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Hello and welcome to Tea with the Queen.

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Today I'm going to take you

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on a little journey, a

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behind the scenes journey of a challenge

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that we did with our Thriving Woman Gang and also with other

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beautiful, beautiful ladies.

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But first I want to tell you a story.

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Do you love sales?

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Your answer's probably no, and that's okay, but do you

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love building relationships?

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Do you love building connections?

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Do you love chatting to people about what they're up to?

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The answer's probably yes.

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And that's all sales is, right?

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Connecting with people, building relationships with people.

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so many women that I speak to are so frightened of sales.

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Sales is scary.

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Business development is scary.

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On day with the queen, I did my keynote.

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And for those of you that have followed along, we do day with the

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queen once every two years, 120 women in the room, beautiful women.

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They have a luxe time.

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They learn.

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They are in relationship with each other.

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They have fun, all the things.

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And one of my stories was a story about when I first started my business way back

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when I had no cash, no idea and no clients

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and I literally just pounded the pavement.

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I had a lot of cups of tea with people and I caught up with people and I just

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talked to them about what it is that they need and what I could have provided.

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And I do and still do now an hour of business development a day.

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And I've done that for the last seven years and it's held us in very good stead.

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there is no doubt in my mind that the work that I did in those early days and now

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still do lead to success and to results.

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Now a secret for you all.

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I was terrible at sales.

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I had a boss who told me, Greg, that I was terrible at sales.

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And so I had this narrative in my head that I was terrible at sales.

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So the only way to get rid of a, uh, A narrative that plays in your mind

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or a story is to actively go and change the story and flip it around.

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Now, in those first few sales meetings or those first few meetings,

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I can tell you, I was not picking up what they were putting down.

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And sometimes they had to say to me, Emma, I'm trying to buy.

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And I'm like, really?

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Wowzers.

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And so, you know, even if you.

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something, you can absolutely improve and improve and improve.

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And now I work with women all the time and they say, I just

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don't have enough clients.

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My cashflow is lumpy.

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I don't want to do sales.

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I don't want to feel like a used car salesman, but ladies,

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we got to get good at this.

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We have to get good at And so after day with the queen, the thriving men

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gang and I decided that we would do an

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hour of power a day for a month

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and partway through that, they were getting some such amazing results.

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I wanted to share it with the rest of the world and invite other people into our

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inaugural business development sprint.

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And so I had this, this P of an idea and I messaged my friend

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Nikki from Cinch Training.

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And I said, Nikki, I've got this idea.

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What if we could get a whole stack of women together to do business

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development at the same time?

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She's like, yes, let's jump on an Instagram live.

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And I'm like, So we jumped on an Instagram live and you can see it on Nikki's feed.

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You can see it on my feed.

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It was amazing.

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And we just chatted about what the BD Sprint would look like.

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I had written a couple of business development plans, mainly around

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LinkedIn, Instagram, and personal outreach so people could pick and choose.

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And we said to people, if you want to come and join this BD Sprint and

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do an hour of power a day, Awesome.

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That's the commitment you make.

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I created a Google Doc and we use an app called Marco Polo so that

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everyone can check in each day.

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Nikki and I ran that at about 1.

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30 in the afternoon.

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By five o'clock, we had 17 women enrolled in that.

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And it was a free challenge, by the way, absolutely free.

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I just wanted to have a ripple effect.

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And I knew that if I could get a ton of women faced in the same direction,

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working on the same thing that we might just have a chance of one, getting

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some amazing results, but also cracking the code of sales So that was great.

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We had that.

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And then I realized I haven't gone to my list with this.

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And this whole thing started because I sent an email out to my email list

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and said, this is what we're doing.

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And I had some people say, Oh, can I join?

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And I'm like, yes, you can.

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So we sent it out to the list and we got about another 40 people

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who wanted to do the challenge.

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So I was managing a couple of different groups, the thriving women

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gang, and also the general public and, and women who were in my world.

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And so their commitment to me was I'll do an hour of BD a day and I'll report

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on it so that we could capture the data.

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And my commitment to them was I would show up on Marco Polo every day.

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I would give them a sales tip every day and then we'd round out the day

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and I'd answer questions as we went.

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Look, it was so much fun.

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I think some of these things just feel hard and massive and arduous,

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but when you chunk it down into small chunks, actually spending an hour

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on LinkedIn a day is not a big deal.

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having one phone call with someone or one zoom call with someone

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is actually not a big deal.

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I feel like we make it bigger than it needs to be.

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So if you can imagine, you've done zero business development in your business for.

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a month.

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A lot of women have never done business development.

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They have all been about the referral and ladies referrals are freaking amazing.

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I want more referrals, but that is not a proactive sales strategy.

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We need to be proactive about going out and having a bit

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of a sales strategy, right?

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some of these women had never done business development before.

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So they spent 10 days.

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Doing 10 hours of business development.

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Some of them found it really tricky.

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I'm not going to lie because you have to show up.

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You have to show up.

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You have to be in service.

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A lot of the, things we talked about was people getting stuck on.

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I'm connecting, but I'm not moving it along into the next conversation, or I

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don't know how to do this authentically, or how do I do this and still be me?

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Now I've been doing it for a long time, so I feel like sales comes relatively

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easy to me and I don't feel like I'm ever selling if people come and have a chat

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with me, I help them with whatever their issue is at that point in time, and then

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I'm like, here's how you work with me.

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And I offer it up and if they choose to take one of those options, awesome.

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If they choose not to take one of those options, also awesome.

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But I like to gamify business development I love a game.

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I love a challenge.

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I also think we're better when we're doing something together.

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And I wanted to get rid of this, Silly notion that sales is scary.

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Sales can be amazing.

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Sales can lead to conversations you never thought you would have.

