Hey everybody. This is Ann J here, the host of the NJ podcast. And this is motivational Mondays, everybody. This is part of the everyday series where we share a motivation concepts and ideas in order for us to get a week, start off on a clear on the right foot. I believe that Monday is the best day of the week because it allows us to focus reenergize. Intention to go out there and crush our goals all day, every day or every day. Okay. And today's episode, I'd like to talk to you about getting clear on your values, getting clear on your values, right? The doc, the great, uh, Dr. John Demartini said you live according to your highest values. You live according to your highest values. This was set by the great human, uh, behavioral experts. Dr. John Demartini. He always starts his lectures by talking about the hierarchy of value so people can get killed on the base. Everybody has. Things that are most important to him and things that are least important to them and everything in between. There is a hierarchy to them since we use the left hemisphere of our brain. And we like to put things in Sarah autumn, the values that are highest on our list are the ones in which we tend to focus on the less important of values cause us to ProQuest. Your true source of success and inspiration and motivation on as Monday comes from realizing what your highest values are. Your hierarchy, your values are determined by your space and a space. How do you feel your personal. If your space is filled by business and management books, like my cool dad's a space was that your chances are that you place a high value on business and education. If you fill your space with clothes and shoes, like my great sister, then perhaps you place high value on beauty and fashion, your space as an indication of your highest values. The next indicator of your values is your time, your time. What do you do with your time? If you spend most of your time reading and learning, you set the high value on education and himself improvement. If you're always playing video games and watching television attach a high value to its attainment, the area in which you spend most of the time is an indication of what you value the most. The next value determine it. Where do you spend your money? You snuggle nog champ helped Manny. Where do you spend most of your money? If you outlay most of your money on your children and friends, perhaps you highly value your family and social connection. Assess your expenditures. It will indicate what your highest values are. Next five determinants, the pre-teen carrying your values to understand is your attitude, you energy. Where do you direct most of your energy? If you spend your energy on building relationships with the children, you press the hygiene on your children and fabric. If you direct most of your energy to building a business, you may highly value wealth creation or entrepreneur. How do you spend your money is a big indication of where your highest values lie. Next value determinant. Is your thoughts, your thoughts? What do you think about most of the day? If it's the trendiest gym programs and how to get fitter, you're prioritizing your physical health, wildness and appearance. If you think about spirituality and prayer nuts, you're probably value spirituality. What you constantly think about is an indication of your highest values. The next five to 10 minutes is you achieve vision, your dream vision. What do you visualize the month? If you constantly see yourself studying and teaching, you're setting a high value on education and improving your mind. If you imagine yourself constantly making profits chances, are you highly value, money or finances? Your current dream vision is an indication of your highest values. The next five to 10 minutes is. Your words, what do you practically talk about when you chat to others? What do you discuss? If you talk politics mainly you high-value that topic. If you speak mostly about your children, you probably rate them highly on your hierarchy of values. Your words are a strong indication of your highest. By looking at how you feel your space, what you do with your time, how you spend your money, what you think about all day, every day, what your dream vision is and what you speak about, you will get a good feel for your highest values. They may fall within the categories are go with the following categories. Let's let's talk about them. So your values may, may be spiritual. Spiritual is spirituality and relate to elements such as church, prayer and meditation. Intellectual ones, intellectual focus. You may value your mind. You entered it in your daily work daily work. What about relational, your social, social connections and relationships such as your family, friends, colleagues, and acquaintances can be a high value for you. Another value could be your physicality, your physical wellbeing, including exercise, health, wellness, and your physical appearance. What about your emotional wellbeing? Your emotions, wellbeing balancing the emotions that confront us positive or negative love, hope, fear, or despair. Another value, which a lot of people think they have a high value on and some people would certainly most certainly do is your fluence. This is related to your wealth creation, business and finance. Now, once you have an idea of where your highest value. You need to put them in an order and then priority number one, being the most important and number 10, 13, whatever it is that you value being the last one. And then you'll be able to moving towards living in line with your face. And this is how you can understand how you're going to go out there, chief