But what I have a more serious problem with are the young Earthers that want us to deny what we know from science.
Host 1And as a result, they want us to ignore scientists when they tell us things like take a vaccine for the pandemic.
Host 2And guess what?
Host 2The science, the science supported not getting the vaccine.
Host 2Over six minutes later, we heard her say this.
Host 2Now you don't want to even talk.
Host 2So, you know.
Host 1Well, because it's because you've brought up a topic that I was not prepared for.
Host 2If I had known that this was.
Host 1Going to be the topic, I would have brought facts and figures with me.
Host 2But I did not know that this.
Host 1Topic would come up.
Host 1And so I did not bring any facts and figures with me, and I'm not prepared to defend that position.
Host 2But you brought these topics up.
Host 1I didn't.
Host 2Well, okay, you're right.
Host 1I did.
GuestThis is Apologetics Live to answer your questions.
Host 1Your host from Striving for Eternity Ministries.
GuestAndrew Rapaport, Foreign.
Host 2We are live Apologetics Live here to answer your most challenging questions you have about God and the Bible.
Host 2I am your host, Andrew Rapaport, the executive director of Striving for Eternity and the Christian podcast community of which this podcast is a proud member.
Host 2And just so you know, we are here every week Thursday nights.
Host 2Well, not every week, I shouldn't say that because we're not going to be here for the next two.
Host 2But most weeks we are here at apologeticslive.com you can go there there to join the discussion anytime that we are live.
Host 2We are try to do Thursday nights, 8:00 to 10:00 Eastern Time PM and you can join and ask us any question.
Host 2In fact, I tell folks that I can answer any question you have about God and the Bible.
Host 2And if you think that sounds a little bit, well, prideful or arrogant, just remember when I say I don't know, that's a perfectly good answer.
Host 2I never said I'd give an answer that would be satisfactory to you.
Host 2I just said I can answer every question and I don't know is often the answer I give.
Host 2So we have a guest backstage.
Host 2We're going to be, as we said, we're going to be addressing a sermon from Tony Miano.
Host 2Now, a lot of people have asked for an update on the, you know, the church there in Iowa.
Host 2Gee, I'm drawing a blank.
Host 2But my, my guest will remind me.
Host 2But, but we've, we did a series in the past about this church where I was not really sure that it was a cult.
Host 2But by listening to many People, I got thoroughly convinced and.
Host 2And Kevin said Grace Fellowship.
Host 2I was going to say Grace Fellowship, but I wasn't sure if it was Grace Fellowship church or just Grace Fellowship.
Host 2But.
Host 2But there in Iowa, We.
Host 2We talked about this in the past.
Host 2We.
Host 2We actually did, I think, like, nine or ten episodes on this, and a lot of people asked if we would give an update for.
Host 2For years now, and we really didn't feel like doing an update.
Host 2We had this sermon.
Host 2Oh, I'll have to ask Kevin for.
Host 2For two or three years, we have talked about it, and we.
Host 2We decided we would do it.
Host 2Now we'll explain a little bit why.
Host 2Let me first get to some other issues that we have.
Host 2Let me.
Host 2I'll bring Kevin in so he can say hello, Kevin Yonts.
Host 2How are you, sir?
Host 2Are you.
Host 2Can you hear us?
Host 1Hi, Andrew.
Host 1I'm doing well.
Host 1Thank you.
Host 1Appreciate.
Host 1Yeah.
Host 1Can you hear me all right?
Host 2Yeah.
Host 2I wonder if there's a delay, but we'll see if there is.
Host 2It's going to be interesting.
Host 2So first thing I got to do is correct something from last week.
Host 2Last week, we had the Roman Catholic in, and I kept referring to the Council of Nicaea in 324, having been the council that addressed the canon.
Host 2And I was incorrect.
Host 2I was wrong about that.
Host 2I was thinking of the wrong council.
Host 2And so I was making an argument that was, well, false.
Host 2So I just wanted to correct that.
Host 2For the record, A couple things that we usually do in the new section before we get into the main subject and let Kevin jump in as well if he wants any of these things.
Host 2But just quickly, I want to hit some of these.
Host 2There's another new school shooting at a Christian school.
Host 2Wouldn't you know, we.
Host 2We have.
Host 2It seems that conflicting reports.
Host 2The sheriff or, you know, or captain, whoever was doing the reporting early on with the school shooting, questions were asked whether the person was a transgender.
Host 2And he made the comment to say, that's not an issue that we want to discuss right now, and that shouldn't.
Host 2That's not something we want to get into.
Host 2You know, so it made it sound as if he was trying to cover up, like all of the other times that you had a shooter in a Christian school, and it tr.
Host 2It was a transgender person doing it because of Christians.
Host 2And so I did put out a post asking, when will the media and law enforcement call this a hate crime?
Host 2Because they're clearly targeting Christian schools.
Host 2You know, it was interesting when they.
Host 2When a Muslim shot up a homosexual bar, they were quick to say it was a hate Crime done by Christians and then they found out it was a Muslim.
Host 2In this case, what we have is some maybe questionable information.
Host 2It's going to be hard to know.
Host 2We're getting reports now that it wasn't a transgender.
Host 2Early on we did get reports that it was a transgender.
Host 2Now we're getting reports that it was not.
Host 2It makes it hard to know who to believe because, well, who's going to believe the media anymore, you know?
Host 2So I don't know if that's the case yet.
Host 2It is interesting that this girl, I think, had a plan to end her life because it seems that after the shooting she had a friend who released her manifesto.
Host 2Maybe it is because the last shooter had a manifesto on her and it never got replaced to the public.
Host 2So that may be it.
Host 2I did not get a chance to read that manifesto, so could not address that.
Host 2What else in the news I'd like, actually.
Host 2Kevin, anything you want to address with that or.
Host 1No, let's make sure I'm working first.
Host 1Andrew, can you hear me all right?
Host 2Yep.
Host 2Hear you fine.
Host 1Okay, good.
Host 1I don't really have anything I could say about it.
Host 1I've read a few things, watched a few things, but I don't.
Host 1I mean, other than a horrible tragedy.
Host 1And I think one of the things that I saw was highlighted was a number of issues with the drugs that kids take and why so many of these suicides are happening, which is a deeper issue.
Host 2Probably that's the one thing they never want to look at, and yet that's the one thing that seems to always be in common, that they have these mood altering drugs to keep them calm in school, you know.
Host 2Yeah.
Host 2The other one I want to address, some may not even know this story.
Host 2This is a 18, 19 year old story, but there was a woman who made an accusation at a dog.
Host 2She was a stripper.
Host 2She went to a party hosted, I guess by the Duke lacrosse team.
Host 2She was on drugs at the time, had left the party early.
Host 2I guess there were complaints or people insulting her about her.
Host 2Her dancing or whatever.
Host 2And so she made the claim that she had been gang raped by the Duke lacrosse team.
Host 2The.
Host 2The only person, three people got named in, in a lawsuit, the only person she was able to identify was a person that was not at the party.
Host 2He was.
Host 2He.
Host 2He had a solid alibi.
Host 2He was in another state.
Host 2Charges were dropped.
Host 2Now almost 20 years later, she's finally come out and admitted that she lied about the whole thing.
Host 2Why bring this up, Andrew?
Host 2Good question.
Host 2Glad you asked.
Host 2This was the story that got the media from being, like, objective somewhat to, to just trying to convict people in the court of public opinion.
Host 2This is the beginning of the MeToo movement.
Host 2This is the beginning of, of all the things that we, we now see so rampant in the media, where they'll completely lie and all that, just to get a news story out.
Host 2So that's why this one is so important, because it is something that was the beginning of a lot of this stuff.
Host 2It is something where the.
Host 2It was a changing point in the media.
Host 2And so I think it's important to recognize that those who were on the right that, that said this, this was, you know, something that was not true.
Host 2It was.
Host 2The woman was making it up.
Host 2And for folks who may be too young or don't know the story, they did do a rape kit on her that night.
Host 2They did discover that she had had sex with five men, none of which are any of the Duke lacrosse players.
Host 2So that's why they ended up throwing the case out.
Host 2So one last thing that everyone is asking me my thoughts on this, and I think a lot of people are asking because of my background, having worked for the federal government in the past.
Host 2You know, the, the I.
Host 2There's a lot of questions and about these drone sightings in New Jersey, it's like this phenomenon.
Host 2Let me go through this very briefly, give you my opinions, what it could be.
Host 2There's talk of, is it our own government testing, testing things?
Host 2That is possible.
Host 2I mean, that's what Area 51 was all about.
Host 2But they usually try to do that.
Host 2Yes, under the COVID of night.
Host 2But usually they try to do that in places where no one's going to see them.
Host 2And if they, you know, they try to do it sparsely so that it's not every night.
Host 2So that would lead me to believe it's probably not that you wouldn't usually do that in an.
Host 2A heavily populated area because you don't want to be seen.
Host 2They would do it somewhere in the desert.
Host 2Now maybe they're doing some testing of something that would go over water.
Host 2So therefore it needs to go that way.
Host 2But that's not the direction people are seeing.
Host 2They're seeing them come across the center of the state, not going out to the water.
Host 2It could be foreign actors.
Host 2It's hard not to believe that when we had a Chinese air balloon just going across the country and no one wanted to do anything, and it was admitted that, yes, it was a Chinese air balloon, but they don't want it to come down on, on people.
Host 2So I, I don't think it's that with the number of them that are up there, I think the government would have done something by now.
Host 2So what could it be?
Host 2Well, let's give the more serious one.
Host 2We did have someone, a mayor in New Jersey, that said that there is a, some stolen or missing uranium and that these are he, in his opinion, drones from the government that are looking for a uranium signal in fear of a, you know, small bomb that could be set off.
Host 2Could that be the case?
Host 2Well, it's plausible to an extent, but I, I find it hard to believe that there's missing uranium.
Host 2That's not the sort of thing that goes just missing.
Host 2So what do I think it is?
Host 2Very simple.
Host 2Here's what I think it is.
Host 2It is a distraction.
Host 2No different than when they were talking about all the UFO stuff when they didn't want you knowing all the stuff that was going on in the government.
Host 2I think this is just a distraction and the more people are paying attention to it, the more they're not paying attention to all the things that are going on right now.
Host 2Like the, like 1500 pardons.
Host 2More than 1500 pardons is more they think than any president has done, done in their entire, you know, administration.
Host 2He does that in a single day he's pardoned.
Host 2I think it's up to about 8,000 people.
Host 2He's doing a lot of things to make it a nuts not to be a smooth transition of power, but people aren't noticing it because they're so focused on drones.
Host 2So I think that's a lot of what it is.
Host 2Could I be wrong?
Host 2Sure.
Host 2But I, I, I, I just think that's what it is.
Host 2It's a media playing folks, and, and I think it's some people that are, that were doing it and as a distraction and then more people jumped in and it's just a copycat.
Host 2So, so let's look before we get into our topic, I'll put this up.
Host 2Jess had a comment that you have grown a serious beard.
Host 2Thank you.
Host 2I still have it.
Host 2It'll be gone probably shortly, but.
Host 2So Kevin, for folks who may not have joined, who've not been involved in the past, how about you introduce yourself a bit and let us know what, what you've been up to.
Host 1Yeah, thanks, Andrew.
Host 1That's, you know, we did, I think you said nine shows.
Host 1I didn't go back and count them, but we did a lot of shows on a former church that I been was a part of.
Host 1First of all, my name is Kevin Yount.
Host 1I lived in Davenport, Iowa, grew up in the Quad Cities, for the most part.
Host 2Explain to folks what the Quad Cities are, because if you're not from that.
Host 1Area, Quad Cities is.
Host 1It's on the Mississippi river, halfway between Des Moines, Iowa, and Chicago, Illinois.
Host 1There's two.
Host 1Two cities in Iowa, actually three cities in Illinois, but they call it the Quad Cities anyway.
Host 1So Davenport, Iowa, Bettendorf, Iowa, Rock Island, Illinois, and Moline, Illinois.
Host 1So I grew up there through high school, moved to Albuquerque, New Mexico when I was 18, and went to school in Albuquerque, the University of New Mexico.
Host 1Lived there, met my wife.
Host 1We got married in 1991 and moved back to Davenport.
Host 1Spent 28 years in Davenport.
Host 1And that's where we became involved with Grace Fellowship Church, which is the topic of our discussions.
Host 1So Jen and I, my wife, we became part of the church in 2008.
Host 1ISH, 2009.
Host 2ISH.
Host 1Were part of it for nine years.
Host 1We left in February of 2018, and then we spent a year there and ended up moving back to New Mexico.
Host 1So I live in Albuquerque, New Mexico, now.
Host 1We moved back here.
Host 1My wife's family is from here.
Host 1We kind of moved back here to help with her aging mother and that kind of a thing.
Host 1So here we are.
Host 1We really didn't say anything about Grace Fellowship until a good year and a half.
Host 1Almost two years after we left, we came to realize that it was a spiritually abusive church, that the pastors and elders are of an authoritarian nature.
Host 1Quite authoritarian.
Host 1And so I started writing a few blog articles about a book called Churches that Abused by Ronald M en Roth.
Host 1Didn't.
Host 1Didn't say anything about GFC in that process, but just wrote a series on that book.
Host 1It was a helpful book for me at the time.
Host 1It still is a helpful book.
Host 1In this interim, we're trying to.
Host 1We're still communicating with them a little bit.
Host 1We had been excommunicated from the church about three or four days after we left.
Host 1But Mike kept reaching out to me even later on and wanting to try to figure out how to reconcile.
Host 1You know, I would ask some questions about what that meant, and he wouldn't really answer me.
Host 1And so basically we never.
Host 1We never did.
Host 1They were insistent that we would come back to the church.
Host 1We weren't going to put ourselves back in that situation.
Host 1Grace Fellowship, and it is called Grace Fellowship Church, but I just call it GFC or Grace Fellowship.
Host 1I don't really like to attach church to them.
Host 1And so I began to educate myself on what this meant because I really didn't know what we had been through.
Host 1I didn't really understand it when we first came out.
Host 1And I was ill prepared to actually deal with them in a way that I think would be helpful for us and for them.
Host 1Didn't want to put myself back in that situation.
Host 1And so the way we left was, we left, we wrote a letter, said we were leaving, wrote some letters back and forth.
Host 1They excommunicated us.
Host 1We moved on.
Host 1Went to, went to a couple different churches before we settled on one in, in Bettendorf.
Host 1I wanted to grow in my understanding, so I applied for seminary and was accepted to the Reformed Baptist Seminary and have been going to school.
Host 1I've graduated with a degree program and I'm pursuing another program.
Host 1And then basically we began to write.
Host 1I began to write more articles naming them because I thought it was important to talk about what was really happening at the church and, you know, seek to expose the abuses.
Host 1Now if this was just me, if it was just my family, I probably wouldn't have ever said anything.
Host 1But everybody that leaves the church that, that is a member is always almost without exception.
Host 1And I would say there might be one, possibly two exceptions.
Host 1Now the one exception I'm thinking of was later excommunicated.
Host 1But they released him and then they said he was talking bad about them.
Host 1So they came back and excommunicated them.
Host 1But pretty much 100 of the people are excommunicated if they leave.
Host 1So I wrote an article called he.
Host 2Left the church and yeah, then they excommunicated him when he's no longer part of the church.
Host 1That is correct.
Host 1They, they released this man and his family from membership.
Host 2Did they, when they excommunicated him, did they start with talking to him one on one and then going with others, or was it just boom, your ex communicated?
Host 1Yeah, they, they came back and said, you know, we've got all this evidence that said you've been divisive in your speech since you've left.
Host 1We had released you on, on good, you know, in good standing.
Host 1But then you started saying things about us and you started trying to encourage other people to leave and tell other stories about us.
Host 1And so.
Host 1But he wasn't a member.
Host 2Communicate.
Host 2Right.
Host 2He wasn't.
Host 2He wasn't a member anymore.
Host 2He was at the point that they started.
Host 1I mean, he was a member when he left and they released him.
Host 2They released him.
Host 2But, but you're saying this was.
Host 2And the only reason I'm bringing this up.
Host 2Yeah, just is great.
Host 2Matthew 18 is kind of clear.
Host 2The, the, the steps.
Host 2It would be done within the church.
Host 2But the reason this becomes important is if he has left that church.
Host 2And yet Mike Reed feels he could speak into this person to, you know, to discipline him and excommunicate him from a church he already left.
Host 2I find it interesting because part of Mike's argument is that none of us have that right to speak into his church.
