This podcast is for you, the Modern Man. I'm Dr Anne Truong,

your host. I'm an intimate health medical doctor and best

selling author of the book, Erectile Dysfunction Fix. I'll

do a deep dive into sexual health and performance and how

it affects men of all ages and backgrounds. So let's get

started, and be sure to visit my website at

sexualhealthformenpodcast.com for more information and

resources from the show. See you on the inside.

Hello there, Modern Man. Today, I'm diving deep into the five

sexual confidence killer you might be making without even

realizing it, and I'll challenge myself to turn them around in

real time.

So sexual confidence is a game changer. It's not just about

having sex. It's about feeling good in your own skin, being

comfortable with your desires and being able to express them

when you have sexual confidence, you're more likely to have a

fulfilling relationship, enjoy sex and feel empowered in your

personal life. We all have behaviors and mindset that hold

us back, often, even without realizing it. These stem from

past experiences, society pressures and even well meaning

but misguided advice from others. They can make us feel

anxious, unsure or unworthy in our intimate relationship.

Today, we're going to explore five common areas that might be

silently sabotaging your sex life.

Let's talk about comparing yourself to others. We live in a

world where social media showcases everyone, highlight

real, make it look easy and feel like we don't measure up. But

when you compare your sex life or your body to someone else's

curated story. You're setting up yourself for disappointment and

self doubt. This comparison can make you feel like you're not

good enough, or that your experiences are somehow less

valid.

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Another confidence killer is negative self talk. Stop it,

guys. I see this all the time. Stop it. Stop it. Stop it. We've

all had this moment where we criticize ourselves for the way

your performance is, or even your desire. But when you

regularly engage in negative self talk, negative thinking,

performance rather than pleasure is another major confidence

killer. When you prioritize performance over enjoying

necessary pressure on yourself. This can lead to anxiety and

make it difficult to relax and even enjoy sex. It's about

shifting your focus from doing it right to experiencing

pleasure together.

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Lastly, fear of vulnerability can really hold you back. Being

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stem from past experiences connection.

The most surprising sexual confidence killer that many

might not even realize they are guilty of is people pleasing.

People pleasing can make you prioritize your partner's needs

over your own to the point of discomfort or resentment. While

being considerate of your partner is important, and I

encourage it, doing so at the expense of your own pleasure of

comfort can erode your confidence. When you're too

focused on pleasing others, you lose touch with your own desire

and need.

So we've discussed five, sexual confidence killer. One, compare

yourself to others. Two, negative self talk. Three,

focusing on performance over pleasure. Four, fear of

vulnerability. And five, people pleasing. Overcoming these

barriers can lead to a healthier, more fulfilling

sexual relationship and a boost in self esteem. If any of these

killer resonated with you, I love to hear about in the

comments below. If you're looking to boost your self

esteem and confidence, check out other videos for practical tips

and strategies.

Just know that you do not have to live with ED. You are not

broken. You are not alone. There are alternatives for you. If you

want to break through ED, I can guide you through it, check the

link down below and how we can work together. We also have the

Modern Man Club, a safe and discrete space where we work

together to get you out of Ed towards sexual performance

again. Just know we're here to support you every step of the

way. You are not alone to try to figure this out yourself. And I

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next episode.

Okay, Modern Man, you are not alone and you don't have to

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