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So in today's episode, we're welcoming on Priya Tu,

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who is a specialist dietitian and nutritionist, and helps

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people to heal their relationship with food. Now, you might

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have seen Priya on TV shows such as how to eat well

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for less. And she's also the author of 2 books,

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the DASH diet and the Complete Low FODMAP

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Diet Plan. So welcome, Priya. Thank you so much

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for having me. You. Welcome and it's nice to meet you as well, so

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it's, a bit exciting. Yeah. I've been talking about this for ages

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and we're so grateful or to you for giving up some time

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for us today because we know how busy you've been. It's taken a

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little while for us to get to this recording. So, yeah, you.

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Great. Thank you. You're so welcome. I mean, I did have a quick honeymoon in

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the middle of it all as well, which didn't help. You did. And it looked

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amazing ZYN on your social media stories. So I hope you

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hope you came fully refreshed and ready because you've been busy ever since you

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got back, haven't you? I have I have thoroughly recommend Italy

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though. It's brilliant. Yeah. It's on It's on our to do list. Our list. Yeah.

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We'd love to go. So let's start it

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with a little bit of context just for everybody listening. The

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whole idea why we wanted to talk to you was

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we've had several episodes where we've been looking at the topic of

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mystery driving anxiety. What we mean by

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that is we often will have people come to us who've

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been driving for years and then suddenly, out of the blue

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is the way they describe it. They're driving and they're

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hit by anxiety. And then that

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with turns into an anxiety around driving. So

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we started to explore some of the potential

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reasons why people might be experiencing anxiety. And so in the

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past, we've spoken to people about sleep and about

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hormones and emotions and

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general life stress. And we were really keen to speak to

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somebody that we trusted about nutrition so that we could find

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out a little bit more about the possible links between the things that

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you're eating and drinking and

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anxiety. Amazing. Sounds good. So, my

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first question is, is there any research that's been

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done that says If you drink this or if

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you eat this, this could potentially cause you

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problems while you're driving. Mythbusters almost. Is there anything

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that says, If you do this, this will happen.

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I haven't seen anything that's specifically related to driving,

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but we do know that there are certain things that are going with to

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increase your heart rate and potentially put you more on edge. For

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example, caffeine is the obvious one, isn't it? If you have too much caffeine.

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It's going to give you the jitters. You're gonna potentially actually feel more

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anxious and more stressed. Alcohol can have the same effect, although,

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hopefully, nobody is drinking and driving. That's not the best thing,

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but also energy drinks. So sometimes people might give themselves an energy

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drink in order to have a boost. And then we can have that same

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impact. We've got the caffeine in there that also could make people

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fall, them. More on edge and have more anxiety and actually feel a bit

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more nervous after they've had the energy drink. And then I think

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the other big link would be sugar. So some people

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may be into the habit of, oh, well, just have a quick snack

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to give me a boost. With We all want that boost in our energy

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levels, don't we? And we can sometimes get caught in that trap

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of having a bit more sugar That causes our blood

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sugar levels to rise up. We sometimes call this spike

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if you think of a sharp peak on a mountain, And then they come

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crashing back down again because we haven't got the

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balance of nutrition with the protein, the fat, and the

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fiber to help stabilize things, and you end up on

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this sugar roller coaster. And so, you know, if you

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imagine you've the sugar in order to give you the energy boost

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before you get into the car. Maybe that gives you a bit of

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energy order to get going. And then 20

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minutes later, the impact of that sugar is going to wear off,

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and potentially then you're gonna get that crash.

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You might then happen to have a cereal bar in your pocket or, you know,

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have your car snacks with you, dive into those, and that roller

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coaster could go on. So I think that's one thing

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to be really aware of that. Your nutrition is quite complex, but also

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we can make it fairly simple that if we stick to a

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fairly regular eating schedule, and we're having a balanced

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meal and balanced snack. And by that, I mean, them. Just rely

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on your snack being a banana, but add some nuts into it.

