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I fainted

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in my own masterclass.

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I'm not dramatic, but the

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story I'm about to tell

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you might prove otherwise.

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Let me take you back.

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A few weeks ago, our family

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went to the football.

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Now normal Sunday afternoon

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there was six of us

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and my husband is an ex

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Richmond football player,

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so of course we went to

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see his mighty tigers.

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I, on the other hand, am an

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avid West Coast supporter.

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Always have been,

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always will be.

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But we do have a handshake

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deal, me and my husband,

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that if Richmond and West

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Coast go together in a final

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and Richmond win, I have

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to transfer to Richmond.

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I have to become a

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tiger so far, 15 years.

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Fingers crossed.

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That's never happened.

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Boop boop.

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Anyway, we're at the

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football and it's about

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four in the afternoon.

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My daughter, my 11-year-old

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daughter says to me, mom,

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I'm not feeling so great.

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And I'm like, uhoh.

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Two hours later we had a

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whole stack of vomiting

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going on and gastro and

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everything in our house.

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Anyway, it was a Sunday night,

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so I stayed up with her the

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night and the next morning

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I woke up with a bit of a

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headache and I was exhausted.

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Obviously.

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I had helped my

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11-year-old for 24 hours

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get through vomiting and.

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All the beautiful things

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that come with gastro.

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I did not need to explain

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all of that to you.

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So that was on the Monday.

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Monday, five o'clock,

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24 hours later.

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Exactly.

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She stopped vomiting.

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I'm like, great.

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Maybe it's food poisoning,

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so maybe it's food poisoning.

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But also I was feeling

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a little bit off.

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Tuesday comes around

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and I'm like, no, I'm

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feeling, quite off.

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So I cleared my schedule.

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Serena, who's my

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sister and business

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manager, works with me.

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I cleared my schedule and

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she's like, are you okay?

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I'm like, I'm not feeling

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a hundred percent, but

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maybe I'm just being weak.

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So I said, I'm just gonna

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take, I'm gonna do one

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call, have a bucket by

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my desk just in case.

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Something needs to

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happen, and then I'm gonna

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take myself off to bed.

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So I put myself into bed three

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o'clock in the afternoon on

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the Tuesday, woke up on the

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Wednesday and thought, oh

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yeah, I don't feel too bad.

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Then I got out of bed and

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I'm like, okay, clear my

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schedule except for one thing.

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You see, we had worked for

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weeks and weeks and weeks.

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We'd run Facebook ads.

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We had talked to our

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community and we were

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planning to run a Create

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Your Offer Masterclass on

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the Wednesday for 90 minutes,

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and I'm like, I cannot

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let down this community.

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We had 140 people registered

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for a masterclass,

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which at the moment.

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Everyone.

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That's a lot.

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So I'm like, right,

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I can do this.

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90 minutes, I can do this.

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Uh, my daughter was

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still home because

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she's still a bit weak.

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So she was downstairs.

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I was upstairs in this

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studio where you see me

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if you're watching us on

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YouTube, and I thought,

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90 minutes I can do it.

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Serena in her wisdom

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said, are you sure?

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And I'm like, yeah, I, I'm

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sure, I'm sure I can do it.

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I'm sure it'll be okay.

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Uh, my Facebook ads

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person said, um, you know,

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we've worked really hard.

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Just suck it up.

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I'm like, yep,

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I'm sucking it up.

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I'm just gonna do it.

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And no matter if anyone

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had said to me, don't do

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it, I would've ignored them

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because I wanted to show up

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for my community so badly.

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I had things to say, people

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to teach all the things.

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So I showed up as you do.

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We had about 50,

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60 women on Zoom.

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It was recorded.

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Serena doesn't normally

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spend the entire

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masterclass with me.

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She just kind of

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lets people in.

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But she had said to me

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that morning, Hey, 'cause

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you're not feeling a hundred

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percent, I'll just stick

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around and just make sure

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that everything works.

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I'm like, cool.

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That would be amazing.

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I start the masterclass.

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I know I'm not my sparky

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self, I'm not faking it, but

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I am going, you know what?

