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Jon Clayton:and for others it feels impossible.
Jon Clayton:I'm joined by productivity coach Haley Watts to explore the psychology of habits
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Jon Clayton:Haley Watts is a productivity and habits coach and trainer.
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Jon Clayton:Hay, welcome to Architecture Business
Hayley Watts:Hi there.
Hayley Watts:Welcome.
Hayley Watts:Thank you for having me.
Jon Clayton:You're very welcome.
Jon Clayton:It is great to have you here.
Jon Clayton:Haley, what, what do you get up to in your free time?
Jon Clayton:Do you have any hobbies or interests outside of the productivity
Jon Clayton:work that you've been doing?
Hayley Watts:I do.
Hayley Watts:I love to get deeply engrossed in a good novel.
Hayley Watts:Um, and my son has set me a challenge this year to see if I
Hayley Watts:can read a hundred books in a year.
Hayley Watts:Um, so that's quite an undertaking, but it gives me a good excuse,
Hayley Watts:right, to sit and read.
Jon Clayton:Absolutely.
Hayley Watts:and, and to balance that kind of sitting around and reading.
Hayley Watts:I'm also learning to ice skate, um, which yeah, it's quite nerve wracking
Hayley Watts:in your forties to learn to ice skate.
Hayley Watts:I'm very worried about injuring myself, but I'm making
Hayley Watts:progress and I'm enjoying it.
Hayley Watts:So that's the main thing, right?
Jon Clayton:Oh yeah, absolutely.
Jon Clayton:Yeah.
Jon Clayton:Do you have any, um, favorite genres of novels?
Hayley Watts:Oh, I've recently been getting into a bit of historical
Hayley Watts:fiction, um, so I'm quite enjoying some of that 'cause I never really paid
Hayley Watts:attention to history in school and learn.
Hayley Watts:Learning about it as a story kind of brings it to life a bit more,
Hayley Watts:so I'm really enjoying that.
Hayley Watts:Um, but I've also relatively recently been introduced to fantasy
Hayley Watts:through my book club, so yeah.
Hayley Watts:That's cool as well.
Hayley Watts:Just reading something a bit different to what I might otherwise have picked up.
Jon Clayton:I love that when you discover something new like that and then it
Jon Clayton:sort of opens up this whole different world that you didn't know about.
Jon Clayton:Uh, my, I find that with music, my big, I love to read, but
Jon Clayton:music's one of my big interests.
Jon Clayton:But my daughter, she's an avid reader.
Jon Clayton:She gets through a ridiculous number of books.
Jon Clayton:It's unbelievable.
Jon Clayton:you're here to talk about creating good habits which can help lead
Jon Clayton:to more success in business.
Jon Clayton:So I'm really excited to, to have this conversation.
Jon Clayton:Forming new habits can be hard for many people, though.
Jon Clayton:I wondered why you think that some people may be a better at, uh, forming
Jon Clayton:and sticking with habits than others.
Hayley Watts:They definitely are.
Hayley Watts:Um, and I'm one of the people that's probably not very good at it, which got
Hayley Watts:me interested in this, um, area of habits.
Hayley Watts:Um, Gretchen Rubin's book, the Four Tendencies, she introduces this
Hayley Watts:idea that there are four different personality types in relation to habits.
Hayley Watts:Um, and she talks about the rebels.
Hayley Watts:The people who don't like creating new habits don't like being told what to do.
Hayley Watts:Um.
Hayley Watts:She talks about the questioners, the people who don't want to do something
Hayley Watts:or take action unless they're really brought into the idea and connect,
Hayley Watts:get all their questions answered.
Hayley Watts:And I've, I know friends who are really good at exercising,
Hayley Watts:really good at eating healthily.
Hayley Watts:And it's often because they've done the research, they've understood,
Hayley Watts:they've had a lot of questions about, well, why should I eat, I
Hayley Watts:dunno, green vegetables every day.
Hayley Watts:And they've gone away and researched it and learned about it.
Hayley Watts:And what they've learned has motivated them.
Hayley Watts:So they're the questioners.
Hayley Watts:Then there's me.
Hayley Watts:I'm an obliger.
Hayley Watts:For me, if I've got some external accountability, like if I said to you,
Hayley Watts:John, I'm gonna go and I don't know, swim every day for the next week.
Hayley Watts:If I knew that you might ask me about it, or even that you were thinking
Hayley Watts:I was doing that, that's more likely to motivate me than me just going,
Hayley Watts:I know that's good for my health.
Hayley Watts:uh, so I'm, I'm an obliger.
