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That allows me to be at the right place at the right time to meet the right

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people, to do the right deal.

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And I think that that has leveraged opportunity into my life by the

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20/80 rule. Today

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we're going to talk

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about a principle that originates from an economist,

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Vilfredo Pareto that was written about by a management

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specialist, Joseph Juran.

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He lived over a hundred years in age and was still lecturing literally

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to the very end. And he was in management control,

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government of management and business mainly,

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but his observation from his studies of

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economics led him to realize a significant of this

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80/20 rule. Now sometimes it's called the 90/10 rule, the 75/25 rule,

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but the 80/20 rule seems to be most popular in the terminology.

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Basically showing that 20% of what you do gives you 80% of the

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results and 80% of what you do gives you 20% results.

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And this leads to a principle that is in

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physics that applies to physics in life.

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And that is if you don't fill your day with high priority actions that

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inspire you, your day will fill up with low priority distractions that don't.

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The higher the priority that you fill it with,

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the more profound the impact and accomplishments you have.

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So if you fill it with low priority things, the 20% of the priorities,

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you'll get you know, the, well, the higher priority things,

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the 20% that gives you the most results,

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you'll get more results than if you fill it and scatter yourself with 80%,

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that gives you 20% results.

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So this has a very wide application,

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and I'd like to have you maybe take a piece of paper out, maybe write it,

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or get your notepad or iPad or whatever you're gonna write notes on,

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and let's take a look and go down the rabbit hole with it.

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In business, we'll start with business. There's seven areas of life, spiritual,

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mental, vocational, financial, family, social and physical.

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We're going to start in the vocational business area first.

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That's where this principle was most noted originally by Joseph Juran,

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that if you stop and ask yourself,

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what is the highest priority action that I can do today

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that can give me the greatest results? If you never stop and reflect,

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you may just scatter your life with unexpected out extrinsically driven

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expectations and duties from other people.

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But if you never take the time to do that,

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you're holding yourself back from achievement and

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barriers. But what is the highest priority action,

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the 20% of what all the things that I do that gives me 80% results,

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give me most of the results? Now,

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I first implemented this really way back,

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when I was 27,

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I literally made an effort by reading a book called The Time Trap by Alec

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Mackenzie,

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because I realized I was doing a lot of stuff in my clinic at the time

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and I realized that I was spending a whole lot of time doing kind of low

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priority things,

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and wasn't getting as much productivity out of myself as I could.

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So I read this book, The Time Trap,

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and I literally saw all my pitfalls of delegating and all the reasons why I

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was holding myself back. I thought, 'Well, by the time I gave it to somebody,

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I could have done it. Well, if I give it to them,

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they may not do it the way I want it. And then I got to do it again,

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where I always have to go over it again and then I rob them of accountability

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and then I end up rescuing them. And then I end up you know,

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by the time I train them,

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I could have just done it.' All these different excuses.

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And I realized I was holding myself back trying to do everything.

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So I got a list of everything that I did in a day.

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And I categorized it based on professional and personal.

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And I made an exhaustive list, not vague broad generalities,

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like marketing or sales, that's too broad, but the actual actions, making calls,

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doing inventory, studying, asking questions.

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I broke it down into the details of what I did in a day.

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And then I asked myself, after I made this exhaustive list,

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how much does it produce per hour?

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And I extrapolated the best I could estimating it because

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getting zero and some getting more money.

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And I looked at what it actually did and what it produced per hour to

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then make that as I put the dollar per hour and extrapolated it,

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if I made a $200 an hour out of it, I'd put it down. If I made $400 an hour,

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I put it down. If I did a half hour, but I made $400. And I made $800,

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I'd put it down, I extrapolated it.

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And then I prioritized it to make it look at what is the most important thing I

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can do to produce the most,

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and my productivity was basically a reflection of what I was doing that served

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people, because if they're paying for it, then I'm obviously filling some need.

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Then I made another column next to that column.

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And I made a list of what meaning it had on a 1 to 10 scale.

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And I prioritized the meaning on a 1 to 10.

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10 meaning it's extremely meaningful and inspiring and I was enthused and

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inspired, spontaneously to do it. And the other,

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the lower meaning down to 1s were things I had to be motivated or extrinsically

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driven to do. I didn't want to do it. I'd procrastinate, hesitate, frustrate.

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I noticed I was doing narratives, but I was delaying them,

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I was procrastinating them. But when I was interacting with the clients,

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I was engaged in it and I was doing it spontaneously.

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So I basically made a list of all the things based on 1 to 10 scale on how

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engaging it was, inspiring it was, how much meaning it had,

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and then I'd prioritize that.

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Then I took those two together and I prioritized that to look at what was the

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most meaningful and most productive.

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And I did a summarized priority list out of that.