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I'm here to serve my community

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and my community, get the

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very best that they can get.

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And about 16 minutes

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in, I was like, whew.

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Something's off.

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I'm not feeling that well.

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And then my notes started

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to have stars on them and

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I'm like, oh, this is, this

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is actually not very good.

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And so I took a break,

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I took a breather, I

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grabbed a drink and Serena

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covered me beautifully.

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She's like, she's just

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taking a break ladies.

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She's just, you know,

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having a drink of water,

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it's gonna be fine.

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Came back, it was good

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so everyone could see

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what was going on.

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'cause it was recorded.

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Kind of like this, if

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you're watching me.

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Okay, so we take a drink

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and we get on with things.

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Right?

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About a minute later, I said

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to the ladies, I'm so sorry,

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we've picked up gastro or

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food poisoning or something,

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and I've been struggling

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with that, I didn't even

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get to finish the sentence

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and I dropped ladies.

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Miss Fainty Fainty pants.

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So I was out of the picture.

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I was out of the picture

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on the floor and I mustn't

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have been out for long.

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I mean, you can imagine

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the embarrassment to

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start with, right?

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But anyway, I was out on

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the floor and then I woke

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up and all I could hear was

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50 women yelling my name,

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Emma, wake up Emma, Emma.

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Okay.

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Most people would be

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embarrassed by this.

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And now I think it's funny,

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but you know, a little

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bit of time has passed.

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Anyway, so I woke up

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from my fainting episode.

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I won't tell you the damage

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that because I fell on

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boxes, so I won't tell you

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the damage of the bruising

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that has happened, but

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I woke up and I'm like.

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Oh my goodness.

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I jumped back on Zoom and, and

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I kept going, no, I'm kidding.

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I did not keep going.

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Can you imagine?

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Anyway, I jumped up

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and everyone's like, oh

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my God, are you okay?

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Are you okay?

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And I'm like, ladies,

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clearly I'm not okay.

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We're probably gonna have

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to pull this zoom call.

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We'll see you later.

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And I hung up.

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I took myself off to bed.

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Before I took myself off to

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bed, I had a beautiful, one

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of my beautiful, thriving

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women on the call who lives

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around the corner, and she

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said to Serena on the call.

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I'm gonna go over there.

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I'm gonna go over there

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and make sure she's okay.

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so I didn't know any

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of this had happened

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in the background.

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Now ladies, I

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can't help myself.

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I went back and watched

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the recording to see what

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kind of train wreck was

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happening, and Serena was

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so freaking calm.

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Now.

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She is a ambo by trade,

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a mental health nurse,

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and everyone was like,

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Serena, we need to do this,

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Serena, we need to do that.

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And Serena's like, I'm

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going to call her husband.

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It's going to be fine.

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Anyway, Serena told me

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later that she was so

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stressed after the two

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hours of sorting everything

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out, she got a blood nose.

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And also she's in Western

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Australia, so she's watching

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her little sister drop

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to the floor and there

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is she can do about it.

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Anyway, so that's fun.

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Let's start there.

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Now, I tell you this story

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because there is no chance

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that anyone could have

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talked me out of showing

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up for my community.

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And I also tell

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this story because.

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This isn't about self-care,

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so the amount of commentary

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I got back, you should

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look after yourself.

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You should do this.

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You should.

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No, no, no.

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Ladies.

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I was just sick.

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I didn't realize that I

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had gastro food poisoning

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and COVID all rolled into

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one at that point in time,

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and so I was just sick.

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If anyone talks to me

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about self-care, I do

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my 20,000 steps a day.

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I nap every day.

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I've got good diet, good

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exercise, good water.

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I don't drink alcohol.

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I don't smoke like I am

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a clean, clean liver.

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So this is not

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about self-care.

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This is just about stupidity,

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basically, and me wanting

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to show up for my community.

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But in doing so, you

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know what happened?

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My community showed up for me

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these women on the call, there

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was no judgment, there was

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no, you should have done this,

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you should have done that.

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They were literally and

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genuinely so concerned, and

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it made me really reflect on

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what a community feels like.

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A community is when

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we come together for a purpose

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that is the same, right?