Hayley Watts:If, if it's for somebody else, I'm more likely to do it.
Hayley Watts:So I know that, so I can make that accountability external.
Hayley Watts:And then the other category of people who are the, um, upholders and they're
Hayley Watts:really good at following the rules and instructions, and they're good at
Hayley Watts:saying no when they can't do something.
Hayley Watts:But if they do commit to doing something, it's gonna happen.
Hayley Watts:And, and they're the ones who are wondering, like, why, why
Hayley Watts:do other people not do it?
Hayley Watts:It's a bit of a mystery.
Hayley Watts:Um, um, those things are fluid, right?
Hayley Watts:There might be times where you move from one to the other, but an upholder is not
Hayley Watts:likely to start behaving like a rebel.
Hayley Watts:Um.
Hayley Watts:Me as an obliger, there might be times where I'm a bit more like a
Hayley Watts:questioner or like a, um, a rebel.
Hayley Watts:So we kind of move around depending on the different factors and different things.
Hayley Watts:But I, I love Gretchen's book.
Hayley Watts:It's fascinating.
Hayley Watts:It really got me thinking about, yeah, why some people are good at this and
Hayley Watts:why some people like me really struggle.
Jon Clayton:Oh, I love that.
Jon Clayton:I'm gonna have to Google that book and check that out.
Jon Clayton:I definitely would like to read a bit more about that.
Jon Clayton:I think I'm probably quite like you Haley, with my habits.
Jon Clayton:Yeah, I think if I have some external accountability that's
Jon Clayton:definitely helped me before.
Jon Clayton:Something as well, actually setting a, a date that has worked
Jon Clayton:when I've actually picked a date and set a date for something.
Jon Clayton:And I I do rely quite a lot on, um, like a diary and a
Jon Clayton:calendar to help me plan things.
Jon Clayton:Which leads me on, actually to a question I wanted to ask you about the different
Jon Clayton:ways that you've noticed, um, people using their diaries in relation to this.
Hayley Watts:and I think it's really common, I think for people
Hayley Watts:to put into their calendar, oh, I'm gonna do that thing on this date.
Hayley Watts:I'll do it then.
Hayley Watts:And that works, I think, as a technique when you use it sparingly.
Hayley Watts:But I think when you use it for everything, 'cause there's
Hayley Watts:nowhere else to put the stuff.
Hayley Watts:Your calendar becomes really overcrowded and, and what you have
Hayley Watts:a tendency to do is say, well, this thing isn't a priority today or even
Hayley Watts:this week, so I'll put it into my calendar in three or four weeks time.
Hayley Watts:And then that three or four weeks time rolls around and you just dismiss
Hayley Watts:everything that comes up in the calendar, because that's not priority today either.
Hayley Watts:I do a lot of work with people around managing high workloads.
Hayley Watts:And I think when people are putting things in their calendar for everything,
Hayley Watts:it tends to feel overwhelming and people stop engaging with it.
Hayley Watts:Now there will be exceptions, of course, there's always exceptions.
Hayley Watts:What I find tends to work better for people is if you know that you are
Hayley Watts:a morning person or you know you do your best work in the middle of the
Hayley Watts:afternoon, like whenever your, your zone is to be able to concentrate
Hayley Watts:and focus, if you can block out some concentrating and focusing time.
Hayley Watts:And then decide near the time what the priority is.
Hayley Watts:I find that tends to work better for people rather than just
Hayley Watts:putting everything in the calendar.
Jon Clayton:Oh, I like that.
Jon Clayton:Yeah.
Jon Clayton:I've done that classic thing of putting items on my calendar and
Jon Clayton:then they've just got moved, like,
Jon Clayton:and then the next week the task is still there.
Jon Clayton:'cause it's that thing of, oh, well that doesn't feel like the priority today,
Jon Clayton:so I'll just keep sliding it back.
Jon Clayton:And there has been some occasions when there's been some tasks that for weeks
Jon Clayton:and weeks and weeks have just got.
Jon Clayton:Pushed along into the following week.
Jon Clayton:So that's something that I would definitely like to
Jon Clayton:work on, uh, improving for
Hayley Watts:Yeah, and there's loads of tools and technology
Hayley Watts:that's out there that that helps us to organize our workload better.
Hayley Watts:Um, like equally pen and paper and spreadsheets, they work fine too.
Hayley Watts:It's just a case of finding something that you enjoy using,
Hayley Watts:uh, and, and sticking with it.
Hayley Watts:And I think everybody uses a calendar.
