Hey, I'm Paige Killian, founder and CEO of everything
Unknown:with style. I've built a business helping busy moms of
Unknown:littles get organized in three simple steps. Like many of my
Unknown:clients, I love being a mom. And I also desire more. If you've
Unknown:ever felt that stirring in your heart, that whisper or really
Unknown:loud voice that keeps you up at night, then you are in the right
Unknown:place. Because this is not a solo mission. Whether you're a
Unknown:little curious or totally ready to be a mom, boss and use your
Unknown:God given gifts to serve others step into your calling, turn
Unknown:your passions into purpose, and still make it to the carpool
Unknown:line on time, then girlfriend, it's time to pivot. I've got
Unknown:you. Now let's get started.
Unknown:Hey, my friend, welcome back to another episode of the time to
Unknown:pivot podcast, we are cruising through launch week, I am so
Unknown:grateful that you have chosen to come back and listen to all of
Unknown:these episodes. I hope that it is firing you up. I hope it is
Unknown:providing value. I hope that it's encouraging you that you
Unknown:get to show up as you and we are going to work together to figure
Unknown:out how to use your God given gifts to serve others to get out
Unknown:of this place of stress, and frustration and stuckness if
Unknown:you're there, if you are in the middle of a pivot and transition
Unknown:into this new place, feeling whole feeling supported, feeling
Unknown:like you're on the right track to help others because what is
Unknown:more beautiful than that, you can help yourself and you can
Unknown:help others. How beautiful. So is there this thing that is
Unknown:coming up for you? That is stopping you? Is there this
Unknown:thing that's making you feel like what you desire is wrong.
Unknown:We already talked about guilt. All right, we talked about that
Unknown:mom guilt if you're a mom, we talked about that guilt and
Unknown:saying goodbye to that on episode three. Are you stressed
Unknown:because you feel like you don't know what the next step is? All
Unknown:right, we talked about on Episode Two about how my three
Unknown:E's philosophy helped me simplify whenever I'm setting
Unknown:goals, and I want to achieve them. Because we can get
Unknown:overwhelmed whenever we feel like there's a whole bunch of
Unknown:different things that are stacked against us or that are
Unknown:making it hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel. All
Unknown:right. Are you feeling worried or anxious about showing up as
Unknown:you who you authentically are? We talked about on the last
Unknown:episode how I am such a strange in I suppose lovely combination
Unknown:of mom, business owner, faith based believer and lover of 90s
Unknown:Hip Hop, it gets me excited. And I don't think there's anything
Unknown:wrong with having all those different parts of you that make
Unknown:you whole. I think what's wrong is if you're not tapping into
Unknown:all those different parts of you, because then you're showing
Unknown:up halfway. So if today, we're gonna talk about fear, fear of
Unknown:failure, fear that gets in the way and keeps you stuck. Or
Unknown:keeps you second guessing yourself. So what about a part
Unknown:of you is maybe holding you back is is there a part of you that
Unknown:not showing up wholly you because you're like, What if
Unknown:people aren't going to like this one part of me? What if people
Unknown:like I shared in the last episode? What if people think my
Unknown:accent is awful? Maybe it is. Maybe it is awful? Maybe you
Unknown:like it? I've had a lot of people say oh I love your accent
Unknown:Are you from the south? A lot of people are like are you from
Unknown:Texas? No see other ut the other orange ut really really
Unknown:Tennessee and Texas. We couldn't have had a little bit more
Unknown:division like we have a similar accent. We have a TI we have ut
Unknown:Texas, Tennessee, we have the orange. Let's do something to
Unknown:differentiate us. I will say ut definitely. Texas definitely has
Unknown:a better orange than we do. Tennessee has that like slight
Unknown:crazy bright scream in orange. It's not bad. It's not bad. But
Unknown:I feel like there's a little more depth in that burnt orange
Unknown:that Texas has. Okay. So the point is we're tapping in to the
Unknown:whole us. You're if you're an orange bleeder if you're a
Unknown:whatever it is about you that makes you special and uniquely
Unknown:you. That's what we're tapping into. And we're going to talk
Unknown:about how out a day, we can do that without the fear. Because
Unknown:fear is a liar. Fear holds us back because it makes us believe
Unknown:that we can't move forward. Can't needs to be taken out of
Unknown:the equation. If you're here because you feel like you've got
Unknown:this thing that is brewing inside of you that, as I've