Host 1Yeah.
Host 2So why would he have the right to speak into someone else's?
Host 2It just.
Host 2It's interesting.
Host 1Yeah, well, you know, I mean, they kind of write their own rules.
Host 1A lot of times they'll base them on how they would look at a scripture verse.
Host 1So they try to justify it, I'm sure, somehow scripturally.
Host 1But, you know, I think if you let a guy go, I mean, do you have the right then to go back and excommunicate him later on?
Host 1I don't even think they have the right to excommunicate somebody if they.
Host 1If they say, we have a disagreement here, we don't like how you do church, and we're going to leave and we want to be released from membership.
Host 1That's never good enough.
Host 1That always ends in excommunication.
Host 1And so I thought it was important to write about that, to say, I think they're abusing this doctrine that is a biblical doctrine.
Host 1Excommunication is the final step of Matthew 18, as you kind of pointed out, which is tell it to the church.
Host 1If they don't repent, treat them as a heathen and a tax collector.
Host 1And so, you know, what does that mean exactly?
Host 1Well, I think it means they're.
Host 1There's someone that you would then be willing to still continue to discuss and have conversations with and try to, you know, minister to the gospel.
Host 1You're.
Host 1You're assuming then that they're unbelievers, though, but they don't.
Host 1They shun you.
Host 1It's.
Host 1It's much like, you know, perhaps Mormonism would shun somebody or, you know, the.
Host 1The Amish would shun people.
Host 1So, you know, most people, when you leave and you've been excommunicated, you are, you know, Persona non grata.
Host 1You're.
Host 1You're.
Host 1They want nothing to do with you.
Host 1They will barely talk to you if they'll talk to you at all.
Host 1You know, and the case in point in dealing with Tony is I saw him at the Starbucks that we both used to go to after we had left, after we had exhausted our conversations.
Host 1And Tony was sitting there, and I walked in to get my coffee, and he wouldn't look at me.
Host 1And I walked up to him and said, tony, I've Been coming to this Starbucks a lot longer than you have.
Host 1And I don't care if you come in here or not, but don't act like you've never seen me before.
Host 1And he sort of sheepishly looked up at me and he stuck his hand out to shake my hand and grunted at me and I walked out the door.
Host 2Yeah.
Host 1So, you know, that's how you're treated.
Host 1And so I thought it was important to start talking about these things.
Host 1And then I did a series, three articles, one on people's testimonies, you know, one on, you know, looking forward to what, what can we do about the future and stuff like that.
Host 1I've continued to highlight them for the.
Host 2Years for folks that don't know.
Host 2What's the blog site?
Host 2For folks to go, yeah, the blog.
Host 1Site is called uncommon faith.org and I've been writing on that blog since 2012, I guess so, you know, 12 plus years.
Host 1And interestingly enough, I was at GFC at the time and asked Mike permission to start a blog.
Host 1And you know, he, I think he liked it at the time because I'd run my articles past him and he'd always approve them and, and you know, now he's probably not a big fan, but you know, the blog, you know, it's never really, it's not a big deal.
Host 1Right.
Host 1It's just me sort of putting down stuff that I think about.
Host 1It's become more of a sounding board to highlight abuses at gfc.
Host 1When I hear of more stuff going on there, I, I, if I, if I think it's important enough to write about it, I'll write about it like, like the man that committed suicide at gfc.
Host 1I thought it was important to write about that and give him, give his family and friends some sort of a better understanding of his life and what they talked about at his funeral.
Host 1It was a really disturbing and disgusting way to give a funeral.
Host 2Yeah.
Host 1So I wanted to tell people, listen, man, this guy was loved.
Host 1I mean, we ran into him after we had been excommunicated at a grocery store and he talked to me and he had his daughter and he was friendly and then he told them that we were there and he got a beat down for it.
Host 1I'm sure he felt helpless.
Host 1I don't know the full nature of his suicide.
Host 1I don't want to try to, you know, make speculations or anything like that.
Host 1He was a, he was a wonderful man and it was a shame what has happened to him and his family.
Host 1And I'm told his wife has left and moved out of state now which I praise the Lord for that.
Host 1But that's a, that's a, that's an overview.
Host 1Andrew.
Host 1You, you know, it's a long story and we could spend a lot of time talking about it but.
Host 2Well, we spent many, many hours are on, on this.
Host 2In fact what I want to do is I'm gonna, I'm gonna.
Host 2So folks could know some of, some of what you have written on Striving for Eternity.
Host 2I want to bring up the, the article, the main article for folks to be able to, to find because yeah, the reason I want to do this is if folks want to get all the background, this is the one place to get it.
Host 2If you go to striving for eternity.org just do a search for dangerous doctrines.
Host 2You'll find a couple of articles that Kevin has written that's at Striving Fraternity and this one is, is the, the really the detailed one.
Host 2It's the Dangerous Doctrines of Grace Fellowship Church.
Host 2And what you'll see in this as I'm just going to scroll up is these are all the episodes that we covered so you could watch either the video or listen to the audio.
Host 2And, and this episode we're doing right now will be on it.
Host 2And, and so Anthony had started this.
Host 2This is where really we dealt with the issues of oh, where was it?
Host 2Is it, was it earlier than that?
Host 2Yeah, I think it was all the way at it.
Host 2It was in part six before we really started bringing up where, where I kind of came in and we compared what Tony and I and others did when talking about the Church of Wells, which Tony recognized as a cult.
Host 2And we compared it and, and Kevin, you were very helpful with that to show the church he's currently in was fitting some of those same things that Tony previously had criticized.
Host 2And, and so it's pretty, it's pretty.
Host 1Shocking really the comparisons.
Host 1All the things mean.
Host 1That was a three hour video that he did with some other men.
Host 1I don't remember who that was, but it doesn't matter.
Host 2It was, it was myself, Kevin, Ken Cook and John Speed.
Host 1Oh right, yeah.
Host 2That were on there.
Host 2Interesting.
Host 2So.
Host 2So here we have.
Host 2We did nine episodes here and so, and then this article will, will explain some of the, the details.
Host 2I want to start with the way we started every one of these others.
Host 2And, and I just want for the record, you know, we invited Tony in here.
Host 2You know, it, it's something where I, I did not want to just make claims.
Host 2You're, you're going to hear, I'm going to play a video clip of Tony that I sent to him, you know, because I want him to be here.
Host 2I would rather him or Mike Reed.
Host 2They've always had the invitation here to join us.
Host 2And so I would rather them come in and we have the discussion.
Host 2Truthfully, I'd rather we have the discussion behind the scenes, having a fair discussion, you know, and we could do that in private, but unfortunately, that's not the way they have behaved.
Host 2I actually did one of the.
Host 2Those episodes.
Host 2I went back and forth with the emails that Mike Reed was sending me, and it was just kind of.
Host 2It was just kind of sad to see that behavior.
Host 2But these are the things that we had asked each week, 12 questions that, that we had.
Host 2And since I didn't have memorized, I figured I'd bring this up and you guys can read.
Host 2Read this.
Host 2It is kind of interesting, you know, that I did go and do a search for Tony Miano just to see, because as you and I were talking, Kevin, in prep for this, I.
Host 2I was trying to find some.
Host 2Some stuff that we had from the past, and I was trying to find something from Tony's own website.
Host 2And striving Fraternity was coming up on the first page, unlike every search engine, when you search for Tony Miano.
Host 2So, I mean, that is the.
Host 2The advantage of having a website that is.
Host 2Gets a lot of traffic.
Host 2And so as we read this, here's.
Host 2Here's what the questions that we asked, and this is the questions we asked every week for, for those of GFC Mike Reed, if they could answer, because these were the concerns that we had.
Host 2And this is exactly what Tony and I and Matt Slick did with the Church of Wells.
Host 2We came up with questions, we wanted them to answer just yes or no type questions.
Host 2Very simple things that can be answered.
Host 2So.
Host 2So the questions to Mike were, do you meet with women alone on a regular basis?
Host 2I mean, that's a yes or no.
Host 2Do you ask for details about spousal intimacy?
Host 2That's yes or no.
Host 2Have you ever said, quote, to trust the elders, unquote, is to quote to trust God, unquote?
Host 2Number four, have you ever said whatever the elders would counsel you for, your life is perfect?
Host 2Number five, have you ever said that GFC is the only true church in Quad Cities?
Host 2That's a yes or no one.
Host 2And that's going to become very interesting later in this episode.
Host 2So remember that question, whether they claim to be the only true church.
Host 2Tony's going to have some words about that, but not what you might think.
Host 2Number six, do you Believe the elders have a air quotes, nearly unlimited authority in the lives of their congregants?
Host 2Number seven, have you or some have you said if someone owns a gun, is in the military or police, they have premeditated murder in their hearts?
Host 2Do you share details about counseling?
Host 2This is.
Host 2Number eight.
Host 2Do you share details about counseling sessions with other members?
Host 2Number nine.
Host 2Do you ever imply that men and women should be able to kiss someone on the lips that is not his or her own spouse?
Host 2Number 10, have you ever shared details of your own sexual intimacy with any of the people in your counseling sessions with members of the opposite sex?
Host 2Number 11, do you believe you are infallible against sexual immorality?
Host 2And number 12, by name, what specific pastors, theologians and or teachers have condoned the practice of meeting with women alone in counseling sessions?
Host 2Now, last one, obviously is not something that is, is a yes or no.
Host 2But with that, I just figured we should start asking the same questions we asked the last several, the last nine episodes.
Host 2And the reason being is you can see from these questions the seriousness of the accusations, even if this is the first time that you are hearing about this.
Host 2Some of the issues that we saw throughout with many people that came in publicly and gave testimony, but also privately is that Mike Reed, the pastor there, would meet regularly with women alone.
Host 2He would ask them about their, their sexual intimacy with their husbands, how often they, they have sex, what positions, things like this.
Host 2And if they're not comfortable, he would start sharing with what he and his wife do.
Host 2It, you know, they're, they were known because they, they believed in kissing on the lips.
Host 2That's weird.
Host 2And this is what most people say about the church.
Host 2Those that know Tony, they go, the church he goes to is weird, but not necessarily sinful.
Host 2I agreed with that.
Host 2I mean, I, that was my position before Anthony did this investigation.
Host 2And if you go back and listen, Anthony called it a cult.
Host 2And I went, whoa, whoa, whoa.
Host 2Because Anthony didn't run it by me with everything he was doing.
Host 2He asked whether he and Kevin could do some discussion on this.
Host 2And it was like, wait a minute.
Host 2Like, as, as Anthony started bringing in people, I started realizing, no, they do have the control over people.
Host 2And they're asking things that no pastor should be asking of anyone now.
Host 2Yeah, I want to say up front, I, I, I used to have a good relationship with Tony.
Host 2We were friends.
Host 2I, I valued that friendship.
Host 2One thing that if you talk to anyone who, who knows Tony, every single person that I know that knows Tony has, has pretty much said to me the same Thing that Tony Miano was their best friend.
Host 2That should make you wonder how could.
Host 2I mean, dozens and dozens of people have said that to me, and I felt it too.
Host 2And that is the type of person Tony Miano is.
Host 2He makes you feel like you are his best friend.
Host 2Even though we have not spoken in years, I'm sure that's still his.
Host 2His personality.
Host 2He's a very lovable person.
Host 2He is someone who just really has a lot to.
Host 2As far as encouraging people.
Host 1And so when, When I first met Tony at the Shepherd's conference in 2015, I mean, it was just as you said, Andrew.
Host 1I mean, he was so kind to me and so engaging.
Host 1And, you know, a lot of times, if you have conversations with people and you're in a crowd, you'll see them looking away at other people, at what's going on.
Host 1Tony would not do that.
Host 1Yeah, he would look at you and he would give you his full attention.
Host 1That's an admirable quality.
Host 1And he brought me a book that he had written.
Host 1I told him my dad was a police officer.
Host 1He brought me a book.
Host 1He autographed it.
Host 1He signed it.
Host 1I mean, you're spot on.
Host 1And that's why Tony is.
Host 1Is.
Host 1Is beloved by.
Host 1By so many.
Host 2Yeah.
Host 2Now Melissa's saying this.
Host 2It sounds like grooming.
Host 2No, I.
Host 2I don't think so.
Host 2I don't think that.
Host 2I, I understand why she would think that, but obviously, I don't know Tony's heart, but I don't think it was any.
Host 2I don't think.
Host 2Look, Tony had really strong convictions about the barriers between men and women.
Host 2So I would find it hard to believe that he would have.
Host 2Grooming technique.
Host 2Grooming is usually to.
Host 2To gain favor, you know, to.
Host 2To hold control over people.
Host 2One of the things Tony's kind of, you know, like people think of him as this bulldog, as a.
Host 2As a leader, and he.
Host 2And he has some of those qualities.
Host 2But Tony has always been someone who has submitted to others.
Host 2When I met him, he was at Living Waters.
Host 2He's.
Host 2He submitted to the authority of Living Waters very much to the point where he wouldn't talk publicly about some of his views, specifically his Calvinistic views.
Host 2He wouldn't speak about that because that was not what Living Waters wanted.
Host 2And, and even in private, he would not do that because he, he respected that authority.
Host 2When he went and started working after he left Living Waters, he worked for karma for a bit.
Host 2It was the same thing.
Host 2Then he started working, working with Jeff Rose, and.
Host 2And now he's in this.
Host 2In this church.
Host 2So where a lot of people think of Tony as a, as a leader, he has those qualities.
Host 2But Tony's not the guy that is out in front.
Host 2Tony's always the guy that is under somebody which, and it's admirable.
Host 2He's under somebody and then, you know, leading that way.
Host 1So yeah, if, if, and if you listen to that sermon that going to discuss, you will see the obvious love and admiration for Mike Reed and for his eldership, for his pastors.
Host 1Now that's a misplaced love.
Host 1You know, it's bordered on.
Host 1It is cultish and, and he's, he's so far over the top on that by what he says.
Host 1It's, it's crazy to me.
Host 1But you're, you're, you're exactly right, Andrew.
Host 2Yeah.
Host 2And I'm trying to see if I can grab, let me, I want to grab some of the comments that people are putting because I look, we're going to say some negative things and I don't want it to be all negative because you know, Tony has really touched a lot of people's lives.
Host 2Yeah.
Host 2And I mean we wish he would come out of this church.
Host 2We think it's bad.
Host 2I know he, look, I know people who have contacted Tony trying to reach out to him after we did that series and, and people came back to me and told me just mentioning my name was enough for him to, to just block them.
Host 2He canceled them, just delete all relations, even people who were very close to him.
Host 2So.
Host 2But.
Host 1I mean, I think that's a significant sign that you are in a cult when you will just cancel people because they'll bring any sort of question about what you're doing and what you're involved in.
Host 2Yeah.
Host 2So, so, you know, I'm trying to look for some.
Host 2Okay, so here's, here's one.
Host 2D is saying I met, I met Tony in person at the Ambassador Academy several years ago.
Host 2He, he took my photo when I did my first ever open air sermon while on the 3rd Street Promenade.
Host 2Let's see.
Host 2Melissa said I never met him in person but he was doing the Bible reading on chat on YouTube, which is, you know, he's been doing that I believe.
Host 2I think he's still doing that.
Host 2So that's going on for like probably seven, eight years, I think.
Host 2Yeah.
Host 2Jesse says here, I remember Tony gave out his per.
Host 2His personal phone number to everyone at the Ambassadors Academy.
Host 2Yeah.
Host 2That's who he was or is.
Host 2And then this was D said Tony Miano went to gfc.
Host 2I had a lot of respect For Tony, especially with his boldness in evangelism, critiques of NAR and seeker sensitive stuff in the broad church.
Host 2So, you know, I want to, I wanted to put positive things up so people would see Tony.
Host 2It was and is well loved.
Host 2Oh, I'm sorry.
Host 2Melissa said, I met my pastor, not Tony.
Host 2So maybe I pulled that one out.
Host 2All right, so.
Host 2And it's going to be hard without Drew here to keep up with all the comments.
Host 2I'm going to try.
Host 2So if you guys keep seeing me looking over that way, that's why.
Host 2So you know what you end up seeing, you know.
Host 2Well, like Stephen is saying here, Stephen was backstage, but he is, is just watching.
Host 2He said Tony has blocked most of the evangelicals here in Iowa, you know, a few of them in Illinois.
Host 2And this is the behavior.
Host 2And so I'm just saying that to say folks are going to go, well, I want to go reach out to him.
Host 2Well, if you do this is, you know, expect to be blocked.