Hayley Watts:Everybody knows how they work, so that feels like an easy thing to use.
Hayley Watts:And if you've got a workload that is quite repetitive and
Hayley Watts:predictable, um, maybe that works.
Hayley Watts:You know, if your role is to send out invoices and respond to emails
Hayley Watts:and you aren't working on anything more strategic or anything that has.
Hayley Watts:Um, unexpected, you know, queries from clients that might
Hayley Watts:take up quite a lot of time.
Hayley Watts:Then it might work in those kind of more administrative type jobs.
Hayley Watts:Um, but I think for people who are running their own businesses,
Hayley Watts:there's probably a bit more going on.
Hayley Watts:And, like you say, you're gonna kind of end up bumping it and, and
Hayley Watts:looking to do Yeah, just pushing it, which feels a bit demotivating.
Jon Clayton:Hmm, absolutely.
Jon Clayton:Small business owners are wearing so many hats usually.
Jon Clayton:Interesting you mentioned there about, um.
Jon Clayton:Analog as well, sort of notepad and diaries, that sort of thing.
Jon Clayton:That's something that I started doing last year actually, was using a, a
Jon Clayton:bullet journal in addition to like an online calendar, that sort of thing.
Jon Clayton:So mine approach is a little bit of a combination now, sort of
Jon Clayton:part analog, part digital, um, but it's still a work in progress.
Hayley Watts:Yeah, I think, I think that's the best approach.
Hayley Watts:It's about doing something that works for you.
Hayley Watts:Yeah.
Hayley Watts:There's all these fancy apps out there and you know, someone messaged
Hayley Watts:me a few days ago say, oh, I found a great AI tool to do this.
Hayley Watts:But the problem with that is they said, well, I've been using it.
Hayley Watts:I was like, yeah, but do you feel any better or do you still
Hayley Watts:feel stressed and overwhelmed?
Hayley Watts:They're like, oh yeah, it still feels really stressful.
Hayley Watts:'cause they don't really know what's in there because they're, uh, you
Hayley Watts:know, the AI has done it for them.
Hayley Watts:Um, so yeah, using a bit of both is good.
Hayley Watts:I, I tend to use an electronic tool for my, kind of all the things
Hayley Watts:I need to do and think about.
Hayley Watts:But then I, each morning I will pull out from that tool,
Hayley Watts:what am I gonna work on today?
Hayley Watts:And that goes on a post-it note.
Hayley Watts:So I don't look at all the other stuff that needs doing.
Hayley Watts:I just look at the top three things and I give myself three things.
Hayley Watts:'cause I wanna leave a bit of capacity in the day to deal with the unexpected or,
Hayley Watts:um, the, the proactive things that I want to do each week, that are each day that
Hayley Watts:are different to the more movable tasks.
Hayley Watts:So, yeah, that helps me to just have my top three for the
Hayley Watts:day on a, on a post-it note.
Jon Clayton:Oh, I love that.
Jon Clayton:That's very analog, the old school post-it note.
Jon Clayton:But I, I love that for the, being able to just focus on that.
Jon Clayton:Um, that leads nicely onto my next question actually, Haley, which is, how
Jon Clayton:do you recommend we create a new habit?
Jon Clayton:I.
Hayley Watts:yeah.
Hayley Watts:Great question.
Hayley Watts:So I've done a lot of reading around habits and I've worked
Hayley Watts:with a lot of people around how to formulate ones that work for them.
Hayley Watts:So I think, yeah, the first thing is deciding what is
Hayley Watts:the new habit going to be.
Hayley Watts:The second thing is how do we make it really small?
Hayley Watts:So in BJ Fog's book, tiny Habits, he talks about the importance
Hayley Watts:of making a habit really small.
Hayley Watts:So we started off our conversation with me getting all excited about,
Hayley Watts:oh, I love reading and novels, but are not so good at reading the nonfiction
Hayley Watts:books, the self-development, the business books, that kind of stuff.
Hayley Watts:I find there's a bit tougher going 'cause your attention span
Hayley Watts:needs to be a bit better, right?
Hayley Watts:So my tiny habit was, well, I'm gonna read at least a page a day.
Hayley Watts:I don't think there've been any days where I've only read a page, but if
Hayley Watts:I pick up the book with the intention of I'm just gonna read a page, I'll
Hayley Watts:get into it by that, by that time.
Hayley Watts:And if I only read a page, that's fine.
Hayley Watts:I've met my goal.
Hayley Watts:So it's making it small and then pairing it with something that you do already.