Unknown:mentioned before, keeps you up at night causes you to be on a
Unknown:loop in your head and think, am I supposed to be doing this? Am
Unknown:I supposed to be not doing this? Am I supposed to like how do I
Unknown:make sense of all of this. And then fear comes in, when you
Unknown:start to get maybe a little clearer about something and goes
Unknown:boom, roadblocks stop, you can't do it, this forward momentum
Unknown:that you've got, we are going to put a speed bump right in front
Unknown:of you. That's rude. That's not cool. And where does fear come
Unknown:from, can come from a lot of different places. I feel like it
Unknown:comes from the enemy. For the most part. You can think about
Unknown:when I say enemy as whatever you want. I'm gonna let you put a
Unknown:face and a name to that. But I know that I feel like when I am
Unknown:stuck and stressed, and I need to move forward. A lot of times
Unknown:it is because fear is heavily weighing on me. Why do we give
Unknown:fear that much authority in our lives? Why? Now some might say
Unknown:that fear is put on us as a way of protecting us as a way of
Unknown:keeping us safe. Let's think about it. If you had to go from
Unknown:one side of the road to another side of the road, and there were
Unknown:cars whizzing by, and it's pouring down rain, and you're
Unknown:feeling nervous and doubt comes into place that you're like do I
Unknown:get to cross this road safely? Or is this going to be tragic?
Unknown:Is this going to end in a big fat disaster? Well, that is
Unknown:something that your body and your brain, your heart, your
Unknown:soul, your mind, or whatever you're thinking could be showing
Unknown:up because it's keeping you safe. But guess what happens?
Unknown:You're missing out on what's on the other side of that busy
Unknown:crazy road? And are Are we okay with that? There are parts of us
Unknown:that are protected. When fear comes in where we're safe or
Unknown:protected, we're comfortable, that are okay to feel I feel
Unknown:safe and secure. In my home. I know that it is not
Unknown:impenetrable. We have an alarm system, just as extra support.
Unknown:Talk about being safe and protected. That gives you that
Unknown:extra support. How can you arm yourself? I don't know if you've
Unknown:ever read or thought about or discussed putting on the armor
Unknown:of God. So before you get up and get ready to go out and your day
Unknown:and do all the things that you're supposed to be doing. Do
Unknown:you put on the armor of God? Do you have that faith? Have you
Unknown:armed yourself with Scripture and support and whatever it is
Unknown:you need? That makes you feel like whatever comes I can
Unknown:weather the storm because I have this security on my side? Well,
Unknown:that's great. That is okay. And that is part of where fear can
Unknown:help us. I'm sure you've heard, feel the fear and do it anyway.
Unknown:Because sometimes tapping into that fear can make us feel so
Unknown:flipping strong when we get to the other side. Because we can
Unknown:look back and be like, Did you see what I just did? Oh my gosh,
Unknown:oh, my goodness, I just came through this really tough thing.
Unknown:And I was super scared. I was fearful that I decided I'm just
Unknown:gonna, I'm just gonna do it anyway. Now, if you're at that
Unknown:place where you're like, Well, that's all well and good. But
Unknown:how do you do it anyway? When you're scared? I get that. I
Unknown:hear that. That's a reasonable question. So I've mentioned so
Unknown:many times already, I will continue to say this you tap
Unknown:into whatever you need to tap into. For me, it's my faith. I
Unknown:want to share some verses with you really quickly because I
Unknown:think they've helped me and I think that they can help you as
Unknown:well. I'm not going to share some of the ones on anxiety
Unknown:because I'm going to talk about that in the future because oil
Unknown:boy I'm going to share with you some personal experiences of
Unknown:anxiety. So all go into that a little bit deeper another time
Unknown:if you're an anxious person, you're in good company.
Unknown:I'm here with you my friend and I'm going to share with you some
Unknown:things that have helped me a lot. And also by the way, have I
Unknown:opened up the line of communication for you guys to
Unknown:share with me your thoughts as well. Please Please hear me when
Unknown:I say that on this podcast, I really want it to be like a
Unknown:conversation. That's why I'm super excited about having
Unknown:guests on. So they can share their experiences so that we can
Unknown:all learn. I am so wide open to receive thoughts and messages
Unknown:that you have, because you might be ahead of me in a lot of ways
Unknown:on this journey, and you might have some great advice. So
Unknown:please, please, please go to everything with style.com. And
Unknown:there is a contact page there, please put in your information.
