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Welcome to episode 130 of educate and rejuvenate the

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podcast. How to have your best summer yet part

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1. Do you ever feel like you have these grand intentions to

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rest and get a lot of things done over the summer, but then you blink

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and it's gone? And you feel like, why didn't I get

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rested? Why didn't I get all the things done? And you feel some regret, like,

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I wasted my summer. Anybody relate to this? I hear

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you. But it doesn't have to happen this way again. That's what today

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is for. Let's make this your best summer yet.

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Welcome to educate and rejuvenate, the podcast to help you

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revitalize your teaching, renew your spirit, and reignite your

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passion for life. I'm your host, Kelsey Sorensen, a former

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teacher, current homeschool mom, published author, and certified life

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coach. Whether you are a teacher in a traditional classroom, homeschool

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from your kitchen table, or anywhere in between, I am on a mission to help

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you not only survive as an educator, but thrive. Get

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ready to up level your skills with incredible insights from guest experts

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and discover the missing piece, rejuvenating yourself. Are

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you ready to both educate and rejuvenate? Let's

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go.

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Okay. I am back recording this episode for the

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second time. The first time, it didn't save for some reason. But you know

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what? Everything happens for a reason. Right? And I think it's going to be

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even better this second time around. But I will just tell

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you, I am coming here humbly to you, sharing information

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from my heart, while I'm also a little bit of a hot mess

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myself. Like, today, I'm like, I need to record all these episodes. Somehow,

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this one didn't get recorded. I've got a vendor booth the next 3 days,

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and then we're headed down to another one down in Arizona.

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So, like, I plan that one for my family to leave the day after, and

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now I'm getting to this week, and I'm like, why didn't I plan that better?

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So, honestly, I'm kind of sharing information that I'm like, oh, yeah. When I follow

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this, it goes a lot better. And then sometimes, I'm human, and I

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realize I kinda schedule things close together. But you know what? I still use these

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strategies, and I show up in the best way I can. Like,

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I feel like today, I've had a lot. And then, again, this episode

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didn't save, but I was able to handle

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it a lot more gracefully than I would have a few years ago.

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So very happy about that. Also, what I plan to and

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did the first time I record this episode is share that I'm just so excited

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at summer. I hope you are too. And I'm really excited about the vendor

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boost. Like I just mentioned, I get to meet with people from our community

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or new members who then join our community in person, and it is

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just so much fun. Last year the past 2 years, we've just done 1 bend

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vendor booth. We've done show up for teachers in the Salt Lake, but

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this year, we have 5. So I'm about to do a homeschool conference here in

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Salt Lake, going down to Arizona for another one, another one in Tampa for teach

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your heart out, and then show up for teachers again, and then another one in

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Utah called be kind to your mind. So if you live in any of those

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areas, please come say hi to me at some point. I would love love to

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see you. Okay. But, also, if you won't

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be, we do have our educate and rejuvenate virtual event, July

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16th 17th, where we will all be able to connect together

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virtually, have so much fun. So I hope to see you there, if nothing else.

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And, again, next summer, we'll see how this summer goes. I think it might be

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fun next summer maybe for my family to, like, do a road trip during the

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summer and hit some more locations so I can meet more of you. But for

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now, 5 going from 1 to 5 is, like, a big enough jump for me.

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So that's what we're doing right now. Okay. So this is part

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1 of a 2 part series. I decided to divide this episode into 2 parts,

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so you've kinda time to think about this first part. And then the second part

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is when we're gonna take what we learn about ourselves from this first part and

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make an action plan. So the whole goal of this series

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is to help you get really clear on what you want this summer so you

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can basically make it happen. And we we want to start by

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observing ourselves and seeing where you want to go with it. And that

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means that today, this episode is full of a lot of questions. As

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a life coach, I've learned that questions are some of the best

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tools to help you learn more about yourself. Like, it's really

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what what I use, what therapists use when I go see my therapist.

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My life coach is, like, questions are basically just magic. It's like you

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ask a like, you get asked a question, you let your mind focus on that

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question and find the answer. And especially if you allow yourself

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time to really just think and ponder on these questions, like, it can

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really unearth some gold that's inside of you that you didn't know was there.

