Half finished offer ideas and zero progress.
Speaker:Why your offer ideas never make it out there and how to fix it.
Speaker:I don't know about you, but there was a time when I felt like the queen
Speaker:of half finished projects.
Speaker:I would have a bajillion brilliant ideas for offers that started with a burst of
Speaker:inspiration, followed by a ton of excitement and then nothing.
Speaker:They would be half done, half baked, whatever.
Speaker:It was like someone stuck a pin in my bright, colorful balloon
Speaker:and then it was gone.
Speaker:And the problem with that is you end up with all of those half done
Speaker:ideas for offers just piled up.
Speaker:Felt like they were literally mocking me, reminding me of all the energy and
Speaker:time I wasted before giving up.
Speaker:It's like they formed their own little graveyard of good intentions.
Speaker:Can you relate?
Speaker:Well, if there's one thing I know for sure now, it's that it doesn't mean you're lazy
Speaker:or unmotivated or even that you don't have great ideas, because trust
Speaker:me, I am sure that you do.
Speaker:In fact, you're probably overflowing with incredible ideas and it's that
Speaker:you're trying to do too much at once.
Speaker:The problem is that you're setting the bar so high with your ultimate offer,
Speaker:the ultimate idea, the newest, greatest idea, that it becomes this monstrosis,
Speaker:complicated thing that you can't finish.
Speaker:You may not have the clarity you need to fully complete it yet.
Speaker:And so overwhelm sets in, right?
Speaker:Like you, I'm sure you know this cycle if you're someone who is filled
Speaker:with one idea after another.
Speaker:And I'm talking about like you wake up with ideas in the morning and you go to
Speaker:sleep thinking about ideas and you're constantly writing down a short note on
Speaker:your phone or on your laptop or wherever it could be a napkin, right?
Speaker:Like, you have a ton of ideas and they all warrant your attention.
Speaker:Because when you have a ton of ideas, you're tapping into your creative center.
Speaker:And I'll bet you that many of these ideas are coming from a much higher level of
Speaker:inspiration is coming through us, right?
Speaker:It's coming through each of us.
Speaker:And the trouble with that is, as I said, that we can't possibly pay attention
Speaker:to all of them at one time.
Speaker:And we end up taking an idea because of that high energy we feel from it.
Speaker:And we put this very high expectation on ourselves
Speaker:to see it through to full creation.
Speaker:The problem that we run into is we don't always have the clarity
Speaker:needed in order to do that.
Speaker:But it doesn't mean that we can't create the Idea, it just means that we need
Speaker:the clarity in order to complete it.
Speaker:So when you don't have the clarity to fully complete an idea, like for a new
Speaker:offer for your community, it starts to become overwhelming.
Speaker:You can't move forward with it.
Speaker:You can't make a decision At a certain point in the offer creation, and
Speaker:it doesn't feel right anymore.
Speaker:Something is off, and you're feeling more frustration around it rather than that
Speaker:incredible inspiration and excitement that you felt at the beginning.
Speaker:Does that sound familiar?
Speaker:I mean, really, like, I still do this from time to time, but I recognize
Speaker:it when it happens now.
Speaker:So you then start to feel burned out and
Speaker:defeated and, let's be honest, kind of annoyed at yourself.
Speaker:Or that could just be me.
Speaker:But you know, hey, it's a thing.
Speaker:But the really good thing is the sun is always shining somewhere.
Speaker:And there's a way to break out of this cycle of offer creation burnout and
Speaker:actually get your offers out there.
Speaker:And no, it doesn't involve working harder or forcing yourself to
Speaker:be more disciplined.
Speaker:Because seriously, who wants that, really?
Speaker:I mean, I know we think that, and that's that repetitive inner critic that says you
Speaker:just need to be more disciplined, but that's not really what we want.
Speaker:Instead, it's about starting small, breaking down complexity, and aligning
Speaker:with your energy so that you can create offers, get
Speaker:them out there, and get clients.
Speaker:The bonus, your clients will love you for helping them experience quick wins
Speaker:and not go down the same path as you.
Speaker:Overwhelm, get giving up and feeling guilty because of it.
Speaker:Can you see that pattern and how it trickles down?
Speaker:Can trickle down, ready to finally see progress?
Speaker:Well, here's how. Let's get into it.
Speaker:So number one, start small to validate quickly.
Speaker:All right, so let's get one thing straight.
Speaker:You're being way too hard on yourself.
Speaker:You're probably trying to create the ultimate, fully fleshed out,
Speaker:perfect offer from day one.
