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Ever wondered why some people find it easy to stick to new habits,

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and for others it feels impossible.

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I'm joined by productivity coach Haley Watts to explore the psychology of habits

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and uncover the small changes that can make a big difference in this episode.

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Haley Watts is a productivity and habits coach and trainer.

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She helps people who are juggling too much to get clear on their

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priorities, reduce their stress, and help them grow their businesses.

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She's been delivering training around productivity on people management for

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Jon Clayton:

Hay, welcome to Architecture Business

Hayley Watts:

Hi there.

Hayley Watts:

Welcome.

Hayley Watts:

Thank you for having me.

Jon Clayton:

You're very welcome.

Jon Clayton:

It is great to have you here.

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Haley, what, what do you get up to in your free time?

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Do you have any hobbies or interests outside of the productivity

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work that you've been doing?

Hayley Watts:

I do.

Hayley Watts:

I love to get deeply engrossed in a good novel.

Hayley Watts:

Um, and my son has set me a challenge this year to see if I

Hayley Watts:

can read a hundred books in a year.

Hayley Watts:

Um, so that's quite an undertaking, but it gives me a good excuse,

Hayley Watts:

right, to sit and read.

Jon Clayton:

Absolutely.

Hayley Watts:

and, and to balance that kind of sitting around and reading.

Hayley Watts:

I'm also learning to ice skate, um, which yeah, it's quite nerve wracking

Hayley Watts:

in your forties to learn to ice skate.

Hayley Watts:

I'm very worried about injuring myself, but I'm making

Hayley Watts:

progress and I'm enjoying it.

Hayley Watts:

So that's the main thing, right?

Jon Clayton:

Oh yeah, absolutely.

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Yeah.

Jon Clayton:

Do you have any, um, favorite genres of novels?

Hayley Watts:

Oh, I've recently been getting into a bit of historical

Hayley Watts:

fiction, um, so I'm quite enjoying some of that 'cause I never really paid

Hayley Watts:

attention to history in school and learn.

Hayley Watts:

Learning about it as a story kind of brings it to life a bit more,

Hayley Watts:

so I'm really enjoying that.

Hayley Watts:

Um, but I've also relatively recently been introduced to fantasy

Hayley Watts:

through my book club, so yeah.

Hayley Watts:

That's cool as well.

Hayley Watts:

Just reading something a bit different to what I might otherwise have picked up.

Jon Clayton:

I love that when you discover something new like that and then it

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sort of opens up this whole different world that you didn't know about.

Jon Clayton:

Uh, my, I find that with music, my big, I love to read, but

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music's one of my big interests.

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But my daughter, she's an avid reader.

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She gets through a ridiculous number of books.

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It's unbelievable.

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you're here to talk about creating good habits which can help lead

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to more success in business.

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So I'm really excited to, to have this conversation.

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Forming new habits can be hard for many people, though.

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I wondered why you think that some people may be a better at, uh, forming

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and sticking with habits than others.

Hayley Watts:

They definitely are.

Hayley Watts:

Um, and I'm one of the people that's probably not very good at it, which got

Hayley Watts:

me interested in this, um, area of habits.

Hayley Watts:

Um, Gretchen Rubin's book, the Four Tendencies, she introduces this

Hayley Watts:

idea that there are four different personality types in relation to habits.

Hayley Watts:

Um, and she talks about the rebels.

Hayley Watts:

The people who don't like creating new habits don't like being told what to do.

Hayley Watts:

Um.

Hayley Watts:

She talks about the questioners, the people who don't want to do something

Hayley Watts:

or take action unless they're really brought into the idea and connect,

Hayley Watts:

get all their questions answered.

Hayley Watts:

And I've, I know friends who are really good at exercising,

Hayley Watts:

really good at eating healthily.

Hayley Watts:

And it's often because they've done the research, they've understood,

Hayley Watts:

they've had a lot of questions about, well, why should I eat, I

Hayley Watts:

dunno, green vegetables every day.

Hayley Watts:

And they've gone away and researched it and learned about it.

Hayley Watts:

And what they've learned has motivated them.

Hayley Watts:

So they're the questioners.

Hayley Watts:

Then there's me.

Hayley Watts:

I'm an obliger.

Hayley Watts:

For me, if I've got some external accountability, like if I said to you,

Hayley Watts:

John, I'm gonna go and I don't know, swim every day for the next week.

Hayley Watts:

If I knew that you might ask me about it, or even that you were thinking

Hayley Watts:

I was doing that, that's more likely to motivate me than me just going,

Hayley Watts:

I know that's good for my health.

Hayley Watts:

uh, so I'm, I'm an obliger.

Hayley Watts:

If, if it's for somebody else, I'm more likely to do it.

