1 00:00:00,050 --> 00:00:02,810 Benjamin Franklin is the godfather of the to-do list. 2 00:00:02,990 --> 00:00:06,620 He would create detail lists of everything that he needed to do 3 00:00:06,680 --> 00:00:08,300 and what time he would get it done. 4 00:00:08,350 --> 00:00:12,010 He would start his day with prayer and personal hygiene and planning. 5 00:00:12,110 --> 00:00:14,990 After a long day of work he would wrap it up with a review 6 00:00:14,995 --> 00:00:16,150 of what was done that day. 7 00:00:17,370 --> 00:00:20,330 The challenge is that most of us have lists that have grown 8 00:00:20,330 --> 00:00:21,830 completely out of control. 9 00:00:22,340 --> 00:00:26,150 Every day our list grows longer and longer and it's harder to manage. 10 00:00:26,510 --> 00:00:28,640 So do lists actually work. 11 00:00:29,120 --> 00:00:32,574 On today's episode, I'm going to share with you how to tame your to-do list, 12 00:00:33,317 --> 00:00:37,855 how to think about your to-do list, and actually use a list to get more done. 13 00:00:38,245 --> 00:00:41,035 I'm Amin Ahmed, and welcome to Be Well, Do Well. 14 00:00:42,005 --> 00:00:46,530 The first thing I want to talk about is that your to-do list is not a plan. 15 00:00:46,920 --> 00:00:51,750 Someone once told me that your to-do list is sort of like a grocery list. 16 00:00:51,750 --> 00:00:53,280 It's all the things that you need. 17 00:00:53,580 --> 00:00:56,640 Whereas your daily plan is like your meal plan. 18 00:00:57,060 --> 00:01:00,570 So you wouldn't just go to the grocery store and just grab random things 19 00:01:00,570 --> 00:01:03,030 off the shelf, come home, and then sit there and go, All right, what 20 00:01:03,030 --> 00:01:04,200 am I gonna make with all of this? 21 00:01:04,530 --> 00:01:07,680 I mean, some of you might, but generally speaking, you have a meal 22 00:01:07,680 --> 00:01:10,310 plan and then you get the ingredients that you need for that meal. 23 00:01:11,025 --> 00:01:14,355 Otherwise, what happens is that you end up with missing ingredients, for 24 00:01:14,355 --> 00:01:17,095 example, or too much of something, or too little of something. 25 00:01:18,075 --> 00:01:19,905 Your to-do list is sort of like that. 26 00:01:20,415 --> 00:01:24,495 Once you've got a plan, maybe a daily, quarterly, weekly, monthly, 27 00:01:24,495 --> 00:01:28,875 annual, even your life plan, then you can start bringing it back in 28 00:01:28,905 --> 00:01:32,745 towards your day and decide well, from that giant plan that I have. 29 00:01:32,745 --> 00:01:35,865 Let's say your plan is to get 50 new clients this month. 30 00:01:36,195 --> 00:01:39,015 Well, if your plan is to get 50 new clients and you break it all down, you 31 00:01:39,015 --> 00:01:43,300 say, okay, what do I need to do every in order to get closer to my goal. 32 00:01:44,110 --> 00:01:48,370 So your to-do list is really just the itemized things that need to be 33 00:01:48,375 --> 00:01:50,780 done that support your overall plan. 34 00:01:51,950 --> 00:01:55,070 So now that you've got this idea that your to-do list is 35 00:01:55,075 --> 00:01:56,360 not actually your daily plan. 36 00:01:56,950 --> 00:02:01,000 Let's now talk about why it's so difficult sometimes to get these things done. 37 00:02:01,430 --> 00:02:04,370 I may have talked about this before on a previous episode about this idea 38 00:02:04,370 --> 00:02:06,770 of chronotypes, and I love this idea. 39 00:02:06,770 --> 00:02:11,090 I read this in a number of different books, and the way a chronotype works is 40 00:02:11,090 --> 00:02:13,060 that it's your energy compared to other's. 41 00:02:13,590 --> 00:02:18,500 And so generally speaking, you've got your days that you wake 42 00:02:18,500 --> 00:02:19,790 up and then you go to sleep. 