Hayley Watts:So it's called habit stacking, where you pair pair it up.
Hayley Watts:So.
Hayley Watts:When I turn on my bedroom light in the morning, that's when I
Hayley Watts:pick my book up to read at least a page of my nonfiction book.
Hayley Watts:So, because I'm pairing it with something that I do already,
Hayley Watts:it makes it easier to do.
Hayley Watts:And then when I've done that, I give myself a little, you know,
Hayley Watts:congratulations, a little moment of recognition that I've done this
Hayley Watts:thing and instilled this new habit.
Hayley Watts:And that can help us to want to keep going with the habit.
Hayley Watts:So, yeah, making it small and pairing it up with something that you do
Hayley Watts:already and just recognizing that you've achieved something and you've done it.
Jon Clayton:I like that it's, um, celebrating that little win.
Jon Clayton:And, um, often I think we try and do something new.
Jon Clayton:We, we try and do too much.
Jon Clayton:Um, so I love the idea of, of just making it something really small
Jon Clayton:then, and celebrating that afterwards.
Jon Clayton:It's a great, great
Hayley Watts:Yeah, and sometimes we can try and do too many new things at once.
Hayley Watts:So like if you're moving house or create starting a new job, then maybe
Hayley Watts:that isn't a, a good opportunity to change a few things at at once.
Hayley Watts:But if it's just day to day, then may be kind of doing those in slow
Hayley Watts:increments and just visualizing.
Hayley Watts:Okay, well I'm gonna read, when I turn the light on in the morning, I'm just picture
Hayley Watts:yourself in your head, like turning on the light, picking up the book, turning on
Hayley Watts:the light, picking up the book so you're kind of rehearsing it in your head so
Hayley Watts:you remember to do it at the right time.
Jon Clayton:Mm. And that way then we're less likely to, to get
Jon Clayton:overwhelmed with all of the things that we've we've got going on.
Jon Clayton:What do you think causes people to feel overwhelmed by their to-do lists?
Jon Clayton:I.
Hayley Watts:Very often when I start working PE with people on organizing
Hayley Watts:their workload, people say, well, I have got a to-do list, and then they'll pull
Hayley Watts:out a scrappy piece of paper from the bottom of their back and a notebook.
Hayley Watts:There's an app that they started using and they've put a flag on some emails as well.
Hayley Watts:And there are so many different lists in so many different places that feels
Hayley Watts:overwhelming before you even get started.
Hayley Watts:So the first thing would be having everything in one place, whether that's
Hayley Watts:an electronic tool or bullet journal or you know, whatever it might be.
Hayley Watts:It's choosing a tool
Hayley Watts:and, and.
Hayley Watts:Really committing to spend, just spend a little, you know, you do need to spend
Hayley Watts:a little bit of time setting something up, but it's well worth it in the end.
Hayley Watts:And that's something that I help people with is setting up a tool.
Hayley Watts:Um, I do that with teams of people, whether they do it together as a
Hayley Watts:group, um, or with individuals if they're running their own business or
Hayley Watts:if they're senior executives in firms.
Hayley Watts:So.
Hayley Watts:Yeah, I think that sense of feeling overwhelmed by the to-do list
Hayley Watts:comes from not having one place to go to, to decide what to do next.
Hayley Watts:So I think that that helps, and then being able to break it down
Hayley Watts:and section it in different ways.
Hayley Watts:So, you know, if you, if you've got a list of like, that's just
Hayley Watts:massive, it goes on forever.
Hayley Watts:It doesn't feel good.
Hayley Watts:So being really clear on what your priorities are for the week is helpful.
Hayley Watts:I also have, um, within my, my list, I kind of categorize some
Hayley Watts:of those tasks depending on where I'm going to be when I do them.
Hayley Watts:I deliver quite a lot of management and productivity training.
Hayley Watts:So I spend a bit of time on trains.
Hayley Watts:I have a list of things that I can do.
Hayley Watts:It doesn't matter where I am.
Hayley Watts:Usually kind of fairly quick and easy type things.
Hayley Watts:So if I'm on the train or if I arrive somewhere early for a meeting, I can say,
Hayley Watts:you know, I can pull up those quick tasks that does, you know, I can do anywhere.
Hayley Watts:So I might categorize things based on where I am or, or even what mood I'm in.
Hayley Watts:You know, maybe I'm in the mood to just do something, you know, I could do something
Hayley Watts:creative or decision making or thinking.
Hayley Watts:There might be other times of the day where my brain is more suited
Hayley Watts:to, uh, doing some really easy admin tasks that don't require all of my
Hayley Watts:brain cells to be working so well.
