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You want to master your business, master your life.

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And investing in yourself is one of the keys to doing it.

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In all probability you're in a moderate to small business, could be large,

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but probably small business, and as an entrepreneur,

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most of the people that are paying attention on these videos are probably

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entrepreneurs.

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I'd like to give you some ideas that will be helpful in doing that.

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So if you have something to write with and something to write on,

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that might be your advantage or get ready to type.

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The first thing I'd like to share about this is that every business is really

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an extension of a transaction.

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A transaction that is something that inspires and fulfills what you

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value,

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in exchange for something that fulfills and inspires somebody else to fulfill

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their value. Now that could be a product, a service or idea,

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but behind the scenes, everything is value driven.

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Now I rarely do a presentation without discussing values,

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and this is no exception,

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because ultimately if you're not doing something that is inspiring to you,

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that is actually deeply meaningful,

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something you can't wait to get up in the morning and do

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you're going to not have the vitality, the enthusiasm, the inspiration,

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and the feedback, you might say,

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intensity that it's going to take to be as an entrepreneur. At the same time,

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if you're not filling the needs,

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the higher values of the individuals that you're going to be selling to,

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the customer, the client, the students, my case,

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if I don't meet their needs and I don't fulfill their highest values,

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what's important to them, there's no business.

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And if I project my values onto them and don't meet their needs,

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narcissistically,

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eventually the feedback will let you know that that's not working.

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And if I altruistically sacrifice my needs to try to fill them,

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the profit margins are down. So in order to make a fair exchange,

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that's sustainable, you have to have equity.

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And if you want to go and look up equity theory, that may be worth reading.

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It talks about how that's inherent inside each of us to sustain fair exchange.

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And when each individual is living by their highest value and getting their

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highest values met, they have the most objective fair exchange,

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which is why it's sustainable. But as a business,

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the first thing to know is that everything you do,

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whether you're working with a customer, or

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whether you're you working with an employee, or working with people at home,

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regardless, every transaction is striving to have fair exchange. Now,

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with that said, let's start from the top down in the business structure.

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It's very clear in businesses to know exactly what your

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committed service is. So if you've never really written out a mission statement,

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not that you have to have a mission statement, not that everybody does,

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but the reality is that having a clear,

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articulated objective that you're committed to as an individual

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about what you're, and clearly defining in maybe 20 words or less,

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what exactly are you committed to in this business?

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So you could be clear about what the primary objective is of this business and

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what the primary mission is, so you can make decisions out of it.

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It's hard to make decisions if you don't know where you're going,

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but if you know clearly what you're committed to.

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I'm in an educational business, in a self-mastery educational business.

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If you know exactly what you're committed to, it's easier to make decisions,

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as I said. So let's get really clear on that. So write that down,

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make sure you get clear in a very short span of

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words, exactly what it is that you're committed to.

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In other words, what exactly is that primary mission that you're committed to?

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What exactly is it? If somebody was to get you in an elevator and ask you,

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'What do you do?' What exactly is that? What are you committed to?

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So they would know, you know, this is like your elevator speech or your pitch.

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What exactly is it that you do that people know, 'Oh, I need that.'

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Define that in 20 words or so,

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you might start off with a longer one and narrow it down,

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but try to get it down to about 20,

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25 words of what exactly you're committed to. Now,

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if you're not meeting people's needs and you're not actually providing something

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anybody wants, there's no demand. So that may be what you're inspired to do,

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but you have to make sure it matches something that the world is looking for.

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So might want to go on and look on search engines and look at what exactly

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people are seeking and searching for.

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And by knowing what it is and knowing what you want to do and finding where they

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overlap, that's an important component. As a result of

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that, you've got a demand.

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If you don't have something that people are looking for, there's no demand.

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And if you have something that a thousand people are providing solutions to,

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and you can't make a distinction between what you do and what they do,

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why would they come to you?

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They're always going to go to the lowest dollar if they can't make a distinction

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between what you're providing and what other people are providing.

