1 00:00:00,002 --> 00:00:01,362 I, sorry, bro. 2 00:00:01,362 --> 00:00:03,643 That's just, that's not who I am. 3 00:00:03,643 --> 00:00:07,485 Like that's, that's not how I've gotten to where I am. 4 00:00:07,485 --> 00:00:09,896 And that's not how I built this amazing team. 5 00:00:09,896 --> 00:00:14,208 Like I built an amazing team that looks at the situation and says, you know what? 6 00:00:14,768 --> 00:00:15,929 We can do that. 7 00:00:15,929 --> 00:00:17,391 Yeah, we can do that. 8 00:00:17,748 --> 00:00:25,810 And agile was a major disruptor for me because it started getting me almost every decision I look in the mirror and I'm like, you know, is there a better way to do this? 9 00:00:25,810 --> 00:00:26,891 Or is it different way to do it? 10 00:00:26,891 --> 00:00:34,442 It's should I be talking to someone else to get a better way or a different way or an idea or something like that, anything and to be more open minded. 11 00:00:34,442 --> 00:00:36,145 I would even disagree with myself, 12 00:00:36,145 --> 00:00:37,076 don't get stuck. 13 00:00:37,076 --> 00:00:39,970 It's really it's really a trap for leaders. 14 00:00:40,090 --> 00:00:44,744 there will be people that will be on the outside talking about, that's going to fail. 15 00:00:44,744 --> 00:00:45,804 That's going to be a mess. 16 00:00:45,804 --> 00:00:47,035 that's not going to work. 17 00:00:47,035 --> 00:00:48,496 There's no way that's going to happen. 18 00:00:48,496 --> 00:00:49,247 okay, cool. 19 00:00:49,247 --> 00:00:49,807 That's fine. 20 00:00:49,807 --> 00:00:56,823 You're allowed to think that but that's not going to change the thing that we're doing because we've done everything that Bob just talked about. 21 00:00:56,822 --> 00:00:59,406 So Bob's doing the intro that means I gotta shut up 22 00:00:59,406 --> 00:01:00,707 which is hard for you to do. 23 00:01:06,670 --> 00:01:10,721 Hey, Metacasters, welcome to the cast today. 24 00:01:10,939 --> 00:01:12,252 I'm Bobby G. 25 00:01:12,252 --> 00:01:14,864 Galen, and I wanna introduce our topic. 26 00:01:14,864 --> 00:01:29,451 uh No, uh back in the 80s probably, mid to late 80s, uh I was leading, I was a software engineering manager or director. 27 00:01:29,471 --> 00:01:35,456 and I was studying leadership, probably mostly because I sucked at it, and I was studying everything. 28 00:01:35,456 --> 00:01:37,837 I was looking for role models, et cetera. 29 00:01:37,837 --> 00:01:40,960 And Colin Powell, this was pre-my Agile days. 30 00:01:40,960 --> 00:01:43,962 This was on the cusp of traditional management to Agile. 31 00:01:43,962 --> 00:01:47,685 And I came upon these 18 principles from Colin Powell. 32 00:01:47,685 --> 00:01:56,551 Colin Powell was a general in the military, secretary of state, I think under the Bush, under one of the Bushes, and uh just someone I... 33 00:01:56,659 --> 00:02:01,763 When I read his 18 keys to leadership, uh it really resonated with me. 34 00:02:01,763 --> 00:02:03,084 It provided some wisdom. 35 00:02:03,084 --> 00:02:06,287 uh And it stayed with me not that long ago. 36 00:02:06,287 --> 00:02:07,708 I was flashing back. 37 00:02:07,708 --> 00:02:11,185 So this is what 40 years ago, 40 years ago or so. 38 00:02:11,185 --> 00:02:12,932 And I was looking at the principles again. 39 00:02:12,932 --> 00:02:16,736 It's hard to find them now online or harder to find them. 40 00:02:16,736 --> 00:02:19,097 And they really resonated again. 41 00:02:19,318 --> 00:02:21,479 So I suggested Josh that we share them. 42 00:02:21,479 --> 00:02:26,347 So this is Colin Powell's 18 principles to highly. 43 00:02:26,347 --> 00:02:30,751 effective leadership and we've picked, we've done one of our pick five. 44 00:02:30,932 --> 00:02:35,145 We're going to, so Josh picked his top five, I did, and we're going to run through them. 45 00:02:35,547 --> 00:02:36,816 Yes, we are. 46 00:02:36,816 --> 00:02:37,681 Are you ready? 47 00:02:37,681 --> 00:02:39,693 You want to go first or you want me to go first? 48 00:02:39,693 --> 00:02:42,024 Well, I picked lesson number one. 49 00:02:44,186 --> 00:02:48,549 So being responsible sometimes means pissing people off. 50 00:02:48,890 --> 00:02:51,167 And uh I agree with that. 51 00:02:51,167 --> 00:02:57,959 And I think a lot of leaders, uh they are really reluctant to have crucial conversations. 52 00:02:57,959 --> 00:03:06,062 They're really reluctant to uh speak truth to power, the power being their teams in this case, that they'll obfuscate. 53 00:03:06,062 --> 00:03:07,331 uh 54 00:03:07,331 --> 00:03:12,354 They'll mislead, they'll be too subtle, they won't be clear. 55 00:03:13,214 --> 00:03:19,918 Because they're afraid, oh, I can't aggravate the masses, it'll undermine our roadmap, et cetera, et cetera. 56 00:03:20,819 --> 00:03:23,020 that fear is not leadership. 57 00:03:23,060 --> 00:03:27,222 So the goal of this principle is not to piss people off. 58 00:03:27,222 --> 00:03:32,095 The goal of this, or the point of this principle, is to not be afraid of pissing people off. 59 00:03:32,095 --> 00:03:36,003 To not let that be one of your guiding principles as a leader. 60 00:03:36,003 --> 00:03:46,021 But to be a truth teller, it's, we, think in one of our episodes, we talked about being a truth teller up and out, but this is being a truth teller to your teams, even when the 61 00:03:46,021 --> 00:03:48,052 truth is gonna aggravate them. 62 00:03:48,353 --> 00:04:00,664 And that's something, it just resonates with me so much as to boldly go where, I need to, ah not be afraid of aggravating people, not be afraid of making them angry. 63 00:04:00,664 --> 00:04:05,867 Yeah, I just, so I'm a movie, TV guy, and also a sports guy. 64 00:04:05,867 --> 00:04:09,148 Think of every movie you've ever seen. 65 00:04:09,148 --> 00:04:13,851 Remember the Titans or something like that, where there's a transformational coach. 66 00:04:13,851 --> 00:04:24,426 There's somebody that comes in to a team, takes that team from what they were to what they could be, and recognize all of the times. 