I fainted
Emma:in my own masterclass.
Emma:I'm not dramatic, but the
Emma:story I'm about to tell
Emma:you might prove otherwise.
Emma:Let me take you back.
Emma:A few weeks ago, our family
Emma:went to the football.
Emma:Now normal Sunday afternoon
Emma:there was six of us
Emma:and my husband is an ex
Emma:Richmond football player,
Emma:so of course we went to
Emma:see his mighty tigers.
Emma:I, on the other hand, am an
Emma:avid West Coast supporter.
Emma:Always have been,
Emma:always will be.
Emma:But we do have a handshake
Emma:deal, me and my husband,
Emma:that if Richmond and West
Emma:Coast go together in a final
Emma:and Richmond win, I have
Emma:to transfer to Richmond.
Emma:I have to become a
Emma:tiger so far, 15 years.
Emma:Fingers crossed.
Emma:That's never happened.
Emma:Boop boop.
Emma:Anyway, we're at the
Emma:football and it's about
Emma:four in the afternoon.
Emma:My daughter, my 11-year-old
Emma:daughter says to me, mom,
Emma:I'm not feeling so great.
Emma:And I'm like, uhoh.
Emma:Two hours later we had a
Emma:whole stack of vomiting
Emma:going on and gastro and
Emma:everything in our house.
Emma:Anyway, it was a Sunday night,
Emma:so I stayed up with her the
Emma:night and the next morning
Emma:I woke up with a bit of a
Emma:headache and I was exhausted.
Emma:Obviously.
Emma:I had helped my
Emma:11-year-old for 24 hours
Emma:get through vomiting and.
Emma:All the beautiful things
Emma:that come with gastro.
Emma:I did not need to explain
Emma:all of that to you.
Emma:So that was on the Monday.
Emma:Monday, five o'clock,
Emma:24 hours later.
Emma:Exactly.
Emma:She stopped vomiting.
Emma:I'm like, great.
Emma:Maybe it's food poisoning,
Emma:so maybe it's food poisoning.
Emma:But also I was feeling
Emma:a little bit off.
Emma:Tuesday comes around
Emma:and I'm like, no, I'm
Emma:feeling, quite off.
Emma:So I cleared my schedule.
Emma:Serena, who's my
Emma:sister and business
Emma:manager, works with me.
Emma:I cleared my schedule and
Emma:she's like, are you okay?
Emma:I'm like, I'm not feeling
Emma:a hundred percent, but
Emma:maybe I'm just being weak.
Emma:So I said, I'm just gonna
Emma:take, I'm gonna do one
Emma:call, have a bucket by
Emma:my desk just in case.
Emma:Something needs to
Emma:happen, and then I'm gonna
Emma:take myself off to bed.
Emma:So I put myself into bed three
Emma:o'clock in the afternoon on
Emma:the Tuesday, woke up on the
Emma:Wednesday and thought, oh
Emma:yeah, I don't feel too bad.
Emma:Then I got out of bed and
Emma:I'm like, okay, clear my
Emma:schedule except for one thing.
Emma:You see, we had worked for
Emma:weeks and weeks and weeks.
Emma:We'd run Facebook ads.
Emma:We had talked to our
Emma:community and we were
Emma:planning to run a Create
Emma:Your Offer Masterclass on
Emma:the Wednesday for 90 minutes,
Emma:and I'm like, I cannot
Emma:let down this community.
Emma:We had 140 people registered
Emma:for a masterclass,
Emma:which at the moment.
Emma:Everyone.
Emma:That's a lot.
Emma:So I'm like, right,
Emma:I can do this.
Emma:90 minutes, I can do this.
Emma:Uh, my daughter was
Emma:still home because
Emma:she's still a bit weak.
Emma:So she was downstairs.
Emma:I was upstairs in this
Emma:studio where you see me
Emma:if you're watching us on
Emma:YouTube, and I thought,
Emma:90 minutes I can do it.
Emma:Serena in her wisdom
Emma:said, are you sure?