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So first define what it is you're committed to,

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the thing that you spontaneously do that nobody has to remind you to do that you

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love doing, so you can get up and be inspired to do it. I love teaching.

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I can't wait to get up and teach in the mornings. So there's no,

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no doubt in my mind that I'm doing it, I got 48 year track record on it.

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What is it that you are spontaneously inspired and committed to do?

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And then what is it that there's a market for, that there's a demand for,

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that you find on search engines looking for it. And then what is the overlap?

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Find the vesica piscis,

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the overlapping circles of what people are wanting and what you're wanting and

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make sure that you can actually deliver something that's unique and novel and

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you can make a distinction of between what you have and what other people have

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or otherwise, everybody's going to go to the lowest dollar.

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Know that when you run a business,

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the hierarchy of your values as a leader will influence all the way down the

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line. Anybody that you ever hire.

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They may start a business doing a little of everything,

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but if you end up trying to do everything, you'll dilute yourself,

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burn yourself out trying to do stuff that's uninspiring to you and lower the

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vitality and de-value yourself, and that's not a way to start the business.

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You know,

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the way to start the business is to make sure you make a list of every objective

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and every job responsibility that's going to be needed,

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every function that's going to be needed for that job and look at what

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you're going to do and prioritize that according to what needs to be done by

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your specialty and what you might be able to hire somebody to do,

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outsource or insource. Because the second, you know,

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when I first opened up my practice,

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I was doing a little of everything and I had to learn through trial and error on

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that. I didn't have to, I chose to, obviously,

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and then I went and got a book in the bookstore and I got a book called 'The

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Time Trap', and literally in 18 months, my business transformed,

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I learned to prioritize what I did.

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I made a list of everything that needs to be done, everything that I was doing,

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I looked at what it actually produced per hour,

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I looked at how much meaning it each had,

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I looked at how much would it cost to hire somebody to delegate it,

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to give it to somebody else, I look at how much time I spent on it,

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then I prioritized all that.

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And I basically learned to delegate some things and get onto doing the absolute,

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highest priority,

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most important thing that served the greatest number of people I could do,

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that really produced the most income,

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so I could get on to doing what was most important that made me feel more

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self-worth and delegate gradually layer by layer,

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lower priority things,

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and work my way up and eventually duplicate things going up the scale until

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eventually I can duplicate myself. But in the process of doing it,

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I learned to prioritize what I was doing and to make sure I was doing the things

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that was matching what my needs were but at the same time,

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the way I know it was matching the customer's needs is I was getting the most

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income from it. Money is a measurement of the services rendered in a sense,

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and is letting you know you're meeting somebody needs,

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otherwise they're not going to pay.

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So what produces the most per hour and what is the most meaning?

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That's what you're looking for.

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What's the most productive per hour is what's meeting people's needs,

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and what's most meaningful is meeting your needs.

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If you find the thing that's most meaningful,

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and you find the thing that produces the most and you stick to those priorities,

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and then you find people to do the other things that need to be done,

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they're not that they're not important,

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it's just that they're not important for you. You know, I don't do,

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I think when I was 30,

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38 going on 39 years ago was the last time I ever wrote a check.

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I could hire somebody in those days for 20 bucks an hour to take care of all my

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financial matters, 25 to 30 bucks an hour,

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they were doing everything on the finances, so I got to focus on clients.

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And I could have, before I did that,

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I was paying bills and writing checks and doing

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bank statements and all kinds of stuff and I go that's a $25 an hour job,

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I can be making thousands over here,

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why not be doing the thing that produces the most?

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So I basically learned to prioritize what I was doing,

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delegate things and do it in layers. I took the lowest,

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most easily delegated thing and worked my way up until I duplicated myself.

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But finding out what is really serving people's needs and sticking to the

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highest priority thing,

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finding that one thing that you do that gives you the greatest results and then

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hiring people to do the things that are lower on the values to free you up.

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It doesn't cost to delegate,

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if you're doing the things that produce more than the cost.