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So we've got that lovely fruit there. We've also got the protein

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coming in, them, which is gonna help stabilize our blood sugars. When you're having your

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meals, you know, make sure you've got your balance of your preferably whole

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grain carbohydrates. You've got with your your protein. You've got

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your fruit and vegetables. You've got your fats in there, your healthy fats as well.

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And that's gonna help you in terms of your energy levels, your mood,

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your concentration and also that sense of overall wellness.

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So, hopefully, those are some tips that might help there. There's loads

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of tips there. Why does he start me talking? I don't stop.

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That's the problem. No. That's brilliant. That's what we want. That's what

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we want. It strikes me that with the way

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we're set up for driving on journeys is that you

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go in the garage Bridge and what's in front of you is all of those

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things that you've just said. So you've got energy drinks, you've now got

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your coffee on the go, full of chocolate bars and

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cereal bars. This is the way things are set up, isn't it? At service

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stations, at garages, these are the things we tend to go

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for when we're driving. It's so true, isn't it? It's

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it that's what's on offer when you walk into there. And even if there's a

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flap Jack Bar. It's usually one that's laden with sugar. You

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can now get some other options. So there are some lower

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sugar kind of nut bars out there. There's a certain range that

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can be quite good. And, for example, you get the little packs of

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mixed nuts and seeds or the flavored nuts, bags of

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popcorn. Popcorn popcorn's actually a whole grain, so that's

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pretty good as well. So I think it's being a little bit Aware

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and trying to eyeball and kind of pick out actually,

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right, out of all of this chaos in front of me, what are the things

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that I can have? Or do I need to make sure that stocked up beforehand,

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and I've got my bag of dried fruit and mixed nuts that I

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keep in the side door of the car. You know, being prepared with Isn't

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always an option, but sometimes you could plan that into your shopping

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ahead of time. And I think one of the things I didn't mention earlier was

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to the impact of fasting. So if you actually

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don't eat, then that could be a problem in terms of your

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concentration, your anxiety levels as well, and your tiredness.

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So whilst I'm saying be careful what you're snacking on, the other message

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is also do keep snacking Not every half an

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hour, but, you know, when you're getting that

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energy dive down thinking, Okay. I'm

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driving. I I need my concentration. I need my wits about me. It is a

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good idea to make sure I'm having a snack as well. See, that's re that's

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really interesting because with I'm the driving instructor, so

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I'm sitting in the car for a certain amount of time all day

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long. But what I tend to do, and I've changed

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probably recently is have regular breaks, and try not to

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snack during those breaks. But we all know that's

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not possible sometimes. So children. Just being

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prepared and having something that you could do. Most

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people will go for the coffee. That is the big

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thing that I notice with people is they drink coffee all day

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long. And it it seems like, well, I have a coffee because it

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makes me more aware, but it could be having the the

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reverse of that, couldn't it, really, if you're having too much coffee?

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Yeah. You could be over caffeinating, which actually then is going to make you

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feel anxious because of the impact of the caffeine on your body. So

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that is also something to be really conscious about. So it can be good to

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alternate. I've had a coffee. Now let's make sure I have some water.

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With some people will do the trick of switching over at lunchtime

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to decaf. So they've had the caffeine in the morning, them. And then they

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switch over and they have the decaf options,

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herbal teas. Sometimes it's actually almost a psychological impact

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of them. Having that warm drink can be the thing that is

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helpful. I know when I'm sat at my desk, I'm always looking for a warm

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drink, so I them. I switched myself over to having, you know, a peppermint tea

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or a chamomile tea instead, and I'm still getting that lovely, cozy

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feeling, zinc, that I think helps me

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feel more awake and alive, but I haven't got the caffeine in

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that. And the caffeine would give you the spike, and then it

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would bring you back down again. Is that It's not a spike in the sugar

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levels. It's it's you. The impact of the caffeine in your body. So if you

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think about the impact of alcohol in your body, it's it's fairly similar. And

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with alcohol, we get we get that. People. Whatever it is for you, you get

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that kind of alcohol rush, that boost, and then that's going to wear

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off. And it's the same with the caffeine. It people. Definitely increase

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your alertness and your concentration and all of those things and

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your energy levels as well. But if you have too much of it, you're gonna

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get too much of the surge, and then we can almost you can

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almost end up jittery from having too much caffeine. And then what's

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happening then is depending on what food and drink you're having, your

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body is then sending messages to your brain,

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and then it's all about how you interpret those messages.

