00:00:00 Archita: Have you ever noticed how two people can live the same life on paper and feel completely different inside it? One feels trapped, the other feels free. And it makes you wonder, what if freedom isn't a place you reach but a lens you switch on? Today we are stepping into that question through the idea of quantum freedom, the inner shift that changes what becomes possible.

00:00:35 Archita: Welcome back to the Soul Mirror, the space where we don't just talk about life, we reflect it back gently, honestly, and with depth. I'm Margita and today I am joined by Doctor Victoria Rader, whose holistic teachings have touched lives worldwide, including being featured in the film Zero Limits and even carried to the moon. Our topic is Step Into quantum freedom. By the end of this episode, you will have a clearer sense of what freedom actually means on the inside and how to notice the patterns that quietly keep you stuck, even when your life looks fine from the outside. So Doctor Victoria, welcome to the Sole mirror. It's so great to have you today.

00:01:25 Dr. Victoria Rader: Thank you so much for having me. I'm really looking forward to this discussion.

00:01:30 Archita: Mhm. Yeah. I'm really looking forward to this discussion as well because, um, it's, it's really a very interesting topic. So without wasting any time, let's dive into it. Um, before we define anything, I'm curious, when you hear the word freedom, what do you notice? People think it is and what you have seen it actually become in real life.

00:01:55 Dr. Victoria Rader: I think depending on where a person is in their everyday circumstance and or in their inner growth. They define it differently, but it's important to understand that there are levels of freedom. In the beginning, people seek freedom from something. Freedom from oppression, freedom from disease. Freedom from abuse. They're seeking freedom from. That's the basic point of awareness. Because until then, the person is unaware. Once people start seeking freedom from something, then there's a next level of freedom, which is a freedom to ward something. So they say, I don't want this anymore. Unless that gives a rise to the inner desire of wanting something else. It's as if there is a permission to have more, to be more, to do more. And that is a freedom. To become something. To have something to experience something. So the goals shift. The goals shift from survival to thriving. So those are the two levels of freedom. But the greatest freedom comes with realization that no matter what you have, no matter what you do, the ultimate freedom is a choice of how you respond to all of life. And when you reclaim the freedom of response, you become ultimately free as the energetic being, you become ultimately free in a quantum field of possibility. When you learn to pause from reaction to response, you claim quantum freedom. Because in that gap in the gap between a trigger outside or inside and your action lies the gap of freedom. So the quantum freedom is that capacity to reclaim your free choice, to respond in a way that is aligned with your highest purpose, that is aligned with love as energy of creation. And that is the ultimate journey of our soul to reclaim the freedom of, no matter what, remain the divine being that we are. Even though we're having a human experience.

00:04:42 Archita: Wow, that is such an interesting definition of a freedom. I have never thought about it that way. So that this really sets the tone for this conversation. And, um, that difference between the idea of freedom and the lived experience of it already feels like the mirror moment for today. Let's let's stay with that. Um, Doctor Victoria, a lot of us assume freedom means no problems or no constraints, but life will always have constraints. So I'm curious, um, what's the most common misconception people carry about freedom that actually blocks them from feeling it?