Speaker:You want to wow your audience, change their lives, and maybe even get a
Speaker:few wonderful testimonials, right?
Speaker:I mean, that's, that's the ideal thing, but that's also the problem.
Speaker:It's too big, too complicated, and too overwhelming.
Speaker:So what happens?
Speaker:You end up brain dumping, losing your dopamine rush and wondering where to go
Speaker:from here, and then walking away feeling so defeated.
Speaker:The solution.
Speaker:Start with a micro solution.
Speaker:And by micro, I mean tiny.
Speaker:Solve just one specific problem.
Speaker:Not five problems, not a whole life transformation, just one tiny piece.
Speaker:For example, if you're a life coach, don't try to build a 12 week course on living
Speaker:your best life or finding your life purpose right out of the gate.
Speaker:I mean, I'm already exhausted just thinking about it.
Speaker:Instead, start with something much smaller.
Speaker:Because here's the thing.
Speaker:Even if you have a framework, maybe you have a framework
Speaker:through the certification that you went through to become a life coach, right?
Speaker:And that's absolutely wonderful.
Speaker:It can certainly serve as a starting point.
Speaker:But you don't know for certain that your audience is going to be aligned
Speaker:with that or that for that matter, it's what they want and need.
Speaker:Maybe you have a really unique element to your audience, right?
Speaker:So start smaller.
Speaker:And as I said, if instead of trying to build out that big, huge course,
Speaker:start with one tiny or micro problem that you
Speaker:know you can solve right now, you'll feel the difference.
Speaker:As you think about it, feel the difference of that creating that
Speaker:solution versus creating the full big program.
Speaker:How does it feel?
Speaker:I'm hoping, and I expect that it feels a whole lot better.
Speaker:Better.
Speaker:You'll feel the difference.
Speaker:Not to mention you'll be able to get it done and out there and still have
Speaker:time for coffee with friends.
Speaker:Number two, Create offers that align with your energy.
Speaker:You know that feeling when you sit down to work on your offer and immediately
Speaker:feel like taking a nap?
Speaker:Yeah, I've been there.
Speaker:That's your energy yelling at you or more accurately, leaving you.
Speaker:If your energy is low, heavy, or just plain blah, it's because you're trying to
Speaker:create in a way that doesn't align with who you are or how you like to work.
Speaker:For that matter, if it feels hard, heavy, or complicated, you're doing it wrong.
Speaker:Your offer creation process should feel light and fun and exciting and
Speaker:like you're in your element.
Speaker:It should flow naturally.
Speaker:If that sounds impossible, stick with me for a second.
Speaker:Because even if in that moment, like everything is feeling great and you're
Speaker:moving along and you get to a point where it's not flowing, all you need to do is
Speaker:step away for just a little bit, right?
Speaker:Go reclaim some of your energy.
Speaker:On the flip side, if being on camera, for example.
Speaker:Well, let's, let's back up.
Speaker:You know, if, for example, if writing feels like
Speaker:pulling teeth, and I'm talking about how you go about creating your offer,
Speaker:if writing feels like pulling teeth, don't write, record a video or host a live
Speaker:session, or create a worksheet or a visual.
Speaker:That's one of my favorite things in the world.
Speaker:I am a very visual person.
Speaker:And although the caveat to that is that I don't have like graphic
Speaker:design talent at all.
Speaker:But one of the most relaxing things for me to do is go design something visually.
Speaker:So whether I need a product image or a new sales page, right?
Speaker:One of the things that I love to do to just take a break from stuff is to
Speaker:go and create some of that imagery.
Speaker:It's relaxing to me.
Speaker:Whatever it is for you, do whatever feels easiest and most fun.
Speaker:And you know, if being on camera makes you feel like a deer in the headlights or if
Speaker:it's very draining, then don't do a video write instead or record audio or create
Speaker:a checklist or whatever floats your boat.
Speaker:The point is doing something in that energy of fun and
Speaker:enjoyment and excitement.
Speaker:Here are some tips.
Speaker:Pay attention to your energy.
Speaker:As I said, when you do feel really creative and inspired,
Speaker:that's the time to work on your offer.
Speaker:When you feel drained or stuck, just step away for a little bit.
Speaker:Sometimes it just takes a very small amount of a break to gain some more
Speaker:inspiration and clarity and you can go right back at it.
Speaker:Choose content formats that feel easy and fun.
Speaker:Lean into your strengths.
Speaker:Stop trying to force yourself into a box that doesn't fit.