43 00:02:19,850 --> 00:02:23,480 That's considered your circadian rhythm, whereas your chronotype 44 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:25,700 defines your energy within that day. 45 00:02:25,850 --> 00:02:28,820 So the 24 hours you've got, what time you wake up and what time you go to 46 00:02:28,820 --> 00:02:30,260 sleep, that's your circadian rhythm. 47 00:02:30,265 --> 00:02:34,831 But inside of those 24 hours have a lot more energy, sometimes in the 48 00:02:34,836 --> 00:02:36,890 beginning, sometimes in the middle, sometimes at the end of the day, 49 00:02:36,890 --> 00:02:40,840 and where your energy is and your pattern that defines your chronotype. 50 00:02:41,705 --> 00:02:43,465 There's generally three types of chronotype. 51 00:02:43,465 --> 00:02:46,945 The first is your morning larc, that's your early bird. 52 00:02:47,095 --> 00:02:50,215 Those are the ones that get up very early between five and let's say seven. 53 00:02:50,265 --> 00:02:55,715 Then you've got kind of the later morning birds, those we refer to as the dove. 54 00:02:56,345 --> 00:02:59,405 And the dove is where you're sort of a morning bird, but you're gonna be 55 00:02:59,465 --> 00:03:00,845 waking up just a little bit later. 56 00:03:00,995 --> 00:03:03,935 And then in the other end of the spectrum, you've got your night owl. 57 00:03:04,145 --> 00:03:07,835 You're sleeping late, you're waking up late, and your energy is very different 58 00:03:07,835 --> 00:03:10,175 compared to your lark and your dove. 59 00:03:11,265 --> 00:03:13,455 We've got a quiz on our website, so you can go ahead and head over 60 00:03:13,455 --> 00:03:17,565 there to bewelldowell.fm and there's a chronotype quiz that you'll 61 00:03:17,565 --> 00:03:18,735 answer a number of questions. 62 00:03:18,735 --> 00:03:20,265 So I think there's 19 question. 63 00:03:20,655 --> 00:03:23,865 Answer those questions and it'll actually tell you exactly which chronotype you are. 64 00:03:24,525 --> 00:03:29,865 Once you know that you're either a morning lark or a dove or a night owl, what you 65 00:03:29,865 --> 00:03:31,905 can do is then you can plan your day. 66 00:03:31,935 --> 00:03:33,790 Remember all the items that you have in that list. 67 00:03:34,240 --> 00:03:37,090 Now you can take that and you can plan your day based on when you 68 00:03:37,090 --> 00:03:38,650 naturally have the most energy. 69 00:03:39,100 --> 00:03:42,880 This is so important because you wanna make sure that you're actually working 70 00:03:42,940 --> 00:03:44,600 when you have the energy to work. 71 00:03:44,940 --> 00:03:49,585 So if you are a morning lark, like me, I wake up quite early. 72 00:03:49,585 --> 00:03:52,405 If 5:00 AM I'm awake before my kids are awake. 73 00:03:52,465 --> 00:03:56,450 I've got two hours to get some work done, and that's when I have the most 74 00:03:56,510 --> 00:03:59,540 amount of creative energy and focus is the first thing in the morning. 75 00:03:59,540 --> 00:04:04,310 So between five and seven, that's when I'm the most productive and creative. 76 00:04:04,970 --> 00:04:08,900 Then later in the morning, I move over to more admin related tasks, 77 00:04:08,900 --> 00:04:10,200 and in the afternoon after lunch. 78 00:04:10,580 --> 00:04:11,280 I'm useless. 79 00:04:11,540 --> 00:04:14,900 When one o'clock runs, rolls around between noon and two o'clock. 80 00:04:14,930 --> 00:04:18,050 I definitely try not to have any big meetings, try not to make big 81 00:04:18,050 --> 00:04:21,740 decisions, and it's really hard for me to create anything at that time. 82 00:04:22,250 --> 00:04:25,850 But in the evening, as it gets closer to dinner time and afterwards 83 00:04:25,850 --> 00:04:26,630 I start getting more energy. 84 00:04:27,350 --> 00:04:30,260 And that's the time when I start to use that energy not for work cause 85 00:04:30,260 --> 00:04:31,520 I've already ended my work day. 86 00:04:31,850 --> 00:04:35,360 I use that energy towards connection with friends and family. 