So in today's episode, we're welcoming on Priya Tu,
Speaker:who is a specialist dietitian and nutritionist, and helps
Speaker:people to heal their relationship with food. Now, you might
Speaker:have seen Priya on TV shows such as how to eat well
Speaker:for less. And she's also the author of 2 books,
Speaker:the DASH diet and the Complete Low FODMAP
Speaker:Diet Plan. So welcome, Priya. Thank you so much
Speaker:for having me. You. Welcome and it's nice to meet you as well, so
Speaker:it's, a bit exciting. Yeah. I've been talking about this for ages
Speaker:and we're so grateful or to you for giving up some time
Speaker:for us today because we know how busy you've been. It's taken a
Speaker:little while for us to get to this recording. So, yeah, you.
Speaker:Great. Thank you. You're so welcome. I mean, I did have a quick honeymoon in
Speaker:the middle of it all as well, which didn't help. You did. And it looked
Speaker:amazing ZYN on your social media stories. So I hope you
Speaker:hope you came fully refreshed and ready because you've been busy ever since you
Speaker:got back, haven't you? I have I have thoroughly recommend Italy
Speaker:though. It's brilliant. Yeah. It's on It's on our to do list. Our list. Yeah.
Speaker:We'd love to go. So let's start it
Speaker:with a little bit of context just for everybody listening. The
Speaker:whole idea why we wanted to talk to you was
Speaker:we've had several episodes where we've been looking at the topic of
Speaker:mystery driving anxiety. What we mean by
Speaker:that is we often will have people come to us who've
Speaker:been driving for years and then suddenly, out of the blue
Speaker:is the way they describe it. They're driving and they're
Speaker:hit by anxiety. And then that
Speaker:with turns into an anxiety around driving. So
Speaker:we started to explore some of the potential
Speaker:reasons why people might be experiencing anxiety. And so in the
Speaker:past, we've spoken to people about sleep and about
Speaker:hormones and emotions and
Speaker:general life stress. And we were really keen to speak to
Speaker:somebody that we trusted about nutrition so that we could find
Speaker:out a little bit more about the possible links between the things that
Speaker:you're eating and drinking and
Speaker:anxiety. Amazing. Sounds good. So, my
Speaker:first question is, is there any research that's been
Speaker:done that says If you drink this or if
Speaker:you eat this, this could potentially cause you
Speaker:problems while you're driving. Mythbusters almost. Is there anything
Speaker:that says, If you do this, this will happen.
Speaker:I haven't seen anything that's specifically related to driving,
Speaker:but we do know that there are certain things that are going with to
Speaker:increase your heart rate and potentially put you more on edge. For
Speaker:example, caffeine is the obvious one, isn't it? If you have too much caffeine.
Speaker:It's going to give you the jitters. You're gonna potentially actually feel more
Speaker:anxious and more stressed. Alcohol can have the same effect, although,
Speaker:hopefully, nobody is drinking and driving. That's not the best thing,
Speaker:but also energy drinks. So sometimes people might give themselves an energy
Speaker:drink in order to have a boost. And then we can have that same
Speaker:impact. We've got the caffeine in there that also could make people
Speaker:fall, them. More on edge and have more anxiety and actually feel a bit
Speaker:more nervous after they've had the energy drink. And then I think
Speaker:the other big link would be sugar. So some people
Speaker:may be into the habit of, oh, well, just have a quick snack
Speaker:to give me a boost. With We all want that boost in our energy
Speaker:levels, don't we? And we can sometimes get caught in that trap
Speaker:of having a bit more sugar That causes our blood
Speaker:sugar levels to rise up. We sometimes call this spike
Speaker:if you think of a sharp peak on a mountain, And then they come
Speaker:crashing back down again because we haven't got the
Speaker:balance of nutrition with the protein, the fat, and the
Speaker:fiber to help stabilize things, and you end up on
Speaker:this sugar roller coaster. And so, you know, if you
Speaker:imagine you've the sugar in order to give you the energy boost
Speaker:before you get into the car. Maybe that gives you a bit of
Speaker:energy order to get going. And then 20
Speaker:minutes later, the impact of that sugar is going to wear off,
Speaker:and potentially then you're gonna get that crash.