Emma:And I'm like, yeah, I, I'm
Emma:sure, I'm sure I can do it.
Emma:I'm sure it'll be okay.
Emma:Uh, my Facebook ads
Emma:person said, um, you know,
Emma:we've worked really hard.
Emma:Just suck it up.
Emma:I'm like, yep,
Emma:I'm sucking it up.
Emma:I'm just gonna do it.
Emma:And no matter if anyone
Emma:had said to me, don't do
Emma:it, I would've ignored them
Emma:because I wanted to show up
Emma:for my community so badly.
Emma:I had things to say, people
Emma:to teach all the things.
Emma:So I showed up as you do.
Emma:We had about 50,
Emma:60 women on Zoom.
Emma:It was recorded.
Emma:Serena doesn't normally
Emma:spend the entire
Emma:masterclass with me.
Emma:She just kind of
Emma:lets people in.
Emma:But she had said to me
Emma:that morning, Hey, 'cause
Emma:you're not feeling a hundred
Emma:percent, I'll just stick
Emma:around and just make sure
Emma:that everything works.
Emma:I'm like, cool.
Emma:That would be amazing.
Emma:I start the masterclass.
Emma:I know I'm not my sparky
Emma:self, I'm not faking it, but
Emma:I am going, you know what?
Emma:I'm here to serve my community
Emma:and my community, get the
Emma:very best that they can get.
Emma:And about 16 minutes
Emma:in, I was like, whew.
Emma:Something's off.
Emma:I'm not feeling that well.
Emma:And then my notes started
Emma:to have stars on them and
Emma:I'm like, oh, this is, this
Emma:is actually not very good.
Emma:And so I took a break,
Emma:I took a breather, I
Emma:grabbed a drink and Serena
Emma:covered me beautifully.
Emma:She's like, she's just
Emma:taking a break ladies.
Emma:She's just, you know,
Emma:having a drink of water,
Emma:it's gonna be fine.
Emma:Came back, it was good
Emma:so everyone could see
Emma:what was going on.
Emma:'cause it was recorded.
Emma:Kind of like this, if
Emma:you're watching me.
Emma:Okay, so we take a drink
Emma:and we get on with things.
Emma:Right?
Emma:About a minute later, I said
Emma:to the ladies, I'm so sorry,
Emma:we've picked up gastro or
Emma:food poisoning or something,
Emma:and I've been struggling
Emma:with that, I didn't even
Emma:get to finish the sentence
Emma:and I dropped ladies.
Emma:Miss Fainty Fainty pants.
Emma:So I was out of the picture.
Emma:I was out of the picture
Emma:on the floor and I mustn't
Emma:have been out for long.
Emma:I mean, you can imagine
Emma:the embarrassment to
Emma:start with, right?
Emma:But anyway, I was out on
Emma:the floor and then I woke
Emma:up and all I could hear was
Emma:50 women yelling my name,
Emma:Emma, wake up Emma, Emma.
Emma:Okay.
Emma:Most people would be
Emma:embarrassed by this.
Emma:And now I think it's funny,
Emma:but you know, a little
Emma:bit of time has passed.
Emma:Anyway, so I woke up
Emma:from my fainting episode.
Emma:I won't tell you the damage
Emma:that because I fell on
Emma:boxes, so I won't tell you
Emma:the damage of the bruising
Emma:that has happened, but
Emma:I woke up and I'm like.
Emma:Oh my goodness.
Emma:I jumped back on Zoom and, and
Emma:I kept going, no, I'm kidding.
Emma:I did not keep going.
Emma:Can you imagine?
Emma:Anyway, I jumped up
Emma:and everyone's like, oh
Emma:my God, are you okay?
Emma:Are you okay?
Emma:And I'm like, ladies,
Emma:clearly I'm not okay.
Emma:We're probably gonna have
Emma:to pull this zoom call.
Emma:We'll see you later.
Emma:And I hung up.
Emma:I took myself off to bed.