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So a lot of questions today. And the reason for this is last

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summer. So last summer, our educate in rejuvenate event was in June, and we

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wanted something in July too. I wasn't doing all the events we're doing this

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summer last summer. In July, we decided to do a 3 day teacher

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transformation is what we called it. It was like a 3 day Anybody could come.

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It was like 3 days of coaching. It was so much fun. But I kind

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of saw a pattern in what we were coaching people on, and it was in

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the month of July. It was like the twenties. Like, July

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25th, 26th, 27th, if I remember right, or somewhere around there.

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And by that time, a lot of teachers were feeling like their summer was starting

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to wind down. And, you know, a lot of teachers might even go back, like,

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beginning of August, starting to get ready for their classroom and everything. And

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what I noticed was a lot of teachers feeling regret at this point. They felt

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like their summer wasn't what they wanted. They felt like they either didn't get enough

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things done that were on their to do list. They feel like they didn't rest

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enough. They were just go go going, and they never found that time to rest,

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and now it's time to get back into the school year. They felt like they

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were just filling all that time with, like, home projects or with other things they

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were doing, and they didn't actually find that time to rest. Or some just they're

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like, I don't even know. I don't I just know this isn't it. You know?

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I just know that something wasn't quite right. And as we

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know, summer just flies by for us now that we're grown up. So it's not

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like when we're children, and summer just feels like a lifetime. It goes

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by so fast. We want to be really intentional

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about our summer because otherwise, like and then there's nothing wrong with it. Like

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I said, so many teachers were relating with each other about this summer wasn't going

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exactly where we want it, and we can do plenty of mindset coaching then in

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July if you're still feeling like that. Right? Because nothing's ever gonna

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go perfectly like quinoa. Even if you follow all the steps in what I'm sharing

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with you today, like, you're not going to have a, quote, perfect summer. That's why

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I didn't title this how to, have the perfect summer. I titled it how to

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have your best summer yet. So this summer can be your best summer yet, and

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the next summer, you can take what you learned from this summer and create your

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next best summer yet. And every summer can be the best summer yet. Right? So

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we're just, like, getting a little bit better and better and better each time. So,

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actually, there was a coaching clip that I got permission to share. I've shared it

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in some webinars, but haven't I don't think I've shared it yet on the podcast.

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I'll have to double check. But if I haven't, I actually plan to share it

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again around that time when some of you might be feeling that way so you

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can get that validation, but also see how I coach that person on it. I

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got permission to share it, like I said. But today, what I'm hoping

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to do is help prevent you from feeling as much that way by the time

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we get to that point. So in this podcast series, I want to help you

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strike the right balance between rejuvenating yourself

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and educating yourself. It's kind of the backwards of educate and

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rejuvenate because with summer like, during the school year, it's like we're educating, and then

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we want to rejuvenate ourselves. Like, we're spending a lot of our time teaching. Right?

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During the summer, I want us to really focus on that rejuvenation piece, but also

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make sure we don't completely forget about the education piece. Okay? So

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that's really what we're going to be talking about a lot today. I think it's

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important to have a balance of both, And make

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sure that it's not just like, oh, I'm gonna do some rejuvenating. I'm gonna do

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some learning, but it's actually really what you want, really what's going to light

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you up, really what's going to fill your cup. So with that, that's why I'm

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doing all the questions, to help you ponder on all of that. So with those

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questions, like I mentioned before, like, I really just feel like questions are so magical.

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So if you're not driving or otherwise multitasking, you might wanna get out your

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phone and have your notes app ready or even get a notebook and a pencil

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to be ready to write down your answers. But if not, if you are doing

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something else, I know that's often the case when you're listening to or watching a

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podcast. We will have all of these listed in the show notes.

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So you will be able to refer back and find

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the questions that kind of resonated with you the most. And I'm going to ask

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a lot of questions because I feel like you some are like me

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rephrasing things or explaining the questions, giving some context, and then just more

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questions. Because the reason for that being, some are really gonna stick out to

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you. Like, some of it this was the question for me. And another

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question that maybe wasn't the one for you was the one for someone else, because

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there are certain ones that'll just hit you at different times that you need. I'm

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asking different questions. Some of them might hit you more than others. Focus on the

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questions where you're like, oh, yeah. That one was for me. She's reading my mind.