Speaker:You might then happen to have a cereal bar in your pocket or, you know,
Speaker:have your car snacks with you, dive into those, and that roller
Speaker:coaster could go on. So I think that's one thing
Speaker:to be really aware of that. Your nutrition is quite complex, but also
Speaker:we can make it fairly simple that if we stick to a
Speaker:fairly regular eating schedule, and we're having a balanced
Speaker:meal and balanced snack. And by that, I mean, them. Just rely
Speaker:on your snack being a banana, but add some nuts into it.
Speaker:So we've got that lovely fruit there. We've also got the protein
Speaker:coming in, them, which is gonna help stabilize our blood sugars. When you're having your
Speaker:meals, you know, make sure you've got your balance of your preferably whole
Speaker:grain carbohydrates. You've got with your your protein. You've got
Speaker:your fruit and vegetables. You've got your fats in there, your healthy fats as well.
Speaker:And that's gonna help you in terms of your energy levels, your mood,
Speaker:your concentration and also that sense of overall wellness.
Speaker:So, hopefully, those are some tips that might help there. There's loads
Speaker:of tips there. Why does he start me talking? I don't stop.
Speaker:That's the problem. No. That's brilliant. That's what we want. That's what
Speaker:we want. It strikes me that with the way
Speaker:we're set up for driving on journeys is that you
Speaker:go in the garage Bridge and what's in front of you is all of those
Speaker:things that you've just said. So you've got energy drinks, you've now got
Speaker:your coffee on the go, full of chocolate bars and
Speaker:cereal bars. This is the way things are set up, isn't it? At service
Speaker:stations, at garages, these are the things we tend to go
Speaker:for when we're driving. It's so true, isn't it? It's
Speaker:it that's what's on offer when you walk into there. And even if there's a
Speaker:flap Jack Bar. It's usually one that's laden with sugar. You
Speaker:can now get some other options. So there are some lower
Speaker:sugar kind of nut bars out there. There's a certain range that
Speaker:can be quite good. And, for example, you get the little packs of
Speaker:mixed nuts and seeds or the flavored nuts, bags of
Speaker:popcorn. Popcorn popcorn's actually a whole grain, so that's
Speaker:pretty good as well. So I think it's being a little bit Aware
Speaker:and trying to eyeball and kind of pick out actually,
Speaker:right, out of all of this chaos in front of me, what are the things
Speaker:that I can have? Or do I need to make sure that stocked up beforehand,
Speaker:and I've got my bag of dried fruit and mixed nuts that I
Speaker:keep in the side door of the car. You know, being prepared with Isn't
Speaker:always an option, but sometimes you could plan that into your shopping
Speaker:ahead of time. And I think one of the things I didn't mention earlier was
Speaker:to the impact of fasting. So if you actually
Speaker:don't eat, then that could be a problem in terms of your
Speaker:concentration, your anxiety levels as well, and your tiredness.
Speaker:So whilst I'm saying be careful what you're snacking on, the other message
Speaker:is also do keep snacking Not every half an
Speaker:hour, but, you know, when you're getting that
Speaker:energy dive down thinking, Okay. I'm
Speaker:driving. I I need my concentration. I need my wits about me. It is a
Speaker:good idea to make sure I'm having a snack as well. See, that's re that's
Speaker:really interesting because with I'm the driving instructor, so
Speaker:I'm sitting in the car for a certain amount of time all day
Speaker:long. But what I tend to do, and I've changed
Speaker:probably recently is have regular breaks, and try not to
Speaker:snack during those breaks. But we all know that's
Speaker:not possible sometimes. So children. Just being
Speaker:prepared and having something that you could do. Most
Speaker:people will go for the coffee. That is the big
Speaker:thing that I notice with people is they drink coffee all day
Speaker:long. And it it seems like, well, I have a coffee because it
Speaker:makes me more aware, but it could be having the the
Speaker:reverse of that, couldn't it, really, if you're having too much coffee?