Jon Clayton:So
Jon Clayton:Part of that is, having self-awareness of your own energy levels and you
Jon Clayton:know, so those internal factors.
Jon Clayton:And then externally thinking about your movements, where you're going
Jon Clayton:to be, whether you're at your desk, whether you've got time on
Jon Clayton:the train or whether for a meeting to begin or that sort of thing.
Jon Clayton:Yeah, that's a really interesting way to think about categorizing and breaking
Jon Clayton:down that big, overwhelming to-do
Hayley Watts:And you know, if somebody writes something on their website, oh,
Hayley Watts:sorry, writes something on their to-do list and they put website like that,
Hayley Watts:that might be quite a big job to update some, you know, a business website.
Hayley Watts:But if, if somebody writes on their to-do list, read the text on the
Hayley Watts:homepage and decide what I want to change, that feels a bit easier.
Hayley Watts:Bit easier.
Hayley Watts:So breaking it down into what's next rather than the overall massive
Hayley Watts:big task that needs to be done.
Hayley Watts:Like what are you gonna do to just kind of be nudging that thing forward?
Jon Clayton:Mm. I think there's sometimes there's some confusion between tasks
Jon Clayton:and projects that actually something like, oh, that task to redo the website.
Jon Clayton:That's actually a really big project.
Jon Clayton:Potentially even a simple website.
Jon Clayton:There is a huge list of individual tasks, tasks to work through to complete that.
Jon Clayton:But we would, we just, oh.
Jon Clayton:Complete website one task.
Hayley Watts:and, and I, I guess with a lot of these tasks, it's like, you know,
Hayley Watts:writing complete website or do marketing or social media, they're never done.
Hayley Watts:There's always more that you can do.
Hayley Watts:So what is it that you want to achieve from doing those things?
Jon Clayton:Hmm
Hayley Watts:so reminding ourselves of the goal can be helpful as well.
Jon Clayton:I love that.
Jon Clayton:So how do we decide?
Jon Clayton:What thing?
Jon Clayton:So what task or activity?
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Hayley Watts:So I think it's about thinking about our energy levels.
Hayley Watts:So if I've not slept very well and I'm feeling a bit groggy, a bit under the
Hayley Watts:weather, then I might just go to my list and pull off some easy things to do.
Hayley Watts:But if I'm, you know, I'm on it and I'm feeling good, I can look at my list and
Hayley Watts:say, right, these are my top priorities, these are the, the what's next actions
Hayley Watts:that are gonna move that forward.
Hayley Watts:I'm gonna do that.
Hayley Watts:I try and get the things done that are top priority first.
Hayley Watts:'cause then I feel like, you know, I'm achieving something.
Hayley Watts:Does that help?
Hayley Watts:Is that what you do?
Jon Clayton:Yeah.
Jon Clayton:That, no, that, that definitely does help.
Jon Clayton:Yeah.
Jon Clayton:I think the way that I approach it is I have sort of changed my approach and
Jon Clayton:experimented quite a bit with this.
Jon Clayton:But the way that I've been doing it more recently.
Jon Clayton:I did some self-reflection on my energy levels throughout the
Jon Clayton:day, and then I try to match.
Jon Clayton:obviously there's some things that have set deadlines, but then there's a lot
Jon Clayton:of other tasks that are just ongoing things, and some of those I find easier
Jon Clayton:to do, uh, and, and others harder.
Jon Clayton:So have some times throughout the day where I'll say, well, any, not
Jon Clayton:necessarily more difficult, but anything that demands more of my energy, more
Jon Clayton:of my attention, that I need to be kind of on it to do that kind of deep
Jon Clayton:thinking, creative work, strategic work.
Jon Clayton:I'll try and do that in the same part of the day when I know that
Jon Clayton:my energy levels are higher.
Jon Clayton:And then anything else that I can do more easily, like.
Jon Clayton:Admin, bookkeeping checking, re replying to emails, that sort of thing.
Jon Clayton:That can be kind of at the time of day when my energy levels are lower
Jon Clayton:and I'm kind of feeling tireder.
Jon Clayton:What I have found as well is that whilst meetings, like video calls, meetings and,
Jon Clayton:and even podcast interviews in the main, I, I enjoy particular podcast interviews.
Jon Clayton:I really enjoy doing them.
Jon Clayton:I do.
Jon Clayton:Often find any kind of thing that involves a video call.
Jon Clayton:I do find it tiring.
Jon Clayton:But equally it's also kind of energizing in some way.