Unknown:If you want to weigh in on something that I talked about on
Unknown:an episode, if you would like to share your wisdom and your
Unknown:brilliance, so that it can either make it into a podcast
Unknown:episode so that we could connect so that you could be a guest on
Unknown:the show, or so that you can simply have that back and forth
Unknown:conversation with me if if you're in a place of
Unknown:uncertainty, or if you're in a place of absolute certainty, and
Unknown:you want to share that I just want to make sure you know, I
Unknown:would absolutely love that open dialogue. So please make sure
Unknown:that when when you are listening to this podcast that you feel
Unknown:like it is a conversation, which means I am so ready and willing
Unknown:and open to have a conversation with you back. So if there's
Unknown:something that ever I say, and you feel like it needs to be
Unknown:challenged, that's okay, too. That's okay to look, here's me
Unknown:saying that makes me a little nervous. That makes me a little
Unknown:scared, but it's okay. I do open it because I think when we have
Unknown:those hard conversations, we grow, and we can do it together.
Unknown:So it doesn't feel so lonely. You know, I'm solo here, I'm
Unknown:sharing these things with you solo, other than when I have my
Unknown:guests on. And so I am so open to what your thoughts and
Unknown:feelings are. If I've said something that maybe you feel
Unknown:like needs correcting challenging, obviously, I would
Unknown:love for you to do that in a super respectful way. Love you,
Unknown:thank you. But I also really want you to be real. So if
Unknown:there's something that you're hearing, especially like to you
Unknown:know, let's be honest about how I'm about to share some verses,
Unknown:and they can land one way on me. And they can be interpreted by
Unknown:other people in other ways. And there, I did not go to seminary,
Unknown:there are lots of people who have done so much more research
Unknown:and work on knowing the origin and the full context of a lot of
Unknown:these verses. And so if ever you hear me share a verse and you
Unknown:think, yeah, I think you're on the right track. And I could see
Unknown:how you could see it that way. But also, in my experience, this
Unknown:is something that's come up for me, this is a different part of
Unknown:the verse, I'll tell you that actually, my best friend
Unknown:Tiffany, she and I have now been friends for like 30 years. Oh my
Unknown:goodness. She and I have talked about that verse that talks
Unknown:about the desires of your heart. And I you know what, I'll drop
Unknown:that episode in the show notes that I did on the moms
Unknown:organization motivation podcast, it was really cool, because I
Unknown:actually had her talk to me afterwards, about that, and how
Unknown:she felt like that went. And it was really cool, because she and
Unknown:I got to talk about that verse a little bit more. And she had
Unknown:done a Bible study where they specifically talked about the
Unknown:desires of your heart, and how that could be interpreted. And
Unknown:she shared with me, just this really cool perspective of like,
Unknown:we might be thinking, Oh, I, you know, want to do this, because
Unknown:of the desires of my heart. But truly when we are desiring to be
Unknown:closer to God and share in a more connected and intimate
Unknown:relationship with Him, that we will start to desire, the things
Unknown:that He desires for us. And I loved that perspective. So that
Unknown:was really cool. So that was great. It was like my respectful
Unknown:friend who reached out to me and was like, loved that episode.
Unknown:And also wanted to tell you that I did this Bible study, and we,
Unknown:you know, dove a little deeper. And this was a cool perspective.
Unknown:So, Tiff, thanks, girlfriend, love you. That was really
Unknown:helpful for me. And now I feel like I have a deeper
Unknown:understanding appreciation and perspective, when I see that
Unknown:verse come up. So I just want to make sure that was super clear.
Unknown:So again, we're talking about failure, and we're talking about
Unknown:how to feel like we can push past it because that can be a
Unknown:really big, scary thing, when fear of failure comes in to
Unknown:play. So first, I'm going to share with you Psalm 46, five.
Unknown:And you know, what's interesting is when I started looking into
Unknown:this verse, first of all, I heard that people have it
Unknown:tattooed on them, which I suppose there's lots of verses
Unknown:that can be tattooed on them. But one woman in particular
Unknown:shared with me that she has it on her foot. And there was
Unknown:something about that, that I was like, Ooh, that's so grounding.
