did you read this? No. My husband's surprised teenage daughter needs a home. I really don't want to be a mum. I didn't want to open up. What? We could run from there, but actually the surprise.

[0:57:25] AK: Yeah, I want to open the surprise.

[0:57:27] Sade: Husband and I never wanted children. We prefer to travel and spoil our dogs. He got the snit before we met.

[0:57:35] AK: Our dogs.

[0:57:39] Sade: It is what it is. Only six months ago, he found that he had a 13 year old daughter from a college fling. The mother baby gave up the baby to a relative for adoption, only for the family to have fallen apart. When the adoptive mother died, a relative tracked my husband down on social media, and we've had a paternity test done. The adoptive father dumped his daughter with the birth family and never looked back. The daughter is currently sleeping on the couch of a great aunt who has no stable adult in her life. The grandparents are disabled and sickly. My logical mother is in jail and the rest of the family isn't.

[0:58:06] AK: Great girl, you need to take that child.

[0:58:09] Sade: My husband feels obligated to take Ellen.

[0:58:12] AK: And so he should.

[0:58:13] Sade: We talk to the child via phones and zoom. She seemed perfectly nice and she's had a bad hand, but I have no idea how to parent a teenager. I had severe mental health issues growing up, and while therapy and medicine have helped, it isn't a cure all. My own mother suffered from severe depression and was told that having a baby would fix her. Instead, she had my brother and me and took her own life. When I was a teen, I refused to take that. I know my own capacity and taking on the full time care of travel team, isn't it? If she was much older or younger, I would be fully on board financially. But she's too young to live alone and too old for a nanny. We have given the great. Okay, so help. I'm not a mother, so there's a bit more deeper than that. This is from dear Prudence.

[0:58:49] AK: Oh, my God, this is so deep.

[0:58:51] Sade: It is a lot, you know it's.

[0:58:52] AK: A lot because she's what she's saying I totally get where she's coming from. I totally get where she's coming from.

[0:58:56] Sade: Yeah.

[0:58:57] AK: That's why she's made a conscious decision that she doesn't want to have no children. I totally get it. All the mental health, all the shit that she's been through, I totally understand it. But then, oh, my God, it's almost like she's going to be putting this child through some shit. I don't know what to say.

[0:59:11] Sade: She might not. That's another thing. And this child might be a blessing for her. You never know.

[0:59:14] AK: It might be, but how'd you feel, it's a lot.

[0:59:17] AK: I can't rate anyone that spoils dogs more than people.

[0:59:21] AK: Me too. I forgot that part. I forgot that part because that was one of her first lines. What's? That your first line? We prefer to spend our money.

[0:59:31] AK: Seriously, if you've got money to spend on dogs and you've got potentially money for a babysitter, you can't.

[0:59:39] AK: The other line was that she said she's too young for a nanny and too old to live by herself in between.

[0:59:47] Sade: She doesn't want a teenager. She doesn't want a teenager.

[0:59:49] AK: But you would help financially, so therefore you can use that money after school program. You can structure it so that she's still out.

[0:59:59] Sade: I think she's been like she well knows that finance is not going to take it. This girl needs I understand her fear.

[1:00:07] AK: You can get a therapist for her.

[1:00:10] AK: You can get a therapist for all of her.

[1:00:12] AK: She can have friends or whatever and help her. And maybe it's more of the dad's helping and maybe responsibility. That's one of the coldest things you can do. You can't deny. And also, you can't be the barrier between a father and she cannot she.

[1:00:35] Sade: Has to you know what I mean? Seriously, I'm not angry at her at this point, because, again, from what she's stated, it's actually commendable that she's definitely even recognizing the fact that she's damaged and that she doesn't inflict that. But what she shouldn't do is use that as a crutch to let the child not come home, and she shouldn't be a barrier between the father and child. Yeah, she definitely has to let that child come home and figure it out. But she can't not really, really selfish, in my opinion.

[1:01:04] AK: I think she's the thing is, I really yeah, but the whole thing, until she starts talking about her part, I understood, like, I was like, what the fuck is this bitch talking about? You need to suck it up and get the child. But I do empathize with her. But that doesn't mean that I still think she needs to take the kids.

[1:01:19] AK: Having children is obviously, you guys know, there's no perfect scenario, there's no perfect way to be a parent.

