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You are listening to episode number 126 of wife teacher

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mommy, the podcast. Goodbye to wife

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teacher mommy. Yes. You heard me right. I'm going to be telling you

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all about it right now.

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Welcome to Wife, Teacher, Mommy, the podcast. I'm Kelsey Sorensen, a

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former elementary teacher and current homeschool mom. And even though I've been a

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resource creator since 2014, I've realized that printables alone

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aren't all you need in order to thrive as a teacher or homeschool parent. That's

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why I also created this show and got certified as a life

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coach to help you finally kick burnout to the curb and feel confident with whatever

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challenges come your way. With the right mindset strategies and new teaching

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inspiration, you're going to be well on your way to your best teacher

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life. Now let's go.

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Alright. Hello, and welcome to today's finale

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episode of Wife Teacher Mommy the podcast.

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This has been such an incredible journey doing this podcast with you

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since March of 2021, when I started this podcast.

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I have just loved this journey over the last over 2 years now. We've

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had thousands of unique listeners. We have had over

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70,000 downloads, and I have loved connecting

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with all of you. And being here on the podcast, like I've said so many

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times, it's one of my favorite parts about what I do. So you

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might be wondering, why is it goodbye? Why are you stopping the podcast?

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And, here's the thing, I'm not stopping the podcast, actually. I'm

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not. I love it so much, and I love being here with all of you.

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I love popping into your feed each week, and I love even more connecting with

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you when I get to hear your responses to everything in the Facebook group, or

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on our coaching calls. It is one of my favorite things. But, what

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is happening is the evolution. It's the end of one era and

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the start of another. So, let's talk about it a little bit. For

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this podcast, and it's not actually just the podcast either, but for this podcast, when

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I started it in 2021, I was not yet certified as a life coach.

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We were talking mainly about different teaching ideas, how to utilize

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resources, what to do, how to teach this, how to teach that, or

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whatever. Went through a lot of those. And slowly, you probably

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noticed over time this feed evolving from, like, teaching tips and

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strategies. And now I do share things like that every once in a while. Like,

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a couple weeks ago, I shared about, what to do instead of taking away

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recess. So there's still practical education tips as well, and I bring on

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lots of different experts. But what I've really honed in on these last few

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years is, for 1, as you know, if you've been listening, I've

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certified as a life coach. I've written a book called Educate and Rejuvenate that

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is all about how to revitalize your teaching, renew your spirit, and reignite your

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passion for life. And so really what my goal

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here is now is not just to help you with some resources. We

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still do that. That's not going away. I still wanna help you with

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resources. But what makes us unique is that we are also

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here to help you as a whole person. Because as an

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educator, so many of us, we have big hearts. We wanna help everybody else around

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us, and that's wonderful. That's why we went into teaching. We wanna help people. We

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wanna help our students. We wanna help our own children. We want to help

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our partners and all the incredible people in our lives.

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But a lot of times we do things for others at the

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expense of ourselves. We educate, but we don't rejuvenate. Right? We don't

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take care of ourselves. And it is so important that we do that,

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that we take care of ourselves, that we love ourselves, that we have self compassion

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that they talked about in the self love challenge. If you missed that, please go

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back and listen to it from back in February, by the way.

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Lots of the core concepts that I teach over there. But what I really want

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you to know is that this podcast has changed over time, and I have changed

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over these last 2 years. I've started that as a coach. I've really dove

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in into psychology, both of my certification. Dove in, that's not a word.

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But you know what I mean? I really went into psychology. I read every single

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self help book I could get my hands on about a book a week over

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the last year. And I wrote my own book, and really

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writing the book was almost I've told my team and other people, I almost learned

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even more from that than doing my own certification because did do a lot of

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research. I had to cite every source, and I really had to dig deep

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within myself to write this book so I could support you

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in the best way. Because what I am here to do is to help you

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have an inner transformation that starts from within. That

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you can understand yourself and what you need

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even better. So you can let your light shine

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to the world, to your students, to your children, wherever it is for

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you. However you teach, whatever kind of educator. I'm here to help elementary

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teachers, home school parents, principals, paraprofessionals,

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school counselors, professors, whatever you teach.

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No matter what, these same principles will apply to you. So

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that is really the reason we are ending this era of wife teacher mommy.

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And another one is because, when I

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named it wife teacher mommy Okay. Let's just rewind a little bit because

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again, this isn't only the end of wife teacher mommy the podcast.

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This is the end of wife teacher mommy as we know

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it. So when I created wife teacher mommy, it was 10 years

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ago. I thought I was just taking a short break from teaching

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while I had my baby, and I substitute taught. And I was hoping

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that between a substitute teaching and guitar

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lessons and starting a little TPT store. That between those

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three things, I could help cover our mortgage, which is laughable now

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because it was $775 for our mortgage. There's no way

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you could get that on that house now, but that was where we were at

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at the time. Man, 2012 until now, pretty crazy when we got that

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house. But beside the point, this is not a real estate podcast.