Emma:Before I took myself off to
Emma:bed, I had a beautiful, one
Emma:of my beautiful, thriving
Emma:women on the call who lives
Emma:around the corner, and she
Emma:said to Serena on the call.
Emma:I'm gonna go over there.
Emma:I'm gonna go over there
Emma:and make sure she's okay.
Emma:so I didn't know any
Emma:of this had happened
Emma:in the background.
Emma:Now ladies, I
Emma:can't help myself.
Emma:I went back and watched
Emma:the recording to see what
Emma:kind of train wreck was
Emma:happening, and Serena was
Emma:so freaking calm.
Emma:Now.
Emma:She is a ambo by trade,
Emma:a mental health nurse,
Emma:and everyone was like,
Emma:Serena, we need to do this,
Emma:Serena, we need to do that.
Emma:And Serena's like, I'm
Emma:going to call her husband.
Emma:It's going to be fine.
Emma:Anyway, Serena told me
Emma:later that she was so
Emma:stressed after the two
Emma:hours of sorting everything
Emma:out, she got a blood nose.
Emma:And also she's in Western
Emma:Australia, so she's watching
Emma:her little sister drop
Emma:to the floor and there
Emma:is she can do about it.
Emma:Anyway, so that's fun.
Emma:Let's start there.
Emma:Now, I tell you this story
Emma:because there is no chance
Emma:that anyone could have
Emma:talked me out of showing
Emma:up for my community.
Emma:And I also tell
Emma:this story because.
Emma:This isn't about self-care,
Emma:so the amount of commentary
Emma:I got back, you should
Emma:look after yourself.
Emma:You should do this.
Emma:You should.
Emma:No, no, no.
Emma:Ladies.
Emma:I was just sick.
Emma:I didn't realize that I
Emma:had gastro food poisoning
Emma:and COVID all rolled into
Emma:one at that point in time,
Emma:and so I was just sick.
Emma:If anyone talks to me
Emma:about self-care, I do
Emma:my 20,000 steps a day.
Emma:I nap every day.
Emma:I've got good diet, good
Emma:exercise, good water.
Emma:I don't drink alcohol.
Emma:I don't smoke like I am
Emma:a clean, clean liver.
Emma:So this is not
Emma:about self-care.
Emma:This is just about stupidity,
Emma:basically, and me wanting
Emma:to show up for my community.
Emma:But in doing so, you
Emma:know what happened?
Emma:My community showed up for me
Emma:these women on the call, there
Emma:was no judgment, there was
Emma:no, you should have done this,
Emma:you should have done that.
Emma:They were literally and
Emma:genuinely so concerned, and
Emma:it made me really reflect on
Emma:what a community feels like.
Emma:A community is when
Emma:we come together for a purpose
Emma:that is the same, right?
Emma:All these women jumped on this
Emma:call to learn from me about
Emma:create your offer masterclass.
Emma:Now, side note, we did send
Emma:them not that recording,
Emma:a different recording
Emma:so that they still got
Emma:the value in it, right?
Emma:'cause I could not
Emma:let my community down.
Emma:But as I reflected on this,
Emma:and you know, people do the
Emma:whole, um, oh, things happen
Emma:for you, not to you, right?
Emma:I always think anyway, but.
Emma:This happened Absolutely
Emma:for me because it was
Emma:at a moment in time.
Emma:when I watched the recording
Emma:back, they were all just
Emma:like, I mean, I'm sure it
Emma:looked like a train wreck,
Emma:but they were all just like,
Emma:Emma, are you okay Emma?
Emma:Are you okay?
Emma:I don't know many communities
Emma:that would just like
Emma:go, oh, that's crazy.
Emma:Hey, let's just yell her
Emma:name out until she wakes up.
Emma:Like, that's incredible.
Emma:and then to have someone
Emma:that's on the call
Emma:who lives near me, go,
Emma:I'm going over there.
Emma:That is just some sense of
Emma:community going on there.
Emma:Right?
Emma:And so this isn't
Emma:about self-care ladies.
Emma:This is probably just
Emma:about stupid choices,
Emma:let's be honest.