Host 1Yeah.
Host 1So let me quick add in, you know, Steve Johnson is a friend of mine.
Host 1He's still back in the Quad Cities.
Host 1He encounters Tony and GFC at community college called Blackhawk.
Host 1It's over in Rock Island, Illinois.
Host 1And you know, and at another college, Augustana, they can't stand Tony over there.
Host 1And it's gotten a lot of traction.
Host 1But one of the comments we're going to hear in the, in one of the audio clips is Tony talking about the people being across the street and having the courage.
Host 2Let's get into it.
Host 2Let's play, play the clips.
Host 2Sounds good.
Host 2Because we've, we've done a pretty good amount of setup.
Host 2And so I want to get to some of these clips.
Host 2So let's, let's start.
Host 2What I want to do is you had three longer clips and then I had some shorter ones so that some of them are in yours.
Host 2So I'm going to play the, the first clip is two, two, almost two and a half minutes.
Host 2So this is a longer clip, but I'm gonna, I'm gonna play it in its entirety and then let you comment you through, through the three clips.
Host 2So here we go.
Host 2For six years now, my church and, and I'm gonna.
Host 2Hold on, let me stop this Again, I should mention from the beginning, you're gonna hear poor audio quality on this, and I had no control over that.
Host 2I did try to boost it as much as I could, I believe.
Host 2Just my guess is that he is speaking at a church with a mic that is stationary and he's turning his head because you're going to hear the volume.
Host 2His volume going up and down, up and down.
Host 2I'm sorry about that.
Host 2I had tried to equalize it as best I could and increase the volume as best I could.
Host 2So sorry.
Host 2Yeah.
Host 2By.
Host 1And we may also mention, Andrew, that this was done.
Host 1Oh, yeah, 2022.
Host 2This was.
Host 2So this was done, really, in 2022.
Host 2I believe this was in response to.
Host 2So.
Host 2So what happened was he went out to California, I believe was the case.
Host 2He went to.
Host 2He was going to a church.
Host 2They wanted to do some outreach with.
Host 2With Grace Community Church.
Host 2But Grace Community Church had concerns after we did, you know, Anthony started doing the podcast series, and they just made the decision not to have him out with them on their Evangelum team.
Host 2And they did a response video.
Host 2Of course, it was a response video that they sent only to specific people responding to us.
Host 2Now you, you know, you were able to get that response video.
Host 2We did watch it.
Host 2We've talked about whether to respond to the response video.
Host 2But the reality is the response video didn't deal with any of the accusations that were made on this shells.
Host 2And so we decided there was no reason to.
Host 2To respond.
Host 2So.
Host 2All right, so let's.
Host 2Let's play it.
Host 2Here we go.
GuestFor six years now, my church, my pastor, me and my family have been reviled by a group of wolves who name the name of Christ, who call themselves Christians, who would even probably dare to have the word churchman come out of their mouth.
GuestBut they are communicating, right?
GuestTo a man and to a woman.
GuestThey're coward.
GuestThey have publicly excuriated me and my church and my pastor all under the offices of the love of Christ and the love for the church, while doing everything in their limited power and limited reach to try to destroy one of Christ.
GuestBut what these people have intended for evil God is used for such great good.
GuestAmen.
GuestThe evil that would call my daughter.
GuestYour intelligence, California at work.
GuestSo, never having met my daughter, knowing nothing about my daughter, knowing nothing about her own spiritual condition or walk with Christ, knowing nothing about her relationship to her father, and would call her at work and say, your dad's involved in a cult.
GuestThe evil.
GuestThe evil that after I was arrested this second time outside of an Iowa and in desperate need of legal representation, the evil that would track down who my attorney was, share videos and blog posts and articles with him, and convince that attorney to drop me as a client.
GuestFor the glory of Christ, of course.
GuestRight.
GuestFor the love of the church.
GuestOf course.
GuestThey will know we are Christians by our love, love for one another.
GuestRight.
GuestThe.
GuestThe evil that would take my own wife's testimony as to how.
Host 2Okay, so that.
Host 2That was the clip, and we're going to get into more detail with that.
Host 2I just want to give a quick overview on.
Host 2On three points before you get into this.
Host 2And we're going to have to keep it somewhat short with these because there's a lot there.
Host 2We're going to break it up into smaller sections later, but.
Host 2So we won't say everything now, but first off, you can go back and look at what Tony did with the Church of Wells, the very things that we've done.
Host 2I mean, I, And, And Kevin, you could testify to this, that when this whole thing started and Anthony started talking about it and we had a meeting and I said, well, if we're going to do this, I want it to follow the same pattern we did with Church of Wells.
Host 2I want questions.
Host 2You know, you.
Host 2You come up with clear accusations.
Host 2Here's some questions that must be answered.
Host 2And.
Host 2And that's the 12 questions we read.
Host 2So Tony's calling us wolves for doing behavior he had done in the past.
Host 2The other thing is, and I asked this of you, and I asked this of Anthony because he's saying the wolves that do this podcast.
Host 2Have you ever called Tony's daughter or his lawyer or any churches?
Host 1No, I've never done that.
Host 2I asked it of Anthony.
Host 2So let me read exactly what Anthony said so that I get him verbatim with what he had said.
Host 2So I asked him the same question.
Host 2I asked him, have you ever called any of the churches warning them about Tony or called his lawyer or his daughter?
Host 2He said, not once.
Host 2I did have one church reach out to me after watching the videos.
Host 2It was a church that had hosted Tony one or two times in prior.
Host 2Prior years.
Host 2The pastor had already heard about Mike Reed and Tony Miano's involvement.
Host 2Involvement in the church, and had also watched the videos.
Host 2He called me after getting my number from.
Host 2I'm just gonna.
Host 2A friend.
Host 2I'm gonna leave that name out to just verify the information that we gave in the videos.
Host 2So it wasn't that Anthony called any of these people.
Host 2One.
Host 2One church called him.
Host 2Okay.
Host 2So I, I just want to put that in for the record.
Host 2When he said that he's.
Host 2He's attributing it to the podcasters, and yet none of us did that.
Host 1Yeah, I, I don't know who did that.
Host 1I know who called those people.
Host 1I'm sure probably somebody did.
Host 1I don't think he'd lie about it.
Host 2Oh, I don't think so.
Host 2But attributing it to us is what I'm saying.
Host 1I mean, I wouldn't do that.
Host 1I've been very clear, very open in my criticisms.
Host 1I've given, you know, we've given opportunities for response to those things, but their response is a private video, not a, not a public video.
Host 1So, you know, we could critique that video because I do have a copy of it now, but, you know, not necessary, as you pointed out.
Host 1But, you know, why would I, why would I need to do that?
Host 1I don't, I don't.
Host 2Yeah.
Host 2And, and so I just wanted it clear that, you know, we want be accurate and like, look, folks, I, when we put this up, I think, you know, last week, or very, very early this week, if it was Sunday at the latest, I think I, I sent an email to both Tony and the church letting him know we were going to do this and ask him to come on.
Host 2And I sent him a clip that I'll play later.
Host 2Anthony did want one thing from me to mention.
Host 2He, he, he said this.
Host 2He said we merely reported findings and had guests on that confirmed them.
Host 2When we, when, when you address these things, you can remind people that we have Tony and Mike Reed.
Host 2We, we have.
Host 2I think he meant given Tony and Mike Reed opportunities to come on the show.
Host 2I offered to even pull.
Host 2Wait, I, I offered to even pull a liberal media slash karma stunt to give them all a questions ahead of time.
Host 2So.
Host 2Oh, that.
Host 2I know what that's, that's referring.
Host 2He was gonna, he was gonna give them all the questions he would ask up front so they'd have time to look at them.
Host 2And, and he would.
Host 2He.
Host 2Anthony agreed that he wouldn't ask anything outside the questions he would send them.
Host 2So continue with what Anthony said.
Host 2Mike agreed to let me have access to Tony, which he reneged on.
Host 2And he also initially agreed to coming on Apologetics live and then also reneged and blamed it on his other elders.
Host 2So that was, that's what just Anthony wanted that for the record.
Host 2And so, so, yeah, so let me, let me play this second clip.
Host 2Unless you had anything you wanted to add on, as just a note, as a high level overview.
Host 1No, we'll dive into some of the specifics, I'm sure, as we go.
Host 2So, okay, so this is, this is a second clip from that same sermon, and this is about a minute and a half.
GuestAnd twisted and make it something it wasn't on a podcast and in other conversations and trample underfoot the blood of Christ at the expense of My bride's testimony be evil.
GuestThat would be handing out tracts at a fourth of July parade.
GuestAnd see a lady who's a member of my channel and accuser of being a member of a cult and warning people up and down the grave path that don't take their tracks, they're a cult.
GuestSeeing me across the street, but lacking the spine to come across and talk to me.
GuestThat kind of evil, the evil that would abandon the so called brother in arms, you know, a fellow soldier out there on the street and if abandon him and not say a word to him for six years.
GuestI have a fear, I'm sure for some of getting a little bit of the mud on them.
GuestThat kind of evil, that kind of evil that brother Paul got a glimpse of briefly.
GuestGod has used good amen in my.
Host 1Life.
GuestConvincing me all the more of the evangelist biblical responsibility.
Host 2Okay, so in that, with that, you know, he calls it evil for the twisting of his wife's testimony was the main part.
Host 2I think you want in that.
Host 2Is there anything else you wanted?
Host 2I mean we'll get into some of this.
Host 2He plays the victim of how these people mistreated him, not spoke to him.
Host 1Yeah.
Host 2Mind you, Tony has had ample opportunity to speak to me and has yet to do that.
Host 2He knows my number, he knows my email.
Host 2I know for a fact what he says about me because what he doesn't know is someone called me up while on speakerphone with him as he was berating someone about me.
Host 2So I know what was said and it's interesting because those are things he never said to me.
Host 2Okay, so we'll get that in more detail.
Host 2But I did want to put this up for you, Kevin.
Host 2This is, I, I had to find this on an archive and I was glad that I finally found this, but this was the important announcement of him going to the church there.
Host 2Okay.
Host 2And this is the article where he says, you know, people were twisting and, and you know, the evil of, you know, twisting his wife's testimony.
Host 2Well, I'll challenge folks to go back and look at what, what we said.
Host 2You know, it's, it's in this article, everything that we said.
Host 2So he, he ends up saying that his wife questioned her salvation.
Host 2Let me see if I could find it.
Host 2I should have just had it right up.
Host 2But you know, this is the article where he said that his wife, who had been saved for many years, started questioning her salvation, which is what we said.
Host 2So I, I, it's hard to know how we twisted his own words.
Host 2Now the fact that this on the Website was edited.
Host 2Well, that, that's not on us.
Host 2And the reason I couldn't have.
Host 2I didn't have this article years ago just for people to understand.
Host 2There was an article on the website.
Host 2I know many people had sent me the article.
Host 2They, people were like, you know, concerned because they saw this article and the article was talking about his wife questioning her salvation.
Host 2And so maybe this is the, maybe this is the wrong article.
Host 2Hold on.
Host 2I think.
Host 1Well, I'm going to just say something.
Host 2It's this one.
Host 2I'm sorry.
Host 1Yeah, yeah, that's the right one.
Host 1But back to the previous one.
Host 1You don't have to go back there.
Host 1But it mentioned.
Host 1Well, we're going to get the language, the language that he used uses referring to his pastors and elders and how their help, they wanted to help him mature.
Host 1You know, all this kind of language that he uses in this.
Host 2Yeah.
Host 1Is the same stuff he's saying today.
Host 2And that's, that's what, that's the emphasis of what I want this show to be on is just what you just said.
Host 2And that's why I had this one up and I just had it in the wrong order.
Host 2So let me do, do this one.
Host 2So this is where he talks about that he and his, his wife returned.
Host 2He and his wife returned home from Grace Fellowship Church.
Host 2Right.
Host 2He talks about that they had a week of intimate fellowship.
Host 2Right.
Host 2It was a good week.
Host 2He'll talk about the fact that he, he recognized, you know, while he was there some, some sin in his life.
Host 2And, and this gets into why we brought this up.
Host 2Like why, why are we discussing this now?
Host 2Part of it is because he was on, he's got a new book out and he was on a video here with, with your Calvinist podcast, a friend of mine.
Host 2And so talking about that, that brought it back up to light.
Host 2Some of the things show that there may he had admitted to.
Host 2And this is not, this isn't slander.
Host 2He admitted to it on your Calvinist and, and I guess in his book that he had an addiction to prescription drugs.
Host 2Maybe that's what was the sin.
Host 2I don't know.
Host 2I don't know that the full timeline.
Host 2But in here he talks about right here his wife Maria's reaction to their time at gfc and she struggled with thoughts.
Host 2And this is the reason we talked about her testimony is because here is where he starts to talk about that.
Host 2He says here at the bottom, I believe her confession was brought about by a week of being confronted by holiness.
Host 2What confession?
Host 2That.
Host 2That she may not have been saved for 27 years.
Host 1Oh my gosh.
Host 1I mean, I've read this before.
Host 1Okay, but if you scroll up just a touch.
Host 1Andrew, I want to read that one paragraph about legalism.
Host 1It says, Maria's reaction to our time with the GFC family was more intense.
Host 1Maria struggled with thoughts about gfc, which included thoughts of legalism.
Host 1While she was blessed each day, yada, yada, yada, she struggled with the thoughts that something was wrong, wasn't right.
Host 1Legal, Legalism.
Host 1Oh, well.
Host 1And then, you know, here's the thing, right?
Host 1Women are far more in tune to this type of stuff than men are for someone like Tony.
Host 1And I will include myself in that, in that thing, you know, if we have a good connection with another guy and we think, you know, this is a guy that I wouldn't mind, you know, I could be friends with, I could hang out with, we have similar interests, stuff like that.
Host 1I'm sure Tony was enamored with, with Mike right off the bat.
Host 1You know what?
Host 1Maria had it right.
Host 1Her initial instinct was spot on.
Host 1And what happened is it got.
Host 1It got twisted.
Host 1And this is what Mike is so good at doing and he is so clever.
Host 1And he will have to get you unsaved.
Host 1And he can do it by digging up past sins, by.
Host 1By prying into your life and exposing things in you that you may not even even thought about for a long time.
Host 1Time.
Host 1He just knows how to question people and get into them and then he'll get them unsaved so he can re.
Host 1Save them.
Host 1And he's done that with so many people.
Host 1And it's.
Host 1Oh, it's.
Host 1It's a repeating, repeating pattern.
Host 1And listen, I don't.
Host 1I don't know Maria very well.
Host 1I.
Host 1I couldn't tell you for with beyond a shadow of the doubt that she was saved or unsaved or whatever.
Host 1I don't know.
Host 1But what I know is that's a pattern.
Host 1And when she identified it from the get go, something's off with this place.
Host 1Boom, she nailed it.
Host 1And she.
Host 1And if Tony would have been wise.
Host 1And this is the lesson that I've learned for my own life with my wife, is she sees things differently than I do.
Host 1And you know what?
Host 1We're one flesh.
Host 1And rather than me having to be above her, we need to be together and we need to be working together for a common cause, which is the good of our family and the love of the Lord.
Host 1And I need to trust her instincts in that area.
Host 1And that's what they are so good at.
Host 1Tearing apart in men.
Host 1And women is this authority umbrella, this nonsense that came out of Bill Gothard.
Host 1You know, I won't mention other names that, that use this kind of stuff, but it's very fundamentalist, very, very cultish, very holiness movement, very intense shepherding movement, all this kind of garbage.
Host 1And you know what?
Host 1Maria saw it, so they had to expose her as being unsaved in order to get her saved.
Host 2Well, this is the exact thing that Tony criticized with Church of Wells.
Host 2This is the same pattern they did, is that they would go.
Host 2They would go into people's homes that, you know, as they would travel around doing open air, stay in people's homes.
Host 2And their pattern was to try to isolate one of the.
Host 2Either one of the children or even a spouse.
Host 2And what they would do is they had this pattern of occupying the family while one person was being separated.
Host 2And that person that was being separated was being caused to doubt their salvation and question their salvation until they talk to these guys at the Church of Wells and then they get saved.
Host 2And, oh, you should really be at Wells, where we're really doing things holy and doing things.
Host 2Things right.
Host 2And.
Host 2And that's what they would do.
Host 2So, yeah, that pattern is there, which is.
Host 1Which is why they got Tony just to back off of Wells.
Host 2Yeah, why don't you tell that?