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So pick your favorites, and ideally journal about them if you can. You'll

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get so much more out of them that way. Writing down the answers is so

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powerful. Like, I I mean, I will tell you. I used so much. I've been

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like, oh, I can't just have a podcast on while I'm doing things and listen

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to it. And still, I I don't take notes or journal on every podcast or

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every training I listen to. That wouldn't be possible. But on certain ones, when

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I do and I take those notes, it really just makes the work that

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much more powerful because there are things that come when you put pen to paper

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that wouldn't come if you're just thinking about it in your mind. So it really

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can just be such a magical process. I really recommend it. Those who did the

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self love challenge back in February and did the journal prompts with

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it saw so much progress. Like, they said, wow. These journal prompts were

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just really powerful. So I highly recommend journaling about

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this too. And then also if you wanna do that self love challenge after is

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evergreen. You can go back to the lessons that on this podcast feed that say

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self love challenge. Go back and listen to it if you need to cultivate more

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self love this summer. This might fall into your summer plan that we're going to

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talk about. Either way, though, even if you do just listen like, again,

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you're going to get a lot out of just listening too, so don't feel bad

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if you don't get around to it. I'm just sharing an opportunity with you to

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journal about it. Would highly recommend it. First, we're going

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to talk about our general

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observations of ourselves in the school year versus the

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summer and last summer and how we're feeling about this summer, all of that. We're

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gonna just kind of think about that. So let's think about

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last summer. How do you feel when you think about last

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summer? What went well for you last summer? What are you like? Oh, yeah. I

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did this. I definitely want to do that again. Do you feel like you've got

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enough rejuvenation? Do you feel like you've got enough, like, up leveling

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yourself and educating and learning things you wanted to learn, whether it has to

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do with teaching or not. Do you feel like you got enough of both sides

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of that last summer? Think about it. Do you feel like you had that right

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balance between the 2, or do you feel like you were a little off on

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1? Do you feel like you did a lot to prepare for the school year

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and then you didn't feel rejuvenated? Or do you feel like you were like, oh,

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yeah. I really rested, but then by the time the school year started, I was

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like, oh, man. I'm so unprepared. Just kind of think back to that

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time. Think back and be like, what is it that went well? And what

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is it I definitely want to change this summer? And then also just know is

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how do you feel when you think about it? Do you feel, like, relaxed? Do

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you feel a little bit of regret come up? Do you feel a little bit

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of dread about is it gonna repeat itself this year? Do you

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feel indifferent? How do you feel when you think about last summer

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and then the transition from last summer into the school year?

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Now let's talk about that transition into the school year. So we have, like, our

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summer and then as we got into the school year. How do you feel like

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that transition went? Do you feel like it was smooth? And, again, as smooth as

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it could be. Right? Do you feel like you were prepared, or do you feel

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like there's more you want to do? And then what was your most common feeling

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during the school year? If you were to name one feeling, one that comes

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up a lot in my coaching with educators in the educate and

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rejuvenate club is overwhelm. That one comes up a lot. So

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think about how much overwhelm did you feel last school year,

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And then compare how much overwhelm did you feel last school year compared to how

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much overwhelm you felt during the summer. And just kinda think about that.

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And then think about how do you want to feel this summer

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and then going into next school year? What do you wanna cultivate this summer that

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you can then bring with you into the next school year? Is it a

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feeling of peace? Is it a feeling of excitement? Is it

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a feeling of contentment, happiness? What is it that

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you want to feel and bring it with you? And, of course, we're human, and

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we're not gonna feel one feeling all the time. But if you were to just

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come up with, like, what is the ideal just, like, feeling the emotion that you

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want to feel that you want to cultivate this summer and learn how to not

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just have it in the summer, but to be able to bring it with you

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into next school year And that's going to bring us into that rejuvenation piece.