Unknown:That's such a firm foundation. I'm such a literal person
Unknown:sometimes do and so I was thinking about that. So imagine
Unknown:this universe being on someone's plate it, but what I did find is
Unknown:that it's shared in a few different ways. Okay, so Psalm
Unknown:46 Five says, God is within her, she will not fall, there's
Unknown:another version of it, that is God is within her, she will not
Unknown:fail. So if you're feeling that struggle has to do with, I'm
Unknown:afraid, because I'm afraid if I put myself out there, and I fail
Unknown:at it, it's gonna feel dot dot dot insert whatever you feel
Unknown:like your feelings are. I know, I get scared of failure. Oh, my
Unknown:goodness, I'm afraid that certain things that I try could
Unknown:be a total bust. And here's what I want to say. Just like our
Unknown:Heavenly Father gives us those promises, that we're not alone.
Unknown:And that with him, we're not going to fall. He's not going to
Unknown:let us fall. But I will say there's a big part of failure.
Unknown:That is actually a good thing that we can use to learn. And I
Unknown:want to share with you this really sweet, precious moment
Unknown:that my awesome Rockstar dad said to me, shared with me when
Unknown:I got ready to go off to now suddenly, I'm trying to remember
Unknown:was it No, at first I thought it was high school and I was
Unknown:getting ready to go off to college. But no, I think that
Unknown:this was when I was graduating college. And it was getting
Unknown:ready to go off into the big scary world, the big, wild, wild
Unknown:west the bit and really West because I was going to
Unknown:California and I was in Tennessee. So truly the wild
Unknown:wild west. But the big scary, unknown guest when he said, just
Unknown:like our Heavenly Father promises that He is going to be
Unknown:there for us. My earthly father said to me, Paige, you are going
Unknown:to do great big things. And I don't want you to be afraid to
Unknown:fail. He said, I am here to catch you. I am here to give you
Unknown:that support. When you mess up, because you will you will mess
Unknown:up. But that's not a bad thing. So do not be afraid to go out
Unknown:there. Chase your dreams. Go big, go big or go home is not
Unknown:necessarily what I think my dad said. Because he didn't want me
Unknown:to come back home not because he doesn't love me. But he wants me
Unknown:to come home and visit is he me to come home and live with them.
Unknown:He needs me to go big and stay out of home. No, no, he needs me
Unknown:to go big. And stay out there knowing that he's my safety net.
Unknown:And I so appreciated that because I can tell you right now
Unknown:that having that backup that support that plan, in case I
Unknown:totally ruin this or really jack it up. Dad's going to be there.
Unknown:I know mom's going to be there, I know my family is going to be
Unknown:there to support me. If you don't have a family like that.
Unknown:If you don't have an earthly father like that, that's going
Unknown:to be like, you go out and you try these big hard things.
Unknown:Because if you mess up, you're going to learn from it. And I'm
Unknown:still going to be here to love you and support you, then I will
Unknown:tell you right now, first of all, my dad's heart is big
Unknown:enough to love you too. So
Unknown:I'm just gonna go ahead and say that he'll be cheering you on
Unknown:too. But I'm here to support you as well, because I know how
Unknown:scary that can be to step out into the unknown to go out and
Unknown:do something that your other family members aren't going to
Unknown:be right there with you and your friends, your besties are going
Unknown:to hang back in Tennessee, and they're not going to be right
Unknown:there with you or not everybody said in Tennessee some went on
Unknown:to do other things as well. But they nobody came with me to
Unknown:California. Okay, like I came out here so low. I had a dear
Unknown:friend who was in the theatre department with me at the
Unknown:University of Tennessee in Knoxville. So we ended up
Unknown:meeting up later out here, but I came out here solo, and I did it
Unknown:scared. I Gosh. Now I haven't even thought about the dollar
Unknown:amount. But I'm thinking about I sold my car when I was in
Unknown:college and I put some money in a bank account and I let that
Unknown:grow. And then when I moved out here, I took that money. And I
Unknown:came out and I bought a car I literally got on a plane. I
Unknown:think I had three suitcases. And then I moved out here without a
Unknown:car without a home. And I just trusted that God was going to
Unknown:make away but if I'm not mistaken, I came out here with
Unknown:$1,500 That's all I had. And if you don't know how expensive
Unknown:rent is in California, let me just tell you, holy, holy,
Unknown:everything holy. All the words that I'm not going to say
Unknown:because this is a clean podcast. I mean, I was like for one
Unknown:month, so you better believe girlfriend got multiple jobs
Unknown:when she moved out here. I was working on a movie and Do that
Unknown:getting my sag card because as I said, I was a theater major. And
Unknown:so I did all this work with theater but not with movies, I
Unknown:had one experience with a an indie movie. And so I came out
Unknown:here with my little headshot with my theater headshot, too.