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So I think sometimes for somebody with that mystery

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driving anxiety, their body sent them a message potentially

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because They're wired from caffeine or they're having a sugar

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dip, but they don't know how to interpret it and they

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interpret it as, oh, 'I don't feel right, I'm anxious',

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and so they attribute it to the driving as opposed to thinking, oh

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hang on a minute, I didn't eat breakfast or

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I had too much caffeine or I've eaten too many sweets or

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something. Yeah. I just it's a really good thing

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for people to be conscious of and

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aware of. Mhmm. I think so. And I think

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we can't underestimate the impact of nutrition, but

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also of our entire lifestyle. So

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I sometimes talk to people about our stress and anxiety levels

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being like a water butt. And throughout the day, the The water butt

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fills up with everything that's going on around life. It might be that you

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got stressed with the children at breakfast time,

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And then a deadline's come in, and then you've had an argument with

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somebody, you know, and the the levels of stress just keep going up and up

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and up. And at some point, they're going to overflow. Now

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if we've got strategies built into place where throughout our day,

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throughout our week, we're letting a little bit of that stress out,

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We're undoing the valve at the bottom of the water butt and a little

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bit is just coming out, then we're not going to wait for flow is the

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idea. And the way we do that is by having these lifestyle

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factors in play where we might be taking time to sit

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and read a book. We might be doing some meditation. I'm

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rubbish at meditation, so that one always irritates me slightly. I'm the kind of

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person who makes sure I get outside every day and I walk

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away from my phone, and I observe what's going on. So I do the

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same walk, and I look at, right, what's that garden like today? What do the

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trees look like? And that has a really calming

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impacts on me personally. It could be doing a jigsaw puzzle or

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crafting, but all of those things help us us in terms of bringing

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down our overall levels of stress and anxiety, which then

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if you're about to do something, like, stressful that, you know, go for a driving

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lesson, I remember how Stressful, I found that.

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You're going to feel calmer, aren't you, if you've just had

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those lifestyle factors in play overall? Them. Yeah.

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Definitely. And it really is about looking at all the different

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factors. Because they're all linked, aren't they? They're all linked. Like, you you've

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mentioned the food, the drink, and it's we've talked about sleep

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before and how that affects us. So, again, this is like a lifestyle, isn't

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it? Yes. Absolutely. Lifestyle.

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It is a lifestyle. And, obviously, I focus more on the nutrition because

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that's what I do. But when I work with someone, We will bring all of

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those factors into play. We'll look at not just their nutrition,

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but, you know, what their hydration is like, what their sleep is

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like, And what is the impact on their nervous system?

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So how wired are they? How jittery are they? And is that

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an impact of the stress on their life for what they're going through, or is

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that an impact of what they're eating and drinking? And how are we gonna work

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on bringing that down overall using some

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practical strategies? Walking loads. I'm sorry. That's

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it. But is it sort of like a trial and error

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then? So maybe we we try coffee in the mornings, but then stop, and

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then, them. At the end of the day, just reflect on how we felt

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through the day? Or is it something you can you

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have to write down? Or people. Best way of doing this? Is it trial and

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error, or is there a different way of doing this?

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It's a bit of both, I would say. It's a really good idea

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To write down what you have to eat and drink for a few days.

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Now you don't want to get pulled into the obsessiveness of tracking this all the

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time. This all the time. It's literally write it

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down for 3 days just so you that you can look it

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over. Because quite often, we have things and we forget about them.

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Then we they say that when you ask somebody to write a food a

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diary like this. They tend to under

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report what they have by about a factor of 10%.

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Okay. So you might even do that yourself when you're writing it down just for

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you to look at. But writing it down gives us a really good global overview

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them. Actually, how many cups of coffee do I have?

