[00:00:00] Dan 1: Hey lovely people, thank you very much for coming and listening to our podcast. This week we are discussing many things, so given that the podcast is four weeks behind, topics include preparations for Christmas, the 10th anniversary of my dad's death, our constant battle to try and win the morning routine, engorged boobs and over hungry babies, and many other things in between within our highs, lows and funnies.
[00:00:52] Dan 1: So, please enjoy. Thank you.
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[00:00:56] Tilly: So, week
[00:00:56] Tilly: Dan 1: eight.
[00:00:57] Tilly: eight.
[00:00:57] Tilly: Tilly: Yeah. Two months, baby.
[00:01:00] Tilly: Dan 1:
[00:01:01] Dan 1: 1: Yeah, two months old. We've got
[00:01:03] Dan 1: the recording set
[00:01:04] Dan 1: up,
[00:01:06] Dan 1: stuck down with nappies to make sure we don't damage the chairs.
[00:01:08] Dan 1: Tilly: Always professional.
[00:01:08] Dan 1: Dan
[00:01:08] Tilly: 1: Yeah,
[00:01:10] Dan 1: we've
[00:01:11] Dan 1: Dan 1: Yeah, we've got our tupperware and forks, so we don't create any noise
[00:01:16] Dan 1: so we don't create any noise issues. We've got a baby latched onto a boot, potentially breaking the
[00:01:20] Dan 1: breaking the indecency
[00:01:21] Dan 1: indecency rules.
[00:01:21] Dan 1: Dan 1: We're all having dinner.
[00:01:23] Dan 1: We're all having dinner. Yeah, everyone, well, Fatty's
[00:01:25] Dan 1: his.
[00:01:25] Dan 1: Tilly:
[00:01:25] Dan 1: finished his.
[00:01:26] Tilly: Yeah, he eats too quickly.
[00:01:27] Tilly: Tilly: I thought this was a Yukon dinner.
[00:01:30] Tilly: Dan 1: Well, what have we got for dinner?
[00:01:32] Tilly: Tilly: I don't really know what you'd call it. I guess it's kind of, you'd say it's pilot ish, but it's not really. Mainly because I used jasmine rice because that's all we had. So it's just sticky jasmine rice. Sort of smokey, tomatoey rice with peppers and prawns.
[00:01:48] Tilly: Dan 1: Oh, okay.
[00:01:49] Tilly: Tilly: yoU, you always quite like that sort of
[00:01:49] Tilly: Dan 1: stuff. Yeah, I'm a fan of that.
[00:01:54] Tilly: Tilly:
[00:01:56] Dan 1: Yeah, he eats too quickly.
[00:01:56] Dan 1: Tilly: I thought this was a Yukon dinner.
[00:01:56] Dan 1: Dan 1: Well, what have we got for dinner?
[00:01:57] Dan 1: Tilly:
[00:01:57] Tilly: say it's pilot
[00:01:58] Tilly: nice, comforting food for a Sunday
[00:02:01] Tilly: Tilly: night.
[00:02:01] Tilly: Dan 1: Sorry, I've just realised
[00:02:02] Dan 1: I've just realised there's
[00:02:04] Dan 1: chunky bits in here.
[00:02:05] Dan 1: Dan 1: What are those?
[00:02:06] Dan 1: Tilly: Not
[00:02:07] Dan 1: Dan 1: No, the
[00:02:09] Tilly: the
[00:02:09] Dan 1: other chunky bits. Little
[00:02:13] Tilly: chunky squares.
[00:02:13] Tilly: Tilly: A little bit of cabanos, I think it's called. A little bit of cured sausage.
[00:02:18] Tilly: Dan 1: Ooh, very
[00:02:18] Dan 1: fancy.
[00:02:18] Dan 1: Let me go look back in there.
[00:02:19] Dan 1: Tilly: And then you've got pickled peppers.
[00:02:19] Dan 1: Dan 1: Aw,
[00:02:22] Tilly: then you've got pickled peppers.
[00:02:23] Tilly: Dan 1: Aw, I think I've
[00:02:24] Dan 1: just eaten all my prawns.
[00:02:26] Tilly: Aw, you silly sausage.
[00:02:29] Dan 1: Aw, you silly sausage. They kind of all floated to the top and then
[00:02:29] Dan 1: Tilly: I'm pretty sure I put some in the bottle.
[00:02:29] Dan 1: Dan 1: I put some in the bottle. I'm doing well.
[00:02:35] Dan 1: Tilly: I deliberately gave
[00:02:36] Tilly: I'm pretty sure I put some in 1: I think you put
[00:02:40] Tilly: much.
[00:02:41] Tilly: doing well.
[00:02:41] Tilly: Tilly: I deliberately gave you a lot of prawns.
[00:02:42] Tilly: Dan 1: Thank you very much.
[00:02:42] Tilly: Tilly: I do when you're being a little bitch about it,
[00:02:45] Dan 1: you
[00:02:45] Dan 1: I'm playing him while I'm a little bitch?
[00:02:47] Tilly: know.
[00:02:47] Tilly: Dan 1: Me? I'm playing him while I'm a little bitch? Never.
[00:02:48] Tilly: Tilly: So, Bubba, how's your week been?
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[00:02:50] Tilly: Ian:
[00:02:52] Tilly: Many moments later...
[00:02:53] Tilly: Well, anyway, fourth time's lucky. How's your week been?
[00:02:56] Tilly: Dan 1:
[00:02:58] Dan 1: So how about we talk about how's my week been? Well, fourth, interesting week I guess. So you know, the
[00:03:04] Dan 1: Well, fourth,
[00:03:04] Dan 1: kind of
[00:03:05] Dan 1: So you know, the busyness of the end of the
[00:03:09] Dan 1: No work over the weekend, so that's good.
[00:03:11] Dan 1: that's good. I think, yeah, it's been a lot happier of a week.
[00:03:14] Dan 1: Tilly: Yeah, I'd agree with that.
[00:03:15] Dan 1: Dan 1:
[00:03:15] Dan 1: happier of a week.
[00:03:16] Dan 1: Tilly:
[00:03:17] Dan 1: 1:
[00:03:18] Tilly: you?
[00:03:19] Tilly: Tilly: Yeah, I think definitely you've seemed happier this week. Not seen as on edge, which is nice.
[00:03:27] Tilly: Tilly: Makes me feel happy to see you not obviously having a crap time. I like it when you're happy. Or at least less sad, or
[00:03:36] Tilly: you?
[00:03:37] Tilly: to really enjoy how she's developing, hasn't it? It's been really nice this week. She's lots of smiling and tracking us, if not mentioned already, I love Christmas. Like, we're absolutely terrible for it.
[00:03:48] Tilly: definitely this
[00:03:49] Tilly: week the deck's run up. But keeping it real, fraternity means a bit of a budget. So, I've been able to go all out with my Christmas decks this year. Normally a couple of new things each year if I can.
[00:04:02] Tilly: Tilly: I like to go for a big tree, we've got high ceilings and I love to go for like a nine footer. So like, it's really tall, it's really wide. I love it, I spend like fucking hours decorating it. This year, to be a good girl and I went for a 17 jobby from Lidl and instantly regretted it as soon as we opened the door.
[00:04:26] Tilly: Tilly: It was all misshapen and wonky and Short and empty and I felt really sad, probably more sad than I should have for a tree. 1: Well, thank you very much for trying to be budget conscious. Yeah. Even if it did hurt.
[00:04:45] Tilly: Tilly: It's alright, next year, we'll both be earning We'll get it all out.
[00:04:50]
[00:04:50] Tilly: Tilly: We don't do much presents, we're not presenty people.
[00:04:54] Dan 1: No, stingy
[00:04:56] Tilly: fuckers.
[00:04:56] Tilly: Tilly: We're not stingy. I like, I do like giving people things, but we're just not, we're not bothered by receiving gifts, so we don't tend to think as much about giving a gift. It's like, that's not what Christmas is about really for us, is it?