00:05:26 Dr. Victoria Rader: Yeah. What a great question. I think it is true for both experience of freedom and capacity to manifest something, because one of the freedoms is ability to manifest and create and co-create with Divine Creator. And so these two topics are so intertwined together that I can't talk about one without talking about the other. And so that greatest limitation or false belief, the subconscious construct that limits us both from being free now and creating what we choose to create is a very sneaky little construct, which is when, then, or as soon as then. You see, if we say, as soon as I have more money, then I will pay for charity. As soon as I lose ten more pounds, then I will attract a soulmate as soon as. Or if I were twenty years younger, thirty pounds lighter, three degrees smarter, then. This is a quantum trap. It puts us in a never ending cycle because what inevitably happens once we are, as most of us most of the time in one area of our life, are doing that. then we are not giving ourselves permission to experience gratitude and joy and fulfillment where we are right now. Now, the reason we are not allowing ourselves that is because subconsciously we are afraid that we will lose motivation. So we're playing this lying game that, oh well, you know what, I once I have a new car, then I will travel to this city I've always dreamed about. Well, says who? Says our sabotaging self, the free self, would say, you want to go to that city? What is the best possible way for you to get there now? So the freedom is claiming the privilege of your desire now, or claiming the privilege of the first step for your desire now. So the way it looks in real life, When you catch yourself thinking or creating a construct as soon as. Then, or if I were. Or if I had, then you are currently locking yourself in. A mental slavery of lack of possibility. You are the one that is not allowing for you to be free. When you catch that pause and say very simple thing and say, I see you and I love you no matter what, because the first step of freedom is self acceptance of us enslaving ourselves, not judging, accepting with love. So you're going to say, oh wow, here you are. I love you anyway and I accept you anyway. That's the first step. So awareness and then acceptance. Second step. The third step is going to be alignment. And an alignment will come with the right question. You see our subconscious can't help itself. It will answer a question. We ask it. So when I ask you right now, what color are you thinking about right now? You are not thinking about the color. But the second I asked that, you're like, oh, pink or black or blue, whatever everybody's color is. Our subconscious is wired to seek the answer to a question asked. So when in a process of imprisonment and saying, there is no way out of this, if only I had more money, more time, more connections, then that's when you stop. You're aware, you accept yourself, I got you, I love you, I see you, and then you ask a question. What is the best next step for me out of this situation towards the situation that I desire? You ask that question before you go to bed and you relax And then all of a sudden, two or three days later, you're standing in the shower and an idea comes to you. A divinely aligned, freedom giving idea. A solution that is a journey of reversing mental enslavement to mental freedom. And speaking of shower, just like we need to shower our body every day, we need to shower our emotional spiritual energy body in the light of creation every day. So this exercise continues. And every time we receive that solution. So we started with awareness, acceptance, alignment. The next one is action. When we receive that solution or the first step in that solution. As we act, so we become because as we act on that solution, no matter how small the step. For example, you could have asked a question, you got an idea, write a book and all of a sudden you're back to enslavement. Oh, no, no, no, I can't write a book. I don't have the skills. I'm not an author. And you go, oh, there I am. I'm putting myself into if then. So what is the best next step I can do? Write the first sentence, no matter how perfect it is. So making that, taking that action will then bring us to a next level of awareness. And so fear, through fear, limitation, through limitation, we are expanding and breaking into freedom of expression, of divine alignment, awareness, acceptance, alignment, action, awareness, acceptance, alignment, action. And guess what? Right between those alignments and actions comes beautiful glimpses of genuine abundance. Not just abundance of money, but abundance of hope, abundance of energy, abundance of advice. And so we're starting to reclaim the freedom that is our birthright, which is the freedom of awareness of abundance. Our souls came into this life to create abundantly, but our fears enslaved us. And we are looking at the circumstance as limitation. So that is a full journey of step by step, reclaiming your freedom.

00:12:33 Archita: Wow, that makes so much sense. And you have truly described it so beautifully, Doctor Victoria. And it lands because if I'm chasing a life with zero friction, I'm basically signing up to feel disappointed forever. So instead of no limits, you're pointing towards something more internal, like how we relate to limits. And it's really fascinating to know how we put constraints on ourselves and we don't even realize it. Like how you gave the example of, um, once I lose weight, I'll attract a soulmate. So yeah, I think it, it, it happens so frequently and we don't even realize it. That is, um, you know, yeah, all the time.