67 00:04:24,426 --> 00:04:33,760 when that leader that that person says something that that group doesn't like, but it's something the group needs to hear for that group to achieve whatever they're trying to get 68 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:34,360 done. 69 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:45,324 Every movie, every story, every book, everything, where there's a transformation requires that because you're just going to keep doing the same thing. 70 00:04:45,688 --> 00:04:50,608 and you get stuck in this rut and you're oh man, I wish we would be better, I wish we would be better, but you don't want to do the hard thing. 71 00:04:50,608 --> 00:04:56,208 So then someone has to come in and make you do the hard thing to evolve and transform. 72 00:04:56,208 --> 00:05:02,048 And it often requires saying things that people might not want to hear, but that's the job. 73 00:05:02,248 --> 00:05:04,683 So I would million percent agree. 74 00:05:04,683 --> 00:05:05,524 Absolutely. 75 00:05:05,524 --> 00:05:09,645 Real quickly about a Kestrel, it's not just what you say, it's what you do as well. 76 00:05:09,765 --> 00:05:21,468 So let's say uh Josh is a software manager reporting to me and I'm the CTO of a company and I want to uh promote Josh and no one in the company likes Josh. 77 00:05:21,468 --> 00:05:24,659 And this is farfetched, but no one in the company likes Josh. 78 00:05:24,659 --> 00:05:27,110 Everyone thinks he's a Moronsky. 79 00:05:27,110 --> 00:05:33,246 And when I announced his promotion and I announced my rationale for it, 80 00:05:33,246 --> 00:05:38,139 my reasons before and I'm setting him up for success, but no one agrees with me. 81 00:05:38,139 --> 00:05:45,884 And I know that in advance because I know Josh, but I know that in advance, but I go through with it because he's the right guy. 82 00:05:45,884 --> 00:05:47,845 He's the right guy and I believe in him. 83 00:05:47,845 --> 00:05:50,646 again, it's what you say and then what you do. 84 00:05:50,646 --> 00:05:53,598 ah What you do is gonna piss people off. 85 00:05:53,598 --> 00:05:55,609 You stick to your guns. 86 00:05:55,609 --> 00:06:00,396 ah What's the next number in order, Josh? 87 00:06:00,396 --> 00:06:01,276 So I'm going to cheat. 88 00:06:01,276 --> 00:06:03,319 think, I think you'll label this as cheating. 89 00:06:03,319 --> 00:06:05,362 I am going to do a combo platter. 90 00:06:05,362 --> 00:06:10,958 I'm going to do number three and number four together because I believe they kind of work together. 91 00:06:10,958 --> 00:06:12,910 They're kind of hand in hand. 92 00:06:12,910 --> 00:06:17,194 So number three is don't be buffaloed by experts and elites. 93 00:06:17,255 --> 00:06:22,770 Experts often possess more data than judgment and the elites become so inbred that they're 94 00:06:22,902 --> 00:06:27,915 that they produce hemophiliacs who bleed to death as soon as they are nicked by the real world. 95 00:06:27,915 --> 00:06:32,558 And number four is don't be afraid to challenge the pros even in their own backyard. 96 00:06:32,659 --> 00:06:38,483 So I was looking forward to this one because I think about challenging the pros even in their own backyard. 97 00:06:38,483 --> 00:06:42,696 I've been having to wrestle with this Bob Galen guy for 15 years. 98 00:06:42,696 --> 00:06:47,129 So boy, do I believe in this one. 99 00:06:47,129 --> 00:06:52,052 So this is one of those things and we have talked about it a lot about 100 00:06:52,588 --> 00:06:55,309 Don't be afraid to challenge the pros. 101 00:06:55,809 --> 00:07:03,112 The thought leaders air quote that are out there oftentimes haven't done the job. 102 00:07:03,112 --> 00:07:07,034 And so they're pontificating on, hey, here's how it should work. 103 00:07:07,034 --> 00:07:11,446 And then you scratch the surface like, well, I mean, like what happened when you did that? 104 00:07:11,446 --> 00:07:12,366 How did that work? 105 00:07:12,366 --> 00:07:16,548 And it's not, there's not much there like, well, wait a minute, wait a minute. 106 00:07:16,548 --> 00:07:22,326 How, why should I be like hanging on every word that you're typing or sharing or whatever? 107 00:07:22,326 --> 00:07:23,457 And you haven't done the thing. 108 00:07:23,457 --> 00:07:31,544 Now it's good to get those different opinions and viewpoints, but there are no silver bullets. 109 00:07:31,544 --> 00:07:39,390 Don't take anything anybody says, Bob, myself, anybody else that's out there, don't take it as gospel. 110 00:07:39,611 --> 00:07:41,033 You cannot. 111 00:07:41,033 --> 00:07:49,780 We might be considered experts or pros, but don't just take what we've done and copy and paste it into your life because your life is not the life that we... 112 00:07:49,780 --> 00:07:59,517 live that we're sharing our stories from Spotify is one of those major things I, you know, if you've been around the podcast for a while, you know that I like the things that 113 00:07:59,517 --> 00:08:00,298 Spotify did. 114 00:08:00,298 --> 00:08:05,181 And in our area, I kicked off and started doing a bunch of Spotify stuff. 115 00:08:05,181 --> 00:08:13,837 And then I turned around and like I saw all these job postings for chapter leads and all these different spot of my things like, wait a minute, what are you people doing? 116 00:08:13,837 --> 00:08:14,778 You know? 117 00:08:14,778 --> 00:08:17,666 So yeah, it's just be careful. 118 00:08:17,666 --> 00:08:20,812 Take everything with a grain of salt, including this podcast. 119 00:08:20,812 --> 00:08:21,814 Absolutely. 120 00:08:21,814 --> 00:08:24,318 I was going to add to that everyone. 121 00:08:24,318 --> 00:08:31,505 It's not just uh how recently have they done it is another variation. 122 00:08:31,505 --> 00:08:35,588 So I haven't written software in 20 years. 123 00:08:35,588 --> 00:08:39,352 That's just real software. 124 00:08:39,352 --> 00:08:41,393 I've dabbled, but real software. 125 00:08:41,393 --> 00:08:47,218 So you do not want to listen to me for design techniques. 