Host 1Yeah, so we discussed it on that Wells podcast.
Host 1I think we did two or three parts of it because it was a long three hour video.
Host 1I remember clearly that one young man that was experienced, exposed, and, and they, they did all that, you know, they did that to these families.
Host 1But long story short, at the time Tony started coming to Davenport, he was still hot on the trail of Church of Wells.
Host 1Like, he was gonna go there, he was gonna confront them, he was gonna do all this stuff.
Host 1He was writing articles about them.
Host 1Imagine that.
Host 1He was doing YouTube videos about them.
Host 1He was adamant about bringing down maybe Church of Wells.
Host 1Well, he moves to Davenport.
Host 1I'm having lunch with him.
Host 1Mike Reed, Tyler Balcoma, who's one of the other elders there.
Host 1They call them pastors now.
Host 1They used to call them elders, now they're pastors.
Host 1So we're sitting around, we're talking, we're having lunch.
Host 1Tyler wasn't an elder at the time.
Host 1So kind of me and Tyler are kind of the guys that are being mentored by Mike along the path.
Host 1And Tony was there.
Host 1And somehow this topic comes up and Mike says something to Tony like, you know, we could be.
Host 1We have a lot of similarities of Wells.
Host 1We could be accused of being the same as being Church of Wells.
Host 1And after that lunch meeting, I never heard a thing again about Church of Wells.
Host 1And I have no proof of it.
Host 1I have no evidence of anything other than the fact that boom, man, Tony all was sudden stopped talking about Wells.
Host 1And you know, if I know Mike Reed, and I know Mike Reed fairly well, they had that conversation, he's like, I think you should back off.
Host 1And no evidence of that, but other than the fact that you never heard a thing again again about it from Tony.
Host 2Yeah, and, and I, I, the little I know of her, I agree with Kevin McDonald says, Kev, she was a model of humility in our study in 2015, a model of Christian maturity.
Host 1I believe it.
Host 1She's a kind and sweet woman, I'm sure.
Host 2I have no doubt Chuck, Chuck O'Neal is saying, that's right.
Host 2Kevin McDonald, she, she was a godly, sweet Christian woman and a member of Grace Community Church until she met Mike Reed.
Host 2And so yeah, I, I, I mean I can't speak to Maria because I, I, I met her, I think only once or twice.
Host 2I didn't know her well.
Host 2She came off very sweet.
Host 2But, you know, I have no reason to question that.
Host 2So let me play the last of the three longer clips.
Host 2This one is over 2 1/2 minutes and then we're going to dig, dig a little bit deeper into them.
GuestSo that was the little elephant in the room and I'm not going to spend any more time talking about it.
GuestI hope and pray that some of those wolves, some of those revival, some of those men and women who named the name of Christ while hating segments of his bride and some of his people.
GuestI hope they'll hear this message today.
GuestI'm sure they will because they troll my pages, they contact every church that asks me to preach and discourage the pastor for daring to ask me to come sending them videos and blogs and podcasts.
GuestPastor Matt has experienced that.
GuestBrother Paul has experienced that.
GuestOther churches have experienced that.
GuestAll that kind of evil God has used for good.
GuestAnd part of that good was to remove me in many ways from this so called community of perseverance, a band of nomads who may or may not have some tacit connection to the local church or no connection at all.
GuestGod has set me free from so much amen.
GuestAnd he's used these last six years under the love and care and shepherding of my pastors and my church family to show me sin in my own life, to show me how much I sin.
GuestSo what I'm about to present to you is far Less a sermon than it is.
GuestAnd I hope it ministers to someone.
GuestI hope it ministers to churchmen.
GuestI hope it ministers to those who think they're churchmen and are not.
GuestAnd I hope it ministers to those who loud say, I'm not a churchman and I don't need.
GuestNow, considering the topic, I've been assigned the evangelist responsibility to the church, a topic I've addressed many times in different formats.
GuestI thought the best service I could bring to you today, if you see yourself as an evangelist, is to consider almost two decades of mistakes that I've made.
Host 2So that's the longer clip.
Host 2By the way, he said a topic he has addressed many times.
Host 2I think the first time he addressed that topic might have been at Jersey Fire, an event that striving fraternity hosted.
Host 2And the term Nomad.
Host 2Although he takes credit for the term being created by him, and to an extent, he's right.
Host 2We were specifically, Tony and I discussing at the time people that didn't have a church home, traveled around preaching on streets and not going to church.
Host 2And Tony and I were discussing that and I said, we need to come up with some sort of name that describes them.
Host 2And he called me back and said, I have the name Nomad.
Host 2So he takes.
Host 2He takes credit for it and he came up with the name.
Host 2I agree, but he makes it sound like it was something he did all on his own and that.
Host 2Yeah, not exactly, but.
Host 2So he says that about people calling up churches.
Host 2Now, we've already addressed that.
Host 2Kevin, myself and Anthony, who did the podcast that he calls us the wolves.
Host 2We did not call up churches.
Host 2But Kevin, do you know who actually did call up some churches?
Host 2His name is Tony Miano.
Host 2Yes, Tony Miano, when he left Living Waters, was working for Carm, writing articles about Mar Cahill, who was what again, a friend.
Host 2He, at the time, he has, he just has gone kind of off the rails on Calvinism.
Host 2He actually is a Calvinist.
Host 2He just doesn't know it because he has a wrong definition of Calvinism.
Host 2And he is.
Host 2Was blasting Tony for Tony's views on Calvinism.
Host 2When Tony went to Carm, he wrote many articles that are still up on karma, I believe, on.
Host 2On Marquell and Calvinism.
Host 2He then went and called every church that, that, that Mark had on his website, contacted them and said that they should remove him because he's a problem.
Host 2Tony did that.
Host 2Tony did that to me as well.
Host 2For folks who don't know the history, we, you know, it's been several years since we did the first episodes, but the reason I started going to Shepherd's conference is because Tony was Tony.
Host 2And this is how, you know, Chuck O'Neill and I got to meet.
Host 2Basically what happened was Tony was, was saying things about me.
Host 2He was not really wanting to talk to me about it, but talk about it to others.
Host 2He was calling churches in different places where I had events and he was contacting them to get me uninvited.
Host 2And he succeeded in some.
Host 2One that I had was a long standing thing in the super bowl outreach.
Host 2I used to lead teams there all the time.
Host 2And so I went out there and we, we went out.
Host 2I went there for the purpose of reconciliation.
Host 2So he wasn't responding to phone, phone calls, emails.
Host 2So I flew across the country so that I could see him face to face.
Host 2It took me three days to finally find him.
Host 2I said, hey brother, can we, can we meet?
Host 2He agreed he wanted to have Chuck O'Neill as his accountability pastor or he had an accountability group.
Host 2Chuck was on that.
Host 2And I said, fine, I'll bring Anthony.
Host 2And so the four of us met.
Host 2The reality is Chuck ended up apologizing to me for, for siding with his friend at first because he ended up realizing that the things I said were right.
Host 2He actually, in the meeting had, had admitted that Tony was wrong with, with judging my motives.
Host 2And you know, and then at that point Tony kind of switched gears.
Host 2But Tony had done these very things.
Host 2But he accuses the three of us of doing it, and we did not do that.
Host 2But that is Tony's behavior.
Host 2So whether it actually happened or not, I don't know.
Host 2But I could picture it being something where Tony is expecting it to happen.
Host 1Yeah.
Host 1What is interesting about all of that is, you know, you practice Matthew 18 and it was successful to some degree, you know, and what GFC has accused us of is not practicing Matthew 18, not going to them, not talking about these things, not reconciling with the church, which I do want to address, which is just not true.
Host 2Yeah, let's.
Host 2Let's address that because we have a bit.
Host 2Right.
Host 2We've.
Host 2We've invited both, you know, Mike Reed and Tony Miano on, from, from the.
Host 2Anthony did it on the very first episode.
Host 2We did it through several times throughout.
Host 2We.
Host 2I think every episode either Anthony or I would do a public appeal for them to come.
Host 2I did.
Host 2I sent an email.
Host 2You know this because I told you ahead of time, I sent Tony and the church an email inviting them on.
Host 2And I'm inviting them on now.
Host 2If you would, if you want to address these things.
Host 2I Would love to get answers to the 12 questions that Anthony and, and Kevin came up with.
Host 1Yeah, it's, it's easy for them to take cover under the fact that, you know, we did it wrong.
Host 1We sent him a letter and scurried out the door and, and never talked at all about anything that was going on.
Host 1But you know, I, I had four separate meetings with Mike per person, one on one with him and, and those meetings were about what I perceived at the time.
Host 1I called it legalism.
Host 1I didn't know what else to call it.
Host 1I, I've, you know, I've matured a lot in my understanding of this kind of a situation.
Host 1I've educated myself and I didn't know we wanted, we wanted to try to be respectful because we were still members in good standing at the time.
Host 1I still considered Mike my past pastor, my friend, my mentor on many levels.
Host 1So I wanted to approach it in a respectful way.
Host 1We always ended with some kind of an agreement about things.
Host 1It was always Jen and I's hope that the church would change and move, change directions.
Host 1But we could see that after the fourth meeting and then I sent a follow up email on some certain things and we had a discussion in an elder meeting because I was a deacon at the time.
Host 1We had, you know, Mike knew things were stirring and going on inside of us and so we had also observed how people had left in the past and it never went very well.
Host 1It never went well at all.
Host 1In fact, it not only not went well, it went, it went terrible, it went poorly, it went, it, it was, you know, slash and burn.
Host 1It was always destructive.
Host 1And so we knew from past experiences the only really way to lear leave an authoritarian environment, which is what now we understand it to be, is to leave and just leave and don't look back.
Host 1And we've received that counsel from, from so many people that are, that are trusted men, have godly ministries been in ministry a long time?
Host 1Just leave and, and that's what we chose to do.
Host 1So they will, they will try to try to say that we didn't do that we didn't practice these things.
Host 1But, but it's not true.
Host 2Yeah.
Host 2And you know, let me play this specific clip that, you know, shorter segment of that.
Host 2This is the one that I sent to Tony in the email because I figured maybe if he hears him in himself, in his own words, he would come on here for the discussion.
Host 2And here it is.
GuestThe evil that would be handing out tracks at a Fort 4th of July parade and see a lady who's a Member of my church and accuser of being a member of a cult and warning people up and down the parade path that don't take their tracks.
GuestThey're a cult.
GuestSeeing me across the street but lacking the spine to come across and talk to me.
Host 2So he says twice that that is an evil.
Host 2He considers that an evil.
Host 2Well, the challenge is out for Tony Miano.
Host 2Do you lack the spine to call me up?
Host 2Do you lack the spine to come on here and, and defend your church's positions if the church isn't doing, I mean, those questions that were asked were yes or no.
Host 2Tony, you, if you, you're watching you, you know what we chose to do with having yes, no questions for Church of Wells so that there wasn't any way where they could do their, their games of, of using the, the, the, the twisting of words and, and long talking and red herrings and never getting to the topic.
Host 2We, that's why we wanted, and I think it was Matt Slick's idea, they had to be yes or no questions.
Host 2We did the same thing here.
Host 2I, I, that was the thing I said to.
Host 2Now granted, there's one or two that aren't yes or no, but I had said the same thing.
Host 2There should, there's got to be yes, no questions, not something that needs explanation, just yes, we did this or no, we didn't.
Host 2Do you lack the spine to come on here?
Host 2These are your own words, Tony.
Host 2You call it evil to lack the spine for someone to not come and talk to you when they're willing to talk to others about your church?
Host 2Tony Miano has been willing to speak about me.
Host 2I know for a fact because I heard it with my own ears.
Host 2And yet does he lack the spine to come on here and talk directly to me?
Host 2I flew across the country to, for reconciliation, but he won't even pick up a phone.
Host 1Yeah, I mean, they do the same thing with me.
Host 1I mean, in this, in the private video, I'm the chief reviler and in slander and, and you know, and, and I've had conversations with other people that have left long after we left, and they, they talk about you all the time.
Host 1And like I'm sure they do.
Host 1And I, that doesn't offend me in the least bit because I know I have, I have been the, the, the leading voice in making noise about them.
Host 1It's been effective to some degree because I know it's caused trouble for them and in certain ministries that they were doing in Africa.
Host 1I know it's caused some trouble at G3 I know it's, it's caused trouble with other areas.
Host 1You know, one, one thing that we have done that, that is if we see comments about the church on Google reviews or whatever.
Host 1My wife has contacted some of those people and we've had a lot of conversations with people that stopped going or took their comments down because they have no idea what they're talking about.
Host 1You know, they went one time and were love bombed and they think it's the world's greatest place.
Host 1So, you know, we haven't been shy about our, our criticism of them and I think that that's a biblical thing to do.
Host 2Well, and Tony thought it was a biblical thing to do as well with, with others.
Host 2And you know, we're, I want to get into some of the, you know, we talked about his church loving him and exposing some sin and, and things like that.
Host 2Yeah.
Host 2But first let me, you know, I want to stick with this because so, you know, he talked about lacking the spine.
Host 2He also said this in that sermon.
GuestThe evil that would abandon the so called brother in arms, you know, a fellow soldier out there on the streets and abandon him and not say a word to him for six years out of fear, I'm sure, for some of getting a little bit of the mud on them.
GuestThat kind of evil.
Host 2So, that kind of evil.
Host 2Well, Tony, it's probably been close to a decade that you haven't reached out to me.
Host 2Steven Johnson says it's pretty, pretty tough talk to Tony at a parade when he's blocked everyone and, and you know, so he talks about it being evil to not talk to him.
Host 2And yet his response is to block people immediately, to unfriend people.
Host 2Right.
Host 2And so I'm just, you know, I just, look, have some consistency.
Host 2You know, if you're gonna call it evil, then, then recognize the, the behavior you're calling evil is behavior.
Host 2You do, Tony.
Host 1It's.
Host 1And, and he's been doing it for a long time and far before I think I know who that was at that parade.
Host 1You know, Tony's been doing it long before that ever happened.
Host 1And what I like, if Tony does watch this and he listens to this and he hears me speaking right now, you know what I would ask Tony is, has it been worth the cost that you've paid to be a part of this great community that you're a part of, that this pastor that loves you so much, that is able to point out sin in your life?
Host 1Tony, how many friends have you lost that you would have called, that you would have called your best friends.
Host 1Chuck O'Neill, the first guy to sound the alarm bell.
Host 1Thank you, Chuck.
Host 2Yes.
Host 1You know, and, and, and how many others?
Host 1Countless.
Host 1Can you even begin to count all the friends that you've lost?
Host 1All the, all the people that were loved and respected you?
Host 1I mean, what in the world?
Host 1And, and then now that.
Host 1Not only that, what about the people that have left GFC since you've been there?
Host 1Okay, I.
Host 1One of my very best friends from GFC at the time we were there, they left a few years after we did and somehow I don't know how I saw it, found it or whatever it was.
Host 1This.
Host 1Maybe an Instagram or Facebook post of Tony and this guy on the street, my dear brother Joe.
Host 1His name isn't Joe.
Host 1Doing ministry.
Host 1Sidewalk ministry.
Host 1A few days later, the guy leaves and boom, that post is gone like that.
Host 1And I'm betting Tony is never.
Host 1Oh, wait a minute.
Host 1I'll bet you Tony's never said another word to that guy again.
Host 1Although when the man's wife drives by him, he yells at her from the street and bullies and intimidates her as she's driving up and down the street.
Host 1You know, I mean the hypocrisy.
Host 1I mean the.
Host 1I mean talk about not being able to see the forest for the trees.
Host 1Tony.
Host 1I mean, are you serious?
Host 2Well, you talk about friends lost.
Host 2Let me do this.
Host 2So I went to the Wayback Machine.
Host 2I wish, I wish I had gotten the dates on this, but let me share this is.
Host 2I should make this larger.
Host 2This were.
Host 2Was the folks that were had endorsed Tony when he had his website.
Host 2And so let me shut the banner off so you'll be able to see all the names.
Host 2So I want you to be able to see that at the, at the current time when he still had endorsements.
Host 2The.
Host 2The.
Host 2His endorsements are removed altogether.
Host 2Okay.
Host 2The ones that were still on there that we were at the time the last time was Todd Friel, Saitam Brugen, Kate Jeff Kirkland, George Lawson.
Host 2We.
Host 2We were told had asked for his name to be removed.
Host 2And same with Martha Mack, Emilio Ramos.
Host 2I don't know if the others asked for them to be removed.
Host 2I know the page is down.