Hayley Watts:

So I know that, so I can make that accountability external.

Hayley Watts:

And then the other category of people who are the, um, upholders and they're

Hayley Watts:

really good at following the rules and instructions, and they're good at

Hayley Watts:

saying no when they can't do something.

Hayley Watts:

But if they do commit to doing something, it's gonna happen.

Hayley Watts:

And, and they're the ones who are wondering, like, why, why

Hayley Watts:

do other people not do it?

Hayley Watts:

It's a bit of a mystery.

Hayley Watts:

Um, um, those things are fluid, right?

Hayley Watts:

There might be times where you move from one to the other, but an upholder is not

Hayley Watts:

likely to start behaving like a rebel.

Hayley Watts:

Um.

Hayley Watts:

Me as an obliger, there might be times where I'm a bit more like a

Hayley Watts:

questioner or like a, um, a rebel.

Hayley Watts:

So we kind of move around depending on the different factors and different things.

Hayley Watts:

But I, I love Gretchen's book.

Hayley Watts:

It's fascinating.

Hayley Watts:

It really got me thinking about, yeah, why some people are good at this and

Hayley Watts:

why some people like me really struggle.

Jon Clayton:

Oh, I love that.

Jon Clayton:

I'm gonna have to Google that book and check that out.

Jon Clayton:

I definitely would like to read a bit more about that.

Jon Clayton:

I think I'm probably quite like you Haley, with my habits.

Jon Clayton:

Yeah, I think if I have some external accountability that's

Jon Clayton:

definitely helped me before.

Jon Clayton:

Something as well, actually setting a, a date that has worked

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when I've actually picked a date and set a date for something.

Jon Clayton:

And I I do rely quite a lot on, um, like a diary and a

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calendar to help me plan things.

Jon Clayton:

Which leads me on, actually to a question I wanted to ask you about the different

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ways that you've noticed, um, people using their diaries in relation to this.

Hayley Watts:

and I think it's really common, I think for people

Hayley Watts:

to put into their calendar, oh, I'm gonna do that thing on this date.

Hayley Watts:

I'll do it then.

Hayley Watts:

And that works, I think, as a technique when you use it sparingly.

Hayley Watts:

But I think when you use it for everything, 'cause there's

Hayley Watts:

nowhere else to put the stuff.

Hayley Watts:

Your calendar becomes really overcrowded and, and what you have

Hayley Watts:

a tendency to do is say, well, this thing isn't a priority today or even

Hayley Watts:

this week, so I'll put it into my calendar in three or four weeks time.

Hayley Watts:

And then that three or four weeks time rolls around and you just dismiss

Hayley Watts:

everything that comes up in the calendar, because that's not priority today either.

Hayley Watts:

I do a lot of work with people around managing high workloads.

Hayley Watts:

And I think when people are putting things in their calendar for everything,

Hayley Watts:

it tends to feel overwhelming and people stop engaging with it.

Hayley Watts:

Now there will be exceptions, of course, there's always exceptions.

Hayley Watts:

What I find tends to work better for people is if you know that you are

Hayley Watts:

a morning person or you know you do your best work in the middle of the

Hayley Watts:

afternoon, like whenever your, your zone is to be able to concentrate

Hayley Watts:

and focus, if you can block out some concentrating and focusing time.

Hayley Watts:

And then decide near the time what the priority is.

Hayley Watts:

I find that tends to work better for people rather than just

Hayley Watts:

putting everything in the calendar.

Jon Clayton:

Oh, I like that.

Jon Clayton:

Yeah.

Jon Clayton:

I've done that classic thing of putting items on my calendar and

Jon Clayton:

then they've just got moved, like,

Jon Clayton:

and then the next week the task is still there.

Jon Clayton:

'cause it's that thing of, oh, well that doesn't feel like the priority today,

Jon Clayton:

so I'll just keep sliding it back.

Jon Clayton:

And there has been some occasions when there's been some tasks that for weeks

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and weeks and weeks have just got.

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Pushed along into the following week.

Jon Clayton:

So that's something that I would definitely like to

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work on, uh, improving for

Hayley Watts:

Yeah, and there's loads of tools and technology

Hayley Watts:

that's out there that that helps us to organize our workload better.

Hayley Watts:

Um, like equally pen and paper and spreadsheets, they work fine too.

Hayley Watts:

It's just a case of finding something that you enjoy using,

Hayley Watts:

uh, and, and sticking with it.

Hayley Watts:

And I think everybody uses a calendar.

Hayley Watts:

Everybody knows how they work, so that feels like an easy thing to use.

Hayley Watts:

And if you've got a workload that is quite repetitive and

Hayley Watts:

predictable, um, maybe that works.

