Welcome back to another episode of health hacks.
Melissa Deally:As I round out this series on stress by sharing with you that
Melissa Deally:stress can also cause skin problems such as acne, eczema,
Melissa Deally:psoriasis and leading to flare ups. And many of these
Melissa Deally:conditions are actually impacted by the health of our gut. The
Melissa Deally:health of our gut is houses 70% of our immune system. And as
Melissa Deally:Hippocrates said 1000s of years ago, all disease starts in our
Melissa Deally:gut. And I like to say all health starts in our gut. When
Melissa Deally:our gut isn't happy, it can cause flare ups of a variety of
Melissa Deally:skin conditions, and when we are stressed out, we're actually
Melissa Deally:unknowingly killing off good bacteria in our gut and causing
Melissa Deally:an imbalance in our gut, which can then trigger these skin
Melissa Deally:problems. And so what can you do about it? Well, one thing that
Melissa Deally:I've had to learn myself probably about now, seven, eight
Melissa Deally:years ago, which has created a powerful shift in my ability to
Melissa Deally:be handling the stress in my life is simply learning to say
Melissa Deally:no. You see, when we say no to others, we're saying yes to
Melissa Deally:ourselves, and when we say yes to other people, we are saying
Melissa Deally:no to ourselves. We only each have 24 hours in a day, and we
Melissa Deally:lead busy lives, and are we allocating time to ourselves so
Melissa Deally:that we can get out of our stress state, do something that
Melissa Deally:brings us joy, that we love, that allows us to calm our
Melissa Deally:nervous system? And if we're not allocating time to that each and
Melissa Deally:every day, then other people are quite likely taking our time,
Melissa Deally:and we are in the habit of saying yes, and when I learned
Melissa Deally:to say no, that was really powerful. And in saying no, that
Melissa Deally:created time in my calendar for me, and I block that time in my
Melissa Deally:calendar I don't see clients before 10am because I block my
Melissa Deally:morning time for me to be able to get out of the house, go and
Melissa Deally:do something that I love, so that I've filled my cup, so that
Melissa Deally:I am then able to serve for the rest of the day. And so just
Melissa Deally:start practicing saying no, if someone asks you to do something
Melissa Deally:as a favor and it's going to take your time just practice
Melissa Deally:saying no. It's hard at first. It was hard for me, and it felt
Melissa Deally:strange in my mind. My brain is like, what are you doing? You
Melissa Deally:could do this with your eyes closed and your hands tied
Melissa Deally:behind your back, and I was talking back to my brain going,
Melissa Deally:Yes, I know I could. I'm practicing saying no so that I
Melissa Deally:can use that time for something that I want to do, and no is a
Melissa Deally:complete sentence. When you say no to somebody, you don't have
Melissa Deally:to justify why you're saying no. You can simply say thank you for
Melissa Deally:asking, however, no, I'm not available to do that, or simply
Melissa Deally:No, so thank you for tuning in to this series on stress. It
Melissa Deally:started with episode number 445 and finishes now with episode
Melissa Deally:456 if you've caught a few of them and you haven't caught all
Melissa Deally:of them, go back and tune into all of those episodes. Each
Melissa Deally:episode gives you a tip in how you can help to manage your
Melissa Deally:stress, reduce the stress in your life so that you can be
Melissa Deally:healthier, you can extend your longevity. Because the reality
Melissa Deally:is is that stress is stealing your health and it is shortening
Melissa Deally:your life. So these are some quick episodes so you can shift
Melissa Deally:that for yourself. And it's never too late to start. And if
Melissa Deally:you need support, or you'd like to run some lab tests so we can
Melissa Deally:see how the stress has impacted your mineral levels, your
Melissa Deally:vitamin levels, your hormones, etc. Please reach out Melissa at
Melissa Deally:your guided health journey.com.