[00:05:04] Tilly: Dan
[00:05:05] Dan 1: No, we'd much prefer
[00:05:08] Tilly: so yeah, Christmas Decks went out. Enjoyed that. And little Barbara's been absolutely loving the lights. She loves all the twinkly things, sparkly things. So that's been good. I Went to my mum's. We spent the day prepping food for Christmas. We like to get ahead of my family. We're very organised. So mum's already made the Christmas cake, some of the vegetable side dishes, ready to go in the freezer.
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[00:05:34] Tilly: Dan 1: Yeah.
[00:05:35] Tilly: Tilly: Oh yeah. My sister and one of our nieces on Tuesday, which is lush. Our niece is hilarious. And we went for a little cheeky coffee and she just decided she
[00:05:50] Tilly: like it when you're happy. Or at least less sad, or angsty.
[00:05:51] Tilly: wanted to put her pants on her head and run around, which is great.
[00:05:52] Tilly: Tilly: And I totally get it. Pants make a great hat. They fit on snugly, you've got holes for your ears.
[00:05:57] Tilly: Dan 1:
[00:05:59] Dan 1: really enjoy
[00:06:04] Tilly: Yeah, as it is cool and increase the ability to hear,
[00:06:04] Tilly: Tilly: although the old peeps of Henley who were also
[00:06:09] Tilly: hasn't
[00:06:11] Tilly: that's not what we think it is, is it? And we're like, no, it's probably exactly what you think it is.
[00:06:15] Tilly: Tilly: And they're like,
[00:06:16] Tilly: been
[00:06:17] Tilly: a life really. And then she really enjoyed smashing her face against the window, looking out
[00:06:22] Tilly: this week. She's lots of smiling and tracking us, if not mentioned already, I love Christmas. Like, we're absolutely terrible for it. . So this week the deck's run up. But keeping it real, fraternity means a bit of a budget. So, I've been able to go all out with my Christmas decks this year. Normally I like to buy a couple of new things each year if I can.
[00:06:24] Tilly: Tilly: I like to go
[00:06:25] Tilly: take a dump outside the window. Dumping dog.
[00:06:27] Tilly: love like, it's really tall,
[00:06:31] Tilly: shouting at Jess that she wasn't listening.
[00:06:35] Tilly: it. This to
[00:06:37] Tilly: Not listening!
[00:06:37] Tilly: girl
[00:06:38] Tilly: talking, Mummy!
[00:06:41] Tilly: Which is
[00:06:42] Tilly: from
[00:06:44] Tilly: funny.
[00:06:44] Tilly: Tilly: Oh my gosh, my friend lou and her husband. Came all the way down from Scotland to meet Bubs.
[00:06:45] Tilly: Lidl and
[00:06:49] Tilly: I know, and Luke just, oh, he's an absolute
[00:06:53] Dan 1: Tilly:
[00:06:54] Tilly: Yeah. Right, so that was lovely. Yeah, it's been a good week, really.
[00:06:58] Tilly: Tilly: What I us talking about is we mentioned last week So we're wanting to plan our mornings, isn't it, getting all our stuff in?
[00:07:05] Tilly: Dan
[00:07:05] Tilly: she wanted to put her pants on her head and run around, which is great.
[00:07:06] Tilly: Tilly: And I totally get it. Pants make a great hat. They fit on snugly, you've got holes for your ears.
[00:07:06] Tilly: Dan 1: Yeah, as what you think it is.
[00:07:07] Tilly: Tilly: And they're like, Oh needs to get a life really. And then she really enjoyed smashing her face against the window, looking out
[00:07:08] Dan 1: really closely, watching her dog take a dump outside the window.
[00:07:08] Dan 1: this week, did we?
[00:07:09] Dan 1: nice meal. One hell of a drive. I know,
[00:07:10] Tilly: and Luke just, oh, he's an absolute trooper.
[00:07:10] Tilly: Tilly: Yeah,
[00:07:11] Tilly: We didn't do very well. Like, I managed to get a good few gym sessions in.
[00:07:15] Tilly: Dan 1: You were
[00:07:16] Dan 1: really well, didn't you, up until towards the end of the
[00:07:20] Tilly: didn't you, up until towards the end of the week?
[00:07:20] Tilly: Tilly: Yeah, , like Thursday I went to mum's, and on Friday I had to get up late because you were out on Thursday night, weren't you? Yeah. Sydney boy. But
[00:07:29] Tilly: to
[00:07:29] Tilly: that's fine, so we spent a little bit of time earlier just sort of thinking about,
[00:07:31] Tilly: get
[00:07:32] Tilly: how
[00:07:33] Tilly: up late because you were a little bit of time earlier just sort of thinking about, again, how we're going to do that.
[00:07:35] Tilly: Dan 1: Well, it's
[00:07:35] Dan 1: going to be a lot easier because we've got an updated sleep schedule.
[00:07:38] Dan 1: Tilly: We do!
[00:07:38] Dan 1: Tilly: Do you want to update them on our sleep schedule? Very exciting.
[00:07:38] Dan 1: Tilly: Bubba's
[00:07:39] Tilly: 1: Well, it's going to be a lot easier because we've got an updated sleep schedule.
[00:07:40] Tilly: Tilly: We do!
[00:07:40] Tilly: Tilly: Do you want to update them
[00:07:41] Tilly: the boob.
[00:07:43] Tilly: Tilly:
[00:07:45] Tilly: Holding
[00:07:45] Dan 1: the boob. Dan 1: so previously, you decided that You need to repaste your milk production post boobie thrush.
[00:07:46] Dan 1: So previously you decided that You need to repaste your milk production post boobie thrush.
[00:07:52] Dan 1: Dan 1: Yep. And so you want to do it every two hours, whereas previously when I've been doing the 8 till 2, I'd have bottled it up so you'd sleep constantly for those sort of six hours, whereas now you
[00:08:05] Dan 1: were meant to have it every three hours.
[00:08:08] Dan 1: it was
[00:08:08] Dan 1: didn't go to plan on the Thursday night.
[00:08:08] Dan 1: Dan 1: So it was
[00:08:11] Dan 1: meant
[00:08:12] Dan 1: to be 8 till 2, we switch
[00:08:14] Dan 1: over,
[00:08:14] Dan 1: over, I sleep in roughly 2 till 8, but it was never 8 because I'd have
[00:08:20] Dan 1: 8, but it was never 8 because I'd have work if we go to the gym, so it was more like till 7.
[00:08:24] Dan 1: 7. So
[00:08:25] Dan 1: Thursday night when I came my boys had, unfortunately
[00:08:28] Dan 1: was a train strike, so bit of a bitch to come
[00:08:32] Dan 1: a bitch to come back.
[00:08:32] Dan 1: Dan 1: It was at 12? Yeah, so I went back at midnight. Took baby girl she just had a feed, so it was meant to be, it was meant to still come up to and give her to you, give you to us.
[00:08:33] Dan 1: 1: It was at 12? Yeah, so I went back at midnight. she just had a feed, so it
[00:08:40] Dan 1: I
[00:08:40] Dan 1: meant to be, it was meant to still come up to and give her to you, give you to us. I was asleep on
[00:08:47] Dan 1: asleep on the armchair, we were in
[00:08:52] Dan 1: woke up at half five and she was raging hungry.
[00:08:56] Tilly: the booth, woke up at half five and she was raging hungry.
[00:08:57] Tilly: Tilly: Oh my god, she was so hungry, and my boobs were like,
[00:08:58] Tilly: Dan
[00:09:00] Tilly: Tilly:
[00:09:01] Tilly: You know what, toit!. Poppin!! She was
[00:09:01] Tilly: was so hungry, Engorged!
[00:09:04] Tilly: Tilly: They were!