Speaker:Yeah. You could be over caffeinating, which actually then is going to make you
Speaker:feel anxious because of the impact of the caffeine on your body. So
Speaker:that is also something to be really conscious about. So it can be good to
Speaker:alternate. I've had a coffee. Now let's make sure I have some water.
Speaker:With some people will do the trick of switching over at lunchtime
Speaker:to decaf. So they've had the caffeine in the morning, them. And then they
Speaker:switch over and they have the decaf options,
Speaker:herbal teas. Sometimes it's actually almost a psychological impact
Speaker:of them. Having that warm drink can be the thing that is
Speaker:helpful. I know when I'm sat at my desk, I'm always looking for a warm
Speaker:drink, so I them. I switched myself over to having, you know, a peppermint tea
Speaker:or a chamomile tea instead, and I'm still getting that lovely, cozy
Speaker:feeling, zinc, that I think helps me
Speaker:feel more awake and alive, but I haven't got the caffeine in
Speaker:that. And the caffeine would give you the spike, and then it
Speaker:would bring you back down again. Is that It's not a spike in the sugar
Speaker:levels. It's it's you. The impact of the caffeine in your body. So if you
Speaker:think about the impact of alcohol in your body, it's it's fairly similar. And
Speaker:with alcohol, we get we get that. People. Whatever it is for you, you get
Speaker:that kind of alcohol rush, that boost, and then that's going to wear
Speaker:off. And it's the same with the caffeine. It people. Definitely increase
Speaker:your alertness and your concentration and all of those things and
Speaker:your energy levels as well. But if you have too much of it, you're gonna
Speaker:get too much of the surge, and then we can almost you can
Speaker:almost end up jittery from having too much caffeine. And then what's
Speaker:happening then is depending on what food and drink you're having, your
Speaker:body is then sending messages to your brain,
Speaker:and then it's all about how you interpret those messages.
Speaker:So I think sometimes for somebody with that mystery
Speaker:driving anxiety, their body sent them a message potentially
Speaker:because They're wired from caffeine or they're having a sugar
Speaker:dip, but they don't know how to interpret it and they
Speaker:interpret it as, oh, 'I don't feel right, I'm anxious',
Speaker:and so they attribute it to the driving as opposed to thinking, oh
Speaker:hang on a minute, I didn't eat breakfast or
Speaker:I had too much caffeine or I've eaten too many sweets or
Speaker:something. Yeah. I just it's a really good thing
Speaker:for people to be conscious of and
Speaker:aware of. Mhmm. I think so. And I think
Speaker:we can't underestimate the impact of nutrition, but
Speaker:also of our entire lifestyle. So
Speaker:I sometimes talk to people about our stress and anxiety levels
Speaker:being like a water butt. And throughout the day, the The water butt
Speaker:fills up with everything that's going on around life. It might be that you
Speaker:got stressed with the children at breakfast time,
Speaker:And then a deadline's come in, and then you've had an argument with
Speaker:somebody, you know, and the the levels of stress just keep going up and up
Speaker:and up. And at some point, they're going to overflow. Now
Speaker:if we've got strategies built into place where throughout our day,
Speaker:throughout our week, we're letting a little bit of that stress out,
Speaker:We're undoing the valve at the bottom of the water butt and a little
Speaker:bit is just coming out, then we're not going to wait for flow is the
Speaker:idea. And the way we do that is by having these lifestyle
Speaker:factors in play where we might be taking time to sit
Speaker:and read a book. We might be doing some meditation. I'm
Speaker:rubbish at meditation, so that one always irritates me slightly. I'm the kind of
Speaker:person who makes sure I get outside every day and I walk
Speaker:away from my phone, and I observe what's going on. So I do the
Speaker:same walk, and I look at, right, what's that garden like today? What do the
Speaker:trees look like? And that has a really calming
Speaker:impacts on me personally. It could be doing a jigsaw puzzle or
Speaker:crafting, but all of those things help us us in terms of bringing
Speaker:down our overall levels of stress and anxiety, which then
Speaker:if you're about to do something, like, stressful that, you know, go for a driving
Speaker:lesson, I remember how Stressful, I found that.