00:13:21 Dr. Victoria Rader: And, you know, the other thing that you brought in is that what we're talking about is a beautiful combination of who we are as human divine beings, you know, for all of our apps and journals and my book and our programs, if you, if you go to our site, you will see that we talk about Little and Big E as me, when I say I am me, I spell me as little and big E, and the reason I do it is because you and I and every listener is a little am of mortal matter that manifests materially. I don't know about you, but last time I checked, I still needed to go to the bathroom a few times a day. And that's not about to go away. I mean, that mortal matter is there. But at the same time, you and I are also a capital E of eternal essence, the energy of expansion. So the recipe for freedom is surrendering my matter to my energy, my mortal, to my eternal, my material, to my essential and my manifesting, to expansiveness. And while there is a different path for each one of these journeys of claiming our freedom, all of those paths start with awareness. And so when you look at the E, the Zero Limits movie that I was in, and the zero Limits concept is tapping into the quantum field of possibility where there are zero limits, and that is the language of our eternal energy. It is unlimited. But until we surrender our mortal matter to our eternal energy, our mortal matter is going to sabotage it twenty four over seven. So once you hear the sabotaging patterns, and once you love and encourage that part of you, then you free your eternal energy to tune in to the quantum field of possibilities. And so the EMS job is always to keep us at a survival level. The EAS job is always to keep us into expanding, into thriving. Pretending that there is only one part of us is denial that leads to spiritual bypassing. And so you have these proclaimed spiritual guru sitting on the pillows, detached, not serving humanity, not feeding hungry children, not knowing how to be disciplined in a daily life. On one hand, and on the other hand, you have a different, a disastrous denial of people that are saying, oh, I'm not into woo stuff, I'm not into spirituality. So they are running this rat race without dreaming, without creating. So the art of quantum freedom is knowing and loving all of you, knowing that little M that sabotages that mortal matter of who we are and knowing how step by step, surrender it daily. This is not a yesterday. It's not a hero story, right? That drives everybody crazy. Should be driving everybody crazy. That doesn't exist very often. You'll get an amazing public speaker gets on the stage. Once I lived on the streets and I was homeless. And then I published this book or movie, and now I live happily ever after. And then three days later, you hear them getting divorced or going to prison for sexual molestation, and you go, like, what? What just happened? Because the hero journey is a lie. It's a lie. We are going through freedom, claiming every single day, every single day. We're minute by minute. We're making a choice. AM I going to listen to the fear and the scared voice of my little AM? Or am I going to hear and follow the sacred voice of my big E? So freedom is not denying. Freedom is acknowledging, being aware, acknowledging, accepting, and then aligning and acting up. So it's so important for us to hear that that there isn't because that's another one then. Oh, as soon as I claim this freedom, then I'll never worry about something. No, honey. Even in death, there are things to worry about. And to expand. So this. This delusion keeps people in painful denial of physical reality. And our souls, our spiritual energy did not come here for denial. It came here to learn to love all of life so fully and completely that we surrender our human part, our little M, to our divine part. You know, our big E. So that's the, that's the joyful, uh, daily journey of freedom, because people who seek only financial freedom will tell you once they have all the money, they're like, where's my peace? You know, what is what? What is money worth if you have no peace? Nothing. Nothing.

00:18:45 Archita: MM. Yeah, definitely. I think what you just said, it resonated with me a lot. I am sure it resonates with a lot of our listeners as well because, you know, freedom, it sounds like such a simple concept and yet it is so hard to achieve because, um, like you said, once you get financial freedom, you, uh, you look for the piece that you lost. And once you get that, you look for something else and the list never ends. So yeah, you absolutely whatever you said, it makes total sense. So, um, talk to Victoria when someone says, um, I don't feel free, it often isn't one big thing. It's a pattern. So what tends to be underneath that pattern? Is it fear, identity conditioning, guilt or something else? And how do you typically help people find the route instead of just managing symptoms?