[00:09:05] Tilly: Tilly: toit!. Poppin!! She latched
[00:09:08] Tilly: I was sore. She latched on, it must have come out real fast. We should get choking on the milk. It must have been like
[00:09:14] Tilly: pew pew
[00:09:15] Tilly: pew down her throat. yeah, she drank, she
[00:09:20] Tilly: too much. And then
[00:09:21] Tilly: turned into a little bit sick because she drank too much.
[00:09:22] Tilly: again.
[00:09:22] Tilly: Tilly: Hungry, hungry babe.
[00:09:23] Tilly: Tilly:
[00:09:23] Tilly: Hungry, hungry babe.
[00:09:24] Tilly: Tilly: So, that leads us on to what is now a sleep schedule,
[00:09:29] Tilly: Tilly: sexy man.
[00:09:29] Tilly: Dan
[00:09:31] Dan 1: So now, we're going to bed at 10
[00:09:33] Dan 1: So now, we're going to bed at 10 roughly, and we're going to six, aren't
[00:09:34] Dan 1: Dan 1: we?
[00:09:35] Dan 1: Tilly:
[00:09:37] Tilly: Yeah, 9. 10
[00:09:37] Tilly: 9. 10 we're going to bed. We're trying
[00:09:38] Tilly: get into bed
[00:09:38] Tilly: into bed at 9, don't we?
[00:09:41] Tilly: Yeah. And
[00:09:41] Tilly: is her last feed of the day.
[00:09:45] Tilly: just feed her
[00:09:45] Tilly: we watch
[00:09:46] Tilly: starting to sleep
[00:09:46] Tilly: cry or a real cry? Hmm, Tilly: not sure.
[00:09:52] Tilly: Tilly: And then, I'll just feed her sort of every three hours, really.
[00:09:55] Tilly: if I don't wake her, she'll sleep through
[00:09:55] Tilly: starting to sleep through, so if I don't wake her, she'll sleep through for
[00:10:00] Tilly: a good while.
[00:10:01] Tilly: Tilly: But she would sleep from, sort of,
[00:10:04] Tilly: ten
[00:10:04] Tilly: till, sometimes like
[00:10:06] Tilly: five,
[00:10:07] Tilly: five, like, I don't know if she
[00:10:08] Tilly: Tilly: would. I say
[00:10:09] Tilly: I don't know
[00:10:09] Tilly: don't know,
[00:10:10] Tilly: Tilly: but I wake I
[00:10:13] Tilly: Tilly: do it, I don't let her.
[00:10:13] Tilly: Tilly: So she'd often just sleep through and I can wake her up for a feed. ANd
[00:10:17] Tilly: I can wake her up for a feed. ANd so, I want to
[00:10:18] Tilly: sure the midwife slash whoever it is, when and what should I just let her sleep until she wakes up for a feed?
[00:10:26] Tilly: YEah,
[00:10:27] Tilly: I
[00:10:27] Tilly: at what point just leave
[00:10:31] Dan 1: think she would sleep eight hours or so.
[00:10:32] Dan 1: Tilly: I don't
[00:10:34] Tilly: know if she'd sleep eight,
[00:10:35] Tilly: but I reckon you might get five or six.
[00:10:36] Tilly: Dan 1: I mean, I got five or six just when I came back from the pub, was just
[00:10:39] Dan 1: mean, I
[00:10:39] Tilly: day,
[00:10:39] Dan 1: got five or six just when I came back from the pub and was out of sleep.
[00:10:44] Dan 1: With me? Yeah. With her in the
[00:10:46] Dan 1: paboose, me in the armchair.
[00:10:47] Dan 1: Tilly:
[00:10:48] Tilly: baby. Oh yeah. I don't
[00:10:49] Tilly: it would
[00:10:49] Tilly: want to have
[00:10:50] Tilly: feel a night, but it'd be 1:
[00:10:56] Dan 1: I'd like to throw a disclaimer in there. I was when I came back from the pub, I was just very tired from a long day, and when you've had like two or
[00:11:07] Dan 1: a baby drunk
[00:11:07] Dan 1: and then purposely snubbed up, I'm just tired, really tired, that kind of,
[00:11:14] Dan 1: at
[00:11:14] Dan 1: alcohol and snubbering, your body just
[00:11:17] Dan 1: Tilly: kind of Yeah, okay, I thought it was just you're not meant to drink and then have a baby. Oh yeah. I don't want to have a baby drunk at all. I think I
[00:11:29] Dan 1: Dan 1: wasn't drunk.
[00:11:29] Dan 1: Tilly: No, you weren't
[00:11:31] Dan 1: I think I
[00:11:32] Dan 1: Dan
[00:11:32] Dan 1: you said, you
[00:11:34] Tilly: Tilly: No, you weren't drunk. Like you said, you had that sleepiness. And that would be harder to wake from.
[00:11:36] Tilly: sleepiness. And that would be harder to wake from. I Mean, you had her in a post, so it's fine, you're not going to roll on her.
[00:11:39] Tilly: Dan 1:
[00:11:39] Tilly: had her in a post, so it's fine, you're
[00:11:41] Dan 1: No,
[00:11:41] Tilly: to roll on
[00:11:43] Dan 1: and I was sat up in an armchair, so Yeah. Couldn't
[00:11:47] Dan 1: really do that. guess the risk is that you don't realise that if she's got, you know,
[00:11:53] Dan 1: you're harder to wake, like you say.
[00:11:55] Tilly: Yeah, and you're hard to wake anyway, let's be honest.
[00:11:58] Dan 1: Yeah.
[00:12:00] Tilly: bUt this was all leading to Now we're doing this, we can have a bit more freedom in the mornings.
[00:12:07] Dan 1: we're doing
[00:12:08] Dan 1: this, we can have a bit more freedom in the mornings.
[00:12:08] Dan 1: Dan 1: Yeah, so given that obviously we'll be waking up at six
[00:12:09] Dan 1: and we'll be going to bed at ten,
[00:12:11] Dan 1: you know, there's, there's an extra at least two hours there in
[00:12:14] Dan 1: terms of
[00:12:15] Dan 1: an extra hour or so in the morning, maybe one or two in the evening.
[00:12:17] Tilly: Tilly: which means
[00:12:20] Tilly: the mornings we can both have time to do what we want to get done in the mornings.
[00:12:25] Dan 1: And so what are your things
[00:12:27] Dan 1: in the morning?
[00:12:28] Dan 1: Tilly:
[00:12:28] Dan 1: Mine's literally just gym. Like, I can do everything else with her, like going for a shower and stuff, I can just put her in the little bouncy seat and she can watch me, she likes to watch me in the shower. She just stares at my boob all the time.
[00:12:28] Dan 1: Tilly: And then you want to get a few things done in the morning, don't
[00:12:28] Tilly: just gym. Like, I can do everything else with her, like going for a shower and stuff, I can just put her in the little bouncy seat and she can watch me, she likes to watch me in the shower. She just stares at my boob all the time.
[00:12:39] Tilly: Tilly: And then you want to get a few things done in the morning, don't you?
[00:12:41] Tilly: Dan 1: I would
[00:12:43] Dan 1: like to try and run for about 30 minutes, meditate for about 10 15 minutes, and then also have a, ideally a cup of coffee, but it's a lot of water. Are you planning on having a bath this evening? Or are you
[00:12:48] Dan 1: for about 30 minutes, meditate for about 10 15 minutes, and then also have a, ideally a cup of coffee, but it's a lot of water. you planning on having a bath this evening? Or are you not anymore? So this will be your first bath.
[00:13:09] Dan 1: Tilly:
[00:13:10] Tilly: It will
[00:13:10] Tilly: your first bath.
[00:13:11] Tilly: Tilly: It will be. I'm not going to be relaxing though because I'll have Bubba
[00:13:11] Dan 1: with me.
[00:13:12] Dan 1: Dan
[00:13:14] Dan 1: I'm not going to be relaxing though because I'll have Bubba with me.