Speaker:You're going to feel calmer, aren't you, if you've just had
Speaker:those lifestyle factors in play overall? Them. Yeah.
Speaker:Definitely. And it really is about looking at all the different
Speaker:factors. Because they're all linked, aren't they? They're all linked. Like, you you've
Speaker:mentioned the food, the drink, and it's we've talked about sleep
Speaker:before and how that affects us. So, again, this is like a lifestyle, isn't
Speaker:it? Yes. Absolutely. Lifestyle.
Speaker:It is a lifestyle. And, obviously, I focus more on the nutrition because
Speaker:that's what I do. But when I work with someone, We will bring all of
Speaker:those factors into play. We'll look at not just their nutrition,
Speaker:but, you know, what their hydration is like, what their sleep is
Speaker:like, And what is the impact on their nervous system?
Speaker:So how wired are they? How jittery are they? And is that
Speaker:an impact of the stress on their life for what they're going through, or is
Speaker:that an impact of what they're eating and drinking? And how are we gonna work
Speaker:on bringing that down overall using some
Speaker:practical strategies? Walking loads. I'm sorry. That's
Speaker:it. But is it sort of like a trial and error
Speaker:then? So maybe we we try coffee in the mornings, but then stop, and
Speaker:then, them. At the end of the day, just reflect on how we felt
Speaker:through the day? Or is it something you can you
Speaker:have to write down? Or people. Best way of doing this? Is it trial and
Speaker:error, or is there a different way of doing this?
Speaker:It's a bit of both, I would say. It's a really good idea
Speaker:To write down what you have to eat and drink for a few days.
Speaker:Now you don't want to get pulled into the obsessiveness of tracking this all the
Speaker:time. This all the time. It's literally write it
Speaker:down for 3 days just so you that you can look it
Speaker:over. Because quite often, we have things and we forget about them.
Speaker:Then we they say that when you ask somebody to write a food a
Speaker:diary like this. They tend to under
Speaker:report what they have by about a factor of 10%.
Speaker:Okay. So you might even do that yourself when you're writing it down just for
Speaker:you to look at. But writing it down gives us a really good global overview
Speaker:them. Actually, how many cups of coffee do I have?
Speaker:Where is the sugar in my diet? And by any means, I'm not
Speaker:saying that sugar is bad. I've actually had a piece of cake before coming
Speaker:on doing this. So, you know, sugar is still a vital part of our diet.
Speaker:We want foods that bring that bring us pleasure. Us. What did I have
Speaker:with it? When I had those biscuits, what did I have with them?
Speaker:Okay. Maybe I could have balanced that a little bit
Speaker:more. So when we're thinking about snacks, I always think if you're having something
Speaker:sweet, then we want to have something that is either whole grain or
Speaker:something that the high fiber or something that has got the protein
Speaker:to help bring the balance in there so you don't get this
Speaker:mountain and then crash effects going on. So
Speaker:definitely writing everything down, seeing if you can have a look, and then
Speaker:thinking, right. Okay. What can I do to
Speaker:improve this? That's where the trial and error then comes in. If you're thinking, oh,
Speaker:I'm not sure. Have I got too much caffeine? I've Got
Speaker:5 cups of coffee a day. Is that too many?
Speaker:Let's just try cutting it down to 4. Do I
Speaker:feel any different? What's the impact? If you're
Speaker:working with somebody on a one to 1 basis like me, then It's not
Speaker:so much trial and error because we'll be able to give you a little bit
Speaker:of guidance and advice. That's the point, isn't it? Got the experience there.