Hayley Watts:

You know, if your role is to send out invoices and respond to emails

Hayley Watts:

and you aren't working on anything more strategic or anything that has.

Hayley Watts:

Um, unexpected, you know, queries from clients that might

Hayley Watts:

take up quite a lot of time.

Hayley Watts:

Then it might work in those kind of more administrative type jobs.

Hayley Watts:

Um, but I think for people who are running their own businesses,

Hayley Watts:

there's probably a bit more going on.

Hayley Watts:

And, like you say, you're gonna kind of end up bumping it and, and

Hayley Watts:

looking to do Yeah, just pushing it, which feels a bit demotivating.

Jon Clayton:

Hmm, absolutely.

Jon Clayton:

Small business owners are wearing so many hats usually.

Jon Clayton:

Interesting you mentioned there about, um.

Jon Clayton:

Analog as well, sort of notepad and diaries, that sort of thing.

Jon Clayton:

That's something that I started doing last year actually, was using a, a

Jon Clayton:

bullet journal in addition to like an online calendar, that sort of thing.

Jon Clayton:

So mine approach is a little bit of a combination now, sort of

Jon Clayton:

part analog, part digital, um, but it's still a work in progress.

Hayley Watts:

Yeah, I think, I think that's the best approach.

Hayley Watts:

It's about doing something that works for you.

Hayley Watts:

Yeah.

Hayley Watts:

There's all these fancy apps out there and you know, someone messaged

Hayley Watts:

me a few days ago say, oh, I found a great AI tool to do this.

Hayley Watts:

But the problem with that is they said, well, I've been using it.

Hayley Watts:

I was like, yeah, but do you feel any better or do you still

Hayley Watts:

feel stressed and overwhelmed?

Hayley Watts:

They're like, oh yeah, it still feels really stressful.

Hayley Watts:

'cause they don't really know what's in there because they're, uh, you

Hayley Watts:

know, the AI has done it for them.

Hayley Watts:

Um, so yeah, using a bit of both is good.

Hayley Watts:

I, I tend to use an electronic tool for my, kind of all the things

Hayley Watts:

I need to do and think about.

Hayley Watts:

But then I, each morning I will pull out from that tool,

Hayley Watts:

what am I gonna work on today?

Hayley Watts:

And that goes on a post-it note.

Hayley Watts:

So I don't look at all the other stuff that needs doing.

Hayley Watts:

I just look at the top three things and I give myself three things.

Hayley Watts:

'cause I wanna leave a bit of capacity in the day to deal with the unexpected or,

Hayley Watts:

um, the, the proactive things that I want to do each week, that are each day that

Hayley Watts:

are different to the more movable tasks.

Hayley Watts:

So, yeah, that helps me to just have my top three for the

Hayley Watts:

day on a, on a post-it note.

Jon Clayton:

Oh, I love that.

Jon Clayton:

That's very analog, the old school post-it note.

Jon Clayton:

But I, I love that for the, being able to just focus on that.

Jon Clayton:

Um, that leads nicely onto my next question actually, Haley, which is, how

Jon Clayton:

do you recommend we create a new habit?

Jon Clayton:

I.

Hayley Watts:

yeah.

Hayley Watts:

Great question.

Hayley Watts:

So I've done a lot of reading around habits and I've worked

Hayley Watts:

with a lot of people around how to formulate ones that work for them.

Hayley Watts:

So I think, yeah, the first thing is deciding what is

Hayley Watts:

the new habit going to be.

Hayley Watts:

The second thing is how do we make it really small?

Hayley Watts:

So in BJ Fog's book, tiny Habits, he talks about the importance

Hayley Watts:

of making a habit really small.

Hayley Watts:

So we started off our conversation with me getting all excited about,

Hayley Watts:

oh, I love reading and novels, but are not so good at reading the nonfiction

Hayley Watts:

books, the self-development, the business books, that kind of stuff.

Hayley Watts:

I find there's a bit tougher going 'cause your attention span

Hayley Watts:

needs to be a bit better, right?

Hayley Watts:

So my tiny habit was, well, I'm gonna read at least a page a day.

Hayley Watts:

I don't think there've been any days where I've only read a page, but if

Hayley Watts:

I pick up the book with the intention of I'm just gonna read a page, I'll

Hayley Watts:

get into it by that, by that time.

Hayley Watts:

And if I only read a page, that's fine.

Hayley Watts:

I've met my goal.

Hayley Watts:

So it's making it small and then pairing it with something that you do already.

Hayley Watts:

So it's called habit stacking, where you pair pair it up.

Hayley Watts:

So.

Hayley Watts:

When I turn on my bedroom light in the morning, that's when I

Hayley Watts:

pick my book up to read at least a page of my nonfiction book.