Speaker:If you hate long form writing, don't write a 50 page ebook.
Speaker:If you love talking, do a mini podcast or audio series like a
Speaker:private podcast series.
Speaker:The key is to design your offer creation process to match your natural energy.
Speaker:When it feels fun, you'll actually want to do it.
Speaker:And when you want to do it, you will finish it as long as you have the
Speaker:clarity you need to get it done.
Speaker:Recognize when you hit a wall and this is when.
Speaker:Usually when you start feeling frustration, you start feeling tired.
Speaker:And instead of pushing yourself forward to the point
Speaker:where you abandon the offer idea altogether.
Speaker:Pause.
Speaker:Identify what you need in order to get it done.
Speaker:Like speak out loud unless there's people around that you don't
Speaker:want listening to that.
Speaker:What is am I frustrated about what do I not have clarity on
Speaker:what doesn't feel right?
Speaker:And then step away for a bit and plan to do what you need
Speaker:to do to get that clarity.
Speaker:Break down the complexity.
Speaker:Half finished projects like Offer Ideas are almost always the result
Speaker:of one thing overwhelm.
Speaker:And nothing creates overwhelm faster than complexity.
Speaker:If your offer feels like a massive complicated mountain, it's no wonder
Speaker:you're avoiding it like it's a source of pain.
Speaker:Because it is.
Speaker:You're trying to do too much too fast.
Speaker:And side note here, chances are it might feel like too much for your people too.
Speaker:It may feel too complex and Overwhelming for them as well, and we don't want that.
Speaker:The trick is to break it down into tiny bite sized tasks that feel doable.
Speaker:For example, instead of writing create Workshop on your to do list, which is
Speaker:vague and can be basically meaningless, break it down into micro tasks like
Speaker:outline the workshop flow, write the intro, create the first slide,
Speaker:record the welcome video.
Speaker:By breaking it down this way, you make the process manageable.
Speaker:You're no longer staring at a massive project, you're just checking
Speaker:off tiny tasks one by one.
Speaker:Write down every tiny step needed to create your offer, no matter how small.
Speaker:Put them in order from start to finish, and focus on just one tiny
Speaker:task at a time, nothing else.
Speaker:When you break down the complexity, you eliminate the overwhelm, which means
Speaker:you're way more likely to finish what you start.
Speaker:It's time to get out of your own way. That was.
Speaker:You know, we hear that phrase a lot.
Speaker:I know, but it was.
Speaker:I distinctly remember my own like, aha moment when I realized what I was doing to
Speaker:get in my own way, which was things like over complicating,
Speaker:trying to create too much. And that was.
Speaker:While I never consider myself a perfectionist,
Speaker:I realized that trying to create too much was maybe one small way that I
Speaker:got caught up in perfectionism. Right?
Speaker:It's got to have everything for them.
Speaker:It's got to touch every point.
Speaker:It's got to be enough.
Speaker:It's got to be valuable.
Speaker:Do you know what's valuable?
Speaker:Succeeding at something, starting and finishing and feeling
Speaker:incredible because you did it.
Speaker:Having an aha moment.
Speaker:Having a moment where two dots in your thinking connect.
Speaker:Having a realization, understanding something in a different way,
Speaker:fixing a small problem, like how to get over that 2:30pm
Speaker:Energy slump in your day.
Speaker:Like one little small thing I can do and suddenly I'm not having
Speaker:that energy slump anymore.
Speaker:Those kinds of things are transformational.
Speaker:Look, half finished, offer ideas and zero progress aren't about
Speaker:laziness, lack of discipline.
Speaker:Like I said, it's usually the complete opposite.
Speaker:It's about setting the bar too high, trying to do too much, getting stuck in
Speaker:perfectionism, or some form of it, because it has many, many disguises.
Speaker:The answer isn't to work harder or force yourself to power through, because
Speaker:we both know how that usually ends.
Speaker:The answer is to start small, align with your energy and break down the complexity.
Speaker:Those three things, if that's all you walk away with from this, that's
Speaker:what I want you to remember.
Speaker:Start small, align with your energy and break down the complexity
Speaker:so you can create easily and actually finish what you start.
Speaker:It's time to stop overwhelming yourself with gigantic, complicated offers and
Speaker:start creating tiny, doable micro solutions that actually get finished.
Speaker:And drum roll sold.
Speaker:Your ideas are amazing, I am certain.
Speaker:So it's time to get them out there and it's time to get clients.
Speaker:No more half finished projects, no more burnout, just progress.
Speaker:Because done is always better than perfect.