Throughout your life you've had these

moments of tears of inspiration,

and you've known they were meaningful,

and you know they were important

to listen to and pay attention to.

They've been guiding your

life your whole life.

But there's a science in how

to actually recreate these.

In all probability, somewhere in your

life you've watched somebody perform

and it brought yourself to tears,

or you read something that inspired

you and brought yourself to tears.

The reason why these events

were so heart opening and

tear-jerking,

is because the individual in their

writing or their expression was

authentic.

When an individual is authentic

and really being themselves,

there's a special transcendent state

that occurs. They'll be grateful,

they'll feel loved, they'll be

inspired, they'll be enthused,

they'll be present,

and they'll be certain,

and there's an honor that

occurs in that state.

Anytime somebody is up on stage

performing and they're in that state,

the whole room joins them in that state

and there's tears of gratitude sitting

in that room, because the whole

room now becomes authentic.

It's a spillover effect.

They found out that when an individual

has this open-hearted state,

this authentic state,

that there is a synchronicity in the

brain and a synchronicity between that

brain, their brain and their

audience's brains, they synchronize.

This has been documented in science now.

So I'd like to go down the rabbit

hole a bit on how and what this is.

So if you have something

to write with and write on,

you might want to take a few notes. So,

in your subcortical area of your

brain, the amygdala, the amygdala,

when it takes in information it's

activated and it assigns kind

of like a filtering mechanism,

assigns the experiences we

have as positive or negative.

Mainly because it is designed

for survival and it is

if it's prey and it's got

more positive than negatives,

it wants to know it's prey so it can

capture the prey so it doesn't starve to

death. Or if it's predator, it

wants to know it's predator,

so it has more negatives than positives

so it doesn't get eaten to death.

So the amygdala is designed to assign

valency to our experiences and stimuli

and polarize things with

judgment in order to survive and

subjectively distort the reality to make

sure the adrenaline runs fast enough to

capture the prey or fast

enough to avoid the predator.

So we have this judging imbalanced

ratios of perceptions that make us,

in a sense, minimize

ourselves if it's prey,

and exaggerate ourself if it's predator.

Because when somebody challenges us,

we tend to get narcissistic and

proud. When somebody supports us,

we become altruistic and kind of shamed.

When we actually see both sides

simultaneously, we have love.

And instead of exaggerating or minimizing

ourselves, we become ourselves.

Anytime we put somebody in a pedestal and

infatuate with them and represent prey

and minimize ourselves, we're

inauthentic. We have an imposter syndrome.

Anytime we put somebody down in the pit

and exaggerate ourself because we're too

proud, we're not authentic, because

we're judging and we disown that,

we're too proud or too humble to

admit what we see in others inside us.

We now have deflected awareness, judgment,

and we don't have our authenticity

because we're now puffing ourselves or

beating ourselves up. Pride or shame.

We all want to be loved for who we are,

but as long as we're too

proud or too shame to be that,

we're not able to be

loved, we don't feel love.

Now when we have tears of

inspiration, tears of love,

it's a confirmation of a

moment of authenticity where

we're not exaggerating and

minimizing ourself.

This is what I teach in the Breakthrough

Experience and I share with people on

how to develop this state of

doing the Demartini Method.

So let me elaborate on this in

even more detail. Your brain,

when you see something that's prey,

you activate the parasympathetic nervous

system and it gives you kind of a rest

and digest response. That's

for you to eat and then rest.

So it's symbolizing

digestion and then sleep.

And it does, it moves us in

towards a delta wavelength,

which is around 3 cycles per second,

which we see something that challenges us,

we activate the sympathetic nervous

system and now we get the fight or flight

response and we tackle these things

during the day when we're not resting.

And that activates the sympathetic

nervous system and causes a beta wave,

which is, goes up to around

13 cycles per second. Now,

if we see both sides simultaneously,

we balance out our ratios of perception

and we see both of them at the

exact same time, in a perfect balance,

these 3 to 13 cycles per

second come to a 7 to 8 cycle

balance,

right at the 8 cycles per second as

we get to a junction of alpha and

theta, right there at that junction,

we're not judging something as up or down,

we're not separating

ourselves with pride or shame.

We're just having a moment of

authenticity. At that moment,

a eureka moment occurs, a gamma

synchronicity in the brain,

around 40 cycles per second occurs.

The brain lights up and synchronizes.

This is the same thing that then

affects the audience. At that moment,

a eureka authentic moment occurs.

Tears of gratitude come out because our

autonomic nervous system is balanced.

We call that in the intercardiac

network activation of the heart,

an open heart feeling. We

literally feel our heart open.

We feel love and gratitude, inspiration,

enthusiasm, certainty, and presence,

which I call the transcendental feelings.

They're not polarized emotions

which are dramatically imbalanced,

but they're now balanced. In

that moment our heart opens up,

we're authentic, and we get a

confirmation of authenticity. Whenever,

throughout your life you've had these

moments of tears of inspiration and you've

known they were meaningful and you know

they were important to listen to and pay

attention to, they've been guiding

your life, your whole life.

But there's a science on how

to actually recreate these,

a science of how to balance

the equation and be authentic,

instead of being an imposter,

and instead of judging,

you actually get to love.

And the moment you do and you

have a gamma synchronicity,

you influence people around you.

It's impossible to be authentic without

influencing and leaving a mark and a

legacy in your life

through other people. Why?

Because everybody wants to be loved

and appreciated for who they are,

and in a moment of authenticity,

you're demonstrating it,

and there's a respect and honor

for people who demonstrate that.

That's why when you see somebody

that's performing in any capacity,

or painting or writing or

doing anything in that state,

it leaves its mark and

people are drawn there.

You see these people that leave their

marks in museums and art galleries,

performances.

We are drawn to people that demonstrate

authenticity and this perfectly balanced

alpha theta junction,

gamma, synchronous state,

where the executive center fires off,

there's a synchronicity in the brain.

There's an authentic state,

there's an intercardiac freedom,

there's an open heart, and our autonomic

nervous system is perfectly balanced.

We have resilience, adaptability,

we bring healing in this state,

and this authentic is magnetic and it

draws to us people, places, things,

ideas and events in our life

that synchronize with what

we're dominating thought

on at that moment. Our intention

becomes manifested, if you will,

because now we're being authentic.

So this open-hearted state

is a sign of authenticity.

It shows up as tears of gratitude, love,

inspiration, enthusiasm, certainty,

and presence. It has a massive

influence on anybody that's around it,

and it automatically is a confirmation

of your authentic and magnificent self.

You leave a mark in the world and an

influence in the world and a legacy in the

world every moment you do it. In

the Breakthrough Experience Program,

I teach people the science

of how to awaken that.

I show them that if you

increase the probability of

this state and you have your

executive function overriding

your amygdala survival response,

that you increase the

probability of achievement,

you increase the probability of an

influence, you wake up your leadership,

you expand your space and time

horizons, you open your heart,

you have an influence, and there's

basically a synchronicity of other people,

places, things, ideas,

and events in your life to help you

manifest what your intention is.

It's a very powerful state,

and I love sharing how to do that in

the Breakthrough Experience when I teach

people the Demartini Method, which leaves

them in that state of authenticity,

at the closure of that series of

questions that the method offers.

So come to the Breakthrough

Experience. Learn the Demartini Method,

learn how to have an authentic state.

Learn how to liberate yourself from

all the emotions of survival that are

distracting you, and learn the

difference between joy and sorrow tears,

and tears of inspiration, which

are confirmations of authenticity.