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Like, how are we going to make that happen? So now we're going to talk

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about the rejuvenation we want to have over the summer. What

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does rejuvenation look like for you this summer? I want you to

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think about that because it's going to be different for everybody. Rejuvenation for

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me, what I need to rejuvenate myself is going to be different than what you

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need and what the next listener needs to rejuvenate themselves. And

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it's really personal. What is it you need? Some might be, oh, I need to

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lay out by the pool, and that is going to rejuvenate me. But for other

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people, that might, like, be like, oh, that's nice, but that's not what actually fills

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me up. What is it that fills you up? Now I want to read

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the actual dictionary definition of rejuvenate to you. So there were

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2 ones that I pulled that I felt were applicable. So the first was to

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make young again, restore to youthful, bigger

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appearance, etcetera. What I love about that is thinking about to make ourselves

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young again. Now picture our summers now compared to, like I mentioned,

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when summer felt like a lifetime in our childhood, when it was like, wow. A

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whole summer vacation to do whatever I want. Now it might not be do whatever

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we want now, especially if we have our own children too or if you're teaching

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summer school or anything else. But what is it that we can do to

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bring some more of our youth in to have more fun with whatever we're doing

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this summer? Think about tapping into some of that energy of when were you a

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kid. How can you tap into that now? What is it like to

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restore to a youthful vigor? So when you think about, like, oh, if

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you've been teaching, like, say, 15 years, you're just, I'm not looking forward to

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going into the next school year. But think about when you were just about to

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start going and teaching your 1st year. You probably had a lot of ideas, that

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spark of, like, oh, I can't wait to try this. I can't wait to try

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that. So what can you do this summer to help, like, reignite that

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spark and be like, oh, I can't wait to teach this. And whether it's, you

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know, in a traditional classroom with your own kids, like, what can what is it

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you can do to reignite that spark so you can be like, I am so

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excited to get back to teaching in the school year? Like,

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so excited. What would that be? What could be something new to, like, reinvent

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the wheel with your teaching? Again, and that can be part of the rejuvenation, but

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a a lot of that falls under the education piece too, but I just kind

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of went off on that one. But the second definition I pulled was

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to restore to a former state, to make fresh or new

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again. And what I loved about this, and I feel like that's kind of

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2 pieces. So to restore to a former state would be like, what former state

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are you wanting to get back to? Are you wanting to get back to some

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of that energy like when you summer was just, like, this golden opportunity? Are

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you wanting to tap into that? Are you wanting to tap into

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again, like, when you were first decided you wanted to teach in whatever capacity

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you teach? Are you wanting to tap back into when you felt more alive

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whenever that was in your life? Like, what former state are you wanting to get

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back to? And how can this summer be the time that you can do that

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that you can restore yourself back to a former state where you

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felt more alive, more happiness, more peace, more free,

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whatever that is for you. And then the second piece is to make

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fresh or new again. So maybe I can't even think of a time

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where I want to get back to. I wanna move forward. I wanna create something

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completely new and become just fresh, like, even get more in

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tune with the true version of me, which is what we've talked a lot about

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on the podcast too. So what does it mean for you to

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become fresh and new again? And I just love this question.

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Again, any of these questions that I'm mentioning, you can take. Swipe

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that question, but that was mine. I'm going to journal on that one. So

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what would it mean for you to become fresh and new again? And again, it's

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gonna be different for each of us, and that's just what I love. Like, everybody

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would come up with a different answer to each of these questions. Now

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another thing I think is so important just to think of when we think of

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restoring ourselves to a state or even to become fresh and new again,

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tapping into that youth youthfulness, if we've been feeling a lot of overwhelm

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this summer or or this school year that, like, I was been seeing a lot

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of in my coaching in the club, like, you might your body

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might even need to be restored to, like, its state or to

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become fresh or new again because our body keeps the score. I mean, that's

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actually a really amazing book. But, like, when we're chronically stressed,

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our body actually reacts to it. And so we might actually need some healing, like,

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quite literally in our body. Like, if we get stuck in a stress response in

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my book when I was researching for it,

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and I share this in chapter 5 that's all about the nervous system

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piece. And if we get into a freeze or a

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fawn stress response, we our body actually

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slows down on, quote, not essential functions. They are

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very essential, but not for, like, if you're in a moment where a bear is

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chasing after you or whatever, but like things like our immune

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system like less essential like in that moment where the bear

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is attacking you right. But if you're chronically in that and you're

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getting more sick, that could be why. Now I'm not a medical doctor, but, I

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mean, WebMD and all the research I've done have set has, like,

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verified that that is true, and it also shuts down

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things such as our digestive system. So even if you just have some tummy

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issues when you're stressed, like, there's a reason for that. So as you

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de stress, you'll rejuvenate your physical body as well as

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your mental state, your emotional state, all of that. So

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that's why this rejuvenation piece is honestly so

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important. Now another part I wanna talk about is our

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thoughts, the thoughts that you've been thinking. So what thoughts were on repeat for

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you this school year that might not have been helpful for you?

