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Welcome back to another episode of health hacks.

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As I round out this series on stress by sharing with you that

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stress can also cause skin problems such as acne, eczema,

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psoriasis and leading to flare ups. And many of these

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conditions are actually impacted by the health of our gut. The

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health of our gut is houses 70% of our immune system. And as

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Hippocrates said 1000s of years ago, all disease starts in our

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gut. And I like to say all health starts in our gut. When

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our gut isn't happy, it can cause flare ups of a variety of

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skin conditions, and when we are stressed out, we're actually

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unknowingly killing off good bacteria in our gut and causing

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an imbalance in our gut, which can then trigger these skin

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problems. And so what can you do about it? Well, one thing that

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I've had to learn myself probably about now, seven, eight

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years ago, which has created a powerful shift in my ability to

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be handling the stress in my life is simply learning to say

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no. You see, when we say no to others, we're saying yes to

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ourselves, and when we say yes to other people, we are saying

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no to ourselves. We only each have 24 hours in a day, and we

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lead busy lives, and are we allocating time to ourselves so

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that we can get out of our stress state, do something that

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brings us joy, that we love, that allows us to calm our

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nervous system? And if we're not allocating time to that each and

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every day, then other people are quite likely taking our time,

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and we are in the habit of saying yes, and when I learned

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to say no, that was really powerful. And in saying no, that

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created time in my calendar for me, and I block that time in my

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calendar I don't see clients before 10am because I block my

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morning time for me to be able to get out of the house, go and

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do something that I love, so that I've filled my cup, so that

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I am then able to serve for the rest of the day. And so just

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start practicing saying no, if someone asks you to do something

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as a favor and it's going to take your time just practice

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saying no. It's hard at first. It was hard for me, and it felt

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strange in my mind. My brain is like, what are you doing? You

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could do this with your eyes closed and your hands tied

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behind your back, and I was talking back to my brain going,

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Yes, I know I could. I'm practicing saying no so that I

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can use that time for something that I want to do, and no is a

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complete sentence. When you say no to somebody, you don't have

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to justify why you're saying no. You can simply say thank you for

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asking, however, no, I'm not available to do that, or simply

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No, so thank you for tuning in to this series on stress. It

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started with episode number 445 and finishes now with episode

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456 if you've caught a few of them and you haven't caught all

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of them, go back and tune into all of those episodes. Each

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episode gives you a tip in how you can help to manage your

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stress, reduce the stress in your life so that you can be

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healthier, you can extend your longevity. Because the reality

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is is that stress is stealing your health and it is shortening

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your life. So these are some quick episodes so you can shift

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that for yourself. And it's never too late to start. And if

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you need support, or you'd like to run some lab tests so we can

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see how the stress has impacted your mineral levels, your

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vitamin levels, your hormones, etc. Please reach out Melissa at

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your guided health journey.com.