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And it doesn't cost to delegate if you make sure you're getting somebody that

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you're going to delegate to that is inspired to do that

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than you would do it.

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If that's high on their values and they are more inspired to do it than you are,

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then that's going to free you up.

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And it's going to allow them to be self-reliant to get the thing done.

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You don't have to micromanage them.

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So that leads you to understanding how to relate to teams and building teams of

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people that are going to help you get things done.

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And that's basically back to values.

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People don't go to work for the sake of a company,

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they go to work to fulfill what they value most.

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If they feel that their job duties are helping them fulfill what they value,

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they are engaged and inspired, productive, and innovative,

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and creative and love going to work and have gratitude for their job,

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love what they do,

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they're inspired by the vision and they're enthusiastically working.

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As Peter Lynch says those are the keys to an appreciating company to buy stock

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in, when he was buying stock in the 90s. So that's the key,

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is making sure you surround yourself with people that really want to go and do

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what you want to delegate and free yourself up. It won't cost to do that,

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It'll pay.

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Because they'll end up doing it and you've got now free time to go and do the

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most important things that produce the most per hour.

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But if you're not doing that,

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then you're going to be trapped because you're not doing your responsibility.

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Your responsibility is to do the highest priority thing with your skillset and

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what inspires you that serves the greatest number of people you can do.

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My case it's teaching,

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getting online right now and doing presentations is what I do best and

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researching, trying to make sure I have quality information to present.

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That's my role. If I do those every single day and I focus on that,

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the rest of it is delegated, it gets taken care of.

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So that frees you up and elevates and scales up your business,

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because you can't scale up the business,

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unless you have an increased demand and you're doing highest priority things,

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and you're delegating lower priority things. You know,

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unless you're actually getting paid to do something you really love to do,

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you got a break on, on your life. Many people have a Monday morning blue,

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a Wednesday hump days,

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a thank God it's Fridays and a week freaking ends because they're not doing

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something that's deeply meaningful,

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it may make good money and they may have security,

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but it's not going to be thriving cause it's not inspiring to them.

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And if it is inspiring to them and they have enthusiasm for it, they're on fire.

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And people come around to watch them burn as they say. And if they can delegate,

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you free up the energy. Anytime you're doing high priority things,

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your energy goes up and your self worth goes up.

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And so does your net worth go up.

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And anytime you're doing something that's low on your values,

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the opposite occurs, you're going down, you're draining yourself.

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We've all been in a day where we kept a high priorities and really felt inspired

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by it. At the end of the day,

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we're more resilient and adaptable and we can handle anything.

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But if we're doing things and putting fires out all day and doing low priority

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stuff and not delegating,

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we're trapped and it's uninspiring and we drain and we go, 'Whoa,

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what a day?' And then we take that out on all the people we care about.

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So you want to surround yourself with that and build a team,

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but when you're building a team,

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just know that your values are going to be different than the people that work

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for you. You know, I've heard for years that, you know, company has values,

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I've never seen that to be true. People have values.

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And the company's made of people. And if you put new people in there,

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you got a new set of values going in there and you can set up an idealism and

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type it all up and make it where, this is our values,

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but if people aren't engaged in that, don't relate to that.

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And don't see how that is related to their life, it's just a bunch of paperwork.

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You have to realize that though, what your values are,

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is going to filter down through the company.

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And if you can't communicate what you value in terms of what other people value,

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they're not engaged.

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So you may want to take the time if you've got people around you that you hire,

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is to find out what their highest values are,

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go on my Value Determination process on my website,

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dr.demartini.com and have anybody you ever hire go through that Value

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Determination process, go through it with them, make sure it's done thoroughly.

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Take a look at that and realize that's the only thing you can expect them to do.

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Anytime you expect somebody to live outside what their real values are,

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anytime you delegate things to somebody that's not in line with what they value,

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anytime you give job descriptions that's not matching what they value,

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you're going to end up micromanaging and pushing people up hill.