[00:13:14] Dan 1: Dan 1: Yeah. I mean,
[00:13:14] Dan 1: I'll be
[00:13:15] Dan 1: you, so you can
[00:13:15] Dan 1: have Bubba on and off. But you like your baths like
[00:13:19] Dan 1: fucking
[00:13:20] Tilly: disgusting.
[00:13:20] Tilly: Tilly: Yeah, I like to come out looking like a lobster.
[00:13:23] Tilly: Dan 1:
[00:13:24] Dan 1: Yeah, you
[00:13:24] Dan 1: and your mum both do that.
[00:13:25] Dan 1: Tilly: Everyone I know has baths like that.
[00:13:25] Dan 1: Dan
[00:13:27] Tilly: 1:
[00:13:28] Tilly: that.
[00:13:28] Tilly: Tilly: Everyone I know has baths like that.
[00:13:29] Tilly: Dan 1: No.
[00:13:29] Tilly: Tilly: All my girlfriends say that.
[00:13:29] Tilly: Dan 1: Yeah, and all my boyfriends say that their partners, their female partners, have the bar scorchingly hot.
[00:13:29] Tilly: Tilly: It's because men are
[00:13:30] Dan 1: No.
[00:13:32] Dan 1: Tilly: All my girlfriends say that.
[00:13:34] Dan 1: Dan 1: Yeah, and all my boyfriends say that their partners, their female partners, have the bar scorchingly hot.
[00:13:34] Dan 1: Tilly: It's because men are
[00:13:34] Dan 1: Tilly: soft. Tilly: They can't take it.
[00:13:34] Dan 1: Dan 1: So, what have been
[00:13:41] Tilly: Tilly: They can't take it.
[00:13:43] Tilly: Dan
[00:13:45] Dan 1: So, what have been
[00:13:46] Dan 1: highs, lows, and funnies?
[00:13:48] Dan 1: Tilly:
[00:13:49] Dan 1: and funnies?
[00:13:49] Dan 1: Tilly: Before?
[00:13:51] Tilly: Before highs, lows, funnies?
[00:13:52] Tilly: lows, funnies? Okay.
[00:13:55] Tilly: throwback to last week, and I was chatting about sexy time.
[00:13:59] Tilly: about sexy time.
[00:14:01] Tilly: Still haven't had sex. Still haven't looked at my badge. That is still a mystery. I'll have a look on my
[00:14:06] Tilly: way
[00:14:07] Tilly: way to the But, I think the way we have to go about any sort of intimacy
[00:14:12] Tilly: scheduling it.
[00:14:12] Tilly: Dan
[00:14:13] Tilly: scheduling it.
[00:14:15] Dan 1: Yep, I was thinking this as well.
[00:14:17] Tilly: Which always
[00:14:17] Dan 1: Tilly: Which always
[00:14:18] Dan 1: sounds
[00:14:19] Dan 1: so unromantic. But we've
[00:14:20] Tilly: But we've done this before when we've been busy. We've been like, we've scheduled in sex before, even before we had a baby. Tilly: bEcause we understand that unsex, that you seem unsexy or unspontaneous
[00:14:34] Tilly: unspontaneous
[00:14:35] Tilly: to schedule sex, but it's more sexy
[00:14:37] Tilly: but it's more sexy having sex and not
[00:14:38] Tilly: and not having it because you've tried to be spontaneous and not
[00:14:40] Tilly: Yeah,
[00:14:41] Tilly: ever having it because you're busy.
[00:14:43] Tilly: 1:
[00:14:43] Dan 1: is very true.
[00:14:44] Dan 1: Tilly:
[00:14:45] Tilly: that it's become even now with the bubbles. we're
[00:14:49] Tilly: we're just going to have to look at our schedule and be like, okay, when's the most realistic time that we could actually schedule in
[00:14:55] Tilly: does it have to be
[00:14:56] Dan 1: suppose? I don't know. Well, I guess probably not. Let's be
[00:15:02] Tilly: we
[00:15:02] Tilly: have to be a quickie, I suppose? I don't know. Well, I guess probably not. Let's be honest. . And then we can
[00:15:02] Tilly: out clamp down more, can I tense on it, how it helps with pelvic floor. You can be my
[00:15:09] Dan 1: barometer. 1: Pelvic floor barometer.
[00:15:11] Dan 1: Tilly: I've got to put it in. Can we squeeze?
[00:15:14] Tilly: Tilly:
[00:15:15] Dan 1: I've
[00:15:17] Dan 1: a rocky day like real life would
[00:15:20] Tilly: put it
[00:15:24] Tilly: 1: all sorts Tilly: seen that lady who can, like, carry shit from her vagina? carries sandals and stuff. It makes me
[00:15:32] Tilly: Tilly: It makes me feel I see it. I just, yeah, I
[00:15:38] Dan 1: don't like
[00:15:40] Dan 1: She even carries an impressive
[00:15:41] Tilly: Tilly: I know, it just makes me feel funny.
[00:15:45] Tilly: I think
[00:15:45] Tilly: it looks like that on my badge.
[00:15:47] Dan 1: it looks like that on my badge.
[00:15:48] Dan 1: Dan 1: I
[00:15:48] Dan 1: don't think there's the same for blokes. There probably is. Blokes have got the longest,
[00:15:53] Dan 1: stringiest penis. It just attaches random things.
[00:15:54] Dan 1: Tilly: You just put it beside your bum hole. Clench.
[00:15:56] Dan 1: Dan 1:
[00:15:58] Tilly: is. Blokes have got the longest, stringiest penis. It just attaches random things.
[00:15:58] Tilly: Tilly: You just put it beside your bum hole. Clench.
[00:16:01] Tilly: 1: I
[00:16:03] Dan 1: bunnel's not know, other than passing poop,
[00:16:07] Dan 1: would be easier, because the bunnel's not really, kind of, meant to be that open
[00:16:11] Dan 1: centimeters.
[00:16:12] Dan 1: has, you know, other than passing poop, whereas the vagina's actually all dilated in
[00:16:18] Dan 1: Dan 1: It's one hell of a hole.
[00:16:22] Tilly: Yeah, but I mean,
[00:16:23] Tilly: that generally.
[00:16:24] Tilly: Tilly: I'm not like, you know, casually in the evening, my vag centimeters.
[00:16:31] Dan 1: some girth
[00:16:31] Dan 1: Tilly: up. We have some more girth now, realistically.
[00:16:31] Dan 1: Dan 1: You think I'm, you think I'm girthier
[00:16:33] Tilly: have some more girth now, realistically.
[00:16:36] Dan 1: sexy when it's sexy to
[00:16:37] Dan 1: schedule sex? Let us know. Send us a message. Comment. I think there's a sketch so we actually end up
[00:16:39] Dan 1: Tilly: having it.
[00:16:39] Dan 1: Tilly: I think there's like a lot of things, isn't it? It's
[00:16:39] Dan 1: like trying to schedule things like date nights or, you know, we've scheduled in the past and we've pushed it back into
[00:16:39] Tilly: now? I think I've got more girth. Oh, okay. So anyway, is it sexy when it's sexy to schedule sex?
[00:16:46] Tilly: Yeah.
[00:16:46] Tilly: Tilly: You know, all you can say
[00:16:48] Tilly: Comment. I think there's a sketch so we actually end up
[00:16:52] Tilly: Tilly: having it.
[00:16:52] Tilly: Tilly: I
[00:16:53] Tilly: day.
[00:16:53] Tilly: Silence: I think
[00:16:54] Tilly: things, isn't it? It's like trying to schedule things like date nights or, you know, we've scheduled in the past and we've pushed it back into it and scheduling and having like, you know,
[00:17:03] Tilly: these
[00:17:03] Tilly: conversation each
[00:17:04] Tilly: really important. So. But
[00:17:05] Tilly: or whatever it So like on a Sunday, we say we plan a week out and then we talk about anything that we need to talk about that's important. And so if we've had a really busy week for whatever reason, then we've maybe not had any like lengthy conversations. We are at least once a week, that check in once a week. Oh, and we would hope to be more often, but
[00:17:24] Tilly: Dan You know, all you can say is having a five minute check in each day.