success, better speed. And also you need to take the time to understand not only what your values are and what, what other people's values are because we're frustration in relationships and other people. And expectations comes in as when you're trying to get another person to act contrary to why to the event. Dictate, you cannot get a person that contrary to what the highest values are. They may act that way for a certain period of time, but at the end of the day, it's going to manifest them. It matters Fest itself in ways that you, you cannot even imagine, for example, if a person values. Reading most of the time, and you're trying to get them to, to sing or dance or do something else. That's contrary to them reading you are, they're going to hesitate frustrated. And then you're going to ask yourself why kind McKenna nights get the best out of this person. The reason is is that you don't understand what drives them, what drives them? What is, what is the most important to them? For example, If you want to communicate to another person and you know, that the has value is let's say beauty and fashion in order for you to hold the conversation with that person, go in there and understand, speak about topics about beauty and fashion, and then there'll be much more interested in you and you'll be able to hold a conversation that deep with them. And then if you are in the work of workspace and you know, your, your colleagues or your managers, Uh, values or certain wealth practice or, uh, meetings held at a certain time of the day or the like token about a certain technology. And you speak about that, that, which is high supplied to them. You build that rapport with them, you build that relationship with them and for you at a personal level for you to stop being angry and angry and aggressive and frustrated, and just, you know, uh, titled there is to understand what really drives you so that you can. What you feel is not aligned with the house values and try understand how what you're doing is going to thank you to you. Hi space. I heard a story of a kid who didn't want to, who didn't want to do maths, right? You hate it. Do much to match those failings of the mathematical subjects. And then it was found out that this, that this. Really loved football, really love football, like really loves football. It has everything to do with football. And then once you've got to get the child actually understand it, understood what football will do, what maths can help them understand football better. And then he's got his case increased because in football, you've got the numbers, you've got the metrics. You've got the, the stadium, you've got the number of the fans, the salad. But the timing you've got the statistics and all these numbers that are related to maths and hence math became a good update, a subject for them. And so that's why you should really understand what it is that you truly value so that you can match what you do on your job, what you do on your business, what you do with, uh, the people that are around you and how they live to your, to your highest values, but ensemble, if you value. Making money and building wealth, then you will then, then you're able to link how going to a certain meeting will help you generate that wealth. We'll read. The second book will help you generate that bottle. This is just a certain table. You don't drive to certain location and lie to reach your highest value. Then you're going to be moving more in compliance with your own soul and will stop you from doing things that you hate and doing things that are not in alignment with your highest values or do not link with your highest values. And I would rather have the entire world against you. Then my own soul. So you need to get clear on your values so that you can go out there and live a truly inspired life. And that is what success is. You know, success is living according to your highest values and not because of somebody else's judgments and dogmas, because they cannot tell you how you should live your life. Now I can tell you what it is that you should value because sometimes people don't even know what they value and they might want to project their own limitations and uncertainties on you. No wait, because there's no good way to live. And the best way for you to live is to get clear on your values, align the things that you do on a daily basis with those values. And you're going to have a much more pleasant existence, and a much greater existence. And that's what it's all about. Uh, you'd be much more motivated to go out there and crush this week. I hope that you enjoyed this episode of motivational Mondays, where we talked about getting clear on your values. If you liked this episode, please like share. And subscribe, share with a friend. Let me know what you think. If you're interested in any books and merchandise, please head over to the website. And remember that success is the progressive realization of a worthy ideal. That means you're going after what you've always wanted to go after, because it's in alignment with your highest values. And that is the only way that you can live. Failed and successful life. God, there crush this mandate. Get clear on your values, align the things that you do on a daily basis to your highest values, communicate to people in terms of their values and communicate your values to other people. And you will have a much better existence. You've got the crusher speak, Cynthia, glad they're intentional. And because you're a person who's inspired to live in the, to the highest values you love what Maddie offers because it's a fresh start and I shall see you on the next episode.