87 00:04:35,365 --> 00:04:38,455 Those are the things that I do when I have that type of energy in the evening, 88 00:04:39,295 --> 00:04:42,325 A night owl is actually flipped upside down. 89 00:04:42,655 --> 00:04:45,865 They have a lot more energy in the morning to connect with people 90 00:04:45,865 --> 00:04:47,085 and do those sorts of things. 91 00:04:48,055 --> 00:04:51,685 But in the evening is when they have the most amount of energy 92 00:04:51,685 --> 00:04:56,185 to do creative work and regular, you know, daily job type work. 93 00:04:56,655 --> 00:04:57,502 Take The quiz on the website. 94 00:04:57,502 --> 00:05:00,262 You'll learn a lot about yourself, whether you're a morning clerk 95 00:05:00,262 --> 00:05:01,762 or a dove or a night owl. 96 00:05:02,122 --> 00:05:05,782 And then you can download our planner as well, which has a little strip along 97 00:05:05,782 --> 00:05:09,322 the side and it shows you when your energy is gonna be the most and least. 98 00:05:09,604 --> 00:05:12,244 If you have, so let's say you have meetings, you wanna plan those? 99 00:05:12,244 --> 00:05:15,454 Not for me, not after lunch, when I have the least amount of energy and 100 00:05:15,454 --> 00:05:19,564 I'm just not feeling myself and I'm not present, but plan it near the end of 101 00:05:19,564 --> 00:05:22,024 my day or maybe right after breakfast. 102 00:05:22,424 --> 00:05:26,714 If you plan your work when you have the most amount of energy, you'll find 103 00:05:26,744 --> 00:05:28,604 that you'll actually get more done. 104 00:05:29,204 --> 00:05:32,624 Combine this with other techniques like deep work and focus, and maybe 105 00:05:32,624 --> 00:05:37,784 using music to get you into a rhythm of working without any distractions. 106 00:05:38,204 --> 00:05:41,534 But the main thing I'm trying to get here is that if you work, when 107 00:05:41,534 --> 00:05:44,804 you have the right amount of energy and the right type of energy, you'll 108 00:05:44,804 --> 00:05:47,474 definitely get more done, and you'll find that your to-do list actually 109 00:05:47,474 --> 00:05:49,184 starts to shrink and shrink and shrink. 110 00:05:50,294 --> 00:05:54,284 Recap here would be that your to-do list is not the same as your daily plan. 111 00:05:54,614 --> 00:05:56,564 Your grocery list is not same as your meal plan. 112 00:05:56,774 --> 00:05:59,714 Think of it that way, and it'll be a lot easier to understand when to 113 00:05:59,744 --> 00:06:02,534 make a to-do list, when to make a plan, and how they connect together. 114 00:06:03,044 --> 00:06:06,134 Second point is that you need to know your chronotype. 115 00:06:06,464 --> 00:06:10,939 If you are a morning lark or a dove or a night owl, plan your work around the 116 00:06:10,939 --> 00:06:14,029 time that you have the most amount of energy and the right types of energy. 117 00:06:14,359 --> 00:06:17,989 And lastly, work when you have energy, just like I mentioned with the 118 00:06:17,989 --> 00:06:21,529 chronotypes, is that get your work done when you have those types of energy, 119 00:06:21,859 --> 00:06:25,399 focus, creative, administrative, and you'll end up getting a lot 120 00:06:25,404 --> 00:06:26,779 more done and your list will shrink. 121 00:06:27,539 --> 00:06:31,619 You can download the planner on our website and you can do the quiz on our 122 00:06:31,619 --> 00:06:35,709 website as well bewelldowell.fm and I'll put a link in the show notes down below. 123 00:06:36,649 --> 00:06:38,124 I hope this has been helpful for you. 124 00:06:38,424 --> 00:06:41,994 On our next episode, we're gonna tie into this a little bit and talk 125 00:06:41,994 --> 00:06:45,414 about why you feel tired throughout the day, even though you may be 126 00:06:45,414 --> 00:06:46,854 getting a lot of sleep at night. 127 00:06:47,364 --> 00:06:48,414 I hope you join me tomorrow. 128 00:06:48,894 --> 00:06:51,444 Thanks again for making the Be Well, Do Well Podcast a part of 129 00:06:51,444 --> 00:06:52,764 your day and I'll see you tomorrow.