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Where is the sugar in my diet? And by any means, I'm not

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saying that sugar is bad. I've actually had a piece of cake before coming

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on doing this. So, you know, sugar is still a vital part of our diet.

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We want foods that bring that bring us pleasure. Us. What did I have

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with it? When I had those biscuits, what did I have with them?

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Okay. Maybe I could have balanced that a little bit

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more. So when we're thinking about snacks, I always think if you're having something

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sweet, then we want to have something that is either whole grain or

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something that the high fiber or something that has got the protein

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to help bring the balance in there so you don't get this

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mountain and then crash effects going on. So

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definitely writing everything down, seeing if you can have a look, and then

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thinking, right. Okay. What can I do to

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improve this? That's where the trial and error then comes in. If you're thinking, oh,

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I'm not sure. Have I got too much caffeine? I've Got

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5 cups of coffee a day. Is that too many?

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Let's just try cutting it down to 4. Do I

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feel any different? What's the impact? If you're

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working with somebody on a one to 1 basis like me, then It's not

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so much trial and error because we'll be able to give you a little bit

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of guidance and advice. That's the point, isn't it? Got the experience there.

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But if you're doing yourself. Yes, there will be some trial and error in

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that. So from a driving instructor's point of view,

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we get people that have driving tests obviously,

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And one of the things that I recommend and we recommend from

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confident drivers is to have a banana. What's is what

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happens when you have a banana? Is it Something that will help you feel less

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nervous. I think this is probably an old wives' tale, to be

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honest. Bananas just seem to have something around

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them. Like, doctors quite often used to tell my patients to have a

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banana. So, I mean, bananas are great. Don't get

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me wrong. But I think there's plenty of other things that you could have.

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Bananas that maybe get used because, you know, we see tennis players used to have

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bananas, didn't they? They are gonna give you some energy. Them. They're going to give

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you some magnesium. They're gonna give you some potassium. They've got

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some fiber in them. So it's not bad advice on banana

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Unless you don't like bananas or you can't get ahold of 1, I guess.

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So I think it's really good advice to say, people. Have a snack.

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Have something to eat, that is quite

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balanced. It could be that you have an apple and some

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almonds or you have, some cheese and

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crackers. It it doesn't have to be That is specifically

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the banana, but I love the advice of actually have a

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snack. Make sure that your tummy is full and settled, and you're not thinking

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about that. That. Because when we're hungry, we instantly think about food that's gonna take

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your mind off what you're doing. Yeah. Definitely. And it takes the mind off

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The task that you're trying to do, but it's like, my stomach's rumbling. And

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that's what you hear, isn't it? That's what you and it's like, oh, wonder what

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wonder what with And all of us lunch.

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Yeah. The thoughts go off, don't they? And it's like, oh, okay.

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And that is one that we get asked all of the time. And and I

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often say, as long as you like bananas, because I do think if

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somebody's trying to eat bananas, us. And we do hear of people

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before driving tests eating several bananas, so not

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just 1 banana, they're they're eating bananas to try and

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avoid the anxiety, and I just always think that's gonna make you feel nauseous and

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that's gonna make you more anxious. So,

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food. Yeah. A nice tip might be to to eat your banana,

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but to really focus on it And

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to eat it very mindfully. So that means, you know,

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slowing your breathing down, really focusing on the task that's

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in front of you, Chewing each mouthful well, noticing

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the taste, the flavor, the smell, and all of

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that can really help ground you So that you feel

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more in your body, less in your nervous thoughts,

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and then you go into that driving test a little bit calmer.

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Yeah, I think that was brilliant advice. It's good. Yep. It's

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good. And I'm sure there's, again, even people that are not

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going driving tests, but other areas of driving as well. So

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Yeah. And then another one is what would

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be a good thing to eat the night before a driving

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test. So what would be a good meal in

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order to get a good night's sleep? This is quite a

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personal one, I think, because we do all work differently.