Hayley Watts:

So, because I'm pairing it with something that I do already,

Hayley Watts:

it makes it easier to do.

Hayley Watts:

And then when I've done that, I give myself a little, you know,

Hayley Watts:

congratulations, a little moment of recognition that I've done this

Hayley Watts:

thing and instilled this new habit.

Hayley Watts:

And that can help us to want to keep going with the habit.

Hayley Watts:

So, yeah, making it small and pairing it up with something that you do

Hayley Watts:

already and just recognizing that you've achieved something and you've done it.

Jon Clayton:

I like that it's, um, celebrating that little win.

Jon Clayton:

And, um, often I think we try and do something new.

Jon Clayton:

We, we try and do too much.

Jon Clayton:

Um, so I love the idea of, of just making it something really small

Jon Clayton:

then, and celebrating that afterwards.

Jon Clayton:

It's a great, great

Hayley Watts:

Yeah, and sometimes we can try and do too many new things at once.

Hayley Watts:

So like if you're moving house or create starting a new job, then maybe

Hayley Watts:

that isn't a, a good opportunity to change a few things at at once.

Hayley Watts:

But if it's just day to day, then may be kind of doing those in slow

Hayley Watts:

increments and just visualizing.

Hayley Watts:

Okay, well I'm gonna read, when I turn the light on in the morning, I'm just picture

Hayley Watts:

yourself in your head, like turning on the light, picking up the book, turning on

Hayley Watts:

the light, picking up the book so you're kind of rehearsing it in your head so

Hayley Watts:

you remember to do it at the right time.

Jon Clayton:

Mm. And that way then we're less likely to, to get

Jon Clayton:

overwhelmed with all of the things that we've we've got going on.

Jon Clayton:

What do you think causes people to feel overwhelmed by their to-do lists?

Jon Clayton:

I.

Hayley Watts:

Very often when I start working PE with people on organizing

Hayley Watts:

their workload, people say, well, I have got a to-do list, and then they'll pull

Hayley Watts:

out a scrappy piece of paper from the bottom of their back and a notebook.

Hayley Watts:

There's an app that they started using and they've put a flag on some emails as well.

Hayley Watts:

And there are so many different lists in so many different places that feels

Hayley Watts:

overwhelming before you even get started.

Hayley Watts:

So the first thing would be having everything in one place, whether that's

Hayley Watts:

an electronic tool or bullet journal or you know, whatever it might be.

Hayley Watts:

It's choosing a tool

Hayley Watts:

and, and.

Hayley Watts:

Really committing to spend, just spend a little, you know, you do need to spend

Hayley Watts:

a little bit of time setting something up, but it's well worth it in the end.

Hayley Watts:

And that's something that I help people with is setting up a tool.

Hayley Watts:

Um, I do that with teams of people, whether they do it together as a

Hayley Watts:

group, um, or with individuals if they're running their own business or

Hayley Watts:

if they're senior executives in firms.

Hayley Watts:

So.

Hayley Watts:

Yeah, I think that sense of feeling overwhelmed by the to-do list

Hayley Watts:

comes from not having one place to go to, to decide what to do next.

Hayley Watts:

So I think that that helps, and then being able to break it down

Hayley Watts:

and section it in different ways.

Hayley Watts:

So, you know, if you, if you've got a list of like, that's just

Hayley Watts:

massive, it goes on forever.

Hayley Watts:

It doesn't feel good.

Hayley Watts:

So being really clear on what your priorities are for the week is helpful.

Hayley Watts:

I also have, um, within my, my list, I kind of categorize some

Hayley Watts:

of those tasks depending on where I'm going to be when I do them.

Hayley Watts:

I deliver quite a lot of management and productivity training.

Hayley Watts:

So I spend a bit of time on trains.

Hayley Watts:

I have a list of things that I can do.

Hayley Watts:

It doesn't matter where I am.

Hayley Watts:

Usually kind of fairly quick and easy type things.

Hayley Watts:

So if I'm on the train or if I arrive somewhere early for a meeting, I can say,

Hayley Watts:

you know, I can pull up those quick tasks that does, you know, I can do anywhere.

Hayley Watts:

So I might categorize things based on where I am or, or even what mood I'm in.

Hayley Watts:

You know, maybe I'm in the mood to just do something, you know, I could do something

Hayley Watts:

creative or decision making or thinking.

Hayley Watts:

There might be other times of the day where my brain is more suited

Hayley Watts:

to, uh, doing some really easy admin tasks that don't require all of my

Hayley Watts:

brain cells to be working so well.

Jon Clayton:

So

Jon Clayton:

Part of that is, having self-awareness of your own energy levels and you

Jon Clayton:

know, so those internal factors.