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You're not going to have people that are going to be self-sufficient,

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self-reliant individuals driven.

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So you want to make sure that you find out what their values are and communicate

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in those values and delegate and disseminate or allocate job

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duties to that. Or otherwise you're gonna be distracted,

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micromanaging and pushing people and motivating people.

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Motivation is a symptom of a company, not a solution for the company.

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Having people that are inspired to get the job done,

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then they're doing it because that's what they love doing, that's liberating.

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It's amazing when you get somebody, we've all been into a department store,

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we've been into some restaurant or whatever,

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where somebody is really loving what they do, it makes a difference.

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I remember when I used to live in New York,

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I'd get in a cab sometimes to go in different parts of

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cab and some of them didn't care about the customer and some really love what

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they do. And you ask them, 'So how long have you been doing this?' 'Oh,

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I've been doing this. My father did this. My grandfather did this.

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This is a third generation cab service.' And it's spotless. It's clean.

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They know it. They know every city, every part of the city, every street,

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they know how to get you there. They give you the card. They're engaged,

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and you want to actually take their card and call them back again.

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But if they're not,

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and it's filthy and it's not engaging and they're not doing it and they go,

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'Yeah, I got a job, man. I got to pay the bills.' It's uninspiring. Unenthused,

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ungrateful and unloving people in a company, cost companies.

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That's the most significant thing. So engagement is very important.

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So when you're hiring people and you want to get people to scale up your

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business that way and let go of lower priority things so you can get on with the

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most important thing.

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You engaging and inspiring customers is probably your most significant thing.

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If you're a coach, you may want to be coaching people. If you're a speaker,

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you may want to be speaking. If you're selling a product,

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you may be want to innovate and build on your products.

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But you need to make sure that it's articulated in people's values.

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The customer has to meet their needs and the employee has to meet their needs.

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You have the responsibility of meeting customer's needs, employees needs,

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and your own.

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And then you also have corporate needs and you have social,

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you know, industry needs. Then you have ecological needs.

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All those needs have to be factored in.

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And the more people you're able to serve,

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the higher the probability that the business is going to thrive.

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It's all about meeting people's needs.

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Albert Einstein said that life is not worth living unless you have somebody you

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can be of service to. And I think there's some wisdom in that,

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and I think our brain is set up automatically with

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to be of service and our sensory cortex to get rewards and to find a fair

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exchange and have those balanced. Those are sustainable that way. Now,

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when you're marketing or advertising or selling, it's all value driven.

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All of the content has to be thought through and think

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highest priorities of these individuals? What are their real needs?

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Not make assumptions, but find out what their needs.

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That may be engaging and asking questions and doing surveys to find out what the

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needs are. Maybe going online and looking at what the demands are,

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what people are actually, you know, flocking to online,

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but it has to be needs.

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And you want to make sure that the product that you're offering is matching

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those needs, it can't just be worded in such,

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it has to actually deliver that or otherwise they're

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If you don't, If I put on a program and there's nobody there, then it's not,

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there's no business. I have to meet some sort of need.

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And every human being is making a decision based on what they believe will give

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them the greatest advantage over disadvantage. So whatever product service,

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or idea that you're delivering out there,

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it has to provide more value than any competitor.

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And what's interesting is if you can't make a distinction of why they would come

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to you and make the distinctions, then you're probably going to, again,

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go to the lowest dollar and the dollar lowering instead of actually raising your

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dollars. There's a great little question that you may want to ask yourself,

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and you may want to write this down. Whatever product,

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service or idea that you have,

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that is the one that seems to be the key one that's most of your business,

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the 20% that gives you 80% results, you want to ask;

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what exactly of this product, this service, or idea,

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what exactly are the features that make it stand out and that draw and magnetize

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people? What are the utilities that it can provide?

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How are all the different ways in which that could be used in their life?

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What are the benefits that it provides?

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What are the advantages it has over anybody else's product?

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What exactly are the utilities? How can they utilize it? What's unique about it?