126 00:08:47,342 --> 00:08:48,993 or design trade-offs. 127 00:08:48,993 --> 00:08:52,766 mean, higher level things perhaps, guidelines, et cetera. 128 00:08:52,766 --> 00:08:56,047 But again, it's always asked people, did you do it? 129 00:08:56,047 --> 00:08:59,429 And when was the last time you did it? 130 00:08:59,429 --> 00:09:01,260 So just when was the last time you did it? 131 00:09:01,260 --> 00:09:06,193 And did you really lead it or were you part of a 100 person team that did something? 132 00:09:08,495 --> 00:09:14,408 And you did one line of code before you left in your one day of work or something like that. 133 00:09:14,794 --> 00:09:17,768 ah Lesson number six, Josh, is my next one. 134 00:09:17,768 --> 00:09:19,605 Ooh, that was my next one too. 135 00:09:19,676 --> 00:09:20,727 All right, we'll do it. 136 00:09:20,727 --> 00:09:21,948 We'll do a match on this. 137 00:09:21,948 --> 00:09:24,699 You don't know what you can get away with until you try. 138 00:09:24,699 --> 00:09:31,374 And there's there's an old technique, Metacaster is called or an old thought called managers discretion. 139 00:09:31,374 --> 00:09:40,380 I don't know if it's still valid, but as I was growing up in the 80s, 90s, 2000s, 2010s, even there was uh HR departments and leadership teams. 140 00:09:40,380 --> 00:09:45,403 We talked about there was an intangible wiggle room where managers had discretion. 141 00:09:45,403 --> 00:09:49,532 Like I could buy something and I may or may not have the budget for it. 142 00:09:49,532 --> 00:09:51,914 And then I asked for forgiveness, right? 143 00:09:51,914 --> 00:09:54,405 I do something and then I asked for forgiveness. 144 00:09:54,425 --> 00:09:58,248 And that's the thing here. 145 00:09:58,248 --> 00:10:01,270 I think as leaders, we want to be on that hairy edge. 146 00:10:01,270 --> 00:10:04,262 ah We don't want to be creating insubordination. 147 00:10:04,262 --> 00:10:08,135 We don't want to be totally jerking our leaders around. 148 00:10:08,135 --> 00:10:10,816 But we want to be supporting the mission. 149 00:10:11,017 --> 00:10:16,161 And we want to be stretching the things that our teams need. 150 00:10:16,161 --> 00:10:18,728 And I don't see enough boldness in leaders today. 151 00:10:18,728 --> 00:10:19,378 I haven't seen it. 152 00:10:19,378 --> 00:10:21,359 I haven't seen it ever in leaders. 153 00:10:21,359 --> 00:10:24,010 This manager, I used to lean into management discretion. 154 00:10:24,010 --> 00:10:28,521 So I used to get, you know, just put up against the wall. 155 00:10:28,521 --> 00:10:31,218 It was like, well, I used my discretion. 156 00:10:31,218 --> 00:10:32,742 I used my judgment. 157 00:10:32,742 --> 00:10:33,658 What? 158 00:10:33,658 --> 00:10:35,403 You're not supposed to do that. 159 00:10:35,403 --> 00:10:37,904 ah And then I took the licking. 160 00:10:37,904 --> 00:10:39,414 But I was supporting the mission. 161 00:10:39,414 --> 00:10:41,745 I was supporting the the project. 162 00:10:41,745 --> 00:10:43,716 I was supporting the business, if you will. 163 00:10:43,716 --> 00:10:44,636 Josh. 164 00:10:44,674 --> 00:10:50,336 Yeah, this was a lesson that I learned from Gonzalo Hidalgo at Teradata. 165 00:10:50,336 --> 00:11:05,140 So Bob and I both worked with and for him and we didn't always agree with him, but Gonzalo was really good at understanding the rules and playing within them, but stretching them. 166 00:11:05,140 --> 00:11:08,471 And that was an eye opener for me. 167 00:11:08,471 --> 00:11:09,822 So he understood the protocols. 168 00:11:09,822 --> 00:11:11,340 He understood 169 00:11:11,340 --> 00:11:17,975 how to do the things, but he also understood that how we choose to execute under the covers, that's up to us. 170 00:11:17,975 --> 00:11:26,701 And we are the ones that are closest to the problem and we can figure out the best way to unlock our team and their capabilities. 171 00:11:26,701 --> 00:11:30,113 And you can't just be, again, a carbon copy. 172 00:11:30,113 --> 00:11:39,754 And so as I saw him do that, it was an eye opener because we had some real struggles with hiring, because we worked at a big company and they had all these procedures and... 173 00:11:39,754 --> 00:11:42,936 all these levels before a resume would show up on a manager's desk. 174 00:11:42,936 --> 00:11:51,462 So he figured out a way to work around that and get people that he could find in quickly and making a difference and work them through the system. 175 00:11:51,462 --> 00:11:53,544 And that was an eye opener for me. 176 00:11:53,544 --> 00:12:04,422 So I've, again, looked at that very, very similar to what Bob said is you, you you understand the things you have to do and then you understand the ways you can work around 177 00:12:04,422 --> 00:12:08,150 them or through them and be comfortable. 178 00:12:08,150 --> 00:12:10,791 you know, the number of times I said, Hey, we're going to do this. 179 00:12:10,811 --> 00:12:13,101 And like a member of my team, like, can we do that? 180 00:12:13,101 --> 00:12:17,163 Like, has anybody said we can't, you like there's nothing that says we can't do it. 181 00:12:17,163 --> 00:12:18,743 We're just choosing to do it differently. 182 00:12:18,743 --> 00:12:22,354 Like there's no, we don't have to, we only have to do this. 183 00:12:22,354 --> 00:12:36,808 You know, one of the things that was a pretty large moment was when we chose to change the way that we figured out a bonus and the, and the company, all I had to do as a leader was 184 00:12:36,808 --> 00:12:44,251 send an Excel file to HR of every person on my team and what the bonus was that they were going to get. 185 00:12:44,251 --> 00:12:47,191 There was no edict on how I calculated that. 186 00:12:47,751 --> 00:12:57,444 And so we chose to discuss it as a team and allocate it to ourselves as a team and take that a person was like, well, you know, we're to get in trouble. 187 00:12:57,444 --> 00:12:58,975 Like, what are we going to get in trouble for? 188 00:12:58,975 --> 00:12:59,735 We're not going to get there. 