Jon Clayton:

And then externally thinking about your movements, where you're going

Jon Clayton:

to be, whether you're at your desk, whether you've got time on

Jon Clayton:

the train or whether for a meeting to begin or that sort of thing.

Jon Clayton:

Yeah, that's a really interesting way to think about categorizing and breaking

Jon Clayton:

down that big, overwhelming to-do

Hayley Watts:

And you know, if somebody writes something on their website, oh,

Hayley Watts:

sorry, writes something on their to-do list and they put website like that,

Hayley Watts:

that might be quite a big job to update some, you know, a business website.

Hayley Watts:

But if, if somebody writes on their to-do list, read the text on the

Hayley Watts:

homepage and decide what I want to change, that feels a bit easier.

Hayley Watts:

Bit easier.

Hayley Watts:

So breaking it down into what's next rather than the overall massive

Hayley Watts:

big task that needs to be done.

Hayley Watts:

Like what are you gonna do to just kind of be nudging that thing forward?

Jon Clayton:

Mm. I think there's sometimes there's some confusion between tasks

Jon Clayton:

and projects that actually something like, oh, that task to redo the website.

Jon Clayton:

That's actually a really big project.

Jon Clayton:

Potentially even a simple website.

Jon Clayton:

There is a huge list of individual tasks, tasks to work through to complete that.

Jon Clayton:

But we would, we just, oh.

Jon Clayton:

Complete website one task.

Hayley Watts:

and, and I, I guess with a lot of these tasks, it's like, you know,

Hayley Watts:

writing complete website or do marketing or social media, they're never done.

Hayley Watts:

There's always more that you can do.

Hayley Watts:

So what is it that you want to achieve from doing those things?

Jon Clayton:

Hmm

Hayley Watts:

so reminding ourselves of the goal can be helpful as well.

Jon Clayton:

I love that.

Jon Clayton:

So how do we decide?

Jon Clayton:

What thing?

Jon Clayton:

So what task or activity?

Jon Clayton:

How do we decide which one of those to work on next?

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Hayley Watts:

So I think it's about thinking about our energy levels.

Hayley Watts:

So if I've not slept very well and I'm feeling a bit groggy, a bit under the

Hayley Watts:

weather, then I might just go to my list and pull off some easy things to do.

Hayley Watts:

But if I'm, you know, I'm on it and I'm feeling good, I can look at my list and

Hayley Watts:

say, right, these are my top priorities, these are the, the what's next actions

Hayley Watts:

that are gonna move that forward.

Hayley Watts:

I'm gonna do that.

Hayley Watts:

I try and get the things done that are top priority first.

Hayley Watts:

'cause then I feel like, you know, I'm achieving something.

Hayley Watts:

Does that help?

Hayley Watts:

Is that what you do?

Jon Clayton:

Yeah.

Jon Clayton:

That, no, that, that definitely does help.

Jon Clayton:

Yeah.

Jon Clayton:

I think the way that I approach it is I have sort of changed my approach and

Jon Clayton:

experimented quite a bit with this.

Jon Clayton:

But the way that I've been doing it more recently.

Jon Clayton:

I did some self-reflection on my energy levels throughout the

Jon Clayton:

day, and then I try to match.

Jon Clayton:

obviously there's some things that have set deadlines, but then there's a lot

Jon Clayton:

of other tasks that are just ongoing things, and some of those I find easier

Jon Clayton:

to do, uh, and, and others harder.

Jon Clayton:

So have some times throughout the day where I'll say, well, any, not

Jon Clayton:

necessarily more difficult, but anything that demands more of my energy, more

Jon Clayton:

of my attention, that I need to be kind of on it to do that kind of deep

Jon Clayton:

thinking, creative work, strategic work.

Jon Clayton:

I'll try and do that in the same part of the day when I know that

Jon Clayton:

my energy levels are higher.

Jon Clayton:

And then anything else that I can do more easily, like.

Jon Clayton:

Admin, bookkeeping checking, re replying to emails, that sort of thing.

Jon Clayton:

That can be kind of at the time of day when my energy levels are lower

Jon Clayton:

and I'm kind of feeling tireder.

Jon Clayton:

What I have found as well is that whilst meetings, like video calls, meetings and,

Jon Clayton:

and even podcast interviews in the main, I, I enjoy particular podcast interviews.

Jon Clayton:

I really enjoy doing them.

Jon Clayton:

I do.

Jon Clayton:

Often find any kind of thing that involves a video call.

Jon Clayton:

I do find it tiring.

Jon Clayton:

But equally it's also kind of energizing in some way.