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Sales can connect women together.

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Collaborations happen.

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More business happens.

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The sneaky thing about.

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bringing a group of women together is they needed to tell us who they were.

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I know that they have got those women have gone on and got

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relationships with each other.

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So they were out there doing the same thing, but also they were making sure that

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they, were showing up as themselves in the group and they got clients out of it.

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How awesome is that?

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So we had a full on week.

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I won't lie.

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When I thought about this business development sprint, um,

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I was smack bang in the middle of launch for Thriving Women.

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And I thought, Oh, can I take another thing on?

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But I love sales and I love helping people get over their fear of sales.

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So I knew it was so in my wheelhouse to do this.

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We had full on two weeks I also ran an event called go get a

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day, which I do in Melbourne.

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It was a sold out event.

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So at the same time I was launching thriving women.

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I was getting ready for go get a day, our final one for the year.

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And I was finishing off this sprint and there were some incredible

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smart humans in the sprint.

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I don't think you can beat.

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So as I was putting the plans together, some of them focused on their LinkedIn,

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some of them focused on the Instagram.

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I focus on personal outreach.

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Who can I actually speak to?

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Who can I get belly to belly with?

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Who can I get eyeball to eyeball with?

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There's nothing that speaks better in terms of credibility.

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If you can show them what you do.

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And one of the beautiful things for us is go get a date.

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I facilitate a room full of women and they're getting stuff done on their

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business and on the side I'm coaching them if they've got any issues that come

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up throughout the day and they love that.

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Last go get a day, I sat down with a woman and she said to me,

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Emma, I need a new revenue stream.

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I'm like, awesome.

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We had 15 minutes together.

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We scratched out a new revenue stream.

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I showed her how she can make 108, 000 from the new revenue stream.

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Do you reckon she was happy with 15 minutes with a business coach?

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Oh yes, she was.

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But it also showed her that actually it's not that hard when we break things down.

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Now in my email list, if you're on my email list, you would have seen a bit of

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the behind the scenes sneak peek at some of our stats, but I thought I'd round out

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the challenge with the final two weeks, although four for our thriving women gang.

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And if you want to see this because you're a visual learner on Instagram,

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just jump onto my Instagram page, Emma Armour Queen, and you'll

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be able to see it there as well.

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But I thought I would share all of the data from those

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business development sprints.

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Okay.

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So the numbers by the numbers, this gang spent 101 hours connecting and engaging

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on LinkedIn now there is a caveat to this.

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I should have said this.

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Some people didn't fill in their results.

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So these are only for the results that I got.

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If people filled in their results, right?

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So 101.

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Hours spent connecting and engaging on LinkedIn, which turned into

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1,502 LinkedIn connections made

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1,502.

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Amazing.

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There were 322 phone calls made.

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They are my favorite.

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With 97 meetings booked these stats don't lie.

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From that 26 proposals were sent, 51 hours spent connecting and engaging on Instagram

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and 402 new followers on Instagram.

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But the creme de la creme, the piece de resistance 103

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pieces of new business secured

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let me say that again, 103 pieces of new business secured.

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Whoop whoop!

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You bet I was excited.

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Now, you might say, what does 103 pieces of new business secured mean, Emma?

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Well, it means a new client, a new retained client, a new

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membership, a new registration.

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It could mean any of those things because everyone has

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very different business models.

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But ladies, the alternative is no business development.

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and no business secured.

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And in the economy as it is, everyone has been saying to me, Emma, no one's buying.

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That is a load of BS.

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People are buying if the messaging is right, if the marketing is right,

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and if you're doing the sales.

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Now, a little thing that one of, my ladies really understood very well in this,

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the fortune is always in the follow up.

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We know that buying decisions are taking longer at the moment, which

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is called And I've tested this out.

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I tested this out throughout the Thriving Women launch.

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11 touch points.

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That's what people need to buy.

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Now, not everyone is doing 11 touch points.

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Not everyone is following up.

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So if you're the person doing the touch points, doing the follow up, chances

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are you're going to secure new business.

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As I said in my email last week, there are no surprises here.

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When you show up consistently, the work comes in.

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You can also see that when you put in the effort, you are absolutely rewarded.

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And boy, oh boy, have we been rewarded.

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It was a fabulous experiment and we will be running it again, throughout Thriving

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Women next year, but also with the public.

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So if you're listening to this and thinking, Oh yeah, I need a bit of a

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zhuzh up in my business development.

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We have a, challenge that will run in February of 2025.

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People are tired now.

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people are still buying now, by the way, people are absolutely still buying.

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So if this gives you some impetus and you think, how do I do it?

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Just reach out to me in the DMs.

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I will share with you how we did it.

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but we will be doing it three times next year because what we know is everyone

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got a little bit more momentum, a little bit more comfortable with BD.

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And so we're going to do it three times next year.

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Amazing.

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So if you're frightened of business development, or you think, Oh, I

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don't want to sound too salesy.

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Can I say, pick up the phone, show up on LinkedIn, show up on

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your socials, be okay with BD.

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Buggering it up.

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Oh my goodness.

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I buggered it up so many times.

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Now it doesn't even feel like a sales call to me.

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Now it just feels like a conversation that I've having with someone and

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I have an offer at the other end.

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I hope this has helped.

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This is an unusual one for me because I don't normally do behind the

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scenes, but I loved this experiment.

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I know this experiment's got legs.

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Also, if you're listening to this and you're like, Hmm.

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Change the name.

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Yes.

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I want to change the name.

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I don't think BD experiment is the best thing or BD sprint

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is the best name for it.

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So if you feel like there's a better name for it, let me know that doesn't

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lose its essence because essentially this is all about showing up and

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focusing on business development.

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Hey, if you choose to take any of these tips, please let us know.

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Love to hear about them.