Jon Clayton:So it, it is strange that like initially I would try and schedule
Jon Clayton:those for that part of the day where I would do the kind of the deep
Jon Clayton:work, if you want to call it that.
Jon Clayton:But what I realized is that actually.
Jon Clayton:I can actually do it at the other time of day and actually there's something
Jon Clayton:about it, maybe it's, um, a little bit of adrenaline before we hit record, that
Jon Clayton:it kind of gives me an energy boost and I am able to do those calls and meetings
Jon Clayton:and recordings at a time of day when I would normally be feeling less energetic.
Jon Clayton:So I've realized that that was a little hack for me to be able to
Jon Clayton:squeeze more productivity out of my
Hayley Watts:Yeah.
Hayley Watts:I think of them as energizer tasks, like what's gonna energize me.
Hayley Watts:Um, for me, probably around 3, 3 30 in the afternoon, my energy levels dip.
Hayley Watts:So that's a good time to pull out an Energizer task or even to just take a
Hayley Watts:break, get outside, move around, even if it's just for a couple of minutes.
Hayley Watts:Uh, that makes a big difference.
Hayley Watts:People often say to me, like, how do I get my energy levels
Hayley Watts:to be really good all day?
Hayley Watts:It's like, well, you're not a robot, so then they're not gonna be like that.
Hayley Watts:Um, you'll have peaks and troughs and it's about.
Hayley Watts:You know, what you just described is a perfect description of how
Hayley Watts:to embrace those kind of peaks and troughs in our day by just kind of
Hayley Watts:matching the tasks of where we're at.
Jon Clayton:Yeah, Yeah, it's definitely, definitely been
Jon Clayton:working for me, uh, a lot better.
Jon Clayton:I think as well, just managing expectations of what is
Jon Clayton:reasonable to achieve in a day.
Jon Clayton:I think that you mentioned there like not being a robot.
Jon Clayton:That none of us are ever gonna work at a hundred percent productivity
Jon Clayton:and actually for the average small business owner that your, your
Jon Clayton:productivity levels will typically be lower than a regular employee because
Jon Clayton:you're juggling so many other things.
Jon Clayton:That's my experience of it anyway.
Jon Clayton:But I, I wrestled with that for a long time.
Jon Clayton:Thinking that I would be able to get far more what I would call
Jon Clayton:productive work done in a day.
Jon Clayton:And it's only in recent years after a lot of self-reflection and, and learning a bit
Jon Clayton:more about productivity that I've realized actually I was not being realistic at all.
Jon Clayton:Yeah.
Jon Clayton:So it's, um,
Hayley Watts:And often business owners will say, oh, but the
Hayley Watts:thing is I love my job and my business, I find it all energizing.
Hayley Watts:And it's like, well, that's great, but you can only sustain that
Hayley Watts:level of throwing more hours at it for a certain period of time.
Hayley Watts:Because there will come a point where you then you do get
Hayley Watts:burnt out, you do get tired.
Hayley Watts:And when, when that starts to happen, you start to make less
Hayley Watts:good decisions that aren't in the best interest of your business.
Hayley Watts:So I love that you started off asking today about like
Hayley Watts:interests outside of work.
Hayley Watts:Like we need to make sure as people running our own businesses, that we
Hayley Watts:have those, um, and that we are doing something that's, that's not work,
Hayley Watts:because that helps us to recharge rather than just go on standby.
Jon Clayton:Yeah.
Jon Clayton:So we've talked, um, a little bit about planning for the week and
Jon Clayton:our, our sort of approaches to that.
Jon Clayton:I. Maybe we could dig into that a little bit more because, I mean, planning can
Jon Clayton:be a little bit boring for some people.
Jon Clayton:They maybe struggle with that.
Jon Clayton:So how, how can we make ourselves do it, do that planning that's
Jon Clayton:necessary for us to get the things done that we want to get done.
Hayley Watts:Yeah, for me, minimum bit of planning for the week is to look ahead
Hayley Watts:at what I've got coming up in the next three weeks and identify is there anything
Hayley Watts:I need to do to, to plan for that.
Hayley Watts:Um, I have a virtual assistant who helps me in my business, so like,
Hayley Watts:what do I need to delegate to her?
Hayley Watts:Um, but also look back a, a week, you know, what did I do last week?
Hayley Watts:What conversations or meetings did I have?
Hayley Watts:Have I captured the actions from those or, or have I done them?
Hayley Watts:Uh, so I, I think this is something a lot of people find very difficult.