Jon Clayton:

So it, it is strange that like initially I would try and schedule

Jon Clayton:

those for that part of the day where I would do the kind of the deep

Jon Clayton:

work, if you want to call it that.

Jon Clayton:

But what I realized is that actually.

Jon Clayton:

I can actually do it at the other time of day and actually there's something

Jon Clayton:

about it, maybe it's, um, a little bit of adrenaline before we hit record, that

Jon Clayton:

it kind of gives me an energy boost and I am able to do those calls and meetings

Jon Clayton:

and recordings at a time of day when I would normally be feeling less energetic.

Jon Clayton:

So I've realized that that was a little hack for me to be able to

Jon Clayton:

squeeze more productivity out of my

Hayley Watts:

Yeah.

Hayley Watts:

I think of them as energizer tasks, like what's gonna energize me.

Hayley Watts:

Um, for me, probably around 3, 3 30 in the afternoon, my energy levels dip.

Hayley Watts:

So that's a good time to pull out an Energizer task or even to just take a

Hayley Watts:

break, get outside, move around, even if it's just for a couple of minutes.

Hayley Watts:

Uh, that makes a big difference.

Hayley Watts:

People often say to me, like, how do I get my energy levels

Hayley Watts:

to be really good all day?

Hayley Watts:

It's like, well, you're not a robot, so then they're not gonna be like that.

Hayley Watts:

Um, you'll have peaks and troughs and it's about.

Hayley Watts:

You know, what you just described is a perfect description of how

Hayley Watts:

to embrace those kind of peaks and troughs in our day by just kind of

Hayley Watts:

matching the tasks of where we're at.

Jon Clayton:

Yeah, Yeah, it's definitely, definitely been

Jon Clayton:

working for me, uh, a lot better.

Jon Clayton:

I think as well, just managing expectations of what is

Jon Clayton:

reasonable to achieve in a day.

Jon Clayton:

I think that you mentioned there like not being a robot.

Jon Clayton:

That none of us are ever gonna work at a hundred percent productivity

Jon Clayton:

and actually for the average small business owner that your, your

Jon Clayton:

productivity levels will typically be lower than a regular employee because

Jon Clayton:

you're juggling so many other things.

Jon Clayton:

That's my experience of it anyway.

Jon Clayton:

But I, I wrestled with that for a long time.

Jon Clayton:

Thinking that I would be able to get far more what I would call

Jon Clayton:

productive work done in a day.

Jon Clayton:

And it's only in recent years after a lot of self-reflection and, and learning a bit

Jon Clayton:

more about productivity that I've realized actually I was not being realistic at all.

Jon Clayton:

Yeah.

Jon Clayton:

So it's, um,

Hayley Watts:

And often business owners will say, oh, but the

Hayley Watts:

thing is I love my job and my business, I find it all energizing.

Hayley Watts:

And it's like, well, that's great, but you can only sustain that

Hayley Watts:

level of throwing more hours at it for a certain period of time.

Hayley Watts:

Because there will come a point where you then you do get

Hayley Watts:

burnt out, you do get tired.

Hayley Watts:

And when, when that starts to happen, you start to make less

Hayley Watts:

good decisions that aren't in the best interest of your business.

Hayley Watts:

So I love that you started off asking today about like

Hayley Watts:

interests outside of work.

Hayley Watts:

Like we need to make sure as people running our own businesses, that we

Hayley Watts:

have those, um, and that we are doing something that's, that's not work,

Hayley Watts:

because that helps us to recharge rather than just go on standby.

Jon Clayton:

Yeah.

Jon Clayton:

So we've talked, um, a little bit about planning for the week and

Jon Clayton:

our, our sort of approaches to that.

Jon Clayton:

I. Maybe we could dig into that a little bit more because, I mean, planning can

Jon Clayton:

be a little bit boring for some people.

Jon Clayton:

They maybe struggle with that.

Jon Clayton:

So how, how can we make ourselves do it, do that planning that's

Jon Clayton:

necessary for us to get the things done that we want to get done.

Hayley Watts:

Yeah, for me, minimum bit of planning for the week is to look ahead

Hayley Watts:

at what I've got coming up in the next three weeks and identify is there anything

Hayley Watts:

I need to do to, to plan for that.

Hayley Watts:

Um, I have a virtual assistant who helps me in my business, so like,

Hayley Watts:

what do I need to delegate to her?

Hayley Watts:

Um, but also look back a, a week, you know, what did I do last week?

Hayley Watts:

What conversations or meetings did I have?

Hayley Watts:

Have I captured the actions from those or, or have I done them?

Hayley Watts:

Uh, so I, I think this is something a lot of people find very difficult.

Hayley Watts:

'cause it means when you're doing the planning, you're

Hayley Watts:

not actually doing the work.