189 00:12:59,735 --> 00:13:02,181 Like we are doing the thing we've been asked to do. 190 00:13:02,181 --> 00:13:04,316 We've been given a bucket of money. 191 00:13:04,316 --> 00:13:07,730 And it's my responsibility to allocate it amongst this group. 192 00:13:07,730 --> 00:13:11,365 And as long as the number adds up to the number that I have, I'm good. 193 00:13:11,365 --> 00:13:12,096 It doesn't matter. 194 00:13:12,096 --> 00:13:14,119 We can choose to operate however we want. 195 00:13:14,119 --> 00:13:14,945 Okay. 196 00:13:15,173 --> 00:13:19,273 You are a bold man. 197 00:13:19,473 --> 00:13:23,713 I like listening to your Challenge HR stories, Josh. 198 00:13:23,713 --> 00:13:24,473 I do. 199 00:13:24,473 --> 00:13:26,293 It warms my heart. 200 00:13:27,373 --> 00:13:29,977 My next number's 13, so do you have anything? 201 00:13:29,977 --> 00:13:31,297 I have two before that. 202 00:13:31,297 --> 00:13:32,918 I get to double dip here. 203 00:13:33,399 --> 00:13:35,649 So this will align with that. 204 00:13:35,649 --> 00:13:39,301 Number 11, fit no stereotypes. 205 00:13:39,301 --> 00:13:41,452 Don't chase the latest management fads. 206 00:13:41,452 --> 00:13:46,364 The situation dictates which approach best accomplishes the team's mission. 207 00:13:46,744 --> 00:13:53,067 So you may have heard me say some words that sounds like this is the thing that I'm pretty passionate about. 208 00:13:53,067 --> 00:13:58,109 um This has really been a driver. 209 00:13:58,119 --> 00:14:13,977 for me because of my anti-mentor approach or anti-mentor history that I had where I never had this pattern or practice laid in front of me that I believed in that I knew worked. 210 00:14:14,117 --> 00:14:19,430 I never had a blueprint, a roadmap for this is what being a great leader looks like. 211 00:14:19,430 --> 00:14:22,531 So I just felt like I had to figure it out. 212 00:14:22,587 --> 00:14:32,982 And I leaned on my agile background and I just started trying things and discarding them if they didn't work, trying them quickly, failing fast, failing, like all of those things 213 00:14:33,203 --> 00:14:38,026 so that I could find the thing that worked because I didn't know what the answer was. 214 00:14:38,026 --> 00:14:44,229 So I felt my only path out of this was, Hey, let's just try stuff and see what works. 215 00:14:44,229 --> 00:14:49,044 And that often meant doing things that people weren't really thinking about. 216 00:14:49,044 --> 00:14:51,533 In fact, agile was one of those things. 217 00:14:51,709 --> 00:14:53,749 one of the teams I was working with. 218 00:14:53,889 --> 00:14:56,309 We just didn't like the way things were going. 219 00:14:56,309 --> 00:14:57,509 So we started changing stuff. 220 00:14:57,509 --> 00:14:59,489 We started doing things differently. 221 00:14:59,489 --> 00:15:01,989 And we had been doing this for close to a year. 222 00:15:01,989 --> 00:15:07,569 And then one of my lead, lead devs, sent me a message like, Hey, here's a link to this web page. 223 00:15:07,569 --> 00:15:09,509 And there's this thing called agile. 224 00:15:09,609 --> 00:15:11,949 And I think we're doing it. 225 00:15:11,949 --> 00:15:15,469 And that and so that wasn't unlocked for us like, holy cow, there's other people doing this. 226 00:15:15,469 --> 00:15:16,589 That's so exciting. 227 00:15:16,589 --> 00:15:20,785 But we wouldn't have gotten there if we weren't willing to 228 00:15:20,785 --> 00:15:22,831 Just try and do something different. 229 00:15:22,831 --> 00:15:28,136 Try and find the thing that works and not accept that what you're doing now isn't working. 230 00:15:28,136 --> 00:15:28,754 All right, Bob. 231 00:15:28,754 --> 00:15:40,653 of the biggest dangers for leaders is you fall into a sense of comfort with your ways of doing work, ah with your strategies, with your tactics, with your habits. 232 00:15:40,653 --> 00:15:45,497 ah I try to challenge myself. 233 00:15:45,497 --> 00:15:46,497 I don't do it enough. 234 00:15:46,497 --> 00:15:52,141 I've learned over the years, decades, to do it more and more because I'm a comfort zone guy. 235 00:15:52,141 --> 00:15:54,323 So historically, I'm a comfort zone guy. 236 00:15:54,323 --> 00:15:56,194 If it works, then it works. 237 00:15:56,324 --> 00:15:58,566 I can easily fall into a habit. 238 00:15:58,566 --> 00:16:07,068 And agile was a major disruptor for me because it started getting me almost every decision I look in the mirror and I'm like, you know, is there a better way to do this? 239 00:16:07,068 --> 00:16:08,149 Or is it different way to do it? 240 00:16:08,149 --> 00:16:15,700 It's should I be talking to someone else to get a better way or a different way or an idea or something like that, anything and to be more open minded. 241 00:16:15,700 --> 00:16:18,092 I would even disagree with myself, right? 242 00:16:18,092 --> 00:16:20,964 Overnight I think of a different, ah, that was wrong. 243 00:16:20,964 --> 00:16:22,446 That's two sides. 244 00:16:22,446 --> 00:16:25,924 I'll wake up the next day and I'm like 180. 245 00:16:25,924 --> 00:16:28,066 this degree is spun on it. 246 00:16:28,066 --> 00:16:30,259 But it's that it's that don't get stuck. 247 00:16:30,259 --> 00:16:33,152 It's really it's really a trap for leaders. 248 00:16:33,152 --> 00:16:37,617 ah It's been a trap for me and I'm still I'm still a work in progress when it comes to that. 249 00:16:37,617 --> 00:16:39,378 So Josh is right on. 250 00:16:39,419 --> 00:16:40,668 Do you have 12, Josh? 251 00:16:40,668 --> 00:16:42,148 do have 12. 252 00:16:42,168 --> 00:16:47,110 So I have number 12, which is perpetual optimism as a force multiplier. 253 00:16:47,350 --> 00:16:49,310 I know. 254 00:16:50,081 --> 00:16:50,951 we're to talk about that. 255 00:16:50,951 --> 00:16:53,622 Yeah. 256 00:16:53,622 --> 00:16:56,052 So this was something that smacked me in the face. 257 00:16:56,052 --> 00:17:08,216 So I was working for a CTO, you know, uh 10, 12 years ago, and I was the VP of software engineering and we had a V VP of it and we were in there and we were talking about 258 00:17:08,216 --> 00:17:10,016 something and 259 00:17:10,332 --> 00:17:12,213 the CTO like pounded the desk. 260 00:17:12,213 --> 00:17:19,136 He's like, I cannot live in a world where my leader of software engineering is an optimist. 