[1:01:27] AK: Yeah.

[1:01:27] AK: Do you know what I mean? It's never going to be perfect, so you just have to deal with it.

[1:01:31] Sade: But, yeah, she's asking for help. I think then she's I think that's what it is.

[1:01:35] AK: Get a therapist, get the child a therapist, get some structure, get them into a good school. You seem financially capable because you're spoiling fucking dolph.

[1:01:45] AK: Do you know what I mean?

[1:01:48] AK: You got to suck it up, you got to make it work. Because if you're and the kid might.

[1:01:53] AK: Not want you to be a mum to her, you don't have to be a mum to her, you just have to be adult communications.

[1:01:58] Sade: And if you clear communication in that household, lots of talking and sorting out, all right, then, that's done. What's made you sad, mad and glad this week?

[1:02:10] AK: What has made you sad, mad and glad this week?

[1:02:12] Sade: What's made me sad? A few things.

[1:02:18] AK: I can go to go on. Yes. So, first of all, the sad is the Asaka concert, where, unfortunately, I think up to eight people injured and two people died.

[1:02:29] Sade: Now, two one heard about a girl.

[1:02:32] AK: And one is speculation. So, yeah, as you said, Rebecca, unfortunately, has passed away. So I appealed to her and it's just awful. I mean, there's a lot of footage out there, there's a lot of stories and people saying what should be done. I do like having worked at that venue before, obviously I wasn't there, do you know what I mean? But I definitely know that from working there terms of security and structure and all that kind of stuff. Yeah.

[1:03:09] AK: I remember me and you having a discussion and again, you weren't there. At this particular thing, but just talking about how the management of the venue went with the security. I remember you telling me some shit.

[1:03:19] Sade: Too many things happen at that venue.

[1:03:21] AK: Yeah, it's too much. The thing is because a lot of people are trying to blame him, and the thing is, it's so far from that. Do you know what I mean? It's how crowds are managed, do you know what I mean? There's multiple events at that place, do you know what I mean? And it's just like, I think people.

[1:03:44] AK: Misunderstanding that the artist isn't sitting down, asking people about the security. That's not what they're doing.

[1:03:50] AK: Exactly. So, yeah, I think there needs to be a massive yeah, exactly. So I think there just needs to be an investigation there, for sure. And then my mad was actually my journey to the studio today, to be honest, because thank you. Because friggin raining. I decided not to even get the tube. I'm never doing that again.

[1:04:15] AK: Did you get the tube?

[1:04:16] AK: Yeah.

[1:04:17] AK: You went on the tube? Yes. That's why it rained.

[1:04:21] AK: What is this?

[1:04:22] AK: What is this? What is this?

[1:04:26] AK: And stressed. It's raining. My hair got messed up and I was not happy. I really wasn't happy. I was just like, this is yeah, I know why I make certain choices and it's for me to be in a good mood. That really put me in a bad mood. So, no. And then I was glad, because this week, Aunty AK brought me to a fan and we watched Glass Onion, as you mentioned, Knife Out, and it was brilliant. And met Janae Renee, and she's just lovely. I just really like her.

[1:04:58] AK: Yeah, I do like her.

[1:04:59] AK: Very authentic, genuine, kind hearted person.

[1:05:04] Sade: Yes. My side is the state of men, because.

[1:05:11] AK: That'S what I've been shot in his land.

[1:05:18] Sade: I just think, like, because I've watched two films, she Said and Women Talking back to Back, and she said it's about the Harvey Weinstein story, the two New York Times journalists who broke the story on Harvey Weinstein. So it's just the coverage of that. And then Women Talking is set in the mennonite community and it's basically a true story back in 2010. On the back of that is a state of men. I don't like it. Maybe sad. Mad. My boot broke from Zara as I was walking down the street and I had to go and get another pair. And it may be mad and very mad at the people at the Asaki, the people that rumor glad it's an.

[1:05:51] AK: Elmer sad at DJ Twitch passing by suicide. Mad at the Weber and that I've had to put my heating on. Mad when my bill comes. Mad at the state of the play of the 21st century because I don't want to put my heating on and not have to worry about it. And glad to be back in the studio. I'm mad at this journey that's it guys.