Hayley Watts:

And that feels counterintuitive.

Hayley Watts:

So on a Monday morning, I run, um, a group called Organize and Thrive.

Hayley Watts:

And the idea of that is, it's a very brief kind of mini planning

Hayley Watts:

session, but everybody will do sort of the minimum to get them

Hayley Watts:

organized and focused for the week.

Hayley Watts:

And I experimented with it in September last year, uh, where I just said

Hayley Watts:

to people in my network, come for free, let's test it for a month.

Hayley Watts:

And I had some amazing feedback.

Hayley Watts:

Like people literally said, this changed my life.

Hayley Watts:

This was the difference between it feeling.

Hayley Watts:

It's overwhelming and too much to me, feeling in control.

Hayley Watts:

So we start at 10, past nine, we're finished by five to 10.

Hayley Watts:

Um, and I just take people through some of the questions the same each week.

Hayley Watts:

'cause you know, that's three weeks ahead, one week back.

Hayley Watts:

Um, that's really important.

Hayley Watts:

Get people to think about their priorities, what they're gonna

Hayley Watts:

do, what they're not gonna do.

Hayley Watts:

And then there are some different questions that I throw in each week.

Hayley Watts:

They might be about wellbeing.

Hayley Watts:

Um, they might be about our priorities and how do we reframe

Hayley Watts:

perhaps some of the things that people have been struggling with.

Hayley Watts:

Uh, so particularly for us, obliges, you know, I mentioned the obliger thing

Hayley Watts:

earlier, knowing that they're coming onto a call and they're gonna have somebody

Hayley Watts:

talk them through what they need to do.

Hayley Watts:

That's a commitment that they're making and that gives them that accountability.

Hayley Watts:

And I think it's a bit more fun 'cause people get to know each other

Hayley Watts:

a little bit in that group as well.

Hayley Watts:

So, um, I think that helps.

Hayley Watts:

I think the other thing that can help is just having a reward.

Hayley Watts:

Um, sometimes I do my weekly planning.

Hayley Watts:

I have a list I call the sorting my Life out checklist, which I can

Hayley Watts:

send you a link to that if it's helpful for people who are listening.

Hayley Watts:

Um, sometimes I might go to a coffee shop and work my way through that and

Hayley Watts:

just do it in a different environment.

Hayley Watts:

Somewhere where I'm not gonna be distracted is important just to

Hayley Watts:

have that uninterrupted time and I always feel lighter afterwards.

Hayley Watts:

It's that remembering it will feel better when I've done it, even if

Hayley Watts:

starting it doesn't feel great.

Jon Clayton:

Yeah.

Jon Clayton:

I love that.

Jon Clayton:

I'm, I'm a big fan of.

Jon Clayton:

Going to a different environment, particularly like a local coffee shop.

Jon Clayton:

I find that there'll be some days when I'll be trying to work on

Jon Clayton:

something and it will feel like I'm trying to wade through treacle.

Jon Clayton:

I'm really struggling with it, but that quick change of environment, the task

Jon Clayton:

that I may have been struggling on, I get done in a fraction of the time in

Jon Clayton:

a different environment, or to have the opportunity to do the planning.

Jon Clayton:

To then be able to then come back to my desk and then get the work done,

Jon Clayton:

knowing with confidence that I'm working on the right things because

Jon Clayton:

I've taken some time out of my day to do the planning work somewhere else.

Jon Clayton:

I. And your Monday morning group, that sounds absolutely fantastic.

Jon Clayton:

Organize and thrive.

Jon Clayton:

So, um, there'll be a link in the show notes to to your website so that, uh,

Jon Clayton:

listeners, you'll be able to go and find that if you're listening now.

Jon Clayton:

I think that sounds good.

Jon Clayton:

Just go and check out the link and, uh, go and give it a try.

Jon Clayton:

Haley, this has been awesome.

Jon Clayton:

Really enjoyed this.

Jon Clayton:

What would be the main thing that you'd like everyone to take

Jon Clayton:

away from this conversation?

Hayley Watts:

Oh, lovely question.

Hayley Watts:

I think if you know that external accountability is something that

Hayley Watts:

helps you with developing new habits, then think about where you

Hayley Watts:

may, you may be able to get some of that external accountability from.

Hayley Watts:

I mean, there's lots of groups and communities that business

Hayley Watts:

owners might join, but it might just be buddying up with.

Hayley Watts:

Uh, a friend to say, me, this is my accountability thing.

Hayley Watts:

What are you gonna do next week?

Hayley Watts:

Um, and I think that habit stacking, I'm really giving a bit

Hayley Watts:

of thought to what, what are the new habits that you want to create?