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Like, maybe and I actually talk about this in an upcoming interview with Katie

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from the Joy at Home podcast. The one that comes up a lot is I

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am busy or I'm so stressed or I have too much to I have so

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much to do. When we repeat that constantly all the

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time, even if, like, you could try to objectively argue that it's true, but

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even if it were, quote, true, is it helpful to keep ruminating on that?

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Because then you're just causing more and more stress and overwhelm. Because when

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you think that, how does that make you feel? Makes you feel overwhelmed. And then

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how do you what do you do when you're overwhelmed? You don't do a good

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as good of a job at getting all that stuff done. Now do you? You

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don't because none of us do. We're human. So, again,

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what thoughts kept coming up? Or was it something like imposter syndrome, like you felt

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like you weren't good enough or or that you felt like other people at your

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school didn't like you or other people in your community, your homeschool coop,

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whatever, didn't like you. There's a lot of wanting to fit in and things that

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go on. What are just some common thoughts, like, patterns that

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you've noticed? It could not be anything that I mentioned. It's, you

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know, personal to you. But what are some consistent thoughts that have come up

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on repeat that you can use this summer to rewire using, like,

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a bridge thought or a ladder thought, which, for example, like, if we are using

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I am busy, you would, you know, ideally be like, I have

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just enough time to get the things done I need. That might be the ideal

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thought. You might need a thought in between being like, I am learning that everything

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gets done at its own time or something. You can just remind yourself of that

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and work on rewiring it your thoughts over these next few months so that

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by the time school comes back, you kind of rejuvenated your mindset

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so you can feel better in the next school year. Now the last

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piece of rejuvenation is I do know it's a common theme

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of educators wanting to rejuvenate their space during the summer because you do have

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some extra time where you can do that. You might wanna take on some projects,

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get your closet organized, and things like that. Now it's

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important to not just dive in and just wait. I'm gonna organize my whole

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house. This is a mistake I find a lot of people make is it's like,

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oh, I just you know, I have all this time. I'm gonna start reorganizing my

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house. But if you don't do it really intentionally and literally ask yourself

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right now, where do you feel the most calm? Like, how does your

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space feel? And where is it you feel good? How can you cultivate more of

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that elsewhere in your house? Right? You just kinda get an overall feel of what

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you need. But, also, what would help you the most? If you could just pick

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one little thing? For me, a recent one I did is I organized the

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medicine cabinet above my sink in my bathroom and underneath,

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and it has stayed organized for so long. And it just took me, like, a

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few hours on one Saturday, and I've been able to keep it. And it is

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so nice. I just feel like every day now because I need to get ready

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every day. Right? And so it just feels so much better.

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So for you, what would be a little thing like that where it's like, okay.

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This would take like 1 Saturday or 1 Thursday. I mean it's summer

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whenever 1 afternoon for me to get this done so pick little things

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Focus on the little ones rather than I'm gonna organize my whole house. And you

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can make a plan to, like, do more of it if you want, of course,

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but just really try to think about it so you can make a more clear

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plan, which we're going to do on part 2 of this. But just try

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not try to just focus first. Prioritize. Like, what is it that's going to

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help you feel rejuvenated in your life the most? Okay. And

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then the final question I have for you, and this is just an in general

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one. I just feel like summer is a really good time to focus on this,

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is how much time do you tend to like, and during the

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school year. Because then maybe, like, during the summer, you can work on this so

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you can then bring it into next school year. So during last school year, how

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much time did you get in touch with what you were thinking and feeling? Like,

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you realized what you're thinking, realized what you're thinking instead of,

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just going through the motions and being in it and not noticing what you're thinking

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and feeling. Just being in it. Now all of us spend

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some time in both. Most of us naturally spend more time just

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going with it and not even noticing necessarily what our current thoughts and feelings are.

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We're just in it. Right? So what we want to work on, what really helps

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us to even become our own life coach is to become that observer, to step

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out and look at what is it I'm thinking, what is it I'm feeling.

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So I want you to just think how much time were you able to do

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that versus just being in it. Just kinda think about that, and then think

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about what would you like to get to? What is a realistic way that you'd

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like to move that up more time in the noticing what you're thinking and feeling?