261 00:17:19,176 --> 00:17:21,427 That is just not gonna work. 262 00:17:21,427 --> 00:17:23,338 I need you to be a pessimist. 263 00:17:23,338 --> 00:17:27,980 I need you to think the world's gonna end and like be defensive about everything. 264 00:17:27,980 --> 00:17:29,340 I, sorry, bro. 265 00:17:29,340 --> 00:17:31,621 That's just, that's not who I am. 266 00:17:31,621 --> 00:17:35,943 Like that's, that's not how I've gotten to where I am. 267 00:17:35,943 --> 00:17:38,354 And that's not how I built this amazing team. 268 00:17:38,354 --> 00:17:42,666 Like I built an amazing team that looks at the situation and says, you know what? 269 00:17:43,226 --> 00:17:44,387 We can do that. 270 00:17:44,387 --> 00:17:45,847 Yeah, we can do that. 271 00:17:45,847 --> 00:17:53,681 Now, I of course wrapped processes and communication protocols around that so that we weren't over promising, right? 272 00:17:53,681 --> 00:17:55,252 That was something that we didn't do. 273 00:17:55,252 --> 00:18:01,474 There's a difference between over promising and getting yourself in trouble with publishing dates and being an optimist, right? 274 00:18:01,474 --> 00:18:05,498 You have to believe that you can do a thing because... 275 00:18:05,498 --> 00:18:14,978 One of my favorite things that I tell my kids all the time that I know they are absolutely sick of is whether you think you can, whether you think you can't, you're right. 276 00:18:15,159 --> 00:18:19,343 So I try and lean into we can and we're gonna figure it out. 277 00:18:19,343 --> 00:18:27,493 So that is one of those things that just to me is wired into who I am and will be wired into the teams that I build forever. 278 00:18:27,493 --> 00:18:29,635 I mean, uh I can't agree more, Josh. 279 00:18:29,635 --> 00:18:31,653 I'm a can-do kind of guy. 280 00:18:31,653 --> 00:18:33,078 I mean, I've always been... 281 00:18:33,078 --> 00:18:44,998 uh You remember that story where the first time I did public speaking, I paired with someone at a conference in San Diego, and uh the author of the thing we were speaking 282 00:18:44,998 --> 00:18:47,151 about was sitting in the front row. 283 00:18:47,151 --> 00:18:48,531 was like God. 284 00:18:48,531 --> 00:18:53,615 uh sort of Eric and I did the talk. 285 00:18:53,615 --> 00:18:54,806 I don't even remember it. 286 00:18:54,806 --> 00:18:56,211 I think I brain dead. 287 00:18:56,211 --> 00:18:56,791 Yeah. 288 00:18:56,791 --> 00:18:57,222 time. 289 00:18:57,222 --> 00:19:00,903 Seriously, I don't remember what happened or anything. 290 00:19:00,964 --> 00:19:02,936 Eric has never spoken in public again. 291 00:19:02,936 --> 00:19:03,766 He was scarred. 292 00:19:03,766 --> 00:19:08,269 was he was physically damaged as a result. 293 00:19:08,269 --> 00:19:11,011 And I took that as I can do that. 294 00:19:11,051 --> 00:19:13,192 It's a it's a challenge to me. 295 00:19:13,193 --> 00:19:14,904 It's it's and it's a big challenge. 296 00:19:14,904 --> 00:19:18,486 The bigger the challenge of writing a book was another child. 297 00:19:18,486 --> 00:19:19,937 My writing sucked. 298 00:19:19,937 --> 00:19:22,079 And my first book, I challenged myself. 299 00:19:22,079 --> 00:19:26,001 I I I think that can do spirit. 300 00:19:26,501 --> 00:19:28,593 uh, permeates my leadership journey. 301 00:19:28,593 --> 00:19:30,184 It's done me a good service. 302 00:19:30,184 --> 00:19:35,797 And I think anyone that I've seen with can do spirits versus can't do spirits, they can do is Trump. 303 00:19:35,797 --> 00:19:39,290 can't do's, unless the can't do's are in QA. 304 00:19:39,290 --> 00:19:39,920 was a joke. 305 00:19:39,920 --> 00:19:47,455 Everyone, you want, you want can't do's in QA. 306 00:19:47,455 --> 00:19:48,481 I've just, I'm just kidding. 307 00:19:48,481 --> 00:19:49,577 I'm just kidding. 308 00:19:49,577 --> 00:19:53,859 I have 13 and it's pals rules for picking people. 309 00:19:54,280 --> 00:19:56,091 P Peter pumpkin. 310 00:19:56,091 --> 00:20:04,075 picking people, look for intelligence and judgment and most critically a capacity to anticipate, to see around corners. 311 00:20:04,075 --> 00:20:11,271 Also look for loyalty, integrity, a high energy drive, a balanced ego and the drive to get things done. 312 00:20:11,271 --> 00:20:18,856 I don't know if I'm, if all of them are equal in my mind, like get think, getting things done is a high power, but they're all soft skills, metacasters. 313 00:20:18,856 --> 00:20:25,851 And the point I was going to make is we very often, we look at hard skills for people and I think hard skills are more trainable. 314 00:20:25,851 --> 00:20:29,403 We need you need training trainable folks for hard skills. 315 00:20:29,403 --> 00:20:36,187 But these soft skills, these character skills, these character attributes, which is what he's talking about. 316 00:20:36,187 --> 00:20:39,989 Like someone who can look around corners is curious. 317 00:20:40,060 --> 00:20:40,790 my gosh. 318 00:20:40,790 --> 00:20:44,732 If you get a few of those folks in your team, that can that can be a godsend. 319 00:20:44,732 --> 00:20:46,894 If everyone is balanced egos. 320 00:20:46,894 --> 00:20:52,857 ah Another way of saying that is you don't you don't hire assholes, but you're you're hiring balanced egos. 321 00:20:52,945 --> 00:20:58,407 I think those are the critical things that I've learned to focus on in building great teams. 322 00:20:58,407 --> 00:21:01,408 ah And it's all about picking people. 323 00:21:01,629 --> 00:21:10,092 The reason I picked it as part of my top five, it's one of the most critical things we do as leaders, as we compose, we orchestrate, we conduct. 324 00:21:11,253 --> 00:21:13,794 We conduct great teams. 