Unknown:So that's kind of ridiculous, with movies, ended up getting
Unknown:three days after moving out here walking onto a set, that I ended
Unknown:up getting a bigger part than I thought I was going to walk on
Unknown:us an extra and getting a bigger part got a speaking role became
Unknown:a SAG member that Screen Actors Guild, for years got to like, do
Unknown:I got to vote, they would send me on CDs, they would send me
Unknown:all the newest videos that were coming out. It was so fun,
Unknown:because I would get my friends together or so my family members
Unknown:together to watch those movies that were contenders for, you
Unknown:know, Oscars and SAG Awards, and all that kind of stuff. And so
Unknown:we get to vote on that. So cool. Do you think for one second, I
Unknown:would have tried that. If I was so fearful and I didn't feel
Unknown:like I had a firm foundation waiting for me at home that was
Unknown:like, You go big. You think about your wildest dreams and
Unknown:then move toward them. And it is okay if you fail. And it is okay
Unknown:if you're fearful because I've got you. And that's what our
Unknown:Heavenly Father says. He says, I've got you. Okay, he says, I
Unknown:am with you. You will not fall. There's another version that
Unknown:says God is within her, she shall not be moved. Hey, quick
Unknown:reminder, you can now get my book in four different ways.
Unknown:Head over to Amazon and search up I've got a girlfriend, the
Unknown:subtitle is why getting organized and living this mom
Unknown:life is not a solo mission. You can find it there on ereader.
Unknown:That's through the Kindle app, paperback, hardcover, and the
Unknown:audiobook. So if you're enjoying this podcast, I have a feeling
Unknown:you may love the audio book. Again. It's called I've got you
Unknown:girlfriend, why getting organized and living this mom
Unknown:life is not a solo mission. Thanks so much for making it a
Unknown:best seller and back to the show. So whatever version you're
Unknown:hearing, you shall not fail, you shall not be moved, you shall
Unknown:not fall, whatever version you're whatever is landing on
Unknown:you, I want you to clean to that. And I want you to remember
Unknown:that fear is a liar. It is meant to scare us and keep us stuck.
Unknown:And it might be masked as protection or being safe. So you
Unknown:don't step out into oncoming traffic, that could hurt you.
Unknown:But there's a way to feel the fear and responsibly take the
Unknown:next step to get to the other side. Because what's on the
Unknown:other side might be what you were meant for. And also, it
Unknown:might be the journey of crossing that busy street, we were really
Unknown:taking this metaphor all the way really feeling all the bumps and
Unknown:the hard stuff and the jump out of the way of a fast moving car,
Unknown:feelings all the way across it, it can be the journey that is
Unknown:actually what you're meant to accomplish, because it's in the
Unknown:journey that we learn. And it's in the journey that we help
Unknown:other people. Because if there were no roadblocks, if there was
Unknown:nothing standing in our way at all, and it was super easy. I'm
Unknown:here to tell you your dreams aren't big enough. Okay, I want
Unknown:to be a good mom. There are roadblocks every day. There are
Unknown:many times where my patience is tested. I have to go to a place
Unknown:in my head where I'm like Paige, you love your children. They are
Unknown:wonderful. Oh, by the way, this can work in marriage too. This
Unknown:can work with co workers too. This can work in friendships
Unknown:too. This can work with family members too, where you have to
Unknown:mentally go to a place and say Jesus take the wheel. Because if
Unknown:it's left to me, I'm going to mess this up. And I want to
Unknown:remind you that it's okay if you mess it up. Because even in the
Unknown:failure, even in the stumbles even in the roadblocks, you can
Unknown:find some really good lessons and they can help you and they
Unknown:can help other people and that's what I'm here to say. If you're
Unknown:working on those gifts if you're working on identifying what are
Unknown:my gifts and how can I use them to serve others. Think about the
Unknown:struggles that you've been through. Okay, I share a lot
Unknown:about mom's struggles. I share a lot about feeling like I need to
Unknown:support my family and offer some relief to my husband from doing
Unknown:it all on his own whether financially whether just showing
Unknown:up as a parent It's hard to do things so low, and I want to
Unknown:contribute to my family in that way. I also want to see my
Unknown:business blow up. I want to be able to serve as many people as
Unknown:I possibly can. Because I believe that that is part of my
Unknown:mission, not in a vain, yucky way where I feel like I'm here
Unknown:to save you. Oh, no, that's weird. No, it is. This is how I
Unknown:have stumbled and struggle. Even in building a business. I didn't
Unknown:know how to do a lot of the things that I'm doing now. I
Unknown:asked for help. I felt the fear, I did it anyway, I took comfort
Unknown:in knowing that my dad, my mom, my family supported me, I took
Unknown:comfort in that. And I felt encouraged by that. And I want
Unknown:to remind you again, that if you do not feel that, please reach
Unknown:out to me because I want to encourage you today I want you
Unknown:to know you are not alone, you are supported. And I will be
Unknown:your safety net. Okay. So if that is scary, because you don't
Unknown:feel like you have a safety net, I would love to be part of your
Unknown:safety net. And I just know I'm gonna come with Jesus, okay,
Unknown:we're gonna come in this together, because I don't do
Unknown:anything alone. So you're gonna get that extra support as well
Unknown:just know. Okay. All right, let's talk about another verse.