00:19:41 Dr. Victoria Rader: I think that the answer to your question is all of them right there. It's all of them. We could go down so many paths of subconscious enslavement. Um, some of us actually in our genetic, our genes, we now know not only carry physical and mental factors. First, it was thought that genes only convey physical trends. Then we said, oh wait, mental disease is also conveyed through genes. And now we're seeing, oh, wait a minute, the thought patterns and our subconscious programming is also genetic. And we know that the genetic memory goes for at least seven generations. Outside of that, there's common consciousness. And so you might have had, for example, for me, I've had a great, great grandpa who I'm originally from Ukraine. And so he was in a former Soviet Union. And when the Soviet Union was formed, he was actually a religious leader who was helping people with hope and faith. And and he was forced to live, in the dirt, and the Soviets took away all of his lands and his home. His home was so big that they actually dedicated it to a public school. And he died in the dirt. They they dug ditches. So he died first within weeks, and then his wife, and then the five boys were left. And one of those boys was my grandpa. My grandpa was only five when this was happening, and he was brought up as an orphan in the Soviet Union. So I was not privy to all of that. Right. It didn't happen to me. But genetically, my genes coded that when you stand for something, the genetic program was when I believe in God and higher power, and if I stand for something, I will lose everything. And that cycle genetically ran through my family for the longest time, and there was just a lot of healing that I had to do, using different modalities to shift and to change the pattern that I can have both. That I can be aligned with light, with truth, with divinity, with God, and thrive without losing everything. That's just one example. Genetic. Now there is also there is also common consciousness. You know, um, I remember being interviewed by one of the, um, most famous public speakers in, um, and legendary speakers in America, les Brown and Les Brown said, well, how can one protect themselves from the influence? And I said, it's not possible to be fully protected from. US to energy will exchange energy. It's one of the most basic energetic laws. The example, I say is that if you walk into the ocean, you're going to come out wet. You're just going to come out wet going into the water, you will come out wet. And that's a physical energy example. while when we walk into different environments, whether we want it or not, we pick up the energy of those environments and we pick up the subconscious programming of those environments. And so it is so important to continually like this. Until you shine program, I'm going to be teaching people on resonant association. And the Law of Resonant Association states that you start vibrating at the average of five frequencies for every area of your life. Five people and relationships will set the frequency, the average for your relationship. Five people you talk about money will become the average of your money. Five people you physically spend time with in terms of working out or not working out will be average weight. It's just now proven. So there you go. The common consciousness and common environment for both practical and individual could create that. And so. And that's just genetics and common consciousness. Then there is the whole upbringing, right? Upbringing, how mom and dad, whether they loved us or not as we perceive them, they loved us at the highest capacity they were capable for. Some were not capable much. And so they've limited us. They've taught us how to fear because they loved us through love. Not through encouragement, not through trust. I am a mother. I know better, and yet I know that sometimes I love my children through unprocessed fears that I still carry. Because I'm human, right? So knowing. Um, so this is the journey. Um, and it's very important, helpful and healing to be infinitely kind to yourself and to always make the first step. The first freedom of choice is to say, I choose to love. So when the person will come and say, I don't feel free. My reminder would be that you are free to love. And that ultimately is the most important choice. Can you love yourself while you feel unfree? Start there.

00:25:04 Archita: Absolutely. And thank you so much for sharing that with all of us today. I mean, this conversation held a lot of wisdom and understanding and it has helped me a lot, truly. And I'm sure it has helped a lot of our listeners as well. So if you are listening, take one breath with us and just notice where do you feel the smallest tightness when you think about your life? That tightness might not be your enemy. It might be your map. So, Victoria, for listeners who want to stay connected with your work, where's the best place to find you and learn more.

00:25:43 Dr. Victoria Rader: The best place is to always go to our website. Which is why you. Number two shine s h I n e dot com. So it's you to shine, but it is spelled with y u without o. And when you go to this site. Browse through the site. We have a lot of steps. There is one that comes to mind now. That doesn't capture your phone or your email. It's not a lead magnet, but I feel somebody on this call today on this podcast, one of the greatest points of freedom is freedom to forgive. Because in forgiving, it's forgiving. It's forgiving away the block that blocks you and forgiving space to dream. So when you go to your com, you go to freedom to forgive. And there is a free letter that you can exercise that you can start practicing receiving a letter of forgiveness from those that harmed you, and that will free you in a whole new level. And then there's a whole other bunch of free stuff and of course, paid services. So you do shine dot com.

00:26:55 Archita: Beautiful. Thank you so much for sharing that with us. Um, Doctor Victoria and yeah, we'll make sure listeners can find you easily. And if this episode met you in a tender place, I want you to know you are not late and you're not behind. Sometimes freedom starts as a whisper. Maybe I'm allowed to live differently. And if that whisper is here today, honor it. That is the Soul Mirror. Come back when you are ready to look again. More honestly, more gently. More you. Until next time, take care of your inner world. It's where your future is forming.