[00:17:34] Tilly: are really important.
[00:17:38] Tilly: get the TV movie idea of what
[00:17:38] Tilly: romantic love and relationships are. No,
[00:17:38] Tilly: Tilly: and also,
[00:17:38] Tilly: Dan
[00:17:39] Dan 1: get
[00:17:40] Tilly: the TV movie idea of what
[00:17:43] Tilly: end
[00:17:45] Tilly: are.
[00:17:46] Dan 1: No,
[00:17:47] Dan 1: Tilly: 1:
[00:17:49] Dan 1: week you just want to
[00:17:56] Dan 1: the week you just want to watch telly. You know, it's like, I would also, aspirationally,
[00:18:00] Tilly: We still have that on our calendar every week, I'm like, fail.
[00:18:02] Tilly: Dan 1: No, I can't be fucked to plan my
[00:18:07] Dan 1: watch
[00:18:07] Tilly: thinking this morning, how about, I'm quite excited for us to start doing
[00:18:10] Dan 1: like to go back to my weekly planning and stuff
[00:18:10] Dan 1: Tilly: to start doing that again actually.
[00:18:11] Dan 1: Dan 1: I'm happy to try and do that again, yeah.
[00:18:13] Dan 1: Tilly: We could do it less intense. We did it quite detailed and intense before. We could do it a less intense version.
[00:18:13] Dan 1: Dan 1:
[00:18:14] Tilly: it less intense. We did it quite detailed and intense before. We could do it a less intense version.
[00:18:19] Tilly: Dan
[00:18:20] Dan 1: Yeah,
[00:18:21] Dan 1: I'd like to get to the detailed version eventually, but I think, yeah,
[00:18:26] Dan 1: I'd like to get to the detailed version eventually, but I think, yeah, to maybe form the habit. yeah,
[00:18:28] Dan 1: to maybe form the habit. Yeah. And start at a lot more high
[00:18:28] Dan 1: Tilly: level.
[00:18:29] Tilly: Yeah, I think we have to, I think both of us need to be a bit less all or nothing.
[00:18:34] Dan 1: Tilly: I think we can, you know,
[00:18:37] Tilly: up.
[00:18:37] Tilly: what you mean.
[00:18:37] Tilly: Tilly: I think we can, you know, we can level up. We can just, it's just important to start sometimes.
[00:18:41] Tilly: Dan 1:
[00:18:42] Dan 1: Yeah,
[00:18:43] Dan 1: you've got to remember that the compounding effect of having started and progressively
[00:18:47] Dan 1: getting better is
[00:18:49] Dan 1: way more
[00:18:51] Dan 1: effective
[00:18:51] Dan 1: than The effect of doing it perfect for 10 days and
[00:18:52] Dan 1: than effect
[00:18:54] Dan 1: doing it for three months and then doing it perfect for
[00:18:59] Dan 1: 10 days again and then not.
[00:19:00] Dan 1: Tilly: Yeah.
[00:19:01] Tilly: Tilly: Let's go
[00:19:02] Tilly: Tilly: on. Crack on.
[00:19:05] Tilly: Dan 1: Try and
[00:19:05] Dan 1: come
[00:19:06] Dan 1: on. Crack on.
[00:19:07] Dan 1: Dan 1: Try and come back to your fanny.
[00:19:08] Dan 1: Dan 1: It's always back to your fanny.
[00:19:09] Dan 1: Tilly: It is. It's always back to my fanny. She came out of it.
[00:19:09] Dan 1: Dan
[00:19:09] Tilly: 1:
[00:19:10] Tilly: your fanny.
[00:19:10] Tilly: Tilly: It is. It's always back to my fanny. She came out of it.
[00:19:12] Tilly: Dan 1:
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[00:19:54] Dan 1: So, Heizlo's fannies.
[00:19:57] Dan 1: Tilly: Heizlo's fannies. Are you asking moi? Yeah. Heiz has got to be her smiling, giggling, having fun with us. Yeah. That's been really nice. I'll lean her on my knees and she'll look up at me and we'll have a lovely good like ten minutes or whatever of her really engaging and smiling and semi giggly laughing, if it's not.
[00:19:57] Dan 1: Tilly: But I enjoy it. Stick her tongue out loads
[00:19:58] Tilly: because now she
[00:19:59] Tilly: fannies. Are you asking moi?
[00:20:01] Tilly: week. What about you?
[00:20:02] Tilly: Dan 1: I
[00:20:03] Tilly: got to be her smiling, giggling, having fun with us. been really nice. I'll lean her on my knees and she'll look up at me and we'll have a lovely good like ten minutes or whatever of her really engaging and smiling and semi giggly laughing, if it's not.
[00:20:24] Tilly: Tilly: But I enjoy it. Stick her tongue out loads because now she can. Tilly: That's been really nice. That's definitely been a solid high this week. What about you?
[00:20:34] Tilly: Dan 1: I think
[00:20:36] Dan 1: my
[00:20:37] Dan 1: high is that tracking element but also I'm quite enjoying her like, Yeah. Dancing and, and boxing, so for whatever
[00:20:46] Dan 1: high is
[00:20:46] Dan 1: reason, she now very much
[00:20:47] Dan 1: element but also I'm quite very much will
[00:20:48] Dan 1: just have her fists by her chin, sort of in guard, in boxing guard, ready.
[00:20:53] Dan 1: Dan 1: whatever. A bit of shadowboxing. Yeah. Just, just so if there's any, any blows from the left or right she can hopefully deflect and jam. slap me
[00:21:05] Dan 1: Dan 1: in the face. Yeah. And then, yeah, tracking out and, and also dancing wise she keeps kind of doing
[00:21:11] Dan 1: have her fists by her chin, sort of
[00:21:15] Tilly: Tilly: Which
[00:21:17] Dan 1: I know he's listening.
[00:21:17] Dan 1: Dan 1: Yeah, I know, I was That, you know, you know, when sort of Step Up came around, and that sort of urban street dance, there was always that real sort of shitty arm
[00:21:30] Dan 1: in
[00:21:30] Dan 1: squares and stuff.
[00:21:31] Dan 1: Tilly: Okay, so then, a low. I've not really it's been
[00:21:32] Dan 1: Tilly: generally
[00:21:32] Dan 1: Tilly: Pretty good week.
[00:21:33] Dan 1: Tilly: Yeah, I'm lowless.
[00:21:34] Tilly: that sort of urban street dance, there was always that real sort of shitty arm flailing in squares and stuff.
[00:21:35] Tilly: Tilly: Okay, so then,
[00:21:37] Tilly: I'm lowless.
[00:21:37] Tilly: low. I've not really had a low this week. I think it's been
[00:21:43] Tilly: Tilly:
[00:21:44] Tilly: aniversary
[00:21:45] Tilly: week.
[00:21:47] Tilly: Yeah, I'm lowless. I'm lowless.
[00:21:49] Tilly: Discuss aniversary of
[00:21:49] Tilly: worry,
[00:21:50] Dan 1: I've got a nice biggun. Alright,
[00:21:52] Dan 1: you take it on.
[00:21:53] Dan 1: Just to take a quick pause, this next bit's quite emotional , it's me just discussing the fact that it's 11 years since my dad died, and reflecting on what it's like to be a dad without a dad, and my process for grieving when that period comes up every year. and how it's emotional. The recording quality is not that great.
[00:22:20] Dan 1: As I'm moving around, as I'm sort of reflecting and that means that I'm not always as close to the mic as I should be, and so some parts of it are choppy, so sorry for that, and please bear with. Some of the stuff that we discuss is that it's quite easy to, to think about all these things that you've kind of missed.
