If you're gonna let somebody deal with your trauma, you need to know

that they have some form of understanding. When

I first started going down this path, I just couldn't resonate with

the word coach. The stigma behind a coach

had been overused and also under-delivered. I've

had friends myself that have paid thousands of dollars

that have just been opened up and then left. And it's

because these coaches couldn't deal with

the trauma. Welcome to Krystal Rowe Impacts, a

space dedicated to empowering you to be the change that

your bloodline has been waiting for. Join me and together, let's

inspire change. Welcome back to the Krystal Rowe Impact

Podcast. And today I'm going to talk to you why I'm not

your average coach and why coaching is

so overrated. I don't know, maybe that's a

bit of a bold statement, but I want to talk to

you about what makes me different and why

I decided to go on this path of becoming a

coach or a mentor. And

when I first started going down this path and realizing that my passion

truly was to help and inspire people

to become a better version of themselves and to start

a business and to actually create a life by design, I

just couldn't resonate with the word coach. I

was just actually trying to come up with any term other

than a coach because I knew that the stigma behind a

coach had been one overused in the industry

and also under delivered. And

I've had friends myself that have paid thousands of

dollars that have just been opened up and then left.

And it's because These coaches couldn't

deal with the trauma. They hadn't experienced

or understood or had no insight onto

what it really was to have such trauma

unfold before them. And so when you

actually have somebody that is dealing with trauma,

you need to know, or if you're going to let somebody deal

with your trauma, you need to know that they have some

form of understanding, that they have some

idea of what you could have experienced. Very

quick story, when I was in the Women's Refuge, a part of the requirement

and staying there was that we had to do

one psychologist appointment every week. Every

week. And unfortunately, this

lady didn't have the skills to match

my experiences. And she would start the

sessions by saying, remember, I'm

in a woman's refuge. So she would remind me that she was

an experienced psychologist dealing with men in

prison. While I'm in a woman's refuge, you

want to tell me about men in prison. And that's your key skill.

Not at the time, at the time I didn't judge her or anything, but

every time I brought my issues to the

table, she, she had nothing. And there were

times that I would say something and she's writing down notes on,

on my quotes or, or my, my lines. And

I'm like, what the heck? And so I realized

that there was no value here. So I

would turn up and I would say the bare minimum

and wait that hour and I would go on my way. And

when I started on my self-healing journey and

my coaching journey, knowing that that's the passion that I wanted

to pursue, I started finding people that were already

doing what I had done and figured out if they had

a background story, if they knew what they were talking

about, and how did they know what they were talking about. And

the mythology within the Quantum Coaching Academy that

I have my 12-week program through, it

really resonated with me. It really

stood out and I did the work, I

did the processes myself and I actually got results.

And that was a tick for me. So I said, yes, I

can follow this person because they understand and

they have created a mythology that actually works.

It's worked upon thousands of people and it's transforming thousands

of lives. And I had the opportunity to

access that learning, and so I did. But

not only do I have this mythology, I actually have

life experience. I can relate

to you, I can understand you, I can

feel and experience most pain and

most trauma and I do know what it's like

to have nothing. I do know what it's like to

be homeless and I know what it's like to

grieve and I know what it's like to be

alone. I know what it's like to have mental health issues

and I know what it's like to be a drug addict and I

know what it's like to be an alcoholic and I feel

what it feels like when you don't have

a relationship with yourself, with

your parent. I get

it. I know that life's fucking hard. And

I know that life is cruel. Man, there

was a time I had one potato to feed my kids. I

had four, four kids to

feed. So I get that life is tough.

But what sets me apart from other coaches is

that I can guide you through processes, I have

collected information and I have resourced

mythologies that can help you on your

path to yourself. I

can recognize your strengths when you don't see them, I

can help you overcome self-doubt, I can help you

improve your mindset for more mental clarity

and I can just be

here, hold space for you, so you

can be yourself. As

a coach, you are designed and you are trained to not judge

people. But not everybody has

that skill. And being

judgemental, it's natural. So

when you don't judge, it's a skill. And

I believe that I

went through everything I did in my life and overcame

it. to be able to help you, to be

able to serve you, to be able to show up in

a judgment-free zone and hold space for you so that you

can become the best version of yourself, that you can slowly bring

down the walls and, you know, share, to

release, to let go, and then to

start learning and creating space that

can improve your life. So

if you're ready to become the best version of

yourself, if you're ready to step up and

say that this shit ends with me and that the generational trauma

that you experienced that was transferred from your

parents' legacy down to you will not transfer onto your

children, then

join me over at Heritage Impact. Join me on a

Quantum Coaching 12-week program. Join

me on the Firestarter program and really start

creating a life by design that you are proud to

live, that you are proud to say is yours. If

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