325 00:21:13,794 --> 00:21:15,394 That's what we do. 326 00:21:15,394 --> 00:21:16,445 And you have to take that. 327 00:21:16,445 --> 00:21:22,177 I know I'm joking with my metaphor in a silly way, but I'm being absolutely dead serious. 328 00:21:22,223 --> 00:21:29,160 We need to be crisp and clean and visioned about how we put teams together. 329 00:21:29,300 --> 00:21:33,305 There's so many variations there and to be artful about it. 330 00:21:33,305 --> 00:21:34,089 Josh? 331 00:21:34,089 --> 00:21:38,814 Yeah, the challenge there is these are harder to detect. 332 00:21:38,914 --> 00:21:42,728 And so oftentimes people opt out of trying to figure that out. 333 00:21:42,728 --> 00:21:48,365 They look for the easy quicker way out of give me a checklist of technical skills and experience. 334 00:21:48,365 --> 00:21:50,468 need five years of this and six of that and seven of that. 335 00:21:50,468 --> 00:21:52,348 And if they have those things cool, them. 336 00:21:53,117 --> 00:21:55,559 that's going to end up blowing up in your face. 337 00:21:55,559 --> 00:22:02,355 So you have to really invest in your hiring process to understand these soft skills, which ones are most important to you. 338 00:22:02,355 --> 00:22:05,327 And then you have to devise a way and it's hard. 339 00:22:05,327 --> 00:22:10,501 It's very difficult to be able to figure that out in a hiring process. 340 00:22:10,501 --> 00:22:19,879 But when you do, when you develop patterns and practices that allow you to figure that out, your team will accelerate faster than you can ever imagine. 341 00:22:19,879 --> 00:22:22,401 Because what I found is that when 342 00:22:22,803 --> 00:22:30,158 When you stack up a bunch of people like this together, just get out of the freaking way, right? 343 00:22:30,158 --> 00:22:32,099 And just let them go. 344 00:22:32,493 --> 00:22:35,361 that, I agree a million percent. 345 00:22:36,305 --> 00:22:37,936 My next one is 16, Josh. 346 00:22:37,936 --> 00:22:38,556 What's your next? 347 00:22:38,556 --> 00:22:41,287 Okay. 348 00:22:41,287 --> 00:22:48,130 So the commander in the field is always right and the rear echelon is wrong unless proved otherwise. 349 00:22:48,130 --> 00:22:55,153 And I think of this, that sounds very militaristic and it is, I mean, that's his leadership journey, the majority of it. 350 00:22:55,153 --> 00:23:01,415 ah But I think of it as hierarchy and hierarchical organization pushing down decision-making. 351 00:23:01,876 --> 00:23:05,597 When I've had senior level uh roles, 352 00:23:05,879 --> 00:23:17,412 I was listening intently to folks who were in the field, like someone who's in the team writing the code, someone who's a product owner, who's talking to a customer. 353 00:23:17,572 --> 00:23:20,953 I mean, I can't tell you, I had a leadership role. 354 00:23:20,953 --> 00:23:22,493 was guiding an organization. 355 00:23:22,493 --> 00:23:24,554 was collaborating with product. 356 00:23:25,094 --> 00:23:27,955 I had all of this responsibility, all of this stuff. 357 00:23:27,955 --> 00:23:36,087 But when it came to sort of, you know, who's right, who's wrong or where the decision's coming from, my ears went down. 358 00:23:36,625 --> 00:23:39,185 And it wasn't just, and it wasn't artificial listening. 359 00:23:39,185 --> 00:23:40,625 It was deep listening. 360 00:23:40,625 --> 00:23:45,925 It was, and I try to, I try to get different voices or different points of view from a team. 361 00:23:45,925 --> 00:23:47,925 Does anyone else, does everyone else agree with that? 362 00:23:47,925 --> 00:23:49,685 Does someone else see it a different way? 363 00:23:49,685 --> 00:23:57,105 And I'm trying to get those in the field or where the rubber meets the road, all of those euphemisms. 364 00:23:57,305 --> 00:23:59,385 That's leadership to me. 365 00:23:59,385 --> 00:24:01,405 And I've seen the reverse. 366 00:24:01,405 --> 00:24:06,545 I had so many leaders, Josh, you probably not work this way, but leaders are getting in a room. 367 00:24:06,577 --> 00:24:14,797 I'm like people who haven't designed a freaking app in 10 years and they're deciding crap in a room or they haven't talked. 368 00:24:14,797 --> 00:24:17,537 They've talked to customer execs, but they haven't. 369 00:24:17,537 --> 00:24:21,997 They haven't talked to who uses the damn product that they're building, right? 370 00:24:21,997 --> 00:24:28,857 Their product owners have, but they're acting like, well, I talked to, you know, the CEO, the blah, blah, blah, blah. 371 00:24:28,857 --> 00:24:30,637 And I know what they want. 372 00:24:30,637 --> 00:24:36,697 No, you don't have the humility, have the humility, have the wherewithal to go low. 373 00:24:36,859 --> 00:24:38,149 to go low. 374 00:24:38,149 --> 00:24:44,631 And what is it that hippo thing or whatever the highest paid person in the org or in the room? 375 00:24:45,051 --> 00:24:45,621 Yeah. 376 00:24:45,621 --> 00:24:50,133 And that the whole notion of that is the hippo controls the room. 377 00:24:50,133 --> 00:24:52,173 No, I would say what's up? 378 00:24:52,173 --> 00:24:52,803 What's the reverse? 379 00:24:52,803 --> 00:24:54,414 The baby hippo. 380 00:24:55,894 --> 00:25:05,788 No, not the not the biggest, fattest person in the room, but the baby hippos or the whatever the worker bees, maybe the worker bees are what you should be listening to. 381 00:25:05,788 --> 00:25:08,690 Yeah, I, this one is on my list as well. 382 00:25:08,690 --> 00:25:14,894 And I agree with everything Bob said, but I want to put a slightly different spin on this. 383 00:25:15,214 --> 00:25:24,684 So this evoked a feeling of me very similar to the story of the person in the, the, the arena, right? 384 00:25:24,684 --> 00:25:30,004 So the story of the person actually out there doing the thing. 385 00:25:30,012 --> 00:25:33,892 is living it is trying to do things that others aren't. 386 00:25:33,892 --> 00:25:45,412 But there's a ton of folks that are up in the stands, watching having opinions, talking to each other about what the person in the arena is doing wrong, and how they would do better 387 00:25:45,412 --> 00:25:46,292 if they were there. 