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For most people, I would suggest don't eat too close to

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bedtime because the digestive process

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can keep you awake. If your stomach is still digesting and food's still

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moving through your system, then potentially that could stop you from

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going to sleep. Other people just go to sleep straight after meal, and they're

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fine. So I think really thinking about you and

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how you respond to food, them. I would go from something that is

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tried and tested, that you know you like, that you know you tend to

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get a good night's sleep after it, that. You feel good in the

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morning. You don't want to be trying out a new curry recipe

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the night before, do you? So, you. Potentially, it

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could be that you have a meal of pasta with some

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vegetables, a nice tomato sauce, and some cheese on top.

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So something that feels Nourishing and comforting, but it's going to

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have that balance again of your protein, your

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carbohydrate, your fruit, and your vegetables in there. With And it's also

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going to be filling enough so that you're not then half an hour

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before you go to bed going, don't think I quite had enough. What shall I

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have now? Yeah. I think if you do get to that point,

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then a bowl of cereal is always quite a good option before you go to

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bed. Having a little bit of cereal or in our house, it's always

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yogurt. Have some have some yogurt if you're still hungry just before

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bedtime. Yeah. Mhmm. Well, you've answered

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loads of my questions, and I know some of my students are gonna be saying,

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I really enjoyed that, look what I'm doing now. But I think it's about the

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lifestyle, isn't it? This is what I'm getting from from the sleep and

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the food that you've mentioned. It's it's about looking at the lifestyle

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first, really, rather than waiting till the last minute. Yeah. And

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that, yes, definitely, food, the things that you eat and the things

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you drink, could be a cause or a, a

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contributing factor to anxiety, so it's well

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worth bearing that in mind. So Priya, you

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mentioned your own driving lessons and we'd like to ask our

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guests. What did they find most

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difficult when it came to learning to drive? So

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moving away from the food now, cast Send Your Mind Back.

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What did you find most difficult when learning to drive? Well,

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my driving instructor was very patient. His name was Kevin.

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And He actually had to stick stickers in the car that

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said right and left because I really struggled

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with knowing which way. And he would tell me to take the next turning on

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the me. And I would panic because I mean, I I don't know which way

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is right. So I think for me, that was a a really big thing.

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And then I remember,

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Reversing round corners as being quite a big one in

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parallel parking as well and just getting the

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confidence. The fact I was fine at it. But when you're first

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learning, it feels really scary to have to do

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that. And then, you know, all all these years later, she's absolutely fine.

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Don't even really think about it. You just pull into a parking space,

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don't you? Job done. Them. I know it's

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amazing, isn't it? It's how are we learning any new

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skill? Makes you feel nervous until you

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master it and get it under your belt. Lovely.

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Priya, when we first asked you to come on and we We've asked

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this, you know, seemingly random question about, can you come and talk

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about driving anxiety? And you were probably thinking,

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drinking anxiety. I do need nutrition. Was

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there anything that you thought, oh, I hope they ask me this,

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or I'd really like to mention something. Is there

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anything that we haven't covered? I don't think so. I think

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we've done a really you? Go over the area.

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I think I would summarize and say one of

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my top tips to everyone is always to try and plan.

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The more planning you can get into your nutrition, sometimes the best. Although, we can

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overplan. But, you know, if you can at least meal plan

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and have Your shopping list sorted and knowing what snacks you're

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going to have. Like, I can tell you in my family

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diary, I write out still the meals for the weekend

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there. It's for nobody else's benefit other than mine so that

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I know it's taken the stress out of my planning. And my husband has

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an idea, he tends to do the shopping, of what I want. And I

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do the same with Things for packed lunches. I plan a few days in

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advance so that we've got everything we need in the house just to bring the

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stress and the anxiety down around that. And if you're struggling with the

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idea of what does a balanced meal look like, how do I meal plan, I

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have a free downloadable resource on my website that actually talks you

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through how to meal plan. So that might be of interest people

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because, again, just having somebody walk you through it can be quite

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useful, I think. Yep. Perfect. Brilliant. Thank

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you. Thank you so much for sparing us the time,

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and, them. It's been lovely to meet you. Yeah. Thank you so much,

Speaker:

Priya. Thank you.