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And I found that there were about 5 things and really 2 things that were the

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most important thing I can do. If I do that,

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I'm going to produce the most and have the most energy,

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because when you're doing things high on your values your energy goes up,

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and I narrowed it down to that.

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And I realized that really 20% of the 20% of the 20%,

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if I do even that, or 20% of that, and get to the very highest price thing,

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I actually produced the most income,

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served the most people and have the most inspirational energy.

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And I did that and, wow,

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that made my business go up and expand and allowed me to have

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more income to delegate.

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If you're not delegating lower priority things to other people you're going to

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be trapped. And this is what The Time Trap book was about,

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about liberating yourself from doing low priority things.

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Because every time you do low priority things, you devalue yourself.

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Every time you do the highest priority things,

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the most meaningful and productive and inspiring and you know,

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income generating that serve the most people,

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you get the most vitality out of it. And so from a business perspective,

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you want to do that. You want to look at what you're saying to the client,

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what you're selling to the client,

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what you're doing as far as the job duties,

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making sure you get to the 20% of the 20% of the 20% of the job duties,

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making sure you're narrowed down what clients you work with.

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Make sure you look at what the products you're selling.

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Everything can be prioritized by this 20% of what you do gives you 80% of your

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results. And 20% of that gives you another 80% results.

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And you can compound this by narrowing it down into the highest priority thing

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until you get to what Gary Keller calls the one thing that you're masterful at.

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Now, I research, write, travel, teach. My highest priority thing,

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the number one thing I do is teach.

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The second thing is research and write and travel.

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And today I'm getting to do all that,

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I've been researching and writing throughout the day,

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I'm traveling right now through the Mediterranean and

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So I get to do what I love, those top four things every day,

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that gives me the 80% results.

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And that really liberates you by getting to do what you're inspired to do on a

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daily basis. And then of course, when it comes to socializing,

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you may want to ask yourself the 20/80 law there, you know,

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who are you hanging out with? Many years ago, my wife, when she was alive,

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we were living on east 64th in New York city.

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East 64th street.

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And we decided that it was a little noisy there cause we were right there going

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into the park and you could hear the honking horns half the time and we were on

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the 5th floor of a big brownstone,

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and had a great neighbors, great environment, fantastic

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but a little noisy.

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And so we asked ourselves what is the highest priority place we could actually

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go in New York that's quietest.

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And also that would position us with the highest profile,

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highest income, highest leveraging factor we could.

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And we looked and we went around and we finally realized that Trump Tower was

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probably the best positioning we could get,

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because we realized that 20% of the people that have the most influence are

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right there in that building.

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Now I don't know today is because after Donald's been president it might've

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changed, but in those days, you know, 20 something years ago it was that way so,

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we

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noticed that the second we moved in and started to associate with people that

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had a higher net worth, higher social influence, higher celebrity status,

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higher corporate influence, et cetera, we noticed that our business,

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our influence, our wealth, all went up that year.

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We also when I moved onto the ship, The World, the same thing happened.

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So if we don't empower ourselves in business, we're

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If we don't empower ourselves in finance, we'll be told what we're worth.

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We don't empower ourselves in relationship and start having a loving and

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intimate relationships there,

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we'll be doing honeydew low priority things that we get frustrated by and

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alienate our own spouse with. If we don't empower ourselves socially,

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we'll be told what to do by people that are overpowering us and get into the

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so-called conspiracy world, fearing that the world's going to control you.

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But if you go in the 20% that gives you 80% results of the people you hang out

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with, that also has a massive impact. I made it a goal many,

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many years ago that I wanted to have an influence and I made a list of some

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people that had global influence. Anybody that had global influence,

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I wanted to meet and interact with and associate with and interview and learn

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and have in classes and associate with in some way with, I made a list of them.

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And I met all those people and I made a bigger list.

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Now it's over 3000 people that have global influence because I've made that a

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target.

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And that allows me to be at the right place at the right time to meet the right

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people to do the right deal.

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And I think that that has leveraged opportunity into my life by the

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20/80 rule.

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So you might think of about the 20/80 application in your social network,

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who do you hang out with, who are you going?

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Most people prefer to hang out with people that have a bigger influence than

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people who have a smaller influence. Well, as you climb up the game,

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you can do that. Now,

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it's not that anybody there is not a magnificent individual,

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it's just that you're going to now use your time most effectively and if you

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don't fill your day with the highest priority individuals in your life,

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it may fill up with low priority distracting people,

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opportunists that want to take advantage of yours. So that's the lesson in life.

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Again, if you don't fill your day with high priority actions that inspire you,

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it fills up with low priority distractions that don't. And physically,

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20% of what you eat gives you 80% of the energy.

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I'm amazed at some of the stuff that people eat,

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they put in their mouth and it's not food.

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They're living to eat because they want sweets and fats and they're letting the

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outer influence and sales and gimmicks and unhealthy foods get into their

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consciousness, instead of actually prioritizing what they eat,

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prioritizing their exercise program.

