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Welcome to the Peak Revival Podcast.

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My name is Vesna, and I'm gonna talk about what 2025 taught me

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and how to close out the year.

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So it's been a big year.

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I feel like I've talked about it a lot on the podcast anyway, but

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couple of big lessons this year was.

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Everything you do may not work out.

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I've had this lesson before, but I'm having it again.

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and it's an interesting one.

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No matter how hard you try to create things in your life that

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you want, it may not happen.

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And it's not personal.

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I don't take that as personal.

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in my relationship life, in my business, in my home life, there were things that

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I wanted that I couldn't make happen.

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No lack of trying, that's for sure.

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I overscheduled myself.

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I had too many goals, tried too many things, but really put a

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lot of effort into all of those.

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And you know, I mentioned this in the previous podcast, got to a point

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where I was like, yeah, everything I worked really hard for didn't work out.

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And I was like, that's really interesting and.

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For me, I don't take that personally 'cause I think, well, it's not meant

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for me, or not meant for me right now.

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And it brought me back to a quote that Peter Crone, if you've ever

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heard Peter Crone, he's, um, he calls himself the mind architect.

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He's a lot online, but he, he said something once to someone, which always

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stuck in my mind and made so much sense.

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He said

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"It was precisely what was supposed to happen.

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Why?

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Because it happened." I'm exactly where I'm meant to be

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because this is where I am.

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Right?

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And sometimes I think that, you know, especially me anyway, I'm

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like, yes, create your future, create what you want, create your results.

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But there is an upper hand there as well at the end of the day, that some

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things are not meant for you right now.

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Okay.

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And, uh, we've gotta have trust and faith in that process.

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Gotta have trust and faith in the unfolding of our life, even

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though I want it to be different.

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Right.

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But to always remember, and I always remember this, no matter what happens

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in life, you can still be happy.

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We have innate wellbeing.

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We have this ability to be happy even if we don't get what we want.

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We are always moving towards happiness and wellbeing and homeostasis.

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So that's one big lesson.

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And you know, I talked about wintering and all of that, so I've

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talked about my journey this year.

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But on the other, you know, side, we've had a lot of business success this year.

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It's been my biggest year in business ever which is huge And we've got

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more members in our program than ever.

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We've got more results, more testimonials.

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And the other big win here is my team.

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My team have worked really hard to serve everyone and serve everyone well.

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They've managed things while I was wintering and had downtime and have

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just, you know, kept it all together.

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And I'm very, very grateful for them.

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So they're my wins for the year.

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And some lessons and then what I'm taking into next year.

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So this is kind of a bit more excited to talk about this.

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So I was listening, something popped up on my Instagram the

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other day with Esther Perl.

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She's a psychologist.

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You, you would definitely know her.

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she was commenting on someone's post who.

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Said, you know, I'm not anyone's priority.

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And people were saying, just love yourself more, and whatever it was.

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But she was like, we can't, we have to create a village.

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you can't expect your partner to be a village for you, right?

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You can't expect, you know, one person in your life to be a village for you.

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You have to create a village, and I really like this 'cause.

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Depending on what kind of work you do.

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For my work, I work a lot from home.

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I'm at home all the time and I'm working behind my computer.

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I create a lot of context content.

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I do a lot of, uh, group things, but still, essentially I am behind

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my computer all day and I have decided I am, I've had enough.

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I, I want to be doing something differently in 2026 in a sense

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of, I wanna build a village.

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I wanna build a village for my personal life, and I wanna build

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a village for my business life.

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Meaning that.

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I wanna start to do things that are more either in person, so in person

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events or smaller events, in person group events, working more closely

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with groups, doing deeper work.

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Okay.

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So really kind of getting that connection with.

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Clients that I work with and people that come into my programs and doing

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events right, bringing live events back.

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I think COVID shut us all down in our homes and we got so

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used to doing Zoom everything.

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And I mean, to be fair, my business was already, well equipped for COVID.

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I was already doing those things.

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And so I've been doing this for a long time now, and so I wanna

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do things differently this year.

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I wanna build a village.

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So again, for my personal life and within my business, I think that.

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You know, one of the things, it was interesting on this post that Esther

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did, I was reading the comments and one of the first comments I thought

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was the best comment I had read.

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She said,

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"The way you build a village is to be really helpful to others." To be

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the first neighbor that helps, the first friend that helps, you know, and

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that's how you know you build these connections because I think that we're.

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In today's world, everyone's so busy and so, preoccupied and not present

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that we are not aware that actually we we're not really there as much as

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we could be for our friends or for our family, or people that we respect.

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Right?

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and that's how we start to create the village.

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And I was like, I really like that.

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Right?

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Um, My focus is going to be

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building villages in personal and business life and in that way creating

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a lot more satisfaction in life.

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Because I think for all of us, depending on how you work and how you

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live, life can feel really isolating.

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Sometimes we can feel alone and it shouldn't be that way, right?

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We're not creatures who are designed to be on our own, right?

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We are designed to live in community and villages, and to

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have that support network on.

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All levels.

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Right.

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Emotionally, um, mentally, physically, financially, right.

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And so, but we have to create that.

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So that's kind of my goals for the, for the 2026.

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And I think with the year that I've had, I'm gonna allow 2026 to unfold.

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But I'm definitely feeling way more myself, and I'm

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happy for the end of the year.

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It feels like closing a chapter of a, a challenging.

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psychologically, I think, well, the next year, this is behind me.

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So everything in front is totally different.

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I dunno if it works like that.

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I'm picking the end of the year as a point that I think everything will magically

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turn around in my favor, but who knows?

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But I'm going to allow it to unfold as it's meant to unfold.

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What are your big lessons or big takeaways from 2025?

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What do you want to take into next year?

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and happy New Year.