Hayley Watts:'cause it means when you're doing the planning, you're
Hayley Watts:not actually doing the work.
Hayley Watts:And that feels counterintuitive.
Hayley Watts:So on a Monday morning, I run, um, a group called Organize and Thrive.
Hayley Watts:And the idea of that is, it's a very brief kind of mini planning
Hayley Watts:session, but everybody will do sort of the minimum to get them
Hayley Watts:organized and focused for the week.
Hayley Watts:And I experimented with it in September last year, uh, where I just said
Hayley Watts:to people in my network, come for free, let's test it for a month.
Hayley Watts:And I had some amazing feedback.
Hayley Watts:Like people literally said, this changed my life.
Hayley Watts:This was the difference between it feeling.
Hayley Watts:It's overwhelming and too much to me, feeling in control.
Hayley Watts:So we start at 10, past nine, we're finished by five to 10.
Hayley Watts:Um, and I just take people through some of the questions the same each week.
Hayley Watts:'cause you know, that's three weeks ahead, one week back.
Hayley Watts:Um, that's really important.
Hayley Watts:Get people to think about their priorities, what they're gonna
Hayley Watts:do, what they're not gonna do.
Hayley Watts:And then there are some different questions that I throw in each week.
Hayley Watts:They might be about wellbeing.
Hayley Watts:Um, they might be about our priorities and how do we reframe
Hayley Watts:perhaps some of the things that people have been struggling with.
Hayley Watts:Uh, so particularly for us, obliges, you know, I mentioned the obliger thing
Hayley Watts:earlier, knowing that they're coming onto a call and they're gonna have somebody
Hayley Watts:talk them through what they need to do.
Hayley Watts:That's a commitment that they're making and that gives them that accountability.
Hayley Watts:And I think it's a bit more fun 'cause people get to know each other
Hayley Watts:a little bit in that group as well.
Hayley Watts:So, um, I think that helps.
Hayley Watts:I think the other thing that can help is just having a reward.
Hayley Watts:Um, sometimes I do my weekly planning.
Hayley Watts:I have a list I call the sorting my Life out checklist, which I can
Hayley Watts:send you a link to that if it's helpful for people who are listening.
Hayley Watts:Um, sometimes I might go to a coffee shop and work my way through that and
Hayley Watts:just do it in a different environment.
Hayley Watts:Somewhere where I'm not gonna be distracted is important just to
Hayley Watts:have that uninterrupted time and I always feel lighter afterwards.
Hayley Watts:It's that remembering it will feel better when I've done it, even if
Hayley Watts:starting it doesn't feel great.
Jon Clayton:Yeah.
Jon Clayton:I love that.
Jon Clayton:I'm, I'm a big fan of.
Jon Clayton:Going to a different environment, particularly like a local coffee shop.
Jon Clayton:I find that there'll be some days when I'll be trying to work on
Jon Clayton:something and it will feel like I'm trying to wade through treacle.
Jon Clayton:I'm really struggling with it, but that quick change of environment, the task
Jon Clayton:that I may have been struggling on, I get done in a fraction of the time in
Jon Clayton:a different environment, or to have the opportunity to do the planning.
Jon Clayton:To then be able to then come back to my desk and then get the work done,
Jon Clayton:knowing with confidence that I'm working on the right things because
Jon Clayton:I've taken some time out of my day to do the planning work somewhere else.
Jon Clayton:I. And your Monday morning group, that sounds absolutely fantastic.
Jon Clayton:Organize and thrive.
Jon Clayton:So, um, there'll be a link in the show notes to to your website so that, uh,
Jon Clayton:listeners, you'll be able to go and find that if you're listening now.
Jon Clayton:I think that sounds good.
Jon Clayton:Just go and check out the link and, uh, go and give it a try.
Jon Clayton:Haley, this has been awesome.
Jon Clayton:Really enjoyed this.
Jon Clayton:What would be the main thing that you'd like everyone to take
Jon Clayton:away from this conversation?
Hayley Watts:Oh, lovely question.
Hayley Watts:I think if you know that external accountability is something that
Hayley Watts:helps you with developing new habits, then think about where you
Hayley Watts:may, you may be able to get some of that external accountability from.
Hayley Watts:I mean, there's lots of groups and communities that business
Hayley Watts:owners might join, but it might just be buddying up with.
Hayley Watts:Uh, a friend to say, me, this is my accountability thing.
Hayley Watts:What are you gonna do next week?
Hayley Watts:Um, and I think that habit stacking, I'm really giving a bit
Hayley Watts:of thought to what, what are the new habits that you want to create?