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But really, I just started the TPT on a whim. I

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started my TPT store. And that's how it all started with teachers pay teachers, with

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just me subbing and being like, I'm gonna make some sub plans that I can

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take with me when I sub in case there's not enough, and then I can

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also put them online so other teachers can benefit from them as well. And they

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didn't think much of it. Like I shared in a recent side hustle call in

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the club, like, I made $0 my 1st month, and then the next month I

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made, like, $40, and the next month I made, like, 30. And I took that

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whole everything I made and put it to do the TPT premium so I could

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upgrade that and really go all in with it. But the reason I called it

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wife, teacher, mommy is because I was like, oh, I'm a wife, then

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it was a teacher, and then it was a mommy. Again, I had a 7

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month old. I was so excited I'd just become a mom, so I called it

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wife, teacher, mommy. And and it was fine because

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it was about me. Right? A lot of people use just their own name for

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teachers, pay teachers. Or they use like the state they're from. Or they, you know,

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describe something about themselves like caffeine or they love coffee or whatever. And it's not

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like meaning that everybody who buys from them needs to be that. Right? But since

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we've expanded, we have our membership, like wife teacher mommy club. It's kind of

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like putting that name on everyone. And the podcast, wife teacher

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mommy the podcast. A lot of people are thinking they need to be a wife,

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they need to be a mommy in order to benefit from this podcast. What about

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all the guys out there? What about the single moms? If I have people,

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like, comment, oh, I'm a single mom so this isn't for me, and it is

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for you. It absolutely is. Or you have no children or you're not

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partnered with anyone. It doesn't matter. All that matters is

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that you are an educator of some type, and you want to up level

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your life. And so we wanted to have a new name that makes it

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more clear for everybody, more inclusive for everybody that no matter

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who you are, whether you like, again, those other factors don't necessarily

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matter. If you are educating, whether it's at your kitchen table, homeschooling your kids,

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whether it is in a traditional classroom, or online, or adults at

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college, whoever you are teaching. These

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principles will still apply to you to help you to live your

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best life. So the new name that we're going to have and really the full

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evolution of the company that is going to reflect this, and lots

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of big things coming like the book. We have an app coming. We

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have so many exciting things. It is all going to

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be coming under this new name that we are going to announce next week,

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and the podcast will be changing accordingly. So

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in 1 week you will get to find out. Now, if you're listening live it'll

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be a 1 week, if you're not you might be like, oh, I already know

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what it is. But I will be announcing it live

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on May 13th on a free master class that I am teaching, and there'll be

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lots of giveaways. It's gonna be a really fun time. So I would love

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you to come join me live. The link will be in the show notes to

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this episode, so you can sign up for that master class. I'll be teaching

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my full 3 step coaching framework that I've been

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teaching to our members, and they've been having a lot of success with it. And

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then I'm also going over in my book really in-depth. In my book, it'll be

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more in-depth than I've ever taught anywhere. But you don't have to wait for

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that book. You can come to the master class next week. And if you miss

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it, we will be putting the master class on the podcast, once I've done it

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as well. And if you're still listening, I just want to thank you for being

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here along this journey with me. And again, this isn't an end. This

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is the start of something new. Okay. And now I wanna sing that High School

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Musical song. Hello fellow millennials. But I am just

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so grateful for all of you who've been along the way. Everyone I met, some

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of you have been here since the very beginning, since episode 1, and you were

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so excited to listen. Others of you joined us somewhere along the way or

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maybe you even hit play on this episode for the first time. No matter what,

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I'm just so grateful for you for being a part of this

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journey. There have been so there have been tears and heartache behind the

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scenes with struggles and stressors and also a lot of love

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and excitement and all the different things going on. And I share about more of

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this in my book, but we'll just say building a company isn't the easiest thing,

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but it is so worth it because of all the educators, all the

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incredible people that I've been able to connect with along the way in our team.

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And I'm holding space for all of this gratitude and

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love that we've built together while walking into a future of what

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this work will be as it continues to evolve. As my favorite

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artist, Taylor Swift, would say, it is not the end of an era, but

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the start of an age. We are just getting started with the

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work we will do together here in this space. I am not going

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anywhere. But what you are witnessing right here, right now with the shift of the

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work I'm doing here with you in the in this company here is the

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same thing we all experience in our lives day to day.

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One of the big things I talk about in my upcoming book, educate and rejuvenate

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is us getting really clear on what we really want.

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So many of us, we don't actually know. In my book, I

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even joke about this in the notebook. You know that scene with Rachel McAdams' character

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and Ryan Gosling's character where he's like, what do you want?