Host 2But before we started doing the episodes 10 people had had asked for to be removed from Tony's endorsements.
Host 2People who endorsed Tony that removed their endorsements, much of it because he had gone to GFC and, and views.
Host 2He.
Host 2He had a couple of them are his views with women preaching.
Host 2But Phil Johnson, Ray Comfort, Emil Zwayne, Mike Andrews, Paul Yachet, I don't know how.
Host 2I'm probably not pronouncing it right.
Host 2Bill Adams.
Host 2Now that's an important one because Tony's ministry was under Bill when he started.
Host 2So you have, you have Phil Johnson, his pastor, removing this is before we even did the episode.
Host 2So you can't blame us.
Host 2Phil Johnson, his, his previous pastor that, you know, who he was under over there, Grace Community Church, Ray Comfort and ez, the guys he worked for at Living Waters for years.
Host 2Bill Adams, the guy that he had, you know, who had, you know, his ministry was under him.
Host 2Grant Horner, Mark Spence, again, someone from Living Waters that he, he worked with for years, and then David, Tom.
Host 2So I, I don't know.
Host 2You know, it is kind of interesting.
Host 2I don't see, I don't see Chuck O'Neill's name on here.
Host 2So I, you know, I know Chuck is watching, so I'll throw this out to Chuck.
Host 2Did you ever endorse him?
Host 2And, and it just never got on there or what?
Host 2Because I, I'm surprised that Chuck would not have written an endorsement to him.
Host 2So let's see.
Host 2Chuck says, I just see him putting something up.
Host 2Said, oh, oh.
Host 2He says Martha Mack graciously and biblically addressed Tony and exhorted him to leave GFC's cultic ministry.
Host 2Tony didn't engage at all, just blocked.
Host 1Yeah, that's the pattern, isn't it?
Host 2He's Chuck O'Neill said, Phil Johnson has called Mike Reed's ministry cultic and morally dangerous.
Host 2Actually, I, I don't have the quote up, but I actually have had a quote that Phil Johnson sent when Anthony started doing this, you know, so.
Host 2All right, let's, let's get, let's move on to some of these others.
Host 2This is where he talks about nomads, because what we're going to start getting into is this pattern that Kevin, you referred to.
Host 2Tony talks about how he came to gfc.
Host 2And as you hear that, as you already heard it, this is a pattern he has with every church.
Host 2Tony has had a pattern.
Host 2When he left the first church that I, I don't know the name of it, it was where, when I first met him, he was attending there.
Host 2Then he went to Faith Community Church.
Host 2When he went to Faith Community Church, he said the same things he, he, he left the church that the other church wasn't really doing evangelism.
Host 2This church was going to let him do, do the evangelism they exposed.
Host 2You know, there were some things that they, that it was a great community.
Host 2There was sin in his Life exposed.
Host 2And he just, he really felt community there.
Host 2They end up, there's going to be some question with this.
Host 2They end up basically they, they vote him in as an evangelist of the church.
Host 2We're going to hear later in some clips where he kind of denies some of that a bit.
Host 2But I have clips where he says that so, and so they make him evangelist.
Host 2He then leaves that church because they weren't comfortable with his open air preaching.
Host 2And yet then he goes to Grace Community Church and there he felt the real community, the holiness.
Host 2He leaves there, goes to gfc and it's the same story, it's the same thing four times over.
Host 2And I mean if you listen, a couple people listen to the full sermon and, and people commented about how it's all victim, playing the victim card.
Host 2There is a lot of that that you hear throughout his testimony.
Host 2But here's what he talks about.
Host 2The nomads.
Host 2Now when he speaks of nomads, I'm just going to say this was.
Host 2These were a group of people.
Host 2It includes Mark Cahill.
Host 2In fact, I'll just say publicly, I've never said this before publicly, but the reason that I refuse to go out and speak every single week or even more most weeks I, we have as a ministry, I.
Host 2None of our speakers can be out of their local church for more than half the year.
Host 2Why?
Host 2Because when I met Marill, I remember asking him what church are you a member of?
Host 2He goes, he, he goes, whatever one I'm at that week to preach at.
Host 2He had no church.
Host 2And there were a lot of the sinless perfectionist guys.
Host 2They had no church and they were going around just know there was, there was.
Host 2I mean, I remember, you know, a guy like Jeff Rose who started a, you know, now he started a, a church network.
Host 2But when he was in Jersey he, he left a, a sound church.
Host 2And, and he was just on the streets in Camden, New Jersey and he was calling it church, doing open air and he called it church.
Host 2That's not church.
Host 2Now I don't think Tony had, you know, Jeff Rose in mind with this, but at the time, because he was kind of working with Jeff Rose at the time.
Host 2But he's.
Host 2That when he talks about nomads, that's what he's talking about.
Host 2The way he uses in this sermon though is, is not the same thing.
Host 2He's using the term nomads now to refer to people that are in churches.
Host 1Yeah.
Host 2And are under their church's authority.
Host 2So I mean just, just give a listen.
GuestAnd part of that good was to remove me from, in many ways from this so called community of open air preachers, a band of nomads who may or may not have some tacit connection to the local church or no connection at all.
GuestGod has set me free from so much amen.
GuestAnd he's used these last six years under the love and care and shepherding of my pastors and my church family to show me sin in my own life, show me how much I sin.
Host 2So remember, I mean Kevin, he's, he's referring, well to his, his old church, the people he went out with.
Host 2Remember, he's saying that Grace Fellowship Church got him out of these nomads that he was with before.
Host 2Who was he with before?
Host 2Grace Community Church.
Host 2That's who he was doing outreach with before.
Host 2So when we hear him say this, let me look, let's play him in his own words.
Host 2Here he is.
Host 2This was an important announcement that he had back in 2014, February 24th of 2014, an important announce announcement that he and his family, he says when he and his family began attending Faith Community church on, on September 11th of 2011, they.
Host 2We knew after the first Sunday we had found a new church home.
Host 2In a month's time, the five of us completed the membership process and were recognized and affirmed as members.
Host 2So this was when he left the church, the first church that I had known he was attending.
Host 2I don't know that name.
Host 2This is the one before Grace Community Church.
Host 2He says here.
Host 2I immediately began serving the church as the Lord presented opportunities.
Host 2I served the church security team, assisted with the church's outreach events.
Host 2So, so he got involved in Awana, did, did all these things.
Host 2He says here.
Host 2Okay, about 18 months ago I began the process with my elders.
Host 2The goal in which was to have my elders commission me through the laying on of hands to serve Faith Community Church as an evangelist.
Host 2In keeping with the role of the evangelist delineated in Ephesians 4:11 to 14.
Host 2The process includes, includes meeting with the elders, a close examination of my present ministry as an evangelist, and equally closely examination of my character and gifting and the writing and rewriting my ministry proposal.
Host 2The process also included an examination of my financial accountability and ministry related funds, which in part resulted in cross Encounters ministry receiving an Eclipse CFA accreditation under the umbrella of Revival usa.
Host 2Revival USA is the ministry that does the sports fan outreach and that is Bill Adams.
Host 2So you see there was a lot of accountability in his life in this church is what he's saying.
Host 2This is why he liked it so much.
Host 2And, and they, they eventually make him an evangelist.
Host 2He says here I greatly, I.
Host 2I benefited greatly from the this process with my elders and learned how seriously thoughtful and prayerfully my elders make important decisions.
Host 2I mean does this sound familiar to what he we heard in this sermon?
Host 2The the elders extended to me a great deal of love, patience, grace and friendship including the process with one of the elders taking time personally helped me to rewrite my ministry proposal.
Host 2The elders were also very helpful by pointing out areas in my life and ministry that needed maturing.
Host 2They were always very quick to encourage, quick to listen and to and never afraid to offer their collective and individual wisdom, discernment and when warranted correction.
Host 2So we end up seeing that okay, so we see that pattern the same thing we heard with gfc.
Host 2Then he says the process drew to a close in December of 2013.
Host 2In the end of my elders affirmed they believed that God's call in my life was to serve him as an evangelist.
Host 2At the same time they found aspects of my life, of my evangelistic gifting and ministry, namely open air preaching philosophically incompatible with the evangelistic direction of the elders have set forth for Faith Community Church.
Host 2Faith Community Church family.
Host 2That being the case, the elders determined that I could they could not lay hands on me in the commission of Faith Community Church as an evangelist.
Host 2Then he talks about how he went from there to Grace Community Church.
Host 2Now I want you to note something in this article that he's writing after he has left Faith Community Church.
Host 2He claims they never laid hands on him as an evangelist.
Host 2Will have audio evidence to the contrary from Jersey Fire where he said the opposite where he said that he they did lay hands.
Host 2I didn't do the time.
Host 2There is probably an article where he.
Host 2I I know there was an article where he wrote about it and he said that they laid hands on him.
Host 2So if anyone wants go go back it's going to be between the time frame of what 2011 and 2023, those years that he did that.
Host 2Okay.
Host 2He comes to Grace Community Church and he and basically he's an output for the audio podcast.
Host 2I'll put the links in the audio podcast but for folks that don't know, you could apologize.
Host 2Live is an audio podcast.
Host 2You can follow and get it every week downloaded to you.
Host 2But he basically is going to say the same things here.
Host 2You know how he, he goes to Grace Community Church and, and he had meetings with two of the pastors here.
Host 2If you see this line, you know during which they discuss the life and ministry and the these things and under their, their, the Leadership, you know, and after counseling with his, his wife and his daughters in prayer, they came to, to come to Grace Community Church.
Host 2Okay, so, so it's a similar thing that we end up seeing.
Host 2And, and I'm just, I'm belaboring this to say when he makes these claims, it's nothing new.
Host 2It's just.
Host 2There's nothing new there.
Host 2Kevin, you have thoughts on that?
Host 1Well, yeah, man.
Host 1I, I mean, what I, what I find fascinating, and we hear it in this, in these audio clips.
Host 1He talks so much about this sin in his life, and he says it in those, in those articles.
Host 1All this sin in his life, that's being pointed out.
Host 1I got sin in my life.
Host 1I'm sure you got sin in your life, Andrew.
Host 1What?
Host 1I don't, I don't dwell on it like, am I saved or not?
Host 1Well, if I'm saved, my sin is forgiven, right?
Host 1Past, future, present, everything is covered.
Host 1It is finished.
Host 1And this is a tactic of Grace Fellowship Church.
Host 1Like I talked about earlier about they got to unsave you so they can re.
Host 1Save you.
Host 1The focus on sin and holiness and beating that drum nonstop, it leaves a person with a severe lack of assurance of their salvation.
Host 1It leaves it a joyless society.
Host 1It leaves you constantly navel gazing, examining your life.
Host 1You know, I, I mean, again, I sin, I am a sinner.
Host 1I will continue to sin, but simultaneously, I'm a saint.
Host 1I've been forgiven.
Host 1I repent of my sins when, when I know about them, but I don't spend this massive amount of time being focused on my sin that our church here in Albuquerque, they preach about sin, but they don't beat you over the head about your sin day in and day out.
Host 1And that was the destructive tendencies.
Host 1And, and now you, you factor in this shepherding movement, the close shepherding.
Host 1And even in that, even in that sermon, he talks about the close shepherding that he has always desired.
Host 1You know, it's just like you need a, you need a.
Host 1You not only need the Holy Spirit and you need the common, ordinary means of grace.
Host 1You also need Mike Reed to be on your shoulder telling you where you're wrong and what you're doing wrong and constantly berating you on your sin, man.
Host 1Just like this is taking my mind back to all these things, and it's, it's triggering, you know, it really is.
Host 2Well, I mean, you know, I'm going to play.
Host 2Put this one up.
Host 2Stephen.
Host 2Stephen Johnson says, how can you leave John MacArthur's church to move to Iowa and join Mike Reeds, who is scary and the leader of an abusive cult.
Host 2You can't make this stuff up.
Host 2But, you know, Kofi says something that I want to address more, more to the point, Kofi from Deep Dive Discipleship, which was a great podcast when he was doing it.
Host 2Kofi, why don't you continue?
Host 2All right, I'll get off that soapbox.
Host 2I missed that podcast.
Host 2He said, Kofi says the irony of calling out nomads, when you bounce from church to church looking for someone to recognize you, that's not healthy.
Host 2And honestly, that seems to be a thing in some street preaching circles.
Host 2And that is one of the issues that I have real concern with.
Host 2And I'm going to play clips of Tony or a clip of Tony.
Host 2The fact is, you're.
Host 2You saw that he said he left.
Host 2He left Faith.
Host 2Faith.
Host 2I forgot the name of the church now.
Host 1Faith Community.
Host 2To go to Grace Community Church because they didn't accept his style of evangelism.
Host 2And then he's, he's going out to, to this church now where he can do his style of evangelism.
Host 2He was, he was doing open air preaching before four at Grace Community Church.
Host 2He was, he was, I think he was even leading some teams.
Host 2But he will say later, we'll play the clip where he says, you shouldn't leave for those reasons.
Host 2You should never leave for those reasons.
Host 2But here, here's he's going to talk about.
Host 2And I, you know, you talked about his sin.
Host 2Let me just play the opening.
Host 2And folks, if, first off, if you're not following your Calvinist podcast, I encourage you, Keith Foskey, actually follow the podcast, but also follow the YouTube channel because he puts stuff on YouTube he doesn't do on that.
Host 2He doesn't put on to the, the podcast.
Host 2But this, this is the beginning of his interview with Tony and you can hear the whole thing where Tony talks about stuff.
Host 2But let's just play this beginning.
GuestI thought I was never going to be able to open or preach again.
GuestIt was, it was not only my ministry, but it was the way I supported my family.
GuestFamily as well.
GuestAnd I, I panicked.
GuestI went.
GuestI mean, it was.
Host 2Yep.
Host 2And that's why you should download them almost so we don't have commercials.
Host 2All right, I will.
Host 2I'm just going to stop that because I don't want to play someone's commercial.
Host 2So.
Host 2But yeah, so he, he, he panicked.
Host 2He talked, he talks about the scene where he panicked.
Host 2He, he was, he was on prescription drugs for anxiety.
Host 2He had, I guess it was Mike Reed that got him off of that.
Host 2And that is a good thing.
Host 2Okay.
Host 2It seems he went on them or went off him.
Host 2When I'm on them, off them.
Host 2It is kind of.
Host 2I will say this one thing.
Host 2The one issue I have with that, that clip we.
Host 2That he started out saying he was afraid for his ministry.
Host 2The.
Host 2The thing I find interesting with it is, you know, let me just give you some what got me with Tony.
Host 2For people that supported Tony, Tony would regularly.
Host 2At the end of the month, you could expect to see a message.
Host 2When Tony was still in California going, hey, I need, you know, like fifteen hundred dollars for basic living.
Host 2Now, after his wife was done homeschooling the girls, she went out and got a job.
Host 2The wife was the, The.
Host 2The earner of the family.
Host 2Tony's ministry was doing some evangelism and begging people online for money.
Host 2That's why I wouldn't have.
Host 2I didn't donate to him.
Host 2Okay.
Host 2So when he talks about a fear of his, his, you know, this is his livelihood.
Host 2It was his wife who was his livelihood.
Host 2His wife was the one who, who earned the money.
Host 2You know, she had.
Host 2She was the one that went out to work.
Host 2So it's like, you know, but it's just, he's.
Host 2He.
Host 2He's.
Host 2He's going to say he, you know, these are his sins.
Host 2So he was on, you know, and this is what I guess his latest book is about.
Host 2And so he wants us to learn from his mistakes.
Host 2He's going to say that in this clip.
GuestNow I'm considering the topic.
GuestI've been assigned the evangelist responsibility to the church.
GuestThe topic I've addressed many times and in different formats.
GuestI thought the best service I could bring to you today, if you see yourself as an evangelist, is to consider almost two decades of mistakes that I've made and encourage you.
GuestI want to help you with love for you, with love for those who reviled me and my church and my family.
GuestI want to help you avoid telling yourself and others the lies I told myself and others for years.
Host 2So he, he.
Host 2This is the reason I play that clip is because this is the same thing he said with why he came to, you know, his church before Grace Community Church, why he came to Grace Community Church.
Host 2It's the same pattern.
Host 2It's over and over again.
Host 2Phil is asking this question.
Host 2He says, is Keith Foskey still supports Tony, Good coach.
Host 2So I don't know if he ever supported him financially, but he, he, he supports.
Host 2He at least supported him enough to write an endorsement on the book, have him on the podcast.
Host 2So I did I talked to him just to say, you know, are you aware of any of the issues with his church?