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20% of what they do gives them the most return on their physical tone and

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fitness. And 20% of what they eat gives them most of their results. You know,

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I'm a very focused individual when it comes to the eating process and I drink

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and eat and consume things that are the highest performing,

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highest priority actions that I find for myself.

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And you can do an inventory on yourself like Gandhi did when he was around and

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do an evaluation of what works and what doesn't work for you on a daily basis

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and narrow it down to the 20% that gives you 80% results.

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What are the foods that you love that are most nutritious,

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that give the most vitality and the most wellness quotient and get the 20/80

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rule. The same thing on the activities. You know,

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if you go and do the physical activities that give you the most results,

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sometimes pilates may be that, it may be jogging or maybe walking up hills,

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whatever it may be that allows you to maximize your tone and fitness.

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And the same thing, you want to make sure that when you consume it,

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you're eating 20% of the foods that have the most fiber and the most that helps

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your microbiome. And you stop and eat, what's priority to eat?

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Are you literally living to eat or are you eating to live?

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I'd rather eat to live and prioritize what I'm putting in my body and prioritize

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what I put into my activity, prioritize what I drink,

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prioritize what I feed my mind as far as things that are

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distressful. I don't sit and watch the distressing stuff on the news.

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I find that that's distracting. I learned that from Gandhi when I was 18.

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So I just said, that's it,

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the only time I'll watch TV is when I'm on it usually,

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because I don't find that that is the most productive. That's sensational,

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extreme, volatile, polarizing, impulse, instinct,

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distracting type of information.

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So you want to fill your life socially and physically,

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nutritionally with quality information.

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I'd rather feed my mind with information that's going to increase the

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probability of me making a difference in the world and fulfilling my mission.

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See, if you go on my website and do the Value Determination process and find out

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what's highest on your value, where your value is your telos,

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the end in mind, the chief aim, the primary objective,

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the real purpose and mission in life, and you ask yourself,

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what is the highest priority actions in each of these seven areas of life that

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will help me fulfill that mission? You will change your life.

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This is a very powerful principle, this 20/80 rule.

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And so you can do that in every aspect of your health. I mean,

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the supplements you're taking, the food that you're consuming,

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the waters and drinks that you're drinking,

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the vegetable juices you're drinking. If you're not putting in quality food,

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don't expect quality outcomes. If you're not putting quality people,

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don't expect quality outcomes. The same thing in business 20/80 in business,

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like I said. Now, when it comes to spirituality,

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you can also do it in spirituality,

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20% of what you do gives you 80% results of spirituality.

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My personal feeling is that if I make a list of everything that I got to do in a

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day, which I do religiously every night, and I ask what is

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I had the opportunity to do it and put it as a gratitude journal and as a

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gratitude list and make sure I don't go to bed without thinking about what

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happened and what I was able to do and what I'm grateful for for the day.

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Then I can see the 20% of whatever I do,

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that one exercise gives me 80% results as far as grace in my day.

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Spirituality, you want to feed your mind with the greatest ideas.

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I'm working on a new book,

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on a new program I'm about to present on philosophers throughout the ages,

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philosophical thinking from the greatest minds who ever lived.

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I would much rather fill my mind with inspiring pieces of work,

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the Vyasa from the Vedanta and the great teachings

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of the India, or maybe some of the great philosophers,

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or maybe some of the religious leaders,

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I'd rather fill my mind with something that inspires me and focus on what I can

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do, the 20% that I can do that inspires me,

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that's deeply meaningful to me on a daily basis, and I get a result with that.

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If I do that, amazing things start to happen in my life.

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Whenever you're living by highest priority,

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you build momentum that becomes unstoppable.

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You expand your space and time horizons.

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You automatically gain more confidence and certainty.

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Wake up natural born leadership, draw magnetism to you.

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Because people want to be around people that are exemplifying leadership and

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power. And if you go and do that,

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you automatically will be an inspired life and you'll leave more of a legacy in

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life, and wake up as Heraclitus described, as the immortality factor inside you,

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leave a mark in life. Why not, I always say we're immortal souls.

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Why don't we set immortal goals?

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Goals that go beyond our life that we can work on, and ask,

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how is whatever's happening in these seven areas of life, helping me get there?

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And when it comes to the intellectual pursuits, the same thing occurs.

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You want to ask yourself and feed yourself,

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what is the thing you want to feed your mind with? Not just socially,

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but nutritionally, but also spiritually, in all areas,

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what is the highest priority information? You know,

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I teach a class called the Prophecy 1 Experience,

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to be a prophet of your own destiny, a wise prophet of your own destiny,

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take command of your destiny and live by design, not duty.

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The same thing when I do the Breakthrough Experience everything,

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every course that I teach around the world is designed to help people master the

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seven areas of their life,

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because I believe that you're here to master your life.