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How much improvement would you like to see in that area?

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Okay. So to kind of recap that whole section of rejuvenation, we want to rejuvenate

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our mind rejuvenate our body, and rejuvenate our space. And they

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just asked you a whole bunch of questions you can think of, which you can

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definitely refer back to in the show notes. And the last part is

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the educate portion. And educate also goes with

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learning, like, getting your own education about how to better

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educate or how to do the things I mentioned. If you're like, well, I don't

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even know how to observe my mind and how I'm feeling. Like, you might need

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to do some learning about that. Right? You might want to

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listen back onto a bunch of the past episodes on this podcast feed while you

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have more time during the summer or while you're doing all your things, while you're

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doing your travels or whatever. Save some of the episodes here on the fee on

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this podcast feed. There are so many that will help you do just that. You

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might wanna take some time to learn stress or time management tools that will help

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you create good habits now during the summer that you can take with you

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into the next school year. And we'll talk about the how on that more on

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part 2. Today, I really just want you to think about what is it that

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you need the most in that aspect. Do you need to get do you need

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to understand, like, how your thoughts impact your life more? Do you need do you

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feel like you get that, but you need to get more connected with processing your

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feelings and all of that? Just think about what it is that you need.

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And then another part we wanna focus on, like I've I have touched on

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before, is to what is it you wanna do or learn to up level

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your teaching next year? If there's one thing you could improve in your teaching next

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year, what would that be? Is there something that actually makes you eager

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and excited to learn to get back to the classroom? Are you like, I would

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love to learn more about, like, STEM or STEAM activities I can incorporate into my

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classroom, or I really wanna learn some cool new ways to organize things, like

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the little hacks and tips and tricks, or I want some new

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column response or different things to improve classroom management, or

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I wanna learn how to do the science of reading, or I wanna find a

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new homeschool curriculum that's more fun. Like, whatever it is

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that could up level your experience next school year, what is it you could do?

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Kind of that gift to your future self who's going back to teaching next year?

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And what would could you do to reignite that spark back, to make you excited,

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to get back into the test lab of, oh, yeah. I learned these things. Now

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I need to get back into where I'm teaching where I can actually try out

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these things. Kinda takes you back into, again, like we mentioned, that youthful, that

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newer teacher energy, no matter how long we've been teaching because we're still trying something

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new because we aren't made to remain stagnant where we

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are. As teachers, we are lifelong learners. We always want to keep

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learning and growing and improving our skills as

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teachers, improving our skills in taking care of

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ourselves and understanding our mindset and our

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feelings, and we also want to follow our dreams.

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If there's any other spark in you, such as, like, a hobby or a desire

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for a side hustle or something you used to do that you haven't been

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making the time for anymore, that you've been like, any of those things is

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like I wanna do that someday consider the summer is now

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the time the answer could be yes or it could be no. You're the one

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who knows, not me. But just consider, is it the time to do

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whatever that little thing is that's been on your heart? And if so, could this

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summer be a good time to carve out some time for that dream you've been

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having? Even just a little bit of time, and only you know the answer to

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that question. So the education session section of this. Again,

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we want to learn different ways to deal with our stress, to manage our

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time during the summer so we could take that with us into the school year.

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We also wanna figure out different teaching strategies or things we want to

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learn to help us up level our teaching so we have something we're excited to

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try in the coming school year, and make time for whatever other personal

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passion we might have too. So recap of the whole thing. Basically, we

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want to find that balance of educating and rejuvenating. And for this one,

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for the summer, I actually reversed it. We did rejuvenation and then some

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education too. But, again, we don't wanna completely forget that education piece, and I talk

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a little bit more about why in part 2. So definitely make sure you

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check back here. Make sure you're subscribed so you don't miss part 2.

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But what we talked about today, we talked about rejuvenating yourself. You're

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and that's like your mind, your body, your emotions, rejuvenating

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your space, educating yourself on stress relief tools,

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time management, planning ahead for the next school year,

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up leveling professionally, following your dreams, and

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really just seeking the answers to those questions for you

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and journaling on them. Really recommend journaling on them if you have it. And I

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would love to hear about your experience if you do. Like, please DM me on

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educating rejuvenate on Instagram. Just last night, we were able to switch the

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name. So excited about that. In case we missed it, for some

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reason, this is your first episode. We just rebranded from wife, teacher, mommy

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to educate and rejuvenate the podcast. So super excited about well, not just the

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podcast, but the whole brand. Exciting Exciting stuff.