Host 2You know, and he.
Host 2He basically said he doesn't have time.
Host 2He knows that there's some strange things he's heard.
Host 2That's what everyone says.
Host 2It's just weird.
Host 2He heard some weird things.
Host 2But people want to separate that from Tony because they.
Host 2They love Tony.
Host 2And I get that.
Host 1I just want to say something about that because I think this is a good time to interject it.
Host 1One of the things Tony does is he calls us wolves.
Host 1Wolves.
Host 1And he calls us cowards.
Host 1You know, I've written an article or two on the topic of wolves.
Host 1What is a wolf?
Host 1You know, we have two primary texts in the New Testament that deal with wolves, which is Acts 20, where Paul is exhorting the Ephesian elders that after my departure, savage wolves will come in, not sparing the.
Host 1The flock, and they'll rise up from within your own ranks.
Host 1Right.
Host 1The other primary text is Matthew 7, where Jesus says, beware of false prophets.
Host 1Inwardly, they are wolves dressed in sheep's clothing.
Host 1And, you know, and they will.
Host 1You will recognize them by their fruits.
Host 1Okay, so when.
Host 1When we're called wolves, first of all, like, we don't really meet that biblical definition of not being like the pastor of a CH Church, which is what Paul is talking about.
Host 1But if you want to make an application that we've done damage to them, they might consider that being a wolf.
Host 1But what a wolf actually is is a person who's a teacher or a pastor in a church that is doing damage to the flock of God.
Host 1And if Mike Reed doesn't fit that definition of a wolf, I don't know who on God's green earth does, because we lined up a cloud of witnesses on this program alone talking about the damage that they've done.
Host 1There's.
Host 1There's at least a hundred that I tried to put a name to on a piece of paper of the people that have left and been damaged in one way, shape, or form or another.
Host 1Mike has scattered the flock.
Host 1He's done spiritual, irreparable harm to countless, many people.
Host 1And he fits.
Host 1He is a total biblical definition of what a wolf is.
Host 1And so Tony can refer to me and you and Anthony or whoever he wants to, as a wolf, but the reality is that his pastor is the one who.
Host 1Who fits that definition.
Host 2Yeah.
Host 2And, I mean, look, I think guys like Keith Foskey, myself, before Anthony started this, I just said, okay, having people kiss on the lips, weird, you know, not my thing.
Host 2Meeting with women alone on a regular basis, not advisable.
Host 2But I wasn't willing to say they were a cult.
Host 2I wasn't willing to say they were, you know, that the church was bad.
Host 2Why?
Host 2Because, you know, me, like many others, just didn't have time to investigate it.
Host 2It was only because you and Anthony came on this show and.
Host 2Well, because it's my show.
Host 2I was.
Host 2I was, you know, I was, you know, either watching, you know, the weeks I couldn't be there, or.
Host 2Or I was here and realized, wow, there's a lot here.
Host 2This is really bad.
Host 2And it got.
Host 2I think it was the episode when we had all those six or seven people come in and one after another talking about the controlling behavior that I realized, no, this.
Host 2This is a cult.
Host 2And.
Host 2And I ended up, you know, kind of apologizing to Anthony there because he was right and I was wrong.
Host 2I.
Host 2I said, hey, why?
Host 2I wasn't.
Host 2Not that I was wrong.
Host 2I just said he, you know, you got to be careful calling it a cult unless it really fits the definition.
Host 1But you didn't have a full orbed understanding at that time.
Host 1And.
Host 1And I'm so thankful for Anthony and I mean, the hundred hours or so, whatever.
Host 1He put in too much time.
Host 1Examine this.
Host 2Yeah.
Host 1You know, that's unbelievable that he would do that.
Host 1And I'm so thankful for it that it was able to expose something and bring it to light.
Host 1Now, you know, hey, you know, repent and go back and clean up your mess, Mike.
Host 1I wish you would do that.
Host 2Yeah.
Host 1You know, I don't know whether you're right with God.
Host 1I'm not in the business of calling people, telling people whether they're saved or not.
Host 1He is, but I'm not.
Host 1I mean, we.
Host 1We will examine people by their fruit.
Host 1And if we examine Mike's fruit, he appears to me to.
Host 1To fit the definition that Jesus gave of.
Host 1Of a false prophet.
Host 2Yeah, I mean, so.
Host 2So the.
Host 2This is.
Host 2And we're going to go a little bit longer tonight just so we can get through this.
Host 2But let me play this clip because we're going to get into where he talks about the importance of church for an evangelist.
GuestSo allow me to cut to the chase.
GuestIf you are not a churchman, you are not an evangelist in any biblical sense of the term.
GuestIf you are not a churchman, you are not doing the work of an amazing evangelist.
GuestYou might be engaged in evangelism, but you are not an evangelist.
GuestYou have a responsibility to the local church.
GuestIf you are not called and sent out by the local church.
GuestIf you are not serving the local church, then you are not an evangelist.
GuestHere I stand.
Host 2Okay?
Host 2So there he stands.
Host 2Now he says, you know, he went to JFC because there he got that he.
Host 2He was under their authority.
Host 2That's.
Host 2That was the whole thing, right?
Host 2He's under their authority.
Host 1Yeah.
Host 2And.
Host 2And that's when, like, this is as if this is the first time he was under the authority of his.
Host 2Of a church when he was doing open air.
Host 2And.
Host 2And so let me just play something else.
Host 2And I didn't send this to you, Kevin, but let me just play this.
Host 2This is.
Host 2Was done by Marcus Pittman many, many years ago, 12 years ago, that he put this together.
Host 2Tony Miano, a profile of open air preacher.
Host 2Profile of Tony Miano.
Host 2All right?
Host 2Where he says every evangelist should belong to a church.
Host 2Listen how he begins his open air.
Host 2And this is how he always would.
Host 2He'd start his open air.
Host 2Listen.
GuestGood afternoon, folks.
GuestMy name is Tony Miano.
GuestI'm a member of Faith Community Church, and I have the prayerful support of my elders and my pastors.
GuestAnd again, I'm here today to declare to you the son of the living God, the Christ.
GuestMy name is Tony Miano, and I'm an evangelist.
GuestI am a member of a church.
GuestI am under the biblical authority of pastors and elders.
GuestAnd I'm not.
GuestEven if I'm standing on a box all by myself, I'm not out here alone.
GuestI have the coverage of my church family.
GuestMore and more, I am seeing men and women out on the streets under the auspices of being evangelists for the Lord Jesus Christ who are out there as nomads.
GuestThey're not under the authority of any local church.
GuestThey do not submit themselves to the authority of pastors or elders.
GuestThey are not held accountable by older, more mature men in the faith.
Host 2I see so many street preachers, and I applaud the fact that God seems to be.
Host 2Be raising up street preachers.
Host 2But some of them, I wish they would quit and work at Lowe's or Home Depot.
Host 2They're just angry people who want to hurt other people and call them names and film themselves while they're doing it so they can put it on YouTube.
Host 2How I would give to just walk around a corner and see a street preacher who was just telling people about.
Host 1How glorious Christ is.
GuestThe Lord, the Messiah, God Almighty, lion of the tribe of Judah, who once came as a baby, humble in a stable.
GuestBut when he returns, my friend, he will not return as a meek and mild lamb to be Punished by his creation.
GuestNo.
GuestHe will return as the lion of the tribe of Judah to judge both the living and the dead.
GuestDead.
GuestGod is holy, God is righteous.
GuestGod is just.
GuestGod is good and God will punish sin.
GuestBut God is also not.
GuestInstead of he is also loving, merciful, gracious and kind in that he provided one way and only one way for you to escape the just and holy wrath of Almighty God.
GuestMy friends, Muhammad cannot save you.
GuestMuhammad is dead.
GuestBuddha is dead.
GuestJesus Christ alone is God.
GuestJesus Christ is risen.
GuestJesus Christ is alive.
GuestMy friends and I worship a living God.
GuestWe worship a living savior.
GuestAnd the only God who can save you is the only God who is alive.
GuestAnd that is Jesus Christ the Lord.
GuestWhen people think of the street preacher, they think of someone who is very angry.
GuestThey're yelling and screaming at people, they're calling people names.
GuestThere's no grace, there's no love.
GuestAnd more often than not there's no gospel.
GuestAnd sadly there is that kind of street preaching.
GuestMore often than not it's by heretics.
GuestThe groups of people that I refer to as nomads.
GuestThey're out on the streets, basically a law unto themselves.
GuestAnd sadly I'm seeing more and more of these groups turn to heresies of long ago, full on Pelagianism.
GuestDenying the imputed righteousness of Christ, denying original sin, believing in sinless perfectionism.
GuestAnd more often than not, these men and women are out on the streets not bringing the good news of Jesus Christ, but only bringing the condemnation of God's law.
GuestMy friends, I am going to heaven not because I'm good, not because I'm standing on a box holding a Bible, not because, not because I go to church, not because I'm less sinful than the next person.
GuestI'm going to heaven entirely on the basis of what Jesus Christ did on the cross.
GuestIt is Jesus Christ and Jesus Christ alone.
GuestThere is no name given among men under heaven by which we must be saved.
GuestAnd it is Jesus Christ the Lord.
Host 2So I wanted to play that, that full clip because I, you know, it was some good preaching there and, and Chuck says, excellent, compare and contrast Andrew exposing Tony's deception with his own words that that's what we're trying to do here.
Host 2Sorry I put, let's see.
Host 2Oh, Stephen says, funny how he, he was a nomad at the same time he's railing against nomads.
Host 2Well, he was a member of a church but I, I, I wanted that clip just for the sake of, I want you to see the consistent pattern when he says he came to GFC and everything was different.
Host 2Right?
Host 2No, no, I mean, you know, we.
Host 2You know, we're focusing on Tony because Tony is the one that preached a sermon that we.
Host 2We had, you know, and he wanted us to hear it.
Host 2He said we.
Host 2We actually, I think we heard it.
Host 2We finally found it, like a year after he preached it.
Host 2But.
Host 1It'S two and a half years later that we're finally doing something about it.
Host 2And the only reason we are is because he's still.
Host 2He's still playing the same victim status.
Host 2Oh, woe is me.
Host 2You know, look, but this church is so good.
Host 2It saved me.
Host 2Well, then saved me not, but saved him from his.
Host 2His.
Host 2His drug addiction, you know, so.
Host 2So as we look at it, I mean, it's just what we're gonna.
Host 2I'm gonna.
Host 2I had the clip of his resume, but that's like 45 seconds of.
Host 2Or, sorry, 2 minutes and 45 seconds of him just giving his.
Host 2All the things he's done.
Host 2Let me play this clip where he talks about pastors and support, because this is where I now want to get into.
Host 2Not from that sermon, but from the sermon that he gave at our event, Jersey Fire, because here you see, you.
Host 2You see, he was.
Host 2He was an evangelist of the church.
Host 2Now in that blog article, he said that they never laid hands on him.
Host 2And because of that, that is why he went to Grace Community Church.
Host 2However, they did lay hands on him.
Host 2He was an evangelist.
Host 2And.
Host 2And they did all this investigation, but he said that they didn't like the open air, but they knew he did.
Host 2Open air, but let's give a listen.
GuestBut while it took my pastor a while to get on board, my pastor never discouraged me from hitting the streets.
GuestAnd now my pastor is one of my biggest advocates, one of the biggest advocates I know as far as pastors regarding biblical evangelism.
GuestHe exhorts our church on a regular basis to step out of their comfort zone and to reach a loss with a gospel.
GuestAnd he faithfully proclaims the law and the gospel from his pulpit.
GuestAnd not long ago, the elders of our church laid hands on me and called me to the office of evangelists in our church, which is something that a lot of churches don't do.
GuestSo I am in a very good place.
Host 2Did you hear his own words?
Host 2I could bring the article up again here and we could read his own words and see if they agree in.
Host 2In his.
Host 2In his blog article after he left.
Host 2And remember, that sermon, that is from Jersey Fire, is before he was at Grace Community church he was at, at this church, Faith Community Church, where he says in this article they did not lay hands on him if I can find it.
Host 2But on that, as he heard him say at the time that he preached it, they had laid hands on him and they knew he did open air.
Host 2They endorsed the open air.
Host 2And his pastor not only fully knew it was encouraging him all along.
Host 2Right.
Host 2So it says here that his pastor's dance.
Host 2Ask him to stop.
Host 2I want you to.
Host 2I'm going to replay that clip, but this is the paragraph I want you to look at that I highlighted.
Host 2The elders assured me that they would not ask me to stop open air preaching.
Host 2They assured me that my family and I were welcome to continue to be members of the church of Faith Community Church for the rest of our lives.
Host 2They repeatedly, repeatedly reassured their love and care for and support for the of the Mayano family.
Host 2However, the elders collectively determined the best thing for me and my ministry to which they affirm God had called me to do, would be to find another church where the elders and I would be in a same philosophical on the same page.
Host 2Right.
Host 2So why did they do that?
Host 2Well, because of the fact that, you know, he had said previously they didn't lay hands on him.
Host 1It's the sentence right above your highlighted one and that, that being the case, it says the elders determined they could not lay hands on me.
Host 2So now I want to replay this clip with the question that I have for you as I replay it.
Host 2Does this sound like while he was at Faith Community Church, does it sound like he didn't.
Host 2That he was the nomad he said he was?
Host 2Does it sound like he was someone who was had?
Host 2Well, let me.
Host 2I'll bring up the words that, that he has said throughout at different times.
Host 2He said it in that sermon.
Host 2At one point he says this is a quote from him.
Host 2It was my ideas, my desires.
Host 2I went wherever I wanted to go.
Host 2I did whatever I wanted to do, unquote.
Host 2Elsewhere he had said this quote, I answered to no one, not in any real appreciative way.
Host 2So I formed and quote advisory board, unquote, groups of well, well intentioned Christian men who had no real, actual authority over my life or over the ministries they advised.
Host 2I had to make it at least look like I had some accountability.
Host 2These men were not yes men.
Host 2Most of them were pastors elders, but they weren't my pastors elders.
Host 2They could give me advice, but they could simply take it.
Host 2But I could simply take it or leave it, unquote.
Host 2Now I'm that's a quote that he says when he comes, why he came to gfc.
Host 2He came there because he was going to get all this accountability.
Host 2I know Chuck O'Neill was on his board, his accountability board.
Host 2I think Phil Johnson is or was.
Host 2I mean, Chuck, you're.
Host 2You could put it in the chat and we could see if that's true.
Host 2I thought he was.
Host 2And Phil Johnson was his pastor at the time.
Host 2But Chuck O'Neill has testified on the.
Host 2On previous episodes here that he did give counsel and advice to Tony and he was the one that just decided to leave it.
Host 2So if there was no accountability, it wasn't the accountabilities board.
Host 2They did try to speak into his life.
Host 2But I want to play that clip again.
Host 2And.
Host 2And you tell me after hearing this clip, if it sounds like Tony's saying he did have accountability in his life.
Host 2He was laid hands on as an evangelist in the Church of Faith Community Church prior to Grace Community Church.
Host 2Let's listen again.
GuestBut while it took my pastor a while to get on board, my pastor never discouraged me from hitting the street.
GuestAnd now my pastor is one of my biggest advocates, one of the biggest advocates I know as far as pastors regarding biblical evangelism.
GuestHe exhorts our church on a regular basis to step out of their comfort zone and to reach the loss with the gospel.
GuestAnd he faithfully proclaims the law in the gospel from his pulpit.
GuestAnd not long ago, the elders of our church laid hands on me and called me to the office of evangelists in our church, which is.
GuestIs something that a lot of churches don't do.
GuestSo I am in a very good place.
Host 2He is in a very good place.
Host 2The same thing he said with when he went to Grace Community Church.
Host 2The same thing he said when he went to gfc.
Host 2It's a regular pattern.
Host 2Chuck said this.
Host 2He said Tony met with Phil regularly for accountability.
Host 2Both Phil and I exhorted Tony not to subject his family to the ministry beneath Mike Reed.
Host 2And so Phil was his pastor at the time.
Host 2Phil had said that he encouraged Tony to go out there and check it out.
Host 2But then after finding out more about Mike Reed, he told Tony not to go.
Host 2But Tony had already made the decision.
Host 2So, I mean, Kevin, does.
Host 2Does it sound like from that clip that he did at our event at Jersey Fire, does it sound like he was unaccountable, that he was just doing his own thing?
Host 2He was a nomad, as he.
Host 2He said he was before he went to gfc.