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Right? And how is it going to serve somebody? The features, advantages,

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benefits, utilities, uniqueness of some services, those six things.

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I tell people to take the product, service, or idea, whatever they do,

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and write down 30 answers to those questions.

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What's unique about this product that is totally unique,

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that what I'm offering is unique? Because if you can't make that distinction,

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they're just going to automatically,

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and you can't explain what that distinction is,

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they're going to go to the lowest dollar again. So what is unique?

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What are the features that make it stand out over the competitors?

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What are the advantages of going with you? What exactly is the utility?

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How all the ways in which it can be used in their life? Lay it out.

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If you have 30 answers for each of those six different items, features,

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advantages, benefits, utilities, services, uniquenesses,

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if you have 30 answers to those,

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you're more prepared to know how to articulate in their

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in sales, marketing, and advertising. So taking the time to do that,

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and then listen carefully to what the patients and clients needs are because

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whenever you get testimonials and get feedback from them,

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that gives you insight.

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I used to get testimonials constantly from speaking engagements.

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And I noticed there were certain words that showed up most.

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I literally wrote out every word that I got in a thank you letter or a

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testimonial or some sort of comment I had, and you know,

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a little testimonial.

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And I wrote every word that was in there and I just kept records of every word

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to find out what was the most common words that people were actually saying

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about my service. And then I would use those words in my communication,

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because obviously that's the one that they feel that they're getting out of it.

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So I realized that inspiring was one of them.

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And I feel like that's depth of information was one of them.

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So I took the things that most commonly came back at me and I put it back out

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and that helped escalate the growth of the business.

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Cause now I'm marketing and meeting their needs.

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I'm looking at what I'm actually doing, not what I think I'm doing,

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but what I'm actually getting across and what people are actually getting out of

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the product, service, or idea.

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But going through there and figuring that out and distilling that down is

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crucial. And also because it's a moving market,

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the market's constantly changing.

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We're constantly evolving and people's values are changing as they're maturing.

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You may have a client that in their thirties and then later,

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I have some of my students,

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the longest student I have is 48 years since I was 18,

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one of the earliest students I have still periodically comes to programs.

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And some, a lot of them are in their thirties and 35 years and 30 years.

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And their values been, and where they are today is changing,

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so you have to constantly keep current with what those values are and look at

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what they're searching for and asking questions and finding out what their needs

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are and getting feedback from them to let you know if you're meeting the

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market's need. If not, we're not meeting the market need, we're out of business.

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And that's an ongoing game.

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Then there's something that Walter Haley taught me many years ago in the sales

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process, he said, start with naturally existing economic relationships.

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Take the people that you've actually served, get their feedback,

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look at what you're doing with them and inspire them to let people know through

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referral, because the greatest client is the referred client.

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So if you're not actually internally stimulating referrals from within your own

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database for what you've built already,

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that's where most of your effort needs to go,

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going out cold calling and going out there going into the mass market is

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essential,

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but right there and making sure you're serving the clients you actually have and

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getting referrals off that is still where most of the energy in my opinion goes.

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That's where you get the highest quality client.

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Most of my business is by referral,

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and most of your business will be by referral.

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And if you serve the client and meet those needs and care enough about the

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client, you'll get more referrals. And so you start from internal referrals,

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start with what you know. I always say, start with what you know,

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and let what you know grow.

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Start with the clients that already are satisfied and let the clients refer.

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They're your best, you know, marketers, if you will.

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A satisfied client's the best marketer at the same time,

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but that today with social media, you can go out and hit the social media,

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that's essential to find out what the people's needs are and you may filter

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through a funnel,

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through all the clicking down through the funnel all the way back into the

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program that you're offering or the book or the sales or whatever your,

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the product, service or idea that you're offering. But the referral,

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from working your way in from the referral out is still one of the most powerful

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way. It's the cleanest least costly,

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highest quality client generally, because you're not having to prove anything,

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they already proved it, they've already got the goods, they already know it,

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they know what you can do, they tell people what it is and they're sharing it.