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And that 20/80 law is one of the keys to it.

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If you fill your mind with the greatest ideas from the greatest minds whoever

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lived, that stood the test of time with the most probable information,

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when I was 18 years old, I want to study universal laws.

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So I looked up universal laws and it led me to Aristotle and natural laws,

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that led me to the logos that predated Christianity and led into Christianity

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from Heraclitus. Then that led me to the idea of ologies,

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the various disciplines.

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So I made a list of all the disciplines that a person could study.

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And I made a goal to read a hundred books on each of those disciplines at 299 of

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them now. And as a result of it,

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I then wanted to find the most common universal principles that stood the test

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of time in every one of those disciplines,

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to feed my mind with the most universal probable foundation of knowledge that I

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could build a foundation of life with.

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That was the 20% of the 20% of the 20% of the information that I could devour,

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and build a whole model of life around that.

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So I basically found out that if I fill my day that way, man,

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amazing things happen. I found out I didn't need as much sleep.

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I found out I had more vitality.

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I fed my mind things that kept being inspired to me.

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I asked whatever I was reading, how's it helping me fulfill my mission?

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And I got really inspired by that and that I increased retention.

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I knew that if I took the 20% of whatever I learn that's probably conscious and

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80% of it was probably unconscious.

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And then when I linked something did something that was requiring that other

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unconscious information, when I was doing something that was purposeful,

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up came the unconscious,

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but I basically focused on the 20% of what I was reading and filling my mind

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with it. I used to select it.

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I realized that the average person may read one book a week or maybe one book a

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month or something like that. I used to read many books in a day,

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four to seven each morning. And in the process of doing it, I would ask myself,

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okay, I only have so many thousands of books I'm going to read in my life,

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what's the highest priority piece of literature I want to put in my mind?

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And I found out that if I target what it is that I want to feed my mind with by

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the greatest ideas, by the greatest minds whoever lived,

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in each of the seven areas of life, the greatest business leaders,

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the greatest financial leaders, the greatest relationship leaders,

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the greatest social leaders, the greatest health and fitness leaders,

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the greatest spiritual leaders, the greatest intellectual pursuits,

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the great Nobel prize winners, the great thinkers and philosophers,

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the great contributors and innovators,

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if I surround myself with the 20% of those people that made the biggest

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difference in the world and feed my mind that on a daily basis,

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my life changed. Well,

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I'm blessed today because I did that 20/80 rule.

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So I just wanted to take the time to talk about the 20/80 rule,

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the Vilfredo Pareto in his economics talked about.

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And you'll see this in every aspect of your life if you think.

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You can just meditate on that tonight and just contemplate that,

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and maybe you can prioritize these areas,

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cause it sure saved me a lot of aggravation in life

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the flow and get to do what I love and delegate and make sure you delegate

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everything. And that leads me to what I want to give you here.

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I've been doing the delegation process since 27,

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since I opened up my practice many years ago,

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and I want to share this little gift with you.

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I want you to download this daily delegation form.

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It's the same form that I used all these years.

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And it's a step-by-step process to get things off your plate so you can get to

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the 20% that gives you 80% results and get to the 20% of that and give you

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80% results again,

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and keep doing that until you're doing the one thing that you love doing and

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delegating the rest away and giving job opportunities to other people who would

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love to do the things you want to delegate and help economy.

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Every time you help the economy and do the highest priority things,

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you just help everyone in the thing and you can't make a difference in other

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people's lives and those opportunities without rewarding yourself.

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If you help other people get what they want to get in life,

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you get what you want to get. By delegating,

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you free people up to do what they love, so you get to do what you love.

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And that liberates you from a lot of bondage and a lot of aggravation,

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a lot of frustration. Again,

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if you don't fill your day with the high actions that inspire you,

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your day's going to fill up with low priority distractions that don't.

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And think about that in all seven areas of your life.

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And thank you for being with me on this little weekly thing.

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If you know somebody that could have benefited by hearing that,

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if that went in your mind today 'I wish so-and-so could have heard that',

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please contact them,

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pass this copy down onto them and let them get access.

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Let them know about our weekly programs. Every week, I try to give something,

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a little gem that can help you do something extraordinary with your life.

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You know, you deserve to do something amazing in your life.

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It's our real nature. We're not here to live in mediocrity,

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we're here to do something extraordinary.

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Now when I ask people around the world,

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how many of you wanna make a difference in the world?

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Everybody puts their hand up. You can make a difference.

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And the only way to make a difference is to be authentic.

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Everything and everything that's going on in your life is attempting to get you

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to be authentic, where you are on the highest priority, individual, you,

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not the personas and masks that you get to where when you're trying to scatter

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yourself into low priority things., So, the magnificence of who you are,

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that's what you want to focus on. Prioritize it, 20/80,