Host 1I mean, it doesn't take a lot of discernment to hear that, you know, the language is similar, that he is very proud of the fact that he's got pastors that are accountable to him, hold him accountable.
Host 1That, you know, it is.
Host 1It's the same language that he's heard now.
Host 1You know, I'm, I'm sure it's off the charts accountability at gfc, you know, it's, it'll, it'll be a higher level of that.
Host 1And, and what he appears to be pushing for in that 2022 sermon is the fact that every open air preacher needs that level of accountability.
Host 1You can't just be in a church.
Host 1The pastors are okay with you going out in open air preaching.
Host 1No, you can't.
Host 1You know, they have to be beating you up every week in order for it to be good shepherding.
Host 1Apparently from what Tony's perspective is now.
Host 2Yeah, yeah.
Host 2So.
Host 2So the question is, what was he in a good church?
Host 2Well, let's hear him in his own words.
GuestBack to club.
GuestFrustration.
GuestMisery truly loves company.
GuestAnd I found that the more time I spent on the streets, the more time I spent with other Christians whose frustration I shared, the less time I spent with my church family.
GuestAnd over time, I found it easy to justify the mindset because of the eternal importance of reaching the lost with the gospel.
GuestNo one's going to argue with that.
GuestAt least no Christian should.
GuestAnd I began to see my fellowship with other evangelists on the streets as in some ways a substitute for my fellowship with my brothers and sisters in Christ in my church.
GuestBefore long, I was leading a team of evangelists and the work of evangelism became all consuming and I was becoming a nomad.
GuestSome of us talked about forming our own church, one that would emphasize biblical evangelism in ways that other churches don't.
GuestAnd we would grow the church from those who we saw receive Christ from our street evangelism efforts.
GuestWe were going to reinvent the wheel in Southern California.
GuestWe were going to show other churches how it's done.
GuestWell, fortunately, by God's grace, all of us realized that we were either already in God glorifying Christ centered churches, or there were such churches nearby we could, could attend.
Host 2I cut it off too soon.
Host 2So what you end up hearing from there is he acknowledges this is when he's at Faith Community Church.
Host 2He, he said that prior, you know, he was, he was struggling with, I guess, whatever church he came to faith from, where he was, he was.
Host 2But does that sound familiar to what he said?
Host 2I mean, like why he came to gfc?
Host 2It's the same pattern.
Host 1Yeah.
Host 1And I think it.
Host 1It's the same with Grace Community Church.
Host 1I mean, he clearly said that in that article that he wrote.
Host 1And I.
Host 1I remember kind of hearing about that.
Host 1I didn't know Tony then, but him going there and maybe he was going to be, you know, going to the master's seminary.
Host 1I don't remember all the stuff that he was doing, but he might have been in a Bible study, leading a Bible study, but he was fully plugged in, you know, but that's nothing like what he experiences now, according to him.
Host 2See, and that's the whole thing is I.
Host 2That's why I'm trying to.
Host 2I.
Host 2And we only have about three more clips.
Host 2They're short.
Host 2I.
Host 2It's.
Host 2I, you know, but it's like, why beat the dead horse?
Host 2Well, because I want you to see that this is nothing new with him, you know, so when he goes out and he writes a book saying he's had these struggles and this is why this church is.
Host 2It made such a difference.
Host 2He said that with every church he's gone to.
Host 2Right.
Host 1He always will do it one more time.
Host 2Yeah.
Host 2But this time he actually would be leaving a bad church.
Host 2So here's Tony talking about.
Host 2Was Tony a novice?
GuestThose who fall prey to the lure of nobinism are often young men who by outward appearances, seem to grow very quickly in their faith.
GuestThey devour scripture.
GuestThey're voracious readers and students.
GuestThey often show great promise and seemingly leave older Christians in the dust when it comes to their ability to retain information, and when it comes to their zeal and ability to serve, to preach and to teach.
GuestBut before long, the pride and arrogance of the old creature begins to affect the growth of the new creature.
GuestThey begin to see themselves as better equipped and more gifted than the older men around them.
GuestAnd that may very well be true.
GuestBut when the novice starts to think about such things, even dwell on such things, they sometimes begin to brood about being held back by other leaders, older leaders, in their mind, they're not being given leadership, responsibility fast enough.
GuestAnd eventually the frustration can lead to the novice, novice setting out on his own with all too often a few burnt bridges left behind.
GuestI did that many, many years ago.
GuestI did that to a church because I was a novice who was put in leadership too soon.
Host 2Okay, so the church he's referring to is the one before Faith Community Church.
Host 2Right.
Host 2And so he's saying that he left Faith, the one before Faith Community Church, and came to Faith Community Church.
Host 2He was a novice before he caused this problem.
Host 2Right.
Host 2So what we see is he left.
Host 2It seems he left the church before Faith Community Church comes to Faith Community Church because of the issue of evangelism.
Host 2He leaves Faith Community Church to go to Grace Community Church.
Host 2The issue being evangelism, specifically the open air.
Host 2He leaves Grace Community Church and as we played earlier, he comes to GFC saying that, you know, he again claiming he was a novice, he did what he wanted.
Host 2He, he had no accountability.
Host 2Even though in each of these churches he's, when he gets to new one, he says he's got all this great accountability.
Host 2I want to play the clip of what he says about a reason for leaving the church because I'm going to ask you.
Host 2He said he left the church and specifically he, in his own words, he wrote he left because of the open air evangelism.
Host 2They went would not make him an evangelist.
Host 2They would not endorse his open air evangelism.
Host 2Which you take those words in writing and you take his own sermon while he was still at the church.
Host 2I, I don't know how else to reconcile it.
Host 2But you.
Host 2There's no third option I could think of as the church did not lay hands on him or the church did lay hands on him.
Host 2There is no third option.
Host 2So one of those has to be false.
Host 2And since he was publicly stating at the time that he was ordained as an evangelist and they knew about his open air ministry, I find it hard to believe that the later one where he's explaining why he came to Grace Community Church was because they didn't lay hands on him and they didn't approve of it because you heard him say they did approve of it, they did lay hands on him.
Host 2And so, you know, I think it's more he's twisting things to explain why he went to Grace Community Church, but even so, it's about the evangelism.
Host 2Should we leave a church because of their evangelism?
Host 2Let's ask Tony.
GuestWell, there's no way I can anticipate all the arguments against the position I've put forward.
GuestI can anticipate at least a couple of them.
GuestOne is this.
GuestI'm not part of a church because I can't find a church that supports or practices biblical evangelism.
GuestMaybe that's some of you here.
GuestAnd again, if your church is not preaching the biblical gospel, then it's not a church.
GuestIt's nothing more than a social club for professing Christians, both genuine and professing.
GuestAnd if your church is not preaching the gospel, you are Obligated because of your love for Christ to leave.
GuestYou're obligated to leave.
GuestIf you're in a church where the gospel is not being preached, you are practicing idolatry because you're hearing something other than the gospel and you're affirming and supporting that false gospel.
GuestBy staying, you have to leave.
GuestHowever, if your church is preaching the biblical gospel, then the fact that your church does not presently support biblical evangelism in the manner you prefer is not a sufficient or biblical reason to leave the church.
GuestIt's not.
Host 2And Tony admits to leaving two churches for that reason.
Host 1I've never heard some interesting thoughts regarding all of this because one, when, when we left, Tony wanted to meet with me.
Host 1We met.
Host 1I spent probably a couple hours with him.
Host 1Could have been an hour and a half, might have been two hours, I don't remember, might have even been longer.
Host 1But one of the things that he really stressed to me is that he had left churches the wrong way and he didn't want to see me do that.
Host 1And one of you know, well, how did you leave Grace Community Church to come to gfc?
Host 1It didn't fall under the parameter of Mike Reed's standards being sent mutual consent, sending death or excommunication.
Host 1He didn't.
Host 1That wasn't.
Host 1He just left.
Host 1He just decided, this is where I'm gonna go now.
Host 1So he made the decision all on his own.
Host 1But I find it incredibly interesting that he said, if they're not preaching a biblical gospel, you, you absolutely should leave.
Host 1So our contention, and it wasn't as clear at the time that we left gfc, but it's very clear now, is they're not preaching the biblical gospel.
Host 1They're preaching now.
Host 1People there know it to some degree, but the emphasis is on the law.
Host 1It's flat out legalism in its many different forms.
Host 1And it's a performance based society based upon how they view your sanctification.
Host 1That's how you're judged in the church is what's your level of sanctification?
Host 1And that's why Mike maintains control over people by examining their sin all the time.
Host 1And that's why he's, he's probably got his hooks into Tony in one way or another about some kind of sin in his life, that he needs old Pastor Mike to keep him on the straight and narrow.
Host 2And, and I mean, I'm hesitant just because you're.
Host 2Some of your, your comments are judging motives.
Host 2I understand you, you have lots of history and.
Host 2No, you know, I'm just, I.
Host 2We want to be cautious with it, though.
Host 2Right.
Host 2But you, you have a lot of history that you've seen.
Host 2So you've seen a pattern over and over again.
Host 1Yes.
Host 2And that's, that's what you're really addressing, is that pattern?
Host 1Yes.
Host 1Yeah, it's, it's, it's personal experience.
Host 1And I think if you, if you polled everybody that's been on this show that is a GFC survivor, they would affirm 100% what I'm saying.
Host 2Yeah.
Host 1Now, you know, you can, we can call it opinion, we can call it.
Host 1And they'll probably say, you know, you're this and that and whatever.
Host 1But, you know, that is my experience.
Host 1That is what we determined, especially later on, why it was such a drudgery of a place to be.
Host 2So let me, let me just put this up.
Host 2We're talking about accountability.
Host 2And then we have one more clip that we'll, we'll have.
Host 2This is from his, his website.
Host 2Okay.
Host 2About accountability.
Host 2And so he says Tony is a member in good standing of Grace Grace Fellowship Church, Davenport, Iowa.
Host 2Grace Encounters ministry is overseen by the elders of Grace Fellowship Church, Mike Reed, Nick Rowland, and Tyler Balkema.
Host 2These men are actively and regularly engaged in shepherding Tony, providing counsel, overseeing in his local ministry, his travel schedules, monitoring his social media presence, reviewing his blog articles, digital recordings and video prior to posting, and participating with him in various forms of street evangelism.
Host 2Now, I, I just put that up to show you.
Host 2This is what he has said every time.
Host 2There's nothing new there.
Host 2So what was different with this accountability they didn't have before?
Host 2I mean, because if he, if he thought he had the accountability before and it was rock solid, but now he realizes it wasn't, could he realize that the rock solid counseling he's getting from Mike Read is not so rock solid?
Host 1Yeah.
Host 1Like the heart is deceitful and desperately wicked.
Host 1Who can understand it?
Host 1Can we actually understand our own hearts and what we're sometimes being exposed to and where we thought that this was really good and then we learn later on that it wasn't.
Host 1I mean, is that what Tony would say?
Host 1Oh, I never realized.
Host 1I thought it was good at the time, but looking back on it now compared to what I have now, that was, that was terrible.
Host 2Yeah.
Host 1I mean, those guys weren't accountable to me.
Host 1These guys watch all my videos.
Host 1They, you know, I have breakfast with Pastor Mike every Wednesday and he beats me up and, you know, we're all good, you know, and, and, and I, I know that program.
Host 1I mean, you know, I, I wrote about it in one of the articles regarding the shepherding movement of the 1970s.
Host 1I mean, the, it's, you know, even the, the guys that started that movement came to realize how damaging is.
Host 1I mean, Mike has to know your business.
Host 1He has to be intimately and closely involved in your life.
Host 1And, and apparently Tony was, was looking for that.
Host 2Yeah, well, Tony always has that kind of relationship.
Host 2Tony always, like I said, he puts himself under someone else.
Host 2That's just.
Host 2That's who Tony is.
Host 2You know, the thing that really shocked me when you're talking about the controlling of GFC was the, the one woman who said that because she wasn't married, Mike had said that he was.
Host 2And she didn't have a father, that he was her spiritual father.
Host 2So her paycheck went into a bank account that he controlled.
Host 1They monitor it all and they set up budgets and they help them control their money.
Host 1And I mean, well, they say it's.
Host 2To control your money, but here this woman wants to spend her own money on new furniture.
Host 2And he didn't think it appropriate.
Host 2And she had said she realized that when she left the church, she was going to have to lose all her savings because he had control.
Host 2She can't, like she couldn't get her own money that she worked for.
Host 2That's controlling.
Host 2And that's, that's what a cult does.
Host 2But, you know, let me ask you, Kevin, would it be nice if, if Tony talked to us back at.
Host 2Back long before GFC days, if he told us, like, warned us about cults?
Host 2Let's, let's see in his own words again.
Host 1Good to know what cults are like, wouldn't it?
Host 2This is, this is again, back in.
Host 2In Jersey Fire.
Host 2So this is back, you know, where he was probably thinking Church of Wells, because that's what we were dealing with at the time.
Host 2Let's hear.
GuestAnd if the drift continues unabated, the Nomad may begin to deny essential Christian doctrines.
GuestAnd, and we've seen this.
GuestWe've seen this from men who once faithfully proclaimed the one true gospel, but now they are denying doctrines like the penal substitutionary atonement of Christ or the imputed righteousness of the Lord Jesus Christ.
GuestEvangelists that take this unfortunate and unbiblical step toward Nomanism run the risk of becoming isolationists.
GuestThe kind of isolationism may also lead the Nomad to.
GuestTo wrongly judge other Christians and assign other Christians to hell because they don't believe exactly as the Nomad believes regarding certain points of doctrine.
GuestAnd if such behavior remains unchecked, this could lead to the formation of cults like personality cults, or what I call we're the only true church cult.
GuestCults such as these are.
GuestAre typically led by one or more charismatic leaders who convince their followers that they alone rightly divide, understand, and communicate the word of God.
GuestAnd every other teacher is therefore in their mind, a false teacher.
Host 2Remember two hours ago I said this was going to come up.
Host 2One of those questions.
Host 2Did Mike Reed say they were the only true church in the.
Host 2The Quad City areas?
Host 2And the reason that came up is in.
Host 2And you remember this more than I, but I know it came up on one of the episodes you and Anthony did, that Mike Reed said there were only a handful of true churches, you know, I think in the world, one being the one they're planting in Africa, their church, Grace Community Church, which I think was removed from that list of true churches.
Host 2So this was long before.
Host 2I mean, what Tony is referring to is people who are the sinless perfectionists.
Host 2But I wanted to, you know, hear in his own words what he says about churches that claim they're the only true church.
Host 2He referred to it as a cult.
Host 1Yeah.
Host 2Now, you didn't know that clip, because I don't think I sent that sermon to you.
Host 2I saw your eyes when you heard that.
Host 2You went, oh, what are your thoughts?
Host 1That's.
Host 1That's exactly what he's involved in.
Host 1I mean, it is.
Host 1It.
Host 1It just fits it to a tee.
Host 1I mean, you know, those are the things.
Host 1I mean, there's a distortion of the gospel.
Host 1It's a law.
Host 1Gospel distinction that.
Host 1That is weighted toward the law and not the gospel.
Host 1They, they crush people's joy in their salvation.
Host 1They crush their security in their salvation.
Host 1They pound home sin.
Host 1They talk about authority as if it's, you know, it's.
Host 1It's.
Host 1It's all we know.
Host 1It's all we know to talk about.
Host 1Sin, authority, submission.
Host 1It's constant, all these things.
Host 1And, and they are the.
Host 1The authority of the church.
Host 1They, you know, I don't know.
Host 1They certainly wouldn't.
Host 1Wouldn't say it today because enough of this has been exposed.
Host 1But they've said it and they.
Host 1And they surely believe it, that they are the only game in town, that they're the only ones that truly know the gospel, that they're the only ones that are doing it right.
Host 1You know, it's just like that, that clip.
Host 1Oh, man, that is amazing.
Host 1And if.
Host 1Could.
Host 1Could Tony hear it now?
Host 1Could he receive it?
Host 1Could he understand that he's in that.
Host 1That he is part of that what.
Host 2He spoke against if he doesn't see it with what we did with that's good preaching.
Host 1That is good preaching.
Host 2You know.
Host 2Yeah.
Host 2Stephen Johnson said wow from Mike Reed's mouth.
Host 2He told me that his church was one of only five in the United States.
Host 2That was true.
Host 2Yeah.
Host 1How does he know that I wonder has he bendo mall?