[00:22:41] Dan 1: And but that's a bit of a romantic notion because you can't have all those things without what you've gone through because what you've gone through makes you who you are and who you are means what you've done and so I try and balance the components of actively grieving for what I've lost and missing someone and remembering them but trying not to get too caught up in the reality.
[00:23:12] Dan 1: What could have beens because they wouldn't have been because had it not happened I wouldn't be who I am and therefore the events wouldn't have unfolded in the same way that they have So there's a lot of discussion about sort of how my life could have been different But how it's relevant and how I try and still grieve but keep that in the forefront of my mind
[00:23:37]
[00:23:40] Dan 1: take it on. So, this week
[00:23:42] Dan 1: was the 11th anniversary
[00:23:44] Dan 1: my dad's death. Not, not
[00:23:46] Dan 1: the form
[00:23:48] Dan 1: I want to go into it low, so this is kind of the
[00:23:51] Dan 1: podcast, but my dad died by suicide about 11 years
[00:23:53] Dan 1: podcast, but my dad died by suicide about 11 years ago.
[00:23:54] Dan 1: Dan 1: And,
[00:23:54] Dan 1: Dan 1: on
[00:23:55] Dan 1: 1: And,
[00:23:56] Dan 1: Dan
[00:23:58] Dan 1: the, so, I
[00:24:00] Dan 1: so, I always try to spend some time remembering on
[00:24:02] Dan 1: spend some time remembering on the day.
[00:24:05] Dan 1: And,
[00:24:07] Dan 1: 1: And, I was kind of
[00:24:09] Dan 1: thing. And it's hard, because,
[00:24:10] Dan 1: because, you know, your mind goes
[00:24:12] Dan 1: goes back to those kind of elements of
[00:24:14] Dan 1: kind of elements of all the things
[00:24:16] Dan 1: you might have now, like the things you're going
[00:24:17] Dan 1: like the things you're going to miss. Walked past the nice pub, so I just went and had a quick half night just to warm up and stop walking around and have a think in the warm.
[00:24:18] Dan 1: Dan 1: I saw, like, grandparents. Kids and stuff like that. And you kind of reflect on the fact that, oh, I think my dad would have brilliant And
[00:24:25] Dan 1: and stop walking around and have a think in the warm.
[00:24:25] Dan 1: Dan 1: I saw, like, grandparents. Kids and stuff like that. And you kind of reflect on the fact that, oh,
[00:24:28] Dan 1: the things
[00:24:36] Dan 1: my dad would have been One of
[00:24:45] Dan 1: that first attracted me to me
[00:24:48] Dan 1: was my
[00:24:48] Dan 1: ability to talk about stuff like that.
[00:24:50] Dan 1: Dan
[00:24:50] Dan 1: 1: And
[00:24:52] Dan 1: it showed kind of maturity and a
[00:24:52] Dan 1: it showed kind of maturity and a vulnerability in
[00:24:56] Dan 1: the fact that,
[00:24:56] Dan 1: the fact that,
[00:24:56] Dan 1: yes, there was a teenage boy that I was proud about and had fun, but there was also somebody who was willing
[00:25:04] Dan 1: kind of switch modes. Talk about
[00:25:08] Dan 1: more serious aspects of life.
[00:25:08] Dan 1: Dan 1: And so you know, it's trying to balance the element of
[00:25:08] Dan 1: Dan 1: feeling the emotion for the sake
[00:25:08] Dan 1: Dan 1: of grief and helping myself and progressing, but
[00:25:09] Dan 1: 1: And so you
[00:25:11] Dan 1: recognizing that you can't just
[00:25:12] Dan 1: to balance the element of
[00:25:13] Dan 1: Dan
[00:25:14] Dan 1: my
[00:25:16] Dan 1: feeling the Dan 1: of grief and helping myself and progressing, but also recognizing that you can't just lay a romanticism on. The reality of my life would have been
[00:25:29] Dan 1: life would have been so different had Dad not died.
[00:25:32] Dan 1: Dan 1: Like, you and I are not going to be together, and therefore, I wouldn't have
[00:25:37] Dan 1: and therefore, I wouldn't have been married by the time I am. Well, I may
[00:25:42] Dan 1: have been, who knows what I would have been. I probably wouldn't have a child by the time I have. And if I do, it wouldn't be anything like that. It's completely different. And so like, your is just, there's a course, and it's like that.
[00:25:54] Dan 1: Dan 1: But, but you can't just think about life and go, Oh, if it's still here, I'd have all those things, and it would be better. Because the truth is everything that you goes into everything you do. And I try and
[00:26:13] Dan 1: Feeling the emotion to challenge
[00:26:15] Dan 1: and to harass myself through it, but at the same
[00:26:17] Dan 1: my hand.
[00:26:18] Dan 1: Dan 1: You
[00:26:18] Dan 1: Dan 1: Because those
[00:26:18] Dan 1: Tilly: things did happen.
[00:26:18] Dan 1: Dan 1: Yeah, I think I need to, you know, like I said, I don't really want to talk about loads on
[00:26:19] Dan 1: being a bit realistic and sort of saying that I wouldn't have a knife in my hand.
[00:26:20] Dan 1: Dan 1: You
[00:26:21] Dan 1: Dan 1: Because those
[00:26:21] Dan 1: Tilly: things did happen.
[00:26:21] Dan 1: Dan 1: Yeah, I think I need to, you know,
[00:26:32] Tilly: here because the whole point of this is meant to be lives that led to baby as well.
[00:26:35] Tilly: Dan 1: Yeah, I think that it's a very important factor that while the person may have died, your love for them has not, and the impact they had on your life is still there, and therefore that level of pain will continue, and so You need to create time regularly to connect with what that person was or, or all that to, to greet.
[00:26:36] Tilly: Dan 1: Most people just kind of have a bit of a greeting period and then say hello. And I think something that I gained from, from a few sessions of kind of CBT ish therapy He just
[00:26:43] Dan 1: like I said, I don't really want to talk about loads on here because the whole point of this is meant to be about a baby, but I think
[00:26:47] Dan 1: Tilly: Yeah, but it's our lives that led to baby as well.
[00:26:47] Dan 1: Dan 1: Yeah, I think it's a very important factor that while the person may have died, your love for them has not, and the impact they had on your life is still there, and therefore that level of pain will continue, and so You need
[00:27:11] Dan 1: kind of looked at me
[00:27:12] Dan 1: time regularly to with what that person was or, or all that to, to greet.
[00:27:20] Dan 1: Dan 1: Most people just kind of have a bit of a greeting
[00:27:23] Dan 1: and said,
[00:27:24] Dan 1: hello. And I think something that I gained from, from a few sessions of kind of CBT ish therapy just kind of
[00:27:34] Dan 1: How are you doing?
[00:27:36] Dan 1: looked at me and said, How are you doing? I was like, what do you mean? It
[00:27:37] Dan 1: It was ten years ago. He no, 1: This is
[00:27:42] Dan 1: no, gone through a serious life event.
[00:27:44] Dan 1: Dan 1: This is very
[00:27:46] Dan 1: important to
[00:27:48] Dan 1: You should still
[00:27:49] Dan 1: be regularly feeling these feelings. And I guess it's kind of, it is a bit like a meditation. It's an element of choosing to process stuff. Almost like a
[00:28:02] Dan 1: training. for dealing with one of the negative aspects
[00:28:08] Dan 1: one of the negative aspects of your life.
[00:28:09] Dan 1: allows you to choose to experience it at a you want to, so
[00:28:16] Dan 1: it
[00:28:17] Dan 1: just come and go as it pleases, when it
[00:28:19] Dan 1: is
[00:28:20] Dan 1: inconvenient to you, and potentially, even if it isn't as deep, is
[00:28:21] Dan 1: inconvenient to you, and potentially, even if it isn't as deep, is often more upsetting or inconvenient.
[00:28:28] Dan 1: Dan 1:
[00:28:28] Dan 1: or inconvenient.
[00:28:29] Dan 1: Dan 1: But I haven't for the last few months. It's like a baby gets
[00:28:31] Dan 1: that every day. Fuckin hell.