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If they're not enthused and wanting to share something with somebody,

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somehow you may want to go back to the drawing board and look at what you're

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offering them and how you're communicating it,

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and make sure that they're enthused and measure that.

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Look at how many referrals. I used to have tree of referrals in my office,

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it was great, when I was in practice many years ago, almost 40 years ago,

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we used to have a thing, we call them grass people, herb people, bush people,

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and tree people. A grass person would come in and they would not refer anybody,

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it'd just be one little sprig of grass.

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An herb person would refer three or four people, up to five people.

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A bush would refer up to 10 people. Anything over a 10 was called tree people.

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And we kept records of all the referrals. And we used to ask the clients,

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have we done something that's not been satisfying to you?

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Because we noticed that you haven't shared our services with people.

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Are we doing something that's not meeting your needs. And we'd just ask them.

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And then immediately they go, 'Oh', and I would show them the,

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I had this massive sheet on the wall of all the names of all the clients and

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I was looking at who was referring and who wasn't and who was the ones that were

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referring the most and who wasn't.

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And I was communicating and showing them that and asking them if we'd done

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something that's made them not want to refer.

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And then when they got to see that most people were referring three to five or

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more people at least, they would go, 'Oh my God'.

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And then they started thinking of people that they wanted to let people know

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about or let the people know about the service.

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So if you're not concentrating and thinking about that,

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if you're not concentrating,

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I also found out that there has to be something novel and new every three months

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in the business, because anything that's the same kind of stagnates,

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and hedonic adaptation takes over. People get adapted to it.

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And they're not inspired as they were. So you constantly have to refine.

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And I don't mean if you have a product that's working like Coca-Cola,

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you don't have to change it,

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but you have to add something either in your communication or something that

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makes it feel novel because otherwise the same redundancies don't work.

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We're in living in constant change as Heraclitus, the philosopher said,

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and it's constantly having to update with new people's values so there has to be

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something that's sparks an attention. So in my seminars,

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I'm constantly researching and adding new material to it.

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Every seminar is evolving on a quarterly basis.

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So as long as there's something that's innovative, creative,

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or the way you're presenting it is something new and novel,

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you're enthused still about it, and they become enthused about it.

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So make a commitment to add some sort of innovation at least every quarter,

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even if it's the same seminar, product, or service, add something new,

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present it in somehow in something novel and schedule that so there's something

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innovative going on.

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And make sure that you we're finding out what the new needs are.

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There are new technologies coming out and people automatically demand new

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technologies,

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and you may have to give information on new technologies for instance.

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But whatever the product, service, or idea, I noticed there's a new company,

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that's a yoga service that my friend was

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looking up the other day, and it's just going,

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they're flying off the shelf because obviously people

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there's a whole fitness movement and yoga is going on,

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and it's just making millions. And they met a need,

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they had certain type of look and a certain type of

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to do yoga without pinching or without being too tight.

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Somebody thought through. You know, if you care about somebody,

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you find out what the needs are and you create something that matches those

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needs.

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And that's why those things are flying off because there's a demand for it.

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And so you're constantly having to keep and get feedback to find out what the

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new needs are and adapt.

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And sometimes we're slow at adapting and we pay a price.

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And sometimes we're ahead of the game. That's where foresight.

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In our forebrain we have foresight, in our hindbrain we have hindsight.

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And hindsight is learning through trial and error.

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And we usually have cataclysmic change that we have to do because we're not

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thinking of foresight.

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So you have to care about your humanity and the clients enough to think in

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advance at what are the changes that are occurring,

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and that's where innovation and research, and is constantly going to add,

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what's the newest thing that's coming along. You know,

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now we've got a new thing in the last few months, Clubhouse,

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and now there's new speaking opportunities going on there.

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It wasn't there a few months back, but now active.

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And so there's new ways of going in and exposing new people to new markets.

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So they constantly have to keep with foresight and look at what people are

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needing and what people are doing if you want to keep current with it.