388 00:25:46,292 --> 00:25:49,232 Well, you know what, then get in the freaking arena and make it happen. 389 00:25:49,232 --> 00:25:55,352 But don't sit up on the stands and chirp about somebody's doing something wrong without actually getting it done. 390 00:25:55,352 --> 00:25:55,652 Right? 391 00:25:55,652 --> 00:25:56,324 This is 392 00:25:56,324 --> 00:26:05,400 is the thing that happens a lot, especially when you're pushing the envelope and trying things is there will be people that will be on the outside talking about, that's going to 393 00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:05,721 fail. 394 00:26:05,721 --> 00:26:06,781 That's going to be a mess. 395 00:26:06,781 --> 00:26:08,012 that's not going to work. 396 00:26:08,012 --> 00:26:09,473 There's no way that's going to happen. 397 00:26:09,473 --> 00:26:10,224 okay, cool. 398 00:26:10,224 --> 00:26:10,784 That's fine. 399 00:26:10,784 --> 00:26:18,079 You're allowed to think that but that's not going to change the thing that we're doing because we've done everything that Bob just talked about. 400 00:26:18,079 --> 00:26:24,828 There are members of our team that have talked to people doing the work and they have said if you build this we will we will fork over 401 00:26:24,828 --> 00:26:29,508 so much money because it will change our lives and we are going to be so much happier. 402 00:26:29,508 --> 00:26:33,328 We're going to be able to accomplish more for our customers, which means we can accomplish more. 403 00:26:33,328 --> 00:26:43,208 That's because we've done the work because we've invested just like Bob said, we have the confidence and willingness to go left when there's a whole group of people over there 404 00:26:43,208 --> 00:26:44,948 saying, hey, you should go right. 405 00:26:44,948 --> 00:26:49,968 But to Bob's point, they are the ones that are living it and have actually talked to the people. 406 00:26:50,148 --> 00:26:51,308 So I agree with this. 407 00:26:51,308 --> 00:26:53,108 I get fired up about this. 408 00:26:53,108 --> 00:26:54,728 But yeah, okay. 409 00:26:54,780 --> 00:26:55,750 I'll stop. 410 00:26:55,750 --> 00:26:57,980 what's your, do you have any more Josh? 411 00:26:57,980 --> 00:27:01,480 I have number 17 and I bet you have number 18. 412 00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:02,300 Oh, okay. 413 00:27:02,300 --> 00:27:03,040 Okay. 414 00:27:03,620 --> 00:27:04,680 Yeah. 415 00:27:05,360 --> 00:27:05,980 Yeah. 416 00:27:05,980 --> 00:27:07,640 don't we do it this way? 417 00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:12,028 Why don't I, I was torn, I'll defer 17 and I'll take 18. 418 00:27:12,028 --> 00:27:14,300 talked about number 18 enough, right? 419 00:27:14,300 --> 00:27:15,130 We've covered that. 420 00:27:15,130 --> 00:27:25,336 So number 18 for everybody, if you haven't clicked on the link that's in the description, it's... 421 00:27:25,336 --> 00:27:27,257 17, have fun in your command. 422 00:27:27,257 --> 00:27:29,878 Don't always run at a breakneck pace. 423 00:27:29,878 --> 00:27:31,339 Take a leave when you've earned it. 424 00:27:31,339 --> 00:27:33,200 Spend time with your families. 425 00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:38,703 Corollary, surround yourself with people who take the work seriously, but not themselves. 426 00:27:38,703 --> 00:27:40,884 Those who work hard and play hard. 427 00:27:41,796 --> 00:27:47,798 I love it until that last part, the work hard and play hard is one of those things just kind of gives me the willies. 428 00:27:47,958 --> 00:27:51,489 I agree with it, that's fine, but I just, that saying drives me crazy. 429 00:27:51,489 --> 00:27:57,000 But this is something that is important to me because I've not always been good at this. 430 00:27:57,680 --> 00:28:08,664 This is something that I've had to work really hard at because I have a bit of workaholism and it's a thing where I just, when things go bad, when life gets tough, my answer is put 431 00:28:08,664 --> 00:28:10,284 my head down and work harder. 432 00:28:10,434 --> 00:28:19,472 And I have not been good enough throughout my career at allowing myself to take a break, take a pause, refresh and recharge. 433 00:28:19,472 --> 00:28:23,456 My answer has always been work harder, work faster, do all that stuff. 434 00:28:23,456 --> 00:28:25,788 And that has ground me into the ground. 435 00:28:25,788 --> 00:28:30,122 And it has done the same thing for some of my teams and my family at times. 436 00:28:30,122 --> 00:28:37,916 So this is one of those things that is very important to me uh because I have to work really hard. 437 00:28:37,916 --> 00:28:38,916 to make this happen. 438 00:28:38,916 --> 00:28:41,056 And I've seen what happens when I don't do it. 439 00:28:41,056 --> 00:28:44,696 And I see what happens when I do make it happen. 440 00:28:44,696 --> 00:28:49,616 So it's always at the front of my mind of, hey, slow down, take a step back. 441 00:28:49,616 --> 00:28:51,356 It's gonna be okay. 442 00:28:51,976 --> 00:28:53,396 The work's not going anywhere. 443 00:28:53,396 --> 00:28:54,656 It'll be there tomorrow. 444 00:28:54,656 --> 00:28:56,896 You know, all those things that are out there. 445 00:28:56,896 --> 00:29:01,876 So this is the thing that cuts me deep because I've not always been great at it. 446 00:29:01,876 --> 00:29:04,016 So this is an important one. 447 00:29:04,016 --> 00:29:08,707 that I want to make sure if you made it this far into the podcast that you make sure this is when you take home with you. 448 00:29:08,707 --> 00:29:14,870 I mean, I don't think, I think very few leaders are inherently good at this right out of the gate, Josh. 449 00:29:14,870 --> 00:29:18,691 I mean, it's, I think it's something that they have to, unfortunately we have to learn. 450 00:29:18,691 --> 00:29:21,432 The thing I want to, it's a little different than your spin. 451 00:29:21,432 --> 00:29:25,392 I just want to drill in on the first sentence. 452 00:29:25,434 --> 00:29:28,435 Have fun in your command. 