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Today, we've gotten more clear on what you want this summer. Or maybe you're not

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quite yet. Maybe you're like, oh, wait. My head is spinning from all those questions.

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That's why you've got at least a few days till the next one airs. And,

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again, this is a podcast. You can take whatever time you need even if both

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episodes are live. The show notes page is on the website. It has all those

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questions listed if you wanna refer back to them. Now in the

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next part, we're going to talk about how will you not make sure to neglect

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any of these areas and make sure you get it all done. We're talking about

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all of that in part 2 of this series dropping on Friday. So

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really today, like I mentioned in the first episode, once we rebranded of

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just a few episodes ago though, to educate and rejuvenate the podcast, I

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have my 3 step coaching framework, which is where we observe ourselves, then we

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choose our direction, and then we align ourselves with that direction. And so today, we

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really focused a lot on observing yourself with those questions and choosing your

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direction kind of what it is you want. And then next time we're gonna talk

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about like, okay, let's align ourselves. Let's make sure we get to where we want

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to go. So, really excited for step 2. Make sure you're

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subscribed so you don't miss it. Today, this week marks the start of my

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summer episodes, which for the 3rd year in a row, I'm doing 2 in a

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week now through my book release in August. Super excited to

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be here in your earbuds as your life coach twice a week, helping

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you have your best summer yet. So subscribe so you continue to

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get this content to keep you on the right track for where you want to

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be this summer. Now if you enjoyed this episode or

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any episode, the podcast in general, I would love for you to email us

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Podcasts. So I would love, love, love if you would go to Apple Podcasts

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that you can use on anything. And if you don't already have access to educate

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and rejuvenate, if you're not in the educate and rejuvenate club or already reserved your

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grabbing a ticket to educate and rejuvenate. Because if you liked what you heard on

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this podcast, if you're still listening, like, the goal of educate and rejuvenate

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is quite literally to help you educate and rejuvenate. The event was the

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first thing to have that name for 2 years before we even renamed the whole

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brand. So at the event, you're going to get everything you'd expect at, like, a

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professional development conference for teachers with all the different sessions

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on topics like steam and reading and writing

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and math and science and all the things. But you're also

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going to get life coaching and yoga and a wild dance

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class and a curated course for me all

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about diving deeper into my 3 step framework where where you'll get to work with

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me and live life coaching and so so much. It's very

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professional development meets personal development, And we have a full teacher track. We

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have a homeschool homeschool track too. So no matter whether you're a

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teacher or a homeschool parent, we've got stuff for you. I'm a former teacher, current

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homeschool mom, traditional classroom,

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other kitchen table, online, you name it. Here to in a traditional classroom, other kitchen

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table, online, you name it. Here to support you, we all have that same

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common goal of helping kids thrive and learn and grow.

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So I would love for you to use that $5 coupon you get for leaving

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review on the podcast on your educate and rejuvenate ticket. If you already have a

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ticket or you're a member, you can apply that $5 coupon to your next,

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renewal for the club or use it in our shop or for

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an upgrade or to join the club if you'd like. We We can even get

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you in the back door. It's closed right now, but if you leave a review

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and we give you the coupon and you wanna join, we'll get you in. So

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coming to the event is really going to help you implement everything you've learned here,

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so would love to see you there. But until then, make sure you don't miss

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part 2 of this series, and we'll talk then.

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Hungry for more, be sure to check out the book that I wrote. It's called

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Educate and Rejuvenate, a 3 step guide to revitalize your teaching,

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renew your spirit, and reignite your passion for for life. It is

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scheduled to be released in the summer of 2024. This book takes

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all the life coaching skills we talk about here on the podcast and puts them

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together in one easy to understand guide. Plus, when you pre order, you'll

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receive a PDF workbook and additional resources to deepen your

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understanding and application of the concepts we've covered on the book and on

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this podcast. You won't find these resources anywhere else.

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Visit the link in the show notes to join the wait list and be the

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first to know when the book becomes available for pre order. Let's continue

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this journey of growth and rejuvenation together. Until next time.