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But also you want to make sure you look at it this way, you got fads,

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you got trends and you got classics. If you're selling fads,

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you got to put a lot of spin on it. You got to make it really exciting for them.

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But then what happens is hedonic adaptation takes over and they don't stay

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inspired by it. Trends have a longer lasting shelf life, you might say.

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Classics, are things you could be teaching, in my

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so I can teach a program and with small tweakings on a regular basis,

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I can keep it and keep it current. But if you're doing a technology,

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some technologies are going to be changing rapidly.

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And so you got to look at where you're going to,

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you're going to the mass market with a fad, you're going to a trend,

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a mid-market, are you going to a classical advanced market? You know,

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if you're going out there and you're selling a widget, that's a fast,

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fast immediate gratifying kind of thing, well,

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then you may have a fast market and may rise and fall and you're out,

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and it's no longer useful. It's like a pet rock that came out in the 80s.

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But now, if you're doing something that's a classic,

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you have something you can just keep refining and keep tweaking a little

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innovations at a time, tweaks, refinement, instead of cataclysmic change.

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In change management,

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when we're doing something that's inspiring to us and

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values and we're meeting other people's values, we just keep tweaking,

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keep refining, little changes as Jim Collins says.

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But if we're not fulfilled and the customer is not fulfilled,

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we'll need cataclysmic change to radically now meet that need.

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And I think it's much wiser,

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more cost-effective to do tweakings and getting everybody engaged.

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That's why you want to make sure that when you hire people,

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the people are inspired by what they're doing.

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And you're inspired by what you're doing. In my situation as a speaker,

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if I can't wait to get up in the morning and speak and share my message,

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I end up literally magnetizing opportunities. I don't

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I call it the cosmic ATNT system in America.

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But what happens is, is I'm really enthused,

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if I read something I'm really inspired about it,

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and I can't wait to share that,

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it seems like there's people that can't wait to get it.

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It's almost like this quantum field of entanglement that goes on between myself

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and the audience, that the more enthused I am,

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the more inspired I am to deliver something, the more people want it.

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And so I think that that's why you want to make sure you're finding something

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that is inspiring to you and find something that actually has a demand.

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If you do, you're on your way to do it. And whatever you do,

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whatever you earn in your fair exchanges,

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make sure you take a portion of it and you save it.

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If you're not taking a portion and sticking it into savings and building up a

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cushion of reserve that handles the volatilities of the business,

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that actually stabilizes the volatilities of the business and then money into

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assets that actually go up in value, investments that actually go up in value,

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so every single day that your investments are growing,

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you're gradually working towards a situation where you're not having to work,

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you're working because you love to. You know,

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I'm in a position now with my finances where I don't have to work.

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I work cause I love to. And to me that's the purpose of financial independence.

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Not because you want to go and have a debaucherous life and just go play.

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But because you get to do what you love because you don't have to.

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And that is huge.

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And people can sense the difference when you're delivering when you're not

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having to do it, it's not a desperate thing, it's an inspiring thing.

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So you want to make sure no matter how much you earn,

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don't wait until you think you've got an abundance,

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the law of entropy automatically takes over a business and erodes profits if you

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don't take them off the top. I learned that 39 almost years ago.

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Automatically take a portion of whatever you earn and stick it into investments,

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savings and investments first, before you do anything. And what happens,

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the wealthy always pay themselves first, because when you do,

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you receive more money to manage, if you pay yourself last,

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you'll always have unexpected bills erode it and you never seem to get ahead and

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you're working and you'll eventually burn out because you're working so hard and

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you're not getting anything in return for it.

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Make sure you take a portion of it and invest it. I started doing that and it,

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and the more I did that and the more I increased that,

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the more my business grew up.

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And that gave me a pathway to financial independence,

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doing what I love to do and gave me more certainty.

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And I didn't have desperation.

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I had less volatility and I've had steadiness for 39 years.