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All these women jumped on this

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call to learn from me about

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create your offer masterclass.

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Now, side note, we did send

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them not that recording,

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a different recording

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so that they still got

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the value in it, right?

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'cause I could not

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let my community down.

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But as I reflected on this,

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and you know, people do the

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whole, um, oh, things happen

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for you, not to you, right?

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I always think anyway, but.

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This happened Absolutely

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for me because it was

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at a moment in time.

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when I watched the recording

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back, they were all just

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like, I mean, I'm sure it

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looked like a train wreck,

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but they were all just like,

Emma:

Emma, are you okay Emma?

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Are you okay?

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I don't know many communities

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that would just like

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go, oh, that's crazy.

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Hey, let's just yell her

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name out until she wakes up.

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Like, that's incredible.

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and then to have someone

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that's on the call

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who lives near me, go,

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I'm going over there.

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That is just some sense of

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community going on there.

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Right?

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And so this isn't

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about self-care ladies.

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This is probably just

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about stupid choices,

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let's be honest.

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But I wanted to show up

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and serve for my community.

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I. So I took myself off to

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bed after that and didn't

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emerge for seven days.

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As it turns out, Evie

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and I both got COVID

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and so we isolated in my

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bedroom for seven days.

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And, one of the things

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that we do in the thriving

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human community is.

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Grateful Friday.

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So kind of what are

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you grateful for?

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that's kind of how

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we wrap the week up.

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And in my COVID hazed state,

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I had messaged one of the

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thriving women and said,

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can you just kick off Happy

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Grateful Friday for me.

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because of course I

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can't show off on camera.

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Right.

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So when you're

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sick, you're sick.

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Totally get it.

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Also, when you run a

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community, you kind of

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have to have a bit of

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a backup plan, right?

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So there's that as well.

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Anyway, and her name is Deb.

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She's amazing.

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So she jumped on, I didn't

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see any of this 'cause I

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was, COVID has she jumped on

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and she said, oh, so Emma's

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just asked me to jump on and

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do Happy Grateful Friday.

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So I thought that

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would be awesome.

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And I also thought it would be

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awesome to share our stories

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of gratitude about Emma.

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I am like, okay, that

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wasn't the brief.

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That wasn't the brief.

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So everyone jumped on and did.

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I'm grateful for

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Emma for this.

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I'm grateful for

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Emma for that.

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it was unbelievable.

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And I thought to myself,

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that's what community is.

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They are cheering you on.

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They are cheerleading

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you as you go.

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They are uplifting

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and It was so lovely.

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It was like a report card.

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You know when you get a report

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card and you think, holy

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crap, I hope this is great,

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or you get feedback like

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it was immediate feedback,

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one after the other and

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it made me just go, wow.

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I am so lucky and blessed

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to run a beautiful community,

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to be in some beautiful

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communities and to really feel

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the love of that community.

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So.

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If you want a nice community,

Emma:

thriving women will be open

Emma:

for 2026 sometime soon.

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But I wanna say to you, there

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is enough people, naysaying,

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being critical, being

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judgemental in this world, we

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do not need any more of that.

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But if you can genuinely be

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kind, non-judgmental, cheer

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people on and encourage

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them, wow, as it makes

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a massive difference.

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So may this be my lesson?

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Yes.

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I am a determined woman.

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And yes, sometimes that

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goes into overdrive.

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And yes, sometimes I

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make silly choices.

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Do you know what?

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I'm just human at

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the end of the day.

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And you do make choices

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based on what you think

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is the right thing.

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And for me, I was like, I

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have 140 people registered.

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That means we'll have like

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30 show up, 50 turned up.

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I have to be there now.

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Could I have canceled?

Emma:

Yes.

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Could I have rescheduled?

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Yes.

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But lesson for next time.

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We'll know better next time.

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Anyway, so that is my

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little story for today.

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I hope that you have

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a community that

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feels like that.

Emma:

It feels like a warm hug

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where you feel like if you

Emma:

fainted that, just yell

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your name until you woke up.

Emma:

That's all I've got today.

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Thanks for joining

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in today, ladies.