Unknown:So as we're talking about fear of failure and fear, just in
Unknown:anything in life, how do we push past it whether you're worried
Unknown:that you're failing as a mom been there? So been there? Still
Unknown:sometimes there? Ah, that's a lot, right? Also fear as a
Unknown:business owner, fear as the author who's trying to figure
Unknown:out how to write her words down to serve other people fear as a
Unknown:podcaster, who's trying to figure out how to say things in
Unknown:a concise way. Oh, me and concise. That's not always a
Unknown:thing. What about me as a person who likes to go on stage, and
Unknown:share my message in that way, I get really fearful when I step
Unknown:onto the stage, right? When the like, the dry mouth sets in, and
Unknown:I get really nervous. And then suddenly, it feels like wait a
Unknown:sec, I'm meant to be here. And this message is something I'm
Unknown:supposed to share. I need to withdraw the fear. And just
Unknown:trust that there's a message here is that what's going on for
Unknown:you at home, in your business, in your marriage in your life?
Unknown:Where does that land on you? Okay, more verses? Because this
Unknown:just helps me. How about Isaiah 4110? Fear not. I mean, we could
Unknown:just stop there. Fear not. Okay. Bible says it, don't do it.
Unknown:Don't fear. That's hard, right?
Unknown:So how do we push through it? It says Fear not, for I am with
Unknown:you. So that's the part of not feeling alone. That's how we do
Unknown:it. We get in a supportive group, we get around people who
Unknown:are going to bring us encouragement, when we fail,
Unknown:because we're going to fail, or we're gonna learn lessons. We're
Unknown:going to be surrounded by friends who are there to uplift
Unknown:us not to hurt us. We're going to trust in God, because here's
Unknown:what else he says, Fear not for I am with you. Be not dismayed
Unknown:for I am your God, I will strengthen you. I love that
Unknown:part. Because I want to be strong. And I'm not always
Unknown:strong. But I want to show up like I am. And he says, I will
Unknown:strengthen you. So you better believe that's where I get a lot
Unknown:of my strength. He says, I will help you, I will uphold you with
Unknown:my righteous right hand. This is your right hand, man. He is
Unknown:there to support you. So I love that one. That one's so good. So
Unknown:just know you're not alone. That's a way that we push past
Unknown:it right. And then also, I love this too. Psalm 27. One, The
Unknown:Lord is my light, and my salvation, whom shall I fear?
Unknown:Okay, so look, if you've got him on your side, who's going to
Unknown:come in and mess with that? They can try. They can try. But he's
Unknown:on your side. So don't be scared. Don't let the fear stop
Unknown:you from your purpose. You can absolutely push past that.
Unknown:There's another part of that verse in Psalm that says,
Unknown:though, a host in camp against me, my heart will not fear. So
Unknown:you could not just have one person coming for you. You could
Unknown:have a host people, a whole bunch of people, there could be
Unknown:a whole organization that is coming for you. And by the way,
Unknown:they could be coming for you or one person could be coming for
Unknown:you because you're wrong. And you need to be challenged. So
Unknown:make sure you're hearing that and then pray for discernment.