Emma:But I wanted to show up
Emma:and serve for my community.
Emma:I. So I took myself off to
Emma:bed after that and didn't
Emma:emerge for seven days.
Emma:As it turns out, Evie
Emma:and I both got COVID
Emma:and so we isolated in my
Emma:bedroom for seven days.
Emma:And, one of the things
Emma:that we do in the thriving
Emma:human community is.
Emma:Grateful Friday.
Emma:So kind of what are
Emma:you grateful for?
Emma:that's kind of how
Emma:we wrap the week up.
Emma:And in my COVID hazed state,
Emma:I had messaged one of the
Emma:thriving women and said,
Emma:can you just kick off Happy
Emma:Grateful Friday for me.
Emma:because of course I
Emma:can't show off on camera.
Emma:Right.
Emma:So when you're
Emma:sick, you're sick.
Emma:Totally get it.
Emma:Also, when you run a
Emma:community, you kind of
Emma:have to have a bit of
Emma:a backup plan, right?
Emma:So there's that as well.
Emma:Anyway, and her name is Deb.
Emma:She's amazing.
Emma:So she jumped on, I didn't
Emma:see any of this 'cause I
Emma:was, COVID has she jumped on
Emma:and she said, oh, so Emma's
Emma:just asked me to jump on and
Emma:do Happy Grateful Friday.
Emma:So I thought that
Emma:would be awesome.
Emma:And I also thought it would be
Emma:awesome to share our stories
Emma:of gratitude about Emma.
Emma:I am like, okay, that
Emma:wasn't the brief.
Emma:That wasn't the brief.
Emma:So everyone jumped on and did.
Emma:I'm grateful for
Emma:Emma for this.
Emma:I'm grateful for
Emma:Emma for that.
Emma:it was unbelievable.
Emma:And I thought to myself,
Emma:that's what community is.
Emma:They are cheering you on.
Emma:They are cheerleading
Emma:you as you go.
Emma:They are uplifting
Emma:and It was so lovely.
Emma:It was like a report card.
Emma:You know when you get a report
Emma:card and you think, holy
Emma:crap, I hope this is great,
Emma:or you get feedback like
Emma:it was immediate feedback,
Emma:one after the other and
Emma:it made me just go, wow.
Emma:I am so lucky and blessed
Emma:to run a beautiful community,
Emma:to be in some beautiful
Emma:communities and to really feel
Emma:the love of that community.
Emma:So.
Emma:If you want a nice community,
Emma:thriving women will be open
Emma:for 2026 sometime soon.
Emma:But I wanna say to you, there
Emma:is enough people, naysaying,
Emma:being critical, being
Emma:judgemental in this world, we
Emma:do not need any more of that.
Emma:But if you can genuinely be
Emma:kind, non-judgmental, cheer
Emma:people on and encourage
Emma:them, wow, as it makes
Emma:a massive difference.
Emma:So may this be my lesson?
Emma:Yes.
Emma:I am a determined woman.
Emma:And yes, sometimes that
Emma:goes into overdrive.
Emma:And yes, sometimes I
Emma:make silly choices.
Emma:Do you know what?
Emma:I'm just human at
Emma:the end of the day.
Emma:And you do make choices
Emma:based on what you think
Emma:is the right thing.
Emma:And for me, I was like, I
Emma:have 140 people registered.
Emma:That means we'll have like
Emma:30 show up, 50 turned up.
Emma:I have to be there now.
Emma:Could I have canceled?
Emma:Yes.
Emma:Could I have rescheduled?
Emma:Yes.
Emma:But lesson for next time.
Emma:We'll know better next time.
Emma:Anyway, so that is my
Emma:little story for today.
Emma:I hope that you have
Emma:a community that
Emma:feels like that.
Emma:It feels like a warm hug
Emma:where you feel like if you
Emma:fainted that, just yell
Emma:your name until you woke up.
Emma:That's all I've got today.
Emma:Thanks for joining
Emma:in today, ladies.