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So I'm a very firm believer that if,

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that's a sign that you're actually valuing yourself,

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and until you value yourself, don't expect other people to.

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And when you're doing that, and you're not under desperation,

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you're more creative, because you're not putting out fires. You're creative.

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You're in your innovative mind.

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Whenever you're pursuing challenges that inspire you,

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you activate your innovative mind.

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Whenever you're doing challenges that you don't want, which is desperation,

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you shut down the creative mind and you're just putting out fires and you're

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doing redundant activities and you're looking for an escape and you want it to

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be easy. It's not the answer.

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The answer is finding something that you can't wait to get up in the morning and

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do, a problem that you want to solve in the world.

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A need out there that you love filling,

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that you want to get specialized knowledge on and you want to gain an expertise

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on and be the greatest at doing that,

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the one thing that you're inspired by most that meets the most needs in the

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niche that you're targeting and in the process of doing that every single day,

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just keep innovating and working towards that and become the greatest at what

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that is. You want to ask yourself,

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what is it that I want to be the greatest at it?

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What is the one thing that I want to stand out as? Mine's human behavior,

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but whatever that is,

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you want to make sure that you're targeting that and

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yourself permission to go and master that. You want to master your business,

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master your life. And investing in yourself is one of the keys to doing it.

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Investing your knowledge, prioritize what you read,

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prioritizing who you hang out with, prioritize your clients,

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prioritize where your money is going, prioritize who you're hanging out with,

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prioritize your daily actions.

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The people that live by highest priority are the ones that get ahead.

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And the people that keep putting out fires and letting the world around them,

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you're going to be bombarded by people trying to take up your time and give you

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advice. But remember the advice that goes around, circulates the most,

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usually has the least value.

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Make sure that you prioritize what it is that you learn. If you're mentoring,

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prioritize what you're mentoring. You know,

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if you're going to go and find something,

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if you have somebody that knows something, learn from them,

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don't try to be them, don't envy them and imitate them,

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but learn from them and incorporate that into your own structure.

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Because otherwise you're going to be second being somebody else's instead of

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first being you, but incorporate that and learn from that. Anyway,

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I just wanted to go over some of those tips that can help you in a small

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business. I believe that, you're a leader if you do, if you,

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if you prioritize your life, you'll wake up your leadership.

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And a leader is somebody who's inspired by a clear message.

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They know what they're here to serve. They've got specialized knowledge in it.

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They learn how to speak up and share the message in a way that articulates in

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front of other people. They can sell that,

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because they know how to meet the people's needs with a language,

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and then they save a portion of their money and make sure that their money is

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working for them. Because that way you just draw more business.

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The more I've saved, the more business has come to me, more I've invested,

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the more business comes.

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So those are some tips that will help you in building your business.

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One other gift that I want to do,

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if you want to grow your business astronomically,

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because if you don't have a vision that's astronomical,

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don't expect a global business. And by the way,

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the worst client you have is yourself.

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The second worst client you have is your own family members or spouse.

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The third most craziest clients are the friends,

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but the farther they are in space and time, the more powerful the client.

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So if you don't have an astronomical vision,

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don't expect to have a global business and don't expect to get the most

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inspiring clients. So I have a special gift for you.

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most people listen to it five or six times,

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it will definitely catalyze you with more enthusiasm,

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because you're not going to go outgrow your vision.

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I know in my practice years ago, I had clocks from all over the world,

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I had maps around the world.

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I intended to have a global business and I got a global business because I

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intended it.

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Your innermost dominant thought will become your outermost tangible reality.

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Just know that if you're not empowering yourself and educating yourself,

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any area of your life you're not empowered in,

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people are going to overpower you.

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So if you're not educating yourself and stimulating and inspiring yourself from

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within, intrinsically,

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by identifying what you value and filling your mind with the greatest ideas to

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help you stimulate that,

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you probably are going to not have the greatest progress and achievement.

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And I look forward to sharing with you something that will definitely help you

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accelerate it. And thank you for joining me today. Please check out our podcast,

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