Hayley Watts:

You mentioned earlier the importance of reflecting and just spending

Hayley Watts:

a bit of time thinking actually, what's going to move the dial for me?

Hayley Watts:

What's gonna help me get to the next level?

Hayley Watts:

And then prioritizing that.

Hayley Watts:

'cause it's really hard in the day-to-day and all those different things that

Hayley Watts:

we're responsible for as business owners to focus on those top priorities.

Hayley Watts:

Uh, so yeah, carving out some time to be proactive rather than reactive.

Hayley Watts:

Sorry, you said one thing and I've given you several.

Jon Clayton:

Oh, that's all right.

Jon Clayton:

We're all for some, some bonus, uh, tips and, uh, value in there.

Jon Clayton:

That's awesome.

Jon Clayton:

Was there anything else that you wanted to say about habits and productivity

Jon Clayton:

that we haven't already covered?

Hayley Watts:

No, I don't think so.

Hayley Watts:

I just think if, if this is something that people are

Hayley Watts:

struggling with, like that's normal.

Hayley Watts:

Lots of people struggle with this.

Hayley Watts:

It's not something we're taught how to do at school.

Hayley Watts:

Uh, it's something we find out and, and learn the hard way.

Hayley Watts:

Um, so, you know, my goal is to help make it easier for people.

Hayley Watts:

But if you are struggling, if you are feeling overwhelmed,

Hayley Watts:

there are things that you can do.

Hayley Watts:

It doesn't have to be this way.

Hayley Watts:

People often discover that through getting stressed and feeling burnt out.

Hayley Watts:

Um, we don't want you to get to that point.

Jon Clayton:

Oh, thank you, Hailey.

Jon Clayton:

I have a question that I wanna ask you.

Jon Clayton:

It's, it's nothing related to our topic, but I like to ask

Jon Clayton:

all of the guests on the show.

Jon Clayton:

I love to travel and to discover new places.

Jon Clayton:

I was just wondering if you could share one of your favorite places

Jon Clayton:

and what you love about it.

Jon Clayton:

And it can be somewhere near or far.

Hayley Watts:

Oh, wonderful question.

Hayley Watts:

There are several places that come up, um, but.

Hayley Watts:

Barcelona is one of my favorite places.

Hayley Watts:

I really like Ga Park, uh, which is the anti Anthony Gowdy kind of park.

Hayley Watts:

I like the fact that it's an open space and really kind of

Hayley Watts:

brings art and nature together.

Hayley Watts:

Um, I've been there a couple of times and I always find it really

Hayley Watts:

peaceful and, you know, all those mosaics sort of bright and colorful.

Hayley Watts:

So yeah, I really enjoy that.

Hayley Watts:

And the weather's usually nice too.

Jon Clayton:

Yeah, Barcelona, fantastic place.

Jon Clayton:

Um, I went there.

Jon Clayton:

Probably, oh, it must be over 20 years ago now.

Jon Clayton:

Um, it, my backpacking days, many years ago and I, I do recall seeing some

Jon Clayton:

culture, uh, while I was there, you know, doing some cultural things, visiting some

Jon Clayton:

interesting buildings, but also there was a lot of alcohol involved at the time.

Jon Clayton:

Um, yeah, it was one of those sort of trips away.

Jon Clayton:

Um, but it was a lot of fun and I always thought, yeah, I'd

Jon Clayton:

love to go back there one day.

Hayley Watts:

Oh yeah, I've, I, I went for a university field

Hayley Watts:

trip, so that was a long time ago.

Hayley Watts:

Um, and then went with some friends a few years later.

Hayley Watts:

Um, there was a lot of sangria involved and just, just such beautiful places.

Hayley Watts:

I, yeah, I love it.

Jon Clayton:

Awesome.

Jon Clayton:

Haddy, thank you so much for being a guest on the show.

Jon Clayton:

Um, really appreciate you coming and sharing your expertise.

Jon Clayton:

Could you just remind everybody where they can find you online?

Hayley Watts:

Yeah, so my website is inspire.co uk and I'm on LinkedIn.

Hayley Watts:

I'm pretty easy to find.

Hayley Watts:

I'll be wearing purple in my profile picture.

Hayley Watts:

Uh, so yeah, it'd be great to connect on LinkedIn.

Hayley Watts:

Love to hear any questions, uh, that people have and yeah, connect

Hayley Watts:

with people and, and hear a bit more about what they're working on.

Jon Clayton:

Awesome.

Jon Clayton:

I'll make sure that those links go in the show notes.

Jon Clayton:

Thanks again, Haley.

Hayley Watts:

Thank you.

Jon Clayton:

Next time I explore how you can stay positive about your

Jon Clayton:

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Jon Clayton:

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