[00:28:32] Dan 1: Tilly: My funnies. Like
[00:28:34] Dan 1: something.
[00:28:34] Dan 1: good one. Did I write it down? Did I
[00:28:38] Tilly: to that, maybe that's something else that we planned to put in your morning sometimes.
[00:28:40] Dan 1: fuck?
[00:28:40] Dan 1: Tilly: Oh
[00:28:41] Dan 1: I don't have The
[00:28:43] Dan 1: no,
[00:28:44] Dan 1: sad.
[00:28:45] Dan 1: Tilly: Yeah,
[00:28:47] Tilly: maybe once a week or once a fortnight, it doesn't have to be every day.
[00:28:50] Tilly: Dan 1: Yeah, I think Tilly: My funnies. Like always, I
[00:28:59] Tilly: Tilly:
[00:28:59] Tilly: one. Did I write it down? Did I fuck?
[00:29:03] Tilly: remember. Dan 1:
[00:29:06] Dan 1: One high as well though, she's been very social. You know, we've, you know, recently we've had lots of friends over a while.
[00:29:15] Dan 1: no,
[00:29:15] Dan 1: Tilly: I can't
[00:29:15] Dan 1: Tilly: remember.
[00:29:15] Dan 1: Dan 1: One high
[00:29:15] Dan 1: She's been around people and she's constantly happy to
[00:29:18] Dan 1: you know,
[00:29:19] Dan 1: a while. She's
[00:29:19] Dan 1: around and stuff like that.
[00:29:21] Dan 1: Tilly: Yeah, she's definitely good with other people. I'm very grateful for that.
[00:29:22] Dan 1: Tilly: That she'll happily be with other people, which is how it should be.
[00:29:22] Dan 1: Tilly: Let's see. Funny.
[00:29:22] Dan 1: Tilly: I don't know. I just, there's those little tiny little things, like funny expressions she does, or reactions to things. All sorts of things. I like sometimes when she snorts
[00:29:22] Tilly: like that.
[00:29:22] Tilly: Tilly: Yeah, she's definitely good with other people.
[00:29:23] Tilly: and
[00:29:25] Tilly: that. she'll happily be with other people, how it should be.
[00:29:30] Tilly: Tilly: Let's see. Funny.
[00:29:33] Tilly: boob, is
[00:29:36] Tilly: tiny little things, like funny expressions she does, or reactions to things. All sorts of things. I like sometimes when she snorts and she's coming up to the boob, she gets
[00:29:43] Tilly: Tilly: so excited that she snorts. Tilly: And you go And she's up to the boob,
[00:29:53] Dan 1: quite enjoyable.
[00:29:53] Dan 1: Dan I
[00:29:54] Dan 1: quite enjoyable.
[00:29:55] Dan 1: Dan
[00:29:56] Dan 1: headbanging at times,
[00:29:57] Dan 1: when
[00:29:57] Dan 1: sort of flesh
[00:29:57] Dan 1: Dan 1: apple bobbing.
[00:29:57] Dan 1: Tilly: And the pupusa is about to feed her.
[00:29:57] Dan 1: Tilly: She's getting hungry
[00:29:59] Dan 1: really overworked by hunger, she starts slamming her head into any form of skin that she can find, hopefully it's food at once, and some sort of flesh
[00:30:06] Dan 1: Dan 1: apple bobbing. the pupusa is about to feed her.
[00:30:11] Dan 1: Tilly: She's getting
[00:30:12] Tilly: hungry and she starts Tilly: because I got a ticket for
[00:30:14] Tilly: Tilly: it.
[00:30:15] Tilly: Dan 1:
[00:30:15] Tilly: she starts sucking my neck. Tilly: it.
[00:30:21] Tilly: Dan 1:
[00:30:23] Dan 1: Yeah, what's
[00:30:23] Dan 1: that from? No, it's my baby.
[00:30:25] Dan 1: Tilly: So then
[00:30:27] Tilly: we bring us on to
[00:30:28] Tilly: us on
[00:30:29] Tilly: Skilya Bob Bob Bob
[00:30:30] Tilly: Silence: Bob Skype!
[00:30:32] Tilly: Bob
[00:30:33] Tilly: have you managed to find any new ones this week?
[00:30:35] Dan 1: Skype! Sketchy!
[00:30:35] Dan 1: Tilly: So have you managed to find any new ones this week?
[00:30:36] Dan 1: Dan 1: Well, I think we should start with the The madness
[00:30:40] Dan 1: Well, I think we should start madness in hour, triple threat, and then yes, that's all
[00:30:49] Dan 1: the last hour, triple threat, vomit, diarrhea, and then yes, that's all in one. Well, not in one, but consecutively.
[00:30:53] Dan 1: consecutively. Vomit and then
[00:30:55] Dan 1: go up, change her. Well, so
[00:30:58] Dan 1: just
[00:30:58] Dan 1: finished bottle feeding
[00:30:59] Dan 1: Dan
[00:30:59] Dan 1: Dan 1: Well just about to finish bottle feeding her, and then she kind of just starts to throw it out. Like a lot one of those,
[00:31:05] Dan 1: minutes. Obviously passed by over there, tried to come straight over and I was like, pushed back with my foot. Not feeling
[00:31:08] Dan 1: passed by over there, tried straight over and I was like, pushed back with my foot. Not feeling that. I'm trying to eat, I'm gonna be sick.
[00:31:20] Dan 1: Dan
[00:31:20] Dan 1: be sick.
[00:31:20] Dan 1: Dan 1: Go upstairs, get a change into the new baby crib, come back
[00:31:26] Dan 1: then just a 1:
[00:31:30] Tilly: downstairs, then just a bit.
[00:31:31] Tilly: Dan 1: And
[00:31:33] Dan 1: feel that
[00:31:34] Dan 1: She'll fall
[00:31:34] Dan 1: Dan 1: back. Yes.
[00:31:34] Dan 1: Dan 1: It's like when you pour water too quickly, when you pour something too quickly, it's like a wind off, it shoots back out.
[00:31:35] Dan 1: is moist, and next
[00:31:37] Dan 1: Dan
[00:31:37] Dan 1: diarrhoea. She'll fall
[00:31:37] Dan 1: Dan 1: back. Yes.
[00:31:37] Dan 1: Dan 1: It's
[00:31:38] Dan 1: 1: It's like
[00:31:40] Tilly: a tsunami.
[00:31:43] Dan 1: like when you pour water too quickly, when you pour something too quickly, it's like a wind off, it shoots back out.
[00:31:49] Dan 1: Dan 1: It's like a tsunami.
[00:31:50] Dan 1: Yeah, so, then went to go change her there, and then she just started titting while we were changing her, She was just
[00:31:58] Tilly: dribbling out,
[00:31:59] Dan 1: just bubbling out. So we were
[00:32:00] Dan 1: trying to hold her up to clean her and
[00:32:03] Dan 1: to clean her, and she was just spraying poo all over the changing mat. She was just sort of dribbling out, wasn't it?
[00:32:05] Dan 1: Dan 1: Yeah, and she kept kicking her
[00:32:05] Dan 1: all over the changing mat. She was just sort of dribbling out, wasn't it?
[00:32:06] Dan 1: Dan 1: Yeah, and she kept kicking her feet, so we'd kind of pick her up, wipe her down, wipe her feet, be about to sort of kind put her up in
[00:32:19] Dan 1: of
[00:32:21] Dan 1: got to the point that that was sorted. Put her down,
[00:32:26] Dan 1: scrubbing a few things so that we can, you
[00:32:28] Dan 1: you know, get a new baby on the road.
[00:32:30] Dan 1: Dan 1: We ran out
[00:32:31] Dan 1: of baby wipes. So, so much.
[00:32:34] Dan 1: Tilly: We've had more
[00:32:35] Tilly: packets guys, don't worry.
