Hey friend, can I speak right to your heart today?
Ralph:Have you ever opened up your bank app?
Ralph:You've taken that deep breath and felt that wave of stress hit
Ralph:before the numbers are even loaded.
Ralph:Like your money just vanishes each month and at the end you're
Ralph:not even sure where it went.
Ralph:I. Well, you're not alone in that feeling, and if you've been carrying
Ralph:that kind of anxiety day after day, then today's show is just for you.
Ralph:Welcome back to Financially Confident Christian.
Ralph:I'm Ralph and I'm so glad you're here.
Ralph:This isn't just another show about numbers.
Ralph:It's about breaking free from that cycle of financial shame
Ralph:and stepping into a new season of clarity, a new season of confidence,
Ralph:and yes, a new season of peace.
Ralph:All with God at the center.
Ralph:We're continuing our new series on dealing with the stress of money worries, and
Ralph:today we're talking about the foundation of financial peace, what I call your
Ralph:intentional spending plan or budget, as most people call it now, maybe when I
Ralph:say budget, your gut reaction is, ugh, not that word again, Ralph and I get it.
Ralph:See, for years I thought of a budget as this huge restriction, kind of
Ralph:like a diet, like putting my money and my freedom on some strong leash.
Ralph:But here's what's changed everything for me.
Ralph:One day I stopped calling it a budget and I started calling it what it really is.
Ralph:And what it really is, is an intentional spending plan.
Ralph:And you might be thinking, Ralph, you've lost it.
Ralph:Why?
Ralph:Why is that?
Ralph:Why is it an intentional spending plan?
Ralph:That's exactly what it is.
Ralph:It's not about deprivation, it's about direction.
Ralph:It's not about what you can't do.
Ralph:It's about being intentional with what God has given you so that every
Ralph:dollar that you have has a purpose.
Ralph:It's a plan that tells your money where to go on purpose instead of
Ralph:constantly wondering where it went.
Ralph:And see when you live with that kind of clarity, your stress
Ralph:just starts to fade away.
Ralph:You move from chaos, You move from chaos to confidence.
Ralph:Let's just look at scripture for a moment.
Ralph:The Book of Proverbs, chapter 16, verse nine, says this in their
Ralph:hearts, humans plan their course, but the Lord establishes their steps.
Ralph:See, this is stewardship.
Ralph:This is trust in action.
Ralph:Let me just tell you something.
Ralph:When you make an intentional spending plan, you're saying this boldly to God.
Ralph:You're saying, God, I trust you've given me enough and I'm
Ralph:gonna choose to be wise with it.
Ralph:Now, I'm gonna share today's action step in just a few moments, but first, as we
Ralph:continue in this series together today, I wanna give you something to help you.
Ralph:So for the first hundred listeners that go to the website, financially
Ralph:confident christian.com/master, I'm giving away a free copy of my book.
Ralph:Now that book is called Mastering Your Finances.
Ralph:It's not some huge elaborate plan.
Ralph:It's just 47 pages, but it's packed with practical steps to help you
Ralph:finally take control of your money, and maybe more importantly, your mindset.
Ralph:See this isn't just a giveaway.
Ralph:It might be the very tool that you need right now in the season that you're in to
Ralph:break that cycle of financial shame and step into your next season of confidence.
Ralph:So please do this.
Ralph:Don't wait.
Ralph:Head to financially confident christian.com/master and grab your copy
Ralph:today because I really wanna share this resource with you 'cause I've walked
Ralph:this path before and I do know what it feels like to finally breathe again.
Ralph:Out.
Ralph:Here's today's one small step.
Ralph:I want you to do your own intentional spending plan.
Ralph:I want you to start by writing your monthly income at the top of the page,
Ralph:that snapshot we took the other day.
Ralph:Use that.
Ralph:Then I want you to list your most important categories first,
Ralph:those things like housing.
Ralph:And food and transportation, and then utilities.
Ralph:Then I want you to add a line for giving and saving, and then a couple
Ralph:fun money things, but I want you to be sure to give every dollar a job.
Ralph:This is what we call in the trade zero based budgeting.
Ralph:Income minus expenses should equal zero.
Ralph:That way no money is drifting on its own without a mission.
Ralph:Finally, I want you to remember, keep it simple.
Ralph:You don't need a fancy spreadsheet.
Ralph:You just need seven or 10 items.
Ralph:A pen and paper works just fine.
Ralph:What really matters the most is that you start, that you do it.
Ralph:So go do that today.
Ralph:Well, how about we pray together?
Ralph:Father, we thank you for being our ultimate provider.
Ralph:And Lord, we just confess that often we've lived without a plan.
Ralph:We've reacted instead of stewarding.
Ralph:But today, Lord, we wanna live intentionally.
Ralph:Lord, we ask that you would help us to see this not as a
Ralph:burden, but truly as a blessing.
Ralph:Lord, give us peace in the process.
Ralph:Strength to stay the course Lord, and wisdom to walk in your truth.
Ralph:And Lord, we just ask this in confidence.
Ralph:In Jesus' name.
Ralph:Amen.
Ralph:Friend, you don't have to live in stress and shame anymore.
Ralph:You can create your own intentional spending plan.
Ralph:You can begin today to break that stress.
Ralph:You can do it right now because listen to me, you can do this.
Ralph:I have confidence in you.
Ralph:So have confidence in yourself.
Ralph:Now, tomorrow we'll be talking about the real work of budgeting.
Ralph:We're gonna be tracking your spending with purpose and not guilt.
Ralph:You don't wanna miss it.
Ralph:So make sure you join me tomorrow and let's go out there today
Ralph:and be financially confident.
Ralph:Christians stay financially savvy.
Ralph:God bless you, and you have a great day today.