Speaker:But if you're doing yourself. Yes, there will be some trial and error in
Speaker:that. So from a driving instructor's point of view,
Speaker:we get people that have driving tests obviously,
Speaker:And one of the things that I recommend and we recommend from
Speaker:confident drivers is to have a banana. What's is what
Speaker:happens when you have a banana? Is it Something that will help you feel less
Speaker:nervous. I think this is probably an old wives' tale, to be
Speaker:honest. Bananas just seem to have something around
Speaker:them. Like, doctors quite often used to tell my patients to have a
Speaker:banana. So, I mean, bananas are great. Don't get
Speaker:me wrong. But I think there's plenty of other things that you could have.
Speaker:Bananas that maybe get used because, you know, we see tennis players used to have
Speaker:bananas, didn't they? They are gonna give you some energy. Them. They're going to give
Speaker:you some magnesium. They're gonna give you some potassium. They've got
Speaker:some fiber in them. So it's not bad advice on banana
Speaker:Unless you don't like bananas or you can't get ahold of 1, I guess.
Speaker:So I think it's really good advice to say, people. Have a snack.
Speaker:Have something to eat, that is quite
Speaker:balanced. It could be that you have an apple and some
Speaker:almonds or you have, some cheese and
Speaker:crackers. It it doesn't have to be That is specifically
Speaker:the banana, but I love the advice of actually have a
Speaker:snack. Make sure that your tummy is full and settled, and you're not thinking
Speaker:about that. That. Because when we're hungry, we instantly think about food that's gonna take
Speaker:your mind off what you're doing. Yeah. Definitely. And it takes the mind off
Speaker:The task that you're trying to do, but it's like, my stomach's rumbling. And
Speaker:that's what you hear, isn't it? That's what you and it's like, oh, wonder what
Speaker:wonder what with And all of us lunch.
Speaker:Yeah. The thoughts go off, don't they? And it's like, oh, okay.
Speaker:And that is one that we get asked all of the time. And and I
Speaker:often say, as long as you like bananas, because I do think if
Speaker:somebody's trying to eat bananas, us. And we do hear of people
Speaker:before driving tests eating several bananas, so not
Speaker:just 1 banana, they're they're eating bananas to try and
Speaker:avoid the anxiety, and I just always think that's gonna make you feel nauseous and
Speaker:that's gonna make you more anxious. So,
Speaker:food. Yeah. A nice tip might be to to eat your banana,
Speaker:but to really focus on it And
Speaker:to eat it very mindfully. So that means, you know,
Speaker:slowing your breathing down, really focusing on the task that's
Speaker:in front of you, Chewing each mouthful well, noticing
Speaker:the taste, the flavor, the smell, and all of
Speaker:that can really help ground you So that you feel
Speaker:more in your body, less in your nervous thoughts,
Speaker:and then you go into that driving test a little bit calmer.
Speaker:Yeah, I think that was brilliant advice. It's good. Yep. It's
Speaker:good. And I'm sure there's, again, even people that are not
Speaker:going driving tests, but other areas of driving as well. So
Speaker:Yeah. And then another one is what would
Speaker:be a good thing to eat the night before a driving
Speaker:test. So what would be a good meal in
Speaker:order to get a good night's sleep? This is quite a
Speaker:personal one, I think, because we do all work differently.
Speaker:For most people, I would suggest don't eat too close to
Speaker:bedtime because the digestive process
Speaker:can keep you awake. If your stomach is still digesting and food's still
Speaker:moving through your system, then potentially that could stop you from
Speaker:going to sleep. Other people just go to sleep straight after meal, and they're
Speaker:fine. So I think really thinking about you and
Speaker:how you respond to food, them. I would go from something that is
Speaker:tried and tested, that you know you like, that you know you tend to
Speaker:get a good night's sleep after it, that. You feel good in the
Speaker:morning. You don't want to be trying out a new curry recipe
Speaker:the night before, do you? So, you. Potentially, it
Speaker:could be that you have a meal of pasta with some
Speaker:vegetables, a nice tomato sauce, and some cheese on top.