Unknown:Right? Because sometimes we do need to be challenged because
Unknown:our thinking is off. That's why I welcome you You reach out to
Unknown:me, like we can have conversations about stuff if you
Unknown:think I say something, and it's not in line with what you think
Unknown:I want to hear what you think I can grow from that, I can do
Unknown:better from that. So maybe people are are coming at you to
Unknown:feel like that people are just like coming out and I'm trying
Unknown:to make a difference. People are coming at me, they could
Unknown:actually be doing that in a way that could serve you. And it
Unknown:could make you stop and think and really decide if what you're
Unknown:doing is, right. I talked about on the last episode, having that
Unknown:friend group that's going to check you in case you are in the
Unknown:wrong and that's okay. Right? There's, there's some failure
Unknown:there, that's okay, we're gonna own it, we're gonna be like,
Unknown:whoo, I messed that up. And then you're gonna move forward. I
Unknown:also talked about on the last episode, how there are different
Unknown:levels of fear, okay, we could be afraid when we're packing our
Unknown:kids lunch for school, that they're not going to eat it that
Unknown:day, or they're not going to like it. That's like, low level
Unknown:fear. Okay, you might be like, hey, out here, I'm just putting
Unknown:something in there. And I'm just like, whatever, eat it, don't
Unknown:eat it. I don't care, I gotta go to work. You know, you can be
Unknown:there. But some parents really are like, Ah, I really hope they
Unknown:like it. I want them to have that nutritional value, blah,
Unknown:blah, blah, healthy, healthy, blah, blah, blah. So I know when
Unknown:I'm packing their lunch, I'm really trying to be aware of not
Unknown:only what they like, but also getting that good stuff in their
Unknown:bodies. And also wondering, are they going to stop long enough
Unknown:and stop talking to their friends long enough and hold off
Unknown:on recess long enough to scarf this down, I need to make sure
Unknown:I'm putting it in easy to eat bite sized pieces so that they
Unknown:can scarf it down. So they can get on with their best second
Unknown:grade and sixth grade lives, right? So there's that low level
Unknown:of fear. And then there's the big fear when you have like mega
Unknown:big scary things. So I talked about on the last episode, that
Unknown:I have friends who are doing really difficult things they are
Unknown:on actual missions in other countries to help serve and
Unknown:spread the word of God and to support these people who don't
Unknown:have clean drinking water. And who are you guys they are there
Unknown:the I'm stumbling, because the thought of this is terrifying.
Unknown:There are people who are being beheaded, if they find out that
Unknown:they believe in God, that they're practicing their faith.
Unknown:Can you imagine who wants to That is terrifying. And I have
Unknown:friends who are there on a daily basis, serving those people
Unknown:bringing water and food and love and comfort to those people that
Unknown:talk about fear. Talk about a fear of failure of their
Unknown:mission, talk about fear for their lives, for their spouse,
Unknown:for those people that they are quickly falling in love with
Unknown:because they know these are God's people that are there to
Unknown:serve. I mean, they will send us photos to let us see like so we
Unknown:can celebrate when prayers are answered, and they send these
Unknown:amazing photos. And then there are other photos they send. And
Unknown:they're like, you cannot share these because these people's
Unknown:lives will be at stake do not post these. But you spread the
Unknown:word that these things are happening so that we can figure
Unknown:out a way to support them, because they don't deserve that.
Unknown:So all my word talk about fear school shootings, really bad
Unknown:things that are happening to people to harm them. This is big
Unknown:fear. So I want you to know that no matter where fear is in your
Unknown:life, right now, you are not alone, there is a safety net,
Unknown:there is loving, friendly support and encouragement. And
Unknown:you are meant to do great big things. Wherever you are,
Unknown:however you want to use those gifts, you are meant to do that.
Unknown:And fear does not need to be something that keeps you stuck.
Unknown:All right. So I also want to say that if you are feeling like you
Unknown:need some backup, because you are stuck again, please reach
Unknown:out everything. style.com go to the contact page, you can pop in
Unknown:some information there, tell me what's going on, tell me how I
Unknown:can serve you. I will also let you know how I can support you,
Unknown:I have different types of ways that we can work together. If
Unknown:you need it to be a one and done. We get some things worked
Unknown:out for your business or your life. And we figure out three
Unknown:simple steps to narrow that down and give you just that initial
Unknown:jumping off point. Let's do it. If it needs to be a free
Unknown:consultation where we just chat. And then you're like, Okay, I
Unknown:got this. And then I send you out and often pray for you and
Unknown:be so excited for you because you're doing great big things
Unknown:amazing. Or whether it's working together in a bigger, longer
Unknown:program so that I can support you every step of the way.