[00:32:36] Tilly: Dan 1: Yeah, yeah, we've
[00:32:37] Dan 1: run out of baby wipes
[00:32:38] Dan 1: this station. Of the multiple in the house. Yeah, we've run out of backup wipes. And by
[00:32:42] Dan 1: Tilly: that
[00:32:42] Dan 1: Dan 1: point
[00:32:43] Dan 1: by
[00:32:43] Dan 1: Tilly: that
[00:32:43] Dan 1: Dan 1: point she'd been everywhere. And so she'd be
[00:32:47] Dan 1: she'd been everywhere. And so she'd be all up on her back. She
[00:32:49] Dan 1: lying in her own way.
[00:32:50] Dan 1: I'm
[00:32:51] Dan 1: Yeah, I went
[00:32:52] Tilly: to the clinic again. Yes,
[00:32:52] Tilly: Tilly: that's another reason why I've chosen this bath time. Yeah.
[00:32:52] Tilly: Dan
[00:32:56] Dan 1: She's covered in her
[00:32:58] Dan 1: Tilly: Well, I mean, white's down, but there's definitely gonna be residue.
[00:32:58] Dan 1: Dan 1: Yeah.
[00:32:59] Dan 1: Tilly: Madness. I know. I'll have a little soak in Tilly: No.
[00:33:07] Tilly: just hoping I don't get covered in poo.
[00:33:08] Tilly: Tilly: Maybe you should have saved that sketch up.
[00:33:08] Tilly: Tilly: I mean, if we get covered in poo, we get covered in poo. That's part of it, isn't it, really? In the Everyone's weaned in the bath.
[00:33:17] Tilly: Dan 1: You're a aren't you?
[00:33:21] Tilly: Tilly:
[00:33:21] Tilly: I
[00:33:22] Tilly: occasionally wean
[00:33:25] Tilly: really can't
[00:33:25] Tilly: to get out, but generally I'm not. I don't stay in the bath that long. I
[00:33:29] Tilly: for the first
[00:33:30] Tilly: baths. I like it for
[00:33:31] Tilly: of like,
[00:33:32] Tilly: the first like five, maybe ten minutes and then I'm kind of like, done now.
[00:33:37] Tilly: Tilly: So yes, the bubble's well and
[00:33:38] Tilly: bubble's
[00:33:39] Tilly: empty now, so she's refilling.
[00:33:40] Tilly: Dan
[00:33:41] Dan 1: Yeah, which is problematic, because you find it's a bit strapped into it, and you find it hard to stick.
[00:33:45] Dan 1: Tilly: No, I think it's alright now, because before it was really sore, wasn't it? Whereas now it's not sore.
[00:33:45] Dan 1: Dan 1: So you've got, you've
[00:33:47] Tilly: now, because before it was really sore, wasn't it? Whereas now it's not sore.
[00:33:48] Tilly: Dan 1: So you've got
[00:33:51] Dan 1: get thrush in
[00:33:53] Tilly: I've got brain Now my boob thrush is gone.
[00:33:58] Tilly: your boobs?
[00:33:58] Tilly: Dan
[00:33:58] Tilly: thrush in your boobs?
[00:33:59] Tilly: Dan 1:
[00:34:01] Dan 1: yeah, have we discussed that? Was that around last week?
[00:34:04] Tilly: know, but if not,
[00:34:07] Tilly: had Made me
[00:34:09] Tilly: me have really burny boobs which was delightful every time
[00:34:11] Tilly: every time she fed.
[00:34:11]
[00:34:11] Tilly: Dan 1:
[00:34:11] Tilly: fed.
[00:34:13] Dan 1: So, we've had two acts this week, haven't we?
[00:34:16] Dan 1: Dan
[00:34:17] Dan 1: Oh yeah. So we're at my
[00:34:18] Dan 1: Oh yeah. So we're at my mum's. You, you, elaborate.
[00:34:21] Ep8 Dan - Descript: Tilly:
[00:34:22] Tilly: Yeah
[00:34:23] Tilly: so we went to your mum's for sort of a breakfast y, brunch y, just catch
[00:34:27] Tilly: y, And We handed Bubz
[00:34:31] Tilly: Bubz to your mum for a little cuddle, a little grandma cuddle, and I was thinking like, Oh, there's a little stain on her, I is, and I was like, and there's some more on her, and there's a lot of stains, and there's just lots of shit seeping out
[00:34:48] Tilly: a little grandma cuddle, and I was thinking like, Oh, there's a little stain on her, I wonder what that is, and I was like, oh, there's another shit seeping out of her nappy, just as your mum had us.
[00:34:53] Tilly: Dan 1:
[00:34:53] Tilly: mum taken her, and then your mum very quickly handed her back
[00:34:55] Dan 1: Credit to mum wasn't overly bothered. Thought mum would
[00:34:57] Dan 1: bothered. Thought mum would
[00:34:59] Dan 1: have been
[00:34:59] Dan 1: a bit like, don't like getting through
[00:35:00] Dan 1: a bit like, don't like getting through onto my clothes, but she was just
[00:35:02] Dan 1: Tilly: Well, she's had two babies herself,
[00:35:04] Tilly: who posted
[00:35:05] Tilly: Dan
[00:35:05] Dan 1: this is from somebody called Shastae, who posted
[00:35:08] Dan 1: Dan 1: on Babysitter. Give me those tuners, baby.
[00:35:15] Dan 1: So, I was wondering if anyone else has any funny poop stories. Last night
[00:35:20] Dan 1: baby.
[00:35:20] Dan 1: I was so tired, I
[00:35:21] Dan 1: has any funny
[00:35:22] Dan 1: made the mistake of changing his diaper on the bed, and I sat to clean it up.
[00:35:26] Dan 1: to clean it He
[00:35:28] Dan 1: his diaper,
[00:35:29] Dan 1: poop
[00:35:30] Dan 1: figured he was drunk. Nope! When I lifted his legs to wipe, poop shot
[00:35:34] Dan 1: Dan 1: out, went down my bra, all over my chest, and down
[00:35:40] Dan 1: Dan 1: in front of me, into my lap.
[00:35:42] Dan 1: and down
[00:35:42] Dan 1: Dan 1: in front of me, into
[00:35:42] Dan 1: Dan 1: If I'd have had my head any lower, I
[00:35:44] Dan 1: I would have hit
[00:35:45] Dan 1: would
[00:35:45] Dan 1: face. I
[00:35:46] Dan 1: have hit my face. I had to go and get
[00:35:47] Dan 1: my husband to help
[00:35:48] Dan 1: my husband to help clean myself off. The best part
[00:35:51] Dan 1: is, that after
[00:35:53] Dan 1: is, that after we did that re diaper, I swear he was like, the little
[00:35:56] Dan 1: that re diaper, I And
[00:35:57] Dan 1: devil. And I think he said the night before, my little guy decided he was going to paint the wall. He literally shot a person in the back of the butt, all over on my head, down the change table and the wall.
[00:36:11] Tilly: table and the wall.
[00:36:12] Tilly: Tilly: He's got an impressive anus, this
[00:36:12] Dan 1: Tilly: He's got an impressive anus, this baby.
[00:36:12] Dan 1: Dan 1: Yeah, it was a powerful bowels.. That was an impressive anus, and that's what we finished on last time. So it's not going to be
[00:36:21] Dan 1: That
[00:36:21] Dan 1: it's how we
[00:36:22] Tilly: was an impressive anus, and that's what we finished on last time. So it's not going to be
[00:36:24] Dan 1: it's how we
[00:36:24] Dan 1: out
[00:36:25] Dan 1: ImpressAlanus.
[00:36:26] Dan 1: And
[00:36:26] Tilly: And on that,
[00:36:26] Tilly: Tilly: Bob's show. On that ImpressAlanus. Good night.
[00:36:28] Dan 1: on that,
[00:36:28] Dan 1: Tilly: Bob's show. On that ImpressAlanus. Good night.
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