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And she's just like, it's not that simple. What do you

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want? I I don't know. And she just doesn't know. Right? And

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that's really what it is a lot of times in our lives too. We're

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so busy going about our day to day lives. The most common answer I see

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on a coaching call a lot of what we do on coaching calls as coaches

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is we ask you questions to try to help you see what's going on

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inside your mind. And one of the really common answers is I don't

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know. And it's totally okay to have that answer. There's I'm not

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here to shame you about that. But what I believe is that you do know

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it is within you, but it might be buried deep inside, and it might take

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some time to figure out what it is that you truly want and some conscious

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effort, and that's what I'm here to help you do on the podcast. So here's

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something you could think about. Just I wanna make sure this episode was actually useful

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for you today. As what I've been doing while I've been creating this shift in

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my company is really focusing on what do I want and not only what do

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I want, but what do I want to help people with? How do

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I want to serve? How do I want to show up for everybody who's

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here at this podcast or listening to a coaching replay

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or coming to our educate and rejuvenate event. What do I want to be able

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to give to them? So I want you to do that same thing. I want

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you to think what is it you want to create in your life? Do you

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want more joy in your teaching? Do you want more abundance? Do you want more

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peace? Less anxiety and burnout? Or are you yearning

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for like a more creative outlet or just time to sit and read?

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What is it that will renew your spirit or reignite that passion for teaching

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and life that was once lit but might be a little bit burned out right

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now? Especially, as we're at the end of the school year. Right? We know the

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end of your fatigue can definitely start coming in a little bit

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more. And that's when we just need to figure out what that is, which

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don't worry, I'll continue to support here right here on this podcast

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feed. And you can just continue to think on it. Just having a question

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in your mind, continuing to ponder on it and journal on it a little bit,

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even if you just write a little bit, your brain will continue to work on

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that question and continue to try to be like, oh, what is it? Because our

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brain, like I mentioned on the vision board episode, if you haven't listened to

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that go back on the feed and listen to the vision board episode. But,

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our selective attention or our reticular activating system, it

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really tries to focus on what we're focused on. Right? That's

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why like if we're shopping for cars we notice that car more often. So if

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you ask yourself a question, your brain will really try to get to that answer.

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So that's when we just need to figure out what it is. And

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I'll continue to support you on the feed and support you through

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all of it. Again, I'm not here to ask you any questions or do anything

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I'm not willing to do. So that's why I can speak so much to this.

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I've been going through that process and still working on it in my

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personal and professional life. And, honestly, the entire process

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of writing a book has led to this shift in our brand, in our

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messaging, in my coaching that you'll continue to see starting

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next week. I'm so excited about what's to come. 10

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years in and we're just getting started.

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And I feel like a beginner all over again and I love it. And so

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you can feel like a beginner again too wherever you're at. I'm learning so much

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and I can't wait to continue our professional development

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meets personal development journey together. And I can't wait to see

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where we go together over the next year, 3, 5, 10 years.

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So next week is that big reveal of what's coming for those who are listening

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before then. I'll be teaching a masterclass all about my 3 step

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coaching framework. So far, the only people who've been able to learn about the framework

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this in-depth are our club members. So I'm sharing it publicly for the first

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time. It's the framework my book is based on, like I mentioned, but you don't

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have to wait for the book to come out. You can come learn a bit

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about it on this masterclass. We'll be doing some big giveaways on the call,

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and I also have that big announcement to share up with all of you.

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Again, thank you so much for listening to this final episode of

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wife teacher mommy, the podcast, But I will be back in the speed next week

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though with something new. So stay tuned, and make sure you

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are subscribed so you don't miss the big announcement. We'll talk

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then.

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If you enjoyed this podcast, be sure to hit subscribe so you don't miss an

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episode. And if you are ready to take the next step, I would love

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for you to purchase a ticket to join me live at educate and

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rejuvenate summer 2024, the education event of the

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year happening on July 16th 17th this

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year. We have 2 incredible keynote speakers, Gaspar Van Dazzo,

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who's a teacher and stand up comedian who was featured on Netflix

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on the show The Trust just recently, and Christina

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Kuzmic, who is an incredible best selling author, video

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creator, influencer, mom, amazing person who

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was also our keynote last year. She's back. Everybody loved her so

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much. We have an incredible lineup of additional speakers teaching on

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topics such as math, language arts, reading, social emotional learning, class room

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management, homeschooling, and tackling burnout. This year, we have a super clear

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teacher track and a parent track for homeschoolers. And your ticket

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gets you access to whichever track you like. We could even watch sessions

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from both if you want to. We will start the day altogether with a workout

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each morning. We'll have panels with the speakers, plus you'll get to join me

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for some live live coaching as well as with some of our other club

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coaches. It is the best professional development you could ever attend. There are

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prizes, lives, thousands of like hearted

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educators, all coming together. And all of this is happening from the

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comfort of your own home. So go to educateandrejuvenate

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.com now to learn more about the 2024 event. Or if

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you're listening to this later, that link will show you what is up next as

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we'll continue to do events like these. And I hope to see you

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at the next one.