Unknown:Because some of these things that you're about to step into
Unknown:that are really big and scary and you might be fearful of,
Unknown:they're going to take some time. So if you need a friend who's
Unknown:going to be there for the long run, and you'll be able to
Unknown:bounce ideas off of as we go each month. There's also that
Unknown:way that I can support you as well. So I just want to make
Unknown:sure that you know, as we're talking about fear, which is a
Unknown:big scary thing, you're not alone, and I would love to be
Unknown:here to help you. So, I am so grateful that you've stayed with
Unknown:me through this whole episode. I love and appreciate you, I am
Unknown:getting so much back from you just being here and listening.
Unknown:And this helps me to process my thoughts and feelings. And I
Unknown:honestly feel like because you are showing up and and helping
Unknown:me just not be alone in this, that it is actually deepening my
Unknown:faith and my mission. And so I am really grateful for you as
Unknown:well. So I'm feeling the love back and I really appreciate
Unknown:that. All right. Are you ready? Are you ready? As ready as I am
Unknown:for the guest episodes to start coming up. I am so excited. On
Unknown:the next episode, we are going to hear from Meghan Dolman,
Unknown:someone who was originally slated to be a guest on the moms
Unknown:organization motivation podcast, and I realized I needed to pivot
Unknown:and I shared with her. Hey, um, I know that you're on this zoom
Unknown:right now, because we are supposed to record for the moms
Unknown:organization motivation podcast, but I am planning to launch a
Unknown:brand new podcast April 17. And it is going to be all about
Unknown:pivoting in our lives and in our business and using our God given
Unknown:gifts to serve other people and pursuing our passions and having
Unknown:that purpose be lived out. And I am curious if you might be
Unknown:willing to speak to that today. And she was so on board. I mean,
Unknown:absolutely. I believe God just dropped her right in my life at
Unknown:that moment as I needed her. And it was a pretty cool
Unknown:conversation. So I would love for you to hear that next week.
Unknown:So every Monday from now on the time to pivot podcast will be a
Unknown:new episode, make sure that you are heading over to Apple
Unknown:podcast if you're loving it and Pretty pretty please write a
Unknown:review. It only takes a second and it absolutely catapults the
Unknown:podcast up people see that they see that proof that they've
Unknown:listened and they're liking it, and this is worth their time to
Unknown:listen. So gosh, that would just be an absolute dream.
Unknown:I appreciate that so much. Because don't forget, I'm
Unknown:fearful too. Is this gonna land? Is this message gonna land are
Unknown:people gonna like it? Are people gonna like me? You know, I, you
Unknown:know, it's all there. It's all there. So seeing a review on
Unknown:Apple podcasts, that would make me feel like it's landing that
Unknown:would make me feel like I'm on the right track. So that would
Unknown:be incredibly helpful. You gotta check out the upcoming podcast
Unknown:guests. I am so excited for the wisdom, the brilliance, the
Unknown:sincere advice that they have when it comes to times in their
Unknown:lives where they've had to pivot, and they're ready to
Unknown:share that with us. So I know I will be taking mega notes. Don't
Unknown:forget, you can go to the show notes. And you can find any
Unknown:links that I mentioned today. Hopefully those will be helpful
Unknown:for you. And reach out to me if you need a friend, and we can
Unknown:start working together. I love that so much. All right. Thanks
Unknown:so much. I hope you have a great day. Thanks for listening to
Unknown:another episode of the time to pivot podcast. If it was helpful
Unknown:for you. I'd love for you to head over to Apple podcast. Hit
Unknown:that fifth star and writer if you want to book me to speak at
Unknown:your next event or work with me one on one to get clarity around
Unknown:your gifts, how to serve others and go from stuck and stressed
Unknown:to focused and fulfilled. Reach out on the contact page at
Unknown:everything with style.com and connect with me on social at
Unknown:everything with style mom. Thanks again for listening and
Unknown:sharing the podcast and mom boss remember this. Your gifts are
Unknown:meant to be shared. Don't keep them to yourself and stay in
Unknown:your comfort zone. This is your time to pivot