453 00:29:28,935 --> 00:29:33,797 And so I think one of my superpowers as a leader and don't burst my bubble Josh. 454 00:29:33,797 --> 00:29:38,159 So just let me believe this is a super superpower. 455 00:29:38,971 --> 00:29:41,992 I have a sense of humor. 456 00:29:42,332 --> 00:29:47,273 When the pressure is on, one of my pressure relief is joking. 457 00:29:47,433 --> 00:30:00,817 And I almost become more of a smarty pants and irreverent and just finding the fun in things and high fiving with folks and trying to de-stress situation. 458 00:30:00,817 --> 00:30:03,237 It's just part of who I am. 459 00:30:03,458 --> 00:30:08,319 And over time, I'm just like, even the toughest job, 460 00:30:08,611 --> 00:30:10,351 Have fun with it. 461 00:30:10,351 --> 00:30:11,951 Just look for the fun. 462 00:30:11,951 --> 00:30:12,991 Create fun. 463 00:30:12,991 --> 00:30:17,251 Maybe if you can't find any, then your job is to create the fun. 464 00:30:17,251 --> 00:30:18,631 Be an observer. 465 00:30:18,931 --> 00:30:22,931 And the fun starts with making fun of yourself. 466 00:30:23,531 --> 00:30:25,091 Making fun of you. 467 00:30:25,091 --> 00:30:27,651 Not taking myself too seriously. 468 00:30:27,851 --> 00:30:34,531 And that's really hard to do when the shit is hitting the fan and the pressure's on or there's bugs in the field and customers yelling. 469 00:30:34,531 --> 00:30:37,603 But at the same time, that is a... 470 00:30:37,603 --> 00:30:43,583 That is a phase shift that to get things done, that you can de-stress things. 471 00:30:43,583 --> 00:30:46,023 So I don't get flustered with stuff. 472 00:30:46,023 --> 00:30:53,863 If I'm joking, you sometimes people misinterpret me, you know, when the stress is really up, I sound almost like a clown to some degree. 473 00:30:53,863 --> 00:30:55,583 It's like, do you not care? 474 00:30:55,583 --> 00:30:58,103 And I'm like, I certainly care. 475 00:30:58,543 --> 00:31:01,223 I grabbed the red nose. 476 00:31:02,163 --> 00:31:07,425 So, but in all seriousness, have fun in your command. 477 00:31:07,425 --> 00:31:11,409 MediCasters ask yourself, are you having fun? 478 00:31:11,409 --> 00:31:13,690 Are you creating fun? 479 00:31:14,071 --> 00:31:16,712 Are you the igniter of fun? 480 00:31:16,933 --> 00:31:17,473 Right? 481 00:31:17,473 --> 00:31:21,756 Are you the role model of fun, of joy, of happiness? 482 00:31:21,857 --> 00:31:25,139 And if you want to scale one, where are you? 483 00:31:25,360 --> 00:31:29,483 And then think deeply to yourself, how do I lean into more fun? 484 00:31:29,623 --> 00:31:33,066 And it's not just a Bob Galen thing. 485 00:31:33,066 --> 00:31:35,938 I think your results, 486 00:31:35,938 --> 00:31:38,009 your impact will increase. 487 00:31:38,009 --> 00:31:44,431 I've seen so many sour leaders and they get sourer when the pressure's on. 488 00:31:44,792 --> 00:31:45,092 Right? 489 00:31:45,092 --> 00:31:56,757 It's like, you can, you can tell it's like, you know, I want to take them, put them in a bathroom and just say, in there until you get happier. 490 00:31:56,997 --> 00:32:00,238 You know, come on, relieve yourself. 491 00:32:00,359 --> 00:32:01,899 They look awful. 492 00:32:01,899 --> 00:32:03,480 And that's not 493 00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:06,991 And it's not good for them and it's not good for everyone around them. 494 00:32:06,991 --> 00:32:09,236 So really lean into fun. 495 00:32:09,958 --> 00:32:12,992 I don't know how to top that. 496 00:32:12,992 --> 00:32:14,273 I don't need to top that, right? 497 00:32:14,273 --> 00:32:16,015 I think Bob did what Bob does. 498 00:32:16,015 --> 00:32:17,336 Bob nailed it. 499 00:32:18,918 --> 00:32:21,030 I think the fork has been stuck. 500 00:32:21,698 --> 00:32:27,276 And Medicare is a final final forkage is that command is lonely thing. 501 00:32:27,276 --> 00:32:38,798 Go back and review some of our older episodes when we done have talked about that because it is a thing and it's a real thing and it's central to your leadership. 502 00:32:38,798 --> 00:32:42,443 And the better you are at it, the more lonely it is. 503 00:32:43,509 --> 00:32:45,081 Amen brother, right? 504 00:32:45,081 --> 00:32:45,782 So it's hard. 505 00:32:45,782 --> 00:32:47,514 It's a real challenge and it's a personal challenge. 506 00:32:47,514 --> 00:32:49,496 It's not so much an outside challenges. 507 00:32:49,496 --> 00:32:52,559 It's an inside out challenge for you. 508 00:32:52,559 --> 00:32:54,702 And it's one that you have to come to grips with. 509 00:32:54,702 --> 00:33:02,089 with that, hope Colin Powell, let's have a moment of silence for the great general and statesman, Colin Powell. 510 00:33:02,089 --> 00:33:03,350 Five seconds. 511 00:33:03,591 --> 00:33:04,493 He was a great man. 512 00:33:04,493 --> 00:33:07,641 All right, Metacasters, from beautiful downtown Cary, North Carolina. 513 00:33:07,641 --> 00:33:11,343 know, I feel bad because I couldn't do that without a smile on my face. 514 00:33:11,343 --> 00:33:13,104 We're trying to honor somebody. 515 00:33:13,104 --> 00:33:16,526 I could just, just because we go back to the fun of Bob, right? 516 00:33:16,526 --> 00:33:17,567 The fun of Bob. 517 00:33:17,567 --> 00:33:19,377 I'm sitting there and like, what a jerk I am. 518 00:33:19,377 --> 00:33:21,098 I'm trying to, trying to be quiet. 519 00:33:21,098 --> 00:33:22,209 got a smirk on my face. 520 00:33:22,209 --> 00:33:24,430 Cause I'm laughing about Bob in my brain. 521 00:33:24,430 --> 00:33:27,112 Oh my gosh. 522 00:33:27,112 --> 00:33:27,592 Okay. 523 00:33:27,592 --> 00:33:28,432 So yes. 524 00:33:28,432 --> 00:33:28,813 Okay. 525 00:33:28,813 --> 00:33:29,913 So from 526 00:33:30,102 --> 00:33:32,887 So, so for beautiful down that carry North Carolina. 527 00:33:32,887 --> 00:33:36,031 And for beautiful downtown Fuqua Verena, North Carolina. 528 00:33:36,031 --> 00:33:39,588 I'm Bob the Hitman Galen. 529 00:33:39,703 --> 00:33:43,761 And I'm Josh the anvil Anderson. 530 00:33:44,865 --> 00:33:45,425 Fake. 531 00:33:45,425 --> 00:33:49,394 Oh, gosh.