Host 2So let's, let's, I mean let's go to some of the questions that we had before we do we we should give a word to our sponsors that, that sponsor the show and then we'll get to we got about a dozen questions that or comments that you guys have have brought up.
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Host 2So let me go through these.
Host 2We'll try to get through these quickly.
Host 2Just the ones that I had starred.
Host 2And I know I missed a ton of them because we have a very active chat and Drew's not here to catch them all.
Host 2So d had said early on, I'm wondering how Tony's close friend friends are doing if they're still defending him.
Host 1That is an excellent question.
Host 2It's one.
Host 1I know a couple of them come to mind, but, I mean, I think they've at least one guy.
Host 1I know he has sort of.
Host 1I, I, I think I don't talk to him hardly ever.
Host 1I think he's kind of tried to distance himself, but he won't call him out.
Host 1I think he wants to keep the friendship.
Host 1You know, if, if they want to keep this friendship, they can't, they can't say anything about it.
Host 2And they know that I've, I've spoken to like a half dozen people that contacted me, at least half dozen that contacted me and told me that they knew if they, if they talked to him about his church, they knew they'd lose the friendship.
Host 2And the friendship was more to them than getting him out of a cult.
Host 2One of those people actually endorsed his, his newest book.
Host 2So the Recognize the sin told me, like, this is absolutely, you know, he absolutely needs to leave that church.
Host 2That church is a, is, you're right.
Host 2It's a cult.
Host 2He absolutely has to leave it.
Host 2But he endorses the book because the friendship is more.
Host 2Now, when you get to that point, I'm just going to ask for all the evangelists who are against friendship evangelism.
Host 2What's this friendship sanctification?
Host 2Like?
Host 2We're just, we want to be friends with you rather than help you sanctify.
Host 2I, I don't do this because I, I have any grudges against Tony.
Host 2I, I, I do this because a lot of people ask for an update.
Host 2We had this.
Host 2We, we decided, we just, okay, we'll do an update and, and just lay things out.
Host 2But we do it because we want Tony to come to repentance.
Host 2We want Mike Reed to come to repentance and just stop the controlling behavior that this church has.
Host 1Stop hurting people and go back to the ones you've hurt and apologize to them and seek their forgiveness.
Host 1And, you know, he shouldn't be a pastor.
Host 1That's the bottom line.
Host 1I don't see any hope for that, for the future.
Host 1I think he really needs to repent, and he needs to get out of the pulpit because he can't help himself.
Host 1It's his.
Host 1It's his personality.
Host 1But, you know, he's.
Host 1He has done so much damage to so many people.
Host 1And, and as I've been listening to another popular podcast right now, dealing with spiritual abuse and damages, you know, that it just goes so deep.
Host 1And I don't know how people justify their ministries when they've been.
Host 1When they've been hurt that bad and hurt that many people.
Host 1And then, you know, you have this whole deconstruction of the faith because of.
Host 1Of this kind of stuff.
Host 1Man.
Host 1Listen, I.
Host 1We're still in the faith.
Host 1We love the Lord.
Host 1We love the local church.
Host 1We believe in it.
Host 1I'm a seminary student.
Host 1I love the Word of God.
Host 1I love Reformed theology, even though I think a lot of people in Reformed Reform theology needs some reformation in terms of.
Host 1Of how they deal with people.
Host 1But I, I understand why people deconstruct.
Host 2In fact, they've been just.
Host 1They've been destroyed by the church.
Host 2Kofi agrees with you.
Host 2He says the sad things about churches like GFC is that the.
Host 2That actual pastoral authority becomes viewed in the same way.
Host 2And that's the problem.
Host 2So let's.
Host 2Let's do these.
Host 2Maybe rapid fire.
Host 2A bunch of.
Host 2These are.
Host 2Chuck O'Neill, which I was surprised he.
Host 2He didn't come in.
Host 2But, you know, let's try to see if we could wrap this up quickly because I know we're a little over time.
Host 2This one I was confused with.
Host 2Jeremy had said, I.
Host 2I'm glad Tony is here.
Host 2I love him and very grateful for his ministry.
Host 2There are several things I am in agreement with him on.
Host 2I'm not sure about his church, but people don't submit to.
Host 2To.
Host 2To a biblical church.
Host 2I think he was confused when maybe when I said that I had a guest backstage.
Host 2He thought it was Tony and not you.
Host 2If I gave that impression, I'm sorry.
Host 2We did invite Tony on.
Host 2And I said that in the.
Host 2In the description.
Host 2We invited Tony on.
Host 2I prayed that he would come on.
Host 2I was really hoping that he would.
Host 2I didn't think he would, but I prayed that he would.
Host 2I really was asking that God would do something, his heart, to come in so we could dialogue, talk.
Host 2And, and I'll just make this.
Host 2I'm saying this publicly.
Host 2Tony, I, I know you're listening because you know the.
Host 2Because the church will probably respond to it in a private video and.
Host 2But listen, you or Mike Reed can give me a call anytime.
Host 2I will pick up the phone.
Host 2You you won't pick up the phone from me for all these years.
Host 2It's been over six years.
Host 2I will pick up the phone.
Host 2Unless of course, I'm busy and then I'll call you you back.
Host 2You know my number.
Host 2Let's talk.
Host 2I would be happy to talk this.
Host 2If there's things that I have said or on any of these episodes that anyone has said that is not accurate, we will correct it.
Host 1Yeah.
Host 2How did I start the show correcting something I got wrong in last week's show?
Host 2We have a history of doing that here.
Host 2I will correct the record if there's something.
Host 2We have 12 questions for, for Mike Reed.
Host 2They're simple.
Host 2Yes.
Host 2No questions.
Host 2They can be easily be answered.
Host 2I would love to get the answers to those questions.
Host 2All right, so Chuck O'Neill asks these.
Host 2And, and I think some of these are not really requiring an answer.
Host 2I think they're more, I think the question gives the answer.
Host 2Chuck O'Neill says, Does it make you a wolf to say a pastor should, shouldn't meet alone with women to give ex explicit sexual counsel?
Host 2Does it make you a wolf to say no safe or sane?
Host 2Pastor puts a teenage, a teen girl up in front of men and boys of the church and give her porn use and masturbation testimony and then put it online with her name.
Host 2So I, I, I think I, I missed, I think some, I think Tony had, Chuck had some others of, you know, does it call you wolf?
Host 2But I think, I think the answer is yet, no.
Host 2That, that's, that's not what a wolf would be.
Host 2Chuck had said this.
Host 2He said Tony, Tony met with Phil regularly.
Host 2Oh, I put this one up already.
Host 2So we'll go to.
Host 2The last comment that we have is from Steve.
Host 2Stephen Johnson.
Host 2I listened to Tony rail on about nomads at the super bowl outreach in 2012 long before he ended up at Grace Community Church.
Host 2So, yeah, it's, it's been a regular theme of his for a long time.
Host 2And so, you know, Kevin, I want to let you wrap up.
Host 2Is there, you know, are there any, since we've done the episodes, is there any other updates that, that you have with, with the church?
Host 2I mean, you, you've, I know when we talked you kind of were like, you were like me, you know, just kind of staying out of it.
Host 2I really don't, you know, you know, I'm sure Tony and, and Mike Reed don't believe this, but I really don't follow much of what they do.
Host 2We've been asked for years to give an update to do another show.
Host 2We.
Host 2We said no for years.
Host 2In fact, I actually told Anthony enough, like no more gfc and he wanted to do one.
Host 2I'm like, no, no.
Host 2And I said that for years.
Host 2I guess because he was with his new book.
Host 2A lot of people start coming to me, asking me, and I just reached out to you and said, hey, maybe we should just deal with the sermon that he said that he had preached and see if there's any updates.
Host 2So any updates that you can have for the audience.
Host 1Yeah, so we've been, we've been out of there since February of 2018.
Host 1So, you know, 15.
Host 1What is that?
Host 1It'll be eight years or something like that coming up in February.
Host 1So, you know, we don't sit around and obsess about them and talk about them and think about them hardly ever anymore.
Host 1When things come up, when people reach out and contact me and ask me questions or whatever, I want to do my best to love on them and show them support for understanding their plight or understanding what it's like to be in an abusive church.
Host 1We've been recently connected with a couple in our church here that has been an authoritarian, fundamentalist type churches, and we had dinner with them and it was very nice.
Host 1So the Lord has used our experience there to minister to others and we're very grateful for that opportunity.
Host 1I don't spend a lot of time thinking about them, but on occasion I'll still write an article about them when something comes up.
Host 1Probably the thing, the.
Host 1The most recent thing that I can mention is I think it's been about a year ago now.
Host 1Is.
Host 1Is a man there, a friend of mine that was a friend at the time committed suicide.
Host 1Side.
Host 1There was a lot of allegations of sin in his life from them.
Host 1At the funeral sermon, they preached about this guy's sin that I thought was just awful.
Host 1So I wanted to write some articles on that, you know, and so that was like the biggest thing.
Host 1And I, I've.
Host 1I've heard a lot of things, but I can't substantiate anything, so I won't even say it.
Host 1But.
Host 1But you know, I, I know more about it than I probably should or even want to.
Host 1But, you know, there's.
Host 1There's that.
Host 1I know they've added a new elder, you know, and you know, I.
Host 1I don't know.
Host 1I don't pay a lot of attention.
Host 1But.
Host 1But people leave and when they leave, they usually reach out and we usually rekindle a friendship.
Host 1If that was the case when we were there or we certainly talk about what's going on.
Host 1And, you know, there's a lot of people I know that left when we, like right at about our time frame, and then there's some people that left afterwards, and I know that they're still going through challenges relating to try to understand what the heck happened to them.
Host 1It's a form of PTSD because it's spiritual abuse.
Host 1And so, you know, we're not.
Host 1You know, this is just my opinion, okay?
Host 1I'm not against new fetic counseling per se, but I think that there's, you know, certified people that are counselors that can offer therapy to people that have suffered under these things is a good thing.
Host 1And I'm not against.
Host 1I'm not against secular therapy for.
Host 1Especially for people that understand trauma.
Host 1This is trauma.
Host 1But I know not everybody agrees with me, and that's okay.
Host 1You don't have to agree with me.
Host 1This is my opinion.
Host 1And so I think I want to see people get help, and I want to see people to understand what.
Host 1What a.
Host 1What a growing issue this is.
Host 1Okay.
Host 1It's a.
Host 1It's a huge concern.
Host 1We're seeing a lot more of it.
Host 1We've seen Amazing men like Dr.
Host 1Michael Krueger write a book called the Bully Pulpit on Spiritual Abuse, where he's a New Testament scholar.
Host 1Why is he wasting his time writing about a topic like this?
Host 1Well, he's.
Host 1He says because he's hearing so much about it.
Host 1So we want to expose that.
Host 1Tony calls this.
Host 1What did he call it?
Host 1A circus or something?
Host 1A clown.
Host 2Clown.
Host 2Circus.
Host 2Yeah.
Host 1Yeah, whatever.
Host 1But, you know, a podcast or a blog post.
Host 1Well, you know, what.
Host 1What's.
Host 1He does that.
Host 1Why is it wrong for me to do that?
Host 1You know, so that.
Host 1That's.
Host 1There's a lot of stuff going on, Andrew.
Host 1But what.
Host 1Praise God.
Host 1Every day that we're no longer there, we praise God that we're in a good church with good preaching and nice people and.
Host 1And not somebody that's asking me about my sin all the time.
Host 2And you've been there for a while.
Host 2I mean, look, I will admit, you know, it seems I.
Host 2I could be wrong, but this seems like it's.
Host 2As long as Tony's been in a church, so that.
Host 2That would normally be a good thing.
Host 2Right.
Host 2So.
Host 1Right.
Host 1You know, it's hard to get out of that place, I can tell you that.
Host 1We were there nine years.
Host 2Yeah.
Host 2So folks, be praying for Tony, Be praying for Mike Reed.
Host 2You know, they have a.
Host 2Look, this show is open if you want to.
Host 2You want to confront me publicly.
Host 2I'M here Thursday nights, 8 to 10 Eastern Time.
Host 2Apologexlive.com Anyone can come in, ask any questions.
Host 2You know, if we have a guest, we usually give the first hour to the guest.
Host 2But, you know, look, if, if they come in, I'm, I'm gonna give them the time to speak.
Host 2If they can correct the record, go for it.
Host 2But, you know, that was the struggle I had was that, you know, that first episode they were blasting Anthony.
Host 2Mike Reed was and, and saying, you know, like, I, I, as the authority of the ministry, needed to do something, but he couldn't tell me what Anthony did wrong.
Host 2He was, Anthony was slandering him and said, but what, what did he say that was false?
Host 2And he wouldn't answer.
Host 1Like, yeah, I want to, I want to say that kind of that.
Host 1Along that same line, Andrew, there's, I've written a lot of articles.
Host 1Right.
Host 1There's a lot out there that I have done.
Host 1I've been on your show a bunch of times.
Host 1I've been on a couple other shows talking about this topic.
Host 1If I, if, if you can show me something that I've written that is false, is not true, I, I, please show me.
Host 1I have no desire in my being to lie about them.
Host 1I don't need to lie or embellish the truth because the truth is stranger than fiction.
Host 1You know, so again, I stand by every word I've ever said about them.
Host 1Or, you know, that doesn't mean that everything I've said is perfect and it's according to my memory, but I would gladly correct something if it's, if it's slanderous.
Host 1And as we know, slander has to, to have the intent of knowing that it's wrong behind it in, in an attempt to damage somebody.
Host 1I've never done that to them.
Host 2Yeah.
Host 2And, and we do know that they have corrected some of their articles and things because they've either removed them.
Host 2Chuck O'Neal has, has documentation on that, showing things where they've removed it, you know, and so, yeah, I mean, they, they, they edit the stuff after it gets, you know, pointed out in the public.
Host 2So I hope that that's it.
Host 2I hope we never bring up this church again.
Host 2So, so, you know, I just, I, you know, I don't like doing these things.
Host 2I know.
Host 2You know, we have someone else that has a church that went through similar things as you went through, and, you know, he's talked about, you know, maybe having us do like, an expose like we did with GFC with that church.
Host 2I don't really care to do that, because that's really not what apologetics life should be.
Host 2It should be about apologetics.
Host 2But in a way, this is about apologetics.
Host 2I mean, yeah, I want you to see, you know, how did I handle these things that the accusations Tony made against us, I played them in his own words.
Host 2That's what I did.
Host 2You know, I let him speak and show him in what he has written, what he has said.
Host 2That's a good thing to do in apologetics when you're accused.
Host 2So.
Host 1And we are to defend the faith once and for all given to the saints.
Host 1And we have tried to do that and tried to defend against a church that is doing damage to people.
Host 1I stand by the fact that Mike Reed is a wolf because of the fact that he hurts so many people.
Host 1So I stand behind that, and Apologetics is defending my position against them on that topic.
Host 2Yes.
Host 2So thank you for coming on.
Host 2You're always an encouragement.
Host 2I love talking with you.
Host 1Thank you for.
Host 2Folks, just as a program note, we will not have a show for the next two weeks.
Host 2We'll be back on January 9, 2025, a new year.
Host 2So we will be.
Host 2We'll be back.
Host 2I think the topic for then is immigration.
Host 2Fun topic.
Host 2We got a bunch of people that were in a Signal group that I'm in, and they were all debating it, and I said, hey, you guys want to just, let's.
Host 2Let's do this.
Host 2So now I got to go back to the Signal and find which group that was.
Host 2On the 18th.
Host 2We're going to be having a debate on ghosts, whether ghosts are demonic or not.
Host 2So that will be a formal debate that we'll do.
Host 2And then on the 23rd, I'm going to have Greg Moore from Dead Man Walking podcast come on.
Host 2He recently had a debate on his channel and with someone that I actually used to go to church with.
Host 2And so he will be on and we're going to talk about that debate.
Host 2So I think that'll be good.
Host 2So, Kevin, thanks for coming on again.
Host 2It's always a privilege having you on.
Host 2You're always welcome to come back anytime.
Host 2Thank you.
Host 2And so my, my last encouragement is, folks, be praying for Tony, be praying for Mike Reed, and, and I'll do the open appeal again to them.
Host 2If you think we, we, we mischaracterized you, that we said something that's wrong, please reach out to me.
Host 2You know how to get a hold of me.
Host 2Both of you, Both of you know my email.
Host 2You've used it.
Host 2You have my, my number I'm not hard to, you know, to find, so.
Host 2But until next week, remember to strive to make today an eternal day.
Host 2For the glory of God.
Host 2We'll see you next time.