Speaker:So something that feels Nourishing and comforting, but it's going to
Speaker:have that balance again of your protein, your
Speaker:carbohydrate, your fruit, and your vegetables in there. With And it's also
Speaker:going to be filling enough so that you're not then half an hour
Speaker:before you go to bed going, don't think I quite had enough. What shall I
Speaker:have now? Yeah. I think if you do get to that point,
Speaker:then a bowl of cereal is always quite a good option before you go to
Speaker:bed. Having a little bit of cereal or in our house, it's always
Speaker:yogurt. Have some have some yogurt if you're still hungry just before
Speaker:bedtime. Yeah. Mhmm. Well, you've answered
Speaker:loads of my questions, and I know some of my students are gonna be saying,
Speaker:I really enjoyed that, look what I'm doing now. But I think it's about the
Speaker:lifestyle, isn't it? This is what I'm getting from from the sleep and
Speaker:the food that you've mentioned. It's it's about looking at the lifestyle
Speaker:first, really, rather than waiting till the last minute. Yeah. And
Speaker:that, yes, definitely, food, the things that you eat and the things
Speaker:you drink, could be a cause or a, a
Speaker:contributing factor to anxiety, so it's well
Speaker:worth bearing that in mind. So Priya, you
Speaker:mentioned your own driving lessons and we'd like to ask our
Speaker:guests. What did they find most
Speaker:difficult when it came to learning to drive? So
Speaker:moving away from the food now, cast Send Your Mind Back.
Speaker:What did you find most difficult when learning to drive? Well,
Speaker:my driving instructor was very patient. His name was Kevin.
Speaker:And He actually had to stick stickers in the car that
Speaker:said right and left because I really struggled
Speaker:with knowing which way. And he would tell me to take the next turning on
Speaker:the me. And I would panic because I mean, I I don't know which way
Speaker:is right. So I think for me, that was a a really big thing.
Speaker:And then I remember,
Speaker:Reversing round corners as being quite a big one in
Speaker:parallel parking as well and just getting the
Speaker:confidence. The fact I was fine at it. But when you're first
Speaker:learning, it feels really scary to have to do
Speaker:that. And then, you know, all all these years later, she's absolutely fine.
Speaker:Don't even really think about it. You just pull into a parking space,
Speaker:don't you? Job done. Them. I know it's
Speaker:amazing, isn't it? It's how are we learning any new
Speaker:skill? Makes you feel nervous until you
Speaker:master it and get it under your belt. Lovely.
Speaker:Priya, when we first asked you to come on and we We've asked
Speaker:this, you know, seemingly random question about, can you come and talk
Speaker:about driving anxiety? And you were probably thinking,
Speaker:drinking anxiety. I do need nutrition. Was
Speaker:there anything that you thought, oh, I hope they ask me this,
Speaker:or I'd really like to mention something. Is there
Speaker:anything that we haven't covered? I don't think so. I think
Speaker:we've done a really you? Go over the area.
Speaker:I think I would summarize and say one of
Speaker:my top tips to everyone is always to try and plan.
Speaker:The more planning you can get into your nutrition, sometimes the best. Although, we can
Speaker:overplan. But, you know, if you can at least meal plan
Speaker:and have Your shopping list sorted and knowing what snacks you're
Speaker:going to have. Like, I can tell you in my family
Speaker:diary, I write out still the meals for the weekend
Speaker:there. It's for nobody else's benefit other than mine so that
Speaker:I know it's taken the stress out of my planning. And my husband has
Speaker:an idea, he tends to do the shopping, of what I want. And I
Speaker:do the same with Things for packed lunches. I plan a few days in
Speaker:advance so that we've got everything we need in the house just to bring the
Speaker:stress and the anxiety down around that. And if you're struggling with the
Speaker:idea of what does a balanced meal look like, how do I meal plan, I
Speaker:have a free downloadable resource on my website that actually talks you
Speaker:through how to meal plan. So that might be of interest people
Speaker:because, again, just having somebody walk you through it can be quite
Speaker:useful, I think. Yep. Perfect. Brilliant. Thank
Speaker:you. Thank you so much for sparing us the time,
Speaker:and, them. It's been lovely to meet you. Yeah. Thank you so much,
Speaker:Priya. Thank you.