Hayley Watts:You mentioned earlier the importance of reflecting and just spending
Hayley Watts:a bit of time thinking actually, what's going to move the dial for me?
Hayley Watts:What's gonna help me get to the next level?
Hayley Watts:And then prioritizing that.
Hayley Watts:'cause it's really hard in the day-to-day and all those different things that
Hayley Watts:we're responsible for as business owners to focus on those top priorities.
Hayley Watts:Uh, so yeah, carving out some time to be proactive rather than reactive.
Hayley Watts:Sorry, you said one thing and I've given you several.
Jon Clayton:Oh, that's all right.
Jon Clayton:We're all for some, some bonus, uh, tips and, uh, value in there.
Jon Clayton:That's awesome.
Jon Clayton:Was there anything else that you wanted to say about habits and productivity
Jon Clayton:that we haven't already covered?
Hayley Watts:No, I don't think so.
Hayley Watts:I just think if, if this is something that people are
Hayley Watts:struggling with, like that's normal.
Hayley Watts:Lots of people struggle with this.
Hayley Watts:It's not something we're taught how to do at school.
Hayley Watts:Uh, it's something we find out and, and learn the hard way.
Hayley Watts:Um, so, you know, my goal is to help make it easier for people.
Hayley Watts:But if you are struggling, if you are feeling overwhelmed,
Hayley Watts:there are things that you can do.
Hayley Watts:It doesn't have to be this way.
Hayley Watts:People often discover that through getting stressed and feeling burnt out.
Hayley Watts:Um, we don't want you to get to that point.
Jon Clayton:Oh, thank you, Hailey.
Jon Clayton:I have a question that I wanna ask you.
Jon Clayton:It's, it's nothing related to our topic, but I like to ask
Jon Clayton:all of the guests on the show.
Jon Clayton:I love to travel and to discover new places.
Jon Clayton:I was just wondering if you could share one of your favorite places
Jon Clayton:and what you love about it.
Jon Clayton:And it can be somewhere near or far.
Hayley Watts:Oh, wonderful question.
Hayley Watts:There are several places that come up, um, but.
Hayley Watts:Barcelona is one of my favorite places.
Hayley Watts:I really like Ga Park, uh, which is the anti Anthony Gowdy kind of park.
Hayley Watts:I like the fact that it's an open space and really kind of
Hayley Watts:brings art and nature together.
Hayley Watts:Um, I've been there a couple of times and I always find it really
Hayley Watts:peaceful and, you know, all those mosaics sort of bright and colorful.
Hayley Watts:So yeah, I really enjoy that.
Hayley Watts:And the weather's usually nice too.
Jon Clayton:Yeah, Barcelona, fantastic place.
Jon Clayton:Um, I went there.
Jon Clayton:Probably, oh, it must be over 20 years ago now.
Jon Clayton:Um, it, my backpacking days, many years ago and I, I do recall seeing some
Jon Clayton:culture, uh, while I was there, you know, doing some cultural things, visiting some
Jon Clayton:interesting buildings, but also there was a lot of alcohol involved at the time.
Jon Clayton:Um, yeah, it was one of those sort of trips away.
Jon Clayton:Um, but it was a lot of fun and I always thought, yeah, I'd
Jon Clayton:love to go back there one day.
Hayley Watts:Oh yeah, I've, I, I went for a university field
Hayley Watts:trip, so that was a long time ago.
Hayley Watts:Um, and then went with some friends a few years later.
Hayley Watts:Um, there was a lot of sangria involved and just, just such beautiful places.
Hayley Watts:I, yeah, I love it.
Jon Clayton:Awesome.
Jon Clayton:Haddy, thank you so much for being a guest on the show.
Jon Clayton:Um, really appreciate you coming and sharing your expertise.
Jon Clayton:Could you just remind everybody where they can find you online?
Hayley Watts:Yeah, so my website is inspire.co uk and I'm on LinkedIn.
Hayley Watts:I'm pretty easy to find.
Hayley Watts:I'll be wearing purple in my profile picture.
Hayley Watts:Uh, so yeah, it'd be great to connect on LinkedIn.
Hayley Watts:Love to hear any questions, uh, that people have and yeah, connect
Hayley Watts:with people and, and hear a bit more about what they're working on.
Jon Clayton:Awesome.
Jon Clayton:I'll make sure that those links go in the show notes.
Jon Clayton:Thanks again, Haley.
Hayley Watts:Thank you.
Jon Clayton:Next time I explore how you can stay positive about your
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